#personal headcanons for their genders are a big shrug emoji

[dreamfilleddonuts]

How would a female near, matt, mello, L, and light turn out in your opinion

I honestly don't see L and the Wammy Boys turning out much differently to be honest, because I see all of them as autistics who have never masked a day in their life. So they would not feel the pressure to conform to a neurotypical sense of gender?

Clothing wise, L probably would still dress like she just woke up in a pile of laundry, and would probably still have a rats nest for hair. Mello would still dress androgynously in tight fitting goth clothes. There would just be a different figure to form to. Near would still dress for comfort in her PJs. She probably wouldn't wear a bra because comfort. In her late 20s she would still have the long depression hair. Matt still would dress like she escaped from another anime (rip Matt, if you had been in the kind of anime you were dressed for you would still be alive).

Possibly outsiders reactions to them may be different. A female L always stuffing her face with sweets DEFINITELY would get comments about "are you sure you should eat that?" her male counterpart wouldnt. A female Mello would definitely have to deal with a lot of sexism from organized crime and would need to threaten and make good on those threats very often. A female Near possibly would be infantalized in canon for her interest in toys the same way her male counterpart is by fandom OR would have people trying to make her put the toys away because for some reason afab and amab autistics do not get the same treatment by society when our interests are considered childish by neurotypicals. A female Matt, I am not sure would be treated much differently by others?

LIGHT however? Light has always worn a mask, or several. Light has never unmasked a day in his life. So a female Light would be trying to be the perfect female student, perfect oldest daughter, etc. And the different things society expects for those roles would largely influence Light's mannerisms, way she dresses herself, etc. It may also change her pre Kira goals (would her parents still want her to follow in her father's footsteps in such a dangerous job? Would she still WANT to even if they disagreed with her?) and her motivations as Kira (instead of being fueled originally by boredom, is she fueled by frustration? Either way in the end she becomes consumed by the feelings of power over others, but I mean her earliest motivations here.) In the end she would be much the same person but the roads that she traveled to get there may be somewhat different.

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Ok, gender, here's some here's some oc emoji asks

🔥, 💥, 💧, 💔, 🙈, 🙉 Cassi for uhm no apparent reason haha

🌌, 📎, 🍀Serpa

🕷️, 😭 Athens

got it, only PEPN member I’m not married to

CASSI

🔥 Self destructive habits? - Cassi, a lot of the time, can seem like and usually is a bitch that doesn’t really care about your average person, and while they shrug it off 99% of the time, the fact that they know their very hatable kinda nibbles on the vibe, y’know?

But besides that, she doesn’t really do anything to negatively affect herself. Despite doing a few bad things here and there, the worst habit she constantly has is eating fine China and having grudges against nearly all other beings of her strength for one reason or another

💥 Emotions they have trouble with? - Cassi doesn’t really have much trouble with her emotions, BUT she does have trouble with her feelings with Adm. Fanto, with it being kinda awkward that she’s a godly being that is dating a short little jellyfish man. But besides that, she’s usually able to deal with her feelings one way or another, either problem dumping on Fanto or just ignoring them until they go away

💧Random angst headcanon - I have no idea what to put here, like, Cassi doesn’t really have anything ANGSTY to write about. I guess she like. Kinda beloved Fanto would leave her but like. That’s it

💔 what could their partner do that would absolutely break their heart? - Cassi would be ruined if their partner just…. started ignoring them. She can be okay with them living their own life and stuff, but after a while of them refusing doing stuff with her, she’ll start getting a bit upset about it. After being ignored for a while, they’d go back to their normal self, but behind the scenes, they’re still pining and searching for their partners attention.

🙈 What side of themselves do they not show to other people? - Cassi doesn’t show it often at all, but she occasionally goes to worlds in tragedy and going through apocalyptic events, and watches and laughs while an entire universe of innocent individuals are snuffed out, like a single pixel going black on an infinity large screen. (Flashback to the “She deserves an Oscar for that” joke, I think that’s the only time she’s ever shown herself engaging in that pastime in front of others)

🙉 what is the worse thing they could hear from someone? - “your mom” I have no clue, lmao, yeah, uhhh, just something mean and she’ll either overreact or just laugh at you

The one that smokes (Serpa)

🌌 Character Inspiration - I already knew I wanted a character with the main focus being a big ‘ol eye, and I came up with the idea of it being hidden behind a TV screen, similar to a Mimic. Originally, Serpa was gonna be more mechanical and medical based, but I just so happened to be playing RoR2 at the time of Serpa’s creation, which has a character that is a plant and robot in a symbiotic relationship. I though, “hey, plant tech character”, and soon enough, the basis for what would become Serpa began

📎 Random Fact - originally, Serpa was gonna go by She/Her pronouns, before I realized “it’s a eye covered in vines inside a TV screen, why does it need a gender?”, and then I They/Them’d them

🍀 Do they believe in luck? Are they lucky? - They don’t believe in luck, and I’m willing to bet their luck is pretty 50/50

The one the lights what Serpa smokes (Athens)

🕷 Biggest Fears - Athen sorta fears isolation, not from other organisms, but just in general. being tied to their spine-blade has caused there to be moments in time where they’re just left in the ground or hidden away somewhere where they can be stuck and sentient for extended amounts of time, and it isn’t a very good time for him

😭 What makes them cry - Ignoring the fact their head is made of flames, so they can’t physically cry, nothing physical can do the trick. Every time this bitch takes over a new body, he has to experience its nervous system fry and boil from his own heat causing his blood to become super fucking hot, literally charing his brand new body charcoal black, making him slightly brittle, and leaving all his new pain receptors already burnt to the point they no longer function. Athens gains a little bit of the identity of the every person he’s ever taken over, basically making him slightly change for every body they take, so if he were to take over the body of someone who was horribly depressed or traumatized, it could possibly force him to “cry” because of the new bits of personality he’s obtained. Besides that, good fucking luck making him naturally tear up, you’ll need it.

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Y’know, I’ve recently realized if anyone were to look at this blog, they’d only be able to figure out how Cassi looks, because Cassi is the only one I’ve posted an image of, and it’s on fucking Fanto’s tumblr

I think that’s kinda funny

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Baseless Ferengi headcanons no one asked for and that get increasingly queer-navel-gazing and self indulgent because the horrible space goblins have consumed my brain:

- Mobile ears, because if hearing is so well developed and important to them they should be able to aim those big stupid radar dishes. Also because then they can emote with them and that's cute. THE AESTHETIC IS PARAMOUNT.

- Since they canonically sharpen their teeth with chew sticks and sharpeners, their teeth must grow continuously. So I submit: subcultures that let certain teeth grow out as a fashion/political statement. Ferengi punks and anarchists with 5" tusks. Ferengi with all their teeth filed flat (mom and dad HATE it).

- Corollary to the above, most of their teeth are crooked. At the least, they don't share our fetish for straight teeth. What if their teeth are deciduous, and there's no point in trying to force them into perfect alignment, since they'll just fall out and get replaced? So like, sharks but their teeth can also grow longer with no limit. WHAT HAST EVOLUTION WROUGHT ON FERENGINAR :V

- Parents nagging their kids to sharpen their teeth "or they'll grow up into your brain and you'll die :)"

- Personal space? Don't know her.

