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Today I was thinking about Spider getting taken in by the Sully's, getting adopted, feeling like he got everything he ever wanted and was as happy as he could be but still feeling like. It's not enough. Like he was missing time, like he's always making up for missed time with them. He can't ever have those years without them back, and no amount of time forward will make up for the past. No one else gets it, why sometimes he'd just rather stay home and weave baskets with Neytiri and Tuk, or just follow Jake around when he goes to boring meetings, instead or going out and having fun with his friends. Emotionally he's years behind.
The person who is the closest to getting it is Tuk. Sometimes Tuk just wants to sit in someone's lap while she plays, because she's little and sometimes she needs to be cuddled by her mom. Some days Spider literally can't let one of them out of his sight or something catastrophic will happen. Emotionally he needs a cuddle.
#my adopted cousin is stressed to go to college because she feels intrinsically like she hasn't gotten the time she deserves with my aunt#she was adopted when she was four#adoption is trauma!#it got me thinking#the loss of time and the emotionally stunted growth is really something to ponder and make ourselves sad with#he literally KNOWS that his family won't leave him but sometimes if he can't see them they're gone forever#tuks like yeah obviously you jsut need a cuddle day!#miles spider socorro#spider socorro#spider sully#tuktirey sully#neytiri sully#jake sully#avatar#avatar the way of water#james cameron avatar#melissa og#melissa on avatar (cameron)
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thinking about how canonically the pevensie siblings are 13, 12, 10, and 8 in "the lion, the witch, and the wardrobe"
thinking about how lucy needed a stool to be able to get up onto her throne, how peter's sword is a little too large for him, how susan's bow is a little too difficult for her to pull back, how edmund's shield nearly covers his entire body.
thinking about the pevensie siblings and their first few months in narnia, getting to know their new people, and half the narnians sitting there horrified because WHAT have these literal babies been through to give them such traumatized, old eyes, and the other half of the narnians are preparing to adopt them, no it doesn't matter that they're the rules, they're children who are being put in charge of too many things, and if peter looks at the old man council long enough he's going to cry, so someone needs to give him paternal support while aslan is off doing Lion Jesus Stuff™️ and whoops oreius is being nice and encouraging and now he's adopted his kings and queens they're his kids now he doesn't make the rules.
just the narnians and the pevensies being thrown into it together, and just as the pevensies will do anything to protect their new kingdom, the narnians will do anything to protect their rules, because let's be honest, these children have no sense of self-preservation, and are far too overprotective of each other and their people to take into account their own safety, so a lot of battles it's just one of the pevensie siblings running headfirst into danger with oreius running after them because his kids are feral and don't know proper royalty manners and won't threatening old kings from different countries because they're being assholes and the last time one of them tried undermining the queens susan called him a self-righteous asshole and lucy tried to stab him SOMEONE help him corral his children please
#this started off angsty but now i'm giggling#oreius didn't want to adopt the rulers they kind of just... attached to him#and who is he to oppose his kings and queens when lucy gives him her puppy eyes and edmund looks so sad#and peter just needs fatherly advice and susan looks like she could use a good dad hug#he's their adoptive father they make the rules#oreius is trying his best but his four kids are going through puberty and have bonded with every narnian#and it's not like he's opposing lucy's desire to stab rulers who act like they're better than them#but he can't legally encourage regicide#oreius and tumnus trying to corral the pevensies#meanwhile peter's challenging every ruler who tries to make comments about his sisters to a fistfight#edmund's conning the rulers who peter isn't fighting into handing over their kingdom's#susan's verbally destroying half their enemies#and lucy's running around making pacts with nature spirits to haunt the other half of their enemies#i love that canonically lucy is the most feral of the pevensie kids#chronicles of narnia#the lion the witch and the wardrobe#peter pevensie#lucy pevensie#susan pevensie#edmund pevensie#oreius
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lil baby
#I love her half mustache#she’s so cute#nugget#I can’t believe she’s like 10 or 11 that’s crazy to me bc I got her as a tiny kitten#cats#my cats#she had four brothers and they were all in the same little cage area thing and everyone adopted her brothers and left her alone#she was the runt and she was sick when we got her#so I literally HAD to take her home. and I nursed her back to health and now she’s doing soooo well#for a lil tiny baby runt she got pretty big#I think it’s bc we gave her actual good health and a good environment and good food and soft blankets and pets
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My theory is that you've had (or currently have) a big thing for roleplaying, perhaps directly related to your aptitudes as a writer.
