#pls dont feel pressured to do this!
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hi guys 🫠 so i hate doing this because i never want anyone to feel obligated to do Anything, but i'm currently in a stressful place financially due to some unforeseen housing expenses (roommate who took advantage of our resources and then moved out leaving me with two $400+ utility bills in a row 🙃) and could use some help. so i just wanna take this opportunity to boost my kofi where i receive my tips, which, again, i don't want anyone to feel obligated, but if you have the means to do so it would be greatly appreciated. thank you 💖
#haven't really boosted this since last year cause i hate doing it but#surprise surprise! i can't buy groceries!!#anyway ily regardless pls dont feel like you have to give me anything#i'm just boosting for those who might like to#i do what i do for free and i acknowledge that#i dont want anyone to feel pressured or anything#ok i'll shut up now
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spent the first hour and change at work deleting some old files and am having a grand ol time laughing at myself for not realizing i was a lesbian sooner
#vulnerable tag rambles ahead please be kind abt them i didnt intent to ramble this much but i dont wanna delete it eitehr#me to every single man i have ever dated after 6mo-1y: yeah hey this really isnt working out i dont really know why but i really hate mysel#and i dont want to blame you because i dont think you did anything inherently wrong here; i think this is something about me but i need#space to figure out why im feeling this way [every single one reacted by telling me No i wasnt allowed to leave btw]#i hold very complex feelings about these relationships esp bc of them ending in very violent/chaotic ways most of the time#but its interesting to look back at it all and realize ive left every man for the same reason (which is that ive hated myself Every Single#Time ive dated a man) and its funny bc i recognized the self hate pretty early on w/ cishet men but when it came to queer men it was#much more confusing (esp w/ nto knowing Any lesbians at that point in my life). im so happy im a lesbian tbh#i have a lot of issues w/ the racism fatphobia and transmisogyny present in lesbian groups#and also coming out as a lesbian really truly saved my life. before i met my wife i was quite literally in a 3yr abusive relationship that#definitely would have died in if i hadnt realzied i was a lesbian and ran from him#its also weird seeing liek the hard evidence of the things that happened to me btween 2016-2020 tbh#cause that was such a bad time of my life. i truly dont know how i survived it but im so glad i did#like the three major relationships in my life b4 meeting my wife was: guy who was in college when i was in HS who stalked me when i left;#guy who was a year younger than me who cheated on me the entire time while telling me he was being victimized (he wasnt; this was very mess#guy who saw the very messy toxic ldr i was in and helped me dump my ex then decided that meant we were in a relationship [insert 3 yrs here#and admittedly all 3 years with him werent the same level of abusive but it was definitely unhealthy from the start considering I Didnt Kno#we were together until he wanted to celebrate vday and got mad i didnt know our anniversary - and like this isnt including the other stuff#that happened between those Relatonships[tm] (cause ive never been monogamous; these were just the Major Relationships)#like i genuinely think if i hadnt come out i'd be dead rn given just how dangerous my relationships were/continued getting#i am also so tired now that ive seen all this cause like. fuck i can barely believe it and i not only lived it but have PTSD about it#i should write about my life sometime. i feel like it'd be cathartic to try and make a tangible timeline and stories from the years ang stu#anyway yeah. be nice about the tag rambles. dont message me with pity or curiosity or anything about this. i dont usually talk abt this stu#publicly bc i hate the ways ppl start tryign to baby me when they realize my life has been extremely fucked up until only a few years ago#n im still working on accepting kindness from others bc of [insert life traumas here] but its a long process so pls respect my need for jus#being heard rn w/o too much pressure< 3 (but ig if u do read this can u like it cause i feel a little crazy seeing all the evidence of the#stuff i experienced now also cause fuck ik logically it was but also i cant believe it was all real still yk)
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singlehandedly feeding the yeet and killa fans since december 2022💪💪
