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People say ace people don't get it because they don't have the same challenges as other sexualities and they are right in a way. But other sexuallities also have no idea what it's like to feel invisible or constantly told it's trauma, or anxiety or immaturity that makes us the way we are
#aces belong at pride#asexual#its not trauma#please dont assume#we all belong at pride even straight allys#we welcome all
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supporting communities & people impacted by the Southport attack and the far-right riots in the UK
here is a list of community fundraisers I found, starting with those aiming to support the Southport community after the appalling attack at a children dance party, to the fundraisers helping those affected by the subsequent racist and Islamophobic far-right/nazi riots
Edited on 5 August to include Middlesbrough fundraisers. Edited on 6 August to correct the link on the Books for Spellow Lane fundraiser, to adjust the name change for the Belfast fundraiser, and to adjust the wording in the second last paragraph.
Southport:
Southport Strong Together Appeal - organised by the community foundation for Merseyside, for those affected by the Southport knife attack
United for Southport families - the funds will be distributed among the nine families of the children who were at the party
Swifties for Southport - a fundraiser for the Alder Hey Children's charity, which supports the victims and the affected families, as well as first responders and clinicians. Extra funds will also support the wider Southport community
Fundraiser for the Southport Mosque - a fundraiser to aid rebuilding or possibly re-locating the Southport Mosque after the damages it suffered during the riots
Rebuilding Windsor Mini Mart - fundraiser to rebuild the locally-owned grocery store that was targeted during the attacks, broken into, and looted
Liverpool:
Fundraiser for the Spellow Hub - the Spellow Hub was broken into, looted and set on fire at night during the riots. The Spellow Hub is a newly created one-of-a-kind (in the UK) institution, which consists of a library as well as a community centre with a mission to help people get education and pathways to work
Books for Spellow Lane - another fundraiser for the library in the Spellow Hub, to replace the books and rebuild the library there edit: included the correct link
Hartlepool:
Fundraiser for the Nasir Mosque - the Nasir Mosque was attacked following Southport riots; this fundraiser is organised by Hartlepool citizens to help the mosque deal with the damages as well as to show appreciation for the role of the mosque in the community. edit: the funds will be also distributed to the local community!
Rebuilding the Farm Shop - the shop was targeted during the riots, and when the owner and his son tried to protect it, they were also violently attacked. The fundraiser is to help fix the damages to the store.
Sunderland:
help rebuild Citizens Advice Sunderland offices after arson - two of the Citizens Advice Sunderland offices were set on fire during the riots, and one of them is completely destroyed.
Hull:
Hull Help for Refugees - a local fundraiser to support the Hull Help for Refugees charity, the donated money will be re-distributed to community members affected by the riots
Fundraiser for Hull Help for Refugees and Welcome House in Hull - collected money will be donated to the two charities
Belfast:
help fix racially motivated damages - originally the fundraiser for the Sahara Shisha Cafe which was targeted by the far right in Belfast during the riots, now a fundraiser for all affected businesses in the area. edited to reflect the change of the name of the fundraiser to avoid any confusion
Middlesbrough:
Supporting residents after the riots - Middlesbrough has suffered so much during the riots, lots of businesses as well as just regular family homes were vandalised, had their windows smashed or even were broken into. This fundraiser wants to distribute the funds between affected people to help them fix the damages, and to generally support the local community. the newest fundraiser, imo potentially the most urgent one
Fundraiser for a Care worker's car which was set on fire - a car belonging to an employee of a care agency was set on fire during the riots while he was on shift at a care home.
If you want to donate locally but there is no fundraiser to support where you live, consider donating to your local charities oriented towards Muslim or PoC communities, or towards anti-racist and refugee organizations! And go support your local Muslim/Arab/Black/Asian/Refugee owned businesses!
If you have any information about other local fundraisers, feel free to add to the post or don't hesitate to let me know and I will add them here! We have seen so much hate in the past few days, we have to stay strong and keep supporting each other!