I feel like someone just sniped me through a buncha buildings and windows and still hit a head shot. How could you tell? I haven't actively roleplayed in at least a couple of years—not because I don't want to, tbh, I would if I could actually get back into it again—so I'm surprised anyone could tell. I still have a bunch of my proudest rp posts saved (it was mostly crp), and I was into it for at least 3 years or so.
It's definitely related to my aptitude as a writer though. Having to respond so often to some of the most detailed crp posts where you would and often did get technicality'd into oblivion (and would do the same back) definitely made me care a lot about the details, and I'm not gonna lie I do still draw on that still when describing combat sometimes. Getting technicality'd into oblivion doesn't sound too fun, but I assure you it was (once you got used to it anyway), and that community was definitely my closest set of online friends for a good bit.
#the void asks back#rping was also how I got my first crush funnily enough#but that's another story#genuinely though the creativity behind some of these was so good#might actually make some of my characters from these into ocs because I wish I did more with them#Chika and Mochiko especially#Chika was fun to rp#even when I realized I'd managed to accidentally create the textbook definition of a psychopath (sociopath? not important anyway)#he was so dedicated to just having fun that he faced the end laughing#(and survived it like the cockroach he was)#Mochiko was Chika's adoptive daughter (picked up on a whim of his)#Chika is an awful person but awful father he is not (debatable)#Mochiko was a yandere lesbian because if there's two things I like it's yuri and yanderes#she was also an arachne (literally used Kumoko's form from the end of the anime as her faceclaim)#because if there's three things I like it's spider girls yuri and—#Idk why I like spidergirls they're just neat#maybe Kumo desu ga made me like them more#also she used a scythe because if there's four things I like—#did I mention this was a Naruto rp#yeah.#having to mod a Naruto rp made me realize just how much Naruto sucks oh my god#I would still mod if asked but I think I'd die if I had to do it any more#and I did 3 different Demon Slayer rps before that#all as Slayers#like Demons are fucking broken by design but Naruto still felt worse to balance#oop I've rambled way too much in the tags lmao#it's like you triggered a lore dump I didn't even know I had#I wanna talk about Mochiko and Chika more#I love em too much#fuck it they're my ocs now
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What is your favorite Thursday Murder Club member? Im particularly attached to Ron and Elizabeth.
Oooooooooh tough question because I honestly love them all but if I had to pick - it's between Ibrahim and Joyce!
#the thursday murder club#ask#spoilers for book two:#Ron jumped up high on my list of favs after Ibrahim was attacked#because he was just so soft and caring for his friend#outside of the main four I love Bogdan and Stephen#spoilers for book four:#I cried like a baby multiple times reading the fourth book because of Stephen#not just like a few tears - full on crying#my best friend can attest because I sent them a Snapchat of me just a mess#Joyce I love because she's just so sweet without being naive#and I was so happy when she adopted Alan#I love Ibrahim with Alan too#I just love this book series so much#(I don't own the fourth one yet because I own the other three in paperback so I'm waiting)#(I don't like having some books in a series as paperback and some as hardcover - I need it to be consistent)#(that's why I'm currently on the book hunt for the first two Percy Jackson books and Pandora gets jealous)
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headcanons of things the yugiohs can't do
listen they're all perfect little angels but everybody's bad at something
yugi: can't school
anzu: can't sew
tristan: can't sing
joey: can't dance
seto: can't draw
duke: can't smoke
serenity: can't cook
mai: disaster lesbian who's only skill is conning people
#yugioh#tell me your headcanons about what characters are bad at#tristan actually i think struggles reading/writing not in like a dumb way but it takes extra focus#yugi can't think about anything that isn't his hyperfocus#not that smoking's much of a talent but i love writing duke trying one of joey's cigarettes to be cool and then hacking up a lung#also can sing but only like death metal#mai can't do a lot of things she's a disaster lesbian#mai bringing like microwave curry and soda to duelist kingdom is still the funniest thing in the world to me#like keeping an extra pair of underwear in your bag when you travel i feel like she always has some kind of snack on her#adopts four kids by accident and is like what do they like peanut butter????#headcanons
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I started fanart today but my thumb kinda hurts so I can't finish it so take OC art I never posted as my 'art of the day'.
Melo (mute) and Lody (can talk) are the twin advisors to the demon lord Sascha. They're probably his two most trusted demons and they adore him and respect him. While everyone in the demon army calls him "boss", Lody addresses him as "my lord" or "our lord" if with Melo.
