#selfsabatoge

[savemefromtoxic]

The difference between someone who is a Narcissist, and someone who self-sabotage’s... The Narc will flirt, cheat, hide, and lie to your face - does not regret what happened and it will be your fault they did it, or something you did “caused” them to do it. The self-sabotager will struggle, will make poor decisions, will try and seek help, will be avoidant, will shut down, but will confess and ultimately blame themselves. Something a Narcissist will never do. ~ Rick dC @SaveMeFromToxic #selfsabotage #selfsabatoge #narcissist #sabotageornarcissism #narc #covertnarc #covertnarcissism #noregret #yourfault #avoidant #relationshiphelp #blame #rickdc https://www.instagram.com/p/Co3mICprppq/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[nuatthebeach]

"badass drunk/selfsabatoging ginny works with cop harry to find the person who killed her family au"

Oh my lord, does this look amazing!! Can we please have a snippet ? 💕

ahhhh you're too kind! here is a much, much later scene.

But right now is not the future.

So in the silence that Harry gifts her in the present, Ginny wipes her tears from her raccoon eyes and slides down the door, crumpling into a crouch.

She hasn’t cried in almost a decade, after all.

[angelrhodesmusic]

Man, I’m so elated by the response I’ve gotten from the release of my EP “Phoenix”! And the dark horse from the songs is “Self Sabotage”!!!!! I’ve already hit over 700 views on FB and still climbing. Be sure to download your copy on your favorite streaming platform!!! I had a blast at the gigs last week. Thanks to everyone that came out to @sauced812 , Snaps and @schnitz_brewpub!!! Thanks as always to @metzgerii for jamming with me too!!!! This week, I’ll be at Primrose Retirement Community in Wed, @carsonsbrewery on Friday and @therooftopevansville on Saturday!!!! #comeoutandseeme #supportlocalmusic #giglife #girlswhoplayguitar #singersongwriter #lovemyjob💕 #livemusic #localmusicians #redhair #rainbowhair #angelrhodesmusic #selfsabatoge https://www.instagram.com/p/B0O-ordhCfC/?igshid=kn9pd9en730k

[yourgrowspace]

[👀] Who is guilty of this? ⚠️Friday reminder before the weekend. . ➡️ This IS your sign. Don't even try! ➡️⭐ DM ME if you have to. We will take a look at your attachment style and I will you move forward and break free ➡️In your defense...Getting lost in toxic cycles isn't easy. I know... ➡️The roller coaster is addictive due to the release of certain hormones (dopamine, norepinephrine). Once the thrill passes, you crave more. However once you understand WHY you are stuck, it gets easier. 👊🏽 Break your toxic cycles. YOU KNOW they're not fulfilling. YOU KNOW you deserve better. The sooner you realize this and take action, the happier you will be. Thank me later ----------------------------------------------------------------- #impostersyndrome #recoveringperfectionist #socialanxietydisorder #socialanxietymemes #momlife #womenempowerement #singlegirls #singlewomen #callherdaddy #selfhelpbook #selfhelpquotes #toxicmasculinity #selfhelppodcast #selfsabatoge #toxicrelationship #toxicrelationshipsurvivor #breakupquote #breakupadvice #peoplepleaserproblems #relationshipgoals😍 #insecurity #fearofjudgement #fearofrejection #niceness #brenébrown #alexcooper #narcissists #breakupmotivation #nocontact #abusesurvivor (at Toronto, Ontario) https://www.instagram.com/p/Ck1bdkHyaOV/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[livlaughlev]

Hands; Part Two

I bleed as I trace my finger across the ridges of our ripped pages

Our untold truth

The origin of the hurt

You looked different

Different is an extravagance,

Your appearance remained the same

I just failed to acknowledge the boils of lies and claws of flagellation

When you removed your layers of smile of gratitude

There you stood

Raw

True

You morphed my mind

Melted my soul

You managed to find your way inside me

I don’t count

I don’t matter

The windows and doors of my soul were pried open

You took residence, then locked out the world

You locked me out

From my own palace

[mysweetchoas]

