#respect your rp partners everyone
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streetslost · 1 year ago
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with any oc. if you're not going to give them the effort of reading all their headcanons and backstory or the like. the least you can do is read their basic stats. i don't mind helping people with cat's long ass backstory and intricate details.
but when people have no idea her basic stats then it just feels demeaning tbh.
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miqojak · 1 year ago
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I - and I'm not exaggerating - and every friend I've brought to this game (XIV) have been so severely sexually harassed (either openly or via DMs) that we've all quit. I'm the only one willing to come back to XIV (at least two of them said fuck it and gave up houses they won before the lotto change, too) - and these are RP friends I've had for a decade, some of them, and they're so scarred from being so badly and so frequently sexually harassed in XIV that they don't RP at all in any game, anymore (my gay roommate had to take 'gay' out of his OC info to get people to stop whispering him things that amounted to molestation - no one should have to hide their identity to avoid unwanted harassment of any kind).
The only people to reach out to me over the 4 years I've played - besides about 6 people who actually just wanted to write story? - have all been grotesque attempts to convince me to change my sex-repulsed character's mind. Jak was a prisoner in a nazi internment camp and came out riddled with trauma, and people would still - even knowing this - insist she suddenly not have trauma so she'd screw them... and then ghost me when they couldn't force me/the oc to ERP.
At the end of the day, idgaf what people do with their time. I just don't consent to having it forced on me. I'm as much a perv as anyone, and know my shit in the D/s community, etc. And no means no. You also don't walk up and whisper-emote touching someone intimately without their permission. You don't keep pushing for ERP when someone makes it clear they don't want it.
People need to be open and clear in what they're seeking from RP - or it not only wastes everyone's time, but causes legitimate permanent harm. I no longer reach out or even attend public events because of how prevalent this sort of thing is (if I'm just going to be pressured to have sex, and be ghosted if I don't, why try? Which is exactly what my friends who have given up tell me, too). I had to shut my Yakuza fc down because no matter how hard I tried to run a cohesive, intricate, overarching plot that included my members...people only joined to hit on hot criminals and try to get in bed with them, then they would quit within a month or two if they didn't get erp (usually with myself or the other leader, my irl partner, lmao).
I had someone in WoW reach out while I was just questing recently and mentioned he does like ERP, but not just ERP. I stated that it's not my primary interest, but as part of a story I don't mind it. I didn't judge him at all! Kinks are all weird, and sex is part of life. Some of us want it all the time, some want it never, some can't feel that way without knowing you intimately! So if someone treats you weird for just being honest? Block them, and move on with life - because for me, my number one complaint is how many people have led me on bc they wanted ERP, but 3 scenes in they ghost because they got none - and if they'd just TOLD me that to begin with, I could have saved us both from embarrassment and feeling like shit. I've been ghosted this way so many times in XIV, even, it's made me feel like that's all Jak must be to people...a hole. A sex object. Just a piece of meat to be penetrated. And if she doesn't present herself as such, she's thrown away like garbage.
Just be honest and direct with RP partners - you're not the bad person for being honest. The one being a judgy puritan prick is the a-hole.
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I leave my opinions here because I so rarely check Twitter these days and go to bed.
#the best rp partner I've had in YEARS - basically the first person I met here#won't play his character in RP anymore#he also gets ghosted - but by female characters when he won't ERP them#my partner had someone in their first erp scene start hitting on him ooc - that was the beginning of the end#my gay roommate was harassed/molested/abused severely by some once-big names in the tumblr XIV RP community#one of jak's former partners had to insist someone stop whispering him sexy stuff - he had to use 'I'm in a relationship IC'#and the person still insisted#when you say you don't want to ERP...so the highlander who won't leave you alone thinks he's being clever by asking for a sauna scene#if I had a nickel for every time sex obsessed people were dishonest and abusive in XIV I could buy a large house irl#honesty! the number one rule about sex is consent - and that requires honesty - so these ppl don't even know or understand basic sex safety#if you can't be honest about what you want...then you're lying to that person and using them to achieve satisfaction without their consent#it also sucks to realize that your gpose shots that aren't sexy and unclothed will never get the same traction as playboy spread shots#this community has managed what drama in WoW and GW2 couldn't... its made me basically unwilling to be active in rp communities anywhere#I want to be... but I can't shake the feeling that I don't matter because I'm not selling my OC's body#anymore you face more stigma for NOT being sexually aggressive#people used to bail on you if you were an ERPer... now it's the ERP community throwing people away who don't rp like they do#if everyone were just honest about the genre/style of writing they're looking for and wasn't ashamed of what they want...#This is not just an XIV problem either! It's worse in this game than any other MMO I've been in#but they're all like this now - people are either gross when they're up front about it...#or they hide it from you and spring it on you and then bail when it turns out they should have just asked about ERP to begin with#it's not 2006 anymore - no one cares that you're writing teh secks on the internet these days...and if they do they can go fuck themSELVES#most of us just want the courtesy of being seen as people and having our consent and feelings respected...a modicum of honesty isn't hard
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utilitycaster · 1 year ago
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Talking as players outside the game is an incredibly important part of having good PC/PC D&D relationships, and obviously the characters involved in the relationship talking to each other in meaningful ways is crucial, but I think the importance of talking in-game in depth to other people is really underrated, in that it not only tells the other player what your character is feeling without having to reveal it in-game to them, but also serves to engage other characters in the story and deepen those platonic bonds to the point where they might even serve as confidants or wingmen. To give a bunch of examples and what they achieved:
Vax telling Gilmore he didn't want to string him along made it clear out of game that his feelings towards Keyleth were his priority, even though it happened where the other characters were not able to hear.
