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Queerphobia, Misogyny and Racism being alive in the 21st century really boggles my mind. Some people are mentally living in the 19th century.
“It is not 1924, please check yourself.”
#queerphobia#misogyny#racism#women#protect women#protect young girls#queer#queer community#lgbtqia+#lgbtqia#lgbtqia+ community#stop discriminating
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I’m for sure going to be labelled as a “baby hater” or sum ish for saying this, but…
When a little boy hurts a little girl for fun, it’s not just bullying, it’s an early form of misogyny. Often, it’s labelled “he’s just being a boy”. I for sure will get reactions “but they’re KIDS! You can’t call it misogyny!” Yeah, they’re kids. So, what you as an adult should do? Educate them.
Why am I saying this? The little girl can be upset if this is the first time it happens to her, but, she’s just that, a child. She can’t do much about the situation unless she’s really physically stronger than the boy. There are two ways this can go:
1) Tell her the typical bullshit like “he just likes you”, “that’s normal, boys are like that” while letting the boy misbehave while thinking that it’s cute instead of holding him accountable for his actions. This way, you’re making the girl grow up faster while letting the boy stay immature and uneducated. It’s her first encounter with misogyny - a boy having fun is more important than her discomfort.
2) You actually acknowledge her discomfort and validate it, understanding why she feels that way, WHILE putting the boy in his place. By putting him in his place, I don’t mean spanking him till he can’t sit down, if you plan to accuse me of that. It can range from something as simple as telling him that this is not how good people act, that this behaviour is unacceptable. If it doesn’t work, (which, btw, signifies that the kids don’t see you as an authority, and you should take care of that) then apply adequate punishment.
You can’t expect a grown male to understand respect when his entire growing up he was shown that it is okay to disrespect his female peers. Teach your sons that girls aren’t here to be “living toys” for him.
I’m not advocating for babying grown ass men. I’m advocating for making sure young girls and teens are able to grow up in a safe space.
If the bullying is sex-based and the girl has a harder time communicating her discomfort mostly due to the ignorance of adults who are supposed to be responsible, it is already misogyny. Age does not matter.
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You're mine now, old man.
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#a-qing#xiao xingchen#A-qing's story kicks off so strong. You really get a sense that she feels strongly attached to xxc during the pre-empathy scenes#and that she has a strong sense of loyalty and perseverance with strong survival instinct#but then you see her before all the tragedy and you *immediately* learn she is a clever trickster!#She follows xxc not out of gratitude but out of a sense that this guy is her meal ticket.#xxc is kind and strong but most importantly *noble*#she can smell the self-sacrificing bright eyed hope on this stranger. She knows the mere fact she's a young blind girl means#he will protect her. The fact he gives her a little money doesn't hurt her justification but tbh she would have followed all the same#a-qing is *the* catgirl of all time actually. Follows you for the fact you provide food and shelter. Opportunistic. May grow to be loyal.#That's not even getting into the parallels here between these two characters and wwx (who is seeing these events play out)#the yi city trio are arguably the three split aspects of wwx: who he feels like (a-qing the opportunist) who he wants to be (xxc the noble)#and who he feels seen as (xy the vengeful).#one day I'll write a more robust analysis on that. prob in the tags though#(His a-qing parallels are also tied with the fact they both were street rat orphans who learned how to code-switch to be whoever#they need to be to feel safe. I have a lot more thoughts to share but augh another time...another time)
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"not all men" but not in a men's rights way, in a "it's important to remember that men aren't the only perpetrators of cruelty, abuse, and evil and that subconsciously or consciously training yourself to view men as inherently evil and everyone else as inherently safe inadvertently puts you in a position where you're both vulnerable to attack or harm from people you otherwise wouldn't suspect, AND causes you to limit the number of allies you might have in a time of need" kind of way.