Okay I need a cut because there's too many now. WHOLE SOCIETY OF GAY HOMOPHOBIC UNCLES AND AUNTS GO I HAVE A PROBLEM

- I can't remember who on here put forth the idea of them having retractable claws but Yes. :3

- Pushing back against the worst canon episode a bit but: relative ear size being the only obvious sexually dimorphic trait, and even that having enough of a gray area that the only way to be 100% sure you're talking to a male or female Ferengi is if you do a blood test. Unless they're intersex! *shrug emoji*

- This is why they're so fanatical about gender conformity and their Victorian "separate spheres" attitude to men and women's roles. Capitalist patriarchy is fragile! And as artificial to Ferengi as it ever was to Humans! (self-indulgenceeeee about gender shiiiiit)

- You know how with domesticated rabbits, the rabbit getting groomed and paid attention to is the boss? Yeah. Go ahead and paint your bestie's nails, just don't be surprised if she cops a little bit of an attitude with you from then on.

- Their fight/flight/freeze/fawn instincts skew heavily toward the last three, and what a lot of other species read as annoying sucking up is the Ferengi in question feeling anxious and unsafe. Especially if they don't feel integrated into the group. Even being at the bottom of the pecking order is better than not being in the flock at all.

- If they DO opt for fight, it's ugly and typically their last resort. Bites or scratches will get infected without intervention-- microbes that their immune system can handle could cause big trouble for aliens. You might wanna check for full or partial teeth that break off and get lodged in the wound, too.

- Too many of these are tooth related but I don't care. :B More teeth stuff: you know what else has teeth that grow constantly? Puffer fish. Likewise, Ferengi can chew up mollusk shells as easy as potato chips, and they need the minerals for their teeth. (Imagine grandpa Sisko offering Nog a crayfish for the first time and watching as he just...pops the whole damn thing in his mouth and crunches away...)

- Their staple foods seem to be grubs and other arthropods, high in protein and fat. I've unilaterally decided their cuisine also involves a lot of edible fungi, ferns, plant shoots and seeds. Gotta get those vitamins. Overall flavor profile leaning toward umami, vegetal, and fresh herbs, and pretty mild (or "delicate" if you wanna be snooty about it, which a Ferengi probably would let's be real).

- Not much sugary food. I'm basing this solely on Quark's aversion to root beer as "cloying". Which could definitely just be his personal preference, but most of the people I hear hating on root beer cite the actual sassafras/sarsaparilla flavor (saying it tastes like medicine) not the sweetness. Nog might be the weirdo outlier for being able to enjoy it.

- Their home planet isn't bright and sunny, so their eyes are better at discerning shades of gray in low light conditions, with relatively weak color vision. Which could explain why they dress Like That.

- Conversely, human music has a reputation for stinking on ice because a lot of it is juuuuust lightly dissonant or out of tune because we can't pick up flaws that small. Ferengi can, and it drives them up the *wall*.

- Music? So many different kinds. Traditionally, maybe lots of percussion and winds, and water as a common component of many instruments to alter pitch or tone. Polyphony out the ass. Some of the modern stuff is an impenetrable wall of sound if you're not a species with a lot of brain real estate devoted to processing sounds. Pick out one melody to follow at a time.

- Yes, back to teeth again I'm sorry. It's a sickness. At some point in their history, pre-chewing food was just something you did for your baby or great grandma as a matter of necessity. Possibly your baby gets an important boost to their immune system and gut biome from your spit. At some point takes on a more formal intimacy aspect and gradually drifted from something all adults and older kids do to something only women do. Your husband and older kids have perfectly functional teeth, but you love them, right? =_= (Think old memes about husbands being useless in the kitchen if little wifey isn't there to cook, but even more ridiculous. Ishka was right about everything but especially this. Thank you for making your family chew their own food, Ishka. Not all heroes wear capes. Or anything!)

- How did they get started on the whole men: clothed vs women: unclothed nonsense? My equally stupid idea: men just get cold easier. Those huge ears dissipate a ton of body heat. Cue Ferengi cliches like "jeez, we could be standing on the surface of the sun and my husband would put on another layer." At some point, again, this got codified and pushed to ridiculous extremes in the name of controlling women and keeping everyone in their assigned box, to the point that women just have to shiver if they really are too cold and men have to pass out from heat stroke if the alternative is going shirtless, because That Would Be Inappropriate.

- Marriages default to five years, but they're also the only avenue for women to have their own household or any stability. Plus their religion places no emphasis on purity save for pure adherence to the free market and the RoA. So, curveball to the rest of their patriarchal bullshit: female virginity isn't a concern in the least. Bring it up and they'll rightly side-eye you.

- Family law is absolutely bonkers and lawyers that specialize in it make BANK. I feel like custody would default to the father usually but oh wait, the maternal grandfather has a legal stake in this, too, and your next father-in-law is asking HOW many kids are you dragging into my daughter's house, etc etc. Growing up with a full sibling is way rarer than growing up with half or stepsiblings, since it usually takes both men and women two or three tries to find someone they vibe with. (Not love, unless you're super cringe.)

- A misogynistic society is a homophobic society. Imo those flavors of shittiness just come in pairs. Homosexual behaviors are fine within certain parameters (aka "always have sex with the boss") but not on your own terms. To add spice, bisexuality is their most common mode (because I'm bi and these are my hcs for my fics I'm not writing, so there), but capitalism demands fresh grist for the mill so you better get het-married and pop out some kids you lowly peons. You have a choice so make the proper one. :)

- Corollary to the above, that doesn't keep all kinds of illicit "we're just friends with quid-pro-quo benefits for realsies" affairs of every stripe and every gender from going on everywhere. Many Ferengi have a lightbulb moment somewhere in early adulthood when they figure out their dad's business partner or the "auntie" who visited their mom every month had a little more going on.

- Plus there's way more gender non-conformity and varying degrees of trans-ing than the powers that be have a handle on. Pel isn't unique, even if most would have to somehow make it out into space to be able to thrive.

Damn a lot of these are just my personal bugbears plus THE GILDED AGE BUT WITH HAIRLESS SPACE RODENTS ain't they

- Women can't earn profit, okay. But lending or "lending" things to each other isn't commerce, riiiiiiight? To be assigned female is to master navigating a vast, dizzying barter/gift economy. Smart boys and men leverage this, too, and there are splinter sects that view this as the purest expression of the Great Material Continuum.

- Of course plenty of women make profit anyway, and just do their bast to dodge the FCA. The tough thing about insisting on using latinum as currency is that cash can be so hard to track, you know?

- Because of the RoA, guys are discouraged from doing favors or giving gifts without setting clear expectation of getting some return on investment. This can twist into an expression of friendship (and of course women do it too), and the ledger will keep cycling between debit and credit among friends for decades. A common mistake aliens make is to tell them recompense isn't needed without explaining why, or return their favor or present with something that zeroes out the debt. The Ferengi will assume you want to break off the friendship. (I cribbed this from dim memories of an African studies course I took in 2007 and whose textbook I know I still have but I can't frigging find it...)

- Flirting, they do a lot of it for a lot of reasons. Roddenberry made it clear that they're just straight up pretty horny, but there's no reason it can't pull double duty for building alliances with other people, smoothing over feuds or disagreements, or cementing friendships. Ferengi who are ace and/or sex-repulsed are possibly viewed similar to the way we'd view someone who's "not a hugger/not big on touching" and if they flirt just don't get offended if it doesn't go any further; aro Ferengi don't garner much comment aside from an occasional "wow how badass, never falling in love with anyone."

