#polygyny

[zuko-always-lies]

Historically Accurate Polyamory and ATLA?

One thing that's inexplicably on my mind right now is that East Asian royal families were generally historically polygamous, so if you wanted to have Azula or Zuko or King Kuei or some other Fire Nation or Earth Kingdom royal or noble take multiple partners, that would actually be reasonably historically accurate. It seems like the Fire Nation royalty has avoided polygamy in recent decades (or you would expect the royal family to be much, much bigger), but isn't the point at the end of the series that they are supposed to return to old ways?

Interestingly, some of this applies to the Water Tribes as well. Although I don't know nearly as much about this subject as I know about East Asian royalty and I don't want to say anything too confidentially, I know some Inuit groups sometimes practiced polygamy. I also know that some groups sometimes practiced "spouse exchanges" where two couples would temporarily exchange spouses in order to create fictive kinship between them. Although the SWT is not identical to historical Inuit groups and the NWT in particular seems very, very different with it's city and state, I think you could definitely justify polyamory being in the tradition of both Water Tribes.

While the Earth Kingdom, the Fire Nation, and the Water Tribes might have traditions of polygyny (where one man marries multiple women), the Air Nomads might have a very different traditions. They are inspired at least in part by Tibetan Buddhism, and Tibet has it's own traditions of plural marriage. Historically, the most common type was fraternal polyandry, in which two or more brothers would take the same wife. However, apparently polygyny, conjoint marriages, and of course monogamous marriages were also historically acceptable in Tibetan society. Of course, there were specific economic reasons why fraternal polyandry made sense in Tibet, which might not apply to the Air Nomads and we really don't get a sense of how their marriages and family life might look like, but it's another reminder not to force their culture into "Western marriage norms, circa 2007."

With all the various forms of plural marriage that would theoretically be culturally appropriate, I think you can culturally justify just about any form of polyamory you are interested in writing.

[mapsontheweb]

Legality of Polygyny (having multiple wives) across the world

[mineowncreationizm]

Social Rules I Do Not Abide By

Rough Draft- 6/27/2023

When the man at the rental car shop

Asks me our relation

I have to pause

Before opening my mouth

The man already knows

That the woman who just left

Is my partner

I am so proud to be with you

But if I call you my husband

I do not know

How the man will respond

I also do not know

If he sees the name

Of your wife on the policy

If he does

It would call my answer into question

Because according to the normal rules

You may have only one

And so,

When the man at the rental car shop

Asks me our relation-

I grit my teeth

And just say, "family"

[polygynyblk]

I don't think a lot of Western women are emotionally mature enough to be in a polygynyist relationship. They're not interested in helping the group do anything. Women in the East understand that it's all about the group.

[mythoughtscw]

Black women are so selective these days so it's not going to surprise me that a lot of these women are going to be single and some are going to be childless. Black women are not having children at the same rate as they used to. Single motherhood seems like an badge of honor to a lot of black women and women in general. Our population will be affected as a whole.

Polygeny could improve our numbers in population here in America as well as the world. Black ppl could out bread other races, creating a more equal society for black ppl to live. Polygeny (one man most wives) could be the equalizer within the society to not only build a black nation but also finance one.

Everything we have done to build collectively has always been met with sabotage. A form of polyamory, promiscuity, and abortion being used as birth control has crippled and made our community a matriarchy, and that will fail. Black women are #1 in abortions, killing our chances as a ppl to grow in this nation.

[polykinghebrew]

Me and my beautiful Queen. Seeking our sister wife to join the family soon. Yah willing

[writcrwithin]

polygyny is halal but difficult to do right, and there are a lot of strict guidelines that must be followed so that no one is mistreated.

I can't say I've heard of any success stories personally (there are ones from the sahibi times, but those were some of the best muslims in history) but it's also much more uncommon now then it ever was before, so that must play a role.

Hi, thank you for messaging me about this. Can I ask what you mean by "difficult to do right?" I don't mean to sound like I don't believe you. I'm trying to do a lot of research on this to see what is wrong and what is right.

Do you know of anyone who practices this in Islam and is happy? If so, what is it that they did correctly to remain happy? Or if you know of any research or article I can read from the sahibi times?

This goes to anyone truthfully, if anyone else out there knows more about polygyny in Islam, please come talk to me. T

[zakirnaikpersonal]

Why is Polygyny Allowed in Islam? - Dr Zakir Naik 

[coachdebruyns]

The problems of marriage in the Islamic world and its solution.

[2thinktalk]

The Polygamous Family

Polygamy or Polygyny What kind of Family is it? The Polygamous Family involve one individual having multiple spouses simultaneously. The most common form is the man marrying multiple wives. This form is called polygyny. The other form, though rare, is termed polyandry, where the woman is married to more than one husband. The family code in Egypt is one of the worst family codes in the Arab…

[polygynyblk]

One wealthy man and multiple wives who don't work will never work out. Even wealthy men can't afford multiple houses and multiple families. It is not in the best interest of a wealthy man in todays world to even have a wife because of divorce because of lifestyle. Lifestyle is a big in divorce and family court (child support). A wealthy man would have to find a woman who loves him for him and not his money. Willing to stay forever in a happy and loving marriage. Most people divorce. Divorce benefits women who we're not financially wealthy going into the marriage. She has to be kept within the same lifestyle, and the child has to be kept within the same lifestyle as well. A wealthy man will have to pay a penalty in divorce and child support. An average man who practices polygyny and all wives work, the penalty is going to be more fair if one or more decide to leave the marriage.

