#queer extended family

[your-bigender-big-brother]

More extended family to follow! This blog is worth checking out!

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Welcome to your queer dad!

Here to answer all your queer questions, share advice and facts, tell bad jokes and help out where I can!

Important tags to remember:

Finch rambles- personal stuff

Aqueerjokeaweek- really bad dad jokes :)

'the earth without art is eh' - queer art!

ask a finch! - asks

20 reasons not to kill yourself today

How to clean a binder 101

How to bind safely in hot weather

A list of good resources

No-one knows what they're doing

What is found family?

Advice for teaching adults inclusivity

Tips for feeling masculine whilst in the closet

Questioning your gender?

The X marker

Activism for beginners

Dad's dog picture

Pride Flags 2024

[your-fave-trans-cousin]

Hi!!! Super excited to see what you do (:

~Wren (@your-queer-lil-sib! Not a different Wren!)

hey wren!! I'm excited to be part of the family! Y'all are so nice :]

<3

[incesthemes]

"their relationship is romantic" "their relationship is familial" "their relationship is platonic" you're thinking too narrow. their relationship goes beyond labels. the family is inherently queer. their platonic love is romantic. the erotic is familial. each one is the other and the other is them

[demento-mori]

baby im collecting genders like pokemon

[your-bigender-big-brother]

More folks to follow! 💛

Hi!!!

There were a lot of queer family member blogs going around, so I decided to make a little sibling one as well!

You can send in fun stories, tell me about cool stuff you did, whatever you want! (Good) younger siblings are the best cheerleaders, and I'm here to provide that role. If you want advice I'll do my best, but that might be better suited for somewhere else.

As for me, you can call me Wren! I'm 14 years old and in my real life am actually the oldest sibling 😅 so bear with me if I mess up. Currently I identify as aroace agender, though as anything when you're 14 that very well may change in the future. I have absolutely zero preference with pronouns, feel free to get funky with it.

This blog is based on @your-queer-dad, @your-gay-grandma, @big-sister-blog and others!

I'll add a tagging system and other stuff once I start actually doing things and figure out what I'm doing haha. Always remember that someone out there cares about you, even if you don't think so! And if you can't think of anyone, please allow me to be that person <3

[im-not-a-l0ser]

I think I'm unintentionally giving myself exposure therapy regarding Grace. That queer poll? I absolutely, 100% see her as a cishet person. But, someone (specifically @androgynous-sack-of-flesh-3 ) talked about how she just genuinely doesn't think about it because it's not really brought to her attention that it matters, she's busy with being a terror on society basically

Which, made me think. Both of my parents are greygender. Both of them. Both of my parents were also indoctrinated into a christian cult, into which I was born and lived in for over a decade.

So, here's my first official queer Grace headcannon. Grace is greygender. She doesn't understand gender stuff, and just follows her agab because that's how she was raised, that's how she was directed by God.

So... what do you guys think?

[natikoko]

my sister n SIL now refer to me as nat with he/she pronouns!! it makes me feel so awesome, I never thought I’d get that option in my personal life. it feels like a huge step forward

[a-rock-at-the-bottom-of-a-river]

I think one of the hardest things about having a qpr is what you tell people about it. I recently became official queer platonic partners with someone and we've agreed we will tell our close friends, and if strangers ask us if we're dating we'll just say yes because it's easier and I don't want to come out as aromantic to people I don't know well.

The really complicated thing is what we'll tell our families. My partner has their own situation so I'll just talk about mine. Right now my family knows we are best friends and a couple of them know that we were friends with benefits. I have three options. The first is the truth: I don't want to come out to my family as aro, I'm not ready yet. My sister has said before that she both doesn't believe that aromanticism is a thing and she doesn't think platonic partnerships work out long term, so it would be very difficult and I don't think I or our relationship will be accepted and understood.

The second is lying and saying that we are dating and in a romantic relationship. This would make both of us uncomfortable, and it would mean I would be completely lying about my identity and feelings. My sister has been questioning me a lot about my feelings towards my partner and insisting that we really feel romantically for each other, so if I lied and told her we were dating she'd be very smug and I would hate it. Just the thought of it is awful.

The third option is lying again and just continuing to say we are best friends with benefits. This feels wrong because I feel like it's downplaying how important my partner is to me and the kind of relationship we have. People are already suspicious, so I don't think that explanation would hold up for long and it's already hard to explain without outing myself. We are planning that my family will meet my partner in the summer, and we do behave like a couple so we would definitely be questioned if I go with this option.

I really don't know what to do, and when you consider my extended family it becomes even more complicated. Sometimes I remember those posts that made fun of qprs and said that "it's just best friends haha cringey ace aro people" and it makes me so mad. It's more than that, and I feel that this struggle proves that. It's giving me a lot of anxiety, if anyone has advice I would really really appreciate it.

[your-bigender-big-brother]

More extended family to follow!

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Hello Everyone please call me B

I made this blog to give advice and try to help anyone that may feel has if there's nobody out there for them I am here for you.

You are a wonderful person dont give up you got this.

Important Tags

B talks - just me giving unprompted advice

Ask B - ask that I answer

LOL - funny images

B animals - cute animals I see

- B he/they

[kathrynmjaneway]

i came out to my parents last night 😄

[science-lings]

I’m so tired…

[fazgoo-connoiseur-1987]

4 most normal people in Utah

[zukkacore]

hii i dont know you but when dallas liu posted that zukka shirts picture to instagram i was obviously gonna check if the artist was in the comments and before i ever found your instagram i found your??? aunt and cousin??? promoting your redbubble which was so funny to me 😭 congrats on having the most supportive family who will do your zukka merch promo for you<3

Yeah! A bunch of my family knows abt it lol. They were honestly doing more for me than I was just bc I’ve always been a little too self conscious to shill. I do feel kinda bad and wish a little bit they would chill but it’s very sweet & well meaning. I got texts from several of my cousins being like we wanna buy the shirt to support you & I was like? The gay zukka shirt? Be my guest if u wear it as a sleep shirt or something. My dad was literally like “I’m gonna show my students this they’re gonna think it’s so cool” & bc I also work in education (kinda) I was like but what if you get a complaint from a parent or something. He basically said “oh idc I’m looking for an excuse to fight my principal anyway”

so yeah papa zukkacore is fully prepared to die on the zukka hill which is an extremely strange thing to know. He’s literally that kind of person that thinks cartoons are inherently dumb and childish & all anime is yugioh. I’m not even sure he knows who Zuko and Sokka are <3

[twisted-tales-told]

Oh wow a terrible hole opened up inside my chest & is pulling everything in I wonder what happens next

[ryderdire]

If I do ever come out as queer to my grandparents it will be in the most stupid way possible

[bitterpossum]

I hate how like. Hypothetically you're ment to relax and have a good time and recharge over the holidays but in reality I am forced to 5 billion family functions in a row that leave me even more run ragged than I was over finals week