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Just a casual reminder to not give concrit on creative work unless a person asks for it. Even if you say it's not meant to be rude, it's still rude to do so.
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#blathersandbits#people please#I know I'm not perfect and my work isn't either#but I'm a recovering perfectionist#I stress so much over stuff being good enough#it sets me way back to have someone drop âââhelpâââ on a wip when I didn't ask for it#and it will get you blocked
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I HATE IT when people try to defend rape/sexual assault fics as normal and okay. Because it is absolutely is not. It's disgusting and incredibly disrespectful to people who HAVE been raped. Your sick fantasy needs to stay inside your head.
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*Taps Sign* đđ˝
FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS GOOD.
Please. PLEASE. PLEASE
put an indication that you aren't a minor if you're on my blog!
This can include:
18+
Minors dni
Not a minor
Adult blog
Adult
Child of the <insert decade of birth>
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO PUT YOUR AGE.
But please. Put something.
I don't want to have to keep blocking all you empty blogs and blogs without age indicators.
#thelaundrybitch#psa#people please#im BEGGING you#i cant even tell you how many people ive had to block this week#PLEASE#i love you all more than i love the turtles
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Advice from a proud non-people-pleaser on avoiding people-pleasing. Sorry in advance if this sounds like a âif youâre depressed just be happyâ post
1. A real friend/partner would respect your boundaries, and there are so many people out there that would respect them. Donât accept the bare minimum.
2. Remember that boundaries are not requests. You have communicated what youâre comfortable with, and if someone doesnât respect that, REMOVE yourself from the suituation
3. Thereâs a difference between standing up for yourself and being a bad person, and deep down you probably already know where to draw the line
4. Exposure therapy and baby steps. Forming habits will be your friend where logic has failed you.
5. Take being called selfish as a compliment.
6. Whenever someone tries to convince you to change your mind on something small, refuse, no matter how much they argue. It doesnât matter if you actually have changed your mind â practicing saying no resolutely will be so, so good for you. Youâll always be a people-pleaser if you cave whenever someone argues with you.
7. Take time out of your day to get cozy with a blanket and aesthetically listen to a podcast or watch your favorite show to remind yourself how happy you can be on your own
8. Do you really like them or do you just want them to like you�
9. Vent to a safe person. If you have no safe people, post all your problems on Tumblr lmao
11. Give yourself hugs. Wear a warm fuzzy sweater. Repeat things like âI am worthyâ over and over. If you tell yourself anything, youâll start to believe it, because the brain is funny like that. No more external validation đ
12. Why on earth would you focus more on what someone else wants you to do with your life than what you want to do? YOU HAVE AUTONOMY
13. So what if you mess up and actually hurt someone? Nobody is perfect. Apologize. Take accountability and move on. Donât let that be the thing that stops you from protecting yourself.
14. Protecting yourself literally has nothing to do with anybody else. Donât mess with their boundaries, and get pissed as fuck if they mess with yours.
#people pleasing#people pleaser#advice#trauma#mental health advice#over apologizing#apologizing#people please#standing up for yourself
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Hear me out, hear me out:
LCF/TCF Miraculous AU


Warning: a bit of yapping
So, first of, I think it's important to mention that they wouldn't be highschoolers or whatever they are in miraculous ladybug but older
And some things are changed for convenience
Okay, with that out of the way-
Backstory stuff:
The Thames family was in charge of holding and taking care of the miraculouses but then, Jour Thames, the last active member of the family line died in 'an accident'.
She left behind a box of possessions for her twin sons (og Cale and krs Cale - idk, name them whatever) to find. The boys did not know about this until they already became young adults.
At that point their father, Deruth Henituse, had already remarried and so they were living together with Violan, Basen and Lily too.
In the box they found a bunch of odd trinkets. When krs Cale tried on a black ribbon, suddenly a small black dragon appeared before their eyes. They later went on to call him Raon Miru. He was a so called 'kwami'.
Og Cale choose a bracelet, that had the kwami that make you able to reverse time a couple minutes, the snake one. Also put on a collar necklace that happens to be the dog miraculous.
