#people keep sending me screenshots of myself ooc

[gladosluver]

[battle-subway-ghost]

Intro.

Never been good at introducing myself. But, here we go.

I'm Paris. Or Ghost. Either one works. Ghost is a nickname, and has been an alias for a while now. I don't really care which one you want to call me. Anyways, I'm 24, and my pronouns are he/him.

I used to fight in the Battle Subway a lot. So if you remember a guy named "Ghost" from there, that's probably me. That's all over now though, I've been living in Galar for a while now. Still connected to my Unovan roots though. Imagine some braviary sound effects here, I don't fucking know.

If you think you recognize me, firstly no you don't. I keep my face private for a reason. Secondly, don't come up to me if you aren't looking to have a battle. Not gonna force you but I don't like talking to strangers outside of that.

So my horse accidentally posted a video of me getting attacked by my rival's Froslass. So my face is kinda out there now. Don't fucking harass me or shit like that, don't be a weirdo. (and no, this doesnt mean ill be posting more pictures of myself. Don't ask.)

Anyways. Enough about me, here's my team.

I've also got a battler in-training, and 3 rattata that I keep as pets. I might as well give 'em all a graphic here.

FAQ because people in real life keep asking me this:

Q: Cheri looks very pink. Is that normal? A: Yes, he does. It probably is.

Q: Is that a shiny alolan rattata? A: No. Bean is albino.

Q: What's wrong with Grungle? A: Nothing. He's a weird subspecies or hybrid, not sure which yet. Either way, he's REALLY FUCKING BLUE NOW, HOLY SHIT. He's safe though- it's not dangerous.

Dunno what else to say here. My main interests are battling, so if you have any questions about that, feel free to ask me. I'm not an actual EXPERT on it or anything, but it's whatever.

Hello! This is the OOC part of the introduction! I follow from @act11as, and ooc posts will be tagged as such, and will usually have the color green. I don't always do this, as it can be grating to look at after a while.

My rotomblr "hub" account is @battle-subway-aftershow!

Muse is an adult, mod is a minor. Don't be weird, or I'll screenshot your ask and make fun of you with my friends. Into the hall of shame with you.

(Weird: NSFW/Suggestive asks, fetish mining, etc. Do not fucking do these.)

Additionally: If your main is NSFW, please do not follow me. I will block you for my own comfort.

ALL TRIGGER WARNINGS WILL BE TAGGED AS "[word] tw"! This is to make it easier to blacklist things! if I ever miss something or you need me to tag something in specific, shoot me an ask or a dm! I'll try to remember.

Guidelines/Rules I guess?

*ALMOST ANY kind of Pokemon Irl blog can interact! Eeby deebies, sapient pokemon, evil teams, whatever! I cannot guarantee that Paris will be nice to you, (ESPECIALLY an evil team) or believe you.

*Self-Insert fallers, please do not interact. I personally cannot handle these kinds of blogs. Self-insert ocs are fine, but the idea of a real person on rotomblr being isekaid into Pokémon is not.

IN CHARACTER anon hate is perfectly fine! Be an asshole to Paris! Keep in mind that I won't always respond to these however, especially if they go too far in my eyes.

PARIS CAN AND WILL BE AN UNRELIABLE NARRATOR! He doesn't know all the details, he can be wrong, he can flat out lie. Just something to keep in mind!

Extra:

Mystery Gifts are now open! And Preferred! Feel free to go crazy with this ^^

Pelipper Mail, un-mail, and Malice are always open! Feel free to torment this guy whenever you so please. (links go to the source posts for all 3 lol)

Musharna mail, (sending dreams) and Musharna malice (sending nightmares) are always on! Once again feel free to torment this guy.

Magic anons are usually off, unless I specifically specify otherwise!

Organizational tags:

#[nickname] the [pokemon] - Most posts about Paris' pokemon should be tagged like this.

#mind's eye - Usually ask games- these are not things Paris would actually say out loud, at least in the way the post says it, to a degree! Consider these semi-canon in nature. Feel free to press him outside of ask games, if you see something interesting though ^^

#Paris used Sleep Talk - a bit of a mixed bag, posts made by Paris either when he’s tired, falling asleep, or actually asleep. Usually angst but can be memes as well. Mixed bag like I said

#rival tag - Tag for posts mentioning/about Paris' rival, also known as @/subzeroiceshard

#mylah tag - Tag used for @/tinkatinktrain- Paris' friend.

