#bbb.reblog

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Eyyy- can you make someting with it/it's, please??

Based on the colors of my it/its flag from this post, I decided to go two ways with it. The left is based on slime and the right is based on steampunk!

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[your-bigender-big-brother]

Welcome to YB3!

♡ Hello! I’m your bigender big brother, and this is an inclusive space for us to talk about the bigender experience and to encourage support for the members of our community. I’m hoping to connect with you (yes, you!) by sharing common experiences and hearing your unique stories. My ask box is always open.

Before anything else, click here to see how you can help Palestine! And here is a giant masterlist of Palestine resources.

♡ Important links:

YB3 zine on Instagram YB3 Wiki Ko-Fi (It has a shop page!) Inner Space Discord server Bigender resources Identity essays Gender of the Day Gender Buddies Stormy Talks YouTube channel My Carrd FAQ (included in my Carrd) Similar blogs to follow

♡ No matter what your gender experience is, you're very much welcome here!

- Your Bigender Big Brother 💙💚

(Tags, BYF, and further info under the cut. It’s a bit wordy!)

♡ My tagging system:

bbb.txt for regular positivity text posts bbb.ask for asks (”anon” or [username] will be tagged) yb3.zine for issues of the YB3 zine from Instagram bbb.prompt for occasional prompts for interaction from the community bbb.update for blog and project updates bbb.reblog for reblogged posts bbb.flags for pride flags I've created bbb.coining for terms I’ve coined gender troubleshooting for gender-related questions and advice

♡ This blog does not support:

Ableists, fakeclaimers, racists, misogynists, queerphobes, gatekeepers, transphobes (includes truscum), homophobes, anti-Semites, pro-lifers, anti-feminists, anti-SJWs, anti-sex workers, and general bigots.

Transmisogynists and MRAs which include people who shut down trans women in their discussions of oppression and claim that it's "not all men" who oppress women.

Proshippers, MAPs, and “pro-paraphilia” ("Proshipper" exclusively refers to inc*st and underaged shipping.)

Anti-religious, anti-spirituality, and religious extremists.

Anti-vegans and vegan extremists.

People who "kin for fun" or call themselves choicekin. Using "kin" as a verb or using the word "kinnie" a bit of a discomfort for me as well as a red flag.

General unkindness and unwillingness to change.

Please respect my boundaries! /nm

♡ I believe that all gender and orientation experiences are valid, and that people know themselves better than anyone else. They can use whatever labels make them feel safe and secure in their identities.

♡ This blog's focus is on inclusivity and positivity, and I will do my very best to uphold that whenever I post or respond to asks. Trolls will not be paid attention to, but I'll take the time to educate them whenever possible. Please let me know if you need a particular post tagged for whatever reason. I will try to use tone tags, but I often forget to do so. Just know that my tone is always in the range of /gen, /nm, and /pos. ♡ I don't believe in documenting every single thing a person has done wrong, particularly if this is not ongoing behavior and this person does not hold any power in the community (putting everyday people in a callout post is vastly different than putting a celebrity in a callout post.) I believe in rehabilitation in conjunction with taking accountability. I believe that who a person is right now matters more than what they’d done in the past. If you’re doing your best and making an effort, then you’re welcome to interact, but there cannot be repeating bad behaviors. I hold myself to that as well!

♡ I am a transgender man, but please don’t call me transmasculine! I’m actually transmaverine and the autonomous nature of my masculinity is important to me.

Disclaimer: Any flags I create are just for fun and are not to be added to any Wiki page or similar website without my explicit permission - MOGAI Miraheze has my permission from an admin to host my terms. Click here if you want to see a database of every flag I've ever made. If you requested a flag from me, it’s yours. That flag can be used, remade, and uncredited to your heart’s content. Click here for a bit more detail on using my flags.

♡ Thank you if you've read this far. Feel free to ask me anything at all about my identity or my experiences. I'm always here to enlighten and educate.

