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if i got paid for my bad life choices i'd be so fucking rich
#this isn't self-hate this is laughing at myself#don't be mean to yourselves y'all but it's fun to fondly laugh at yourself and not take yourself too seriously#[dabs in how epically I faceplanted this morning]#blabbing Haddock#non-dragons
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ngl, mentioning one of my hyperfixations does not necessarily activate my trap card. mentioning a book or media that I LOATHED, on the other hand,
#dieselpunkd informed me she also hated station eleven and OHHHHH MY GOD#station eleven book 🤝 annihlation movie: critically acclaimed stories that FUCKING SUCK ASS#I only do not have opinions on station eleven show cuz I refused to even look at tumblr gifs of it. I loathed the book that much.#'omg this book is so preSCIENT!!1!1!' it literally was NOT#and it was also just. bad. it was badly written.#it felt like it did not actually believe that a reader would take its premise and stakes seriously#which severely undercut my ability as a reader to take them seriously! like bruh you gotta believe in yourself!#stop using hollow sensationalism and obfuscation to convince me that your stakes are high! just tell me how it is and let me believe it!#too many people write for cinemasins dumbasses and that is the HIGHEST cinema sin of all actually#like if you don't believe in your own premise why the fuck should I.
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person supposed to be moving in this week has not signed the lease or told me when they plan to get here. old housemate keeps loudly moving stuff out at like 10pm on week nights. new housemate has various slightly inconsiderate habits that are kind of driving me insane. other housemate acts like he's the only person on earth who might have stuff going on while he continues to not pay rent. I'm going to light this house on fire
#FOR LEGAL REASONS THIS IS A JOKE.#just sooooo tired of it all we are all adults can we act like adults please.#I'm trying to be so understanding of the person who is supposed to be moving in#because they've been very nice and they had a medical situation going on recently#but it is the 31st in. one hour#and they have yet to sign the lease#and I am like. PLEASE. please please it takes two seconds please#and the other new housemate has moved in already keeps doing things that I'm like#have you ever lived with another human being before. like do you know how a house works.#and my other housemate keeps doing this weird guilttripping shit that I just won't put up with#I just won't do it#while also like talking about buying random shit when we Just almost got evicted because he didn't pay rent#I cannotttttt be the youngest but most mature. we fucking hate to see it#maybe its just because of my various life experiences but I cannot stand a bitch who does not take housing seriously#girl I cannot be homeless. pull yourself the fuck together#this is supposed to be a symbiotic relationship!!!! please can we all work together. please#and I guess some of this is my fault for not communicating about certain things#but I'm like I feel like I shouldn't have to tell a grown adult to pay rent instead of buying cowboy boots#or to not leave their dirty clothes on the bathroom floor#or not not move out RIGHT NOW AT 11PM ON A MONDAY.#like I wont pretend I'm the perfect housemate but you know what. at least I don't pretend like I'm the perfect housemate#while being insufferable#ghost posts#text
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I've said it before and I'll say it again. I fucken hate the Tumblr neurodivergent community.