#sprite tag - Tag used for @/thatfailedpokemontrainer- similar situation to the above.

#frosty tag - Tag used for @/frosty-sneasel!

#bluebird anon/bluebird tag - Tag used for @/blu3b1rdsss!

#beedrill tag - Tag used for @/a-nickits-den!

#shilo tag - Tag for @/shilo-sumac!

Previous arcs/Lore:

#A Frosty Reception / #A Frosty Reception 2.0 - Takeovers of one of Paris' childhood friends. done twice because I kept getting sick :(

#Gone Fishing Arc - Paris fucked off into the woods and almost never returned! Good look into his character. (warnings for pokemon attacks, injury, and frostbite)

#Kicked to Kanto - Smaller thing, what it says on the tin.

#Team Fauna - Inconsistently tagged, but should have the vital bits in the general area? (Check "Cult tw" if otherwise). Paris goes undercover in a cult to save his friends. This does not have consequences whatsoever (obviously, warning for cults.)

#The Unraveling arc - Post Team Fauna- Something strange is going on with Paris' reality... It seems to be falling apart! Unraveling, even! (Warnings for horror, body horror, and unreality)

#Greyed Walls Event - The aftermath of Unraveling. Our Paris is missing, and a curious foxlike entity has gotten involved... (Askblog-style event- this is an AU of Paris, set in a post-apocalyptic world!) (Mild warning on top of the obvious apocalypse for horror and talks about injury + amputation!)

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And finally, for music enjoyers- Here's his playlist! NOW ON YOUTUBE TOO BECAUSE FUCK SPOTIFY!

[ruiination]

RULES

topaz. he/they. 25+ blogs: warrior of light. / personal / makoto yuki

Meta Rules:

I am a person and am bipolar. I have episodes of intense depression and also moments of extreme anxiety/paranoia. During these extremes, I will shut myself out from others. This is because I know I can be harmful when it comes to my thinking. I can be incredibly negative and accidentally vent or overshare. I can become irrationally fearful or obnoxious. I am in treatment for these things, and the biggest thing I know is that I can be harmful and be easily harmed. I have had a variety of experiences where I have accidentally crossed lines or slipped into toxic bullshit. I have been manipulated and hurt during these episodes. The best thing for me in these situations is to give me space. I need to protect myself during these times. I need to be alone. I am reluctant to be open because of past experiences. I know I cannot act rationally and can make stupid choices. I can become snippy or traumadump. I can allow people to walk on my boundaries during these periods. I have been manipulated multiple times to do and share things I am not comfortable with. On that subject, I am always open to talking or hearing people out. But if I am having an episode of depression, I will not be capable of listening to people vent. When I am manic, I get incredibly anxious or hyper. The anxiety can turn into downright paranoia which is why I cannot handle vagueblogging and stuff during those times. I am not making excuses. I am just letting everyone know that I sometimes need space. I need patience. I may still write. But I will not be able to speak much ooc. It is not personal. But sometimes I just struggle. It is a struggle a lot of the time. I wanted to add this into my rules even if it makes me so nervous to do it.

I try my best to tag triggers, so if you need something tagged let me know.

Sexism and racism will not be tolerated, you will be blocked. If you post anything transphobic, homophobic, or biphobic, I will block YOU

If you ship adult/minor ships or condone that stuff, do not interact.

I can and will block if people make me uncomfortable.

I will never write incest.

If you are here because of Jay or whatever, here is my post about his little stunt and the photo of my original DNI (which i posted as a screenshot from my Clive blog so it wouldn't so up on searches) is on the bottom of the page. ♥ I am thankful for all of the support, but I do not want to talk about him. If you have found one of his blogs, you can feel free to let me know.

In terms of triggers, I try my best to keep up. But it's not easy for me to tag not standard ones. If you are triggered by dogs, violence, mental illness, and childhood trauma this may not be the blog for you.

If you constantly delete/move your blogs, I might be hesitant to interact with you.

I am white irl and I do write a few poc. If you see me so anything wrong and you are a poc, feel free to educate me. I'm always trying to learn and be better. I have a zero tolerance policy about racism. I will not speak over poc. If they tell me something is a microagression or downright racist, I'm only going to listen. I can't possibly know their lived experience and trust their perspective. Please reach out if you see anything from me I need to correct!

