#r: cousins

[shipcestuous-two]

Recently I noticed my cousin getting closer to me and treating me very kindly. coming to our house more, spending the night in my room and changing her clothes in front of me without any shame. Yesterday she asked a very important question about my personal hygiene, the method, the duration and private things... which made my suspicions increase that she is inclined to sleep with girls a lesbian. I will not hide from you that I am not a lesbian girl... but I was a little attracted to her way. I felt in her embrace an unusual hug between two girls and she was trying to touch my body... while her sister is a normal girl. I have some questions: If something happened between me and her as an experiment, is it easy to stop it, meaning it would only be once? Second, if I prevent it from happening again, what are the consequences? Third, through her conversation with me without any shame she is very bold. Does this mean that I am not ready for that? Fourth, when we went to a camp together, she treated me as if I were her daughter. Even the rest of our friends said, “What is happening between you?” But in a funny way. Does this mean anything? Fifth, when I went to spend the night with her, she said to me, “If you want to take a shower, leave your clothes and I will give you clean underwear!” My mind is really confused. She was not like that, even she did not see any part of my body to want more, for example I am very shy by nature. I am hesitant to enter into a lesbain relationship, but I would like to try it. I have heard, watched, and read a lot about incestuous relationships. They are exciting and have a different character and feeling, but what next? I have many questions inside my mind that I am looking for logical answers to not justifications for doing so. I hope you understand what I mean.. and I hope you can help me from your experience which is actually very broad compared to mine.. I remembered a situation that happened between me and her. I was in the fitting room buying a dress and then she brought me a bikini and she said try it on now in the fitting room I did and try it but she told me to take off my underwear and try one more time!!! I told her no. Finally, I want you to advise me on something to do according to your experience. I feel a lot of pressure while facing this alone!! I am 19 years old and she is 21 years old. I am happy that I have found a page like this that answers from a position of broad experience in the field. I was going to send the same message privately but you hesitate a little to ignore me, I am still waiting to know your opinion and whether I should try it or not. I am afraid of the consequences or maybe I don’t like it. I never imagined I would be a lesbian. but you reply is every thing to me.

Hi Anon,

I'm sorry, but I have no experience and I cannot advise you. It's important to me that this is not seen as an advice blog or a confession blog. This is a shipping blog. Occasionally I post stories that others have shared, but I don't have answers. But I sympathize with your situation and I understand that you're having difficulty making a decision. I would caution you not to take "yes or no" advice from anyone online, as they cannot know the full context of the situation.

In some cultural contexts, an experimental relationship with a cousin is not unusual. On the other hand, if her feelings are more than casual, or the reverse ends up being true, one of you could end up hurt, or it could go badly in some other way, which could have long-lasting consequences because you're family.

It sounds like you're not sure what you want. That's not something anyone else can tell you. Try imagining/remembering what you wanted me to say. That might help. Or flip a coin. Often that will reveal what you're actually hoping for.

If you do go for it, be honest with her about your uncertainties and your questions. If you're afraid to ask her things or tell her things, you might not be ready.

Good luck, Anon.

[knockknockwhosthereartistism]

Little creatures

[amezsu]

My first gintama doodles (shinpachi’s averageness is so average it actually makes him harder for me to draw)

[mohntilyet]

okay this is actually just bias now so before you read what i have to say i did warn you. yes illario would never be able to beat lucanis at being a crow or an assassin but you know what he would beat him at. being a lord of fortune. hold my hand as i take you through my mind palace and introduce to you my ideal post-game vision for illario dellamorte

[6okuto]

🧺 #24: "sitting together for a road trip" with kenma for @dira333 from my fruits basket ! :3

dira this is so good for a friends to lovers plot..

akaashi’s volunteered to drive for this next portion of the trip, so kuroo and bokuto are free to click through a dozen songs to sing along to. they’re loud, and sometimes wrong which earns a snort or remark from you and kenma behind them. but their spirits are high and no teasing keeps their attention for long– not with another catchy pre-chorus coming up.

kenma shoots you a sidelong glance. between your seats, there’s a blanket with a bag of snacks nestled in the middle. you feel his gaze and turn to look at him, and he says…something, but his friends are still singing, and you can’t quite hear.

you furrow your brows and he sighs (not forgetting to frown at the back of kuroo’s head as if it would deter him) before leaning in closer. you mirror his movement, and you’re close enough you could bump foreheads if you wanted.

“sorry.”

“for what?”

“...seriously?”

you quietly laugh. “it’s okay, this has been fun.”

“we haven’t even gotten to where we’re staying yet.”

“so?”

kenma blinks at you, looks between your smile and the three others ahead of you. “...okay. but if they get too loud, tell me and we can kick the back of their seats together.” and he smiles for maybe the third time since the karaoke session started when you laugh and agree.

and !! at some point he catches you watching him game, so you both lean over the blanket and snacks again so you can get a better view. but it gets a little uncomfortable, and you’re both shifting every few minutes to avoid bags of chips and a box of cereal from jabbing your side. so at the next rest stop, you switch places with the blanket and move to sit beside him instead—

“if that’s okay with you? or i can hold the snacks if you still wanna grab them.” you offer.

but kenma shakes his head and reassures you, “no, it’s okay, this is a lot easier anyway.”

and sitting next to each other is nothing out of the ordinary—you’ve done this plenty of times out of the confines of a van’s backseats. but it’s a few hours in and you’re getting sleepy, and you register too late (and barely at all) that the pillow you had against the window is no longer in reach, so your head falls the only other direction there is,

right onto kenma’s shoulder.

and despite being so so close to hitting a new high score after dozens of attempts, he can only be glad he had his earphones in so the others didn’t hear the “game over” that follows embarrassingly fast afterward.