#actually autistic#I do not have a cute quirkey superpower#I have a disability#just because you are allowed to self-diagnose yourself you are not allowed to diagnose strangers#the people around you are not neurotypical just because you do not like them#quite frankly I think you all got to remove the term neurotypical from your vocabulary#there are a lot of neurotypical people who are extroverts and don't understand social cues#that's how you end up with the creepy person at the bus stop who is overly friendly and starts telling you their whole life story#I seriously hate how many people assume that autistic and ADHD must automatically equal agoraphobe with antisocial personality disorder#I also hate how many people don't even understand what antisocial personality disorder is#I've been saying it for years but the online neurodivergent community is ableist and it'd be nice if it checked itself
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I think online mutual culture is killing some of you
#it has been for a long time#you don't owe anyone a follow#and people don't owe you that either... and regardless if you're friendly with them ie interacting constantly or not#these are real people you don't know very well and that is FINE!#if someone doesn't follow back that doesn't mean they hate you... and you shouldn't be self conscious about it#it's ok! you don't have to be scared of embarrassing yourself by reblogging something you like#you shouldn't be terrified of getting unfollowed or vagued or anything at all. and most people aren't mean about it#and you can interact with someone positively without following them or vice versa#like at the end of the day none of this is real#again it's different when you are actually friends and even if you aren't it's nice to just follow and interact i know! i agree#but there's this obsession with mutual followings that used to be even more prevalent on here#it's moved to twitter for the most part i feel but it'll still be here forever.#unfortunately for some people being online is just playing a game of Not Getting Unfollowed#and in case anyone gets scared this isn't a vague post this is just something i notice a little more every day#kinblr was obsessed with this especially and now that it's dying out i see this substantially less but its presence is still overwhelming#and i'm not saying DON'T care about people. it's fun to have mutuals you're just chill with but you know#don't get in over your head about it! you shouldn't be obsessed with cultivating the ultimate online persona just to appease everybody#but also go dm that mutual. make friends. talk to people. shyness and paranoia will steal your life away#and if you don't click it's no big deal. there's always someone out there for you. i promise this is true. +you can still follow each other#nobody makes follow forevers anymore. free yourself#and if we're mutuals i care about you! but that goes for everyone else too#once again this isn't me trying to diss anyone i just think some people take the follow button too seriously
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1. why is it even an option to not try lol. like, yeah, I didn't feel like being awake any longer anyway and would prefer to stress out my already-stressed-out bf. goodnight, Saeran
2. bro.. you can't just get on top of me like that, looking like an actual angel, when I was just gassed and have no idea where I am... gonna make me lose consciousness again looking all pretty like that


3. actual jumpscare. I usually love horror, but V you gotta give us a content warning for that kind of thing. Jesus
4. undoubtedly highly important information that V and his dark web hacker-for-hire can weaponize against us


I bet Rika saw him practicing his villain repertoire and rolled her eyes into the back of her skull. V also said Rika smelled like manure, and she said she's bored by having only him as company. love how these two actually want nothing to do with each other but insist on ruining each other's lives anyway


I might really have to attack this man. not even for the reasons most players would, either, but because if he wants crazy, I am more than happy to oblige given the current circumstances. maybe then he'll realize what's good for him. but since he's a pacifist: it's because you need therapy. there. now go put that secretly-loaded bank account to good use, love yourself, and get out of here before something truly awful happens. like, idk, going to prison


Chairman Han route when. everyone's like "where's the Vanderwood route at" but by the time we get more content, like a reboot, we'll be looking at Jumin's dad a different kinda way. we can fix him if we try hard enough


not a misunderstanding. I am unfortunately in love with you, just as I am with Saeran, which is why this AE pains me more than most. I even - like the unfaithful player that I am - told you that I liked you back in a previous call and didn't tell you off for being weird. let's not play coy now.
there's probably an uncomfortable and confusing tension in the house due to our shamelessness, and we should all - Rika included - just accept it before things get actually uncomfortable and confusing on day 3
#i guess this is more like days 1-2.5#lb#mysme spoilers#long post#rika#v#saeran#his stickers#especially the giggle one#are so cute that i gotta take .5 seconds to recover whenever he uses them#it almost gives me that same (concerning) reaction you sometimes get from things like kittens opening their eyes for the first time#where your inner violent caveman instinct takes over and you scare yourself bc you kinda wanna squeeze it#i googled this and it is a thing#it's called 'cute aggression'#i feared it was uncommon and that there was smth seriously wrong with me#there might still be BUT i am not alone in this particular reaction#do people exist on tumblr on tuesday nights? my dash is dead. well no harm can come from speaking into the ether i suppose#if anyone actually read all this you get a huge gold star lol#rip me when v lowkey comes onto you and says he was interested in you... as if the love triangle elsewhere wasn't torturous enough#i feel like most players didn't care here bc they hate him lol but i don't#and with his route and poor ray#and now you're gonna do this to me-#unethical#also.. @ saeran.. i am so sorry for being disloyal in a call#i didn't mean it baby pls take me back
