#so used to transphobic comments
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on discord i have it/any in the pronouns section and we have a class discord server so this guy sitting behind me was like "hey so your pronouns" and i was so ready for some bullshit. alright. ive been around cishet men who think theyre funny when they make a joke about my pronouns.
"you should replace the n with an L"
"h...huh..?"
"it says it/any. replace the n with an L. get it???"
me with my guard up registering what he just told me. what he told me was that he saw my pronouns and thought "this could be italy". it/aly. incredible.
#ramblings#personal#i laughed so hard it caught me off guard but in a good way#im so used to shitty jokes about trans people#so used to transphobic comments#i hadnt even realized my classmates would see my pronouns when i joined the server#but bro just said 'you could be it/aly' and i just. god. i almost forgot not every man is sigma male grindset
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hey rio what are your pronouns
"Pronouns, you say, bastard? You mean those made up thingies used by the left to push their pointless political agendas and Big Pharma? Those hormones aren't gonna sell themselves, y'know!"
It's comical to Rio just how unamused you look from that response alone. He lets the silence linger a little longer for maximum effect before changing stances entirely.
"...Kidding, kidding! I know what a goddamn pronoun is, I wasn't born yesterday! I mean, do I look like that oaf Q-taro?"
With that, the mental image of Q-taro digging wax (and potentially what little brain matter he has) out of his ear with a pinkie finger comes to mind, and Rio almost snorts to himself before deciding to move on.
"Keep staring at me like that, and I'll have to forcefully change your pronouns to fuck/you!" He threatens, though it sounded better in his head than it did out loud. Whatever, you want to know his pronouns, right? If you really care that much, you'll disregard his blunder and listen up. "My pronouns, yeah?" He asks. "Eh... honestly, I can't be bothered with all that junk."
Humans are all so predictable to him when it comes to all things immoral and offensive, which he just so happens to be both. At least that combo makes getting under their skin a piece of cake for him, but as the most human of his dad's dolls, it means he's prone to this flaw too.
That's the only reason he gives a morsel of a shit about any of this, right?
"People are alllllll soooo sensitive these days. So what if I'm a guy wearing a skirt?" Suddenly, he throws his hands up in the air, his expression cards falling all around him like confetti. "WHOOPDIEDOO! Why don't you grow a pair and put one on yourself, bastard! Don't tell me you're such a pussy that a piece of cloth is giving you the heebie jeebies! Come on, tuck like a man!"
(sorry for the 10 billion tags in this one btw, just wanted to clarify my thoughts and hcs there for anyone interested ^^)
#rio ranger#toto noel#yttd ranger#yttd#your turn to die#kimi ga shine#kgs#I do indeed think Rio would technically be some form of genderfluid#but just doesn't care enough to give it a label or to care if anyone uses a variety of pronouns for him or not#that being said I think I'll just stick to he/him on this blog unless an ask specifically asks otherwise#just for convenience y'know#and before any of you guys jump me just know I'm genderfluid myself lmao#so I'm not trying to censor anything#I just think it might be easier for new comers of the blog if I use the pronouns the game uses for Rio if that makes sense#gotta love genderfluid Rio tho thats my guy!!! my gal!!! I love self-made representation!#oh and abt that transphobic comment he makes to Alice before the bath scene#I really feel like that fits the whole “can't be botheted” nature in which Rio approaches his own gender too lmao
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instagram is becoming more and more of a hellish space for me and i think its largely due in part to the way that trans creators actively choose to engage with violent transphobia to make their "sick comeback" reels that are favored by the algorithm due to their high rates of engagement instead of just. blocking transphobes and moving on
#mike speaks#idk maybe this is just a me thing but i really dont think boosting the voices of transphobes in comment sections just to make fun of them#to catchy music is in any way helpful to the trans community or yourself.#i want to be able to use instagram so i can see what my friends are up to but i never want to see another reel again#and i know if i start blocking a bunch of trans influencers/trans tags im just gonna get actual transphobic stuff recommended to me#whatever. guess ill die
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The trans community has been so successful at forcing allyship with LGB people, that there are people who believe those of us who support “LGB drop the T” are actually straight people lying about being LGB. There are people who genuinely do not think that LGB people can have any sort of disagreement with the trans community, despite how awfully we (especially lesbians) have been treated by them. There are straight people who gather as many “queer” labels as possible to pretend they’re like us and so that they can take over our community, and when we stand up to them they claim we’re the frauds. Because they cannot comprehend the idea of LGB people not wanting to be their puppets.