[your-bigender-big-brother]

I never considered myself to be included (low support needs autism and ADHD) but I will always take a step back to make room for those with higher needs than me. I'm happy to be an ally to my disabled followers and others! - 💙💚

"Pride month is over"

WRONG! Your pride month is over! Me and all the other disabled queers are having pride month two: disability edition

[your-bigender-big-brother]

I remember someone asking me incredulously how I could possibly be a demiboy but not masc-aligned or male-aligned. It's because I reject alignment systems for myself! But this anon couldn't believe that my nonbinary-leaning gender experience didn't come with its own intrinsic category.

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Really hate that the queer community's response to the creation of a gender trinary (girl, boy, and nonbinary) was to... reinvent the binary. We just started grouping all genders into "masc/male-aligned" and "fem/female-aligned" and it's so fucking stupid. Even with the occasional allowance of "neutral/unaligned" it still maintains the binary as the standard. And then they don't let you use certain labels if you don't have the "right" gender alignment. The fuck.

[your-bigender-big-brother]

I can get behind this! 💙💚

since mrs, ms, and mr are all descended from the latin word magister, i propose the gender neutral version should be mg, short for "mage"

[your-bigender-big-brother]

My gender is a little too high school for the reader with a little bit and a big block to make it look good.

Where is "block" from? Minecraft??

(Reblogged directly because the thread was so long. No idea who to tag so it's anyone's game.)

Type "my gender is" on your phone and let your phone finish the sentence, then tag your moots to keep the chain going, I'll go first.

My gender is a little bit more intense than I thought I could have done

@mirukosbitchywife @get-junpeid

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Always! 💙💚

Right, considering the current state of corporate politics on this site, and that it seems that only those affected seem to be actively speaking on the matter, it is up to I, the only fucking cishet on tumblr, to drag this out to a wider audience.

REBLOG IF YOUR ACCOUNT IS A TRANSFEM SAFE SPACE.

We need to show these higher ups how much we truly value them.

[your-bigender-big-brother]

I don't normally do things like this but I think you all would like to hear what I get up to outside of what I do on YB3!

My hobbies include learning languages (I've got about six under my belt, non-fluent), raising cats, feeding local outdoor cats, worldbuilding (Currently I'm developing a story about a dragon and a human basically drops into his world from a weird portal), scrapbooking, witchcraft, raising colonies of isopods, coming up with fanmade Pokemon, playing Minecraft and Animal Crossing for way too long in one sitting, writing deep lore for Flight Rising, occasionally painting, and collecting tumbled gemstones. Probably way more I'm forgetting.

My partner told me to add "Starting projects without finishing them" and that is absolutely very true!

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Okay, here’s an interesting question. What hobbies do you guys have that wouldn’t be apparent from your online presence? Like something you spend a lot of time doing or thinking about beyond whatever you post on your blog.

[your-bigender-big-brother]

This is a really cool idea!

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More pride flag magical girl/guardian designs yaho yaho More: Lesbian - AroAce - Bi

Image description: digital art of characters based off the trans, genderfluid, and asexual flags. The first is a fat person with light skin and long black hair, wearing ballet slippers and a flower-patterned dress in the trans pride colors. Their weapon is a pink and blue ribbon.

Second is a person of slightly chubby build with light brown skin, with short pink hair, stubble, and arm hair. Their costume, based off the genderfluid flag, consists a sleeveless button-up top, a ribbon around the waist, and a short skirt. They’re also wearing heels, and wielding a spear.

Last is a light-skinned person in a wheelchair, wearing their blond hair in buns that poke out from the hood of their lacy black dress. Their outfit and wheelchair are in the ace flag colors, with the wheels possessing a spade design with some skull-like elements, and they also have prosthetic legs with a bone pattern. They’re lifting a scythe with a purple spade design over their head.

End description.

[your-bigender-big-brother]

This one seemed to really resonate with folks! 💛

My fullest support and love for genderless people, people who don't care about gender, who use any pronouns at all, who refuse pronouns, who present in an androgynous way, who mix and match their presentation, who are unsure what name to use, who change names frequently, who aren't sure about labels, and who reject labels altogether. You're doing great!

- Your Bigender Big Brother 💙💚

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Let's make #transblr a thing! 💙💚

We need to make a tag for trans people to speak amongst our own community, bc right now the trans tags fucking suck. Theyre too full of pornbots advertising (stolen) images of women with links that will infect your computer with viruses you cant even dream of. I'm not talking about the users who just happen to post hole btw, I mean the flood of unmanned bots.