Similarly, Vex giving her blessing eventually after her initial resistance signaled to Liam that this would not be a major break between the twins.
Vax asking Vex what she intended to do about her feelings for Percy served not only as an opportunity for her to voice them to someone; it also serves as a big green light for Taliesin as Percy to kiss Vex later that episode (which he had already from Vex's resurrection ritual, but it underscores it).
Pike talking about Scanlan with Keyleth and Vex allows her to make it clear that she does ultimately like a lot of things about him despite sometimes being annoyed, and her talking to him through her earring while Scanlan is very much not there but Sam is at the table also serves as this kind of green light.
Jester asking Veth about kissing in relationship to Fjord lets Travis know where Jester is at and invests Veth in-game in the relationship.
Caleb asking Jester if she's "sweet on [Fjord]" lets her openly reassess her feelings after an intense arc and also indicates in-game that Caleb has noticed.
Beau waiting to hear the sound of thunder signals to Ashley (who was not at the table but who was presumably staying updated on events) that Beau has feelings for Yasha; it also allows those playing Yasha (often Matt for pure RP and Travis in combat) to return that flirting, since the baseline was already established.
Possibly the most obvious example, but Beau and Fjord's conversation on Rumblecusp not only clarifies to the whole table where everyone is (opening the door, for example, for the scenes in the beer garden a few episodes later of Caleb having Fjord and Jester dance together and Caduceus encouraging Yasha to pursue Beau) but very much serves as a green light to Ashley and Laura respectively. This is then mirrored by them talking after Beau has asked Yasha on a date and Fjord and Jester have kissed, and everyone involved can "debrief" with their partners not present in-game.
As mentioned, this is mostly about PC/PC relationships because PC/NPC is an inherently different dynamic mechanically though still should be a conversation, but Veth describing Yeza and Jester asking Caleb about his feelings about Essek both give Matt clues for playing these NPCs and how things might be received.
FRIDA mentioning their crush on FCG to Deanna means it's not a complete surprise to Sam, since it is a very sudden relationship, and lets him prepare and decide how FCG would feel in the moment, and also establishes how Deanna will feel about it.
Similarly in the C3 Uthodurn arc, Fearne going to Chetney about Deanna is an incredibly good move from Ashley (to the point that talking about this is what led me to write this whole post). It lets Travis play out where Chetney is. It lets Aabria therefore hear not only where Chetney is, but also know that Fearne is potentially interested. It establishes a ton of the dynamics for a relationship that out of game everyone knows will not have a full campaign to play out since one of the characters involved is a guest. And finally, it signals to Christian as FRIDA what the situation is in case Deanna confides in them.
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e-the-hybrid-freak · 3 months ago
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✨Intro✨
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”Hi, I’m 1302E! But you can call me E. I’m N and Uzi’s adopted child- drone- thing. Yeah, let’s go with thing.”
((Hi, I’m Mod. Let me tell you about E))
About E-
1302E was her drone name and what JCJenson called her. Before the world blew up she was sent to copper nine, because JCJenson didn’t want her anywhere near them. After N and Uzi saved everyone from Cyn, they found E. N and E became best friends and N had to BEG Uzi to keep the little drone. After a lot of pleading, Uzi caved and they kept E. E is nicknamed sweetie, sweetheart, Bean, little one, little drone, and Babes. Don’t freaking call her baby or your asking for your funeral. She has a glitch in her programming when she feels threatened she will go into a ruthless killing mod and go on a murder spree :3
About Mod-
Hi, I’m Dove. I own like seven other rp blogs for my horrible hyperfixations. Right now it’s Hazbin hotel, Helluva boss, Tadc, and Murder drones. I try to get on everyday but life happens.
Rules-
SFW ONLY. It is one thing to flirt with a character, another to get touchy. Please don’t.
No hate. I can take criticism but hell, if you send me hate after hate I get depressed and feel useless. So please dont
NO POLITICS. AFTER THE DRAMA FROM THIS ELECTION I CANT TAKE ANYMORE. TAKE YOUR POLITIC B.S. SOMEWHERE ELSE.
Respect my boundaries and others. That’s it.
Cursing is allowed and E curses, so yeah.
How to submit an ask-
Since we are both a ask blog and rp blog you can ask E on how’s life going.
Go to the ‘Can I help you…?’ Button on the top of my blog
type in your question or rp starter.
((if you are an rp please specify))
press the submit button.
I will get to it ASAP
E’s friends ((Partners))-
@nthebiscuitboy ((Her parents and others)) @selfmutatedmutilation ((Rie :3)) @hv-solver (K <3))
**If you wanna be a partner DM me!**
Blogs I own-
@doveatheart ((my main))
@adeline-dust-rp ((Hazbin hotel oc rp))
@varkthesharkthing ((Hazbin hotel rp))
@the-littles-in-hell ((Another oc rp for Hazbin hotel))
@that-one-birds-blog ((random stuff))
@vally-the-x-angel
Key-
“E talks like this.”