- where to even start on making sense of the Blessed Exchequer??? Like seriously, what is this literal prosperity gospel insanity, I need to force myself to re-read Rand and like, some Milton Friedman for this shit. Help.

- fuck I'm probably going to actually do that, RIP me...

[ecliptsukki]

quirk that leaves you nude ❧ bakugou katsuki, midoriya izuku, todoroki shoto

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➣ genre: fluff

➣ warnings: mentions of reader being left nude, the smallest smallest hint of suggestiveness in bakubro’s, two curse words

➣ request: Class 1a big 3 with a reader that quirk leaves them nude and the reader don’t really care about it

➣ a/n: this one took me a while to find out what quirk would leave the reader nude because i didn’t want it to simulate mirio’s quirk. i’m actually quite proud with how this turned out. i’ve also noticed how my bnha headcanons always end up being gender neutral lmao. anyways, enjoy!

- your quirk was shapeshifting. you could change into whatever you wanted, whenever you wanted. although, as with every quirk, there were drawbacks. unlike other students, the drawbacks of your quirk never hurt you.

- other quirk users couldn’t say they envied you, but they definitely didn’t say they didn’t wish for their drawbacks to not take tolls on their health and body

- your drawback, similarly to mirio’s, was the loss of your clothing

- whenever you shape shifted, your clothes would either become to big and fall off your body or your clothes would be shredded by the expansion of your size

- your ability didn’t change the anatomy of others, nor the size

- this drawback led to many accidents and flashing of fellow classmates and strangers

- mineta, being the openly perverted person he is, didn’t mind ogling your body whenever he had the chance

- but someone did

- if you and bakugou hadn’t started dating yet, he would mostly respect your pride and never glance at your bare body. even if you were training against each other, whenever you turned back, he already was holding your fallen clothes or giving you his jacket to you without sparing you a glance.

- definitely gets flustered by the idea of you standing nude beside him

- the boy respects you for your unbreaking spirit and strong will to not only help others but to be number one

- if you and bakugou were dating, he wouldn’t care if he was looking at your bare body

- he’s seen it multiple times, why would he shy away?

- he would simply once over your body, hum in approval, and hand you spare clothes

- if mineta even tries to peek

- yiKeS

- “i’m going to fUCKING KILL YOU, GRAPE BALLS”

- *bOoM*

- never wants anyone else to see your gorgeous body

- “you belong with me and only me”

- your quirk is camouflage. you can blend in with anything. your quirk is almost like hagakure’s because of how you practically turn invisible.

- in order for your quirk to work at its fullest, your clothes must go

- you never have to manually strip because when you use your quirk, it creates an acid that comes out of your pores, burning away any material on your body

- if you overuse your quirk, it could result in acid dissolving your skin

- from training, you were able to lengthen how long you could control the quirk for, which was about 30 minutes

- since your quirk didn’t give you advantages in combat, you had to train your body to be strong and to be able to defend and attack others

- deku always admired you from the sidelines, watching your precise movements as you kicked and punch the practice targets

- his pencil would constantly be jotting down his observations and what techniques of yours he could use to improve himself

- “they angle their body at...” mumble mUmBle MuMblE

- when you actually use your quirk for the first time in training, he gets so hyped to write it down

- oH BOY, just wait for the shock to appear on his face

- his pencil in hand, fresh with lead, ready to write at lightning speed, eyes locked on your figure

- you disappear, enabling your quirk and attacking your opponent

- deku thinks you have an invisibility quirk like hagakure, except with different features. he noticed how your clothes turned invisible with you, looking like they were melted away

- as he was about to write down what he observed, you appeared once more but much MUCH more revealed than you were before

- drops everything, including his jaw

-  you walk off and grab spare clothes on the bench and act like nothing happened, like you weren’t just nude five seconds ago

- he’s so flustered and his emotions are going haywire

- he knows he shouldn’t be reacting so inappropriately but you were just to beautiful and talented and smart

- later on, baby scolds himself for ogling you and telling himself that he should go apologize 

- forgive him *insert doe-eyed emoji*

- he goes up to you after practice and profusely apologizes

- and you’re just like “it’s aight,” shrugging it off as if he accidentally brushed his shoulder against yours

- this leads to the two of you starting a full on conversation, starting from deku fawning over how awesome you are

- over time, when you start dating, he gets used to seeing your bare body and always bring a spare outfit for you to wear

- very much dislikes others seeing something that should be reserved for him and him only

- your quirk was elemental control, similar to todoroki’s. even your drawbacks were similar to the two-toned boy, except a smidgen worse

- you could control wind, earth, fire, and water

- overuse of fire would lead to the destruction of any product on your body and then your body itself. overuse of wind leads to incapability to control it’s strength and your clothing getting ripped off by the strong currents. overuse of earth would lead to your quirk extracting the organic materials in your clothing and using it as a weapon. overuse of water would lead to either you losing control and a heap of water crashing over you, ultimately ruining your outfit, or you freezing your clothes off

- having a lot of power meant many drawbacks

- at UA, you and todoroki often trained together because of how similar your quirks were

- before you trained, you could only use your quirks for 2-3 minutes consecutively and had to take 1 minute breaks before using your quirk again

- though, as you began to train alongside todoroki, you were able to use your quirk for a longer time and take shorter breaks in between

- obviously, since you trained with him, he was the first to see the awkward drawbacks of your quirk

- “oh yeah, that happens quite a lot”

- he blinks and doesn’t know how to respond because, as not inert as he is, your lightheartedness towards the situation shocks even him

- eventually, he gets used to it and doesn’t even care that you’re nude 

- one day, he had a sudden thought that was totally random and didn’t make sense whatsoever but at that moment it did to him and so, he confronted you about it

- “since i’ve seen your bare body many times, wouldn’t it be fair if you saw mine?”

- sounds much weirder than he thought it would

- you CHOKE on your saliva and break out into a coughing fit

- “sho, are you okay?”

- you most definitely declined the offer, though it was very tempting

- only was that offer fulfilled once the two of you began dating and he saw your nude body tons more of times

- he asked you out at the weirdest time, though

- you’re literally butt naked, training beside him and he just drops whatever he’s doing and asks, “wanna go on a date this weekend?”

