#pls i want friends

[trashbagmike]

Wonky but my art in the end

Drew this around two years ago! And thought to bring it back

(Unrelated but here´s my KoFi if u care <3 )

[flygutzz]

If anyone would like to send in their sonadow (or any ship!) fankid so I can draw with blink pls do🥹🙏

I rlly like drawing this evil little shite and I wanna interact with other fankid parents

[rainbowwormz]

Hii!i I'd like to make some friends here!

i like electric dreams, regretevator, ihnmaims, art, and phighting!

but also byf, i tend to have bad moodswings so iwc at times! but generally im very outgoing and happy

im a did system

i dont have a dni, ill just block who or what makes me uncomfortable !!

my discord is ravrfeli

[break-a-neck]

It'd be so weird if some creep sent disgusting asks. Like. What the flip. (Pls send creepy anons I need attention)

[saturdaysadness]

Selfie dump idk but anyways

[dragon0fhades]

Soooooo..

Anyone wanna do a sdv multi-player with me where we just kinda hang out, each romance someone, and make our farm as pretty and profitable as possible?

[coryosmin]

in need of moots to talk to so if you guys wanna chat, feel free to dm me ❤️❤️

[marshymallowz]

does anyone know any good bugsnax discord servers? :] i wanna make more friends but idk where 2 start ahh!!!!!

[12raccoonsinadress]

The desperation for finding more friends that are into writing is so strong rn, pls if anyone wants to be fanfic mutuals pls tell me.

I promise I'm actually writing and will post something actually good soon T~T

[xpastelsweetsx]

Omg wait have I talked about dimension 20 on here?? I LOVE DIMENSION 20 GUYS

[imtheyellow]

does anyone wanna... talk about turtles (with rizz)

[trashbagmike]

The first Avengers movie has always been my fave!

More OLD art

[rafeandonlyrafe]

well 🧍‍♀️ as a reminder this blog is NOT a safe space for trump supporters but it IS a safe place for women, queers, trans ppl, people of color, undocumented people, and any marginalized group.

[break-a-neck]

Hypothetical, what if some1 sends me anon asks. (pls I want friends, I promise I'm friendly when you get 2 know me >_<)

[neskvy]

How to find an english-speaking friend😭😭😭😭

I swear, one day I'll just make a questionnaire for searching a friend

[bamsara]

I think that one thing people fail to understand is that unsolicited literary criticism coming from an online stranger who is reading with no knowledge of what the authors intended goal is, is not going to be received the same as say: the authors beta reader or friends who know what the authors intended goal and has the sufficient knowledge and input to help the author reach that desired outcome.

"But I'm only trying to be helpful" How do I know you have the knowledge and literary skill for you to be able to actaully do that when we don't know each other and you are essentially a stranger to me? Are you applying this criticism based out of personal biased experience and desire to see the story or characterization be driven in another direction or tweaked, or do you know the author's intentions for the character? If the story is incomplete, are you basing your criticism of a character on the incomplete narration with only partial information available of them or are you building up a report until the story's completion? Did the author provide you with the information needed to make a fully informed criticism?

Have you discussed with the author what their plans are or are you assuming them based off the narration, especially if the narration is proven or implied to be unreliable or missing key points of the plot? Are you unbiased enough to help them reach their desired outcome for the characters and story regardless of your personal feelings towards the characters/antagonists and setting? Can you handle being told your specific input isn't wanted because you're a reader and/or have no written anything relating to their genre or topic? Do you understand and respect that the author's personal experiences might influence their writing and make it different than how you would have done it personally? Do you understand if an author only wants input from a specific demographic relating to their story?

If it's for fanfiction or other hobby media, are you holding a free hobby to a professional standard? Are you trying to give criticism because you feel like the author has produced 'subpar job performance' of their fic? Are you viewing their work as a personal intimate outlet or something that must conform with mass media? Are you applying rules and guidelines when the fic is shared for simple sharing sake? Is your criticism worded appropriately and focused on the parts where the author has requested input on rather than a general dismissal and or disapproval?

Have you put yourself in a place where you assumed you have the input needed for the story to evolve better, or have you asked what the author needs and what they're having trouble with? Can you handle having your criticism rejected if the author decides their story doesn't need the change and not take it as a personal offense against your character? Are you crossing that boundary because you think you are doing the author a favor? Are you trying to be helpful, or do you just want to be?

I think sometimes when people hear authors go 'please don't give me unsolicited writing advice or criticism' they automatically chalk it up to 'this author doesn't want ANY constructive feedback on their stuff at all' and not "i already have trusted individuals who will help me with my writing goals and- hey i don't know you like that, please stop acting so overly familiar with me'