((Dove talks like this))
*Actions like this*
Custom tags-
#E is here ig ((E answers questions))
#Dove chirps ((me talkingggg))
Please note this blog will have topics such as-
Violence, blood, gore, fighting, cursing, and others I can’t think of.
if this triggers/bothers you then don’t interact!
((Thanks!))
“See you soon!”
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*Disclaimer*- I do not claim to own murder drones. That belongs to Liam Vickers ((smart man)). BUT, I do own E. She is mine. Please don’t copy her.
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lord-emerson · 5 days ago
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As you step into Caligula's Coffee House that afternoon, there is a single thought on your mind — where exactly did all this pink fabric even come from?
It is impressive, truly. The cushions, the tablecloths, the hanging decorations are all rosier than an urchin's cheeks following a rooftop race. Lord Emerson himself rushes to greet you at the door, pink cape billowing behind him as he walks.
"Ah, you made it! Good, good. You'll see there are plenty of seats available; take whichever, you'll spend the rest of the afternoon switching around anyway. Mind the garlands connecting the tables — they help our Rattus Faber and scaled friends navigate the space better. There's refreshments too, of course, just talk to- oh, I don't know. Anyone who looks like a waiter. That wouldn't be me, would it now, darling? Lovely. Oh, more guests! Please, if you'll excuse me, my dear..."
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ʙᴀɴɴᴇʀ ᴀʀᴛ ʙʏ ʟᴇᴛᴛᴇʀs-ᴏғ-ғɪʀᴇ
Happy Feast of the Exceptional Rose, everyone! And to those who signed up, welcome to Lord Emerson's Lonely Hearts Club. By the end of today, you will have received the name and contact information of your first roleplaying partner. For the next ten days, you will have the opportunity to chat about your characters, establish what brought them to the event and hopefully send each other a couple in-game letters, too!
Here are some things to keep in mind.
You will be paired up with 3 different partners for each character you signed up with: one announced today, one on February 10th and one on February 20th. The event will officially end on March 1st.
Other than these announcement dates, there are no strict deadlines for roleplaying. Everyone is encouraged to follow along at their own pace.
The official tag of the event is #lelhc! I will be checking it regularly and reblogging any quotes, writing snippets and art pieces posted in there. In conversation, I will simply be referring to the event as Lonelyhearts.
And how lonely those hearts are! This is your reminder that despite the "speed dating" nature of the setting, this event is open to all types of characters, many of whom do not seek a romantic connection at all. Always make sure to check in with your RP partner about what kind of stories they are interested in telling together.
Hopefully it will not come to this, but for any interpersonal conflicts, I encourage players to discuss the matter between themselves first. If it cannot be resolved and you feel deeply uncomfortable with your current RP partner, you can turn to me and we will sort something out together!
Lastly, please remember to respect the dress code. For any innocent fools who forgot to incorporate the colour pink into their wardrobe, I will be distributing rosy boutonnières and corsages at the entrance. Thank you, darlings.
Your humble Cupid,
Lord Oswald J. Emerson
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[art by @letters-of-fire]
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starsweepers · 1 month ago
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moved to under a read more but preserving this.
you know what. if this gets me run off of tumblr so be it.
i'm done with this. it's fucking stupid. all of it. coming on and reading people's fucking "DNI" lists. and i say this as someone who loves people who have some DNI lists. this is not against specific people and will never be. but i am fucking. so sick. of coming on and having no problem with people but i have friends who suddenly start telling me "don't interact with X"
people on both sides. people i have never had an issue with, who have never been problematic or mean but maybe at some point in their lives did something terrible to someone else.
you know what? i've been trash too. i know i've probably said and did things against good friends. but i talked to them and hashed it out or we blocked each other and moved on with their lives.
i am. so sick of being caught in between people who are fucking fighting. i should not be logging on from christmas and feeling torn in between people. i've basically soft blocked people because i am too old, i don't want to deal with this. but now i feel fucking guilty for not defending friends but also not... sticking up for friends.
i am so sick of this. i have multiple people i have blocked and hate seeing on my dash that good friends love and i just fucking ignore them but then i have friends who have dnis and i gotta fucking respect them or i'm a terrible person.
in real life people just fucking don't get along while some do. it just happens. i'm 30+ i've learned to accept this. i am so tired of being made to pick between people so i end up just blocking everyone i don't want this. it's tumblr rp. stop. i'm so tired, i'm so sick of this. i know dnis are to protect people but making your followers follow that rule? it's just clique behavior.
"the tumblr rp is so welcoming"
no it's fucking not. it doesn't matter the fandom. you pick your friends and you stick by them which GREAT.
but then people like me who are in the middle and just want to write are sitting back and watching a bunch of people i like hate each other. i'm so tired of it. i'm so so so so tired of it. i just wanna write stupid little characters.
if someone has physically caused you problems. block them and move on. stop making your friends choose between you. it's so fucking painful and we feel like we can't win. we win if we do and we're damned if we don't. i'm so tired i want everyone to have fun it's fucking christmas, this shouldn't have been on my mind at all.
run me off of tumblr. i don't care. i'm so sick of this. i came here to write not for all this fucking stupid drama that middle school people do. i hate. feeling like i have to pick friends to the point i've picked no one. now i'm going to lose rp partners and companions because someone is always wrong. i get it, i know they are. i'm just. tired. it's not worth it. this is fucking online. i have real life friends and a real life. i love amber because i fucking know her but in the end most of y'all are just a person i've met online and if you're going to hate me for this then so be it.
i'm tired i want to write, i want to be friends, but i am forced to pick sides because of dnis and it just makes me fucking upset all the fucking time.
you're allowed to want to feel safe on your blog i get it. but you're making other people feel fucking guilty and upset if we get along with someone you don't like.