- flusters you beyond belief and suddenly you feel all too exposed

- “u-um sure?” you splutter, hiding your dignity body in your arms

- “cool”

- wHAT THE FUCK JUST HAPPENED

- when you were friends, he was already protective of your bareness, but once you started dating, he would literally never take his eyes off of you when you are using your quirk so that he can be there to cover you up right away

- doesn’t matter who they are, if they catch even the slightest of glimpses of your skin, todoroki will fight them

- on many occasions did you have to hold him back

- he just loves you. let him love you uwu

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tagged by the wonderful issy @outtamywayskinny (iconique url!) to answer these thirty delicious questions. yum!

name/nickname: sasha / alex / ash / sash, or some forbidden combination of those

gender: lmao

star sign: libra

height: 5′9″ or 175cm because I’m a bastard who believes in rounding up

time: 20:58 CET

birthday: 2nd october baby!

favorite band(s)/group(s):  godspeed you! black emperor, liturgy, the soft moon, sonic youth, dinosaur jr, fugazi, system of a down (listen i’ve been jamming to toxicity a bunch recently... we love to hate george bush here), depeche mode, moss icon, a tribe called quest, public enemy, tom waits, mewithoutYou, mother mother,  run the jewels, lightning bolt, fleet foxes, protomartyr, fuck buttons, radiohead (sorry)

favorite solo artist(s): chelsea wolfe, fiona apple, baths, mitski, patti smith, courtney love, noname, pj harvey, courtney barnett, steve albini (just anything he touches really), lingua ignota, MF DOOM, madvillain, kanye west’s early work only (again sorry but the college dropout is so good). i used to love grimes and azealia banks more than anything but time has proven me a fool on both fronts (more grimes than ab). i miss 2013 where i just listened to 212 and oblivion on repeat guilt-free.

song stuck in my head: ghost by gouge away. love to listen to a female vocalist scream her lungs out honestly.

last movie: bridget jones’ diary (2001) which is fascinating from a sociological point of view imo

last show: still watching adventure time season 7 with the hope of catching up to see obsidian and make my 2012 bubbline loving heart explode

when did i create this blog: august 2020

what do i post: rambling headcanons, occasional funny posts, takes that range from lukewarm to haute (coutre), other people’s cool art, links to my ao3 page (my writing is good), complaining (i love complaining)

last thing googled: “mace windu lightsaber.” i’m listening to A Civilised Age which is an EXCELLENT clone wars podcast and they were all discussing what lightsabers they’d have so i googled to check what designs they were talking about. so basically. nerd shit.

other blogs: @sashacore (art, politics, personal stuff), @profanetools (elder scrolls sideblog, lesbian dwarf zone)

do i get asks: yes but i dread every single one since i put on anon

why did i choose this url: it’s funny (to me, at least, i can’t tell if my jokes are good nine times out of ten)

following: 700 or something because i compulsively follow people back

followers: 398

average hours of sleep: ranges between 5 to 9 hours but regardless i’m always still tired

lucky number: 77

instruments: clarinet but i haven’t played it in years :(

what am i wearing: a new hope star wars t-shirt (i am visibly doing a shrug emoji but i’m too lazy to copy-paste so imagine it in your mind’s eye) a plaid shirt over that, poorly fitting mens jeans, chipped black nail varnish. very par for the course for sasha.

dream job: god just. someone pay me to write please.

dream trip: interrail around central europe OR i’d really like to do a tour of china, since i think it’s far more diverse and varied than most people give it credit for

favorite food: pizza, but specifically the 3,50€ takeaway pizza from the small southern italian town i lived in for a year in 2018 with the local style of fluffy crust / thin base. fucking divine. never again will i get that quality:price ratio. never again.

nationality: copying what issy says: “i’m from- 😐e- 😰 eng- 🤢 england 🤮” except i can’t say actually say i’m english since my mum is glaswegian it’d be death on sight, whoops! (i think she resents the fact that i’m english lol). but i am to my scottish family as james derry girls is to derry, if that makes sense. i refer to myself as bri’ish usually because it is accurate even if there are certain class connotations to calling yourself british vs. english (it’s a whole Thing).

favorite song: just one??? okay fine. fine. it’s chelsea wolfe’s flat lands.

last book read: i’m still reading beloved which is incredible but i’m also reading mort by terry pratchett which is a good read

three fictional universes you’d like to live in: 1. the one where i am mentally well 2. the one without capitalism 3. i think it’d be fun to airbend personally.

not tagging anyone but big love if you want to do this yourself!

[sunkist-scientist]

tommy for the ask meme?

Sexuality Headcanon: gay Gender Headcanon: my hcs shifted 2, him bein a nonbinary guy....... A ship I have with said character: [sweats] theres a lot. big 1 is uh........ what was tommy/darnold/gordon...... free soda? is that right? someone pls help me confirm A BROTP I have with said character: tommy & benrey ofc, A NOTP I have with said character: shrug emoji..... i dont rlly like, hate any hlv.rai ships but im not personally invested in tommy & f0rz3n? yknow? i’ll still draw it when requested but i prolly wont go out of my way 2 draw them 2gether, A random headcanon: hes got a special interest in biology, specifically like animal mutations & genetic anomalies, which is partially what inspired Sunkist c: General Opinion over said character: k. kis.... kiss tommy? dr coolatta kiss moments please? jk but seriously sometimes i see pics of tommy & i start crying cuz i love him so much <3 he is a dude i would want to play mario games with

[badsithnocookie]

Mmmh, I have a question because some things that I have found isn't really detailed. So, could you illuminated us with your knowledge and headcanon please, about sith wedding, and red sith wedding please? it's for.. my work. *cough cough*

oh man weddings. yeah there’s not much in the way of canon on these and it’s like ?? on the one hand, yeah it allows people to rp what they want etc but it’s also kinda. underwhelming. (like the only actual wedding ceremony in vanilla is doc’s, so... yeah)

anYway red sith weddings

i figure that sith are going to be Huge on pomp and ceremony, and weddings are going to be a Very Big Deal. a traditional sith wedding is going to be an Event on a scale with, say, a high catholic ceremony (saying this only on the scale of ritual and grandiose Bullshit i’d expect it to entail, rather than any actual analogies involving catholicism). especially if your oc is from a noble sith family, there’s going to be a lot of Names And Faces there as well as reams of extended family (and let’s face it, sith wedding drama would be dialled up to eleven from regular wedding drama. i suspect most people try to stop short of actual murder during a wedding/afterparty but everyone still talks about That One Time that Darth Whatever got stabbed with their sister in law's dessert fork)

obviously the lower down the social ladder you go the less impressive your guestlist is generally going to be, though sith very much have to keep up with the joneses so there's going to be huge social pressure to throw extravagant parties. even though i generally reject the idea that sith are hedonists, everyone needs to let off steam sometime, and sith very much are about the theatrics of flaunting what you have (and then some more, for bonus)

i would not expect sith wedding vows or other traditions to be particularly gendered, and there's definitely not going to be any "love, honour, and obey" bullshit. I kind of want to say that sith vows would generally reflect and reference if not the sith code directly then at least its general ideals (those of personal strength and passion, claiming one's place in the galaxy against hostile opponents, etc).  