Stay safe everyone 💛
#uk riots community fundraising#there is a lot more fundraisers for Southport but these are the major ones#it's difficult to find more local riot damages fundraisers however because those tend to be shared locally only and it hasn't been long#since the riots so i assume more will be created in the next few days#so if you know about any and want to add them here please feel free to drop me a link! It'd be good to have them in one place#tumblr has a decently sized uk community so if this post finds at least one person who learns about a local fundraiser i'd be happy#not that you have to donate locally of course. i encourage eveyrone to donate. you dont even have to be british!#southport#uk#uk riots#england#uk far right#far right extremism#uk news#uk politics#ukpol#racism#islamophobia#nationalism#fundraisers#octarine talks#there are other ways you can support your community through all this and i highly encourage that. i thought about writing about that here#but ultimately this is a fundraiser post and you know your community best - just go talk to people and give your support#or help clean up#or attend the antifacist marches and demos and vigils
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screaming
#collab when#@ watcher hello?? simone?? collab when?? please reach out#i dont actually know if simone is still working for them but i assume yes lol#anyway id explode#dan and phil#dan and phil games#watcher#ryan bergara#shane madej#dnp
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u seriously have to let go of the idea that "man" and "woman" are totally separate. u have to be comfortable w the idea that identities are way more complex than a binary. if u wanna break the binary u HAVE to accept that there are identities thatll blur and coexist in ways that are only truly contradictory if ur still adhering to the gender binary u claim to reject. sometimes women are gay men. sometimes men are lesbians. these are not impossible and theyre not contradictory, theyre just experiences that exist because man and woman are just 2 genders out of countless others, not opposites
#kitty purrs#additon incoming; dont reblog this version#please reblog the version with my addition#my addition is very important to this discussion#im assuming this post is ending up on FYPs with just the first part since so many are rbing that directly from me
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This is my petition for people who create pins/stickers/other things with "she/they" & "he/they" to also include "she/he". I'm kind of sick of being excluded, and I'm sure there are plenty of others who feel the same.
#trans#transgender#genderfluid#bigender#nonbinary#non binary#multigender#polygender#pangender#she/he#he/she#pronouns#talking lollie#anyways. people should maybe share this around#kinda sick of going to cons & seeing my pronoun set excluded#and also everyone assuming all nb people use they/them in some form#particularly when other people try to correct either someone else or themself to they/them for me#like mate... ive literally never used they/them#she/her and he/him aint dirty. please dont act like it.
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Has this been done yet? Probably.
Tried to use language that's inclusive of alterhumans who are still human.
#please assume that this includes you even if you use alterbeing instead#or dont use the alterhuman label but are still something that could fall under it#you get the point#alterhuman#otherkin#plural#plural system#otherhearted#copinglink#otherlink#fictionkind#therian#fictionkin#fictionflicker#tulpa#soulbond#op#merlin (xe/he/they)#everything althu#everything plural#althu memes#everything flicker#everything hearted#everything otherkin#everything link#plural memes#otherkin memes#link memes#hearted memes#flicker memes
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consider helping a queer disabled artist survive until they find another job !!!
i lost my job last month because my manager wouldn’t accommodate my disability anymore , and i have a long list of things that i need help paying for , including insulin and medication , appointment copays , groceries , gas , and car insurance . my dog recently had a severe allergic reaction and i had to take her to the vet , which drained absolutely everything out of my account . i don't even have enough money to eat at the moment .
i’m looking for employment , but in the meantime i really really need some help . i offer art commissions , the link is below ! please consider throwing a few dollars my way until i’m able to get back on my own two feet , even a little bit helps more than you even know . please boost this post !!!! thank you for reading
commission post p-yp-l c-sh-pp
#lgbt#queer#please reblog#crowdfund#queer crowdfund#aid request#financial aid#mutual aid#urgent#signal boost#ask to tag#sorry if there's any typos i'm running on very little sleep and im in so much pain#also remade the old post bc i reblog it at least 50 times a day and it inflates the notes and ppl assume that i dont need help anymore
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so because the aro tag is trending (because we’re awesome) id just like to remind everyone that if aroallos make you uncomfortable i think you should grow up maybe :) aroallos arent inherently sluts or whores or players. aroallo identities arent inherently nsfw, minors can be aroallo, and being aroallo doesn’t mean you only care about sex. we are normal fucking people who experience some kinds of attraction but not others. like most people. if my identity makes you think im a creep, thats queerphobic. fuck off.
#aromantic#aro#aroallo#also dont immediately assume all aro people are aroace please and thank you 😊
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prismo stop moving, hes trying to make up some constellations!!
