yapoholics-anonymous

[yapoholics-anonymous]

Most things we label as “gender dysphoria” are just things about being female that objectively suck.

Recognizing that it sucks to be physically smaller and weaker, to cry easier, to menstruate isn’t a sign that “you’re not supposed to be a woman”.

Every woman feels like that to some extent.

[yapoholics-anonymous]

We have a double standard, which is to say, a man can show how much he cares by being violent -- see, he's jealous, he cares -- a woman shows how much she cares by how much she's willing to be hurt; by how much she will take; how much she will endure.

Andrea Dworkin

[yapoholics-anonymous]

“it’s another culture, be respectful” idgaf 💀 if it’s oppressive to women, it’s a problem, i don’t care if it’s ur customs. girls having to cover themselves, not being allowed to go to school, being violated, not being allowed to be heard, literally being all around disrespected but you expect me to just be cool about it because “it’s culture”.

women do not deserve to be treated as lesser than in the name of anything. idc if it’s your religion, i don’t care if it’s tradition, it’s a bunch of bullshit.

[yapoholics-anonymous]

i will keep calling it women’s health because my health matters more than your self hatred and delusions

[yapoholics-anonymous]

it’s possible for consensual sex to be unhealthy. it is possible for sex to be both consensual and bad for you. sex can manifest as a method of self harm. you do not have to feel positively about all of your sexual experiences and consensual sex does not have to be unilaterally praised and upheld. sometimes the sexual experiences we seek out are unhealthy for us, and it’s good to acknowledge that.

[yapoholics-anonymous]

it is so funny in the age of andrew tate where social media is legitimately unusable because of the sheer volume of men who have made it their actual hobby to harass and insult and demean women online. the other day i saw a video of a 13 year old softball pitcher, and the video was her just absolutely killing it, 10 strikeouts. and the comments section was entirely full of grown men mocking her for her weight and her appearance. i have literally seen videos where women are posting their outfits for their female audience and there are random men in the comments calling her ugly or mid or a slut or whatever. like actually everywhere. meanwhile women are obsessed with extolling the virtues of short men and pudgy men and even arguing for dating men you don’t even find attractive because they’re “funny.” men never ever do that for women and certainly not so much so that it’s trending. meanwhile school administrators are ringing the alarm about just how many boys are watching andrew tate and other male influencers and how it is making them treat their female peers even worse. women joke about getting an ick, but men have made so many womanhating podcasts even male comedians are making fun of it

[yapoholics-anonymous]

The Five Love Languages has cooked our generation. Wow you’re a straight couple and the man’s love language is physical touch (sex) and the woman’s love language is acts of service (waiting on him hand and foot)? Revolutionary.

[yapoholics-anonymous]

proud hater of the 5 love languages.

touch? just being horny

acts of service? being a good partner

quality time? you should already want to spend time with your partner...

words of affirmation? necessary for communication, worthless without follow through and action

gifting? same as words of affirmation, just with jewelry instead of platitudes

The Five Love Languages has cooked our generation. Wow you’re a straight couple and the man’s love language is physical touch (sex) and the woman’s love language is acts of service (waiting on him hand and foot)? Revolutionary.

[yapoholics-anonymous]

he needs to die

[yapoholics-anonymous]

your name is kinda terrifying

Not more terrifying than a man's search history.

[yapoholics-anonymous]

It’s impossible for trans people to be in favor of gender abolition. Their identities are based on traditional gender norms staying the way they are.

Trans women don’t want cis women to stop acting and dressing in a traditionally “feminine” manner. Trans women don’t want cis women to be liberated from the oppression that causes them to spend hours picking out clothes, doing their hair, and putting on makeup.

Because if cis women stopped doing those things, everyone would understand that womanhood is not defined by those things. If cis women stopped doing those things, everyone would see how different trans women are, whose performance of those rituals is the only proof they have of their so-called “innate womanhood”.

It would all fall apart if cis women stopped performing patriarchal femininity.

[yapoholics-anonymous]

they're telling on themselves

"I can't wait to be sexually harassed"?????

[yapoholics-anonymous]

"i 'have' penis repulsion" as a reword for 'being' a lesbian just makes it sound like not liking men is a condition/negative choice instead of a sexuality that isn't a choice.

Yes, you heard that right, lesbians. If you’re not coddling trans-identified males, you’re just a bigot.

[yapoholics-anonymous]

it becomes "more" when men say it is desirable

[yapoholics-anonymous]

sometimes I really do snap myself back into perspective with the realization that I'm a very small fraction of women in the world who have these freedoms in 2024

[yapoholics-anonymous]

if you see a woman driving poorly it’s sexist to assume that it’s because she’s a woman. maybe she’s still learning. maybe she’s doing it on purpose because she’s an asshole. maybe she feels entitled to the road. maybe she’s going to die soon and she had vehicular manslaughter on her bucket list. maybe she has a car crash fetish

[yapoholics-anonymous]

"no transphobia" and "decanter men" in the same sentence is crazy cognitive dissonance.

bringing 4b to mainstream liberal feminists was a mistake that we will see unravel in the next couple of months

We made a huge mistake by introducing 4b movement to these moronic American liberal feminists. I think just encouraging them to separate themselves from the males would have been enough. And gradually we could have introduce them to each aspect of the 6b4t. Now look at them ruining the hard work and sacrifices of South Korean women. I am certain there will come a time when american liberals will take the entire credit for the 4b movement shoving SK women aside just like they did with feminism. We shouldn’t let them do this! We need to take back 4b from them before they take it from us and ruin it.