#radical feminist do interact

[freyasfatale]

Is it possible as a woman to live a life free of men wanting to terrorize you?

[feminist-diary]

Why do the standards of human health differ for women? They know that having sex you don’t want every day to survive isn’t healthy. They know that cultures where women’s bodies are highly controlled aren’t healthy. They know that a woman changing her appearance through surgery doesn’t come from good mental health.

They know how degrading and painful all of this shit is. They know that this causes pain. If someone imagines a man being put into these positions, they would sense the inherent horror of it. It’s just that they think women deserve it, that this is woman’s position in society. It’s too normal, the suffering women are put through, for people to recognize its wrongness. But it’s also so normal that I ask, how can you not recognize it?

Why do you view women’s pain differently? Are women not human enough for our pain to matter? Why are you being intentionally obtuse, denying the truth you know deep down?

Patriarchy demands that you deny truth. Feminism reveals truth. Within feminism, there is nothing to hide.

[freyasfatale]

It was being the manic pixie dream girl for me.

“She’s so different and crazy but she’s beautiful — and when I don’t need to her to remind me that life is worth living and it’s okay to be different, I’m going to abandon her because I would never date a crazy whore, I will only fuck her.”

Being a successful Cool Girl is a surefire gateway to absolutely hating men. Wannabe Cool Girls, the women and girls who keep trying to be the Cool Girl but don’t quite get there, don’t realize that the Cool Girl endgame is men genuinely assuming that you’ll be down with misogyny and letting you see things that will traumatize you forever. I was a good Cool Girl for a very brief period, and it’s absolutely what radicalized me. I wish every woman knew the shit that men said to me and in front of me about them. I tried to find all the girls I had names for online to tell them the truth, and I still feel guilty, 6 years later, about the ones I couldn’t locate.

A guy proudly sent me dozens of different nudes that he was secretly screenshotting from Snapchat with some sketchy app. “How is a fat girl like a bicycle? It’s fun to ride until your friends see.” Did you know that nearly every man uses some degree of incel terminology to talk about women? “Bros before hoes” isn’t a joke - men have the strongest class solidarity I’ve ever seen in my fucking life; a man will defend another man that he hates, another man that he’s never even met, over pretty much any woman. Most men genuinely believe that women think totally differently than they do, that women are confusing liars and that’s why relationships don’t work out. Your “feminist ally” male friends and coworkers are calling you a feminazi cunt while they drink beer, and it means nothing to them. Men discuss porn like they’re phD art historians analyzing the design of a Renuar.

Most importantly, the very, very few men who aren’t like this, who didn’t actually say sexist things or talk shit about women - they never stood up to the other men. Ever. When men are alone with their bros and the Cool Girls, the “good men” still don’t say a fucking word in defense of women. If you’re the Cool Girl and you say something, you’re immediately excommunicated forever, and the “good man” texts you later to say he agreed and he’s sorry, but he doesn’t stand up for you. He knew the whole time that the moment you opened your mouth all the other men would add you to the hatable female category, and he’s not gonna risk it happening to him. And guess what? Even before you say anything, even when you’re still the Cool Girl, the guys are talking about you the same way they talk about other women when you’re not around. I heard them do it to the other Cool Girls.

[freyasfatale]

I’m so tired of seeing women constantly defend male gynecologists and shit on female ones. This is another rebranded form of internal misogyny and male worship AGAIN. Every time a woman posts “I don’t feel comfortable with men as gynos”, women FLOCK to defend male doctors. Why?

Males should not be OB/GYNS, and honestly, even pediatricians. Yeah sorry, I don’t want the sex most responsible for rape and CSA to be my or my child’s doctor.

OB/GYN and midwifery is a WOMANS field. It always has been, always should be, hence why I’m entering the field. To push the males out. There are several other forms of practice they can do in the medical field.

[freyasfatale]

This is why I don’t give a fuck when people say it’s mean for me to want all those with a Y chromosome to do forced military service and die in war. Because now they’re wasting all our resources to go on the internet and say pedophilic shit like this.

