#proshippper

[superectojazzmage]

Will literally never understand people who think “but you’re talking about kids media!!!!” is a good comeback to people rightfully complaining online about minors barging into adult spaces and screaming “GROOMER PEDO” at everyone. Like, it doesn’t matter if the conversation subject is a kids show, it’s still ADULTS SPEAKING TO OTHER ADULTS IN AN ENVIRONMENT AIMED AT ADULTS. Whether they’re conversation subjects are appropriate for kids or not is irrelevant, it’s still grown ass people conversing amongst themselves as adults. You’re on a website that used to have go nuts show nuts as an official policy for God’s sake.

Minors need to butt the fuck out and stay in spaces that are safe for them, because leaving aside the fact that adult spaces are not meant for them and can lead to them being exposed to things harmful for them, it can also end up getting the adults in those spaces traumatized or in serious legal trouble. You shouldn’t even be on Tumblr or going anywhere near online fandom spaces if you’re under 16 at least, so stay the tuck away from adults who are talking with other adults — online or off — and don’t fucking be trying to act all high and mighty about people talking about whatever the fuck they feel like.

And let’s not even get started on how the antis who encourage and say this kind of shit turn out to be creepers themselves 9 times out 10…

[goldenmechanicalheart]

Gonna make a mood board of them later - 🔧✨

[candied-viscera]

Let your undead f/o have one bite of flesh, yknow, as a treat.

[shinyeeveelynn]

i miss having self ship friends but every time I wanna get back into the community I remember its like traversing a friggin minefield, get sad about it, and immediately give up on the idea 🥲

[persona-spawner]

Are you still taking orders? If so, could you make one for me inspired by loli, sweets, cute things in general?:3

inteName:Sugar, Candi, and Cutie

Username:@cutelyacandy

Transids:Permakid,Permahappy,Nullsadness,nullanger,transscenecore,permainnocent,Transinternetangel,spitemeowist,transpinkblood,transautistic,transadhd

Cisids:Cutecore lover,Cat lover,frayromantic,demisexual,Cynophobia(fear of dogs),Proshippper,Darkshipper

Gender:Girlthing,Sweetcatic,loligender

Pronouns:She/Sweet/Candy/sugar/cute/adorable/cake/cookies/pop/soda/angel/innocent/cat/kit/kitten/kitty/bow/paw/thing/thingie

Paras:AAM,(auto)plushophile,renophillia,Ailurophilia

Blankqueer/Blankview:Dollqueer

Based off:loli, sweets, cute things in general

Personality: typical tiktok proship personality, "'Hiiii! ^w^!!1 owo :3" type person

Aesthetic:

[muttship]

I, as a gamedev, want you to be as freaky as you want with my characters!!! Proship 4ever babyyyy

PROSHIPPP 4EVERRRRR

this is how i feel abt my OCs too LMAO

[ramblingautisticman]

Someone explain the term proshippper to me please?

I have no idea what it means I just see people upset on tiktok about it?

[butterednuttered]

is this okay for proshipppers to use the terms used here? (we're anti endo.)

NO???

[methamphetayaoi]

pinned

joel, teenager, it/its or he/him, boyflux lesbian

byi this is a breaking bad centric blog with a fixation on jesse. i'm a proshippper who enjoys dark and taboo tropes in fiction, i always properly tag my posts. i avoid any & all discourse when possible and will never participate in harassment/witchhunting. my blog may contain suggestive or nsfw content (refer to tags if you'd like to block specific posts) feel free to introduce yourself in dms, i'm very friendly! i try to follow back :~)

dni i have no dni and i rarely block people

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dead dove or fetish content that may be triggering will always have a tw content tag. example tw noncon

#yappery normal posts, general things, usually brba related

#personal insight into my life, venting beware

#gay meth brba fandom, may include shippy stuff

#meth and porn posts that include suggestive or nsfw content. will always be paired with a tw nsft tag

#discourse for rare the instances when i engage stupid internet drama. things like shipcourse and queer discourse

#rbs reblogs

[fandomwe1rd0]

Is your R&M server still taking new people? 👉👈

Yes! Of course! As long as you aren't a proshippper, everyone is welcome! Everyone in the server is super cool, nice, and chill!

Here's the link: https://discord.gg/rZqmGMpt

[aurum-stultus]

Proshipper in your ask box can go kick rocks tbh because:

1.) Hi!! I was groomed into thinking proshipper stuff was okay BY proshippers and that led to me being repeatedly groomed and sexually abused by people in and out of the community for years on end. Just because YOU (proshipper) or people YOU KNOW aren't groomers doesn't mean your community isn't slap fucking full of them and a safe haven for them at that.

2.) I didn't even see you use the phrase 'degenerate freak'?? Correct me if I'm wrong, but I searched your blog for it, and the only thing that came up was your response to their ask. It's WILD to try to point out ableism while using a term like 'degenerate', which is incredibly ableist itself.

