#positive afformations

[desultory-suggestions]

It’s okay if you’re not the version of yourself you always saw in your head. You are a beautiful person whether who you have become was expected or unexpected. 

[the-meditation-manifesto]

TENSION RELIEF | Positive Subliminal Affirmations SLEEP | Stop Worrying ...

[barbthebuilder]

That's absolutely amazing and heartwarming

realizing that for the first year ever, i not only made a meaningful resolution, not only followed through with it, but absolutely smashed it out of the park. my goal for this year was to take that girl in my head, and bring her into reality, really focus on being who i had always wanted and really figuring out who that was. it’s genuinely hard to believe it’s only been one year. i’ve made so much progress, grown so much, understand myself so much deeper now, i’ve began experimenting with my wardrobe and crafting my own style, began the process of reshaping the flesh i was given into the person who inhabited it. i have truly forged my life into a habitat for my true self, and fae has finally arrived. people know me how i want to be known, and my relationships with them are made more meaningful now that both parties know who they are. by no means am i close to finished, but if you told me from one year ago that i’d be where i am today in my transition, they’d have called you a liar. things i could not imagine in a thousand years have happened in the span of a single solar orbit. for all my queer siblings, especially those at the beginnings of their journeys, i encourage you not just to be your genuine self, but if at all possible, start to shape your life into a space that ideal version of you would live. it gets a lot easier for them to exist in reality once they have room to do so.

[deerabigailhobbs]

Abigail Hobbs X Reader Alphabet Prompts

Prompts by wild-lavender-rose

(reader's gender is left ambiguous!)

A: Afformation- How affirming are they of you and their love for you?

Abigail would constantly let you know how much you mean to her, how safe and comfortable she is around you, a feeling she's not quite used to. She will often say random "I love yous" throughout the day just to see your face heat up (and so you kiss her gently in return).

B: Birthday- What do they get you for your birthday?

She'd paint you something! Abigail is a very skilled artist, and she'd pry you for information of what your likes/ interests are so she can make a painting that truly reflects you as a person.

C: Cuddles- What's their favourite cuddling position?

Abigail lovessss being little spoon, but she also likes when you place your head on her lap as she runs her fingers through your hair or gently caresses your cheek.

D: Dating- What are some of the dates they would take you on?

Abigail definitely isn't the best when it comes to public places, so many of your dates would be small and quiet. A picnic in the garden, dinner at a small, almost empty restaurant, or a simple night of cuddling while watching movies and eating a bunch of snacks

E: Emergencies- How do they respond when either you or them have an emergency?

It doesn't matter whether it's you or her, big or small, this bundle of nerves will always panic when it comes to emergencies, especially if it involves an injury of any kind. You can recall when you accidentally sliced your finger while preparing dinner once, and Abigail was pulling everything out of the medicine cabinet in a rush just to find some plasters. Although it shocked you just how shaken she was (it wasn't like you'd sliced off your finger) you understood why it bothered her so much, and honestly found it quite endearing how much she cared for your wellbeing.

F: Family- What happens when they're around your family? What about their own family?

Abigail doesn't like to talk about her family for... Obvious reasons. On occasion she'll recall a small memory about her mother, but nothing more than that, and you never push her.

Around your own family, she'll be courteous and kind, engaging in a joke here and there, but her social battery would drain quickly, and you'd catch her glancing at the clock on the wall or fiddling with her fingers with restlessness until you eventually make your way home.

G: Gifts- What kind of gifts would they give you?

As mentioned before, she loves painting things for you! In fact, most of her gifts to you would be handmade, paintings, food, she even learnt some crotchet so she could make you a snuggly jumper for the winter months.

H: Hugs- How do they hug you?

She loves to lean into your neck while hugging, leaving soft kisses as she feels you burn up with embarrassment. She never used to be much of a hugger until she met you, now she can't get enough of your arms around her and vice versa.

I: I love you- Who says I love you first?

You do. After your few first dates you muster up the courage to tell her, and you find it adorable how red her freckled face gets, blue eyes wide as she leaps into your arms, grabbing your face and smothering it in kisses as she confesses how much she loves you too.

J: Jokes- What's their humour like?

Blunt and witty, which is just to your liking.

K: Kids- How do they feel about having kids?

Definitely out of the question. Abigail is fearful of raising a kid, afraid that a small part of her father is still with her, no matter how many times you insist she's nothing like him, however you respect her wishes, not exactly wanting a child yourself. However, the subject of pets comes up often between you two, Abigail with a smile on her face as she excitedly tells you how she longs for a pet bird, her favourite animal.

L: Listening- How's their listening skills?

You love talking to Abigail because she truly hangs onto every word you say, asking questions so you know she's engaging with the conversation. And you do the same with Abigail, loving how passionate she gets when talking about a topic she loves, such as art or birdwatching.

M: Mornings- What do mornings spent with them look like?

Both of you are not early birds, so when you can, you lounge around in bed. You love running your fingers through Abigail's silky hair as you engage in small talk, and you think she looks ever so cute in her silky white nightgown.

N: Needs- What do they need from a healthy relationship?

Stability and reassurance. Often, Abigail will breakdown, her thoughts dark about her past and her future, so you're always by her side to offer kind words and a distraction from her mind, usually by physical touch or simply putting on a movie for the both of you to enjoy.

O: Others- How do they react when you're around other people?