#I just saw a comment on Reddit complaining about ‘transphobic queer people’#even though most of us gender critical LGBs do NOT want to be called queer and are loud about it#and there was more than one person replying talking about how we aren’t actually LGB. what the fuck#being against a homophobic and sexist ideology is where you draw the line for who’s really gay????#THATS where you draw the line???#not at the actual straight people claiming to be gay aka ‘gay trans people’????#I feel so hopeless tbh#nobody gives a shit about us and nobody wants to listen to us#I guess we just need to be so much louder about not having anything to do with these idiots#lgb drop the t#my ramblings
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to me pronouns are like your name. yeah someone might LOOK like a jason, but calling them 'jason' without asking their name is asshole behaviour.
#like y'all are really out here using the 'well they LOOK LIKE-' excuse#babe you don't know them#that's the whole point of asking pronouns#'what's your name' sounds kinda awkward but we do it anyway#literally just basic courtesy#nonbinary#trans#gender stuff#why are pronouns so hard for y'all#speaking directly to the cis-queers out there#y'all are HEINOUS#y'all will assume someone's gender and make BLATANTLY transphobic comments#and then you're shocked!#appalled!!!#when someone informs you that those weren't their pronouns
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hi3 gender fuckery from the top of my head:
drunk tesla ae rant, alice from bianka's visual novel (aka the only reason why i would replay that visnov), prince kiana, sirin's pseudo-herrschers being called princes, su canonically acknowledging that theres universes where he's a woman, su being mistaken for a woman and just not correcting it, crossdressing w/o the characters being uncomfortable (ex: otto, himeko, kiana, etc.)
#still havent played part 2 so i cant comment but ive heard genderfluid entropy and im here for it.#hnk3#im incredibly wary of the last one though im scared that theyre doing it mostly for shock or comedy#ive also seen people use the otto one in particular to be transphobic which pisses me off so much for multiple reasons
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if the only way you know how to criticize my handling of Lea is to somehow blame Merry and also Trans Women™️ as a whole then i’m going to be honest: your criticisms are not going to be the ones i listen to. it’s very strange to me now that both times i’ve had people specifically bring up Merry when talking about Lea and also follow it up with, and i quote: “people only care about trans women.” this monolithic Trans Women you keep blaming has nothing to do with the decisions i’ve made about Lea, and i’m begging you to think for like 2 seconds and realize what you are saying and how you sound right now. i’m not even trying to change your mind or your feelings regarding Lea, that conversation has been had many times over at this point, but you have got to stop blaming trans women for.... being more oppressed than you ? come on
#transmisogyny#i'm always open to discussing things i could do better but if you do this it's an immediate No from me#smells like MRA shit for real#there is no reason for it and yet both times people have found a way to weasel in awful comments about trans women#it's gross and unnecessary#and immediately makes me recoil#this is not a 'competition' and it's weird that you think it is#this isn't an invitation to debate either btw this is just a PSA lmfao#cus again. Weird that it's happened both times now#and i never really know how to respond to it#if you want to blame someone then blame me. the person who Wrote the character that way#and again there are many posts on this blog where i discuss lea and all of the characters and why i do what i do with them#so im not interested in having the discussion again and im sure you all arent either lmfao#but i really dont like this attitude some people seem to come away with which is. 'blame trans women' ???#like why would you say that. why would you feel that way. it's a bit weird innit?#and are the trans women in the room with us right now???#anyways. just something to think about before you send me weird transphobic rants about hating lea and merry and trans women#and feminine transmasc people. and perhaps next time just Do Not send me that#personal
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still no proper dni but if you watch turkey tom get away from my blog
#champ talks#saw the 'HUGE TRANS DRAMA' tomdark video come across my feed and after watching it i can safely say he sucks ass#trying to say that transphobia and someone using slurs against a trans coworker was 'silly' and 'not a big deal' shut the fuck up#'i got a new haircut so im nonbinary im going by zim now my pronouns are je/jer' being the opener is a bad fucking look babes idk!#especially when in the same video you then go on to only refer to a nonbinary character with she/her and be like 'no thats a girl'#and then TRY AND CLAIM THATS NOT WHAT YOURE DOING#ive always had bad vibes about him bc he just genuinely seemed like he was obnoxious at best and a bad person at worst but like. lord#and he just lets his comment section fill with bigotry because he doesnt give a shit like way to go dude nice to know you dont care about u#he didnt say anything outwardly transphobic so a red mark on shinigami eyes would probably be a bit much but oooooh he needs it SO BAD#he also makes some sketchy comments about a trans furry in that 'gamers won the war' type way#so. what a wonderful time