And they all crosstag shit that has nothing to do with being trans. No matter what tag you go in- trans pride, trans positivity, ftm, mtf, transmasc, transfem, nonbinary- it's all flooded with spam.

I think I'm gonna start using a new tag, and I hope y'all will join me so it makes it easier for us to all find each other and read real input from living people, not just bots.

Maybe #transblr? The tag doesn't seem to be commonly in use, with the latest post being several months old at this point. It's also broad enough to encompass any trans, nonbinary, or gnc folk who might want to use it. And, best of all, I don't see any spam bots.

Come join me in making #transblr the new community hub! I'll be appending it to all my old posts, and also using it on all trans-related posts from now on.

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Found an awesome new account to follow and you should do the same! 💙💚

Hello! I love your art!

Can I get a bigender espeon? Preferably with the flag with yellow. Thank you ^–^

Very colourful!

[your-bigender-big-brother]

More extended family to follow! This blog is worth checking out!

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Welcome to your queer dad!

Here to answer all your queer questions, share advice and facts, tell bad jokes and help out where I can!

Important tags to remember:

Finch rambles- personal stuff

Aqueerjokeaweek- really bad dad jokes :)

'the earth without art is eh' - queer art!

ask a finch! - asks

20 reasons not to kill yourself today

How to clean a binder 101

How to bind safely in hot weather

A list of good resources

No-one knows what they're doing

What is found family?

Advice for teaching adults inclusivity

Tips for feeling masculine whilst in the closet

Questioning your gender?

The X marker

Activism for beginners

Dad's dog picture

Pride Flags 2024

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Excellent! 💙💚

Some vintage validation and confirmation for bi lesbians. ⚡️

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Ask me! 💙💚

Multigender question prompts / ask game!

Basics

1) What are your genders? Either labels/terms or descriptions :) 2) Describe your pronouns. What are they, and why? 3) How long have you known you were multigender? Or, when did you discover each of your genders? 4) When did you first hear about being multigender? 5) Are there any terms under the multigender umbrella that you identify with? (like bigender, trigender, genderfluid, omnigender, multiflux) 6) Do you identify with any umbrella terms that can encompass being multigender, like "trans" or "nonbinary"?

What's It Like For You? 7) Are your genders more fluid or more static? 8) Are your genders more separate or blended together? 9) Do you "hoard" genders or labels? 10) Do you have any analogies you use to describe your genders? 11) Describe your ideal gender presentation, or physical form. 12) Does your gender influence your sexual orientation? 13) Does your sexual orientation influence your gender(s)? 14) Do you identify with any multigender-specific sexuality labels? Getting A Bit Personal Now, Are We

15) Describe your names and their significance to you. 16) What are your plans for medical, social, legal (etc) transition? How far along in your transition would you consider yourself to be? 17) Have you faced any barriers in transitioning specifically related to your multigender identity or related goals? 18) Have you ever faced prejudice or hostility due to your multigender identity or related presentation? 19) When in a situation forcing you into one gender, what do you do? 20) How do you deal with such transmultiphobia, external or internal? Do you use any comforts or affirmations to help?

Pride

21) What are your favorite things about being multigender? 22) What multigender-related pride flag do you like the most? 23) What unique parts about your identity are you proud of? 24) Do you do (or have you ever done) anything to express pride, privately or publicly, in your multigender identity? 25) What's your favorite art/music/writing/etc about being multigender? (Things not explicitly written as such are OK too!)

Community

26) Do you have any friends who are multigender? 27) Do you talk about being multigender with other people? 28) Are you open/out about being multigender? 29) Are you open about some parts of your gender identity, but not others? 30) What do you wish more people knew about being multigender? 31) Free space! Share anything you would like about your multigender experience.

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Feel free to share or repost! You can ask me questions from this list, ask your followers to ask you some, or just reblog and answer some yourself. There are just enough to fit in a month, too, so you could even make it into a daily journal challenge! The possibilities are endless...

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Oooh, I really like the modified Mercury one. I love the symbol and that planet/deity really speaks to me. Seeing this version without the bottom part looks really nice.

nonbinary gender symbols based off of modified astronomical signs!