#This is why I worry a lot about young women (teens and twenties) who seek comfort and validation in r//adf//em circles. Many of them have#been hurt through rape or abuse—commonly at the hands of fathers/brothers/uncles or otherwise trusted adults—and have decided that men must#be cruel because both they and their female/female + queer friends have similar stories of abuse. So they seek out others who share this#belief but in doing so they make themselves vulnerable to further abuse and manipulation. I haven't really observed r//adf//em circles long#enough to be able to say what I'm about to say with certainty but I would put money on the idea that being a RF on social media shares the#same hallmarks as being in a cult because the behavior of the adherents is far too similar than that of tradwives or any other modern cult.#Other RF's use the hurt and abuse these young women have experienced and twist and manipulate their truth to foster a sense of#us-against-them cruelty against a population that could in actuality be their fiercest allies. It's such a vicious and relentless cycle.#That's why when I see RF's on here all I feel is pity — both for the cruelty and abuse they've witnessed and suffered but ALSO for the way#they've allowed that abuse to be weaponized against them... many before they were too young to realize it was even happening. We as a#society have got to get better at protecting our young girls and women from r//adf//em ideology. I don't even mean that in a#“destroy the patriarchy” kind of way because that's such a lofty and disorganized goal. I mean it in a “we have to go into uncomfortable#spaces and show these girls love and empathy because right now the only people validating them are people who use their hate and mistrust#against them and if we want to save our young girls and Queer sisters from this pipeline we have to do the dirty work“ kind of way.#But anyway.#jack.txt
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the peoples princess!
@notsolonedesert ur lovely ctimene has graced my lecture notes <3!! no references we die like my final braincells lol
her sarcasm knows no bounds and odysseus' famous wits have ocassionally paled in comparison to his sisters many a time ;)
sassy lil sister ctimene please and thank you. also stubborn af. idk i need more of them being siblings and and how they grew alongside one another and now tease eachother over meals and reminisce during cold winter evenings childhood shenanigans and laugh boisterously together (they have the same laugh. and a dad sneeze TM) and how they reacted to each others firstborns and and and
#u cant convince me she doesnt have a merida esque origin story where she had a favourite horse#loathes being confined to her potential as a wife instead of being seen as her own person. age typical sexism essentially#(not by ody or pen or eury ofc. never ever)#maybe she has a complicated relationship with her mother whose to say. love me a sprinkle of tragic parent and child#anyway one feature film length of character development later#she finds middle ground between accepting and fulfilling duties but not compromising on her own interests and needs#idk she trains the young women of ithaca. let her be ares' blorbo. let my girl kick ass#she definately bonds with penelope athletically#pen always wins swimming lol and is very agile but cti is unmatched in brute force and stamina#hc she protected penelope from the suitors. she didnt bring attention to the either of them but should the need ever arise#shes bitch slapping all 108 of them#eury would be proud#ctimene#epic the musical#my art
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I REMEMBER THE SICKNESS WAS FOREVER.
#yellowjacketsedit#yellowjacketscentral#natalie scatorccio#nat scatorccio#lyricsongifs#hiiii its about the victimization#nat uses a gun. makes herself useful. gets offered up anyway. to the moose. to the hunt.#natalie protects herself. attacks lisa to escape. gets stuck anyway#dies getting stabbed by a needle full of toxins to protect the girl she stabbed in the hand#to protect a young woman an awful lot like one she was once. mightve been once. couldve been once
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Ugh I hate blond Apollo and I think the way Rick wrote him was pretty dirty. Tho I like his character, I still wish he was better writen
#when i say blond apollo i mean v.iria one there are alot of blonde apollo i gen like#for example the hades game one#His pjo official art looks like a racist nepobaby who would practice bullying#not that there are many V.iria art that deviates from this pattern#and he can be very annoying sometimes#That scene where he asked Reyna to date him is just disgusting#what the hell did Rick have in his head to make one of the gods who protects the young flirt with a 16/17 year old girl???#and no he's not a dumb blond man-child or anything like that#HE'S THE GOD OF KNOWLEDGE AND THE BROTHER OF ARTEMIS WHY DID YOU MAKE HIM LIKE THAT?#TOA would be much better if Rick treated him in character for the mythology#tbh all the gods would#and I'm not a defender of the gods or anything like that I find them quite disgusting and authoritarian#I just wish they were more like mythology#still bad people#just more likable bad people#apollo#apollo pjo#trials of apollo#toa#pjo hoo toa#anti perpollo#anti gods x demigods actually#anti luke castellan#rr crit
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Crack Au in which Sadnesses stay after the King’s Defeat, and one attacks the Mailman delivering the letters from the Party to Pétronille, causing all but one to be destroyed, and the surviving one to get damaged and become mostly unreadable.
So after the Mailman is saved, Pétronille gets a damaged letter from someone named “Madame” who has her sibling and is coming by in about 3 weeks.
