#sexqueer

[masquerade-flags]

(Non-altersex) Bisex flag

Basically there an alter in our system who has two sexes but was born/formed that way, so calling her altersex wouldn't be correct, and like for hopefully obvious reasons we're aren't gonna call him the "H word". Feel free to use this flag for OCs and such that are a similar story, we don't care.

And even though this flag was made with a combination sex characteristics that don't naturally happen on outerworld humans in mind, therefor doesn't have to do with being intersex. If you're intersex and want to use the flag go ahead.

[term-repost]

Sexqueer : Denoting or relating to a person who does not subscribe to conventional sex distinctions but identifies with neither, both, or a combination of DMAB and DFAB sex characteristics. Like Varsex, includes all types of sex characteristics. 

originally posted and coined by plurgai

[intersexfairy]

I'm an afab person but since I was in like middle school I've always felt like my gender would be represented better by having intersex genitalia. I know that wanting to "transition to intersex" isn't the phrasing I'm looking for but I have no idea how to express my dysphoria.

FYI I ID as nonbinary and use they/he/ze+zir pronouns

I get what you mean and thank you for like. For lack of a better phrase, being normal about this (I have gotten frustrating asks on this topic). But I know a few terms that might cover what you're looking for? You can find more/alt terms in the links.

Ambiguous genitalia

Sexqueer

Enbysex

Bisex

Sex nonconforming (SNC)

Varsex (short for Sex Variant)

Transsex / Transsexual

Just the names of the genitalia you want! Although, if you want something close to having both a "typical" vulva/vagina and phallus, know that... isn't what intersex people have (naturally).

I have mixed feelings about some terms under the varsex umbrella due to intersexism and some confusion about my own beliefs on what it means to be intersex/dyadic. But as long as you're mindful, I don't really care. Terms get redefined and expanded upon all the time anyway.

Also nice pronouns and gender :) I'm nonbinary and use he/ze/they pronouns too!

[varsex-pride]

hi can u tell me what varsex means I've never heard the term before and I can only gather so much context clues from ur posts to have a vague idea

found u bc u reblogged my infracis post. thanks btw

We coined varsex as a more ample term alternative to parsex. This blog was called parsex-pride and there we coined varsex.

We never explained it too much, here's the coining post. It's an umbrella term for people who are intersex, transsex, altersex, not infrasex, not cissex, not protosex, not dyadic/not perisex/not endosex, and beyond.

There was already a phrase term for it: sex variant (with synonyms: sex nonconformist, sex nonconforming). Variant is a concept that was amplified by @/variant-archive.

It also alludes to variations, which is a replacement for "conditions" (which alludes to disorders), as a way of depathologizing language (nothing wrong with considering your own variation a disorder or a condition, it's an opt-in label).

Parsex, in the other hand, was too restricted to altersex and/or intersex. Though varsex is basically the same, it can be used beyond these two experiences (eg. enbysex, sexqueer, perintersex, condisex) or as a blanket term as well.

Sorry if I confused your term, because maybe I thought it meant infrasex + cis*, or another ample form of infra-. tell us if you want us to delete it.

The term is used outside this blog:

Users may have helped expanding it to other areas. I noticed some terms like varsexgender or this wiki page make it seem like a synonym of altersex, and I also noticed some intersex people used varsex as a term of self-discovery before realizing they are confident in their intersex identity. So it's useful for quoisex and extersex/inter-questioning people I guess. Though we are not involved in the coining of variayr, somatic varsex experiences can exist, but it should be noted intersex traits can't be achieved through somatization.

[mogai-reblog]

yoo?? i just found out about sexqueer

and thats legit me

"a person who does not subscribe to conventional sex distinctions"

THATS ME.

i think just as an intersex person thats just automatically me gdgdgdggdgd

[themogaidragon]

Enbysex

Enbysex is an umbrella term for all non-binary sex identities. It can also be used as an identity indicating someone who identifies outside the sex binary/has a sex identity that is not male or female. Intersex people aren't necessarily enbysex, only if they see their sex like that. One does not need to identify as a non-binary gender to be enbysex.

