#greysex

[themogaidragon]

Enbysex

Enbysex is an umbrella term for all non-binary sex identities. It can also be used as an identity indicating someone who identifies outside the sex binary/has a sex identity that is not male or female. Intersex people aren't necessarily enbysex, only if they see their sex like that. One does not need to identify as a non-binary gender to be enbysex.

This term is similar to sexqueer, parsex/varsex, or altersex.

Enbysex Identities

Just like non-binary gender, their are many sex identities that fall under the category of enbysex. Any sex identity that is not strictly and completely male or strictly and completely female falls under the category of enbysex. Some examples of enbysex identities include:

Asex: A lack of sex identity, or as a sex identity that contains no elements of maleness or femaleness.

Greysex: A sex identity that is close to asex but may contain some sexed elements or in some other way does not completely align with an asex identity.

Sexflux: A sex identity which changes between sex identities.

Demifemale: Someone who identifies loosely with a female identity, though not completely, and feels they do not fit in the sex binary.

Demimale: Someone who identifies loosely with a male identity, though not completely, and feels they do not fit in the sex binary.

Nonfemale: Someone who was AFAB and does not identify as female, but feels no strong connection to any other sex identity.

Nonmale: Someone who was AMAB and does not identify as male, but feels no strong connection to any other sex identities.

Multisex: Simultaneously identifying as two or more sex identities. This can include identities such as bisex (two sex identities), trisex (three sex identities), and so on all the way up to pansex (all sex identities).

[kalgalanosthethird]

[ziracona]

In honor of pride, if any of you wants a character or oc pride flag edit or overlay/effect for an avatar or banner or such, I’m happy to make you an avi—just ask! (And if you have a specific picture in mind or kind of pride effect IE flag or colored sparkles or rainbow or pin etc, let me know)

[gaywilbur]

hi im rors, im bi, greysex, and genderfluid !!

they/she (ok with she/her, but prefer they/them)

IM A MINOR (15+)

i’m inconsistent as fuck, i can’t spell for shit, nd

i like tits and minecraft

fly high techno 🐷👑

[thundiephobic]

Was bored and decided to update my icon w my flags. im bi and trans but also greysex so i overlayed those flags on wheelack :3 Anyway heres the image if yall wanna use it. Fucking image editor made it JPG despite me clicking PNG on the convert option so here yall go! I’ll also overlay other images over other bots/cons if yall want. just gimme ur flags and what transformers chara (and universe) :3

Anyway have a nice day yall! /gen

[cyberstarlope]

Maybe it sounds small and stupid but I wish ppl would include demiromantic along with demisexual

I see a set of pride stuff that'll have ace and aro, greysex and greyrom, but only demisex and no demirom

I know its probably just cause demisex is seen more but if ur gonna put one of the demis please include the other one too ;;

[existence1sfutile-blog]

So confused about my greysex!

I've been questioning my sexuality for about a year. I think I've possibly found myself, and I am 41 years old. My first I thought, 'Am I having a midlife crisis?'

I always knew I didn't quite fit in. When I was young, I didn't know asexual was even an orientation. I fell in love at 18 and was married by the age of 24.

He is a great man. I finally worked up the nerve to tell him. This is the most vulnerable I have ever felt in my life. He didn't get angry. He is being super supportive. He wants me to explore this, but I don't know how.

I'm lost. I don't know anyone I can talk about this with. I'm unsure about how to explore this. All I know is there is a longing inside me. It's strong like a beast that needs to be set free. First and foremost, I need some friends that understand me. Having no one to talk to is driving me mad. ♡

[jocktears]

feel free to delete / add questions! TAGGED  BY :     @softlovski​

NICKNAME / ALIAS / HANDLE :     octo! mark!

MUN  FC :     reginald from los///erdex

ZODIAC :     virgo / aries moon / sag rising

HEIGHT :     4′8″

SEXUAL / ROMANTIC  ORIENTATIONS :     panro! greysex?

FAVORITE  BAND / ARTIST :     mother mother, journey, frank sinatra, justin timberlake, ariana grande, and beyonce

SONG  STUCK  IN  MY  HEAD :    boys will be bugs!!!!

LAST  MOVIE  I  WATCHED :     trolls world tour  (a while back. been watching shows instead. just finished BNA!!!)

LAST  THING  I  GOOGLED :    “different ways to say number 7 in japanese” (learning japanese and the number 7 on duolingo is not the number 7 i grew up with)

DO  I  GET  ASKS? :     i got one!

FOLLOWING :     19

FOLLOWERS :     266 (this is a p old acc thats why )

AVERAGE  AMOUNT  OF  SLEEP :     sometimes 2 sometimes 4 sometimes 12 hours what do u want from meeee

CURRENTLY  WEARING :     bravest warrior tshirt and power ranger pj pants

DREAM  JOB :     vet?? probably more realistic atm im going to be a paraprofessional and hopefully work at the autism program locally

DREAM  TRIP :     japan??? also canada to see my friends there??

FAVORITE  FOOD :     curry, spagetthi

FAVORITE  ANIMAL :     octopus! i also love capybaras and corgis

PLAY  ANY  INSTRUMENTS :     i used to play piano but that was HS (2014 i graduated) i don’t think I can just pick it back up. the coordination i had to work hard for and i definitely do not have it now. but baritone i most likely can still play though if i had one! also was learning trumpet but fell out of it (fingering is the same but mouth forms to play it is a lot harder for me im SQUEAKY). 