( disclaimer: like actual groomers and such, fuck them but that is not 80% of what i experience so i'm fucking tired )
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impcstcrsyndrcme · 11 days ago
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The following post is a little rant about somethings that annoy me a little in the PJO rp scene (some happen in other fandoms too) or that my mind can't wrap around and make it make sense. Its just my opinion and in no form directed to anyone specific or trying to start drama, please don't start drama over silly shit. You've been warned. And i'm sorry in advance for the holy bible of a vent it is lol
✿ Honestly it makes no sense to me the idea that a young teen demigod, would be cabin leader if they don't show major responsibility and leadership skills over an older demigod that is there longer and have more experience. Honestly. And i don't mean that a younger person would not be responsible or could not be a good cabin leader, but they have to fit in the role or at least openly not like to be in it. It just don't make sense someone who basically don't care and it's 15-16 to be apointed leader.
✿ Other thing that bothers me a little is that is hard as fuck to find muses over 17... Like demigods can become adults and still be/stay at camp, honestly I believe this would be quite common for demigods that practically grew up at camp and don't have much experience outside besides missions. Of course I think after they have a serious relationship and plan to have kids that would change but I have a headcannon that someone would start a little village/residential area close to camp, so they can continue living in their comfort zone but with more privacy. Like maybe a place with smaller cabins or a building they'd go home to but once the day starts again, they go back to camp and basically work there.
✿ Also the amount of demigods from the big three. "Hey andy, this is a little hypocritical of you to say. You have demigods of all the big three" yeah, I know. Its just a little weird to see so many and this is just because on my old platform people prefer to keep them to a minimal because of the background of the books and all that.
✿ The last is how sometimes the characters appearance and powers don't seem to match their godly parents. Like, every god have a set of most common skills, traits and powers they pass along to their children, as in, most of their offspring will show them all or a mix of them. While they also have the more rare skills, traits and powers, that are EXCEPTIONS, so a small number of their children will have them. And there are also the things that they don't pass along or are not within their range or being, so it would not make sense that their children would have it. Like for example: poseidon kids will most of the times have green, or blue, eyes and dark hair. Or for Aphrodite's kids that most of the times are either romantic, sensual and/or care a lot about their appearance, also playing with others feelings. These are common traits, of course there are exceptions to every rule, but they should be that... Exceptions. If everyone are different, than are not exceptions anymore. That also includes how some gods don't have children at all for mythology/history reasons, like hera, hebe, artemis and hestia.
Okay those were fandom things that bothered me, but the following are specific roleplay things.
✿ I don't mind at all my partners age as far as interacting go, I don't have a DNI based on age only. But that being said, I wish people would put their age group on their blogs! And I don't mean the exact age, just a "minor" or "adult" or maybe "18+" or "21+" just so I (and others) know how to be respectful and act accordingly. I'll not send adult shit to minors and I would not feel good the other way around too. But it gets hard to do that if I dont know your age. "But andy, you can see the muse age..." Thats not the same! There is minors who have adult muses and adults who have minor muses. Its tricky when it don't need to be.
✿ I feel like a lot of people don't show interest in actually writing or roleplaying, this may be just a personal take, but if you constantly answer with only: "hm", "hi", "good"... Or half a dozen words that don't have any hook or action, thoughts, etc. If feels bad! It feels for me like you don't care or don't want to be there, like I'm the only one trying to write something with a meaning or an idea to keep going. It makes ME feel bad and I then drop the idea of interacting because it feels bad and pointless.
✿ This last point is just something I don't personally understand the appeal but I get that its just personal taste. I don't get the idea of a character blog, like it is still an online blog but as if the person behind it was the character writing on their computer the posts. I personally don't understand it, but thats just about me.
That was it I guess. Again, this is just a rant/vent about things from my end, its not personal or directed towards anyone specifically. Don't start drama! But feel free to comment here about it so we can discuss it, if you want to.
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radioregiaroleplays · 4 months ago
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Hello everyone! 24F looking for new partners to Hazbin Hotel RP with!
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What I'm looking for:
- Hazbin Hotel MxM pairings. (A pairing with Rosie is definetely an exception though! ♡ i love their dynamic)
Specifically with Alastor. I play as Alastor.
So things like
RadioRose
RadioApple
RadioDust
Stolas and Alastor (new interest!)
RadioHusk
RadioStatic (maybe, tbh idk lol!)
Alastor x male OC
- 21+ please! I am capable of doing ERP, and actually find that it makes it more interesting. If I suspect you're under 21, I will ignore you and block you!
- Novella/Literate/Descriptive writers! I dont mind your responses being like 3 paragraphs or so, i understand that, personally I can understand the struggles to respond, but i loathe the little rinky dink responses.
- discord *only*. Please respect this!
What i can offer:
- 10+ years roleplay experience
- multiparagraph responses
- regular responses (often daily, but i do have a full time job!)
- regular talking/ a possible friendship! I'm very friendly and typically will talk if you'd like to. Might even send you daily pictures of dogs if you so want. I am a dog groomer, after all.