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Finally met all 3 of my housemates and the sich is looking more dire by the second
#one is a total slob. like was living in filth in the house this summer before I moved in and cleaned everything#there was a ton of black mold in his bathroom apparently?? and I cleaned out his cat’s water fountain and found an INSANE. like#insaaane amount of mold. it was disgusting. and he’s so bad abt keeping the litter clean. like are u fuckinggg kidding me#I don’t want to clean after him but I can’t fucking stand people no taking care of their pets. what is wrong with u#one has an insane amnt of pets and has been describing their sex life in detail unprompted to my asexual roommate and is making her super#uncomfy#and one said a transphobic comment to me today. which is insane bc they use she/they pronouns#like it wasn’t malicious. more just bc of carelessness but it rlly rubbed me the wrong way#idk. weird situation. one of my roomies pulled out last second and we had to find some rando to move in and I just met her yesterday so.#ig I shouldn’t be so judgy buttt. the vibes r weird now. hopefully everything turns out ok#I was feeling fine abt it yesterday when we finally all met but now I’m feeling sooo anxious ugh. like my lease goes until July
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The fact that ppl wouldn’t even remember the performance if it wasn’t for her jumping on the stage randomly-
#idc about lil mama fr she was was in that jess hilarious girls comments being terfy despite how ppl used to be transphobic towards her even#tho she’s a cis black woman#but she’s a loser anyway so#it’s weird#but outside of that this is is…?#what if lil mama just posted the clip of her voice cracking at the Super Bowl then#it’s kind of crazy that something this simple got her blackballed from the industry imo#rambling
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Ugh. I just spent p much all night reading old blazing--soul posts. I kinda really miss the shenanigans. I kinda really don't miss the drama.
#one of the villain characters on that blog was transphobic and unfortunately one person in particular kept taking advantage of that so-#-after a certain point there were just so many asks to impact that just created a wall of transphobia.#if i were to ever get the motivation to do anything with that blog again i am v much gonna be placing new rules.#so many situations i am no longer comfortable being put into. the constant suggestive asks and comments were too much.#ppl taking advantage of a villain character's villainous bigoted traits to an absurd degree.#whatever weird fucking fantasy bs my rapist was having me rp through edge and r*n.#all that would be a no-no. i don't even think id feel comfy shipping anymore (other than revakxsolo bc oc otp lol) bc of how it's been used-#-to push me toward someone's end. az with whatever he was doing. my rapist with her bs. that nice guy(tm) in the dbzrpc.#the list could prolly go on.#im gonna sleep now lol#shut up maple
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How to explain to ppl that jokes are the foundations to a lot of bigotry... Like you let ppl you don't know start laughing at jokes poking fun at groups they aren't in and that's where they start to get comfortable with being bigoted and then using "it was just a joke" as a defense
#personal#saw a post about getting wrapped in fabric for calling someone who is nb a girl#op said it was just a joke post and they didn't want ppl being transphobic in the comments#but guess what was all up in the comments??? u guessed it! transphobia#ppl making up scenarios that never happened to justify being bigoted#and saying that it's okay to misgender someone consistently and not try to properly identify them if you think it's ok cause u use the terms#in a gender neutral way 🤪🤪 hee so quirky#like stfu....#i use girl and bruh in a gn way but if someone told me they didn't want to be referred that way I'd stop#it's called being respectful#this is also why it's so sketchy seeing those joke posts that are made about specific group and then op is a gen meme uploader#with no identifiers of who is behind the account#i immediately clock the amount as run by a teenage cishet white boy since they wanna act like they're the default anyways#which then makes the perspective of their content a lot more heinous#and i don't care if its bad faith because these posts are often viewed and laughed at by ppl who are not the ppl being made fun of#and it makes the ppl in the content vulnerable to bigotry and having their existence questioned by assholes#so in my opinion if you're not apart of the group your joking about and you post content making fun of them to millions of strangers#then ur literally posting content that farms negative views towards the group you posted about#whether you did it intentionally or not#esp hate when they go but my friend is X and they're okay with it!!#ok and we aren't all your friend... and your friend isn't our ruler so....#keep that shit between you and ppl who know your boundaries or else don't complain when ppl think you're a bigot