I'm queer. I am genderfluid with a masc lean. Assigned female at birth. I have a zero tolerance policy about about hate toward lgbt+ people and misogyny. I will say something to you if it seems unintentionally done. But yeah.

I am incredibly uncomfortable around much of the following fandoms: final fantasy xvi , danganronpa, and baldur's gate 3. Still willing to follow or interact but I may be hesitant.

Interaction Rules:

Asks can ALWAYS be replied to.

All muses are crossover friendly and OC friendly.

Do not force me to ship or smut.

I'm mutuals only.

If you are a multi muse and send an ask or like a starter call without specifying what muse you are sending from, I won't answer. If you don't specify a muse you want from me when you send asks, I won't answer.

I don't use icons for certain muses. I do not have time to make icons for 60+ muses.

I have 4 different muse sections which are to indicate activity. Primary muses are the most active and accepting. where each section below it becomes less active or accepting. I also added a feature muse to indicate the character I have the most muse for right now which will be the MOST active.

I will no longer be writing smut rps. It doesn't make me comfortable for a variety of reasons. I may do some on discord and I am happy to talk about those sorts of headcanons, but I have discovered that I have hang-ups with writing things like that that I have not been able to push past. I will enact a fade to black policy for now. I am truly sorry. I have only had a handful of partners I have written this type of content with and all but one have resulted in the same outcome that is just a personal failing of mine. I will continue to try to work through this. But for now, please try to be understanding. If you want more of an explanation, feel free to ask in dms/ims.

Shipping/Mains Rules

If you are a main or ship partner, I need to be able to kinda talk to you ooc. I only will be mains with someone that speaks with me ooc.

If you MAINLY want to smut/ship and that's the only reason you are here, this blog isn't for you.

Mains get priority.

If you become mains or start shipping with be and then never reply or talk to me, I'll remove you from my list. Shipping or being mains should be the start and not the end. That status is not a trophy to be put on your shelf. Exceptions can obviously be made and I'm always okay with low activity or extended breaks. I just ask for communication when possible.

I will typically not be exclusive.

Credits

Icon Templates: cassiaslair, somresources, calisources, paletterph, thunderousmemes, stephysource, biscuit, supersources

Coloring psds: abstraect, somresources, tattooedtaemin, calisources, freerps, biscuit.

Caps: capsource

dividers: here, and paletterph

Mains

@nivaera.

@cagedfirebird

@unrealization

[hephaestiions]

you literally glorified infidelity in your wireless 2020, fic writers like you really need to die out before you damage the community at large

you know, i’ve cycled through many iterations of a response to this ask. 

first i thought, let’s respond with a bit of sass. let’s say something like, ‘bold of you to assume i haven’t already died out, that tumblr isn’t just a congregation of ghosts moaning about the lives they wish they had’ or ‘what’s a community’ or maybe even a screenshot of the actual definition of glorification (which, well, i do suggest you look up anyway). 

then i thought, why entertain it at all? this is my space, this is my blog, it’s my fic. i can delete this ask, turn off anons and be done with it. i would be within my rights to do that. 

i also thought many times of explaining the contents of my fic. of explaining myself. contemplated answering this with poetry that metaphorically explains the many many things wrong with this. 

but here’s what i finally settled on:

honestly, anon, i’m feeling a little salty. it seems to me that you want fandom to be a highly sanitised space that fits into your personal parameters of ‘safe’ or consumable. what concerns me about that, and about this particular genre of anon hate in general is– for some reason your safe and sanitised world does not exclude sending people comments such as “...[you] need to die out”. i would argue that suggesting someone needs to die is maybe exponentially more threatening and damaging to ‘the community at large’ than a tagged fic that includes a disclaimer stating i do not endorse the behaviour i am writing about, but hey! personal opinions, am i right? 

i’m not going to defend my fic. i don’t feel the need to.

but if you think fanfiction about infidelity, fictional work that does not automatically demonise individuals who do something awful as the worst kind of monsters to exist, will actively push people to cheat on their partners (which is what i am assuming your definition of ‘damage’ to be in this scenario)... i’m going to have to ask you to reevaluate. fiction is not validation. it is exploration in a world where there are no real life casualties or consequences. 