3.) If you are legitimately attracted to children, fictional or otherwise: You DO need help. I'm not going to sit here and act like every single proshippper has a paraphilic disorder or even that everybody with paraphilic disorders are like terrible monsters or something. Those thoughts cannot be controlled, but what matters is what you do about them. Help is real and available and therapy specifically for these things exists for a reason. I wish it was more accessible, but for the love of god, look into your options and stop acting like your community doesn't harbor people who have and continue to hurt children.

Agreed! Ty for your inclusion

And no, I didn't use that phrase, I do my best to not insult people in situations like that. I started it with "Hey, these people need serious mental help, this is also a contributing factor to this awful mindset and here's how you can help prevent it.."

At the end of the day I think proshippers know what they're doing is wrong but an aspect of them refuses to admit that and refuses to admit that there's something wrong with them, so they just double down, stop at nothing, and only interact with communities who enable their behavior.

I personally hate any demonization of any mental disorder, especially when people are trying to get help. I hate when people say folks with BPD are violent, I hate when people use the medical term "Narcissist" as a bastardization for "extremely selfish and mean", I hate when people say shit to Bipolar people like "You're so bipolar, you must be a gemini.".. You can have a problem with a PERSON with the disorder, they're an individual person, you can't demonize people who know they need help and actively seek it. Once that person acts on a bad impulse, you can hate that PERSON.

Some people have excuses, some people physically cannot control the things they do and feel, and some disorders just make it significantly harder for people to try, HOWEVER, you should immediately know that being attracted to ANY kind of minor is wrong, you should know wanting an abusive relationship is wrong, you should know incest is wrong, those are things deeply ingrained into you from childhood and it would take someone truly despicable to teach you otherwise. So at the end of the day, you either acted on impulses you knew were wrong, or you need mental help for these urges and for the trauma you endured to bring you to these urges. So neither behavior is an excuse, you know and you have control.

And I genuinely hope that proshippers get the help they need, because their community is harmful, their mindset is harmful, and I don't think anyone is born evil. Something happened that caused them to do this and we need them to realize that before they take a bigger leap or get convicted of what they've already done. Bc they CAN get convicted even just from a drawing, and their mental health is going to get a LOT worse if they do.

[goldenmechanicalheart]

Jules has daddy issue autism (and one more hour til home. Whooo, fandom time)

[this-world-of-beautiful-monsters]

Hi why does it bother you if people don't want tcest on their posts? Is it truly a problem for ppl to say proshipppers to not interact?

Never said that people can't chose who interacts/there's nothing wrong with establishing boundaries and I'm sure at least one of us knows that/have never interacted with anything you've produced in your life/blocking you and also answering this so people who don't want to get weird, loaded questions from strangers know you're behaving this way so they can maintain their own boundaries.

Also, "want people to not interact" is an ocean away from "deliberately interact with strangers you claim to disagree with for purposes of asking confusing questions." I have no problems when people want the former and don't like when people do the latter.

[go-learn-esperanto]

love seeing your dni slander <3 heals me Interally

I never put a DNI in my life and honestly they are unnecessary thing to have — most people won't look at your blog when they reblog something funny from you. If you send a nice ask via anonymous you won't even know who it was or what they are into.

Some people use them as call out posts and honestly they might cause more drama than they prevent.

And a lot of DNI lists are just bizarre.

[Time for full rant with some examples]

From "Basic DNI" which means some secret thing OP won't tell you.

"Etc...' which is simply very enlightening. /s

Very specific terms 70% of the people reading don't understand, worsened by the fact that they're written like acronyms.

Having serious things like being a pedophile next to a fandom. Specially when you're pretty sure the OP knows nothing about the fandom in question.

I swear nobody knows what a proshipper or anti is, including said proshipppers and antis, because those terms in the end are so vague with so many nuances you can't really "define" them in a way that is precise. Also the proship term as a history of always not meaning the same thing in different fandoms and times. I've talked about it before in relation to Hermitblr's old definition of "proshipping".

Stating "transphobic DNI" and being against genderfluid people.

Stating "DNI people who think Ace people don't face oppression" then saying "Mspec lesbians/gays DNI"

Not understanding "Femboy" just means Feminine Boy and that yes, you shouldn't describe Transwomen with it, but there are genuine Feminine guys, Cis or not, that identify as Femboys. Die mad about it.

Some people sharing they're whole medical history with it and putting themselves in danger (please don't do that)

Saying "Ablists DNI" yet I can't read their DNI because of how bright their colour selection is

[opalofoctober]

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[v-anrouge]

I KNOW THAT MOTHERFUCKER IS JOT ACCUSING THEM OF BEING A PEDO A RAPIST A PROSHIPPPER A ZOO AND A BUNCH OF OTHER SHIT WHEN THOSE ARE LITERALLY ALL THNGS THAT THAT MOTHERFUCKING HARRY POTTER DAN DID OH MY FCKNG GOD I ANT TO BEAT THEM UO SO FUCKINF BAD