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inspired by @tickletails post abt the stars on prismos back and one of the convos we recently bc we are the normalest ever about these two
#my art#tickle art#adventure time tickle#um. sjkdfjk i never know how to tag these......#could i get away with ship tagging this.........#..........#prisjake#the stars on his back actually do connect into a heart btw (<< screaming and crying)#can these two kiss already PLEASE#lee!prismo#ler!jake#idk if prismo can actually bend off the wall/floor like this in show canon jfkdk im gonna assume the answer is NO but i simply dont care. <
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being in art school and having basically 0 knowledge about christianity whatsoever is so funny at this point i think you could tell me literally anything was an allegory for jesus and i'd just believe you
#my ass has been to church like twice in my entire life so my peers are like 'this is a biblical allegory' and im like yeah ok sure#makes art history class very annoying tho because everyone just assumes you can look at a stained glass window and know who all the guys ar#also sometimes people will be like this image depicts the story of david or peter or some random other biblical name#and then just. not elaborate. because apparently we all know the stories of every biblical guy who ever existed.#who is peter and why is he in the church window. please#and i dont even have an EXCUSE bc like both ethnically and like in basic practice i am christian. i celebrate christmas or whatever#my parents both just fucking hated church so much as children they were like nah were not doing that#and now i have a deficiency in Identifying White Men In Paintings apparently.#sigh. sorry just got a 5 out of 13 on an art history quiz feeling GREAT
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I feel like they can relate when it comes to that, at least. Ahh, I'm having many angst thoughts.
#fanart#sniper#spy#tf2#team fortress 2#team fortress fanart#tf2 spy#tf2 sniper#sniperspy#bloody suit#this ship does NOT happen in the same universe as SniperScout#And please do not assume that ever from my drawings#do not assume any specific ships are happening in the same universe actually#unless its explicitly stated as such#I dont consider myself an anti bc I hate censorship#that being said SpyScout is gross and I will never draw it#my art#tf2 fanart#sorry went on a little ramble there#anyway#you can consider this as non shippy if youd like#I dont mind either way#background
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We Have Always Lived In This Castle (2018)
#sebastian stan#sebstanedit#sstanedit#sebastianstanedit#sebastiansource#please don't add to gif hunts/claim as your own/edit without permission. thank you!#we have always lived in this castle#whalitc#whalitcedit#charles blackwood#charlesblackwoodedit#wehavealwayslivedinthiscastleedit#filmedit#theres 43 minutes or something left of this holiday assuming i can do math#im going to spend it doing what i do best in my 27 years of being single#................................................. yknow what im not gonna finish the joke#i think yall know what it would be its its an awful joke nvm--#no i dont know what this movie is abt no i dont care im gonna do big gif versions of his wet half naked body next too tho dont worry#mine.#sad wet men
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I like her actually
+ uhh these , are these anything at all
And this whatever sorry Greg
#ace attorney#shih na#shi long lang#raymond shields#gregory edgeworth#i don’t ship them please dont assume that I will jump into the ocean
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how do you feel about march eridan?
Ok disclaimer before I get into it, trolls wearing dresses = great and fantastic; in fact, given that the gender differences in troll culture are so much less significant, ALL the male trolls should own some femme-ass clothes, even if it's as simple as just having a skirt version of their pants, and it's a little lame that we didn't get that.
That said, March Eridan specifically kind of annoys me because it has 0 basis in canon (aside from some shoutouts in things like ministrife sprites) but has taken over Eridan discussions so wholly that it's become widely accepted as part of his character that he's really into femme stuff when the opposite is true, and he's got some pretty major characterization tied up in the fact that he does lean so masc, and what specific type of masc he tends to present as.
So first of all, Eridan dresses up to emulate Dualscar, and this is very obvious and straightforward; if you've read the big essay I have pinned to my blog, you know that this is all a part of his basic "I have to be a big bad sea dweller or Something Bad Will Happen" suite of issues.
Thus, we can ALSO assume that the choices he made that aren't made to emulate Dualscar are reflective of his ACTUAL taste in clothing. For example, blue pants instead of purple and black - I believe that this is because Eridan likes to dress up in the blood colors of his dates; he wears a lot of blue because he's hatedating Vriska (and never quite seems to get 100% over her), and we also see this in the rings on his fingers - half of which are fuchsia, for Feferi.
So that leaves us with the glasses, shoes, and scarf. And we know why he dresses like that! It's because he's a hipster. (The scarf has an added benefit of being associated with harry potter-style wizards).
CCG: PAST YOU, PRESENT YOU, FUTURE YOU CCG: AND ABOVE ALL, UGLY SCARFNECKED DOUCHEBAG HIPSTER YOU CCG: WAIT I FORGOT, ALL OF THE YOUS ARE THAT YOU
And very specifically, a masc hipster from the era - the glasses and the ugly-ass shoes are dead giveaways. The slicked-back hair is reminiscent of that fashion style, too. He is also a douchebag. This too is important. He draws from character archetypes of the time that were generally agreed upon to be the most punchable people in existence; his introduction calls him "KIND OF A TOOL" and he consistently acts according to that. Like, I mean, just LOOK at those shades. Those are not the shades of somebody you want to be trapped in a conversation with.