Bad Decisions

Who believes that their gut feeling is their God conscious? I fully believe that mine is. I use to think that I could feel God talking to me or leading me the direction that he wanted me to go in. Lately tho I dont feel him as much. I feel like I might have lost my connection with him. I have been so lost lately. And I have been making horrible decisions. Even when I know that I know better. Its like impulse to me. Its not Gods fault, it is my own. I dont stop and try and listen. Because Im startiing to realize how i dont just stop, and listen. Its not that he isnt talkiing to me, its that I havent been listening. And then when I do stop and ask him for direction, its rare that he puts a big neon sign in my face that says do this. I can see my life spiraling out of control. Like I just kinda throw my hands up and say it iis whaat it is, and now its like I have just given up and basically said "you win life". My husband left me for my best friend who is also alot younger then me and has her life a little bit more together then I do, of course she also has people that help her, and then I have also not seen my daughter for 2 years now. Its my fault too. I sit here and ache for her. I can still hear her laugh and see her beautiful face in my memories. But I can not get to her. I miss her so much and the only realthing that is stopping me from getting her is me. I self sabotage everything for myself. Why???? So then of course I turn to God and say those SOS prayers because that seems to be the only time I try to reach out to him, when I know that he is the answer. Im not a bad person dont get me wrong. I do make my mistakes but I dont try to hurt anybody and I pretty much now just stick to myself. No reason to fuck up other people's lives on top of my own. So now what? Where do I go from here. I know what the problem is. Its me. No Im not sucidel and yes I want to fix my life. Yes I want to get my little girl back and as bad as I hate to admit it I would like to not hate my husband anymore. I just want to heal and move on with my life. do miss him terribly. And I hate myself for it. Because I know that he doesnt give a fuck about me and I hardly think thatt he ever did. I dont know why he was put into my life, I guess to teach me a lesson. But with that lesson came great pain that I feel has made me lose my spark and not I am lost. And finding myself or God seems to be my biggest tragidy. Because If I lose me and I lose God, Then Im just like a vessel roaming around this planet. Just waiting for it to be over. I dont want to go out like that. I dont want that to be the last chapters of my life and I sure as hell dont want my daughteer to have to hear about her mother giving up. The image she has of me already probably isn't the greatest and I know that I have alot of making up to do iif I even get that chance. So my question is where do I go from here. How do I get my spark back?

[nottinghamcounselling]

We all #selfsabatoge #selfcare is essential as #lockdown fir #covid_19 is in its way back . Stop #sayingyes to everything , only watch essential news and #takecareofyourself #gedling #gedlingcounsellor #carltoncounselling #carltonnottingham #netherfield #netherfieldcounsellor #mapperleycounselling #mapperley #ng4counselling #ng4 #nottingham #nottinghamcounselling #elainebondcounselling (at Elaine Bond Counselling Services) https://www.instagram.com/p/CFbvAxwldIM/?igshid=1ti8vjyp9srr6

[manny-c]

On this self reflective selfie Sunday, speaking of self, I have been pondering the power of our self image. The fact that our actions and outcomes are largely determined by our self image is reason enough to give it more than a little thought. There is an area of my own life that recently has improved, and yet I haven't let the success land. I even have gone so far as to unconsciously try to fuck it up, which I realized only after the fact. Why? To protect my previous self image of being "bad" in this particular area. As absurd as this sounds, because it happens unconsciously, we seldom realize this kind of self sabatoge until it's already well under way. Some of the only indicators are little things we say, sometimes to others, and more often to ourselves. We may insist we have "anger issues", we are "bad" at something, or any other detrimental statement about ourselves. While these things may be true of us in the moment, they can be changed through continuous effort over time, like building a muscle or habit. By repeatedly saying and accepting these statements though, we subconsciously ensure that we don't let them go. They stay a part of the unconscious program that is the "self image". This can stop our growth or at the very least slow it, even when we are right in the process of that very growth. The sooner we realize we are preventing the formation of a new and better self image, and by extension a better life, the sooner we can turn this around. Proactively thinking about your self image, and choosing to change things to become who you want to be is the start. Monitoring, and controlling your self talk along the way however, is the real key. -Manny C. #mannyc #poet #writer #author #musician #selfie #selfiesunday #selfreflectiveselfiesunday #mindset #growth #selfimage #selfsabatoge #positivity #personaldevelopment #selfhelp #writersofinstagram #poetsofinstagram #writercommunity #poetrycommunity #beardgang #masterofwords https://www.instagram.com/p/B1UkjWrguB7/?igshid=1rozm4zh7jb20

[bettermetribe]

TOGETHER WE CAN CHANGE THE WORLD! I used to be a self-sabatoger, I used to shut down in overwhelm thinking that I didn’t DESERVE better. That I didn’t deserve more. That I deserved to live in a constant state of chaos and overwhelm... read more 👇🏻👇🏻 https://www.bettermetribe.com/permission-to-burn/ #bettermetribe #success #motivation #entrepreneur #business #successful #successo #entrepreneurship #entrepreneurs #motivational #money #lifestyle #inspiration #goals #startup #love #grind #passion #work #mindset #hardwork #businesswoman #businessman #quote #marketing #entrepreneurlife #businessowner #ambition #successquotes #selfsabatoge

[somethingsabher]

Some days you struggle and others you meet it where it meets you. Today is one of those days that the struggle is definitely real. My cycle is right around the corner too. All I can say is self-sabotage is high today. I know that I will get through it. And I must trust the process of letting my emotions and guides get me through this time. On a side note, I'm looking forward to tonight's class to step outside of my head a bit. . . . . #somethingsabouther #emotionalday #selfsabatoge #selflove #meditatewithme #menstruation #Azblogger #phoenixblogger #phoenixarizona #trusttheprocess #iwillgetthroughthis #trustyourspiritguides #livingwithherpes #strenghtfromwithin #stressedout #changeiscoming #dontdowellwithchange (at Phoenix, Arizona) https://www.instagram.com/p/BxiNvs0lNcU/?igshid=kqoslaek1cvx