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Mama Mia they’re claiming hcs as canon
#bb.txt#until it’s official or he’s replaced/modded it’s fuck that guy lmao#i stg if someone calls *me* transphobic for that tiktok again I’m gonna lose it#It’s like i get it but he still was out here liking and commenting hateful shit and it’s uncomfortable to me lmao#so like he and that character he also used for hateful shit can fuck off
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instagram should be set aflame
#EVERY reel i’m reccomended of a woman or#or disabled person or queer person etc etc has the WORST people in the world in the comments#saw a vid just now of a woman with crazy long hot using it as a jump rope (sick as hell) and a BUNCH of ppl in the comments were accusing#her if being a trans woman like??????? like the third time today i’ve seen comments on cis women calling them trans (usually just calling th#em a man and saying awful transphobic shit) and i CANT TAKE THIS MUCH LONGER#also any woman who isn’t size 0 getting called fat and told to work out INCLUDING videos of women AT THE GYM WORKING OUT bc they also have#body fat which is literally healthy to have#and also some people will work out regularly and eat auper healthy and still be fat like ?????#soz for venting i really just need to not go on instagram lmao#i’m getting better at that but when ever i cave i just get so pissed#and then have to come back here for comfort lol#and have to remind myself that the people saying that shit are def the most sad lonely angry people in the world#and also they will die soon maybe <3
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Actually I've decided I'm sick of being cis people's only irl experience with genderqueer/nonbinary people
#stella speaks#personal#i swear the well-meaning ignorant stuff they say is almost more hurtful than actual malicious transphobia#i've accepted that there are people in my life i can never come out to#but my friends who love and support me and then say such casually transphobic stuff because they just don't know better?#that cuts deep#and i can't even be mad about it because i know they're not saying it from a place of malice#they never had to confront the gender binary until me and it's so so obvious with the stuff they say#they say they're with me 100% and then say the stupidest thing i've ever heard cause they're still using a binary mindset#and i get it. it's hard to look at the world through someone else's lens#and they don't have to think about any of it unless they're talking to me#but i'm tired of being the recipient of all their thoughtless comments#i just wish they could hear themselves sometimes#like. repeat that sentence to yourself. and then apply some critical thinking#where did that thought come from? who taught you that concept? can you think of any cases in which maybe that concept doesn't apply?#they're decent with binary trans peoplw (kind of)#i guess it's easier for them to wrap their heads around going fully from one to fully the other#but for people like me who exist somewhere outside that.... suddenly it's rocket science or something
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is there just something about serilly x arle puyo that prompts homophobic men to leave backhanded compliments on my posts or.
#like its one thing to just get regular homophobic comments. right#like i used to get those with eighthato all the time back in the day#but like theres been two or three separate instances where some dude just like#comments smth to the effect of 'this is so cute! i dont like gay people though'#like??? okay??? thanks for telling me???????#it just happened on twitter but the other instance that sticks out to me was this dude a couple years back#but the thing about it was This dude was a regular commission client back in the day#like i didnt have a job back then so he basically paid for most of my ipad costs bc he would give me like. big expensive 4-character comms#and then he just. Randomly comments that one day#like did you. did you think we were buddy-buddy enough to just say things like this now. like. excuse me#the funniest part was he came from 14crush too like. Did he know#i really dont think i was that subtle about eight and ahato but. like. did he know#the funniest part was that shortly after that happened i didnt even block him out of fear he'd try and chargeback his comms#but i quietly added smth to the effect of 'i will not work with homophobes/transphobes/etc' to the banner of my commission info#and then he just straight up never contacted me ever again.#insane#anyway hope you enjoyed this story of mine
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