#shes lesbian and aro (or aroace)

[gregorovitch-adler]

Translation: Junior, I have told you several times that Lily prefers to be single, remember?

Lily is the new aroace icon. That's all.

[finitepiano]

I think I just figured out what flavor of Asexual I am,

I understand that some other asexuals are sex repulsed or simply not interested in reading equal content. I read those types of things, and it always made me feel a bit weird whenever thinking harder about it. But learning that your specific branch of identity has a label and shared experience beyond the umbrella term of asexualtiy is new to me.

Aegosexual is quite the name, but I think it fits.

Aegosexual classifies people who experience a disconnect between themselves and the subject of arousal. This enables them to experience sexual attraction, arousal, and desire in response to sexual stimuli, yet they have little or no desire to engage in sexual activity with anyone.

-cxomedia.com

[autistic-katara]

does it annoy tf out of anyone else that when a character says smthn like: “i’m not in love with [a male character], i was in love with [female character], it took me a while to accept and i’m incredibly scared telling you please don’t tell anyone” people immediately go “ah yes, canon lesbian, i don’t know how u can’t pick up on that”

meanwhile when a character says smthn like: “i’ve tried for years to force myself into a romantic relationship, thought it would ‘fix me’. but i realise now that’s not how it works, a romantic relationship won’t fix me and i honestly don’t think i was attracted to any of the people i tried to date, im going to swear of romantic relationships for life bcz i don’t experience romantic attraction, later guys ily platonically” 99% of the fans go “oh, ok. so they’re probably asexual but it’s definitely up to interpretation. wtf is ‘a romantic’, yeah they’re a romantic; in a romantic relationship with their ‘best friend’ who i ship them with and is basically canon. very homophobic of the author to make them explicitly state that they weren’t into them like that. they must hate gay people despite the rest of the queer characters in here…”

[lymooniee]

Uhmmmm we don't talk about how I stayed up even longer to draw more. I just was in such a drawing mood I suppose. Anyways Julie-su sketch, its really sketchy ahh im tired (I have to do a full on thing for her with lesbian flag colours like RAHHHZHHDDH)

(Also @mary-venom's art of Julie-Su is what inspired me to draw her in the first place cause they draw her so cute I can't)

[purpleleafsyt]

They will NEVER make me hate you Rin. I love you and all your arosapphic swag

[1tz-4ll-m3]

I never really understood people calling Garnet a Lesbian. She’s always given Autosexual vibes to me.

[agalychnisspranneusroseus]

Thank god Sasha was confirmed bisexual, otherwise people would hc her as lesbian solely and exclusively because she's kind of a bitch.

[purplecelestial-buddy]

So, my laptop is covered with stickers, as it tends to happen. And some of them have the ace flag because yes. Which causes some very interesting interactions.

At first it felt like a mistake since: sure, I was a cool kid at college but if I had to get my pc out while at an aunt's or other family members' house it felt like having a target 🎯 that allowed people to either pry into my life or be homophobic.

But then I realized old people in my family aren't that nosy nor do they immediately recognize horizontal lines as flags so I've been fine.

However, whenever my queer cousin shows up I panic because despite him being gay I can imagine him being acephobic.

So anyway, the lessons is:

That I should have fun decorating my laptop because at the end of the day if someone wants to be homophobic they will, regardless of anything.

[remvamp]

the face of my favorite aroace lesbian....

[bugsoda]

[bxsmxx]

tell me why am i more scared of coming out to my mom as aroace than i was of coming out as lesbian when i thought i was one

[depressed-alone]

if they actually push a romantic interest onto Din I might actually die of cringe... leave the man alone!!!! he does not need a woman to kiss o(-( nor a man!! (its disney so obv thats not even an option tbf) like leave him out of that romance bullshit!!!!!

[r0bee]

Using "asexuality/aromanticism is a spectrum" as an excuse to ship canonically aroace characters with people ❌❌👎👎 (contributes to erasure of very little rep that's given)

Using "asexuality/aromanticism is a spectrum" as an excuse to continue headcanoning a character as aroace when they have a good canon love interest ✅✅👍👍 (fun to do and means you're always right)

[lymooniee]

I imagined her in one of my fits and I screamed and needed to draw it and here we are ☆

[xenosandneos]

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!

Happy pride to everyone

You're all valid and loved

[clarablightt]

my girlfriend has a distinct laugh that she makes whenever she thinks i’m cute

it’s gotten to the point where i can identify when she thinks i’m cute just by her laugh