#platinumrule

[goldenruleblog]

The golden rule is one of the most famous and essential lessons that were taught to us as a child, but as I grew up, I did not pay much attention to this so-called golden rule, and I do not mind whether I was able to follow it or not. Now that I am studying it in the subject Ethics and it became the topic of our report, I realized that I have been doing it for so long. I think I started doing it when I began to have my own perception of things that I can already decide for myself and got to have various experiences in my life. It is just that I did not realize it before since I do not care about it because all I care about is that as much as possible, I should not do bad things or anything that could cause harm to others.

Ever since I was a child, I was very conscious about myself and all of the things that I do either for myself or others, and I think that maybe part of it was the reason I became empathetic as a person. Being the empathic person that I am, I tend to apply the golden rule in my life in a way that I usually put myself in the shoes of others first, before doing anything or deciding on how I should act towards them. Also, as I write this, I realized that I apply the teachings of the golden rule in its three forms which are the positive or directive form (Golden Rule), negative or prohibitive form (Silver Rule), and empathic or responsive form (Bronze Rule). As I have mentioned, I am an empathic person who puts oneself in the shoes of others before doing anything towards them, which indicates the bronze rule. For the silver rule, there are instances wherein I experienced something that made me feel uncomfortable or something that I think one should not do to others, and since I experienced it first hand, as much as possible, I would not want to do it to others because I simply, do not want to experience it myself. And if there is something that makes me feel good that it makes me happy to be treated in that particular way, I would also like to do it to others if given a chance which indicates the positive form of the golden rule. Although I want to treat others in the ways that I want to be treated myself, I know that I should be careful and should not do it all the time because I am aware of the criticism of the golden rule wherein there may be cases in which other people might want or might not want me to treat them in a way that I want or I do not want to be treated myself.

All of these forms of the golden rule are essential in guiding us to a righteous life, but in order to avoid conflicts and issues, the best thing to do is to follow the platinum rule wherein one should treat others in ways that they want to be treated themselves, and most importantly, respect and be kind to others.

Written by: Shaira Marie Serdeña

Personal Perception or Experience about Golden Rule

[jimkellner]

Are you a fan of Vallentines Day? ❤ Someone posted that a guy she was seeing refused to celebrate 'Hallmark Holidays'. Many women lamented that other guys have told them the same thing. 😞 I get it. I'm not necessarily a fan of any holidays really. I don't even celebrate my birthday unless others want to. 🎉 Buuuuuuuut I've realized over the years that those days can be, and are important to other people. 👫 You've likely heard of The Golden Rule: 'Do unto others as you would have them do unto you'. ☺ Have you heard of the Platinum Rule: 'Do unto others as they would have you do unto them'? 😄😁 If something (not just holidays, anything) means a lot to your partner wouldn't you want to make them happy? 💘 And yes, people will say, 'I think we should be treating each other special everyday.' 💏 Absolutely! 💞 AND why not both? 💞 #love #relationships #platinumrule #goldenrule #hypnotist #relationshipgoals. #relationship #relationshiphelp #lovequotes #DamnImPretty™ https://www.instagram.com/p/Bt1XxjEHu9u/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=nq4b7nxugcyi

[simoneonhomes]

Treat people the way you want to be treated. Treat people the way they what to be treated. #goldenrule #platinumrule (at Simone On Homes Abundant Home Inspection Services, LLC)

[thefeliciastarks]

Queens....YOU ARE so BEAUTIFUL on the outside...yet your beauty is often overshadowed by your ugly spirit and the ugly way you treat people. 🤤🙊 Spread love not hate, it looks so much better on you! Don't let the looks fool ya either....some of the most beautiful souls are often overlooked because the outer appearance isn't as immediately captivating as the common "beautiful ones" at first glance. When you truly LOVE yourself, I mean, everything about you, you will genuinely love and treat your loved ones and everyone else around you with love.....❤ 💙Treat others better than how you wanna be treated! #platinumrule #discernment #fitspo #fitfam #womeninfitness #fitafterkids #momswholovefitness #momswholift #gymflow #beastmode #mindset #lovealwayswins #actionsspeaklouderthanwords #yourwordshaveweight #speaklove #womenwholovefitness #empoweredwomenbuildotherwomenup #businessrulesforwomen #innerbeauty #loveyourself

[nizdomarks-blog]

