#queer platonic fiction other

[mycurseisramattra]

dear selfshippers who struggle with intrusive thoughts,

your f/o would never judge you for your intrusive thoughts or talking about them and getting them off your chest!

if something were to happen and you had to indulge in them, your f/o would be there to help you in any way you need without any judgment; they know mental health is hard, it's okay, they're a safe space!

pro/com shippers + rpf + those who age up canonical minors romantically: please dni and don't steal my posts, you can copy with credit, idc, just please don't steal them

[bendy113]

bendy and jevil if they were in fnf ig idk

been trying to finish this for days despite some things, but hey i did it yay

i'm kinda proud of it tbh.

bonus:

and the og pic, yes it was from friday night bloxxin on roblox lol

[incesthemes]

"their relationship is romantic" "their relationship is familial" "their relationship is platonic" you're thinking too narrow. their relationship goes beyond labels. the family is inherently queer. their platonic love is romantic. the erotic is familial. each one is the other and the other is them

[monstrousvoice]

Sometimes I see posts about how having Alastor being in a relationship means its "taking away" his ace rep...and I swear I feel a little part of myself die of frustration.

Yall know that ace people (and yes aro people too) can find connection with someone that isnt based on sex, right? Yall know that we can agree to being in a relationship with someone with a romantic label because we care deeply for that person and it would make them happy, right? Yall know that we can even have sex and one night stands and get married and any other such things because while being aro/ace means we don't feel attraction, it doesnt mean we cant still enjoy those activities, right?

yall know that sexuality is fluid and that its not a one size fits all type of deal, right?

From,

A tired ace/aro person who just wants to enjoy bonking her favorite fictional characters together.

[morningstar-chronicles]

so. i looked into it and i think i might be on the ace and aro spectrums? i didn't think i was but now i'm confused... i was just tryna google what myrromantic meant after @thesunnishboy came out i didnt think i'd like. identify with anything on the page 😭

[tastee-selfshipping]

You're so lovely

PART 1 of the list of F/O's that have tags! this starts with the romantic F/O's! the second part will come soon

PART 1: you're here! PART 2: it's over there! QUEER PLATONIC: over here, silly!

this is inspired by @rhiatargoed-selfships post! I recommend checking out their blog and reading their boundaries, they're a really cool person!

all I ask is that you respect me, that is all :3

let's start shall we?

(most dividers are all made by someone else; I can't really remember what accounts I got these from, please remind me who!)

𝑅❀𝑀𝒜𝒩𝒯𝐼𝒞 𝐹/💮'𝓈

[FUNDAMENTAL PAPER EDUCATION; MISS CIRCLE] [TAGLINE; 1 + 1 = me and you!]

"You're my favorite person, my wifey, my lovely!" Miss Circle would say to me and I will honestly make her the bestest oreo cakes I can!

yes she's a murderer of students but I have a feeling she feels bad deep inside, just that her carnivorous urges take control better of her!!

I'm her little pogchamp by default hah- /silly

she'd definitely help me with math in college, maybe be a bit more patient with me. she'll get annoyed but she'll just use her available claw to give me a tickle attack heheh :3c

[FUNDAMENTAL PAPER EDUCATION; MISS BLOOMIE] [TAGLINE; what a chemistry!]

Miss Bloomie is a huge tsundere when it comes to her feelings but she's so soft I believe, I love her design she's so silly! look at her!

"darling, please stop gushing about me" she'd probably say if I was talking about her to others tehee :3 she's just so precious, I'd hate to see her sad, I'd hug her!!

will need her to biology class in my future university oh goodness!! but I'm sure she's as patient as can be

[REGRETEVATOR; WALLTER] [TAGLINE; improvised concrete]

"Dear, I messed up my last love. I won't ruin it this time, please trust me when I say I'm glad you came and knocked some sense into me. I needed that. where were you when I needed someone like you?" my dear wallter you're stupid but you're also very handsome

I'd definitely hate he's like- in some sense an alcoholic- will force him into therapy and try to stop him from buying anymore grey stuff, even if it meant hurting him. it's for his good, I won't let him go to waste dudes-

I love him very much but it can be tiring it seems.

[REGRETEVATOR; MANNEQUINN MARK] [TAGLINE; treehouse lovers]

"I didn't get him any flowers...I feel bad now cause now I don't really get you any either, even if you loved flowers darlin'.." poor Mark tried his best in his last love, I'll be sure to be as patient with him as I can cause he deserved that-

I'm very forgetful too- I can relate to him forgetting to give gifts, I'll be a little sad but I don't wanna blame him too much. I'm just grateful he's my love is all.

but loving him can- also be a little tiring- him being so depressed over Wallter a lot can hurt but at least he loves me!