i cannot believe that people have to keep repeating this: sanitising fan spaces by censoring content you personally find offensive will not in any way make fandom safer.  

in fact, this is literally the kind of comment that puts people and the ‘community’ in danger. 

i’ll explain. 

imagine this: people listen to you. people say, well, the glorification of infidelity really is quite awful, quite traumatising, we ought to ban it. but who determines what glorification is? who determines what romanticisation is? the line is too blurry anon, the only way forward here is to ban infidelity in fics completely. 

now readers who found comfort and solace in reading infidelity fics with hurt/comfort, with forgiveness or with freedom, with a particular quote that resonated with them, readers who turned to this fic at 3 am... they’ve lost it too. 

but hey, let’s take it further still, because that’s what this type of censorship will open fandom up to. let’s talk about how this will validate people who find content with any exploration of nsfw themes, r*cism, mis*gyny, homoph*bia, transph*bia, r*pe offensive. let’s talk about how they will approach the showrunners of censorship with the same argument: this content could be traumatising, could be validating for someone’s darker impulses, let’s ban it. and it all gets banned. 

enemies to lovers, banned because it might be construed as abusive. a/b/o, might be construed as misogynistic or codependent. hmm. high-school/college, oh god, that could be underage! soulmates? where’s the agency?! kid-fics? a minefield, any parenting is bad parenting to parents who do not parent that way. mcd? let’s not even go there. body-swap? the consent issues!! 

“alright. what about ‘there was only one bed’?” “well, i mean, i’m really not comfortable with that, it’s really creepy how writers will just force characters who don’t want to consent to that kind of intimacy into each others’ spaces.”

now i’m not saying that your personal opinions on these tropes, these themes, these topics is invalid. i’m not saying that if you’re triggered or made uncomfortable by these things, you should still read them. i’m saying that enforcing your personal preferences and takes on every single person in a community is not what critical consumers of media do, it’s what fascist and authoritarian governments and abusive individuals who do not understand boundaries do. 

here’s the truth about media that antis don’t like: there are antis for the media they actually do like. you ban something, you open up the goddamn floodgates for fluff antis to present their cases about how making characters ooc in fluff can be highly traumatic to people and how it should be banned. you start this brand of censorship, you risk losing fandom and the community you are so concerned about me damaging entirely. 

i’ll leave you with a realisation i’ve come to by reading all the posts made by people better with words than i am: the fastest way to create a dystopia is for someone to think their version of utopia is universal.

further reading for folks who might be interested in tumblr posts about fanfic: 

fanfiction as a collective exists as a combination of the ideal state and all the broken pieces that are left behind.  fanfiction: the stories mainstream showrunners won’t tell. for the people trying to make fandom a better place.

coexistence of hurt and healing

there are thousands of other such posts, articles, books, academic articles, maybe even interviews on the subject, and if anyone wants to send a few mine (and anon’s) way, feel free!

[nocturnal-dreams]

I might take this down later tonight so if you want to screenshot it so you can use my words against me like in 2 months again go the fuck ahead but I've heard so many anons going on my account that I will not be responding to because well I really couldn't give less of a fuck. Anons are pissed off at me for multiple reasons. While its 1am and I'm kind of drunk, I feel like I can quickly explain myself.

⚠️ Stop reading now if you really couldn't give a damn ⚠️

➖Okay so I've seen a lot of people pissed off at me for writing for c!Schlatt. Now I completely agree that you can be mad at Schlatt, he's said some fucked up things but to be attacking his fans and the people who are a fan of his character, no that's fucked up and if you're a follower of mine and hate on Schlatt fans, you can kindly fuck off, you're no follower of mine. Look I'm sorry but I'm not gonna stop writing for a character that I enjoy because the internet isnt a fucking perfect picket white fence.