#im a single mother working 20 jobs to feed my kids#its ok tho i dont mind being to only person to ever post about them!!/j#honest to god would pay decent money for a 200k fanfic featuring them#fanfic writers im not even looking st this point im STARING#(this is a joke pls do not feel pressured to do anything!!)#im still not satisfied with my killa design so i decided to try something completely different what are we thinking#dndads#dungeons and daddies#yeet bigly#killa demall
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Ok so what I need you to do is go follow @iamfabiloz sry I mean @iamfabiloz sry I mean @imsoquarky SRY I MEAN @lysia-doodlez wait no no i mean @cassiecryptic actually I mean @pidgefudge wait no @origami-butterfly I ACTUALLY MEAN @changella404 oh god just go follow @pyxxie-nyxxie and maybe @river-not-a-stream
Actually go check out all of them theyre all very cool
#but only if you want to dont be pressured to follow#nothing will happen if you dont follow im just shouting out some ppl#garlic breath#HELP IDK HOW TO TAG FOR 'this may trigger your ocd pls stay away if it does' IM ACTUALLY STUPID#But yea if you dont want to follow or check them out feel free to scroll past. nothing will happen no matter what you do
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Would you mind if I drew the lighthouse fight club au [crediting you ofc] I haven't stopped thinking about it I love both movies dearly :)
"would I mind" please please please
#asks#any and all ideas of mine are up for drawing lol#also for smth as simple as fight club + lighthouse you dont have to credit me but no issue if you want to#honestly this place is a pretty tight knit group so im not super worried about crediting or anything. i guess just if you write smth heavily#inspired by smth i do pls do a lil shoutout#n dont go “wow my totally unique idea i alone came up with!!!”#but i mean i feel like thats obvious#so other than that really dont feel any pressure about crediting stuff haha
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some days i wonder if i should just lay in the grass and let the moss reclaim me
i say as i run on an hour of sleep 5 monster energys and a time crunch to help calem prepare for a big ass order by a couple who want us to make their wedding clothes
#rotomblr#pkmn irl#pokemon irl#irl pokemon#pkmn rp#irl pkmn#pkmnirl#serena yvonne#serena post#LIKE IM HAPPY WE GOT AN ORDER LIKE THIS AND THE THEME LOOKS SO INTERESTING BUT TIME CRUNCHES MAKE ME WANT TO TEAR MY SKIN OFF#“oh if this is how u feel about a big order why dont u decline?” IM HAPPY DOING THESE ORDERS PLS I HAVE JUST BARELY SLEPT#i feel trusted when given these types of orders and they didnt pressure me and calem into doing it we agreed willingly im just overtired
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eugh am i the only one who gets a bit... iffy with this weird guiltrip??
‘reblog the post or else you are the WORST! what is this, a like??? you are literally spitting in OP’s face!’
like i GET it reblogs are suuuper important, but you won’t get people to do it by making them feel bad about themselves. tell why it’s good, don’t tell who they are if they don’t want to do it for whatever reason.
it’s their blog and they shouldn’t feel pressured to make it the way others want them to.
it’s cool to tell them how tumblr works, how people are here. without ordering them how to behave though.
#twitter#tumblr#i feel like people had enough pressure after twitter#with visible likes and following#tumblr is a nice comfy place to dig in#and not be an entertainer for others#i've seen the 'if you dont want your blog to have all the reblogs make a separate blog for it'#and OOF no oof dont dont tell them what they must and mustnt do#'go make a different one' reeeally irks me the wrong way#lf;dfklj i LOVE reblogs okay XD#but MAN threating people with 'YOU ARE A BAD PERSON' doesnt vibe with me#this is such a performative twitter thing pls
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my babies @uwulouis and @theirloveisgross tagged me to list ten songs from my "on repeat" spotify playlist hehe thank you loves <3
WAOYF - Louis Tomlinson
El Tesoro - El Mató a un Policia Motorizado
Vampi - Babasonicos
Keep Driving - Harry Styles
Wet Dream - Wet Leg
Eventually - Tame Impala
Reptilia - The Strokes
Putita - Babasonicos
Snap Out Of It - Arctic Monkeys
Loco en el Desierto - Conociendo Rusia
im repeating what lau said, i think everyone's done this already but im taggin @gentlemoth @louisgrayhairs @trolou @hometomysatellite @anxiouspunk @amaiia @quickpauseinconversations @louisarmpits @enchantedlandcoffee @medicinelarrie @thepeaceringx @505louis @alphalouis and anyone who wants to do it <3
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got tagged by @onyxedskies to do a self-rec for my fics~ thank you for the tag!! (and here's his!)
