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So wait. The explanation as to why 10s face came back was because he desperately needed a rest and he was subconsciously seeking out Donna (Donna! Arguably the least restful friend he’s ever had) to settle down with? But like he only knew Donna for a couple of years, thousands of years ago. From the Doctor’s point of view they knew Amy, Rory, and River for centuries… but Donna is still more important to the current Doctor? Really?
#please don’t misunderstand#I love Donna. she is my favourite companion.#but I think this explanation is really holding the old relationships in higher esteem than the new ones.#where there is no evidence to say the Doctor loves Donna more than they love… like Clara for example#the audience may love her more but that’s different#I think the Amy/Rory/River relationship is probably the closest the Doctor has ever been to having a ‘’family’’ in modern times#so if a family is what he was seeking than it should have been Matt’s face that came back#and I know they’ve made up reasons why the Ponds can’t come back. but his subconscious regeneration wouldn’t be thinking about that#dw#Doctor who#doctor who spoilers#14#donna noble#dw negativity#I’m writing this at 7am on a Sunday morning cos I’m normal and can’t stop think about last nights episode
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having recovered from 7 years of weed addiction I can now say with full confidence that addiction is fully a disease and never a choice
there were many people (who claim to love me) who blamed me for my own addiction, hypocritically turning a blind eye to their own unhealthy coping mechanisms
disregarding the fact that my daily abuse was initially triggered by the devastating loss of my father to cancer, and became impossible to stop because of the onslaught of ptsd, depression & anxiety
also disregarding the obvious genetic component considering my mom’s and relatives’ nicotine addiction
there were even a handful of people who blamed me for their own weed addictions. this used to hurt me because I thought it was true, but now it hurts me because of how untrue it is, considering I was able to quit while still living with/being around several people who continue to smoke
I forgive those people who chided me (especially my own family), because looking back at myself, it must’ve been hard to watch such a beautiful young soul digging her own grave
I will try to forgive those people who blamed me for their own addiction, even that rich corporate one in whichever country currently has the misfortune of his presence actually scratch that, I don’t forgive that bastard for anything
I am eternally grateful for those people who held space for me and did not shame me. some of them I don’t talk to anymore but always wish them well. some of them are my best friends, family, and coworkers. these people recognized that I was suffering from an illness and treated it as such.
if you suffer from weed addiction, you are not alone. it is not your fault. it’s so difficult, and you have to do it all by yourself, but you are worth the effort.
#please don’t misunderstand#I’m not anti-weed but people need better education on the dangers of consumption#it is a lot more addictive than people realize#it can also be financially devastating#tw: weed#tw: addiction#tw: cancer#tw: death#tw: marijuana#tw: smoking
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Doodle of a little gay Apple in her little gay colors 💅✨
I’m gonna be so honest I didn’t understand Dapple cuz tbh I didn’t rlly see Darling with anybody romantically … but then I was like Dapple but unrequited 👀 THAT would be some rlly good spicy and angsty hurt no comfort drama I’d love to watch unfold
#absolutely no hate to the ship whatsoever#plz don’t misunderstand me#art#ever after high#eah#ever after high fanart#eah fanart#apple white#eah apple white#apple white fanart#lesbian#lesbian pride#lesbian colors#yay pride month woohoo !!!#please don’t get mad at me I will cry#anyway if anyone wants to write a fic about this i’ll acc love u forever
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My brother doesn’t understand why a woman would cut her hair short when a creepy man told her he liked her long hair
My brother thinks it’s cringy when women repost the “we are the daughters of the witches you tried to burn”
My brother thinks I’m so cringy and lame for liking Taylor swift and enjoying Disneyland. He doesn’t understand that even though I get she’s a billionaire with different problems than me and she’s not perfect, her lyrics still speak to me. And I feel safe at Disneyland because it reminds me of my grandma who taught me to believe in magic and of my dad who loves hearing about the behind the scenes stuff and the stories of the cast members.
My brother is so forward in his thinking about other stuff that I struggle with him when I try to tell him that in a group of his friends I get cut off and ignored when I say something, and someone will repeat what I just said. He doesn’t believe me because he didn’t hear me, proving my point.
My brother, who does not know what happened to me, doesn’t understand why women would choose a bear over a man because HE would rather live. I would much rather die.
My brother scoffs at booktok and what “trash” women consume with written and audio smut when I know he watches porn.
My brother doesn’t understand why I was upset with the older man at the concert who wasn’t listening and kept talking over me, telling me I should move to the open spot so I could see better, when I was saying I was purposely standing right behind my dad so the lights wouldn’t hit me straight in the eyes and I didn’t really care about seeing the band anyways.