[kkoffin]

an abused wife of the 1700s who’s birthed 16 children and has not been allowed to leave the house for the last 7 years will write in her diary “i am cursed to be a woman. i wish i were a man, so i could be free, and i wouldn’t always be pregnant, aching, and i could explore, see the world, and learn. why did god forsake me with this body?” and you’ll search her name on tumblr and get “he was such a transmasc legend!! trans people have always existed! proof is right here! he suffered because he wanted to transition so bad 😔 this is why gender transition must be a human right, and deadnaming should be illegal. stupid TERFs, complaining about sex-based oppression. that doesn’t even exist.”

[reincarnatedvaleriesolanas]

I fucking ADORE it when women PEAAAAAKKKKK and speak their truth. The fact that i saw this on tiktak restored my faith in humanity

[freyasfatale]

I’m actually so fed up with diddy jokes. Why is what this male did so funny. He raped people. He sex trafficked people including kids. How is that funny and why is it being made a joke.

drop the nukes, blow up the sun. I’m over it.

boys are allowed to spew the most misogynistic shit but god forbid you show them what theyre actually advocating for

[virtualcremefem]

[yapoholics-anonymous]

[xxchromies]

I don't really care if rapists can be rehabilitated or not, they don't deserve to be.

[aalexan]

Of course you feel disconnected from your gender it’s quite literally a made up set of rules based on stereotypes

[fishnanigans]

[freyasfatale]

being careless of male validation has brought me to a point of extreme happiness and freedom.

I am a sex trafficking/work survivor. I am a domestic violence survivor. Unfortunately, my rape is on the internet many times over.

when I had to return to my hometown at 19 after being trapped for 6 months in that industry, I was not welcomed in my patriarchal, Christian West Virginia small town. I was humiliated, harassed, and shamed for years. constantly being told no man would ever love me or want me, that I was a used car, ran through, more dicks in me than years of my life, as well as ignored, fetishized, preyed upon, etc by men used to haunt me. This was when I cared about being a wife and mother to a man and his children.

Through radical feminism and the community, I no longer care. I found a community of women who understand what I went through and believe me, and who know that the oppression of my sex is why I endured such trauma. So when a man tells me “you did porn, who would want to be with you”, like my abusive ex did, it means nothing to me. My worth is more than whether or not men want to date or fuck me. I do not wish to marry or bear children to a man. I am free.

And by the way, not sure why the moids are both so obsessed with penetration while neglecting the fact that lesbians exist, and I am one.

[freyasfatale]

Yep!! I went to the hometown bar this weekend, tell me why it was a gay man who brought up “is it true you did porn?” Just casually bringing up a horribly tragic event in my life that happened 7 YEARS AGO. Yeah I was sex trafficked and raped. Thanks for asking!

my friend was all “he’s gay he didn’t mean it to be mean”. It doesn’t matter. Gay men can be misogynists. They don’t get a pass because they don’t want to rape us. Sometimes us being raped is funny to them, or it’s not that serious.

Gay men forget that they're still men sometimes lmfao. Talk about girls who want a gay bestie like women are your main enemy, but have you heard the way gay men talk about women? Literally look anywhere with a popular female celebrity who has a large gay following. Bffr 😭 they love her for a good 5 seconds then shes a slut and a whore or her body hasnt been the same since she went through pregnancy or shes a bitch who doesnt want to be stepped on and treated like a puppy. Men are men are men are men. You may not be raping women, but you still treat women and the female body like a doll to pose and gawk at and then dispose of

- a bisexual woman

[realist-fortheloveofwomen]

The social coercion women face to date people they’re not attracted to is fucking insane. I remember distinctly thinking “well, I can just force myself to be attracted to him…”

Films, books, etc, all show the trope of beautiful woman and unattractive man. There is still the myth that an unattractive man will treat you better than an attractive one (more women are waking up to this, but still). Even now the left thinks that activism happens between the legs of women.

Don’t date people you’re not attracted to. Don’t feel guilty for not giving them the time of day. No means no.