Their pink/yellow eyes are actually a link of sorts. Whatever Melo sees, Lody can see. Whatever Lody sees, Melo can see. So they often travel apart from each other to have a wider range of what's going on in order to help Sascha determine the wisest course of action.
#my characters#i wish i could post the fanart but it feels WRONG to post only two of the four characters lmao#they are friends do not separate if possible#anyway eventually reynold finds out the twins admire sascha and view him as a fatherly role#so he volunteers to be the mom since the twins want to keep sascha in high rank#and so when lody next greets him (while she is next to melo and sascha) she says hello mother#and reynold beams and is SO HAPPY and sascha is too shocked to say anything bc#reynold has joked or so he thought it was joking about adopting the demon army as their kids#and now one of his advisors just called him mother#there is something unusual about this and it takes reynold all day to click#so while in the middle of the night he just sits upright and goes YOURE JEALOUS ARENT YOU#and hes right actually...... sascha is jealous#so reynold convinces him to just tell the girls they can call him dad or father or something omg this is so cute#and sascha ... does#anyway sascha named the twins after finding them years before#and their names are two halves of a Melody#and they honestly adore their names and when reynold hears their names hes like that is#the cutest thing i have ever heard omg i love that you two have such cute names#and lody doesnt tell reynold that sascha named them but she DOES tell sascha that reynold approved
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Wolfstar!daughter does have a little brother in my head but the age gap is CRAZY. He isn’t adopted until she’s like eighteen.
#and he’s younger than she was when she was adopted. he’s an ACTUAL baby.#she was like#three or four she walking and somewhat potty trained#she’s like oh 😁😁😁 a baby brother! (what am I supposed to do with him?)#wolfstar daughter lore!
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Just found out that people are “dad/mom of the group”-ifying Miguel and Jessica
#across the spiderverse#astv#I’m sorry but#did you not see HIM GET ON ALL FUCKING FOURS AND CHASE MILES??#TEAR INTO FUCKING FUTURISTIC SPACE WORTHY METAL?? TO CATCH HIM??#bro is an abusive father figure#also I can tell when y’all are used to tortured mc fandoms#cuz y’all get an mc that has a strong 2 parent household and go#but…where’s your REAL family? yk the ones you found after your trauma?? wdym you only need one mom???#also Jessica IMMEDIATELY goes ‘what😦’ when Gwen asked to adopt her#she is NOT a mammy and y’all will have to kill me b4 I let y’all do that to her#miguel o'hara#jessica drew#idk what I expected tho y’all give more of a fuck to random side character than the actual main character#so much so that you forget the plot was abt hmm idk VALUING HIS BLOOD FAMILY OVR HeRoShiP and cAnON eVeNts#also I love using this dramatic ass image for a minor gripe😭
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Doug & Steve’s mum adopted not one, but TWO staffies
#dougie is meant to be dead with an osteosarcoma#and they wanted a staffy puppy sooner rather than later so steve didn't have to be an only dog when doug passes#an 8 year old crusty heart worm positive staffy comes in for euthanasia#so naturally their sucker of a mum adopts her#and then the owner says she needs to get rid of their other staffy too#and D&Ss mum was like sure ok i'll take both#anyway it's been like 2 months since dougie's diagnosis and he's still going strong#so they're cruising along with four dogs lol#boss#nala
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Would anyone be interested in hearing about my various Kirby OCs? I’ve only drawn a few of them at this point, but I have a lot of them and have come up with what I hope are interesting backstories for all of them. If anyone is interested I might make a post giving a summary of every OC I have so far, and then I’ll eventually draw them.
#text post#Kirby#Kirby OCs#I think that the only OCs I’ve done a decent drawing of have been my Metadede kid and my Taransusie kid#but I have a bunch of Kirby OCs a lot of them are just family members of canon characters#I have two OCs who are Bandee and Sailor’s moms (they’re siblings in my AU)#they’ll show up in Knightfall in Dream Land so we’ll see them there#I also have two OCs who are Adeleine’s dads (she was found by two Waddle Doos as a baby and adopted by them)#and I have some OCs who are Taranza’s mom and dad and Sectonia’s mom and dad#I showed their moms in the most recent page of Knightfall in Dream Land but I haven’t drawn their dads yet#Taranza’s mom is the only one of the four who’s still alive during and after the events of Triple Deluxe#and she has a backstory that’s just as tragic as her son’s backstory#and I think the last OC I have right now is Susie’s mom#I always kind of wondered if she has a mom since we’ve only seen her with her dad#in my AU Susie’s mom and dad got divorced at some point after she disappeared#and when Susie reunited with her father she thought that her mother was dead#but her mom is still alive and at some point I’ll have the two of them reunite#anyway those are all my OCs so far it’s the Metadede and Taransusie kids and then some moms and dads lmao#would anyone be interested in hearing more about all of them?
