#people pleaser‼️

[rueclfer]

hawks is not mentally ill 😤😤

yeah he's worst! he's mentally ill and GAY

[mainfaggot]

omg first time i socialized w someone on campus and didnt feel immensely uncomfortable constantly

[just-call-mefr1es]

hes so me 😻😻😸😸💫💫

[wtfliaa]

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IMO, Aries, Scorpio, Capricorn Rising are so sexually attractive. They are sooo hot, and not just only physically but their aura, and presence is very strong and intense that it makes an individual feel so uneasy In their space. Very magnetic, irresistible people 🥵

Sagittarius and Gemini Mercury natives are extremely blunt with their words they don’t sugarcoat nothing.

Gemini Mars, Venus make you feel so weak in the knees just by hearing the words that come exit out of their mouths. These people can literally make you go crazy and even orgasm just because of how charming and seductive these people can communicate. Very flirtatious and big dirty talkers.

Virgo placements can be very critical, and picky people. My ex best friend is a Virgo Sun and had tendencies to become very judgmental, critical, and even picky. I remember times when she would make fun of people and laugh at them indirectly like it was that funny without knowing the context behind what she is judging 😬 if that makes sense. But some Virgos adapt these qualities but it depends on where it is placed in their chart, so different cases are possible 🤷🏽‍♀️ (I’m a Virgo Mars and I can be very picky when it comes to allowing guys into my life. and even the sexual aspect of it. I am very picky and particular on how I present myself )

No offense but Libra placement’s especially Libra Suns and sometimes Libra Asc, can be huge pick me’s, attention seekers, and even people pleasers, and a handful I’ve noticed likes to speak highly of themselves in a way of bragging about themselves or things in general :/ ( Take this with a grain salt babes we all have negative traits)

Cancer/Scorpio moons = mommy issues. Especially moon 8th house

Venus/ Mercury in the second and third house have very beautiful voices speaking or singing or even both

People loooooveeee to sexualize and slut shame Scorpionic/Lilith women especially Pluto/Lilith first house, tenth house. Pluto- Asc, Lilith-Asc applies.

Taurus/Scorpio placements tend to be quiet and reserved, observant people. But one thing i love about these individuals is that they secretly love drama. If there is drama at the job they would most definitely be secretly invested. These people are the type of people that secretly spill the tea, and you’ll look at them like “how do you know?” But do not drag them into a huge mess because they are very drama free people.

POV: a Taurus/Scorpio people secretly observing the drama and tea 🥸

Aquarius/Gemini rising, Venus, and MC how does it feel to be trendsetter. How does it feel when people copy you guys because of how creative you guys are hm? (Copycat impersonator indicator ‼️)

Leo’s are my icons. Leo’s literally remind me of a cheetah or leopard for some reason maybe because they are so feisty and fiery animals 🐆and these native embodies that type of energy. You guys tend have a feline type of beauty too. Leo’s and Aries women are also Regina George coded 💋 (Asc,Venus,Mars,Sun)

Taurus, Libra, Cancer, Pisces Mercury are the type of people that cuss you out nicely, politely and gracefully 🎀 they even say “fuck off bitch”so elegantly and cute 🤭

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My very first astrological observations/post I hope this resonated and let me know if u liked it🤍💋

[indigo-greer-collins]

i do love interpreting angel as a ray of sunshine, even a people pleaser on some level, always trying to cheer up the people around them or go on adventures or just be a source of comfort!

however!

another fun interpretation i have is that, angel isn’t even all that bright and cheerful. david was just that much gloomier than they are.

they’re almost like an enthusiastic pessimist. they do see that the world is going down in flames, they know things aren’t great — but they’ve embraced something of a “fuck it we ball ‼️‼️” attitude. like if we’re gonna go down, let’s have some fun on the way right?

it’s somewhat of a shock to angel’s other loved ones that they are someone’s “ray of sunshine”, because they’re way more used to them just being an absolute menace. they don’t go looking for the bright side of things they just go “this sucks… like m—“ and then go on with their life.

and yet to david, they’re his reason to keep going. they make every day feel brighter, the world feel warmer, and life just that much more worth living.