See Me, See You
recent xanlow fic of mine i was really pleased with! a piece where laslow is badly wounded, and an argument ensues over how injuries like this are meant to be dealt with and avoided.
Simple Triple
my first published xanlow piece which im still really fond of, based on a meme that went around a while ago!! a short story about xander asking laslow to dance at a nohrian ball, then getting only a little carried away.
Citrus
one of my fave leokumi oneshots! im a sucker for meeting-at-a-wedding tropes, but they also make (and chase around) a little friend...!
if you dont mind the tag: @chidorinnnnn @shenyaanigans @shamisense & anyone else who'd like to!!
#(sorry im very shy if you wanna do this pretend i tagged you pls) (but also no pressure for anyone i DID tag) (asdkjfksd)#ALSO THANKS FOR THE TAG!!! :DDD#i do write more than only fe but tbh most of my stuff before fe is just too old for me to rec w/o cringing slightly fkdfjskdf#OR its a longfic but i didnt wanna rec my longfics... i feel dont give enough attention to my oneshots fics sometimes.....#n e way. that was fun!!#thanks again!!#dots on the soapbox#my fics
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ima be hopping between dscrd & here ( mostly here thoo ) buuuutt if anyone wants to do or hc holiday things for our ships come at me <3333 ima be prioritizing holiday things buuutt my normal queue's gonna start up again so i'll be adding drafts to that . alssoo i guess it's time i announce my unhinged smut blog @cndyshop in case you wanna do something real mfing nasty ( or block it lmfaooo ) . warning : it's pretty heinous and lacks basic morals anndd should be titled ' fran being a hypocrite ' throughout it .
#* [ . . . ] kuw miss delulu .#yall already been real patient with me but yk continue pls <33#also don't feel pressured to follow that blog#it's truly for things i dont feel comfy doing on this one#hopefully if you block that account it doesn't affect this one but who tf knows ???
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15 qs / 15 mutuals
tagged by carolina @graham-karen thanks much lovely! 🤍
1. are you named after anyone? i know my name Hanna and second (which i won’t say but you can probably guess) was inspired by Anna Karenina, my mom just gave it a slightly different spelling... probably so i wouldnt be embarrassed for the rest of my life...
2. when was the last time you cried? a real cry? i cant even remember which is nice, but i teared up reading fanfic just half an hour ago...
3. do you have kids? yessss!!! a yorkie named Maggie Marie!
4. do you use sarcasm a lot? all the time, im probably not particularly good at it though
5. what's the first thing you notice about people? the eyes and the smile.
6. what's your eye color? boring brown
7. scary movies or happy endings? scary movies with a happy ending...
8. any special talents? procrastination!
9. where were you born? big us of a
10. what are your hobbies? doom scrolling (i kid!), tumblr and gifing, jogging, baking, right now im really into those tiny lil themed lego things, i dunno, i try a lot of shit at least once...
11. have you any pets? yeah, she is my child and im a very proud pet parent.
12. what sports do you play/have you played? i’m the worst at sports, as every girl growing up i did swimming lessons (that traumatized me for life), ballet, soccer, but again, i wasnt good at any of it... but i did find peace in solo exercising my body and mind tmi i guess.
13. how tall are you? 5′7
14. favourite subject in school? math it felt easier for me back then...
15. dream job? be rich and a professional tumblr girl
tagging (you’re welcome to ignore this! <3): @eddie-dustin @stars-bean @antlerqueer @mulderscully @arthurpendragonns @katherineebishop @killianglyndon @wexler-mcgill @jimmymcgill @aemma-arryn @wylanvannecks @nessa007 @chrrispine
#about me#tag meme#i hope you dont mind me tagging yall#pls feel free to not do it#for real#zero pressure
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going anon because i don't go here (im not yaoi pilled enough)... but the sheer amount of tangchung posts ive seen from you... im putting all my work on hiatus to write an everyone lives fix-it fic... just for you <333 you'll know it when you see it on ao3
also it's thanks for that one long post you did for the titles and names thing (fuck i forgor the title)...