- a *slight* obsession with Alastor ♡
I hope that this makes it easy for you all to come about, i look forward to hearing from you! Again, if I suspect you're are under the age you claim to be, i will not entertain you.
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leiaofrph · 7 months ago
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Tips for Indie Plotting
So you’ve started an Indie and you want to reach out to some potential partners? Or maybe you want some more partners and have seen someone you want to reach out to? These are a few tips and tricks. These are ones that I personally have found work for me (and these are things I have experienced more than once), but they may not work for everyone. So these are just some things to keep in mind, especially if you’re the one making first contact.
First things first: check if your potential partner has a rules page. Read it. An indie roleplayer’s rules aren’t just there for the fun of it. They are there to establish boundaries, and your page is a place for you to establish your own. If your rules aren’t compatible with theirs, this is not the partner for you. Boundaries are very important in creating a cohesive partnership.
Check your potential partner’s muses page. If there is information on the muse that you want to write with: read the bio. If the bio has triggers that you’re not comfortable with, they might not be a character that you want to write with. Remember that the FC is not the character.
Start by introducing yourself. It’s a little thing but I know a lot of players like to know their partners names.
Have some kind of a plot idea in mind. Don’t message them and then expect them to do all of the heavy lifting. It’s okay if you only have a vague idea that can be built on, just have some kind of idea.
If you’re approaching a multi-muse, know which character or selection of characters you would like some kind of plot with. Read their bios and see who would fit in with your plot. If you’re also a multi-muse, know who you plan to use. It makes things a hell of a lot easier for both of you.
At the same time, remember that some people have face claims that they are not comfortable roleplaying with. Look for that list before you message them so you don’t suggest someone they have banned. Also if you see your favourite FC on their banned list, don’t message them asking them to change their minds. Respect their wishes and go looking for another FC or someone else to RP with.
Some people only like interacting with multi-muse blogs, some people don’t like interacting with them at all. If you can see on their rules that they more than likely won’t roleplay with you, you will only be setting yourself up for rejection.
If your potential partner has starters open to non-mutuals, answer one. Sometimes just answering a starter can break the ice a little bit easier. This is also handy if you’re not so much a person who thrives with messaging first. So many people do not have expiry dates on their open starters.
Never ever EVER ask someone who does not know you from a bar of soap to bend their rules or change their muse for you. 
Remember that it is okay for the other player to say no. This is a hobby. Don't be rude if they say no, move on.
If you violate someone's boundaries whether intentional or not and they block you, MOVE ON. Don't make another blog to go and harass them because they did.
On the other side of it, don't let anyone shame you for having boundaries. It is okay to want to be comfortable in the RPC. I personally find writing smut uncomfortable, and cannot tell you how often people try to get me to change my mind. Don't be afraid to block.
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ruinatedregia · 3 months ago
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Hello everyone! 24F looking for new partners to Hazbin Hotel RP with!
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What I'm looking for:
-RadioApple rp!!! I play Lucifer! Looking for some Alastors! Bring it, come one come all.
- 21+ please! I am capable of doing ERP, and actually find that it makes it more interesting. If I suspect you're under 21, I will ignore you and block you!
- Novella/Literate/Descriptive writers! I dont mind your responses being like 3 paragraphs or so, i understand that, personally I can understand the struggles to respond, but i loathe the little rinky dink responses.
- discord *only*. Please respect this!
What i can offer:
- multiparagraph responses
- regular responses (often daily, but i do have a full time job!)
- regular talking/ a possible friendship! I'm very friendly and typically will talk if you'd like to. Might even send you daily pictures of dogs if you so want. I am a dog groomer, after all.
I hope that this makes it easy for you all to come about, i look forward to hearing from you! Again, if I suspect you're are under the age you claim to be, i will not entertain you.
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rphserver · 3 months ago
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WELCOME TO THE  SEVENTH ANNUAL RPH SERVER GIFT EXCHANGE 2024 !
we’re back again with the 7th annual RPH server gift exchange ! every year that the server has run this has been loads of fun and we’d love to run it again this year. if you’d like to join please feel free to join the server and fill out the form prior to november 30th 2024 as partners will be assigned on december 1st this year ! listed below are the rules as well as a list of different types of gift ideas for folks interested in participating! if you have any questions please feel free to send them in.
EXCHANGE RULES:
must join by november 30th 2024 so that partners can be assigned by the 1st of december. submit the form in the appropriate channel #giftexchangeform in server for easy access to your partner!
respect triggers and be mindful of the age of your partner, we do have some underage people within the server.
if you need to drop from the exchange please let an admin know via discord so they can remove you from the list and rework it if needed. no hard feelings will be had, they just want to be sure that everyone has a partner.
please DO NOT post any gifts until January 1st to January 10th, this will help make sure everyone has plenty of time to stagger out when they post their gifts due to the holidays during this time.
there is no official minimum amount of gifts that you need to have to participate but we do want to make sure everyone receives at least something from their wishlist, please check out the list below for possible gift ideas
all participating blogs must have the anonymous ask function switched on so that their partners can communicate with them to get gift ideas.
please tag all creations on tumblr with #rphservergifts so everyone can see the lovely creations that everyone makes for one another! you can also drop them within our resource channel so others can find them easily as well!
GIFT IDEAS:
GRAPHIC/GIF Creations: coloring PSDs, character PSDs, icons,  screencap packs, dash icons, gifs/gif Icons, manips, aesthetics, mood boards, templates, etc !