She likes to pretend she's not jealous, but sometimes she can't help it. She wants you all to herself because of how safe and warm you make her.

P: P.D.A- What's their opinion of public displays of affection?

Soft kisses and hugs help when either of you are anxious in public, but that's as far as you'll both go. However, hand holding is never out of the question.

Q: Quarrel: What do the two of you fight over and how do you make up?

You both rarely have fights, but usually it's when one or both of you are stressed, taking out your frustrations on one another over little things such as dirty dishes still in the sink.

After, you apologise, talking things out properly and snuggle on the couch, usually with a favourite movie or TV show in the background.

R: Romantic- How romantic are they?

Abigail's love language is definitely physical touch. After years of feeling uncomfortable with even the thought of it, finally she has someone she just can't get her hands off! Whether it be kisses, hugs, or a simple caress of the cheek, she always lets you know just how much you mean to her.

But it's not just touch, she'll constantly remind you how much she loves you, how beautiful/handsome you are, and it fills your heart with such adoration.

S: Stress- How do you help each other handle stress?

Just being there for each other helps in stressful situations, but a simple stroke of the knuckles or words of encouragement can bring the stress levels lower.

T: Trust- How do you show each other your trust?

At the start of your relationship, Abigail was clearly skeptical, nothing personal against you, she was like that with everyone. However, as you got closer, she started to open up. Her past, her worries, her hobbies, her goals in life, you truly felt honoured she trusted you so much.

As for yourself, you're quite the same, opening up about vulnerable moments in your life, and Abigail listens, her hand on your shoulder to show that she's listening and that she cares.

U: Unique- What's something unique about them that you love?

Her eyes, you've never seen anything quite like them. They're so big and blue, you find yourself getting lost in them all the time.

As for non-physical aspects, just how smart and witty she is, reciting facts loosely based on the conversation you were having then getting embarrassed when she realises that the topic has taken a derail, but you never stop her, you like hearing her ramble.

V: Vacation- Where do you go and what do you do on vacation?

Abigail has always loved long walks in rural areas, so hiking trips are usually the common vacation spot for you. She loves being alone with you and nature, no one to bother either of you, and when your legs get too sore, you'll retreat to a small lodge you rented, turning on the fireplace as you embrace each other in the cold months

Wedding- What would your wedding be like?

You'd elope! You'll both buy wedding outfits, Abigail wearing a stunning flowy lace dress with elegant sleeves and you, a shorter 50s styled satin dress with open sleeves or a dark green suit with silver cufflinks.

After officially married, you'll rush back home, opening the "only for wedding" tub full of food and take the small cake you had made a few days prior out the fridge. You'll cut the cake together and gently smash slices into each other's faces, laughing at how ridiculous you both look while glancing at your wedding rings, smiling at this new path you're taking together.

X: Xtra- An extra thing about your relationship

You love to make each other laugh, it's sort of an unspoken rule you have to make each other laugh at least once a day (and it gives you an excuse to look at her beautiful smile).

Y: Yearning- What's something that they yearn for when you're separated?

Touch! Sure, she can call you to hear your voice, but she hates not being able to cuddle or kiss you when alone.

Z: Zzz- How do they respond when you fall asleep in their presence?

Abigail finds it adorable when you fall asleep, moving your head so it rests gently on her lap, but she also sees it as a sign of trust between the two of you, both comfortable enough to fall asleep in front of each other. She'll sometimes grab an extra blanket if she sees you shivering too.

[nyxcreate]

Nyx, I wanted to thank you. i just got one of my first main manifestations, I was trying since August for this but I struggled and failed until I found your account a few weeks ago. I still have four other main ones to go, but I can cross one of my list now :) I want to cry I feel so proud of myself. Its money related. All I do is meditate, remind myself imagination is reality and it doesn’t matter what I do or don’t see when I open my eyes because the outer world is only a reflection and use afformations. (I affirm but in a question form because thats how I naturally think, I’ve noticed when I manifest negative shit I go “what if so and so happens” “why is this happening to me” “how can they do this to me” “how am i so unlucky” so I turned that around and made it positive)

i’m glad i was able to help love!! 💓

[its-only-anxiety]

Trying to keep my hopes up high

[therealblankkandy]

Roses Are Red, Violets Are Blue...

I sent the planet Mercury to come talk to you. She says you’ve grown, and that you are still important to those you have yet to see. So, there is no reason to frown because she sees that you are your own busy little bee.

[sappho-and-the-lesbos]

[desultory-suggestions]

It’s okay if you and your loved ones have conflicting needs. When overwhelmed some people need to step away, while others will feel abandoned if left alone. Some people need social contact constantly while others need lots of space. This doesn’t mean either person’s needs are wrong, simply that a plan must be made that’s good for everyone. Don’t shy away from talking out a specific plan or behavior. It’s healthy to communicate your differences. 

[gentleaffirmations]

[onlypositiveaffirmations]

[bringharmony]

Positive Affirmation

Below are the few affirmations which if repeated can bring magic into life

1. I am Gods property and only positive things can happen to me

2. I am born to live a healthy life

3. Whenever i speak, i do it will full confidence

4. Every moment i want to leave in Love, Peace and Happiness

5. Everything that happens in my life bring positive results at the end

[the-meditation-manifesto]

Being Positive | Subliminal Affirmations | Soothing | Meditation | Creat...

[the-silly-hippy]

Afformations for codependency and self-esteem