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Our subconscious programs come from the ways we had to cope with our environment as children. These programs are how we self soothed and met our own needs during times of stress, fear, or neglect. It can be difficult to act on the changes we know we need to make as adults if we haven’t addressed the underlying origin of the behavior which stems from the program. Unless we re-program our subconscious mind we will continue with patterns of self sabotage, perpetuating cycles of shame and the illusion of powerlessness. You can change! You can stick with it! But first you must address the subconscious program at the root of the issue.

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SHAME IS THE GREATEST GATEKEEPER

🦋If you’ve made it out of your past a stronger, wiser, more heart centered person- why would you beat yourself up for the circumstances that gave you the gift of your level up?! Hold your head high, and feel gratitude for how far you’ve come.

🦋When people ask you how you don’t look anything like where you came from-what will you tell them? Will you share the joy of your accomplishment with them? Or will you let your ego convince you it’s better to pretend you didn’t go through what you went through or make the mistakes you made to prevent someone else from judging you?

🦋Let me let you in on a little secret 🤫 PEOPLE ARE GOING TO JUDGE YOU ANYWAY. And that judgment they project onto you only means one thing: they carry the energy of shame within themselves, so they want you to feel ashamed too.

🦋People who struggle with shame often have parents who used things like fear and shame to control their children and coerce them into behaving in a more palatable way. You can break the cycle of wounding, judgement, and fear by being proud of who you are and who you used to be.

🦋When you refuse to allow yourself to be controlled by shame you show others there’s another way to live. You show people there is freedom from the fear of what other people think of you. They’ll think “if they can do it, I can do it too”. Choosing to live in shame blocks the pathway for others to free themselves from shame too.

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The trick is to learn how to re-write the programs & patterns. 😉

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