this semblance of a headcanon is based on me and my wife (i am david, they are angel)

i also think it makes sense that, on some level, david actually can’t handle too much optimism cuz it makes him sick/hj/lh

also hi my love @savannahohh this lil post is dedicated to u<3

[transmascaraa]

Idk how to write this but

Reader is so lost in being a people pleaser, they no longer defend themselves when being insulted

(like, someone saying "I wish you could just shut up and never speak again" to them seriously, and them clearly hurt, would still laugh as if what the person said was a joke etc)

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multiple characters headcannons!

you're a people-pleaser...

characters: lyney, gaming, tighnari x gn!reader

author's note: WHY ARE YOUR REQUESTS LITERALLY ME😭😭 i love them tho‼️ ENJOY READING<33 (random writing motivation smh)

☆ Lyney

-off-topic but the lucille font looks so beautiful with lyney's name

-ANYWAYS

-speaking from experience, people-pleasing sucks.

-and to overcome it, you need somebody's support, because you most likely won't be able to do it on your own.

-sometimes, it can only take a few kind words to break out of it.

-and he will be the one who will help you.

-since i hc him as a people-pleaser too, playing the role as the "big brother" to protect his siblings and please 'father' because he's occupied to do so,

-yes, he does genuinely care about his siblings, but he sometimes goes too far just to be sure.

-so, back to him helping you, he'll always remind you that you're your own person, that you're not alive to just please others.

-you don't owe them anything, so why do you do it?

-nonetheless he will give his all to praise you and remind you that you're perfect just the way you are, and that you shouldn't change for anyone except for yourself.

-sometimes, if you're about to make a choice you clearly don't want, he'll gladly choose for you and say that you're just indecisive.

-"you're hurting yourself for others, it's not good. you're you, unique."

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✯ Gaming

-similar to lyney, except for the fact that he isn't a people-pleaser himself.

-you probably wouldn't even need to tell him anything, he'd realize it on his own.

-your every single day would be filled with millions of praises about how you're unique on your own.

-how you shouldn't listen to others.

-how you only live once.

-soon enough, you'd probably break down to him many times about it(like you probably would to anyone)

-and when you've listened to his praises and reminders enough, you'd slowly get better and better at actually being yourself.

-yes, of course it would take some time, of course it can't happen overnight, but he'll wait.

-he'll be patient with you.

-he won't rush you.

-all he cares about is that in the end, you'd finally put an end to it.

-and trust me, it would come sooner than expected.

-"you're nobody's toy or puppet for them to play with. you're your own person, [name]."

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✿ Tighnari

-get ready for the biggest mom ever.

-he would realize on his own, not like he wouldn't notice you choosing to work for the whole night rather than rest, especially because it was requested by someone you hate.

-AND IT WAS SOMETHING OPTIONAL.

-he's not dumb, he will notice.

-he'll literally call you to the living room for some "serious talk" one day and it would actually get you worried.

-then, he will start lecturing you about it and how bad it is for you and your health.

-you actually start feeling bad for him... he cares about you so much and everything while you aren't even happy yourself... you let others walk over you while you laugh at the pain.

-once he realizes that you started feeling bad, he'll apologize for coming off as rude or mean, even if you confront him that it's okay afterwards.

-he'll start reminding you about all the reasons why you shouldn't do it, but he won't rush you, he'll let you take your time.

-it may take you a but longer, but it will come eventually.

-every morning, he will put a new quote on the bathroom mirror just for you.

-quotes as in "live laugh love", "keep on going!", "you can do it!", "be yourself!", etc.

-"you don't live to please anyone, no matter how important they are. you're just fine on your own."

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I LOVE THIS

writing motivation hits different fr

I HOPE YOU GUYS LIKE IT^^

| @keeyisbored | @mariaace <3

[meowtus]

Freelancer is like…the people pleaser of all time. They never really state in conversation when they are uncomfortable or freaked out (cough Kody cough cough), and still up to now they have trouble setting boundaries with people outside their friend-circle. That—and they often discredit their own feelings on things when undergoing personal turmoil.