Another thing related to Schlatt is JustAMinx or the chuckle sandwich crew in general but I'll just talk about Minx. I'm still gonna write for her since I genuinely enjoy her content. Do I like that she's friends with Kacey? Absolutely not but Minx is an adult and it's up to her to make her own choices. Do I wish she'd not support Kacey, absolutely but once again she's an adult and its up to her to be responsible when looking at who she's to be friends with

➖Okay number 2, my dress pictures or just the pictures I post of my irl life in general. I've been getting a lot of hate anons lately that are mad at me for wearing a dress because people think I'm faking being non-binary for clout, shut the fuck up. I can wear my packer and binder and I'm still gonna be non-binary, what's so different about me wearing a fucking dress that shows a little cleavage? Grow the fuck up

Another few anons I've been getting are about my weight in the photos, people claiming they're worried about my health, no bro you're just being a dick. Look I am afab and I have a little thing called a uterus, now something that this uterus causes me to do is bloating, but I also have a thing called tits. Now I dont know if you knew this but porn stars may have huge fucking tits and no fat but you know what that is? That's surgeries and dieting to one piece of food every week. Now do I feel like doing any of that? Fuck no, I'm confident in my body and I'll wear whatever the fuck I want no matter my size.

So here's for you fucks:

➖Number 3, some people are mad at me for keeping myself private? I made a post like 2 months ago I think now telling people that they dont know me, they only know what I wish to tell them and that I like to live a private life. The reason for this post? Because I had an anon send me a ask of my exact location and birth name, I am safe dont worry but the second that happened, I felt like I needed to set some kind of boundary because that was fucking creepy especially because at that time, I was living with my friend and her two year old daughter.

In that post I said "I care about all of you guys but I dont know you and you dont know me, what I say is what I choose to tell you guys." People took that is me referring to everyone as a number, once again my words being taken out of context

➖Number 4, look I'm not a licensed therapist so stop treating me like I am one. I'm human to and need my breaks. You can message me and send me as ask if you need somewhere to vent but how about we dont get pissed off at me if I dont answer immediately or if my advice isn't good enough. I dont have all the answers, I try to help with the knowledge that I have.

Also please put a trigger warning at the start of your ask, it just helps me be able to filter everything better and also stops people if they skim read and might be put into a bad place, it's just so helpful to do and it takes two seconds

➖Number five, calling me a groomer for interacting with minors...

*inhale* WHAT?! So you're telling me that me supporting talented writers who happen to be minors and being someone they can talk to and be like a parental figure to is me being a groomer? Huh?!

I'm sorry but that is completely bullshit, want to see a groomer? Look at someone like James Charles or Onison, get your head out of your ass

➖Number 6, the one that pisses me off the most. "You dont write enough", do you really think in any kind of small pea brain mind that people being rude to me about not writing enough is gonna make me want to write more? I took a break from writing in the first place because people were being dicks to me about it, saying oh you spelt this wrong, or this is so cringy, or stop making the person ooc.

I write for myself and I'm gonna be honest, I have many finished drafts and fic ideas but I dont want to post them because well I'm tired of being shitted on for every minor mistake.

➖look I'm not a perfect person and have never tried to come across as one. I fuck up and I'm sure you do too. At this rate with all the hate anons recently, I'm very close to turning off anon asks or just asks in general. But I don't want to do that because my anon asks are for people who want to vent but want to stay anonymous and I feel like that would take away that security of I turned it off.

Just let people exist and get your head out of your ass

[actor-mark]

Red Candles Pt 17

OOC: How to vote: Send your choice in an ask to this blog. Comments, reblogs and dms will not count as I do not get notifications for them nor do I want to screenshot from several places. I’ve spotted a couple of older choices coming through, please make sure to check by the blog to be up to date with the latest post! Thank you! CW: Minor horror with hands grabbing at reader Actors self inflicted injuries/deaths mentioned briefly Mark assuming suicide from your actions in the house briefly mentioned  Zombie hands image at the bottom second choice. 

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Struggle!

“.... And here I thought you and I were FRIENDS...”

His voice holds a slight echo in this plain, his figure seems to have a sort of pulse around it and its clear that he’s incredibly dangerous here.  Still... You’ve clearly pissed him off this far, why stop now? you’re determined more than ever to stop him.  Thrashing and flailing and glitching you do everything you can to free yourself from the hands, but they seem to know exactly where you’ll go, how you’ll move and they keep a firm grip on you. 

Mark just shifts to stand before you, watching your futile attempts to wriggle free, a stern look on his face, one of disappointment, one of someone who had been betrayed yet again but at this point used to it. 

You close your eyes and focus everything you have to try and glitch hop away but the most you can do while trapped is flicker a little. Your mind calls out to Dark.... But there’s no response. 