My brother is such a smart person and is so caring about a lot of stuff. He does copious amounts of research to back himself up so he knows what he’s talking about. But sometimes I fear that he gets so caught up in the facts that he forgets that people have feeling and they sometimes do matter in discussions.
He forgets that only he can tell when he’s joking and so when I ask him if he’s serious and he says yes, I’ll believe him because he’s my brother, and I’m supposed to trust him. Sometimes he forgets that jokes are also supposed to be funny to the person you’re telling them to and gaslighting is not a funny joke. And it makes me believe and trust him less.
My brother forgets that he was not the only person slighted by our mother and so when he’s ranting and telling me what happened and I say “I’m sorry, I understand how you feel” he scoffs and tells me to shut up and I’m the Favorite child who gets everything. I’m not and I don’t, that’s our second oldest brother. But me being the only girl I see why he would think that.
My brother is NOT a villain and he’s certainly not my villain. He’s a complicated person I love that sometimes hurts me. And I have no doubt that I’ve hurt him, I am no victim after all.
#brother#little brother#family#women#taylor swift#misunderstanding#please don’t hate him he’s my little brother#he doesn’t understand and it makes me want to cry
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very off topic from current events but. what is lanyons hair texture?? ive been going insane about this for months lanyon babygirl what is going on with ur hair 😭
#I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it im just genuinely curious XD#I can’t tell if it’s curly but drawn simplified or like. in a style.#im also stupid so ifs it’s extremely obvious or im misunderstanding something or mentioned elsewhere please tell me lol#the glass scientists#very tempted to ask at the next qna but im too shy 💔
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Don walks in to the living room of their shared house and finds Chuck and Bobby cuddling on one of the couches, probably passed out. He just stands there looking kinda confused and then Stub walks through the room totally unfazed like “oh yeah, they do that sometimes.” Don takes this as meaning they’re in a relationship and is sad because he definitely had a crush on Bobby. In reality, the cuddling is entirely platonic and is something they did last year too, like they’re just two touchy/tactile people with anxiety seeking comfort from someone they trust. And Don starts to avoid Bobby which makes Bobby upset and maybe Don sees Bobby crying and can’t help but immediately assume he and Chuck broke up, but Bobby is just in tears like “tf Don?!”
#like Bobby has a hard time finding people to cuddle with who don’t want to sleep with him#and Chuck just has a hard time being vulnerable#and Don is just confused#misunderstandings#we love a good misunderstanding#bobby moch#the boys in the boat#boys in the boat#boys n boats#bobby and his boys#someone write this please 🙏#Bobby and Chuck#Bobby and Don#coxstroke
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So, here again the post about the website, because many people still have problems to access the page, I put everything in this post.
+ Duskwood x Moonvale sneak peek website
If you ask yourself now: huh? There is another image on the website, yes, but tumblr probably marked the post as mature content because of this image, so here, without the image including handcuffs.
#please don’t misunderstand the post tumblr please#moonvale#duskwood#moonvale game#moonvale website#moonvale everbyte#duskwood x moonvale#duskwood x moonvale sneak peek#everbyte studio#duskwood game#hbj moonvale talks#hbj mv talks#everbyte game#new everbyte game
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idkidk it’s hard for me to sufficiently emphasise just how deeply plagiarism has affected me and the way I post. I think for anyone who has dealt with plagiarism or had their ideas lifted, there is a bit of a bruise that never really goes away? it can totally sap the joy out of not only writing but engaging in the community—having similar concepts is not a crime and can be a great way to connect with others. now it just makes me extremely wary and stirs up a lot of unpleasant feelings. I know it’s nice to have two cakes and you’ll all eat it happily but if the other person has used the exact same recipe I’m going to feel a bit shit. hell the other person might feel shit about it too idk 💀 this is poorly articulated ksksks
#obviously it’s clear when it’s actual plagiarism#but some people do and will still use ‘coincidence’ to excuse it#it makes you feel like you’re insane for even considering it#it isn’t that I have no confidence in my writing. I know my writing will be different. I know my cake tastes brilliant on its own#and of course it’s not always nicked. but the fact that the other cake is there at all is going to bother me for eternity#I guess I’m kinda like a hit dog except with fanfic LMAO#btw I’m talking very specific similarities. you and another person both doing the ‘shared a bed’ trope is not what I’m talking about#turning reblogs off because this is mostly a vent and not worded right and I’m sure someone will try come for my neck anyway#please don’t wilfully misunderstand what I’m saying#I know what plagiarism is believe me. as mentioned I am speaking on my own personal and specific experience#however you feel about it and how you handle it is valid and fine
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seeing more and more rampant antisemitism in pro palestine spaces you guys don’t let them force this false polarisation on us. it’s only gonna drive the whole ‘but palestinians want jews to all die’ bullshit they’ve been pushing all along. we need to be correcting that false information vigilantly, and everyone needs to stop before they assume something like that to begin with
#like I know wanting people to die who’ve killed people is justified#and you need a safe space to feel that and express it#but please think for one second what it sounds like if you don’t know the reasoning behind it and are just hearing it#a rally goes from a good cause to a threat all because of a misunderstanding. and we lose someone who could’ve been on our side#like I know we’re exasperated and so much evil has been done#but now is the time for strategy
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@lonely-cereal oh i get to explain this ship. ohhh my god. i don’t have the energy to put this in essay form, but here’s the breakdown of my Rayvio agenda 💜🖤
I personally prefer to ship Ray with someone who isn’t from Grace Field, for Isabella reasons
and Violet is unlike anyone he’s ever met, in both looks and personality
but let’s be so serious: she looks like a slightly less feminine Norman, has Emma’s courage. the twist is her attitude. I think Ray would be drawn to her.