So,both of them end up with kwamis. They try out all of them eventually for research purposes. Though, their first reaction might have been locking away that box very very well and ignoring it for quite some time after. Well, until someone showed up to wreak havock in the land and their lives. Yup, the white star and arm.
Basen and Lily don't get miraculouses because they're underage. Same with Ohn and Hong after they get adopted into the family.
They all become aware of the miraculouses or just generally the kwamis in one way or another though. Deruth doesn't know, just sees that something has changed. Violan suspects what's up but won't mention it unless necessary. Ron would know, Beacrox would first suspect but then get confirmation looking at his father.
There are times when they (who am I kidding it's mostly just krs Cale-) ends up putting on multiple miraculouses at once, resulting in 7+ voices talking to him. Og Cale usually wears two from the get go.
The twins gather together multiple people to fight alongside them against the ws and his forces. Sometimes they give out miraculouses to others for extra help, usually temporarily. There are also some people who have miraculouses of their own from the start and also some who live in different countries/cities and use miraculouses.
Another important thing, they wouldn't make it a big thing hiding their identity from their allies. If they trust them they'll tell them, if they don't trust them enough, they won't. Or if they feel like it's irrelevant to know/ would cause danger to the other or themselves.
Ideas for miraculouses or kwamis and characters:
KRS Cale:
-> as I said before, no, he would not have the ladybug one, at least definitely not as his main one
-> he would have the dragon miraculous (wind, water, lightning)
-> the kwami would most likely be Raon himself
-> the form of the miraculous would be a black ribbon he uses to tie his hair up with because I think it would fit
-> he often uses multiple miraculouses despite it not being the best for his body and general health
OG Cale:
-> he would have the snake miraculous because I heard that can rewind time a couple of minutes, it's a bracelet
-> can be changed into a different animal for plot conveniences
-> he'd also have the dog miraculous (teleports to you items you marked)
-> I got that off off the wiki btw, I only watched like first two seasons of miraculous so don't come after me if that's not what the snake/doggo does
-> also, it's an au so who cares about accuracy
-> he's most likely the one keeping the box safe with the other miraculouses so Krs Cale doesn't use too much at once
-> he could also have the ladybug one if you want, one of the Cales shall get it
Alberu:
-> fox miraculous (illusions), it's a necklace, a necklace that he got from his late mother, dun dun dunnnn
-> he was told by her what it does, how it works but only on a basic level
-> it brought him great comfort to have something to remember her by
-> Tasha knows about it and helps, supports him to the best of her abilities, Zed is also aware of it but doesn't mention it nor does he show to care all that much
Choi han:
-> I'm aware that he's literally the human version of both a puppy and a guard dog, but he'd have the cat miraculous (destruction)
-> here it wouldn't be a ring probably but either a cape or a belt, some article of clothing I think
the shamans/illusionists would all have one (Gashan, Jopis, Elisneh, ...)
Cale Barrow:
-> yes I'm using the full government name out of sheer spite, his villain name is the White Star
-> he'd have the butterfly one (transformation), does a little evil laugh every couple episodes but ends up coughing at the end of each attempt ha
Dorph and Sayeru:
-> a lion and bear one, I know, very unexpected (the miraculouses might do something different than in canon)
-> they both got it from the ws
Other people that would have miraculouses but I'm not sure what:
Bud and Glenn:
-> they would not even be in the same city or county as them at all, but!! If I can give my guys a miraculous, then I'm gonna
Jack and Hannah:
-> they would also be in a different city/country
-> Jack would have a healing one while Hannah has two different ones she uses together
Eruhaben:
-> he would be a retired hero/vigilante
-> would be if not for the ws hanging around
Cage:
-> she had a miraculous since she was little (7 years old or so) and the kwami is none other than GoD because I find that ridiculously funny
-> can be other too tho xdd
Mary:
-> I'm not sure... Bones??