“Are you having fun?”

Mark just seems annoyed that you’re kicking up a fuss while he’s in the middle of something. You’re growing more and more tired as time goes on and eventually settle down into just glaring angrily at The Hollow Man. 

“..... Do you even know what this is?” He held up the black Candelabra with a look of concern, seeking an answer he knows he’s not going to get from you.  “I didn’t think so....” He let out a sigh “did you just come here to kill me? Cos if so you’ve been doing a terrible job at it. Then again I’ve never had much success at it myself.”  He gives a bemused smirk, taking to pacing around you, like some sort of vulture stalking prey. 

“Y’know when you showed up at my house unannounced in the pouring rain at 3 o clock in the morning, I figured oh, maybe something happened. Poor thing well I’m here why don’t I give you a good distraction, some tea? I thought perhaps you needed help and had sought me out for comfort... But no... You went snooping around my house instead... Then I found you in the kitchen with a knife and my heart skipped a beat!”

He gave you a genuine look of concern, part of you believes he’s just putting on the act like always but something in his eyes says he maybe really did think the worst of your actions. Given his perspective you can’t really blame him for thinking that. 

“So.. I offered you distraction again, whisked you away quickly, only for you to run off again” He shook his head “and look what happened to you”  He gave an open hand gesture at you. Nothing more than a dead wandering spirit.  “What got you? Was it the zombie? Ah no you’d still be walkin’ around... Hmm you’re kinda sickly looking though.. That might just be the Hollows.. hmm... OH! Right you probably got this from the morgue... ahah.. Dr Iplier eh? Yikes. Not the best of choices but at least it wasn’t too painful!”  He smirked “Still... better than anything they probably went through”  Mark pointed to the hands holding you “You know who they are right? Poor souls.. Strayed from the path and lost their lives along the way. I offered them safety, a home, a friend... They’re nothing but Hollows now...” 

Mark paced back in front of you and leaned forward, hands behind his back  “Did you peek into the drawers at the morgue? Did you see them?” he broke a smirk that had something sinister behind it. “Kinda proof enough that your little plan wouldn’t have worked... Still I’m kinda impressed you found this.....”  He looked back to the candelabra  “But you’re too late anyway..... I already sealed everything off. There’s only one left.”  He thought for a moment.  “Did THEY put you up to this?.... Of course they did. Did they tell you it was to stop me?” He suddenly took a look of concern “Oh my FRIEND... You’ve been lied to.” 

Does this guy ever shut up? You start struggling again and call out for Darkiplier once more, but again there’s no response. Can he even hear you? Mark’s probably taken measures to stop that happening. 

“I severed my ties with this place a long time ago- The last gateway was at Camp Unus Annus. that sealed when the channel - ah... passed away~.”  He smirked a bit “But this? This one isn’t for me... Would you like to see which gateway this candle closes?” 

He turned to the side, looking off into the distance a bit over dramatically, but awaited your answer. Like always with Mark, two choice boxes showed up. 

Your choices are as follows: 

Listen a little longer If Mark has already sealed off the paths and there’s only one left then Dark was telling the truth to you, but Mark says the gateway isn’t for him, so who is it for? And why did he keep it? Maybe he’s just tricking you, working his manipulative ways all over again to stop you from cutting off his final tie. He is HERE in death after all, and the power around him is suffocating. Clearly he still has some sway here. But maybe he’s telling the truth? He seems to genuinely care about you. 

Reason with the Hollows These hands, Hollows Mark called them, past Y/N’s that have died on Marks adventures now working for him after he gave them home. They’re just like you though. Maybe you can convince them that Mark is an evil twisted son of a bitch and get them to put you down? Or maybe they have something important to share with you. You feel in tune with them a little. They are you...and you are them after all... 

“This place has always felt like stepping into a sauna. No oxygen, heady, heavy.. but no need to breathe. I’ve always felt lost and at home in this place. It’s a strange mixture. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been back and forth.... It never seems to like me... just spits me right back out...”  

OOC: @gemstone9 mentioned Mark monologuing anyway and I straight up..yeaaah yeah he is gonna monologue anyway. enjoy XD was kinda hard to find pictures for this one. Not a lot of actor mark pics that aren’t fan art. I haven’t used art cos I don’t wanna repost peoples work. 