[silusvesuius]

ur Basic

[hiphopcherrrypop]

save me bottle blond bass player

[angelmush]

sweaters of 2024 so far !! a creamy white ribbed cardigan w pearl buttons for my loveeee, a mottled seaglass green turtleneck for myself, and a THICK woolen midnight blue cable sweater w little starry speckles

[zarnzarn]

y'all think Penelope pulled a "if it weren't for the baby" peeta mallark style on everyone present there to marry odysseus or

[so-very-small]

“I don’t want to do this.”

“C’mon, you know weddings are fun! You’ll be fine.”

“It’s not the actual shindig that’s the issue; it’s the traveling four states over to get there. That drive is gonna take me like, twelve hours. Be glad you’re a borrower and don’t have to travel for cousins’ weddings.”

“Dude, you’re joking, right? Last year my brother had a destination wedding, two blocks down the street at that house with the big birdbath. It took me three weeks to travel there. I had to fight a CHIPMUNK.”

“Goddamn.”

“I wish I could have drove. The birdbath pool party reception ruled, though.”

“Oh, nice. Open bar?”

“Tinies don’t do that. It was Open Bottle. One open bottle of rum, and we were thriving.”

“Fuck yeah.”

[jackshiccup]

who else beefing with their cousins like this

[ihaventsleptsince2007]

ik a lot of the talk abt hurricane helene has been about florida, but pls keep boone nc in your thoughts as well. pretty much all communication is unavailable, 911 is down, and landslides and stuff have barred people from leaving. </3

[kittchan]

i think it’s only right to let your cousin finger you behind the garage during a family get together. you only see each other like twice a year.

[bluestarjay]

The Bakugous are def the type of family that got a newborn puppy at the same time katsuki was born, so they would grow up together. Idk what breed, but like, I love the concept of them having a dog it's so sweet. Bonus points if since it's technically katsukis dog, he named it, so it has a ridiculous cutesy name or smth, like "Mr fluffy" or some basic ass name like marshmallow or oreo 💀💀💀 OR HE NAMED IT AFTER ALL MIGHT LMAOAO when All Might and Aizawa visited the bakugous to talk abt dorms, mitsuki is like, "All Might, Aizawa, this is my husband Masaru, and that adorable little shithead right there is, ah, named All Might. Katsuki named him when he was quite young,,,," and then he's screaming at her to shut up bc that's embarrassing, but all might is 🥰🥰🥰 "You named your puppy after me, young bakugou? How thoughtful! I'm so honored!!" And All Might the dog loves deku more than katsuki, and on the rare occasion that deku visits, all might the dog is jumping on him and giving him sm love and attention and bakugous like, "you can't just steal my fucking dog, nerd ☹️" their dog takes after masaru the most bc it's the sweetest dog you'll ever meet, like, if someone broke in the dog would lick the intruder kind of friendly. Deku's apartment doesn't allow pets, so he had pet bugs for a while, but he never told his mom he was keeping them, so she was understandably terrified when she found a bugs in his room, even if they were contained, so then he got a pet rock. Yes, a pet rock. He was really lonely in middle school,,,, but anyways, deku seems like the kind of guy that would have a pet praying mantis. Ngl, I could see either one of them owning a pet tarantula. Bakugo would have a pet snake, too. He found a snake in the woods and took it home to his parents, and they made him release it, but they agreed he could have a pet snake if he promised to take care of it, so then he got it, and then invited deku over to see. Deku thought it was gonna be a nice little thing as bakugo had already started bullying him at that point, and thought he was gonna be his friend again, but instead, bakugo made him watch as he fed the snake a mouse 🥰🥰 deku was traumatized,,,

[transthadymacdermot]

So it turns out that if you want to have medically concerning lesbian sex with your socially outcast situationship you can actually just do it but refuse to talk about it or touch your emotions with a 10km pole ever so you don't have to process anything and it's not a sin anymore. this hypocritical irish catholic purity culture shit is EASYYYYY

[atopvisenyashill]

i’m not trying to bully anyone but i need everyone to REREAD THE BOOKS bc the vale cousins are BROUGHT UP BY CATELYN first of all and second of all VERY INFAMOUSLY,,,, NED’S SIBLINGS ALL GOT FUCKED IN A WAR OF COURSE THERE ARENT ANY STARK COUSINS like i say this as someone who has a whole graphic and meta planned out about how it’s so weird there isn’t a recent cadet stark house, but ned very much has first and second cousins, they are just female line, so he’s not close to them. it’s ✨the patriarchy✨that makes it so jocelyn and branda’s children are not considered ~part of the stark family~ anymore thus making it harder for Ned to rebuild the family,,, like yes some of this is George just not wanting to juggle even MORE characters but to lob this criticism at THIS SERIES SPECIFICALLY and then to defend it with “well that’s how the writer wanted it” as if there’s not in universe reasons explaining all this!!!!!

IM BEGGING EVERYONE TO REREAD THE TEXT