Rosalyn:
-> something something probably fire powers
Witira:
-> something something probably water powers
-> my creative juices are used up, okay, it's showing I know
Now, those who get miraculouses but are not full time owners:
Lock:
-> if there's a wolf one, then he'd get that
Ohn and Hong:
-> yes, despite being not of age yet, they sometimes get to use some miraculouses
-> if it happened once, it happened multiple times after much to the Cales exasperation
So,
This all I have for now but I might think up more for it later because I find it interesting
You can expand on it if you'd like, this is just an idea I had
You're more than welcome to adopt this into a fic, please send me a link if you do though so I can read it and please mention me somewhere :D
But yup
#I got distracted halfway through writing this#but if I forgot something I'll just add it later#I want superhero tcf aus in general#people please#haha#I just think it would be interesting#lcf#tcf#lout of the countâs family#my stuff#fic ideas#au ideas#idk man
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#he's literally in blue and green hodie and thay mention the kid...#football with 28op.....#people#people please
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Another day, another dash filled with untagged spoilers
#people PLEASE#how am i to update my fics and contribute to the fandom if i can't open my account without risking it all#stranger things#st#byler#st5
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Your joke offends Asian.
Bitch, I am a mother fking
âA S I A Nâ
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why so many "bottom!Eddie" stans use my post where I made Eddie top (btw "switch buddie supremacy") to talk about it?
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Okay im getting conflicting info. You say adjuration is a tragedy and you also say its not whump? Whats the truth?
PER MERIAM WEBSTER DICTIONARY
tragedy (noun) trag¡âe¡âdy Ëtra-jÉ-dÄ
plural: tragedies
1
a: a disastrous event : CALAMITY
b: MISFORTUNE
2
a: a serious drama typically describing a conflict between the protagonist and a superior force (such as destiny) and having a sorrowful or disastrous conclusion that elicits pity or terror
b: the literary genre of tragic dramas
c: a medieval narrative poem or tale typically describing the downfall of a great man
3: tragic quality or element
All of this is applicable, but I would really like to draw your attention to definition 2a. Hope this helps đ
#freyja writes fic#this is an adjuration#freyja answers#people please#go⌠go do your english lit homework#please
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Trying to be excited for the new season of OFMD when the OFMD fans are... Like Thatâ˘ď¸
#people please#try for five minutes to not be absolutely insufferable#please. PLEASE.#let me just enjoy the silly pirate show#artschoolrambles
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can't believe i'm sitting here watching original picard characters lose the poll in their own show to tng guests stars who were barely there at all
#behave yourselves voters#vote sensibly#worf is a good guy#he is not the best character in star trek PICARD#especially not compared to raffi#end of#the character development alone#people please
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Also this is my official statement as a 2011 player that anyone who is an older (as in like pre-2017 ish) player who is going on and on about how this update is the worst thing happening to this game you can literally paypal me 500k Swedish and go somewhere where I canât see you because what the fuck are you guys on about
#If I'm being mean I'm saying these motherfuckers are delusional and need therapy#But I'm not gonna be That mean <3#But seriously tho literally could not be me#More so therapy for the body image problems since those are Clearly running rampant around those parts but also like#People please#Some fucking adulting
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asking people to be mindful of others when sharing a communal space (especially one you cannot just up and leave from) is not selfish or misanthropic. come on now
#like we are human beings who have to coexist. i donât think it should be so much to ask for some courtesy#but some of you guys act like being asked to be civil to the people around you is like being asked to sever a body part#idk itâs just a respect thing. iâm not being very coherent right now but we have to act like we can share communal spaces!#abandon ethical egoism please đ
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It didnât hit me until recently that people genuinely think Kamala Harris was a police officer because of all the people who call her a cop online.
Like I think maybe itâs important people should know she was a prosecutor. She was once a district attorney and later an attorney general for the state of California. And we can discuss how related that is to police work and how tied she is to the carceral system etc etc (but for fairness would have to include her record of pushing for lowering incarceration rates through programs helping former prisoners + her office refusing to jail folks for low level weed offense). But she was never a police officer. Like people should get that clear. Kamala Harris was never a police officer. She was a district attorney. She was never a police officer.
#Kamala Harris#us politics#like genuinely seeing people say she was an actual cop#that was never true#and itâs kind of embarrassing#like please her wiki page is right there
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