CODING: custom themes, pages, etc !
OTHER: playlists, drabbles/fics, pre-written bios, masterlists, guides, rp trailers/fan videos, ask meme starters, etc !
POSITIVITY: kind letters, random encouraging asks, ask memes, and just general positive things for them to see !
as well as anything else participating muns can dream up for their partners !
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cupidobash · 14 hours ago
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ARE YOU READY TO PARTY HEART-Y?♡
Please note: Despite the Valentine's Day theme, matches are not inherently romantic, nor will romantic plots ever be forced at any point. The aim is simply to promote fun mingling between muses. You & your RP partners can flavor interactions however you see fit. Prompts and games will also accommodate both platonic and romantic preferences. No strings attached. Go forth and be silly!
More information on Find the One! can be found here. Rules (and signups) for the games will drop when their corresponding dates near.
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Additional points we'd like to reiterate:
This event is what you make of it! We are trusting participants to pace themselves accordingly. You're free to answer asks and interact with no time limitations, though the one line we'll draw is for anything pertaining to games, as partners will depend on each other's activity to keep things moving. Muses participating in Cupid's Lovebox, Made With Love, and Spin The Bottle will be expected to prioritize those interactions until they wrap up. Please keep this in mind when signing up.
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We'd like to remind everyone to remain mindful of boundaries. If someone expresses discomfort with shipping jokes or wants to keep things strictly platonic between muses, you are expected to respect those wishes. When in doubt, check in first.
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If you're worried that your muse wouldn't sign up (but YOU would like them to) feel free to use whatever justification works best! Whether it's because the Foge & Thea have somehow managed to convince them, someone signed them up behind their back, or they simply want keep an eye on things, the world is your oyster. Did we mention there'll be free food and other various goodies?
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SIGNUPS HERE! ENDS ON FEB. 10TH AT NOON EST
For additional questions, feel free to ping/DM Sara or Neuro. We look forward to partying with y'all!
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riordanverserpdatabase · 3 months ago
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RP Community Courtesy Rules
Hello users!!! It’s come to our attention that there have been some pretty heavy controversies occurring here in our favorite place on the internet, and we wanted to try and do our part to help ease the tensions as much as we can. Let’s preface this post with a little disclaimer before we continue:
The Database is not a regulating body in the Tumblr RP Community, so these rules are merely a suggestion. We are in no way attempting to force anyone to follow them, or make any comments about those who don’t. We just want everyone to have a good time here, and figured evening out the playing field by suggesting a few courtesy rules would be a good idea. If you disagree with any of our suggestions, feel free to disregard our post!
Let’s get started!! Here’s what we have to say:
1. Respecting others, and their ideas.
With so many different people all in one place, you’re bound to see a concept or idea that you disagree with, maybe even one that upsets you. While it’s understandable that you might feel passionate about sharing that opinion (and you are allowed to) it’s important to remember that there are people on the other side of the screen reading what you have to say.
It is never okay to send hate, threats, or other negative things to a user because you don’t like their ideas.
Instead, vent privately to your friends, and block users who are making you uncomfortable so you don’t have to see the things that are bothering you.
At the same time, if you are planning on posting content that contains sensitive topics that tend to be controversial, please ensure it is properly tagged, and understand that you are likely going to make some waves. If you think it’s going to get some push back and you’re not prepared to handle it, keep it private.
2. Tagging with Courtesy
There are LOTS of ways to tag other users in our community. On pinned posts, in tag lists for starters or reblog games, and other places too. Remember that when you tag someone, especially on a pinned post, you’re connecting your accounts in a very public way.
It is usually considered rude to tag people without asking them first. If you are personal friends with them the rules become a bit more flexible, but otherwise it’s most appropriate to ask a user if they are willing to be tagged in something before you do it. This includes tag games, which some people prefer not to be included in.
Many people have a tag list, which is a list of users they’ve already got permission to tag in their posts. We love this idea!!
To aid in making this rule easier to follow, some blogs have started adding these permissions to their bios/pinned posts to make this easier.feel free to join in with us!
Tag games: yes/no
Roleplay Tags: Anyone/moots only/ask first/no thank you
3. Approaching angst carefully
Role playing difficult or sensitive topics is a great way to vent and explore, but sometimes having that directed at one of your characters directly can be a little difficult to handle.
Before starting an interaction that involves angst (such as characters fighting/venting/revealing traumatic backstories) it is polite to ask your partner if they’re comfortable.
You never know what kind of a day someone is having. This permission might change day to day, and some days it might just be a little too much. That also means this permission might change depending on what’s going on in their lives. Be patient and respectful with your Roleplay partners. Take care of them!
In addition, if you are an OC interacting with a Canon Character, and your OC had some kind of negative interaction or relationship with that canon character, understand that the person running that blog is not obligated to entertain your idea, just like you are not obligated to change your OCs backstory.
It is perfectly fine for you to disagree! It is not okay to harass someone running a canon character blog because of something they had no idea was a part of your characters backstory and had no say in creating.
4. Replies; timing and consistency
As frustrating as it may be, nobody here owes anybody else replies. No one is being paid to be here, and so no one is obligated to reply.