This term is similar to sexqueer, parsex/varsex, or altersex.

Enbysex Identities

Just like non-binary gender, their are many sex identities that fall under the category of enbysex. Any sex identity that is not strictly and completely male or strictly and completely female falls under the category of enbysex. Some examples of enbysex identities include:

Asex: A lack of sex identity, or as a sex identity that contains no elements of maleness or femaleness.

Greysex: A sex identity that is close to asex but may contain some sexed elements or in some other way does not completely align with an asex identity.

Sexflux: A sex identity which changes between sex identities.

Demifemale: Someone who identifies loosely with a female identity, though not completely, and feels they do not fit in the sex binary.

Demimale: Someone who identifies loosely with a male identity, though not completely, and feels they do not fit in the sex binary.

Nonfemale: Someone who was AFAB and does not identify as female, but feels no strong connection to any other sex identity.

Nonmale: Someone who was AMAB and does not identify as male, but feels no strong connection to any other sex identities.

Multisex: Simultaneously identifying as two or more sex identities. This can include identities such as bisex (two sex identities), trisex (three sex identities), and so on all the way up to pansex (all sex identities).

[mogai-headcanons]

Mr. Edburt from Ghost Eyes is a GNC sexqueer genitalflux demoncoric inkgender evilgender darkgender horrorcosmium greygender bordix gendermetus multioculaec kenochoric gorecoric angreprobic wolfsbanegender xingender mxn with BPD and bipolar disorder who uses it/its, goo/goos, horror/horrors, gray/grays, and XX/XXs pronouns, as well as he/him auxiliary pronouns!

dni transcript here

[imoga-pride]

Quinic Flag

Quinic or Qinic: queer-aligned; a genderqueer/sexqueer alignment; a gender/orientation/sex alignment that is queer in nature (QIN/QUIN).

And for the galactian system, andromedarian was suggested/coined by @mogai-trender-sideblog​, from the Andromeda galaxy (additionally: andromedian, andromedan, andromedadian).

Andromedaric can be used as a galactic orientation (/alignment). And andromedadic/andromedaradic/andromedic for sex alignment. Qinic/quinic is based on the xenic label.

[vergess]

"ask me about my binormativity in Eorzea headcanons!" okay but please?? get into it! i wanna know your thoughts on this.

ALRIGHT ALRIGHT ALRIGHT ALRIGHT!!!!

So, first of all, Hydaelyn/Etheirys contains binormative societies as a consequence of player-sexual characters.

Alisaie, G'raha and Haurchefant are all player-sexual, regardless of the character's race or gender. No one seems confused or offput by these attractions. Confused and offput by Haurchefant's whole deal, sure, by only because saddling someone and riding them like a chocobo is, admittedly, Weird Behaviour, regardless of whether the target of his affections is a max-height fem Roe or a min-height male Lala.

So, what does that look like for The Queers if both Straight and Gay are types of queerness, but Bi is emphatically Not?

Well, a lot of old timey queer language in our world is based on the presumption that queer=gay and gay=the opposite of straight. That's how you get terms like "an invert" to mean gay.

But being straight/gay is not really going to look like the "opposite" of being bi. It's going to look like you're excluding a significant portion of the population, rather than picking the "opposite" of what you're supposed to.

So, when I'm doing my writing, I refer to queers as "conserved" rather than "inverted." Because they conserve their affections to a smaller group.

A knock-on effect of this is that asexuality is much more easily recognized as a type of queerness. To an untrained observer, it's simply a "more extreme" version. Rather than conserving oneself to a single gender, they conserve to none at all.

However, another consequence of this, being trans isn't considered especially related to being conserved. This is because, when bi is the normative state, there isn't a strong gendered connection between who you are and who you fuck: everyone fucks everyone. This decoupling of gender and sex means that the born-in parallel experiences that genderqueer and sexqueer people have in our universe don't really apply.

Add in the fact that while Fantasia potions are relatively rare, they're still widespread and accessible enough that everyone knows what they are, and apparently they're given out pretty freely to people who join the Retainers guild, and you have a situation where being gender"queer" isn't really.... a thing. Sure, you can be a Fantasian, but what would that have to do with being conserved?