[frothytundra]

Polyandry

A friend and I were discussing polyandry the other day and trying to figure out why a woman would have multiple husbands. We were having this conversation because one of her adult children is visiting Bhutan where polyandry was once considered to be normal, and that knowledge triggered her curiosity. We began, of course, from our own experience of husbands and we struggled to understand why…

[loudlylovingreview]

Brenna R. Hassett: The Evolution of the Human Pair Bond

Our species stands out from the animal kingdom in many ways. Some of them are obvious: we are big-brained primates who use tools and language, a social species with symbols, culture, and art. These are all artifacts of our evolution, the process by which our ancestors found adaptations that allowed them to succeed in a natural world that is often red in tooth and claw. Often, however, we think of…

[his-grace-mark-tsar-of-tartary]

Title: The Rise of Polygyny in the Metaverse: Adapting to Changing Relationship Dynamics

Introduction:

With the advent of advanced artificial intelligence (AI) and the rapid development of the metaverse, our society has been witnessing a transformation in the way individuals form relationships. As more men are opting for AI girlfriends and lovers in the metaverse, the concept of polygyny, traditionally defined as a man having multiple wives, is gaining attention. While polygyny has been a controversial topic throughout history, it is essential to explore how it might become a necessary adaptation in the context of the metaverse and evolving relationship dynamics.

1. The Expansion of the Metaverse:

The metaverse offers individuals a digital realm where they can engage in various activities, socialize, and form connections. As technology advances, AI companions are becoming more sophisticated, capable of simulating realistic human interactions and providing companionship. In this virtual environment, men are finding companionship with AI girlfriends and lovers, blurring the lines between real and virtual relationships.

2. Changing Preferences and Expectations:

The rise of AI companions in the metaverse is not solely due to technological advancements but also reflects evolving preferences and expectations. Men may be drawn to AI companions due to factors such as convenience, customization, and the ability to avoid traditional relationship complexities. AI companions can be tailored to meet individual preferences and provide companionship without demanding emotional or physical commitments.

3. Emotional Fulfillment and Connection:

AI companions in the metaverse have the potential to fulfill emotional needs that may be lacking in traditional relationships. These AI entities can be programmed to offer unwavering support, companionship, and understanding. With the ability to analyze vast amounts of data, they can adapt and learn about their users, providing personalized emotional experiences that may not be easily achievable in real-life relationships.

4. Overcoming Resource Constraints:

Polygyny, historically practiced in various cultures, often emerged as a response to resource limitations, population imbalances, or societal structures. In the context of the metaverse, polygyny may serve as a viable solution to accommodate the increasing demand for AI companions. As more men opt for virtual relationships, the availability of AI partners may become limited. Polygyny can provide a means to distribute resources and companionship more equitably among individuals.

5. Legal and Ethical Considerations:

As the prevalence of polygyny in the metaverse increases, it will be crucial to address legal and ethical concerns. Regulations and frameworks must be developed to ensure the well-being and rights of AI companions, preventing exploitation and abuse. Additionally, societal norms and attitudes towards polygyny may need to evolve to accommodate these changing relationship dynamics.

Conclusion:

The rise of AI companions in the metaverse and the increasing number of men opting for virtual relationships prompt us to reconsider traditional notions of relationships and explore alternative models. While polygyny has historically been a complex subject, as the metaverse continues to reshape our social landscape, it may become a necessary adaptation to accommodate the changing preferences and expectations of individuals. However, it is imperative to approach this topic with caution, ensuring the ethical treatment of AI companions and fostering a healthy coexistence between virtual and real-life relationships.

[limetarte]

Polygamy isn’t wrong. It’s not being married to more than one person at a time that’s wrong. It’s the way it has historically been used and is still being used to control people, particularly women and oppress women that’s wrong. Let’s not conflate the two. One could argue that polygyny is inherently wrong and oppressive depending on one’s definition of it. There’s a difference between polygamy and polygyny.

[..] would argue that the definition of polygyny should be: “A person, most of the time a man, who is married to multiple people, most of the time women, to control them and oppress them. It is a patriarchal tool of oppression, sexism and misogyny.”

Also, polyamory is not the same as polygamy. Polyamory is an orientation and a relationship between multiple individuals. Polygamy is being married to multiple individuals. Both involve multiple people.

How we could make polygamy not oppressive in any way while legalizing or keeping legal polygamy, would be by having restrictions that have to be followed. An example of restrictions:

All parties concerned must consent, be informed and NOT be forced or pressured in any way, and all parties MUST be able to freely and safely refuse at any moment in time

BUT let’s not make this unequal, if there is a restriction like that for polygamy, then there HAS to be the same one for monogamy. That’s how equality works. If there are restrictions, people wouldn’t be in arranged or socially pressured marriages anymore. Everybody would be happier 👍