Pétronille, not having any other context, assumes that this is a ransom note and spends the next three weeks trying her best to figure out what Madame wants and get as much money as she can to try to appease the person (mob boss? Mafia? Criminal Mastermind?) that kidnapped her sibling.
Edit: Pronoun Check. Thank you guys!
#You have to remember Pétronille is young#Maybe even under 18#So imagine how much angst we can put into this poor girl#She’s always needed to protect Bonnie#So of course she’s gonna Assume their in Danger#and also Odile should be confused for a Mob Boss#as a treat#also also when the party learns about the situation#they jokingly blame siffrin for cursing them with his luck#because man that required some bad-luck setup#anyways actual tags#in stars and time#isat#isat petronille#isat odile#madame odile#isat bonnie#isat boniface#isat spoilers#i guess#in stars and time spoilers
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The trans FTM experience of not knowing how to feel about your detachment from femininity and growing up a woman
#No cause how do I deal with it#I figured out I wasn’t cis YOUNG like I was 11 when I started experimenting with different names and pronouns#but at the same time#I was someone’s daughter#I was someone’s niece#I grew up a little girl#and to those I’m not out to (or those who choose to live in ignorance) I still am all those things#and so I’m still viewed as less than.#I experience ‘feminine rage’ (whatever the name is)#I experience my medical issues being undermined by doctors#I experience the same limited access to period products#I’m not old enough to medically transition in my state as a minor#So on most levels beside my very liberal big city and social life I’m counted as female despite living in Texas#But the threat of being trans here can be a death sentence#I have few protections as a biological woman and if Trump is elected I will likely have even less#And I can’t begin to tell you how many more I’ll lose as a trans man#Trans#Venting#FTM#Texas#Election#us elections#Transgender#Trans man#Trans male#Trans FTM#Queer#LGBT#LGBTQ#LGBTQ+
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Don't mind me, I just have a lot of thoughts about Helena Sandsmark and motherhood.
Young Justice (1998) #16
Young Justice (1998) #18
Young Justice (1998) #19
#she loves Cass so much and just wants the best for her but she's so scared of her getting hurt that her love starts feeling stifling to Cass#Helena views herself as Cassie's shield from the horrid parts of the world but Cass sees her as a barrier from the worthwhile stuff in life#and the way she immediately gets Cissie away from her mother is just so meaningful to me#because she tries so hard to protect Cassie that she can’t even fathom hurting her and so she doesn't hesitate when protecting Cissie#I love Helena so much she's such a good mom with such a complex dynamic with her daughter#I just think she's neat#helena sandsmark#cassie sandsmark#wonder girl#cissie king jones#young justice#young justice comics#dc comics#comic series#my post
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Damn, I really thought I was about to make some crazy observation here and connect the dots that Hercules was the one who gave Cassie the costume she ends up using for her Titans of Tomorrow Evil Arc, but alas, DC in 2007 was simply not on my level
#dude it would've made SENSE hercules is literally trying to convince her to join his band of morally dubious characters#in the name of the greater good -- the new suit is PART of that persuasion. it's a SYMBOL.#and she's already been so much darker since kon's death like the one year later time skip had her FUCKED UP man#her teammates disagree with due to the violence (namely killing some griffons instead of relocating them to the fortress of solitude)#she's isolated from her peers AND she's still feeling the repercussions of the Amazons Attack arc where she tried to kidnap the president#and both she and her mother are basically under deep witness protection#it could've been SUCH a good foreshadow if they just made this the costume#esp bc the arc where they unwrite the titans of tomorrow hasn't happened yet#FUCK#cassie tag#gnome talks comics#cassie sandsmark#young just us#teen titans 2003#tt03#young justice#titans of tomorrow#wonder girl#i'm sorry everyone but i will not stop talking about the stupid evil future selves arc from 2005 that appeared in six issues#it is simply too important to me
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watching arcane s1 again and as I'm finishing act 1 I realized I didn't remember that Vi was gonna give herself up to the Enforcers to protect the others.
oh my fucking god.
#i cried????????#she was willing to go to prison for them i cant#i love that girl#and then vander shows up and we all know how that ends#but still oh my god#she was literally willing to throw her life away to protect powder#“whatever happens is on you” AND SHE TOOK IT TO HEART#arcane#vi arcane#arcane netflix#young vi
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Jesus! White women, who fit the western standards of femininity, tears are so fucking strong!! They woke up every transphobic, racist, misogynistic, "white" knight around..