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i'm going to petsit at my aunt's house tonight and i'm so sad they declawed the youngest cat
#the latest in a disturbing pattern.#1. their old dogs pass away. they want new pets#2. they adopt two kittens. the kittens are quiet and shy and play mostly on their own. they want more affectionate pets#3. they get a puppy. the puppy is crazy ofc. i think he's awesome and i think they're probably satisfied.#4. nope my cousin wants her own cuddly cat bc the ones she has aren't affectionate enough. they get a shelter kitty.#the new cat is agressive toward the others so they keep him shut in her room 24/7 instead of letting them get used to each other.#he has no one to play with most of the time so he gets bitey and scratchy when played with. they don't have the time to train him#(for the same reason i'm watching them so often) so what do you do. take its freaking claws off. alter its body forever for your convenienc#the animal you adopted is an animal with its own personality and that's not good enough#people who are this busy should not have four animals. i know i shouldn't judge bc i don't get invited over while they're home very often#so i don't see how they interact. but what i do see makes me cry sometimes#also wouldn't declawing a cat make it more likely to bite?? which is way more dangerous??? like cat bites can kill you right
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it's funny because most people who write self-insert fics don't like that it's called SI and actually object to the name but we just kinda all adopted it to spite the snobs who think it's only about writing a mary sue who is loved by all the characters and has no flaws at all. the name was reclaimed very reluctantly but here we are
#no night without a dawning au#ezra murni is baby#he's not actually my first harry potter oc#i have four i think?#one's snape's cousin from the prince side of the family#another's the daughter of fabian prewett and a trelawney#then there was jasmine evans which i kinda repurposed into harry when i wrote hope blooms in the darkest hours#which is kinda sad because she had her own personality and quirks#like she was really bad at transfiguration and decided to keep the hedgehog-pincushion as a pet after she failed to transfigure it back#then an oc who was the child of dorea & charlus potter & only existedto fulfill my fantasy of adopting harry & giving him a happy childhood#then there's all the naruto stuff i worked on#i'm actually thinking about rewriting shunshin no shiori#because i don't have enough to do apparently lol#tya rambles
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“Is it rude to say I’d volunteer For a day of fun just once a year? I’d fly the coop, if only I could... But I've got a really bad case of being good! I’d go find trouble if there was some to get in: Ask a friend to play if I had one to let in... Nana’s rocker sawing through the floor -- Every day just like the one before -- We lock ourselves behind that door... Is it wrong to wish for something more?
~“Good Girl Winnie Foster” from Tuck Everlasting (musical)
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Carewyn’s gingham dress based on this design // original photo used for the background, edited with Lunapic! 💚
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If asked about her childhood, Carewyn Cromwell would always say that even if her family was poor and she had to wear a lot of second-hand dresses when she was growing up, she, her mother Lane, and her brother Jacob still were nonetheless able to manage all right. What Carewyn often did not talk about was at just how young of an age she was forced to start looking after herself -- something that many people would look at with quite a bit more dismay than Carewyn herself did, looking back at her own circumstances.
Now to be clear, Lane Cromwell was a very loving and caring mother -- but with the abandonment of her husband Evan and the abrupt lack of financial income that came with it, Lane had to take on the role of both breadwinner and caregiver simultaneously. While Carewyn was a toddler, that forced Lane to do menial laundry and seamstressing work from home, as well borrow some money from her good friend Judy Castine to help make ends meet until Carewyn could start public school. Once Carewyn did start school, however, Lane still couldn’t afford childcare -- and so, after doing a lot of research and preparation, Lane made the difficult decision to teach her nearly-five-year-old daughter how to walk home from her new primary school. Understandably worried for Carewyn’s safety walking anywhere by herself, Lane used both magical and Muggle means to ensure she would know Carewyn’s location at all times, on her way coming home from school. Lane made contact with several trustworthy adults along Carewyn’s route, like the elderly owner of the local ice cream parlor, Mrs. Sackett, and introduced Carewyn to each of them, so that they could help Carewyn get home in case of an emergency or even call Lane if they didn’t see Carewyn walk by at a specific time. Lane also taught Carewyn about the Knight Bus, which she could always call by sticking her left hand out over the street, just in case anyone tried to hurt or grab her. Judy even gifted Lane a small Magical-Child-Monitor watch from Diagon Alley in preparation of Carewyn’s first year at school, which could always tell Lane whether Carewyn was at “school” or “home,” whether she was “traveling,” or even whether she was “lost” or “in distress.” (The last feature Judy customized to make the watch chirp loudly, just in case Lane didn’t notice it immediately. Lane kind of had wished she hadn’t, given how loud it was, but appreciated the sentiment.)
