#pro stefan salvatore

[chloesreality]

me watching an edit of Stefan and Elena was saying “this isn’t you” and then Stef said “STOP SAYING THAT”

then I went to the comments 😭

this cracked me up so hard

it’s giving “Were you silent or were you silenced”

actually bfrr though, have we actually watched the same show? literally stop it’s too funny now 🤭

[cerisia76]

I just realized something and I need to share it.

When it comes to Stefan haters, Stefan can't win. Because no matter what he does, it will be the bad choice for them. Even when he chose the other option in another context. Want it to be more clear?

I'm talking about two scenes that mirror each other where Stefan made the two choices he had.

When he pushed/tricked/forced Damon to be a vampire, not respecting what Damon wanted. His haters called him selfish.

And when he saved Matt in the s3 finale because he respected what Elena wanted, his haters said he didn't love her enough and Damon said he would have done the opposite. Yet he hated Stefan for centuries because he did the same thing to him.

Stefan haters generally love Damon and Damon can do no wrong. So Stefan keeping Damon alive even if he didn't want to is selfish and bad. But Damon keeping Elena alive even if she didn't want to is the proof that he loves her more than anything.

Which proves my point. With Stefan haters, logic doesn't exist as long as Stefan doesn't make the right choice. They will hate him for doing one thing AND hate him for doing the opposite later on. He just can't win.

And that's why I can't stand Stefan haters.

[xdarkeningkrystals]

It will always be criminal the way Stefan would be treated by the end of the show. TVD was also Stefan's story yet he gets sidelined and díes for Delena. The fact that Plague and Derides had no plans for Stefan in S5 before realizing "Ugh, I guess we HAVe to write him something" shows just how much they actually cared about him once Delena happened. Which is why I don't blame Paul for checking out

He deserved so much better. 💔

[illbdamned]

I know Damon is usually seen as this perfect, hot little wicked thing, but…

Stefan the Sweetheart : exquisite

Stefan the Ripper: exquisit-ER. Come here, you psychotic little twat 🥹

[helpimstuckinafandom]

I wish whoever made the decision to have Stefan die at the end of Vampire Diaries a very slow and agonizing die

[thefloatingwriter]

as much as i don’t like s4, stefan in s4??? that i can get behind.

[nightzspring]

SJM 🤝 julie plec

turning tamlin and stefan into terrible people just to make delena and feysand happen

[feyres-divorce-lawyer]

haddie is complaining abt tvd again, i said oh i’m sure

[xeyesofstardust]

I swear, Stefan stans are the worst and are the reason this fandom is crumbling to dust.

They get on Reddit, look for people who don't worship the ground that St. Stefan walks on and start harrasing them.

This literately is happening to me on Reddit. Ane because of what you might ask? Because I had the audacity to say "I like Elena Gilbert."

Wow, just wow!

When they lost Endgame they took that shit personally and turned on Elena so fast. They went from liking Elena to hating her. Like hating her how you would hate that mean girl from high school.

It's sad and pathetic.

FYI If you're thinking of joining the The Vampire Diaries reddit page my advice to you is 'just don't.' It's full of pro Stefan and Caroline stans who are unhinged.

[chloesreality]

don’t worry Katherine, I would’ve looked at him the same way😩

[thelazuliknight]

I think writing fanfic of the the vampire diaries definitely changed my view point on the characters, by a lot, because you stop thinking the actor and think the character, and who they are, and what they are supposed to be. And I think the ages of the characters than soak in and the relationships and the supposed internal thoughts, the trauma, the logos and the pathos, and then these characters whom I hated (Elena) I start to love so so much, and characters whom I loved (Damon) I start to utterly hate, all because I think I start to see the story differently. The show stops being this CW show of hot 23+ year olds, and you start seeing these characters for what they are. And it also made me love Caroline, Klaus, Stefan, and Bonnie all so much more, and I didn't know that was possible.