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begging people to adopt the idgaf mindset i think if we all just developed a lil idgaf energy it would lead us to nirvana
#argent rambles#redactedverse#redacted audio#im honestly shocked there's even a confessions blog for redacted like that feels so 2017 fandom and it's always been a bad idea#i looked the blog up after seeing the discourse just to block it and ough i can feel it i feel love and light filling me 😍#but seriously this goes for both sides you see ppl hating on the thing you like? go 'idgaf' and block#you hate on things and want to make it everyone else's problem for some reason? take a step back and think 'hm idgaf actually' and move on#you are allowed to not like things it's ok trust me i don't like things all the time#but that doesn't mean you should make it a moral crusade to try find a reason to ruin it for everyone else#you can hate certain characters or storylines or feel like the content is not as good as it was blah blah blah#but by continuing to then focus on all the things you hate instead of moving on and only interacting with the parts you do like#you are dragging yourself and others down into a hateful spiral and in the end no one's happy#i genuinely hope the ppl using that blog as a way to be pissy are just like too young to understand how being a hater is not fulfilling#bc if you're an adult using an anonymous blog to just to be a hater sorry but like.... grow up a lil bit
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Tripod Baby wasn't the ending theme for Shadow Generations 0/10 game
#Shadow doesn't have the brushing back his quills idle animation -2/10 game#/j in all seriousness tho the game is AMAZINNNGG#I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT IT#Funny how avoiding everything about a release title until you experience it fully yourself can be so gratifying#I finally get to hear people's opinions on it and wait what was that? they hate this or that? Huhh??? What do you meaaaaan?????#Also: WHAT DO YOU MEAN they're handing out ranks like candy on Shadow Gens#When I play like ass I get ass ranks and Shadow gives me the stink eye and it makes me feel awful so I work harder for a higher rank#how the hell are y'all getting A or S ranks first try on acts 1?#If anything the game that is hysterically generous with its ranks is base generations. Playing both games side by side is funny as hell#Shadow will be over here busting his tail out to get a perfect clear on levels#and Sonic will fumble all over the place like an idiot and be like heeeyy I don't give a shit! Get a B! Actually let's round it up to an A!#because!#playing as Shadow feels so gooood it's like I'm fully on control and not stupidly slamming my way through everything like with Sonic lol#getting a B rounded up to an A after beating the shit out of Shadow in the silliest way was insulting and so so funny#Anyway even things I could quote en quote criticise about the game I think aren't that big of a deal#Like yeahh no callback to an 05 level is a sin but you know what? I forgive them. They cooked#and it was delicious#got everything I wanted out of it and I'm satisfied#shutupcaguay
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Bleh
#thinking about shit#getting really tired and stressed with everything going on#and I'm seriously starting to wonder if this is my next breaking point#and if I'm going to be forever worse bc I kept pushing myself with my me/cfs#that's the fucking scary thing about it; not knowing if I'm doing to accidentally do something wrong and make myself permanently worse#and I don't know how to explain these fears other than fucking terrifying#to literally be entirely unaware of the true limitations of your body and not knowing if you're going to make yourself worse by accident#I cannot wait for the move to be over#once we have a legal address together I can get on my husbands insurance and beg him to quit#I am incapable of working a traditional job as it is but I'm forced to because I have no other options#so I'm already pushing myself on a regular basis#and I fear every flare up is just going to be my new normal#and what if it is just a flare up? I have to keep working I have to do my job I have to do chores I have to pack#will working myself this hard during the flare up lead to something worse?#I can't do this anymore I just fucking can't#I can't stand not knowing if this past year is going to permanently incapacitate me#I'm already reliant on my husband for everything short of carrying me to the bathroom and wiping my ass for me#I hate not being independent and I hate the idea that I might be stuck in this much pain and this much fatigue for the rest of my f'in life
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🎵 I am trying this link thing again. This time, a creature I created, so not getting into the details of it yet. We'll see how that goes. I want to try it. I do like the idea of getting some choice in at least one of my various identities. Plus I kinda feel like everything is out of control right now. And like it's not even my life anymore. So yeah. Which I suppose makes it a copinglink, since that's... literally the reason I want to try doing this.
#🎵 rowan#copinglink#otherlink#Plus I mean... being a gryphon is pretty awesome.#I tend to hate my kitsune.#And as much as being a wolf is a core part of my identity without which I would not know who I was...#Wolf therians are kinda... Idk. I feel like yes we're 'popular' but people also don't take us seriously.#We're too common and too many therians think they're a wolf at first only to end up figuring out later they're something else.#Which I'm not shitting on them for don't get me wrong here.#It's okay to realize you're wrong about your theriotype.#It's okay to be mistaken when trying to figure yourself out.#I just wish people didn't write off those of us who ARE those things.#I think having not one but -two- wolf theriotypes makes me even more sensitive about that.#I honestly neither love nor hate being a wolf. I'm neutral to it. And I do not mean that badly.#It's just that it's SUCH an old and integral part of who I am that#it's like if a human were to have opinions on elbows vis-a-vis having them.#But yeah. I want to get to decide on -something-. So it's this.