Well your ending has been set in stone now folks. You have perceived Mark to be your enemy from start to finish. I hope you’re ready for what he wants to show you, some of you theorists may already know what that is. 

Big Pogs to @shattered-da​ and @tinywyfrost for cracking the big boy code yesterday, it was indeed Mark speaking.  You got one more code coming your way for the finale and it’ll be the toughest one yet. Good luck! 

[spineofdeathwing]

Ignus Silverdreth

As the tumblr handle implies, I had to make a tumblr to post this. Not to hide my identity, but because I literally don't use tumblr. However this situation has personally escalated to the point that a post needed to be made so here we are. Do remember upon reading, i'm not trying to tell you/anyone what to do. However I think the rp community is one that should look out for one another, and to promote a healthy environment of co-writing and support. Part of that is informing the community when there's a habitual and consistent problem  or a problematic individual who continues to dole out harm oocly. Which is where we begin today with Ignus. I'll provide all the screenshots I have. I have not yet decided while writing this but all screens may go to an imgur album due to the sheer size. This has been a situation that has been taking place over the course of weeks. Months even. I thought to go over it from beginning to end but I'm afraid that would be a post too long and that it wouldn't get red. As a result, here are the finer points and cautionary information. -Ignus took the ic into the ooc and claimed I lied to him about my character when this was profoundly untrue, he has not changed this claim although he did make an attempt to apologize for the behavior, which doesn't mean much when he continued to lie thereafter. He indicated that I never told him about my character's culty vibes which I had done oocly when he and his group first asked and my character himself warned Ignus icly about things. During this time rolls were not taken and I was essentially godmoded until Ignus called for backup from his group and I had a really nice conversation and roll duel with one of them. Ignus being passive aggressive and angry all the while. Removing me from groups and being generally insulting. -When a friend attempted to mediate the situation above, Ignus got incredibly toxic to that friend, being insulting and demeaning to them. Even cutting contact off with them oocly for perceivably having taken my side. during that conversation (screenshots provided) he personally attacked that friend, myself, and another rp partner. -Ignus blocked an officer of another guild for being a male oocly, and has made several disparaging remarks regarding the lgbt community (Names have been removed from those screenshots to preserve identity, as those that informed of as much do not wish retaliation as he is known to be volatile and hostile oocly.) -Ignus has several within his group, Menoside/Tydiz who uses the term 'gay' negatively and disparagingly. As well Ignus has a member in his group Kath, who has previously been removed from a guild for making (Trigger warning) rape jokes. 

-Ignus has been noted to godmode icly. As well as some of his group. He will engage in combat and have his character accept all manner of injury, only to appear ten minutes later as if nothing had happened at all to repeat the process. His method of rp is incredibly disruptive, and there are multiple accounts of others experiencing the godmoding and general meta gaming. I myself experienced this when his rp disrupted my own for aproximately eight hours as I was involved in an arc with his rp and another group, and he would continuously attack then mysteriously heal to full only to attack again, and would send ooc vaguely ominous messages before swarming people with those he's convinced to join.

-Ignus once attempted to approach me regarding these issues, and after I replied to him did not say anything and logged off. He then indicated that I never responded even though I did, and in my response (Screenshot will provide) I indicated I did not want contact with him. When others started to confront him with his behavior he made an effort to reach out to me. I accepted the contact thinking there would be a resolution. I was sorely mistaken. He lied about me not responding and cut his own screenshots off so my response wasn't visible. And during that conversation aside from being hostile and volatile he was more interested in discovering the identity of those that had reached out regarding his transphobic behavior. Making several statements that further lead me to believe he simply wanted to attack those individuals. When I further iterated that I did not want to speak with him and that I had desired not to have contact with him he continued on until the point that I had to block him from Discord. Today he's already began the in game harrassment by throwing some manner of fruit/vegetable at me. I'm unfamiliar with the item.