You tell me it gets better, it gets better in time You say I'll pull myself together, pull it together You'll be fine Tell me what the hell do you know What do you know Tell me how the hell could you know How could you know'Til it happens to you, you don't know How it feels How it feels 'Til it happens to you, you won't know It won't be real No it won't be real Won't know how it feelsYou tell me hold your head up Hold your head up and be strong 'Cause when you fall, you gotta get up You gotta get up and move onTell me, how the hell could you talk How could you talk? 'Cause until you walk where I walk It's just all talk'Til it happens to you, you don't know How it feels How it feels 'Til it happens to you, you won't know It won't be real (how could you know?) No it won't be real (how could you know?) Won't know how I feel'Til your world burns and crashes 'Til you're at the end, the end of your rope 'Til you're standing in my shoes, I don't wanna hear nothing from you From you, from you, 'cause you don't know'Til it happens to you, you don't know How I feel How I feel How I feel 'Til it happens to you, you won't know It won't be real (how could you know?) No it won't be real (how could you know?) Won't know how it feels'Til it happens to you, happens to you Happens to you Happens to you, happens to you Happens to you (how could you know?)'Til it happens to you, you won't know how I feel

[nikilivauthor]

Everyone has their own battles. Something I teach my kids. Be kind to others, you don't know the battles they are facing. #bethechange #lighttheworld #kindness #love #goldenrule #platinumrule #spreadthelove #kindpeople #bethesunshine #loveoneanother

[jaysonlo]

Meetings. When I meet with clients, it is always different. Sometimes I would be the one talking 50% or more of the time, sometimes I would only speak 10% or even less while the client takes up 90% of the talking during our discussion. Knowing the different personalities of people is key. There are three things to consider: 1) Knowledge - How much do you know about the different personalities. Are you able to read people? 2) Capacity - Have you integrated this knowledge in your life. Do you apply and practice what you know so that your ability will grow as well? 3) Willingness - Now that you know, are you willing to adapt so that you can better communicate with others? This requires a lot of humility and a focus on an outward mindset. The good news is, everyone can learn how. "Different Strokes for Different Folks" is truly an axiom that will lead to success. www.jaysonlo.com #YOUniquePersonalities #Understanding #PlatinumRule #DISC

[moochibiggins-blog]

Rules to live by. We would all be a lot happier. #platinumrule #goldenrule #benice #bemostexcellenttoeachother #billandted #smile #bekind #justserve #love

[afrescas0225]

TGIT!! Cleanliness is next to godliness 🙌 #TreatYoSelf #PlatinumRule #GoodVibes #WeekendReady

[goldenruleblog]

The golden rule made my life more exciting, thinking of respecting people; I always think, "I do not want to experience it badly so, I should not". It is always a matter of respect to me. If you respect me, then I will respect you too. I do not usually let my guard down so; when someone tells me negative things. I ask myself first if: is it okay to let it pass or be brave then give back the things that I heard? If it’s not worth it, then it’s not worth it.

In my experience, when I was in grade 2, I was bullied by my classmates. They made fun of me because, in grade 1, I was in the last section. The kids around my age told me I do not deserve to be in that section because I was stupid. All I could do at that time was cry and tell my teacher about it, but the teacher also bullied me. I could not bring myself to say that to my family. In the end, did I torment them too? I did not because I do not want them to experience the same trauma I got when I was a kid. Instead, I played along with them and waited for the school year to end.

The golden rule is not always about treating others the way they treated you. It is about knowing first the treatment they wanted to get. In my case, I realized the behavior they wanted from me is not friendship but merely entertainment so that they can watch her cry and sulk in her seat. Anyway, as I grew older, I realized that I do not regret treating them that way, the platinum rule of the golden regulation that I followed that time, thank you.

Written by: Mykel Angela Rosales

Personal Perception or Experience about the Golden Rule

[soulfuldecoder]

Thank you AT&T Uverse for this! 😉👊💪 #attuverse #uversefamily #wave143 #excellence #platinumrule #qualitycalls

[mrs-misguided]

Introducing the Platinum Rule. #platinumrule

[bcserna]

• We all know about the [Golden rule] "treat others how you want to be treated" but we must introduce and practice a new one called the [Platinum rule] which is "treat yourself how you want to be treated. • We seem to be our greatest inhibitor, worst critic, and non supportive friend • We constantly bring ourselves down and lie to us all the time, "we aren't good enough" "we aren't pretty enough" or "rich enough" or "smart enough" we'd never say these thing to other people, so why is it okay to say it to ourselves!? When people love on and encourage you, it lifts you higher. [The Platinum Rule] don't say anything to yourself you wouldn't say to someone else. Treat yourself how you want others to treat you. Tag someone to encourage and love on • #LoveYoSelf #DateYoSelf #PlatinumRule #LifeToTheFullest #LoveDoes

[maydaytrippe]

Treat others so poorly, and yourself so well, that you are never in a position to be treated as poorly as you treat them.

The Platinum Rule, Organizing Principle of the GOP and Rich White Men Everywhere.

[jaybarrerasellinghouston]

Note to Self ~ #JayBarrera #PlatinumRule #Success #Inspire #instagood #inspiration #Realtors #Realtor #realestate #Agents

[ajmarkez]

Golden rule is for normal people, #platinumrule is for champions