Most children about to turn five would’ve been petrified at the thought of walking anywhere by themselves. Carewyn, fortunately, had always been a rather brave and independent child -- and considering that she knew her mother needed to keep her job in order to provide for all of them, the little girl took the responsibility onto her tiny shoulders like a champ, walking home with her head held high every day with no sense of fear or resentment. She and Jacob were all their Mum had now, after all, and with Jacob away at school, Carewyn knew she had to do her best to help take care of Lane, just like Lane did her and Jacob. Jacob always made her promise to take care of their mother and flat before leaving for Hogwarts every year...and Carewyn would never break a promise to her brother.
So every day, from the age of 4 all the way to 11, Carewyn Cromwell walked home from school every single day by herself, straight home to her mother’s and her flat, where she’d lock the door and stay safe inside until her mum came home. And to Lane’s relief, in that entire time, the single mother never heard her Magical-Child-Monitor watch chirp once -- for truly, Carewyn had always been a rather risk-adverse child. Her brother Jacob used to break into the kitchen cabinets and try to drink bleach as a baby, but Carewyn? Lane herself would often compare her daughter to a “little angel,” never starting trouble or getting into anything she shouldn’t. And because Carewyn knew Lane was working so hard trying to do well for her and Jacob, the last thing Carewyn wanted to do was make things more difficult for her mother -- so she stoically followed the same routine every day without complaint, going to school just for her classes and then heading straight home, all the while trying hard to not to let any accidental magic slip out that could make anyone side-eye Carewyn or her family any more than they already did.
This didn’t mean that Carewyn didn’t ever quietly lament the arrangement, of course. What child wouldn’t? It was hard having to see other kids getting picked up by their parents in their cars when it was wet or snowing outside. It was hard to have to walk straight home when there was an exciting football match going on in the field near the local secondary school. It was hard to sit cooped-up inside when Carewyn could hear all the neighborhood kids riding their bikes on a sunny Friday afternoon.
But hey, Carewyn told herself gloomily -- she didn’t even have a bike to ride on next to them anyway. And really, she thought more stubbornly, they’d probably just think she was a freak like everyone else did, which meant they’d only say nasty things that would make her upset and make her cast magic by accident anyway. And then she’d scare everyone, and the Ministry would have to come in and fix things...and her mother would worry. Carewyn couldn’t worry Lane...
And so Carewyn stayed inside dutifully, day after lonely day, soldiering through with no complaint. Because really, all of that silence was worth it, the moment Jacob would come home for a holiday break. As soon as he was home, Carewyn wouldn’t be alone, and with someone else around at home, it was safer to go outside without her mother. She and Jacob could walk to the park or the library -- to Mrs. Sackett’s ice cream parlor, or maybe even take a trip to the beach. Even being inside some of the time wasn’t so hard, when Carewyn didn’t always have to be by herself. And then once Lane was home too, they could all eat dinner together, the way Carewyn wished they could every night -- laughing and talking and sharing and bonding the way they all loved doing. And once Carewyn started at Hogwarts herself...well, then she’d be able to go wherever she wanted, whenever she wanted -- be the great witch she wanted to be, instead of the “freak” ginger that the Muggles in her neighborhood would never understand. She’d be able to play out every single wild daydream Jacob and Lane had sparked to life inside of her through all their stories about the magical school -- cast spells, brew potions, visit all the shops of Hogsmeade village...play Quidditch, sing for the Frog Choir...maybe even tame a real-life dragon!
Carewyn held fast to this thought and never let go of it. Once she could go to Hogwarts and chase her dreams, Jacob and her mother rooting for her all the while...all those silent, cooped-up, lonely days of the past would be worth it.