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just saw a post that pissed me off and i got to block them peacefully for saying stupid shit ^-^
#“stupid women! if you're traumatized by men/the patriarchy that's actually on YOU and you need to work on yourself girl :)”#and then i go to their blog and the next post down is like ugh those stupid lesbians who uh. hate bi women. ew#i think if you spend all your time posting about women you don't like you should seriously reconsider#like brother.... not infantalizing women AND creating the assumption that patriarchy will never change....
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Some of those doctors make hating oat milk their entire personality. I hate them. Cannot pretend to find them funny or like i give a shit. Fucking pretentious assholes
#also my colleague (the girl i had my shift with) is the exact opposite of me in all aspects. asked me if I'd ever worked in customer service#because i couldn't care less about being fake friendly to assholes and don't care if they like the service or not#like bitch those people don't have any other choice but drink our fucking coffee it's not like I'm competing with anyone#or like they pay us in any way. i get paid for doing the dumb work i have to do not for stroking some dumb ass doctors' egos#they come out of their rooms once an hour to get coffee and we have the cups on the table and i wouldn't even Think of#HANDING them the cups and smiling sweetly at them and asking 'coffee? tea?? :))'#I'll just assume these grown adults will get their stupid coffee or tea when they want some. it's not like they don't know where it is#(and i AM friendly and smile when someone is coming in our direction but why the fuck do you need to get so disgustingly friendly with them#if someone held up a cup asking if i.want some coffee I'd leave immediately even if i came just for coffee. it's creepy)#anyway. she's nice. I'm not.#there's normal people who will get their coffee and maybe ask if the milk in the little jug is cow milk to which I'll happily reply 'yes#:)'. then there's the other people who see the oat milk and make it clear they are the most insufferable people on the planet#(and i pity their patients so much. not much to choose from i guess but if i had that as a doctor I'd happily just die)#like everyone who took oatmilk could do it without making a fuss about the cow milk on the table. the cow milk lovers could never#'the oat milk is in front of the actual milk. this is unacceptable. i hate such healthy bullshit' lol okay#'OAT milk?? I'll leave this to the horses! THANK GOD you have actual milk!'#my favorite was the one who really took personal offense with its sheer presence. as if it had killed half of his patients lmao#'we had 50 patients with xyz problem. ALL of them drink oat milk. they cannot see the connection. it's really unhealthy'#at this point i just said i didn't care and stopped paying attention and he started complaining to his doctor colleague about how#oat milk is advertised to be healthy and how it's actually the opposite and i just find that very funny compared to the first comment#from that one guy who doesn't like such healthy bullshit. you guys need to find a consensus on the oatmilk issue i think. no one takes you#seriously if you contradict yourself like this. also i couldn't care less about the healthiness of the milk alternative of my choice. bitch.#next week I'll end up killing someone. i hope they all die from their cow milk. (but not the ones who took cow milk and didn't say anything#about the oat milk. they can continue living as they didn't annoy me)#void screams#some of these doctors were actually quite nice (most of them even). one even brought an applicant to us telling her to get some coffee#(which we are not allowed to give to applicants. but i don't care. I'd rather they get something than some of the asshole jury members#who hate oat milk (which is not the issue. the issue is them making it everybody else's issue that they don't like oat milk))
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when will you stop villainizing us lol
#be fucking grateful that we're—or /i'm/ letting you live on this app like it's nothing#because if i didn't i would've ruined your fucking life the day you left the server#but at least have some decency to shut the fuck up and move on because the fact that youre still so pissy is so annoying#like. kill yourself? die? i don't care i need you gone#at least act your fucking age#you're already a minor who writes smut and youre also minor who threatens others that youd kill yourself if they talk about your faves like.#are you fucking sick in the head?#choose a goddamn struggle goddammit#i hate you i hate you so much that i seriously want you dead and gone from the faces of the earth#if i could attend your funeral i would point and laugh at your dead corpse im so fucking pissed#talk shit about me when you're not a 17 yr old bitch who's talking to 13 yr olds about sex LMFAOOOOO loser#fuck you luma i hope you everything bad in life#fuck you and stupid girlfriend#you guys are perfect for each other btw! we love seeing a couple of minors who write smut date each other 🩷#tw rant#tw death threats#tw discourse#do not read if ure uncomfy i beg
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I think I haven't said this enough lately so I'll say it right now :
Fuck fascists.