"I, [name], take you, [partner's name], to be my [husband/wife/spouse], on this day, and forever more. As you are my passion, so shall I be yours. My strength, is our strength. My victories, our victories. All who stand against us will be cut asunder. This I swear to you."

this is just an example ofc. i am sure someone out there could come up with something better :p

worldbuilding note - pre-ziost, the wording is probably going to invoke the emperor's authority at some stage, even if it's just the celebrant saying sth like 'we are gathered here in the sight of the emperor to witness the matrimony of these two idiots'. post ziost ofc that wording may change dependent on the ideological bent of the celebrant and or idiots in question

going back to the note above on gendered issues: none of this bride-in-dress-groom-in-suit shite. sith wear sith robes, or more likely ceremonial armour (with heavy emphasis on 'ceremonial' - it is more likely to be armour-styled-clothing than actual armour, though i suspect more powerful sith would also include an actual armour underlay, because sith). both parties regardless of gender would probably wear jewellery signifying familial ties/history, regardless of what they wear on a day to day basis, going back to the pomp/ceremony thing above (also the fact that sith are very have-it-flaunt-it, and obsessed with bloodlines and lineages).

personally i've always figured that rather than One Single Sith Jewellery Tradition there are a few different ones depending on familial history and jewellery (while imperials tend to have a fairly singular tradition, in part because imperial culture is more of a monoculture but also because uniform regs are a Thing that exist). but this is 100% personal hc ofc. at the very least though i feel safe in saying that there would be jewellery exchange or acquisition as symbolic of the merging of two families/bloodlines in marriage.

in the case of a sith marrying an imperial in an otherwise traditional wedding, it'd be dress uniform time for the imperial in question (remember, military service is mandatory in the empire). in the case of a sith marrying a non-sith non-imperial, i think we're out of the comfort zone enough that it qualifies as a non traditional marriage *cough*

~non traditional weddings~

this would cover a whole host of sins but in the context of red sith is largely likely to be small scale and or military/imperial weddings. to wit: i've always hc'd there's a disconnect between sith and imperial culture, with imperial culture being much more practical and less grandiose than sith (and particularly red sith). sith culture, imo, would still have a lot of hangovers from pre-ghw sith culture, whereas imperial culture was set up against that as it is largely held responsible for being what lost them the ghw (my starting point here however is dk's revan fanfic, so take that as you will).

imperial weddings are thus largely going to be military weddings and while these are not immune to pomp and ceremony if you're high up the command chain enough (examples: 1, 2) they're still going to have a different atmosphere to primarily religious ceremonies. the other exception to those links i want to note is that the first one in particular is from a religious nation (rather than a secular one), and while the empire is a theocracy, the state religion is also mostly only concerned with sith. imperial weddings, to my mind, are going to be closer to civil weddings - take place in either civil offices or other non-religious premises (hotels, conference venues, etc). (and that's excluding people who get married in ad hoc services on board ships etc)

for a sith and particularly a red sith to give the finger to sith tradition and have an imperial wedding is obviously going to be a Statement all on its own but [shrug emoji] this is a rabbithole down which i am too lazy to disappear

when it comes to sith outside of the empire they are… largely going to be even more a case of "sith do what sith want" than they would otherwise (which lbr is impressive). obviously the amount of 'traditional' a red sith outside of the empire incorporates into a wedding is going to vary by individual sith but at the very least i would expect that they'd throw a big fuckoff party and bring important (to them) traditions into the mix - so frex. if an ex-empire sith had particular family traditions about clothing/robes or jewellery. ultimately though such a wedding is going to be nontraditional by virtue of the fact it's happening outside of the larger sith culture, so it's going to be a case of "[shrug emoji] sith do what sith want"

[planetbass]

do arospec for link or your blog gets it 🔫

fuck yes thank you eren. this will b specifically for botw link

What arospec identities do they have? 

aro (& ace) probably. in hyrule i can’t imagine there’s a well-used or known word for aro identities (at least among hylians), so the most general one that exists is what link goes by. there’s lots of overlapping aro identities in our world, so something like quoiromantic might be a good descriptor of what i imagine link feels – someone who loves his friends in such a deep and profound sense that it could very well be seen as romantic by others, but to link, it’s just how he is. 

How proud of being arospec are they?

he’s just existing, man. to him, it’s just how he is, and it’s not something worth being proud over. not that he’s ashamed, just that it’s not out of the ordinary to him. he knows he’s a little different than others, but tries not to think too hard about it. 

Do they prioritize their arospec identity over any others?

i think so. i think his arospec identity is his entire attraction-related identity, since he probably feels the same way abt sexual attraction - which is basically a shrug emoji. his gender identity might come above that depending on what exactly it is.

though i think he would prioritize it a bit, since he loves his friends more than anything in the world.

Are they out? If so, how did they come out, and to whom?

to zelda, without a doubt. after their initial talk described in canon (by her diary), they have a lot more like that. they become each other’s most trusted confidant & friend. when it was relevant to their discussion one time, link probably described how he felt to her (and afterwards zelda dragged him to the library and they looked for books that might have a label for such feelings, because there’s a book on just about everything in there). 

he might have also told mipha, too. they are, at least to me, childhood friends, and he loves and trusts her very much. i believe he could have told her at some point. 

as he got closer to the other champions he might have told them, too, if there was reason. to urbosa, he’d probably be looking for advice or guidance. to daruk, it might be a response to inquiries about a ‘special someone’ or ‘feelings for the princess.’ to revali, perhaps a more serious discussion that eventually establishes a friendship between them. 

How do they feel about romance? Romance-favorable? Romance-neutral? Romance-repulsed? Or does it fluctuate?

i think he fluctuates, mostly between neutral and favorable (repulsed happens but not very often). like i said, he has such strong love for his friends and is comfortable around them (including physical contact) that others can easily perceive it as romantic, but link’s heart is Just That Big. i think the idea of “””dating””” them makes him uncomfortable, though, cuz he doesn’t like them in that way. but it’s pretty darn close? he wouldn’t like others putting that label on him. 

Have they ever experienced arophobia? If so, how?

this is something that’s p personal to him, so he wouldn’t face purposeful arophobia directed at him. if he comes out, he might get some arophobic comments by people who don’t understand, thinking it’s a phase or mental illness or that it doesn’t exist and whatever. but for the most part, i don’t think he even outs himself to people he thinks might have that sort of response. 

How do they show their arospec pride?

he cuddles w his friends

Do they actively try to combat amatonormativity in their daily lives or elsewhere? If so, how?

nah, he just kinda deals w it. he’s livin his own life. 

Was it easy for them to label themselves arospec, or was there a long period of questioning? How many labels did they have to try before landing on the one they use now?

i think he went through a lot of confusion as to how he felt and whether it was “right” or “normal.” he might try to find labels at first, but eventually i think he’d go back to just WhateverTheFuck and try not to get hung up on defining his feelings too much.

Would they be interested in a QPR? Why or why not?

yes! i think he’d be in a QPR with zelda and mipha. 

Final thoughts?

i project

send me a character for aro headcanons

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Surprise! I’m your valentine @lovinmullen! Happy Valentines Day and I hope you enjoy these little headcanons!💖

thank you so much to @swingsetboys for organizing this and generally being amazing!

-After Andi got grounded for the high school party her phone was taken away for a bit. Amber freaked out at first thinking that Andi was mad till Cyrus (lord bless his peace making soul) filled her in on the situation. A letter arrived two days later in Andi’s mailbox, guess who it was from? Amber. It was an explanation to her parents and a was signed with “Sorry if I got you in trouble! Heres my address and keep exploring the world Bambi! There are many more things like that pool in Italy” (Andi has that note in a scrapbook)Thus begins a pen pal relationship, full of not so unrequited crushes, scribbled hearts, holding of hands and eventually after stealing a flannel from each other...a kiss. 

•Cyrus saw it coming from a mile away. No one just decides to go to the Spoon on every single day Amber is working and sit there with hearts popping from her eyes. 

 Andi will call Buffy or Cyrus and gush about a moment that happened. Little does she know that theres group call happening between the Kippen siblings, Marty and TJ are about to knock Amber out “Oh my god Amber if we hear about Andi’s eyes one more time!”. It becomes a cycle of calling. They even drew a diagram of how it would go. 