[REGRETEVATOR; PEST] [TAGLINE; you stole my heart too]

he's grumpy, he's another tsundere. he is awkward when it comes to love and much like the other two CAN be tiring to love, he can be such an ass!

but I know he tries and shows his love in his own ways, like trusting me in hugging him or other things! (and maybe even not stealing my money!) he bakes with me and I'll cook with him, were a duo, partners in crime!

he's an ass but he's my ass.

[REGRETEVATOR; MACH] [TAGLINE; banhammer and warhammer]

she's a poker face stoic woman but I love her either way <33 she's handsome, pretty, beautiful, hot, AND SHE'S A GOOD WIFE!

one I don't think I'd get tired of loving, she would definitely treat me right. I love her very much, my wife :3

she's very silly, she gets a little confused of what to do sometimes but she's getting the hang of it

probably asks me what I saw in her and I'd ask her the same question back hahah!

[REGRETEVATOR; FOLLY] [TAGLINE; nightmares' little toy]

yes she brings suffering onto others but like lampert I put the uno reverse in this dynamic

yes it hurts what she says but I'll admit it and say "yeah it is what it is" and she'll go "what- but-"

overtime I somehow make her laugh heheheheh, I'm very happy to make her happy!

it probably isn't too tiring to love her, I'm her little exception when it comes to nightmares, she'd kill for me like Mach would!

would also ask what I saw in her heehehe

[FNF VS IMPOSTOR; BLACK] [TAGLINE; I'd kill for you]

self explanatory, he's a heartless killer but I'll definitely make his own heart beat again!! I'd be willing to adopt Grey with him too- I don't mind being an adoptive mum to someone! I'll be upset and scold him for killing his father but what can I do?

his backstory is also very sad, yes I know he's ruthless now but he wasn't before! maybe deep inside he misses that part of himself, and he shows that

he treats me very softly :3

[FNF VS IMPOSTOR; MONOTONE] [TAGLINE; I'm the doctor! I'm the patient!]

he's a gentleman, a man who'd kiss my hand and he would give me a bouquet of flowers along with a heart shaped box of chocolates as gifts to me and I'd love how cheesy it is! cheesy but endearing and I love it! I'm a sucker for cheesy cliche stuff when it's in the right moments!

he's lovely as a hubby hehe <33

[FNF VS GOREFIELD/LUMPYTOUCH; GODFIELD/OPHIUCHUS GOREFIELD] [TAGLINE; my divine mortal]

he was just minding his business his whole life, a gentle soul who was treated with a harsh fate. all he wants is to make a world where no one gets to suffer and I understand that, he would only bring those worthy enough in his eyes to his world to rebirth them

but I'm an exception, he sees me as a flawed little human, but I was HUMAN, his little human he laid eyes upon.

he'd be a gentleman as well, would probably spoil me heheheh

[FNF VS GORFIELD V2/LUMPTOUCH; SANSFIELD] [TAGLINE; kitty puns]

I used to be a sans fangirl I think, except I never had a channel made for that hahah- I have no interest in sans much anymore but for some reason this guy just gets me yaknow? maybe it's because he makes me laugh and he's just very goofy, chill in a sense. or maybe I just like laidback guys

either way, his cuddles are soft! and he would get me echoflowers filled with him complimenting me because it's cute and cause he felt like it! I love this goofy fella, he makes me laugh <33

[FNF VS BOB; BOB] [TAGLINE: Blob and I]

silly guy, I love the silly fella...

Bob is probably the most cracked up fella but he's also very sweet and loyal! (I'm his wife guys trust /silly), smooching and mwas his forehead

his creepy side doesn't scare me at all, in fact, it impresses and shocks me. I know he wouldn't hurt me and he does his best in showing his love to me even if he's a dumbass with it :3

[ROBLOX PRESSURE; SEBASTIAN SOLACE] [TAGLINE: Be gentle with yourself love]

my poor man has been through so much, his anger and resentment is justified and how he's treated is not fair :( I'd go as to say I will never flash him, One; that's mean and Two; I want to save my flashes

maybe that's why he got out of his way to get me items he knew I'd like; gummylights, blacklights, a flash beacon, medkits, or maybe even a code breacher! maybe it's cause I visit him and talk with him like an old friend is why he treats me softly too, rather than mocking me in a way to be mean, he just playfully teases me and welcomes me with a warm smile!

I'll get him out somehow and someday I promise :')

[ristictistic]

Pov you wish you were married to a fictional robot, also I made all that info up on the spot or looked it up bc this is a pretty recent thing

(Were in a queer platonic relationship fr)

[stanfordpinesenbyhusband]

Do you and Calvin live together? What was the rest of the characters reactions to you and Calvin dating? Are there any specific headcanons you have? On a scale from 1 to 100 how silly are you both?