SET YOUR STANDARDS HIGHER KING (gender neutral) ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

[alfredojesta]

Could you please draw Corpse?....I'd really like to see how it is :)

ABSOLUTELY! my drawing tablet isn't working rn but i have some quick ibis doodles (i never had a real ref sheet of her because i created her as a joke before she became an actual character)

thank you so much for the ask AHHH it means a lot that anyone would wanna know more about my silly fanon kid 😭‼️

here's some extra info i've typed up if that's anything (small comic at the end):

CORPSE is 15! she's a doll built by Jason. both Candy Pop and Jason designed her. Pop made the concept art on his own, but Jason tweaked it because... he's Jason? duh? in order to bring the creation to life, a soul was infused with it—also how Jason created Mr. Glutton, Liquorice and Red Mouse.

being a doll, she ages with models rather than yk. normal biology. so she has different models for different age groups. Jason and Candy Pop agreed to create her at the age of 6 because they didn't want to deal with a whiny baby! ^_^ therefore, she has multiple models (6-8, 10-12, and so on).

to differentiate them Candy Pop is called Pops! and Jason is just Father. there's plentiful lore in this AU. the timeline's fucking whack but i can't explain that here because it'd be too long so i'll describe Corpse real quick—

Corpse's personality is versatile. on one hand, it's respectful and polite. she speaks formally—thanks to Jason's influence—and tends to be a listener more than a talker. she's outgoing, but unfortunately a people-pleaser. Corpse has a tendency for holding back her emotions. a fear of upsetting others. Candy Pop advises her to not bottle up her feelings. and sure—she was more expressive when she was younger! but at 15, it has come to a point where she's only ever open with her bestfriend and parents. her insecurity also derives from the fact she's a doll. Corpse has never felt like she fits in with anyone else.

doesn't mean she's not fun, though. being the daughter of a silly jester means she's got some humour of her own. Corpse can yap for hours... she just prefers to listen and nod... but if a mic is handed to her... yeah that girl can TALK.

ANYWAY LIKE I SAID BEFORE SHE'S ALSO ANXIOUS AND BECOMES OVERWHELMED QUICKLY ESPECIALLY IF THINGS ARE TOO BUSY. THAT'S JUST BECAUSE JASON AND CANDY POP ARGUE SOMETIMES AND SHE GETS SCARED LOLLL there's no violence and there's no fighting. those two just bicker over. their opposing parenting styles. and then they make up after some DISCUSSION.

besides, jason and candy pop are two really emotional people and that can get the better of them if they aren't careful.

so yeah... if you made it this far here's a bonus comic of 10 yr old corpse and jason :) for context: corpse comes to the mansion sometimes while jason works. panda/pandora is corpse's niece. another fanon kid... belongs to nathan and ciara.

[marbled-magician]

‼️ //🥀OOC🥀// ‼️

Hey guys, I hope all is well!..

Recently, I’ve been talking to some admins, and they expressed an oddly similar discomforting/uncomfy feeling about @//an-honest-endeavor’s posts that many others have been experiencing as well, including me.

Please, please, don’t go after the endeavor blog, or any blog that associates with him. This is just a simple explanation on why me and many other MHA rp accounts will not be communicating with him any longer. This is not a call-out post, and no one will be discriminated against if they’re close with the endeavor blog.

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1. Sudden flirty/ooc comments that is confirmed to me that the admins felt a little uncomfortable, but kept in character anyway to not upset the Endeavor blog

The anonymous admins for the Chrono and Overhaul blogs explained to me how they felt pressured into answering Endeavor’s reblogs. I understand where they’re coming from- especially the SS’s on Overhaul’s end where Endeavor gets agitated in the first 2 images- and immediately switch up in the 3rd SS where Endeavor tags Overhaul in a separate post. On Chrono’s end, the admin also felt stuck when responding. Yes, they could have completely ignored him- but there are people pleasers that have a hard time saying ‘no’ to others (*cough* I’m one of those people *cough*)