If you are a fascist, you should totally get kicked out of this planet and go fuck yourself in the furthest part of the universe.
If you are proud to be a fascist, you are the most pitiful and pathetic being of Earth and I hope you know that absolutely no one will ever like you even a little bit because you are detestable and stupid.
That's it. That's the post. Just fuck fascists.
#fuck facists#i think i'll never say this enough#i hate them#go fuck yourself#anti facist#facists are trash#i will never ever show an ounce of kindness toward those shitty people#so yes i'm being violent#but honestly#i don't give a fuck#those guys are seriously thinking dictators had it right i will not show any mercy#they already want me dead anyway#and no i won't say 'they deserve to die' or 'they should kill themselves' and i don't want anyone to reblog this post saying this#it would only means we're being as dumb as them and i am not going to do that EVER
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not to be like mean or smug or annoying bc i do mean this in the nicest way possible but some people who run brackets are absolutely not meant for it. pulling 'i will not tolerate people being mean in the tags. that's so rude' (they are talking about when someone said 'what tf is wrong with you........' in a poll with a tough matchup). rbing pages and pages of unrelated stuff or other polls with their opinions as though people following the bracket care about anything besides the bracket. like just make a sideblog and only post polls. people are gonna say shit in the tags idk what to tell you. it's more work than you think it's gonna be but i thought the basics were pretty clear. like i know it's not that serious at all and this is a silly thing for me to try to criticize i just keep seeing poll mods having like full on meltdowns or posting shit i do not care about after i follow them for the bracket and i feel like we can save ourselves a lot of grief by being cool about shit. idk. do an absurd amount of seeding and graphics-making in a fevered frenzy becoming simultaneously over-invested in your own poll and desperate to keep the bracket itself as fair and professional as possible to give yourself something to feel in control of and ignore your own deteriorating mental health over the course of like two or three weeks like the rest of us.
#me when i love a system and being professional witnessing a poll mod having a breakdown over someone saying a joke insult in tags :|#you've given yourself a job not made a bunch of new friends?#if you need to complain talk about it on your main?? don't make it your followers' problem?#idk maybe if i'd run a bracket where people sent in contestants i'd understand#like the episode bracket was pretty clean plus most of us voters were bound together by shared community#(<- oppression of the lowly sam stan in the spn community)#guess im just always shocked by people getting genuinely mad at their voters and im also annoyed by a clogged bracket blog#controversial take the 'propaganda' thing is annoying i am not voting if i havent heard of these characters my decision will be Informed#(<- hates fun and takes polls too seriously and should be taken with a grain of salt at all times)#im also high rn though i would not be sharing these thoughts sober even though i think them often <3
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Seeing the TikTok stuff about kids complaining about adults playing lads is... actually crazy. 😭 grown ass adult male love interests, and we're playing 'you're too old for this'. none of yall are old enough to keep the servers running kids??
#look we all know kids get into adult spaces when they shouldn't#that'll never fucking stop#but stop being so loud and fucking proud about it??? you're making yourselves vulnerable for one???#but also?? stop intruding on spaces NOT for you then throwing your toys out the pram#when it's clearly not catering for you?????#also if I see the word gooner anymore#I'm going to commit violence... I've seen it more time in the past 6 months than in my entire 29 years before#I dunno when it started#I don't truly know what it means#I don't CARE to know what it means#but I hate it#the word sets off my sensory issues it sounds wet and sticky and I hate it#anyway. children learn internet safety and also stop forcing yourself into adult spaces loudly#wonder babbles#yes the game needs age ratings that are higher but also#the age ratings in certain places ARE higher#but seriously... once again... INTERNET SAFETY KIDS STOP ANNOUNCING UR AGES
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