Stuff like the Sharlayan thembo and the Identical Twins paradox with Alisaie and Alphinaud suggests that being trans in Etheirys is simply not something worthy of much comment.

There's also decent evidence that crossdressing isn't regarded as shameful, between things like that Bunny, Butler and Maid sets, and... eh... Hildibrand's whole... situation (we aren't getting into that here).

This isn't to say Etheirys is free of transphobia, but I do think it's more invisibility rooted than hypervisibility rooted, which is a stark contrast from the real world.

[masquerade-flags]

Transgonadal and Altergonadal flags

To go with the cisgonadal flag we made for a request

Transgonadal - having or desiring to have gonads different then the ones you were born with. Including desiring a lack of any form of gonad, or someone without gonads desiring to have them. This also includes desiring surgery that is not currently medically possible, such as ovary transplants.

Altergonadal - A subtype of transgonadal referring to someone who desires to have gonads that do not do not align with typical arrangements.

[foxoftheasterisk]

the existence of genderqueer as an umbrella term implies the existence of the other categories "sexqueer" and "romqueer"

[monalisamarie]

I identify as kind of sexqueer, but like does it make me like truly queer if like i dont fuck w heteronormative bs, but like not just in a woke way? i just like people, and want to be understood as a person? i just come in a trad female box? and have no qualms about that excepting the fact that 1. im societally expected to make use of my uterus and 2. physically bleed and have a natural menstural cycle when i have zero positive feelings about being able to reproduce and the strings that come along w that. 

like i literally relate more to being a mythical goddess of nature than the term human woman, yk? like how do i navigate that w/o being immediately labeled as queer chasing, attention seeking and being labeled “otherkin” which is NOT the mood. wtf even is existence. 

[infos-lgbt]

Sam Smith : je me sens aussi bien homme que femme

Sam Smith est la dernière célébrité à sortir en tant que sexqueer, rapporte Attitude .  Au cours d'une interview avec le Sunday Times, le chanteurs'est confié au journaliste Louis Wise sur sa sexualité.  Quand le journaliste lui demande s'il se sent comme un homme "cisgenre" il répond "non , je me sens aussi bien homme que femme."  Quand on lui demande pourquoi il a mis tant de temps à faire son coming-out, le chanteur de 25 ans déclare : "En y repensant, c'était la peur de mal en parler et d'offenser."  L'auteur-compositeur-interprète de 25 ans parle aussi de son amour pour le travestissement, révélant qu'il se rend à la boutique australienne House of Priscilla chaque fois qu'il est à Sydney. "Oh, mon dieu, j'achète tout, des talons, des robes", dit-il. "je passe du bon temps."  "J'aime les chaussures à talon", avoue-t-il. "J'en ai beaucoup à la maison."  "Les gens ne le savent pas, mais quand j'avais 17 ans, je me souviens être devenu obsédé par Boy George, Marilyn Monroe, et tout le reste. À une époque, je n'avais pas un seul vêtement pour homme. Je portais du maquillage tous les jours à l'école, des faux cils, des leggings avec des Dr Martens et d'énormes manteaux de fourrure, ça a duré deux ans et demi."  " Je me suis beaucoup fait harcelé pour ça. Mais il y avait aussi des gens qui me respectaient parceque je me promenais comme ça dans mon école. "  Le Britannique poursuit : "J'avais 19 ans quand j'ai commencé à écrire le premier album. Je venais de quitter mon village pour m'installer à Londres, j'étais littéralement le seul gay de tout le village. Je ne savais pas ce que je voulais dire."  Le chanteur désormais ouvertement gay utilise son expérience dans la musique en expliquant que sa chanson "Him" raconte l'histoire d'un garçon qui avoue son homosexualité à son père.  Le chanteur  admet également avoir passé un an dans les pubs locaux à noyer son chagrin après une rupture, mais avoir délaissé l'alcool depuis.  "L'année dernière... toute l'année dernière, je suis trop sorti, j'ai commencé à beaucoup trop boire et, stupidement, j'ai commencé à fumer des cigarettes. Et j'avais un peu perdu le contrôle à la fin. Je n'ai pas bu depuis deux mois et demi."  Sam reconnaît qu'il fait une pause et qu'il n'arrête pas pour toujours. "Je boirai à nouveau, ce n'était pas « un problème d'alcool. »" Mais il réalise également qu'il a tendance à "être accro".  Au cours de l'interview, le chanteur explique ne pas avoir de petit ami, même si le chanteur a été photographié avec Brandon Flynn, la star de 13 Reasons Why, dernièrement.