Replies may stop for any number of reasons, including:
- people getting busy with school/work/family
-someone becoming uncomfortable with the Roleplay
- a character’s direction changing
- someone feeling like the thread has gone on long enough
- having RP styles that are a little too different
Or even for no reason at all! If someone is not replying to you anymore, there is no need to go after them. They do not owe you, and you do not owe them! Entertain RP partners who give you the quality/speed of replies that you enjoy, and let everyone else mind their own business.
5. Replies pt. 2, the content!!
When replying to someone, the format can vary greatly from blog to blog. While there are no rules, since we are all here to have fun, here are some guidelines that make your replies easy and enjoyable to read!
Make sure that your replies are formatted so that your RP partner can tell which things are actions and which are spoken words!
Here’s an example of an unformatted reply:
Hey, did you want to share?
He smiled, holding out a bowl of candy towards you.
And here are a couple of examples of how you could more clearly format this so you can tell what’s spoken and what’s not:
“Hey, did you want to share?”
He smiled, holding out a bowl of candy towards you.
Hey, did you want to share?
He smiled, holding out a bowl of candy towards you.
“Hey, did you want to share?”
He smiled, holding out a bowl of candy towards you.
In addition to the formatting, content of replies is just as important! It is general courtesy to match the length and style of your role play partner, but it’s not necessary! You can role play any style you like.
However, role play replies should always contain TWO things: a response to the previous reply, and something for your partner to respond to!
It’s hard to respond to short or one word replies sometimes, and equally hard to respond to replies that only answer the last post and don’t continue the action. This can be really simple! Let’s do an example using Dean and Maverick:
Maverick sends a reply to Dean that reads as follows:
Maverick waved in greeting, one hand in his pocket.
“Hey Dean! It’s good to see you. Getting breakfast?”
A too-short reply to this might read like this:
“Hi Maverick!”
In this reply, Maverick’s mun is now responsible for moving the role play forward. They will have to write all the action, and carry the role play all on their own, while Dean’s mun continues responding by only reacting to the action happening in the replies.
For some people, roleplaying that way can be very draining and take the fun out of the responses.
Let’s format a reply that gives Maverick a little more to work with!
“Hi Maverick!”
Dean waved back, smiling brightly.
“Yeah I am! Do you want to come with me?”
See how in this reply, we’ve matched the length of the previous one, and given Maverick something to respond to? It doesn’t have to be a super long reply! All you have to do is give your partner something to do!
Now that you’ve made it to the bottom, we’d like to take this opportunity to remind you that these are only suggestions, and by no means are these hard rules. If you’re new to roleplaying, you may not have known that these are sort of standards of the community, and if you are having trouble getting replies and noticed that you’re doing one or more of these things, that could be the reason!
If you’d prefer to ignore this post and continue doing things the way you were, we’re more than fine to hear that! We love and support all our community members, regardless of their role play style.
We hope some people will find this post reassuring! If you have expressed discomfort with the way some of your friends are roleplaying, you are heard. Please be patient and kind!
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hells-greatestdad · 26 days ago
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Rules
Please leave a like if you've read these.
Basic need-to-knows:
The mun of this blog tends to make a lot of OOC posts. Frankly, they don't know how to stop - so if excessive OOC is an issue for you, consider not following. Some OOC posts may include mental health vents and will be tagged accordingly. (#vent cw or #negative cw)
Please reblog from source for ask memes. Please also send one in before reblogging if you can, especially if it's something like a munday meme.
Asks intended to be thread starters (usually ploted or simply via ooc discussion) will be answered on an original post to make thread trimming easier.
Ask memes turned into threads will be replied to on a separate post. A preference I've come to. (Not all attempts to make an ask meme a thread will result in continuation on my end. Please speak to me OOC if you really want me to continue it.)
Open threads are open to all and either tagged as #open or #muse status, but I reserve the right to be selective in which replies I interact with. Muse status posts involve high selectivity as I'm not fishing for replies so much with those.
OC-friendly, but please talk to mun ooc first
Default verse, at present, is defined as canon setting immediately post s1 of Hazbin Hotel. Click the red text for more info. (Portrayals and threads/interactions do not need to fall under default verse.)
Shipping & related:
This blog will primarily ship Lucifer x Lillith (also called LuciLith or sometimes fallenmelody). I by default view the LuciLith ship as overall one that contains mutual love and respect, even if there may be significant challenges. So.... please talk to me if you have something else in mind. More toxic interpretations would need to be discussed before we play. More guidelines and stuff on shipping below.
If you have a Lilith muse, you are granted autoship and may interact with my Lucifer as if they're married. But as everyone has different portrayals, I will check your pinned and rules before assuming the same.
Speaking of shipping: for romantically-themed asks or spicy themed asks, please understand you will need to either be shipping with me (as in, we've talked ooc and agreed we're a ship or at least agreed try to develop a ship), or you can DM me ooc and ask about sending one in
Tags to potentially blacklist:
While in some verses I write for, Lucifer did have sexual relations with Eve, I will never write him as cheating on Lilith. I simply don't think he would. (I will never impose this headcanon on anyone. Any and all interactions will assume that Lucifer never slept with Eve at all, unless you want to interact with that headcanon.) Interactions with Eve that reference this will be tagged as #eve hc cw for blacklist purposes
In the same vein, I have some verses connected to the above where Cain is Lucifer's biological son. This is something I will never force on any RP partners, but it is still something that will sometimes be played on this blog. Tagged as #cain au for blacklisting purposes.