they instantly understood each other 👇
they both try to pretend they’re cool and chill, when the opposite is true they care so so so much and have a natural inclination to protect
they look like punk ass mallrat MySpace emo kids like that’s all i can really say on that aspect. but bro trust me on this just trust me
Ray guided her and the rest of the Goldy Pond kids back to the bunker, and it took two weeks, and they had a lot of time to get to know each other. Violet was relativity uninjured compared to the other GP main players, so she’s probably the one who Ray spoke to most often (aside from Lucas ofc) and they definitely worked together while getting such a huge group across that vast distance.
And they had even more time to get close during the search for Cuvitadala. further reading. I think, if we’d gotten more fleshed out chapters from that part of the story, we’d see them interacting a lot more.
it’s not a jump to say they became friends pretty quickly, even less of a jump to suggest they have a solid dynamic. we saw them gang up on Emma for being reckless (really, they’re both worried about her), demonstrating that they’re on the same page, and they already move as a unit.
(we’re entering headcanon territory so just close your eyes and open your mind to my vision) While I assume Emma and Ray paired off most often during the search for Cuvitadala — they are the besties of all time after all — as well as Ray and Don, I see Violet and Ray being a surprisingly frequent pair. Gilda and Emma definitely take notice of this development.
now walk with me here, because in my expert opinion, this ship is a slowwwww burn. like it takes them almost a decade to actually get together. But they just vibe with each other. they hang out more and more after coming to the human world, growing steadily closer.
Ray probably understands what’s happening and comes to terms with it first, deciding to simply Ignore these feelings until they go away. He thinks there’s just no way she’d ever like him like that. And seeing as he places such high value in friendship, he might even think it unfair to put those feelings on her.
Violet is more hesitant, always cautious when it comes to investing emotionally. However, she knew early on this nerd was going to be a problem for her. She also elected to ignore these feelings, and it works for a decent amount of time.
Time goes on, and they start to grow up. The dynamic changes a little, and their sarcastic banter has become more like play flirting, then more like actual flirting. They both think the other is 100% joking.
But Violet gets annoyed with the will-they-won’t-they a few years after they find Emma, and just decides to say Fuck It and kisses him to get it out of her system. this plan backfires, spectacularly.
Ray is like Woah ?!?!!!
They kinda just don’t talk about it and carry on like before, for a few weeks. Until she’s like “oh hey btw what the fuck is your problem” and he’s like “what’s UR problem” and then. bam. Rayvio. Vioray. You agree. 🙏
#lol you don’t actually have to agree or like the ship btw#but i like it! and this is why#like sorry as soon as i saw them interact i was like 👀 fully locked in! but sugita has risen against me……#the promised neverland#rayvio#vioray#nikki talks about tpn#sorry for plugging my own writing but there’s like. nothing to pull from lol.#there’s probably more to be said but I’m so tired lol this is what i can offer u#but I WILL elaborate if asked#also please don’t misunderstand me this is not cishet#punk rock.. gender nonconforming.. baby those are synonyms!
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Hello? you guys alive??? I am not.
I can’t watch s7 here so I just see some stills, articles and gifs. I don’t know all of the details but… I’m freaking out!!!😭😭 WHAT A HELL IS GOING ON !!!!??? This season’s buddie went in a totally different direction than I thought every time. Thank you… thank you…. I can’t imagine what will happen next.
I adore Buck and I like Tommy. They’re going to go on a date? sure. Buck was sooo cute and soft when he was kissed. If their relationship is more serious, like “Buck introduces Tommy as his boyfriend to Maddie or Chris” ? Okay, fine. I really hope Buck will be happy. But, “super handsome-ex army-well versed in martial arts-so fun to be with-comfortable to be with” firefighter is about WHO!? I can’t survive if Buck would realize that Tommy has something in common with Eddie. And…and…
Anyway. I hope just one thing in next episode.