2. Denying endeavor’s actions that caused trauma to Dabi/Touya

We all are aware of Endeavor trying to atone his abusive ways towards his family from his past in the anime/manga, but the damage has been done and obviously it isn’t forgivable. The admin behind the Yumiko (OC) blog pointed these comments out from endeavor and it got me- very puzzled. The whole reason behind Touya being Dabi is mainly because of Endeavor’s abusiveness and parental neglect. The Yumiko admin expressed to me how stressed out they became when the admin behind endeavor went defensive, which I’m still very puzzled about because Yumiko wasn’t wrong about how parents could give their children psychological issues/trauma that weighs on their shoulders throughout growing up? Look at Natsuo, he wants nothing to do with Endeavor and refuses to forgive him despite him changing. If I was in the Todoroki’s shoes, I wouldn’t have forgave him either- honestly I’m with Natsuo on this one 😭

What baffled me the most is that the endeavor admin assumed yumiko’s admin was saying that all people with mental illnesses become serial killers..??? That isn’t what they were trying to say at all?? When I looked at the post myself, that just drew the line for me.

HONORABLE MENTION: #stopharassingdabi

My bestie that runs one of the Dabi blogs just showed me this SS of one of endeavor’s questions he sent to their inbox a while ago- They have more but they only wanted me to show this one.. This is not a good apology to your son, endeavor 😔

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I am not hating on Endeavor enjoyers, that’s absolutely not the case here. This person has made a good number of us rp-blog enjoyers very uncomfortable, so we decided to close contact with the account.

I’m not quite sure on how to end this off— All I’ll say is that if something or someone makes you uncomfortable, put your foot down and speak up. No one deserves to be put in a distressing situation. Thank you. ❤️

[moonytoast-x]

my james potter truths:

-desi or hispanic james ‼️

-people pleaser james

-james who is totally fine, wdym, he's the mentally stable one, what are you even talking about? there's no way he's having a panic attack, he doesn't get those. he's fINE

-james who falls in love with his whole entire being, he's never had a casual emotion in his life

-overly protective james

-mamas boy james <3

-drummer james 🥰

-james listens to abba

-adhd james

-james who is really close with marlene (sirius is his best friend, but marlene is a close second (the other marauders are tied with her))

[angelsnkisses]

more nsfw headcanons - jack thurlow <3

‼️ NSFW - MDNI ‼️

warnings: dom!jack, sub!gn!reader, smut, overstimulation, crying, unprotected sex

his arm bands 😩 (bracelets? idk)

• ugh, jack would LOVE your noises. all the whining, pleading, moaning, screaming, crying, everything. it's like music to his ears when you're all noisy for him.

"that's right, tell me how good it feels.. fuck, you're so fucking tight.."

• if you tried to muffle yourself with your hand or a pillow, he'd pull it away immediately.

"don't do that, angel. come on, i wanna hear you."

• he absolutely adores laying you on the bed, putting one of your legs up, wrapping the other around his waist, and pounding into you with heavy thrusts.

"fuck.. does that feel good? hm?"

• he'll fuck you harder when you can't answer, practically shaking the bed with his movements. he loves how easily he can fuck you out, it's honestly an ego boost.

• he lives for seeing you cry, even if that's frowned upon. he just can't help himself, it's such a pretty sight. he'll overstimulate and pound you until you're a sobbing, moaning mess, his dick undoubtedly throbbing like crazy from hearing it.

"you're so gorgeous when you cry.. i know, i know. it's okay, sweetheart."

• you're gonna have marks, just saying.. jack can't go five minutes without biting or sucking on your dekicate skin. He loves seeing you all covered in hickies and bite marks, like you're a beautiful canvas displaying his messy, twisted works of art.

• he'll touch you all over when he fucks you, unable to keep his hands off of you. his hands will be rubbing over your sides, holding your thighs or hips, cradling your perfect face.. anything he could get his hands on, he wouldn't hesitate.

"you're so soft.. i just wanna ruin you, doll."

• overstimulating you is a big one for him. he idolized the sight of you whimpering and squirming for him, desperately trying to grab at him and stop him from pushing you to orgasm after orgasm.

"fuck, you're flawless, angel.. how could i ever stop touching someone this perfect, hm?"