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brandnewbeing · 1 month ago
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Hi, I’m Kassie! I’ve been passionately writing since I was 13 and have developed a flair for crafting immersive, detailed narratives. As a happily married mom of one, I’m only seeking long-term, story-driven roleplay partnerships��nothing more! Let’s create something unforgettable together!
🌟 What I’m Looking For 🌟
Dominant Partner – I play as a sub and prefer a partner who takes the dominant role.
Open to All Genders – Male, female, non-binary—everyone’s welcome!
Long-Term Commitment – Ongoing storylines we can grow over time.
Creative, Story-Driven Collaboration – Rich narratives and engaging character dynamics are a must.
Advanced Writers – Novella-style, detailed posts are my jam.
Patience Appreciated – Weekdays are busy, and weekends are family time.
Strictly Roleplay – Friendly OOC chats are fine, but I’m only here for roleplay.
🌟 My Rules 🌟
I know what I like, so please respect my preferences. If they’re not for you, no hard feelings!
Introduce Yourself – Tell me a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for in an RP.
Fandom Focused – I prefer roleplaying within specific fandoms (see below).
Friendly OOC – Let’s build a friendly rapport outside of the RP.
Detailed Writing – 3-6 paragraphs per reply. I can write up to 10,000 words but prefer consistency.
Clear Grammar & Spelling – Slip-ups happen, but effort is appreciated.
Plot & Brainstorming – I love bouncing ideas around to create something amazing.
Third-Person Writing – My personal preference for storytelling.
18+ Only – Both writers and characters must be adults.
No Doubling – It’s not my style, so please don’t ask.
Writing Sample Required – Show me your skills to ensure we’re a good match.
🌟 Kinks & Preferences 🌟
I enjoy exploring darker, complex, and intense themes in roleplay. Here are my primary interests:
Size Difference – Petite women paired with larger, more imposing partners.
Non-Con & Dub-Con – Open to these dynamics depending on the storyline.
Sleep Play – Exploring boundaries with trust and control.
Corruption & Manipulation – Including kidnapping and blackmail.
Mind Break – Along with themes of being drugged or drunk.
Stockholm & Lima Syndrome – Twisted relationship dynamics.
Abuse, Breeding, Begging – Adds depth to darker plots.
Masochism & Sadism – I’m into masochism, so sadistic elements are welcome when thoughtfully incorporated.
✨ For a complete list, check out my F-List here: Kasai Victoriano's F-List
🌟 Interests & Themes 🌟
I enjoy exploring darker, complex themes. Let’s dive deep into emotions and intense storylines! Here’s what I’m into:
Size Difference – Petite characters with larger partners.
Dark Themes – Non-con, dub-con, manipulation, Stockholm Syndrome, and more.
Intense Dynamics – Corruption, blackmail, mind games.
Trauma & Emotional Build-Up – Pain, heartbreak, and twisted relationships.
Character Development – Let’s break them down and build them back up.
For more detailed kinks/preferences, feel free to ask for my F-List!
🌟 Fandoms & Characters 🌟
I play as one of my female OCs in all RPs. Here are the fandoms I’m into:
Pokemon (Sun & Moon) – Guzma | Pokemon (Legends: Arceus) – Volo.
Naruto – Obito/Tobi, Kakashi.
Homestuck – Gamzee, Sollux, Mituna, and others.
One Punch Man – Genos, Sonic, Saitama.
Tokyo Ghoul – Enji Koma, Uta.
Chainsaw Man – Denji, Aki.
Soul Eater – Soul, Death the Kid.
Kaiju #8 – Kafka, Reno, Soshiro
Jujutsu Kaisen – Gojo, Geto, Nanami.
Black Clover – Zora, Yami, Nacht.
Dr. Stone – Senku, Tsukasa, Gen.
Other ideas and fandoms are always open for discussion! Let’s create a private Discord server and build our world together.
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prpfz · 2 months ago
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🌑 hello everyone! 18F, GMT, searching for some 18+ writing partners. I'm searching for either fandomless, or fandom plots - I will explain what I mean by this. But just to get it out there quickly - I may not always be the most active person. I never leave it more than two weeks without replying and can often reply at least once per day, more so depending on length and how engaged I am with the plot. I am also autistic which can factor into this. With that being said, let's get into what I'm looking for!
What I'm interested in: double ups, whether oc x cc or oc x oc doubles, which is where the fandomless comes in. If you play a character for me, I will in turn play a character for your oc. I will also do any necessary research if I am unfamiliar with your chosen character. However, for oc x oc doubles, if you make/use an oc with a faceclaim of my choice then I will make/use an oc with a faceclaim of your choice.
The only thing I won't rp is anime, including faceclaims or any ai media. This is genuinely just because I am not a fan of anime. Sorry!
I will do any plot or setting that you want for your side of things, I expect the same thing for my end. I will be respectful of your triggers, I want the same in return. That being said, here are a few things that I may be interested in for my side of things! I'm open for discussion, and I encourage it!
Interests: omegaverse, apocalypse, mafia, medieval aus, fantasy settings and college settings.
These are just some examples. PLEASE be okay with a trans oc, seeing as my oc is ftm. The pairing I want for my side of things is mxm, but I am willing to do any pairing for your side of things.
I use discord primarily for writing, but can use tumblr. I do also have experience in tupper if you are interested in this. So, if this request is something that interests you, drop this a like and I will get back to you as soon as possible. Thank you!
give a like and anon will get back to you
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