Andi calls Buffy calls Cyrus in groupcall, then afterwards Cyrus calls TJ who calls Marty who calls Amber to confirm that feelings are present who calls Andi to talk about her annoying brothers. Then everything repeats.

This can repeat for hours but hey it works.

-Ambi becomes official and everyone e x p l o d e s. It was expected but WOAH IT FINALLY HAPPENED? The pining is finally over thank schnitzel

-To celebrate one month Andi made a bracelet for Amber, she was hesitant at first and said “Are you okay with a girlfriendy thing?”. Amber acts chill about it but internally is screaming.

-(They worked out Amber somehow getting Jonahs bracelet a while ago). Andi gets her phone back soon and they are the couple who uses 22 emojis per text but its adorable! 

-In the end when they do the lanterns again Amber doesn’t put anything in hers. When Walker asks why she glances at Andi and shrugs “I already have everything I could wish for”

Bonus: Their first kiss was in a canoe! It flipped over causing them both to get soaking wet. On shore Amber lifted up their towel to block anyone watching right as Andi leaned forward to kiss her her again.

-Marty learned that Buffy moved away and that was the first time he messaged her since their fight, he apologized and said he hoped that she would have a good life in Arizona. 

-She kept him waiting for a few days because she’s still trying to figure out her feelings, friendship or crush?

- “Marty, thanks for apologizing. Can we talk when I visit?” He immediately says yes! 

-Once she comes back they talk. Its has a few embarrassing moments, some sad as well but in the end they both leave, hearts pounding and thoughts occupied with how even if they were friends how it could be different someday. 

Bonus: Marty comes out to Buffy as trans and Buffy comes out to him as bi. They go to parades together and will wear their respective flags with pride! Marty is the one to paint the flags on their cheeks. 

Bonus bonus: Its been almost 5 months since they talked about the crush situation and the FaceTime calls keep getting longer 

Bonus Basketball: Buffy and him play during the off season of basketball, soon Marty joins the guys basketball team. They still play against each other every Saturday morning.

Heres some Hogwarts shenanigans! 

Gryffindor: TJ, Buffy and Leo the Locker Boy

Slytherin: Amber, Reed and Natalie

Hufflepuff: Cyrus, Marty and Iris

Ravenclaw: Jonah and Andi!

The GHC became friends in 1st year, interhouse friendships for the win!

Marty joins the group 3rd year after the Yule Ball, he and Buffy dance so the group adopts him 

Buffy and TJ’s rivalry starts in 2nd year after a fight with who got the Quidditch field, then he insulted her and her skills. Not even a rap apology was going to be enough for him to be admitted into the group. He is Quidditch-Player-Who-Must-Not-Be-Name

TJ lashed out at her because he wanted to be Quidditch Captain but she was the one who got the position

They make up after Cyrus has a Charms class with TJ, the reason? Both agree that Cyrus is a very soft kid and we will protect him at all costs. 

(Buffy suspects more but doesn’t push at the reason why TJ does that little smile when Cyrus figures out a spell)

He writes an apology, near the end of the letter it says “You were right. You are the best Quidditch captain Hogwarts has seen” After this their rivalry is more of a friendship.

Andi finds the Room of Requirement and decides its going to be a LGBT+ club (she gets permission), the next time she walks in a pan flag appears above her head.

Cyrus helps her set up a network of kids who might want to attend 

Amber, Iris and TJ are more of the popular group so when Amber and Iris walk into the Room on a meeting day you can imagine the surprise. 

“Are you sure that this is the meeting Iris? They won’t stop staring” 

Andi is shooketh because holy heck my crush is coming to the meeting be chill Andi, b r e a t h

She greets them and after some snacks from the house elves everyone feels comfortable talking to each other and introducing themselves

Amber and Iris say they’ll be regulars.

Andi had to lie down after that meeting. 

Cyrus has Potions with TJ during 4th year. Mrs. Deborah, the teacher, sat them by each other to make a potion and it exploded first try. TJ got frustrated because he mixed up some numbers but Cyrus just laughs “Its okay! We can try again” 

Thus begins Smitten Kippen 

Don’t get him started on when they made Amortenia, they were supposed to share with the class and Cyrus declined. 

TJ in that moment: Oh my god what did he smell

Cyrus to Buffy and Andi later: I don’t see what the big deal about Amortenia is? It just smelled the same as when TJ sits by me like he does in Poti-wait                                                                                            Buffy and Andi: Are you okay??

TJ and Cyrus are the disaster gays of Hogwarts. 

They’ve tried to ask each other out almost 30 times now. But it always gets interrupted by something, a troll, a werewolf turning etc. 

Cyrus has almost given up until 5th year where at a Quidditch game he gets TJ’s scarf.

It was like the meme where someone says their cold and the other person piles warm clothing on them. 

He only needed the scarf because the blush was real in that moment, nothing could cool him down. He hugged TJ said a very rushed thank you then ran to the stands. 

After that game he gave TJ a sign that said “I’m not Kippen when I say I like you” 

It becomes almost a game to see who can out flirt who

Special blueberry macadamia muffin was delivered to the Gryffindor common room. Book about lizards sent to Hufflepuff with a note in the cover. Plenty of notes sent to each other during classes.

The one who makes a move is Cyrus, TJ writes him a small poem and he marches up to TJ after dinner to say “TJ Kippen will you go out with me?”

Nothing interrupted him and TJ said yes so fast it was like something possessed him

They have a cute Hogsmeade date <3

Buffy and Marty are the most competive friends anyone has seen. Mention Quidditch? They jump for the chance to see who gets the Snitch. Spells? Get under cover this is going to be a BATTLE

Due to these competitions they get sent to the hospital wing many, many times. 

They ate too many Weasley sweets and didn’t realize they both ate a vomiting one. 

Madam Pomfrey banned Weasley treats after that, said that students were too irresponsible (a healthy black market trade arose)

Once they got out and realized they both had actual physical harm happen because of a competition Marty proposed something

Marty: Look Buffy I love our competitions...but could we stick to banter for now?                                                                                                    Buffy: You know what would be convenient? Lets go on dates, easier way to banter with each other                                                                        Marty: *screams* 

He agrees after falling down a staircase they were walking down. 

(back to the hospital wing Marty) 

By the next day it was back to regular banter! With the occasional hand holding and kiss if one of them said something a little too silly

This is the one year Jonah and Walker are beaten in the Best Couple Competition. 

Speaking of Best Couple Competitions...the year Cyrus and TJ become public is the year they almost beat Wonah (the nickname for the pairing) 

Cyrus kisses him on the cheek, his hand and on tiptoes he’ll kiss his nose but never the lips. 

TJ is totally okay with this but wonders about it sometimes. 

Skip ahead to the final Quidditch match, they’ve been dating a few months. 

TJ (about to get on this broom): Hey how about a kiss for good luck? Its the last game it might work                                                                  Cyrus (rolling his eyes): Okay you dork

Cyrus pulled him down by his collar and gave him a brief kiss

TJS FACE WAS BRIGHT RED and Slytherin was crushed by Gryffindor in a record amount of points.

Amber and Andi are a background couple most of the time, content with sitting in the library by a window. You can find them if you know where to look, the tree by the lake or near the kitchens where they sneak into for a snack. Amber is always wearing a headband from Andi and Andi will be wearing a charmed ring from Amber.