"ah, ah. stop that, you can go a little longer for me."

• don't worry, he'll always stop if you use your safeword :)

• when it's all over, and you're both laying in a heap panting and sweaty from your releases, he'll be so loving. he'll start kissing all over your face, tryinh to get you to smile.

• he loves that damn smile. he wasn't much of a people pleaser, but he would do anything to see that smile. that smile had saved him more times than he could count, he would love it forever.

"there's that pretty smile.. i love you so much, you did so good today."

• he was pretty unfamiliar with aftercare when you first got together, but he'd really grown to love it.

• he would comb your hair for you, make your favorite drink, make sure you eat something, pretty much anything he could do to reassure himself that you were okay.

• he loved laying with you after, letting you play with his hair while he hugged you. he would rest his chin on your chest, talking and laughing with you for hours on end, just enjoying your company :).

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A/N: it isn't my best work, but i actually kinda like this one :). anyways, i hope you enjoyed, sorry if its rushed <3!

[ask-the-digital-wonderland]

𝔻𝕀𝔾𝕀𝕋𝔸𝕃 𝕎𝕆ℕ𝔻𝔼ℝ𝕃𝔸ℕ𝔻 𝔸𝕌

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♡ 𝕋ℍ𝔼 𝕊𝕋𝕆ℝ𝕐 ♡

The Digital Wonderland is a world that is not like our own. It's a place of boundless opportunities, vibrant hues, and joy unlike any other. Once upon a time, the people of this home enjoyed spending their leisurely time together, in peace.

That is, until a profound darkness descended upon the region, leaving the people to become more and more corrupt as a result. The Eyes of Wonder observed them all as they turned against one another and fought, shedding blood.

There was no hope.

One day, elsewhere, a woman finds a hole near a large tree.

And falls right through.

☆ 𝕋ℍ𝔼 ℂℍ𝔸ℝ𝔸ℂ𝕋𝔼ℝ𝕊 ☆

ℙ𝕆𝕄ℕ𝕀 - (𝕋ℍ𝔼 𝕄𝕐𝕊𝕋𝔼ℝ𝕀𝕆𝕌𝕊 𝔽𝔸𝕃𝕃𝔼ℕ 𝔾𝕀ℝ𝕃) : A terrified girl who tumbled through a hole into Wonderland. Pomni is completely focused on figuring out how to return home, even though she is completely forgetful of her name and past life. Locating The Eyes Of Wonder is the first step toward escaping.

ℝ𝔸𝔾𝔸𝕋ℍ𝔸 - (𝕋ℍ𝔼 𝔹𝕃𝕆𝕆𝕄𝕀ℕ𝔾 𝔻𝕆𝕃𝕃) : A fair living doll of a maiden. Despite having no memory of her creator, Ragatha has chosen to dwell in their mansion and tend to the withering flowers that accompany it. She's a major people-pleaser, if not overly compassionate for her own good. She doesn't react too well to those who want to touch the flowers.

𝕁𝔸𝕏 - (𝕋ℍ𝔼 𝕃𝔸𝕋𝔼 ℍ𝔸ℝ𝔼) : A good for nothing, snake-tongued thief. Jax enjoys taking gems from the wealthiest people he can con to support himself, while attempting to beat his own stopwatch records. If he isn't stealing, he's flirting with common ladies. It's best not to get in his way when the clock is ticking.

𝕂𝕀ℕ𝔾𝔼ℝ - (𝕂𝕀ℕ𝔾 𝕆𝔽 ℂℍ𝔼ℂ𝕂𝕄𝔸𝕋𝔼𝕊) : A weird monarch of the Kingdom Of Games. Kinger has an iron grip that he uses to dominate and keep an eye on his subjects. On the outside, he appears so lost yet calm, although nobody is aware of his activities behind closed doors. It's best not to find out what's there.

𝔾𝔸ℕ𝔾𝕃𝔼 - (𝕋ℍ𝔼 𝔽𝔸ℂ𝔼 𝔼𝔸𝕋𝔼ℝ) : A torn woman with a broken face. Gangle spends most of her days within a cave. She will devour anyone she doesn't deem worth her time, or traumatizes them with her horrifying faces. It's best to make her smile. Quickly.