[stargirlie25]

My top tvd ships (yall bouta be mad)

KLAYLEY: THE QUEEN AND KING

STELENA: MY PERFECT BABIESSSS (dont get mad at me delenas already endgame so chill)

KOLVINA: So perfect.

BENZO: DESERVED BETTER BUT I STILL STAN STEFAN

[bennett-mikealson]

TVD Stan’s go crazy when they see Tyler Stan’s and automatically assume we forgot the bad things he’s done or think we’re making excuses for his negative actions when in reality we don’t make excuses. we just know how to praise him as well and acknowledge his character development. They see one person saying something good about Tyler and all of a sudden it’s “so y’all don’t care about what he did to Vicki” or they bring up the delusional thought that he treated Caroline like crap; like what??? Most of y’all don’t even care about Vicki and nobody said we forgot what he did but we not about to keep bringing it up while talking about him when we wanna hear something good. Especially when other characters have done the same things he’s don’t and 10x worse but the same energy not kept with them. Then wanna bring up his anger issues like it’s a huge problem when other characters are 100+ and 1000+ year olds acting like children with issues they would of been worked out and would kill someone for the fun. Pls 🙄

[thelazuliknight]

And also like Stefan just accidentally killed his father and drank his blood and the heightened emotions were probably like going haywire, and he was just like, "I need my brother. I don't wanna be alone. I don't want to be a monster alone. I need my older brother." And like real, he was 17. SEVENTEEN! Damon is holding a grudge against the recently shot, newly turned, grieving seventeen year old boy who just lost someone, and had his entire world changing at rapid speed. Damon has been promising misery since he was 25 years old, because of the actions of a child, who ultimately didn't want to be alone. Like idk about you, but Stefan didn't do anything wrong, in not wanting the only one he had left to leave him too.

"But Stefan forced Damon to be a vampire 🥺."... And? Literally almost everyone was turned against their will. Doesn't give them a free pass to do what they want for all eternity, so why do y'all insist on babying Damon? Not to mention Damon wanted to turn and was only pissed cause Katherine turned Stefan too.

Stefan on the other hand didn't drink her blood willingly and didn't really have a clue what was happening. 🤷‍♀️ The amount of people who will legit state that everything Damons ever done is stefans fault cause he foced him to turn is crazy, but I don't see them blaming Katherine for everything Stefans ever done. Right because Stefan is a whole ass person, who makes his own choices and actively tries to be better.

[baby-royalty]

what are, in lizzy's pov, the pro's and cons of steferine vs datherine?

Curious Anon Hour!

Lizzy has a very simplified view when it comes to the people her mama chooses:

Whatever makes her mama happy.

So she doesn't really look at pro's and con's, it's all the same to her. Lizzy has family in the Salvatores who love and care about her, and she wants them to love Katherine the way god clearly intended them to.

She ships Steferine, because her mama has signaled so often that Stefan is THE ONE. So of course she's picked up on Katherine having some favoritism, and she supports her.

But Datherine feels very affirming to her, because those are her biological parents. She knows Damon wants to be loved, and she knows he deserves that.

What she does know is Datherine fight worse than Steferine, and much more frequently and destructively.

"They're going to do whatever they want to do, and it'll be fine."

"So @malka-lisitsa gets spoiled either way, that's kind of all I care about."

[purpleruinsprincess]

It hits even harder when you realise that Elena took Caroline's side when Stefan and Caroline were fighting in season 6. At that point Elena was definitely closer to Stefan than to Caroline.

Watching a Stelena video from one of my fave Stelena YouTubers and this is no hate to her at all (I love that video and we’re moots on twitter), but when I saw that one scene (again) in 4x07 where Caroline is like "no, he’s heartbroken" and clearly taking Stefan's side over Elena's, I just…

Like Elena and Caroline aren’t best friends, not in the slightest, but they’ve known each for most of their lives and for Caroline to take Stefan's side over Elena's instead of being there for both of them annoys me.

Caroline can be there for Stefan and Elena at the same time. She doesn’t have to take sides.