Bonus: After they both graduate, TJ is hired on a Defense of the Dark Arts teacher and Cyrus is the Arithmancy teacher. TJ goes on to be the headmaster! He makes new policies that allow students to be more comfortable with their sexuality and genders/

Bonus Bonus\: TJ and Cyrus go to Andi’s GSA weekly meeting and thats how they come out to each other. They walked in and both went “Shit”. That was the quietest they have ever been together. They walk out together and separate after throwing each other a quick smile.

[controlledhues]

romance headcanons.

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name: Lorene Wilde nickname:  Melinoë gender: Female romantic orientation: demisexual preferred pet names: None. If she reveals her real name she prefers to be called like that. In the meantime, they are allowed to call her Mel or Melinoë. Things like “kitty” or “baby” are bullshit for her. 

relationship status: single. favorite canon ship(s): ??????????????????? NONE?? lmao she’s an OC favorite non-canon ship(s) so far:  ALL OF THEM??? one of my dreams(?) is to have one with Proton OR Archer hahah. BUT I love how it has been going with @legendaryrocket even though they are not and will never be a couple dshgjkd all the drama is worth it and it feeds my heart like any telenovela could. opinion on true love: ❝It doesn’t exist. It will betray you anytime without warning.❞ lmao watch out the edgy girl.

opinion on love at first sight: She is capable to experiment infatuation in a first meeting, but that won’t mean that she’ll fall for them immediately. It needs time, oh MY GOD you have no idea how long it takes to get to be with her.

how ‘romantic’ are they?: It depends. She is not used to touch someone, even if they are having something, so the romance is almost nonexistent, sadly.  

ideal physical traits: A certain smile, penetrating eyes. Of course that being taller than her is a plus (AND EVERYONE IS TALLER THAN MEL I MEAN COME ON)

female: No preferences. Her inclination to a woman doesn’t depend much on how she looks, but more on how she behaves with or without Mel. 

male: No preferences. Same than with females, appearance isn’t something important (self and physical care is, however), but if someone is charming enough, of course that she’ll have the need to see them more times and so on.

ideal personality traits: Good listener, respectful with boundaries AND statuses, highly tolerant to emotional pressure. Creative and adventurous are also a plus. And of course, having a high rank is relevant ahaha :^). IF YOU CAN MAKE HER STUTTER SHE WILL BE YOURS.

unattractive physical traits: SHRUG EMOJI 

unattractive personality traits: I won’t mention violent or liar or manipulative as a trait because TEAM ROCKET.jpg, but also being too passive is a big nope for Melinoë. The edgyness is a joke for her as well. 

ideal date: A museum, preferably. Something calm, without many people. It doesn’t have to be fancy or expensive though.

do they have a type?: Strong ones (mentally, intellectually or physically). 

average relationship length: Months. I mean, her past relationships lasted a little bit more (the guy that proposed to her lasted 2 years and the dead one one and a half maybe?), but that is merely because of her weakness and little experience in formal relationships, so she simply let it happen without considering how they took control of it more than her.

preferred non-sexual intimacy: Kisses on the cheek or hands. Little touches on the arms or neck.  

commitment level: LOW. AS. FUCK. Oh my god.......................... it also depends on the other person dfjsfhsjkghjksdf I haven’t written her as someone in a relationship so I don’t really know how it would be. 

opinion of public affection: minimum amount with someone she really trusts, if not avoiding it completely. 

past relationships?: Officially she had three of them. None 

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[kyberled]

romance headcanons

NAME:  Braig of the Order NICKNAME: Braiggo, Braigos, [Sir] Braigimus, Braiglet, Braigory, Kid[do], Padawan, Sir, Commander, Little One, Bra’ika (lit. ‘Little Braig’ in Mando’a), etc GENDER:  Cis male ORIENTATION:  Pan/demi all the way PREFERRED  PET  NAMES: He says Shrug Emoji. He’s pretty new to the concept. 

RELATIONSHIP  STATUS:  Depends on verse/thread/timeline. Typically written as single unless otherwise specified/requested. FAVORITE  CANON  SHIP( S ): I mean he doesn’t have a canon but Braiba Braigsoka and Bral own my soul FAVORITE  NON-CANON  SHIP( S ): ^^^^^ OPINION  ON  TRUE  LOVE: Honestly, he’s nervous when it comes to love. It’s not something he’s really explored in a romantic sense. But he’s really demi, so if he’s attracted to someone, it only happens AFTER he’s developed a strong positive connection with them - so, when he does fall, he absolutely thinks it’s true, and he’d do anything for his partner. OPINION  ON  LOVE  AT  FIRST  SIGHT: Personally, he thinks it makes no sense. But, again, he’s a demi little Space Monk, so. HOW  ‘ROMANTIC’  ARE  THEY: I dunno. Romance is something he doesn’t understand early on. He doesn’t really buy into the traditional sense of the term. But he does his best to take care of his partner: Make sure they eat enough, fuss over their wounds if they get hurt, lots of snuggles and kisses (usually in private. It takes him a while to be more comfortable with PDA). Listens when they talk, remembers things about them, tries to remember Life Day and anniversaries and birthdays (weird for him, as Jedi don’t really focus on birthdays, much). And he’d die for them. He’s gonna work up to being what he thinks is a better partner, but he tries.  IDEAL  PHYSICAL  TRAITS:  He doesn’t really care at all. If he had to pick, he... kind of likes people taller than him? But he’s a little one so it’s not too hard. Someone in shape, but that doesn’t mean like- Mr./Mrs. Universe. Being in good shape comes in all shapes, and that’s all he cares about - wants his boo to be healthy.  IDEAL  PERSONALITY  TRAITS: Someone who is patient, and compassionate. Who listens, who won’t stand by and let injustice happen. Who won’t be upset with him for being as clingy as he is, but also doesn’t mind giving him some space when he needs it. He can be quiet with, or less-quiet. Affectionate. Dedicated. Sense of humour. Honest. ... Honestly his three loves are all wildly different while still being similar and just try and connect a thread to them all. You’ll find something that sticks. UNATTRACTIVE  PHYSICAL  TRAITS: Again, not a big deal to him. As long as you’re not dirty he won’t judge by appearance. <- He’s with you on this one, Uncle A’sh. UNATTRACTIVE  PERSONALITY  TRAITS: God cruelty, a lack of compassion, arrogance, people who are super judgement. Bigotry is a huge no, like immediate turn off, treat anyone terribly and he’ll pack his shit up and leave right then and there. <- Also same. He’s also not big on greed, gluttony, materialism, and the like. A quick and violent temper is also Braig-Repellent. Laziness too - though he understands there’s a difference between “I have no spoons for this” and sloth. He’s not going to hate someone because they need time to recover, no matter how long that time is. IDEAL  DATE: It involves tea, cuddles, and flowers. Maybe a nice walk through gardens/a park, then snuggling up with tea in a private place. Or working with charity/relief work! Meditating together, cooking together. Holding hands? May- Maybe? Sparring. Depends on what mood he’s in. Braid his hair maybe. He hasn’t really thought about it. DO  THEY  HAVE  A  TYPE: Strong, tall, can kill you probably but just holds him and kisses his forehead and tells him they love him. Literally most of his crushes and 2/3 of his actual relationships fit that bill. AVERAGE  RELATIONSHIP  LENGTH: God he’d die for them. He wouldn’t leave them for anything. Like-- Romantic or not. Braig went back to Obi after the Hardeen debacle and still loved his dad. It takes A LOT to make Braig not want anything to do with you any more. Good luck. PREFERRED  NON-SEXUAL  INTIMACY: Cuddle him, play with his hair, hold his hand, kiss him, let him curl up in your lap if possible, rub his shoulders he gets sore/tense. Just smother him in affection and he will do the same.  COMMITMENT  LEVEL: Again, if he decides he loves you, you’re stuck with him. You’re the center of his universe, pretty much, and he won’t dare hurt your trust in any way. He’d never put you at risk. He loves you. OPINION  OF  PUBLIC  AFFECTION: Nope. Not until long in the future, if he isn’t in the Order any more (eg. after O66). Otherwise, it’s not a Jedi thing. He’s not ashamed of his partner, but he does know it’s not really supposed to be out in the open for Jedi. But in private, he is a cuddle bug. No questions asks. PAST  RELATIONSHIPS: I’ve been writing Braig for almost four years now and he has yet to break up with anyone. Ride or die, folks.