ℤ𝕆𝕆𝔹𝕃𝔼 - (𝕋ℍ𝔼 𝕊ℍ𝔸ℙ𝔼𝕃𝕐 𝔽𝔼𝕀ℕ𝔻) : A freakish prisoner now run-away. They don't care about the state of the world, but they at least don't want to be disturbed by anyone living in it. If someone tries to drag them back to the Kingdom of Games, they have no problem tearing them apart. It's best to look the other way.

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[coco-bee]

INSIDE OUT 2 AND ANXIETY

Welcome to Media and Topic where I discuss a piece of media and how they handle a certain topic either in the story department or the production!

Today I’m discussing Inside Out 2 and how the movie handled Anxiety!

!! SPOILERS AHEAD !!

(I need to scratch the itch this movie gave me)

So I watched Inside Out 2 in the cinema with my friends after not going to the cinemas for a few years now AND I LOVED IT!! Very entertaining movie and I can’t wait to rewatch it on Disney+ :D

I want to discuss more about the first and second movie sometime when I get to watch them again

For now I want to discuss how this movie handles having anxiety!

Keep in mind I won’t go as in depth as I would want because I only watched the movie once and I can’t thoroughly watch it to find stuff I missed so I’m going off my memory.

So to start off of course we can’t discuss anxiety without well… Anxiety!

I genuinely love the way she’s portrayed! Not as an irredeemable monster but just wants the best for Riley and goes about it the wrong way. The way the movie interprets Anxiety as someone who prepares for the future is really smart! (and makes me rethink MY anxiety..)

Most people personify Anxiety as a monster who takes over the mind that they would like to be removed. But in this movie- Anxiety seems like an overbearing mother that is just trying her best but goes about it the wrong way. (at least to me)

The movie doesn’t go into the direction where Riley has an excessive amount of anxiety that requires medication or therapy but more of goes into the anxiety you get when you’re a teenager but it shows a lot more in certain situations than having it be a constant thing. Which explains why Anxiety while not gone is managed by Joy so that she won’t go off the rails.

Anyway I first want to mention the scene after Riley does her first game at Hockey Camp and Riley hears the Firehawks talk about her (I love how Val defends her btw I love her sm ARGHH)

(sorry the ss is bad quality I can’t find more)

The way Anxiety handled the conversation so smoothly was a very interesting scene! It adds nuance to the idea of anxiety not always being a bad thing. Anxiety can help someone stay alert in case of danger, make them aware of risks and motivate us to solve the problem/find a solution and in my experience helps with quick thinking. It only turns into a bad thing when it’s taken over ALL the time.

Basically the message of the first movie but instead of having toxic positivity it’s having unmanaged anxiety.

But things go downhill when Anxiety bottles up the other emotions in order to make Riley look cool and make new friends with Val and the Firehawks

And also removing Riley’s sense of self as she plants in more self deprecating ideas in Riley’s head to make this new belief that Riley isn’t good enough and has to ALWAYS improve (heavy emphasis on ‘always’)

Which gets Riley to abandon everything about herself. Like lying about her favorite band.

And abandoning her friends in order to look cool and mature.

In my experience this is VERY accurate. When you get overruled by Anxiety you tend to lose your sense of self. You lose your core personality traits in favor of what is seen as cool. PEOPLE PLEASER ALERTT ‼️ (Me too Riley… me too<3)

I also notice how Riley tends to make decisions that are completely against her morals and the rules when she’s letting her emotions take too much control instead of thinking rationally like sneaking to the Coach’s office because she was fueled with not knowing if she made the team or not.

A similar thing happened in the first movie where she stole her mom’s credit card. So just a detail to point out.

There’s also the scene where Anxiety got these…thought artists?? (I forgot what they’re called) to write the worst possible scenarios for Riley before a big game while she’s asleep. THAT SCENE IS SO RELATABLE I DO THAT A LOT especially when I’m going through something.

Again very accurate and not to mention a creative representation of this kind of thought process.