#hphm#hogwarts mystery#my art#carewyn cromwell#lane cromwell#jacob cromwell#evan bach#I stumbled upon this song and just...oh my god it's literally about a girl named 'winnie' I can't XDDD#obviously lane isn't an overprotective parent -- on the contrary she loves giving her children the chance to do things themselves#but I think most people would agree that four and five-year-olds really shouldn't have to walk home alone from school#if lane could afford childcare or if there were any after-school activities she could arrange for carewyn so she didn't have to walk alone#trust me she would've done it#judy even wished she could pick up carewyn herself but she lives a good distance away#and she can't just floo or apparate carewyn home every day especially in an all-muggle neighborhood#speaking as someone who was a latch-key kid from the age of nine onward I know how scared my mum was when I had to walk alone#so yeah lane was honestly always worried about her baby#thank goodness for carewyn being a rather safe and sharp kid and for judy giving lane that watch to put her mind at ease#basically what I'm saying is that lane is a good mum but honestly that doesn't mean carewyn's childhood was perfect#nor that some of her experiences didn't damage her to a degree#I'm imagining all of the weasleys simultaneously feeling the 'ADOPT' urge as soon as they hear carey had no friends growing up#LMAO
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fucking sobbing at nero's words towards makia about gt9 they're so precious to him all the silly memories they've done i'm gonna cry
#SOBBING CRYING HE LOVES THEM SO MUCH#they're his family... his home....#the thing is since being adopted kanon and shatoma probably aren't counted as 'family' to him due to how distant they seem?#he's not that close to kanon sure but he's not *that* distant either#he respects him and appreciates the help and care he gave to him#i'm sure shatoma at some point also took part in taking care of nero#but both kanon and shatoma have their own things to deal with#him looking at the sky in ruschia... he's either kept away from the outside for a long time or frezier's sky isn't as blue as ruschia's#anyway sobbing gt9 might be his first friends and a group of people he could call 'home and family'#he treasures them a LOT. he knows the four of them will be split up due to circumstances but he believes in the future where#where the four of them will be together laughing besides each other again#sob....... nero....#sylhea talks maydare#nero being the first gt9 member to be introduced other than makia and being the last member whose secret is revealed means a lot to me#gt9 being a family is not an exaggeration. although makia have her family back in her hometown she never had friends growing up and only#and only had thor who suddenly got seperated from her#frey had a nice childhood despite the lack of love from his biological mother until gil's mother died and him being stripped away all#his rights as a prince so he goes from place to place never finding his own home.....#lapis who lost her clan that was betrayed by some members and even lost two of her limbs#and nero whose country was taken over and his family killed just when he was 6 years old#like fuck what the hell is the range#firsy from makia whose whole family alive then to frey whose biological mother and the consort he sees as his own mother died but#his father the king alive as well as his brothers to lapis' clan taken over and/or killed to nero's family killed and his empire taken over#country/empire uh anyway *hands in head* holy shit now that i look back to each member's lives before entering lune ruschia and gt9...#of course makia also lost so much and might've been more from her two previous lives#anyway also fucked up how not only was her ex-bestie been chosen by her killer as the savior but one of her friends is his killer's brother
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Women's Not So Distant History
This #WomensHistoryMonth, let's not forget how many of our rights were only won in recent decades, and weren’t acquired by asking nicely and waiting. We need to fight for our rights. Here's are a few examples:
📍 Before 1974's Fair Credit Opportunity Act made it illegal for financial institutions to discriminate against applicants' gender, banks could refuse women a credit card. Women won the right to open a bank account in the 1960s, but many banks still refused without a husband’s signature. This allowed men to continue to have control over women’s bank accounts. Unmarried women were often refused service by financial institutions entirely.
📍 Before 1977, sexual harassment was not considered a legal offense. That changed when a woman brought her boss to court after she refused his sexual advances and was fired. The court stated that her termination violated the 1974 Civil Rights Act, which made employment discrimination illegal.⚖️
📍 In 1969, California became the first state to pass legislation to allow no-fault divorce. Before then, divorce could only be obtained if a woman could prove that her husband had committed serious faults such as adultery. 💍By 1977, nine states had adopted no-fault divorce laws, and by late 1983, every state had but two. The last, New York, adopted a law in 2010.
📍In 1967, Kathrine Switzer, entered the Boston Marathon under the name "K.V. Switzer." At the time, the Amateur Athletics Union didn't allow women. Once discovered, staff tried to remove Switzer from the race, but she finished. AAU did not formally accept women until fall 1971.