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[genderfluidloki]

Molly for the character headcanon thing!

sexual orientation headcanon:

biiiiii. also demiromantic?

gender headcanon

shrug emoji but definitely transfeminine. maybe genderfluid

mental illness / neurodivergent headcanon

he’s autistic and has ptsd and adhd

3 random headcanons:

he gets night terrors sometimes and yasha usually helps him through them, and vice versa because she gets them occasionally too.

he helps yasha collect flowers for her journal, and he’s started picking them for nott, too.

he’s a lot more religious than he lets on. he doesn’t hide that he worships the moonweaver ofc, but she helped him through a lot and was a big part of him getting use to like… being a person. he found her not long after he crawled out of his grave and he’s prayed to her every night since.

[luminaryblood]

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Tagged by: stole it from @ultiliar, did about half of it, then got tagged in it by @tulpacest :p

Tagging: *shrug emoji* YOU SHOULD DO IT THOUGH

Name: Kaito Momota

Nicknames: LUMINARY OF THE STARS! Also Spaceman, Momo-chan, and various versions of ‘that idiot’

Orientation: Bisexual, but very in denial about it

Preferred pet names: bro He’s usually the one giving people pet names, and feels kind of awkward receiving them, but he does like super basic ones like babe

Relationship status: Single and too much of a nerd to mingle

Favorite canon ship: I like Momoharu which is kind of canon

Favorite non-canon ships: Saimota (probably my otp if I had to pick one) and Oumota. When it comes to rp though I’ll try basically any ship! I don’t really have any notps.

A quick note on shipping: In addition to his sexuality issues, Kaito’s also super dense and has kind of a weird attitude towards relationships seeing as he’s not the type of person to want to stay in one place for too long. He’s kind of hard to ship with I guess, but I’m still always up for shippy threads regardless! Also, I’m kind of awkward about feeling like I’m pushing ships on people even when I’m not, so if you want to ship with me please tell me because there’s a 99% chance I’d love it, but I’m too anxious to ask about it.

Opinion on true love: He’s a big believer in it. Not necessarily romantic love, but he’s really devoted to the idea of having unbreakable bonds with people.

Opinion on love at first sight: It’s not something he’s experienced himself, but he definitely believes that it exists. He also believes that you can tell if you can trust someone basically within a minute or so of meeting them.

How ‘romantic’ are they: He’s very romantic, going by the second definition (”of, characterized by, or suggestive of an idealized view of reality”). In all seriousness, he does really love traditionally romantic things like roses and dinner dates and all that, but it would fluster and confuse him to be on the receiving end of it because gender roles and stuff. He’s also a huge dork so even if he wants to be traditionally romantic, it will probably come off as really clumsy.

Ideal physical traits: He’s never really put much thought into physical traits he likes sort of just going along with society’s idea of conventionally attractive if asked, but he does really like people with soft hair. Also people who are toned, especially with nice arms. And pretty eyes, be them striking, bright, gentle, whatever. Just someone who’s eyes really stand out.

Ideal personality traits: He tends to be attracted to people people with issues that he can help them with (500 Days of Summer syndrome smh) or people who he thinks need protecting. A sense of humour is really important to him, as is loyalty and trust. He trusts the people he loves 100% and it hurts him when he doesn’t get that back. Someone motivated who train with him and be able to give him a run for his money (like in his love hotel scene), and is a good listener. Also he just really wants to date someone who’s super in love with him back and will constantly tell him how much they love him. (He really needs to be validated, okay?)

Unattractive physical traits: He’s not really into to people taller than him, or people who tend to give off a creepy vibe (though that ones subjective. If he likes you enough he’ll be completely blind to any negative aura you give off.) That’s really all I can think of right now.

Unattractive personality traits: Refusing to look at things from an emotional perspective, not caring about other’s well-being, being overly-serious, lacking passion and generally being disinterested in life, looking down on him and being condescending. Basically if it’s a trait he doesn’t want in a friend, he won’t find it attractive. The line between friend and crush is kind of blurred for him in general, though he’s pretty bad at recognizing crushes and even worse at acting on them.

Ideal date: Stargazing of course! He also likes museum dates (provided it’s something he’s interested in), doing anything physically active, or just being spontaneous! If you, for example, knock on his window at 2 am and ask him to go on an adventure with you, he’ll probably marry you tbh

Do they have a type?: People who he sees as having a lot of potential to grow as a person, and people who are more reserved than him but still passionate

Average relationship length: Like a month, though in all fairness, he’s never been in a really meaningful relationship. It’s mostly stuff from when he was a young teenager like “hey want to date for a while?” “K sure.” His ideal relationship length is ‘forever, unless I dies then please move on and be happy because I really don’t want to hold you back’

Preferred nonsexual intimacy: Honestly? He really likes playfully fighting with people, like lightly punching people on the arm, tousling people’s hair, sneaking up on them and hugging them from behind, etc. He also likes it when people lay on his shoulder or in his lap. He has a tendency to be kind of dominant with people he cares about? But in a gentle way, like he’ll hold onto your shoulders a lot, order for you at a restaurant, patch up any cuts you have, that kind of stuff. 

The most intimate thing he can probably do is open up about something he’s worried about. It takes a really strong bond with someone for him to even think about doing it. And he’d rather die than cry in front of somebody 99% of the time, so if that ever happens, you’ve basically seen his soul.

Commitment level: He’s incredibly committed to the people he loves, but in a way that he’s more committed to their happiness than actually being in a relationship with them. If he thinks he’s holding them back, or not good enough for them, or that they can do better he’ll get really distant really quickly. 

He actually has a lot of really dark feelings about wanting to never let go of the people he loves and gets super jealous when they spend time with other people (like lowkey yandere at points), but he represses those feelings because he’d rather the other person be happy. He’s actually a lot more insecure about relationships than he lets on. (I have a headcanon that he was sort of trying to set up Maki and Shuuichi near the end of the game because he knew he was dying and wanted them to be happy without him.)

Opinion of public affection: He likes it! He’s so the type to want to show off how wonderful his partner is. And of course being the jealous type, he likes letting everyone know that they’re taken so if you flirt with them he’ll fight you. Of course being so deep in the closet puts a damper on this about half the time.

Past relationships: Nothing substantial. A few dates here and there. He’s never been really in love either, at least not that he’s aware of.