A fairly accurate Eridan fashion board would look something like this:
And, like, it kind of matters that he dresses like this specific breed of pretentious male douchebag; on a meta level, that's the impression he's supposed to give the audience, and on a diegetic level, he CHOOSES to look like this because he has these kinds of interests, but is relegating them to secondary accessories.
We never hear him talk about liking hipster shit; we have to hear it from Karkat and glean it from his design. This is because, as I've talked about before, he actively distances himself from things that make him happy, things that he'd enjoy. The constant push-pull between his ACTUAL interests, and the ones he thinks he has to have because he's supposed to be a big nasty sea dweller, is a huge part of his characterization - for example, the way he keeps claiming that magic and wizards are fake and shitty, but has no less than 6 wizard statues in his respiteblock alone, and cared about his crappy wands enough to bring them onto the meteor.
So that's one of my other issues with March Eridan and the general fanon that he'd be really into femme clothes (and, by extension, fashion) - he wouldn't be forthcoming about it, even if it was true. He has a deep sense of shame and insecurity surrounding what few interests he actually has, because they feel stupid, ridiculous, and frivolous, next to the intense anxiety he has about playing the role society gave him. He's got a very strong sense of duty that makes it very difficult for him to relax and actually enjoy something. Which, you know, probably feeds into his hipster-ness - a movement often defined more by what it doesn't approve of than what it does.
Canon Eridan, when he has a choice of what to wear, overwhelmingly chooses masculine clothing with hipster connotations. And this matters, it's part of his characterization, it says something about him, the same way that it's important that Karkat dresses very simply and baggily (we all know how many insecurities Karkat has about his body) or that Sollux's bifurcation is shown in his clothes. So please please please don't misunderstand my dislike of March Eridan as me saying I don't want him in dresses; I purely dislike it because it's usually SUCH a misread of his character.
And to prove it, here's my other gripe with March Eridan stuff: all the dresses shown in the not-canon "official" artworks don't even flatter his bodytype. Why do his custom mannequins in Pesterquest have CURVES when his Pesterquest sprite doesn't?????
Please, I'm begging you, there are guides for dressing this body type, and even historical fashions that deliberately try to emulate this body type, please if you're going to dress him femme and HC that he enjoys fashion, please put him in clothes that flatter him please
I think Eridan should own some femme clothes, because on Alternia, there are very few differences between the genders, he's rich enough to afford it, and he clearly has more of an interest in fashion in general - but I think the fact that he has a clear canon preference for masculine styles is significant, and I'm really annoying, so it kind of does bothers me that this is a controversial opinion. That being said, I don't want to tell people what they Should and Should Not do, because that's lame. Who cares. He's a fictional character, let people draw him in dresses. Would be very happy if this post causes people to draw him in different styles of dresses though :pray:
#I'm not going to tag this#because also people playing around with putting Eridan in dresses is 100% harmless#and i'm not going to ruin the fun by going But The Canon Says -#i'm just really really really annoying about canon and i kind of assume people follow me for that reason#but please dont let my annoyingness hamper your fun#if you enjoy putting eridan in dresses then by all means keep doing it#peace and love and rise above
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stop telling me facts about gojo—i dont want them Anymore
#she just learned hes a dog person#but he goes to bed at 4am just like me 🥹🥹🥹🥹#delete later#his parents are alive sounds like a lie#i assumed the entire gojo clan was Dead for some reason#me loving gojo forever#someone: he likes dogs#me: oh my god but like how much-#no no its okay if ur a dog person i just dont wanna hear about it lowkey nicely politely please#ive just met one really annoying dog person and it-#gojo can change my opinion on dog people-#witnessing me go through cognitive dissonance on the spot#maybe i just dont want his parents alive bc ive been drawing their son naked#this is the worst fking facts list of all time wtf-
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i hate this one thing that always happens. when me and my friends do truth or dare, or something, and I get asked if I have ever had a crush, I say no. BECAUSE I LITERALLY NEVER HAVE. and no one believes me. no one.
anyways I'm aroace hi
#help#this happens so many times#they're like#“NO CHANCE YOURE LYING”#or#“JUST TELL US”#like no#I don't have any crushes#and I never will#so yeah#aroace#people don't really understand#what#AROACE#means.#aka most of my friends (or ones I've had)#like please I'm not in love with anyone#even if I wanted to#rtgyhufhuysujsf\#IM NOT IN DENIAL I LITERALLY DONT LIKE ANYONE#GRRRR#“oh I know you have a crush”#OH REALLY#huh#I love how some of my old friends just#ASSUMED#anyways hi I'm aroace#ace#asexual
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