Alex originally had their own place but eventually just slowly moved in with calvin so yeah they live together

Okay so I feel like bob's reaction would be honestly a bit concerned because he knows how fischoeder is and feels a bit weird about the age difference between them (alex is in their 30s and calvin is like 60-70) linda finds them cute and is happy that she was able to get them together I haven't really thought about what gene and louise reactions would be really (probably asking some questions that would be really awkward for an adult to answer) tina ships them and felix honestly didn't like alex at first but did eventually warm up to them

Calvin doesn't like talking or thinking about his eye and will quickly change the subject if it's brought up and will get angry if you don't drop it with alex being the only person he's really ever opened up to about it like he ended up crying in alex's arms

Idk about me really but I do know that calvin is really silly :3

Pro.ship/com.ship/neutral dni

[lilywily143]

MY VOLUNTEER HOURS ARE FINALLY DONE!!!

And i got period cramps the moment I got home, so great

But here is me celebrating with my F/Os /qp

Lilly: I FINSHED MY HOURS!!

N: That's amazing!

L: Cramps!!!!

@zombytommy @lovelyheartclover if you wanted to see

[bendy113]

yeah so there's this one trend on twitter/X for self shippers and i had to do something.

no regrets tbh-

here's the og pic it's actually so fkin cursed yet the trend was funny, at least mine is a bit better.

[ifeelfreewithoutmyshoes]

I think… that I’m just gonna wallow a bit about this season and then do what I did when wayward son came out: ignore it’s existence until part three comes out with a happy ending

[skys-archive]

I think in honor of pride month and also in general forever we should stop trying fit queer people into the identities we think they should call themselves.

And I know no one is going to see this because no one ever does but I'm going to talk about it anyway because this is important.

Bisexual doesn't mean you don't date trans people, it doesn't mean you like men and women, it doesn't mean you can't have a preference. Someone can identify as polysexual or bisexual or omnisexual and have no preference and you don't get to say that that means they're pansexual. Because no, if they don't identify as pansexual then they're not pansexual.

Transmasc doesn't mean you use he/him pronouns. It doesn't mean you identify as a man. Transfem doesn't mean you use she/her pronouns. It doesn't mean you identify as a woman. You can be nonbinary or genderqueer or agender or any gender that isn't binary and not use they/them pronouns. You can use any of those labels and still identify as a man or a woman. You can use different pronouns than is typically used for your birth sex and not consider yourself transgender. People can be gender non conforming and not he trans. People can be trans and not gender non conforming.

A trans man can be fem. A trans woman can be masc. Nonbinary people don't owe you androgyny. Intersex people don't owe you androgyny. Intersex people are people, they deserve way more attention than a way to one up transphobes. Intersex people face discrimination and body altering surgeries without their consent and then are only ever talked about to say "some cis women have penises" or "some people have an extra x chromosome" and then we never talk about the struggle they face as part of the queer community.

Asexuality and aromanticism is a spectrum. Some aces like sex, some aces are repulsed, some aces only experience sexual attraction to one person or once in their life, some aces need a deep emotional bond, some aces their attraction changes. Some aros change identities. Some aros are repulsed by romance unless it's a fictional character. Some aros have romantic feelings until they get to know someone. Some aros crave a romantic relationship but never have romantic feelings. You don't get to say someone isn't asexual or aromantic enough.

Asexuality and aromanticism is having a unique relationship with romance or sexual feelings and impulses. Someone who is transgender has a unique experience with gender. You don't get to decide that they don't have a unique experience. But guess what? You don't get to decide if they do either. Someone can have a unique experience and still not identify as asexual aromantic or transgender. You can cross dress and still fully feel like a man. You can use he/him pronouns as a cis women. You can have trauma around sex and not identify as asexual. You can never have a romantic relationship and not identify as aromantic.

You can have "contradicting" labels. I don't know as many of these because I don't personally identify as any but please fell welcome to add in reblogs. There are trans men lesbians and gay women. There are sex loving asexuals. I know there are others I just genuinely am not educated enough.

YOU DONT GET TO CHOOSE SOMEONES LABELS

ANYONE CAN EITHER IDENTIFY OR NOT IDENTIFY AS QUEER

Please feel welcome to add anything in reblogs. I'm sure there's things I've missed. I haven't talked about neopronouns I haven't talked enough about "contradicting" labels. I haven't talked about queer platonic relationships or kink or polyamory or enough about intersex people or pronouns vs gender. There's so much important things but at the end of the day it's just so important to not choose other people's labels.