EYE  COLOR :     hazel, more brown than green though

HAIR  COLOR :     brown

LANGUAGES  YOU  SPEAK :     english and ASL (if that counts but i am also rusty on that LOL)

RANDOM  FACT(S) :     i love moth man || i want mothman to grate me on his abs || i’m currently in a gay ass relationship with a giant, gay, nerdy tree || my birthday is super close to the mothman festival but somehow i have yet to go wtf (7 hr drive ) || i have a sister that’s 6 y/o. i was an only child for 18 years and 9 days || my favorite pokemon is charmander || i got dragged by a boat once by my big toe it was fun 

TAGGING :    WHAT DO I DO. ARLO TAGGED MOST OF THE PEOPLE I KNOW!!!! AAAA IM TAGGING @mysterion​ @finalbet​ !!!

[gayjaytodd]

You single-handely convinced my ace/greysex ass to watch the Witcher and finally read the goddam books (which have been digitally sitting in my ebook reader for 3 years, happily ignored). Congrats to you, to Mr Cavill's impossibly managing the Targaryen silver hair look, and to that girl kicking ass. I don't know who she is, but I love her. Also congrats on your url, please tell me it's a Silmarillion reference???

damn, what a compliment! I would like to thank henry cavill’s muscles and the silver wig for getting me into The Witcher in the first place! 

and yes, my url is indeed a silm reference; before I settled on ‘Mark’ as my name, I went by ‘Tyelko’ for a while bc I love and adore Celegorm with my whole entire heart and soul -- in silm circles i’m generally known as That One Dude Who Is Celegorm Kin (silm circles here mean ‘my three friends who like silmarillion’)

(pls let me know whether the books are any good, bc i kinda wanna read them but i’m also broke and definitely can’t afford to buy books that i’m not gonna read)

[aroacefaq]

Can you be ace if somedays you feel a lot of sexual attention and then the next day feel none? For both the same and different people?

Sexual attraction which varies, and is very irregular, can be described as greysexual. It's characterised by random and limited sexual attraction, typically, one dosn't feel much attraction, and when they do, it follows no pattern or rules. So it's enterally possible that what you are describing is greysexal.

-mod A.N. 

There's also aceflux, which is kind of a subset under gray-ace. Essentially, the sexual attraction you experience fluctuates, yet generally stays on the ace spectrum. Here’s a link that explains it. 

-mod raven

[maskboo]

Aye,,, I,, need some advice about my sexuality if you're ok with me asking-- so I have a (granted, not very high) sex drive but at the same time I mostly crave intimacy,, like does that make me asexual?? Like I don't wanna have sex with anyone but I still have a sex drive.. and then I'm romantically interested in p much every gender identity but cis males and demiboys??? Like what does that make me?? Pan??? Bi??? Gay??? I donT KNOW I NEeD hE l p

theres a thing called greysexuality! you should really look into that, because you aren’t asexual if you still get sexually attracted to others, though aseuxals aren’t always sex repulsed!but, it sounds to me as though you are describing greysex, to me at least, but look up things on the ace spectrum ! 

[beddle]

So one thing that really sucks is trying to define my sexuality to people. Like, I understand when people get confused or upset that I can’t just make it easy to understand. Trust me, I’m living with it and actively having to try and discover what the hell it means.

It would be easier if I could just choose if I were sexual or asexual. Nope. I’m in that weird in between where I don’t know what the hell is going on or why.

The best way I can put it is that; Sex, in theory, is nice. But in practice, it sucks. I can get turned on to the idea, but when it comes to actually having sex I get turned off. Do y’all know how much that fucking sucks??? To want to be able to have sex but when you try to you just can’t??? To fucking yearn to feel ANY sort of pleasure in sex and you just CANT’???

And every time I try to tell someone what that feels like it’s just brushed off like “well why can’t you just choose to be turned on?” Bitch, I try. It don’t work. My dick broke.

So at this point I REALLY HATE people asking me about my sexuality because no one knows what *~Greysexal~* means so I just say gay/queer to save myself the trouble.

The worst part about that is it’s so isolating. I have no one in my life that understands how deeply this affects me- and it does a lot. It’s tied deeply into my struggles with depression and anxiety. So yeah, this all comes off as bitchy and rant-y... that’s because it is something that hits so close to home because it is a real problem I struggle with.

Where on one hand I have my queer friends telling me to just embrace sexuality and my asexual friends telling me to just embrace asexuality. To “pick a side”. Y’all. That fuckin hurts. This is an experience that I can’t share because no one can relate.

TDLR; allosexual peeps, support and respect your asexual fam. Asexual peeps, support and respect your aspec fam. Don’t be an ass.

[somosaces]

Hemos y estamos muy ocupados estos días, entre otras cosas pronto podreis ver en prensa algo muy bueno. Por otro lado además de salir en el orgullo crítico, nos hemos adherido al manifiesto del orgullo y TAMBIÉN estaremos allí. ¡YAY! Así que cualquiera que pase por el orgullo puede venir a vernos. Asexuales, grissexuales y demás lgtb: ¡ahí estamos! También nuestra socia Marta ha estado colaborando con la asociación cultural Iners divulgando sobre asexualidad.

[brainzz]

Elaborating on this bc why not:

-Kate: he/she/they/zir, bigender, i don't know if lesbian/neptunic or bi, but def has a preference for women. Maybe even grayromantic or greysexual

-Constance: they/she, demigirl, greyro and greysex, i think lesbian or omni.

-Reynie: they/them, non binary, panromantic demisexual.

-Sticky: i thing trans man, he/him/they, bi ir omni sexual, and grey or arromantic.

Bonus: Martina: she/her/they(? Lesbian and totally into Kate lolol

These kids?

Yeah they are not cishet.