[varsex-pride]

-adic vs -sex

Some people are uncomfortable with the word s3x (seks), others just want a monolexic label. Here are some alternatives, based on dyadic given that the problem was with its prefix, not the suffix:

Prot(o)sex – protadic

Var(i)sex – variadic/varadic

Par(a)sex – paradic

Endosex – endadic

Perisex – periadic

Juxtasex – juxtadic

Intersex – interadic

Altersex – alteradic

Cissex – cisadic

Ultersex – ulteradic/ultradic

Citersex – citradic/citeradic

Ipsosex – ipsadic/ipsoadic

Transsex – transadic/tranadic/trannadic

Intrasex – intradic

(Am)bissex – (am)biadic

Polyssex – polyadic/poliadic

Multissex – multiadic

Plur(i)sex – pluradic/pluriadic

Extersex – exteradic/extradic

Infrasex/infersex – infradic/inferadic

Altsex – altadic

Teresex – teradic/nulladic/nuladic

Duosex/duasex – duadic/duoadic

Diversex – diveradic/divradic

Phantasex – phantadic/fantadic

Binisex – binadic/biniadic

Peransex – peradic/peranadic/perandic

Trissex/trisex – triadic/teradic

Liberasex – liberadic/libradic

Sexflux – fluxadic/flexadic

Sexfluix – fluixadic/fliuxadic/flinadic

Metasex – metadic

Isosex – isadic/isoadic

Vaguesex – vaguadic

Apasex – apadic/cassadic

Faunasex – faunadic

Florasex/florsex – floradic

Xenosex/xensex – xenadic

Sexpunk – punkadic/punxadic

Neutersex – neutradic/neuteradic

Antersex/iltersex – iltradic/antradic/anteradic/ilteradic

Mythosex – mythadic/mitadic/mytadic/mytholadic/mitoladic

Monstersex/teratosex – monstradic/monsteradic/teratadic

Apothisex – apotiadic/apotadic/apothadic/apothiadic

Assex/ansex/asex – anadic/unadic/aydic/ayadic/aiadic

Nbysex – enbadic/enbyadic/enbiadic/nbadic/nbyadic/nbadic/nonbadic/nbiadic

Pansex – omnadic/onadic/omniadic/oniadic/panadic/pandic

Sexqueer/queersex/cuirsex/kuirsex/kweersex – queeradic/cuiradic/kuiradic/kweeradic

Astersex/astrosex/astrasex – astradic/asteradic

Amplussex/amplisex – ampladic/amplusadic/ampliadic

Grayasex/greyasex – greyadic/grayadic/gradic/graydic/greydic/grisadic

Othersex – oteradic/oradic/outradic/outeradic/outheradic/otheradic/eladic/eliadic/outhradic/othradic

Demissex/hemisex/semisex – semiadic/semadic/demiadic/demadic/hemadic/hemiadic

Obviously a lot of these were unreleased/not fully coined yet.

[fuckyeahtransfats]

Here's a shitty webcam pic of me in my awesome new hoodie vest. I rarely get to wear cute things because they either don't even come in my size, or just don't fit my body nicely. This is a very pleasant exception.

[mogai-headcanons]

Mr Edburt from Ghost Eyes is a gnc demoncoric inkgender evilgender darkgender horrorcosmium graygender bordix gendermetus multioculaec kenochoric gorecoric angreprobic wolfsbanegender xingender sexqueer genitalflux mxn who has bpd and bipolar disorder, and uses it/its, goo/goos, horror/horrors, gray/grays, and XX/XXs pronouns, with he/him as an auxillary!

queued!!