【Urgent】 JEALOUS EDDIE
#my English is more terrible because I’m so sleepy#please don’t care about my misunderstandings#911 spoilers#my thoughts#911 season 7 spoilers
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new sketchbook same bs
#sorry I’m obsessed w them#linebeck#jolene#jolene the pirate#jolbeck#it’s so hard to find good content of them I just have to make it myself#the woes of being a manga enjoyer when everyone else uses their game dynamic 😔 /hj#for the record all of my ship art of them is a healthy and happy relationship where they’ve gotten over their misunderstanding#and don’t hate each other. bc honestly I don’t think linebeck ever canonically hates her?#he’s just kind of. afraid of the fact that she wants to kill him. which is an understandable response#and she’s just pissed that he left her and stole from her which is. fair#but then in the manga they both mutually realize the other doesn’t actually hate them and linebeck apologizes#and after he apologizes jolene isn’t mad at him anymore and is shown genuinely caring about him and he finally realizes that she LIKES him#and i just. please I want them to be happy
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my favorite thing about akihiko is his complete and absolute lack of rizz. he has never been smooth and flirtatious in his life. he has a fanclub of girls who want to date him at school but if they had to speak to him for even 5 minutes i think they would all quit. he thinks protein and workout facts will make women attracted to him. he is so stupid
#squishy talks too much#guys please understand this is lighthearted and i love him and i know he’s not stupid#please don’t misunderstand ok aki is one of my blorbos of all time#about aki <3
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I’m gonna go a little bit insane please stop acting like everyone’s trauma is the same :( I keep finding posts being like “here are some UNIVERSAL EXPERIENCES that EVERY SINGLE PERSON WITH ANY TYPE OF TRAUMA has” and then it’s one type of trauma and ofc that’s just as bad as any other, but can we please stop pretending abuse is the only way to be traumatized. it makes me doubt myself and like. would’ve saved me a lot if I was aware of the existence of medical trauma.
#Indigo being serious#trauma#medical trauma#tw abuse#Another disclaimer that I think#posts about specific types of trauma#are completely fine and encouraged#but stop acting like it’s universal#again please don’t misunderstand this
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#1 problem with some analysis is that people turn the narrative into something which supports their own beliefs rather than trying to understand the argument the show is making in itself, whether you agree with it or not
one of my teachers tells us constantly that it isn’t about what you believe but about what you can argue with what you’re given. whether or not you agree with the message doesn’t matter, it’s about understanding the message in the first place
#this CAN be true but. that’s not what they’re saying. it isn’t what they’re telling you#something that /can/ be true is more like a headcanon or fits into fanon#but that doesn’t mean it’s true in terms of the show itself#this is in fact about will byers#i don’t know how will fans do it man i really don’t#the urge to write the most argumentative insane posts about will byers is unreal#i need circle time with people who understand will please please please please please#i am numb to mike misunderstanding. not understanding will unlocks violence within me i have never experienced#i understand why people don’t get mike because there is so much room for interpretation but. but Will#head in my hands#not vagueposting necessarily. just in general
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Actually…? No. Tell me the odds. I need the likelihood of success and got nothing else to lose might as well try even if extremely unlikely. Because I need help sustaining the hope that everything’s gonna be okay and motivation to get there that I just can’t do for myself without burning out almost completely.
#tiger’s musings#mental health bullshit#…I am just. overwhelmed#by not knowing how to make this work#and being unable to beat the ED keeping me from taking the two steps that I DO know exist#because…I need a moral support body double. and one who won’t get disgusted as my lid flips the whole time I try to do this#and…I just can’t see someone WANTING to MAKE time for me. a small pocket. for us to both relax and catch our breath and enjoy eachother#I’m tired of ‘oh we’re totally friends Tiger!’ but. are we tho?#you set time aside for friends to either just. talk. share memes. or hang out no matter how infrequently#guess my love language really IS quality time#in addition to being very touch starved for Platonic Human Intimacy#and a side of acts of service. because…my chronic illness(es) force me to rely on others#beyond ‘I’d scratch your back if asked. can you please return the favor sometime so I don’t feel used.’#…I’m just. I’m tired. I’m tired of giving out love platonically and feeling Liked but Disregarded#while things also falling apart when I’ve either decided to leave or have to leave due to neutral circumstances or because I’m hurting#I…feel like I’m being Expected to be the one to reach out…again…over Just a misunderstanding#but if I do. it has to be with ‘look I KNOW we miscommunicated but THIS is what hurt me and I NEEDED That acknowledged or clarified’#but…the circumstances that led to the method being blamed for this miscommunication still. y’know. exist#so…what’s the point
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