#i feel so heartbroken for imane khelif she should be celebrated for this accomplishment not getting her facial features body and dna#inspected by the internet#she's literally my age and the thought of having my body and looks probed like this would absolutely do some irreversible damage#i only hope she's being protected for this shit#and i hope that every young middle-eastern girl who doesn't look the way society think we should look not go through anything similar#imane khelif#the olympics#paris 2024#olypmics
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Fooled that man painfully
#Daniel will bark if he so much as speaks to his Johnny in court lol#Kreese is like those ‘fine I didn’t like you anyway bitch’ guys sometimes#but he’s also protective of women in a good way? He’ll flirt with his uncomfortable waitress but what he will not do is allow you to#coerce young girls#postcards from lottie
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one day im going to make a long post about rita and pansys friendship after the second wizarding war.. just you wait..
#pansy who’s alone and everyones turned their back on her#shunned from the wizarding society and unemployed#no one will hire her#until! rita skeeter offers her an internship at the daily prophet#takes her completely under her wing#mentor/mentee type deal#<— platonic. this time.#post quillkiller#and pansy reminding rita of a young bellatrix#post a fucked up intimate (non-platonic but not really sexual??) relationship between pansy and narcissa#during the second war#when there were plans to marry draco and pansy#<- their relationship was sort of like the film The Reader#rita also being entirely alone after the war#maybe was hospitalized again at the janus thickey ward#<— something i (& kara <- we’re conjoined) hc her being after the first war / when bella goes to azkaban#rita being the ’back in my day..’ and fiercly protective of pansy#even risking her career to give pansy a chance#something she never wouldve done before#pansy confiding in rita and rita becoming sort of her (still morally fucked up) parent..#’you know.. you remind me a bit of her (bellatrix)’#<- pansy being offended at this because all she knows of bellatrix is her being dracos crazy fucked up aunt#BUT SHE WAS A GIRL ONCE#JUST LIKE PANSY…#anyway.#one day!#young adult pansy navigating through post war life after being dubbed The Traitor#and rita who hasn’t really felt anything since 1. bella took the mark/went to prison and 2. when she died#just the two of them sort of finding a way back to joy and purpose through each other and becoming a little family just the two of them.#ritapansy
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Muse of Violence, Warrior of Science.
To the ordinary, everyday genius scientist-for-hire with a heart too big for her own good, we raise our sake cups.
You gave us food. You tried to protect us. You gave your life to ensure we'd all live on. Just lending a hand.
You knew it would end like this. We all knew it would end like this, and yet you still did it. And you did it to protect the friends you had made and the family you had left. And you did it all on your own terms, smiling all the way to the afterlife, knowing your will would be inherited by those you saved.
Clone or Machine or Satellite or Daughter. It matters not what you were. Because you went out like a true member of those who carry the will of D.
Thanks for everything, Atlas. For a satellite representing rage and violence, you had the biggest heart of any of them.
#egghead arc#chapter 1120#one piece spoilers#Vegapunk Atlas#Atlas is my favorite character in the series. I got into One Piece around the time Egghead started#and I just immediately fell in love with her character. Everything from being simultaneously a giant violent kaiju and a sweet young woman#to her endearing passion for her inventions (even more so than any of the other satellites) to her unwavering kindness toward the Straw Hat#simply because they liked what she had made and ate her food. A person so overwhelmingly and completely sincere it hurts.#Its not a stretch to say I resonated with her a lot throughout Egghead. Everything about her is 100%. Her passion and work ethic. Her rage.#Her happiness. Her protectiveness.#Her grief.#Atlas is a character that I fundamentally believe received one of the best death scenes of any one piece character.#But god it's so hard to say goodbye.#I would have loved to see how she would have reacted waking up on Elbaf and finally having the safety to mourn everyone she loves.#To see how she moves forward from this. To see her work furiously to keep the wills and memories of the people she loved alive.#But most importantly I think I just wanted to see her.. live. I just wanted that big ol' girl with a heart too big for her own good...#to make it to the end in one piece.#But what a sendoff. If she had to die.. I'm glad she got to die on her own terms. Helping everyone one last time and cracking a smile.#Humble as always.#I'm gonna miss her a lot.#punk.txt
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