#school friend group drama

[personthatdrawssometimes]

HI SORRY FOR LACK OF POSTING I KEEP FORGETTING TUMBLR EXISTS

anyways not spilling the details but the school friend group drama got so bad we had to pull out the google docs. how does one get burnt out writing a TEXT MESSAGE

oh and my best friend got deadnamed :3

istfg im tweaking SO BAD

[aprilblossomgirl]

"Why are you guys so surprised? Phi Alpha is a renowned Student President and a member of The Fixed Stars, the most famous group in S-Tar."

23.5 องศาที่โลกเอียง (2024) Ep.02

[cashweasel]

The sillies<3

[momotonescreaming]

Tommy Hagan's not bad he's just burdened with the curse of being 16

[bmpmp3]

i do wish i was better at communicating with people online and through technology. i wander into conversations and make new ones all the time irl with random people and its fun but im like hyping myself to type out a single response to a Post. and to say nothing of how difficult it is to get me to say something in a discord server

[fanatic-freakshow]

Everybody knows a dating hotspot. What was/is yours?

Tag your curious friend!

[darklight-owl]

I can't believe there's people out there who DON'T like Miracle Mask. I hope they get better soon.

[venusleontios55555]

A SPECIFIC MOVIE TROPE

Only girl in a boys group : Macho, not like other girls, all the guys will fall in love with her.

Only guy in a girls group: Feminine, soft, all the girls bully him, maybe gay.

[britneyshakespeare]

you know i don't bring this up as a light anecdote because it involves me being talked about in really perverted ways behind my back. but when i was like 20 i was part of this large group of friends that was mostly a bunch of guys, and a couple of girlfriends. and the energy if you were a girl starting to hang around them was like. "ok, so who are you gonna hook up with/date?" and it didn't last long bc of course when the answer ended up being "well none of you," the patience they had for me evaporated. lol. so i was being talked about among literally every single one of them behind my back in a gigantic group chat, of like literally everyone in the original group chat (including the ppl who never fucking used it, and it was over twelve people) minus a few other ppl they didn't like, decidedly. and eventually one of my GOOD friends (that i am still friends w to this day) told me about it and then there was the whole drama of people not being able to accept consequences for their actions, not owning up to being cowardly bullies, etc... yawn yawn yawn. truly that was some stupid middle school shit from a bunch of immature ppl that i didn't really take to heart. not the guys, anyway. i was honestly very hurt by a couple of girls who partook in it though, that i thought genuinely liked me and who i genuinely liked in return, so that was shocking to me.

but anyway. after this all happened my sister went OFF on this one guy in particular. bc he had been a nuisance before. he was a slimy creep honestly. i used to feel a lot of pity for him bc i thought he was just sad and wanted attention but that was just my 20-year-old nonsense brain way of interpreting it. he was incredibly annoying and would wear girls down, would hop from one girl to another week after week, each one not reciprocating his constant desperate flirting and lovebombing. and there was a joke he participated in about me and my (also queer, female) friend that was particularly crossing a line. so kaily just ripped this guy a new one when he went to try and offer an explanation. like imagine trying to even talk to someone after you just humiliated and bullied their sister... couldn't be me. like i was literally the one being bullied in this instant but i can't imagine the kind of white hot rage i'd be in if someone did that to my sister. you know? so yeah.

at the end of this rant kaily told him "go to hell." you know. like fuck off. go fuck yourself. go to hell. good old indecent words to throw out at someone you loathe, right? i'm literally ONLY bringing this up because i cannot stop thinking, all these years later, about how one of the girls who participated in it, and was the least apologetic about it (in fact weirdly a year later she came back just to taunt me again and tell me how much better her life is without me and how stupid i was for breaking up a 'wonderful' friend group?? yeah that sounds like the behavior of someone who is over it)... i don't remember where but someone told me she talked particularly about that message to that guy and said "kaily told (name) to burn in hell" like. like that whole time she interpreted my sister as like a conservative christian who was calling him a dirty sinner. bc presumably she had never heard the phrase "go to hell" in a non-literal context before, or just never understood it?? like that girl didn't necessarily strike me as incredibly bright or something, in the short time i knew her, but i never would've guessed she could be so dumb...

but for the record that pervert guy yeah he is gonna burn in hell.

[marsixm]

growing up my family wasnt in any community groups and my parents didnt have many or any friends (def none i personally knew), and we weren't allowed to have guests over (except my brothers friends) so yeah the idea of there being lots of large events for hobby groups sounds like brand new information to me

[thats-how-i-like-it]

/ vent

[le-velo-pour-dru]

It's so funny, when I was talking to my counselor last year and I was telling her about all the clubs I was in (I was in like six clubs/extracurriculars at the time), she was like, "So you're clearly involved here at school, you're not the kind of kid who just goes straight home after school. You have so many built-in friend groups here at school, so why do you have so much trouble making friends?" AND IT'S LIKE. I DON'T KNOW ANY BETTER THAN YOU DO X'D

[aprilblossomgirl]

MY SCHOOL PRESIDENT (2022-2023) | ep. 4

Sound, why don’t you eat? Do you know we don’t eat BBQ pork just for pleasure? It’s our club’s sacred ritual. / There are so many rituals in your club. / The seniors told us that eating BBQ pork is a celebration after the show. And if the food still tastes good to us, that means we still want to play music. 

(+ Hey. That one is burnt. I’ll get a new one for you. Here. Take this one.)

[lonely-lesbian69]

Bruh it's not even a week into my new school and ive already witnessed:

•a dramatic friendship breakup between people who just met each other

•being a messenger for my cousin because I'm friends with people from her old school and she wants to know what they think of her

•people knowing my from snapchat because I have a lot of them and me saying hi then wondering who the fuck they

•already having like 3 different friend groups

[namelessinwonderland]

07/28/24 Midsummer Scream Pt 2

soo.... at the con apparentlyyyyyy one of the guys from our group was checking me out..... then when we all went out to dinner together afterwards, he was still checking me out. i also found out afterwards that he was texting our mutual friend the whole time secretly @ the dinner table asking how old i was (bc i look younger than my actual age and he is 4 years older than me so u gotta check!!!!), what my type is and what im into?? she told me all that he was saying the following day so that's how i know this.

she gave him my phone number that night and he started texting me the next day. he's literally been texting me all day every day since. he's very nice but i feel like that he's kinda immature when it comes to relationships. ive come to this conclusion because he already is saying how much he likes me and is trying to plan for the future but its only been 1 week of knowing me!!! and i asked im, he's only been in 3 relationships EVER. and he recently got out of a long-term relationship yet hes already trying to jump right into another serious relationship???!??

likkeeee he keeps asking me all these serious questions and questions about the future...

pros: he is a very nice guy and tbh he has a hot voice when he sends me audio messages

cons: he's immature and im just not attracted to him

its all so highschool tho, like dating within the friend group and him talking to all our mutual friends about it and then apparently all our friends are also talking to each other abt it

uuuuuuggggggghhhhhhhhhhh

time to throw him to the friend zone.

[dyk3ang3l]

so over everything this year sucks so bad actually i feel like the world is pulling a prank on me