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THIS JUST MADE ME JUMP…... oh my goodness i dont even know what to say im like giggling and kicking my feet right now r u serious omg… id do anything for you if u just asked for it
#SEE WHATD I TELL YALL..WHEN UR DELUSIONAL U CAN MAKE ANYTHING HAPPEN..#yahh that being said pls dont feel pressured to do this for me omggg im so flattered ur so sweet but i wldnt wanna put u out or anything#im only KIND OF joking when i complain about the lack of happy tangchung fics... *broken toothed smile*
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#pencils are displeasing but the permanence of pens scare me#but overall team pen#writing#what do I tag this#poll#personal#pls reblog for larger sample size thatd be cool#dont feel pressured though this isnt important im just a curious little guy
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save one, drop one - nct dream edition // from this video
tagged by: @jae-min and @dearlyminhyung (thank you for tagging me~)
istj vs. glitch mode
broken melodies vs. dive into you
love again vs. 1, 2, 3
deja vu vs. diggity
blue wave vs. walk you home
tangerine love vs. better than gold
hot sauce vs. boom
like we just met vs. to my first
119 vs. drippin'
anl vs. arcade
dunk shot vs. trigger the fever
quiet down vs. poison
be there for you vs. never goodbye
candle light vs. puzzle piece
life is still going on vs. yogurt shake
irreplaceable vs. replay
sorry, heart vs. moon
ridin' vs. go
bungee vs. rocket
dear dream vs. my page
stronger vs. countdown (3, 2, 1)
my first and last vs. chewing gum
saturday drip vs. sos
on the way vs. graduation
my youth vs. dreaming
7 days vs. best friend
beatbox vs. hello future
starry night vs. take my breath
rainbow vs. teddy bear
candy vs. don't need your love
skateboard vs. fire alarm
we go up vs. we young
dream run vs. pretzel
best friend ever vs. fireflies
bye my first... vs. beautiful time
tagging two of my newer moots (hi!): @donghyuckkies @gummydoyoung (if you've already done it or just dont feel like doing it just ignore it 💕)
#tagged#tbh for some of the slower/calmer songs i had to look them up#as i dont often listen to those#buuuut#having to choose between diggity and deja vu is like choosing your favorite parent#same with 119 vs drippin#anyway#again thank you for tagging me#and @ moots i tagged pls dont feel pressured to do this if you dont want to
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oh no
#i felt it building for a few days but its hitting now soooo i think i need to do coping strats#(read that like im talking about a cool speedrun strat)#ik a couple of my friends would be disappointed in me for asking here but o feel like this is lower pressure#nc if i ask someone directly and they dont want to help then theyll feel pressured to#but here you can ignore it if you want and you dont have yo feel bad about it!!!! so:#if anyone has any ideas for something that i can do to distract myself and/or cheer myself up#that would be lovely pls and thank you#depression
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HII UM I JUST WANT TO SAY THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL THE NICE TAGS I OPENED TUMBLR AND JUST GOT ?!?!!!!!AHHG OMG !!?!! OH AND YOU ARE VERY AWESOME BTW!!!! I LOVE YOUR ART A LOTTTTT 😭😭 WHEN I SAW YOUR 049 ART I WAS LIKE NO WAY THIS IIS SOOO COOL!!! jsiseuehjs love your awesome art i just feel shy to spam in tags ah I HOPE YOU DON'T MIND ME PUTTING THIS IN YOUR ASK !!! :DDD
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#NFKSNX NOO DW DW I LOVE ANSWERING ASKS AND ALL#also tysm😭😭but please dont feel pressured to do the same to me#i just wanted to let you know that your art is amazing!!#can you pls give me your art skills hahah i promise i will give it back hahah#❤️❤️have a nice day btw#ALSO ITS SO NICE THAT YOU TALK JUST LIKE ME FR FR I WAS SCARED OF SPAMMING TAGS AND THAT MAYBE YOU WERE LIKE THIS SUPER SERIOUS AND#THAT YOU WERE JUDGING ME💀💀FOR SPAMMING TAGS💀💀💀💀#okay sorry i talk too much BYEE
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