I also remember when Joy is formulating a plan to get back Riley’s old sense of self, in her plan she says to Anxiety “Hey! Stop worrying so much” and Anxiety (in Joy’s mind) replies with “I didn’t think of that! Thank you”

Which is PAINFULLY accurate to how people respond to others that have anxiety. They just respond with “Don’t worry” WHEN LIKE… THAT’S NOT HOW IT WORKS 💀

We need a lot more than “Don’t worry” to be able to well..not worry.

For me I talk it out for me not to worry anymore because I prefer having someone with me instead of being stuck in my head. And other people have different needs when they have anxiety.

I just really like that detail

There’s also the panic attack Riley gets

I love how Anxiety rushes around the console trying to think of some sort of solution but she’s stuck in this loop and just couldn’t stop worrying and panicking and that just… it hit way too close to home. When you’re having a panic attack you tend to get stuck in your mind to the point where you need an outside force to get you out of it. Like how Grace went to ask her if she was ok while Riley was in the penalty box which helped Riley get out of it and finally open up and slowly be herself again.

Usually if this movie was written by out of touch writers Anxiety would be “defeated”, Joy puts back Riley’s old sense of self and Riley is all happy again! BUT NOPE thankfully the movie doesn’t go in that direction because the writers understand how the brain works.

I like how even if Joy puts back the old self, it doesn’t automatically make things better. That sense of self was great for Riley when she was a kid.. but she’s not a kid anymore. She needs something else. So her new self is a mix of positive affirmations and negative affirmations about herself which is very realistic. Because as you get older you become a lot more humble and aware of your flaws.

I also like how Anxiety is not “defeated” in the end but instead becomes managed. When she starts spiraling, Joy helps her calm down and asks “We can’t control what happens but what can we control now? What can we do right now?” which is an AMAZING way for it to be handled.

It works a lot on me which helps me calm down and get my head back to earth and think rationally.

Overall this movie is very accurate with how it depicts being a teenager with Anxiety! And it really touched me as someone who tends to have it every now and then.

Please go watch this movie while it’s still in theaters (or available for streaming)! It’s worth your time!!

PIXAR HAS GOTTEN ANOTHER W

(also off topic I love how Fear is so fucking smitten for Anxiety it’s so cute I need a pixar short with them PLSSSSS SOMEONE DISCUSS THEM W MEEEE)

This is Coco typing… Thank you for reading!

[stargirlrchive]

AND I WOULDN’T MARRY ME EITHER ‼️ A PATHOLOGICAL PEOPLE PLEASER WHO ONLY WANTED YOU TO SEE HER

[thelanguageoflovers]

lydia is the argumentative antithetical dream girl to cynthia’s pathological people pleaser ‼️‼️‼️

[riordanness]

HEYYYY EMMA‼️‼️ sending over two requests in ONE ask🙏🙏 (don’t feel pressured to make these btw i legit just went on break so i got all the time in the world 2 wait!)

the very first night = what’s your FAVORITE fandom that you’ve ever been in?

and secondly….

when emma falls in love + wonka (2023) = i picked this cuz it sounds fun… so like- yippers ⁉️

i’m energetic, short asf, caring + an intense people pleaser, terrible fashion sense, i like an 80s vibe, and yeahhhhhhh👍

HAPPY 400 FOLLOWERS EMS‼️🤎🤎🫶

stop tysm i love youu

for the very first night, my favourite fandom will always and has always been percy jackson. i first read it with my mum when i was eleven, and i’ve just never let go of the love and joy it brings me every time. and the fandom is awesome too, most of the time!

for when emma falls in love,,,,,,

you + felix ficklegruber !!

you both share the same fashion taste, even if it’s not always the best…? he loves how short you are compared to him, and he likes to tease you about it a LOT. you both enjoy the same type of chocolates. and the 80s vibe is so you guys. he can keep up with your energy levels but you guys can both also just kick back and chill together (when he’s not following slugworth around ofc ofc)

here’s y’all’s playlist,, i hope you like it !!

running through the 80s with felix ficklegruber

( i know you probably wanted wonka, bc same, but in my opinion you match felix better and let’s be real,, mathew bay tom is so fine )