[allthingsgreengreenliving]

The month of March has been a huge month of self growth for me. This 7+ year journey of self employment and banging my head against walls has forced me to take a long hard look at my self and grow in ways I’ve never imagined possible. I’ve broken out of my shell and although I’m still very awkward and uncomfortable in social situations I’ve managed to put myself out there and faced my fears time and time again. This has been a very slow and painful process but so worth it. I’ve come to the realization that much of the confusion I’ve struggled with for so long was self inflicted! I, me, myself and my own mental blocks were the problem and not the process. So many changes had to be made, internal changes that is. I had to make a switch in my way of thinking, thinking in ways I didn’t even know I was doing. Self sabotaging stuff I kept doing over and over again because of some deep rooted fears. It brings tears to my eyes just thinking about it. But also a smile as I think back at how far I’ve come. I think “mindset” is quite possibly the hardest changes anyone can undergo and some of the hardest lessons to learn. I still have a long ways to go. Oh boy do I still have a ways to go! But when I look back to where I’ve been and how far I’ve come, I have to say I’m pretty freaking impressed!! What do you think? 🤔 Is personal growth some of the hardest work you’ve ever done? Have you ever experienced stuff like this? Did others around you take notice? Or was it your own internal realization that you’ve changed? . . . . . #mindsetreset #goodbyemarch #selfgrowthjourney #selfgrowth #mentalblock #internalgrowth #selfawarenessjourney #selfsabatoge #breakingfree #positivevibes #highervibrations #goodvibes #selfemployedlife #justdoitsunday #selfemployedchallenges #mentalbreakthrough #theelitesuite #empowersocial #noexcuses #nowhining #whiningnotallowed #getoveryourself #allthingsgreenliving #norwexconsultant (at Santa Maria, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/BvqmUZJDd6r/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1cgqa05xlxoht

[nuatthebeach]

wip game

Rules: list the titles of all the WIPs you currently have, regardless of how non-descript or ridiculous. Let people send you an ask with the title that most intrigues them, and post a little snippet or tell them something about it! Then tag as many people as you have WIPs

thank you for the tag @narukoibito @ginnyw-potter and @takearisk-ao3! some of these i'm actively writing and some of them are sitting dead in the pile, but that's up to you to figure out ;)

spiderman!harry au

The Bell Jar

badass drunk/selfsabatoging ginny works with cop harry to find the person who killed her family au

ginny finds out harry likes her in hbp

premed hinny au (yes im projecting and what about it)

vampire au

anniversary foreplay/smut

ginny talks to steve kloves about how he fucked over her character (LMAO)

babysitting AU

tagging @ashotofogdensoldfirewhiskey @corneliaavenue-ao3 @seriouslysam8 @thegirlwhowrites642 and anyone else who wants to play!

[haikusbyhe]

Obstacles to that ideal body

Good health is vital But exercising is tough I dont like to sweat

Unsustainable Diets and exercise plans Will lead to failure

[yourgrowspace]

💔 Personal Story + Advice Me in my younger 20s. Boy, has she grown! Here are some things I was struggling with: ➡️ Unfulfilling & toxic relationships all around ➡️ Low self worth ➡️ People pleasing ➡️ General anxiety disorder ➡️ Self-sabatoge 💔 I put up with A LOT. Cheating exes, narcissists, manipulation, the list goes on 🙃. It doesn't help that narcissists purposely look for naive, people pleasers. If I had been confident, TRULY known my worth, I wouldn't have put up with so much. 🙏🏽 That being said, I am SO SO thankful for the pain I experienced and the roller coaster life took me on. It is due to that pain that I've healed, submersed myself in learning, & am now coaching others. I absolutely LOVE helping women break free from these cycles. ⭐It is due to the pain that I am extremely passionate about helping other women heal, build their confidence, know their worth to achieve fulfilling relationships, promotions and ultimately their purpose. ✅ Send me a DM if you're struggling with any of these. It CAN get better. You can get unstuck and be truly fulfilled. ----------------------------------------------------------------- #impostersyndrome #recoveringperfectionist #socialanxietydisorder #socialanxietymemes #momlife #womenempowerement #singlegirls #singlewomen #callherdaddy #selfhelpbook #selfhelpquotes #babyfoodrecipe #selfhelppodcast #selfsabatoge #toxicrelationship #toxicrelationshipsurvivor #breakupquote #breakupadvice #peoplepleaserproblems #relationshipgoals😍 #insecurity #fearofjudgement #fearofrejection #niceness #brenébrown #alexcooper #narcissists #breakupmotivation #nocontact #abusesurvivor (at Kitchener, Ontario) https://www.instagram.com/p/CkqZxtfrLuG/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[cadetcama]

Someone needs to talk me out of going into the ffh spoilers tag. I don’t see the movie till Saturday. I don’t want to be spoiled but I also kinda wanna go the tag to see so you see my problem

[melto]

i very. suddenly am feeling selfsabatoging and desetuctive.