📍 In 1972, Lillian Garland, a receptionist at a California bank, went on unpaid leave to have a baby and when she returned, her position was filled. Her lawsuit led to 1978's Pregnancy Discrimination Act, which found that discriminating against pregnant people is unlawful
📍 It wasn’t until 2016 that gay marriage was legal in all 50 states. Previously, laws varied by state, and while many states allowed for civil unions for same-sex couples, it created a separate but equal standard. In 2008, California was the first state to achieve marriage equality, only to reverse that right following a ballot initiative later that year.
📍In 2018, Utah and Idaho were the last two states that lacked clear legislation protecting chest or breast feeding parents from obscenity laws. At the time, an Idaho congressman complained women would, "whip it out and do it anywhere,"
📍 In 1973, the Supreme Court affirmed the right to safe legal abortion in Roe v. Wade. At the time of the decision, nearly all states outlawed abortion with few exceptions. In 1965, illegal abortions made up one-sixth of all pregnancy- and childbirth-related deaths. Unfortunately after years of abortion restrictions and bans, the Supreme Court overturned Roe in 2022. Since then, 14 states have fully banned care, and another 7 severely restrict it – leaving most of the south and midwest without access.
📍 Before 1973, women were not able to serve on a jury in all 50 states. However, this varied by state: Utah was the first state to allow women to serve jury duty in 1898. Though, by 1927, only 19 states allowed women to serve jury duty. The Civil Rights Act of 1957 gave women the right to serve on federal juries, though it wasn't until 1973 that all 50 states passed similar legislation
📍 Before 1988, women were unable to get a business loan on their own. The Women's Business Ownership Act of 1988 allowed women to get loans without a male co-signer and removed other barriers to women in business. The number of women-owned businesses increased by 31 times in the last four decades.
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📍 Before 1965, married women had no right to birth control. In Griswold v. Connecticut (1965), the Supreme Court ruled that banning the use of contraceptives violated the right to marital privacy.
📍 Before 1967, interracial couples didn’t have the right to marry. In Loving v. Virginia, the Supreme Court found that anti-miscegenation laws were unconstitutional. In 2000, Alabama was the last State to remove its anti-miscegenation laws from the books.
📍 Before 1972, unmarried women didn’t have the right to birth control. While married couples gained the right in 1967, it wasn’t until Eisenstadt v. Baird seven years later, that the Supreme Court affirmed the right to contraception for unmarried people.
📍 In 1974, the last “Ugly Laws” were repealed in Chicago. “Ugly Laws” allowed the police to arrest and jail people with visible disabilities for being seen in public. People charged with ugly laws were either charged a fine or held in jail. ‘Ugly Laws’ were a part of the late 19th century Victorian Era poor laws.
📍 In 1976, Hawaii was the last state to lift requirements that a woman take her husband’s last name. If a woman didn’t take her husband’s last name, employers could refuse to issue her payroll and she could be barred from voting.
📍 It wasn’t until 1993 that marital assault became a crime in all 50 states. Historically, intercourse within marriage was regarded as a “right” of spouses. Before 1974, in all fifty U.S. states, men had legal immunity for assaults their wives. Oklahoma and North Carolina were the last to change the law in 1993.
📍 In 1990, the Americans with Disability Act (ADA) – most comprehensive disability rights legislation in U.S. history – was passed. The ADA protected disabled people from employment discrimination. Previously, an employer could refuse to hire someone just because of their disability.
📍 Before 1993, women weren’t allowed to wear pants on the Senate floor. That changed when Sen. Moseley Braun (D-IL), & Sen. Barbara Mikulski (D-MD) wore trousers - shocking the male-dominated Senate. Their fashion statement ultimately led to the dress code being clarified to allow women to wear pants.
📍 Emergency contraception (Plan B) wasn't approved by the FDA until 1998. While many can get emergency contraception at their local drugstore, back then it required a prescription. In 2013, the FDA removed age limits & allowed retailers to stock it directly on the shelf (although many don’t).
📍 In Lawrence v. Texas (2003), the Supreme Court ruled that anti-cohabitation laws were unconstitutional. Sometimes referred to as the ‘'Living in Sin' statute, anti-cohabitation laws criminalize living with a partner if the couple is unmarried. Today, Mississippi still has laws on its books against cohabitation.
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