#please do this. set boundaries

[lilithism1848]

[neon-moon-beam]

Submas Sygna Suit Stories In A Nutshell

Emmet: I learned how to Dynamax with Eelektross! I'm learning another side of him!

The eel: o O o Ingo: I hope I can guide lost people who haven't reached their final destination yet with Chandelure!

The lamp: o --- o

[7birdsfashion]

Shoutout to knitblr for getting knitting trending today. Without that I very honestly would not have finished this sweater vest (that I started over a year ago)

Also she is for sale if anyone is interested (I have not set a price nor have I finished weaving in ends but feel free to hit me up if you want the measurements 👀)

[valeriannnn]

I know little of the Keepers and their cultural norms, but I suppose it should not come as a surprise that matters of grooming and personal maintenance should carry a more pragmatic connotation for those who live in such isolation - or perhaps our friend is simply strange, regardless of his context. I must admit: it was no small comfort to me, in those frigid days heralding the twilight of the Dragonsong War, to discover that our champion did not share our Sharlayan intuition toward personal space. Our more guarded companions don't always share my gratitude for the attention, but I believe that after our long estrangement, even the coldest of hearts could not fail to be warmed by such a gesture.

Wolcred Week 2024 Day 1: Warmth | Home

ok as mentioned in the tags i didnt have time to render a complete scene for this but i found this old mspaint sketch that demonstrates the Vibe. tyagoa just walked up behind him after cleaning up from their meal

[thepeacefulgarden]

It's Okay

It's okay to fill your cup. It's okay to fill your cup first. It's okay to have a cup that needs filling, like anyone else. It's okay to not feel guilty about filling your cup. It's okay to not feel guilty about filling your cup first. It's okay to not feel guilty about having a cup that needs filling, like anyone else.

[uncanny-tranny]

I totally get gendered petnames like dude, sis, bro, and whatever else, and I get why some people might be confused as to why some trans people might take issue with a petname you might think is neutral. However, I do want people to remember that trans people often have different relationships with those petnames because they're gendered, and they might be uncomfortable with those connotations. A trans woman who doesn't want you to call her "dude" is probably not doing it to anger or accuse you of anything, but she might just have a negative relationship with that word.

I get that it can be hard to change habits, but it is worth it to include trans people. If a trans person in your life asks you not to use certain words, I promise they aren't trying to fuck you over or make you feel like you're under attack. They are just expressing a boundary - one that cis people also express.

[stellewriites]

really fucking grinds my gears how my dad knows just how to make me feel fucking guilty for putting up boundaries and saying no

[kissingonclouds]

raymond shields also!!!

[t-u-i-t-c]

Taiya Hando in Bakuage Sentai BoonBoomger 01x29 Spy and Family

[ghoulangerlee]

Thanks for explaining. I understand what you mean and its nice to let the artist choose. But that way writers can just tell their artist friends what to look for because they want to stay in their friend bubble

Anon, I do see where you're coming from but unfortunately I can't tell writers or artists what they can or can't do in this situation. If they're going to "tell their artists friends" what to look for during a 12 week event where the choice options are anonymous then I feel like it's much easier for them to actually speak to their artist friend and collaborate outside of an event.

That's just me, though.

I'm one single person trying to host an event for the entire Ghost fandom, anon, and unfortunately, because I do not dip my toes into the oc/self insert side of the fandom I wouldn't be able to feasibly pair together anyone from that side in a way that would make any sense. I don't know who is or who isn't an oc writer, who is and isn't comfortable creating art for what, which is why it's ultimately up to the artist to choose who they're working with.

I want the event to be fun for everyone involved. I want this event to bring forth new friendships and rekindle friendships between people who may or may not talk much anymore for whatever reason. Like yeah sure, probably stupid and naive of me but holy shit fandom used to be fun and not this weird contest of being nasty to each other and having these weird ideas about "interactions". You talk to people cause you wanna share your ideas with them and you've gotta put in the work on that too. It can't be a one sided thing. Which is what this event is designed to do.

The idea of a big bang is to collaborate on something together, to get people talking about things again. To share their ideas with each other; an author says "i want to write this thing" and an artist says "holy shit i love that let me draw something for it"

And like, I want to believe that you're being genuine about this ask and not trying to stir something up before the event even starts and if that's the case then hit me up off anon and I'll be glad to talk out your fears privately but this is not the way to go about things if this is something you are genuinely worried about.

This is the last ask I'm going to entertain about this, I responded to the first one because it was a legitimate question about how artist/author pairing works, but anymore asks about this specific thing will be deleted, unfortunately.

[euthymiya]

guys its getting so bad to the point that I get jealous when other people like kinich but I also enjoy talking to people that like him so i think I'm losing it maybe

Hi! I just wanted to say in the most gentle way possible that I don’t really like asks or posts expressing jealousy over certain characters, I would like to keep my blog free of those types of posts as I don't want to make any followers feel excluded or gatekept so I would appreciate it if you refrained from sending them to me!

If you feel a certain way about a character, that’s okay for you to express or navigate in your own blog space, but it would be highly appreciated if it was not expressed here on my page! I enjoy hearing about everyone’s kinich self ships and love talking to people about him and I’d like to curate a space that makes people comfortable to interact with me when they do so—and vice versa! I’d like to feel comfortable on my own blog expressing my interests without worrying I’m upsetting anyone!

[crimescrimson]

You're gonna be OK/You're gonna be just fine.

[cozymochi]

Hi! When you start taking requests/ commissions/ suggestions again, could you do Leona with 22??

I’ll just grab my very important boundary tag from the original post.

[clairenatural]

so sorry but it does throw me off when i see cas calling dean "baby"

[arsenicflame]

i am actually really, really glad to see Ed setting himself some boundaries and then sticking to them. he said he wanted to go slow, to take it easy, and when Stede ended up not respecting that, he took the initiative to set some distance between them.

i don't think running away to become a fisherman is the answer, but i do think its important that Ed is removing himself from that situation at the moment. if Stede didn't respect his boundaries once, who's to say he wont do it again? Ed's got enough on his plate, and as they've said before, they're both impulsive! in the moment Ed's gonna keep agreeing with Stede, and then realising later that it wasn't the best thing for him to do. removing himself from that situation, taking away the temptation is a good thing!

[panicbones]

out of curiosity how often do you deal with intrusive thoughts (not mild ones but genuinely upsetting). please do NOT specify what the thoughts are, just if you have them