[jayceenthusiast]

anyway i was afraid to touch this discourse with a ten foot pole but i had to get some stuff off my chest as a queer man myself looking at all this discourse abt jayvik because it’s hit me more deeply than others for some reason.

i have no problem with people who see them as platonic, i think the relationship is beautiful either way, but personally as a queer man like i said before the thing that hurts me the most abt the discourse is people’s assumption that if it IS romantic that this takes away from the arc. if like people say there’s a lacking male friendship in media where men are tender and loving towards one another, why is it that every time people turn towards a fictional gay couple and point fingers that the gayness itself is devaluing the relationship? why do people see male queerness as devaluing deep male friendship? why are we the enemy of better male friendship representation in media? as if gay men in love can’t be friends. as if they can’t have both at the same time. idk it’s just a show and just fandom discourse but that doesn’t mean it can’t hurt when i see people talking about how it’s better that they’re not gay at all.

[sl-walker]

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[bendy113]

TW: Horror, slightly related to suggestive content idk

okay so- bendy just noticed what happened right now

i don't think she's happy

also bonus art:

credit for: @clowny-rolls (even if i literally reposted the og stuff- idc)

i couldn't of been jevil, he's allergic to the fragrance 🤡

[0-therw-0-rldly]

I’ll preface this by saying I’m not really a shipper. I just enjoy canon couples on TV Series/films.

Terms I’d like B*ddies to remove from their vocabulary because they don’t know how to use them correctly:

Media literacy: For a group that uses this term a lot you sure do misinterpret everything in this show.

Queerbaiting: Going to expand on this one. A show that’s already been pre established for having queer characters simply cannot queerbait.

Ship baiting: While sometimes you can argue that they could be doing that, that’s only if you look at the show in a very biased manner. You might think this is the case but the general audience doesn’t think the way you do.

Ship war: This isn’t a one tree hill situation where there was Team Brooke Vs. Team Peyton where the middle guy (Lucas Scott) had canonically been with both women. This is people not understanding fanon vs. canon and not being able to just watch the show. It’s like playing quarterback on Madden and thinking you could be better than Patrick Mahomes.

Plot device: everything’s a plot device. Move tf on.

Predator: You sound like crazy MAGA supporters calling everything regarding the LGBTQIA+ community as predatory. Sit down.

Co-parenting: I know this is a big one and discourse was brought up during the hiatus. Oliver and Ryan have loosely mentioned this years ago but it was never to be taken this seriously. Do y’all even know what co-parenting is or are you that big of a donut? Buck is someone who loves his best friend deeply and by extension, his kid too. Him taking care of him frequently does not make him a co-parent. Maybe he is a parental or uncle figure, but he isn’t a co-parent. Also, I swear y’all need to learn how a will works. He is a GODPARENT, not a GUARDIAN. Stfu.

Hag: This especially applies to women, but to say that someone 25-30+ is a hag for still being in fandoms or enjoying tv shows/films is inherently misogynistic. Men are never held to this much criticism for enjoying fictional media, but women aren’t allowed to?

Queer Coding: people of the same sex ��looking at each other”, hugging, or having intimate moments all together doesn’t make them queer coded. It could mean that they just love each other that deeply platonically. While representation is amazing and just because you interpret a character as queer coded (just like my ship baiting comment) doesn’t mean others interpret it that way as well. In addition, network TV has stipulations, and also actors are allowed to decline storylines. Ryan has mentioned his character is heterosexual an abundance of times which means (at least for now) that he isn’t willing to go for this storyline.

Dead naming: Y’all construing the fact that Buck wants people like coworkers and some of his former love interests, to saying Evan is his dead name is inherently transphobic because do you even understand what a dead name is? Evan Buckley is shown as being fine with being called Evan by both Tommy and his sister. I’m pretty sure some of his love interests have called him Evan as well.

Fetishizing: You guys saw two hot guys who “looked at each other” and for 6 seasons have wanted nothing but to see those two make out with each other. Those of us who enjoy Tevan saw Buck giddy at the thought of Tommy and have wanted domestic fluff for them since.

Anything to do with racism, homophobia, and misogyny: I’ve seen the way you guys have conveniently weaponized Henren and by extension Aisha/Tracie when you didn’t get the Ryan/Oliver interview, don’t try to act like you’re morally superior. Not to mention wanting a canonically gay man to die in a show and not even holding those who use your ship name to write CSA fics accountable because you’re petty and want to throw hissy fits. Anyone looking at your comments as an outsider would think you’re homophobes and yes queer people can be homophobic.

I do hope you can expand your vocabulary. 🤍