I know a bulleted list doesn't quite catch every nuance of what has happened here, and I also know i'm not the only one with experiences regarding this issue. The arc he was previously a part of has been stopped and others are now beginning to speak out. I hope with my bulleted explanation and with the screenshots provided that it is enough that everyone can make an informed decision about interacting with him. Which again, my purpose here isn't to tell anyone what they should or shouldn't do. But to inform, as I believe that as members of the community we have an obligation to keep one another safe, and to point out potential hazards as we see them. I do hope everyone has an excellent day, and is excellent to one another.  (All screens grouped below, sorry they're out of order) https://imgur.com/gallery/NMXjeuL If there is a need for further screenshots, which there are, or any other questions or concerns please don't hesitate to reach out to me. I will try to check this tumblr daily, as work and time permits. 

[coolsatellite]

Hello! If you do mini-fanfics can I request one? The basic plot is that the proxies are in love with one person, and the person mentions offhand that they like weighted blankets. They all scramble to get them one first. In the end the person is extremely happy because they have three blankets to sleep under, and is completely oblivious to how cute they look. 💖

Hi! I know this took a while whoops but it’s finally done! I tried to make it gender neutral for everyone, and these boys are a lil ooc but they’re cute so 😍

“I think I’m going to get this weighted blanket soon.” You leaned to the side to show the wild haired boy the screenshot you had taken a while ago of a blanket you had been thinking about ordering. Toby rolled his eyes with a laugh after looking at the phone.

“Didn’t you say you had bills to pay this week? Where are you gonna get the money for that overpriced sheet?” You glanced back down at your phone to see what he was talking about, this couldn’t be too expensive, right?

A pale hand snatched your phone away before you could find the price. Letting out a huff, you stood up to grab it back as Masky tapped away.

“What the hell are you doing?”

“Sending myself the picture. I’ll find a better price for you somewhere else.”

As much as you appreciated the help he was trying to give you, you found it to be quite annoying when he-or either of the other two proxies for that matter-forced their kindness upon you. Yes, you were grateful for their decision not to put a bullet between your eyes when you first met, but their out-of-character kindness sometimes had you wishing they had just left you alone.

“Give me that,” you pulled the phone away from Masky and started to stalk off. “I have a meeting with (boss/teacher) soon. I’ll see you guys later.” With a wave, you left Toby and Masky stranded underneath the tree you had previously been hanging out in, Hoody nowhere to be seen.

~~~

Your day hadn’t even ended when you received a call from Masky. You thought about letting it go to voicemail before recalling the last time you chose to eat your dinner over answering a call from him…

It didn’t end well for your front door.

“What’s up Masky?”

The sound of static-sounding struggles filled your ear as you sat at the dining table. It sounded as though he were in an argument with someone and you figured he had just butt dialed you before he spoke.

“Hey, what’s your height in inches?” 

You blinked, unsure if you had heard him correctly.

“Uh, what?” More curses were heard from the other end of the line and a door slammed shut.

“I need to know how tall you are. In inches. Quick.”

“(height). What’s going on over there?”

Without bothering to answer you, Masky hung up just as the sound of thumps and more yells began.

~~~

“I fucking told you I was already getting them that blanket!” Toby raised an arm to smash his partner’s face in but had his legs kicked out from beneath him, sending him crashing to the ground.

“I’m not trying to stop you from getting that cheap rag. I’m just getting information so I can get them something better than a piece of fabric that will barely cover their body!” Masky turned to leave his room and was met with a sharp pain in his left calf. He let out a groan of frustration before continuing his walk out.

“I told you to stop doing that.” 

Toby stood up, continuing to swing his hatchet around as though he hadn’t just attempted to slice his friend’s leg off. “They said they wanted this one, so this is the one they’re getting.” When Hoody refused to acknowledge his statement, Toby crossed his arms and came up with an idea. “And I bet I could get it to them faster than you can.”

Masky froze in the doorway; an opportunity to show up Toby was something he rarely let go to waste. Before he could agree to the challenge, a hooded figure strolled into the room.

“I’ve already won that bet.”

Toby and Masky shared a look before turning their heads to Hoody, who had taken off his mask and was smirking wildly at the two.

“Yeah, while you two were arguing over which weighted blanket to get, I found one in (favorite color) that’s both weighted and heated. And, you know, it’ll actually cover them from head to toe.”

It seemed he had only come to gloat, because as soon as he was finished he exited the room, pausing for a moment to add “It’s already on their bed, too.”

~~~

After lounging on the couch, catching up on a series you had been missing, you checked your phone one last time before heading out to take out the trash. You had texted Masky a little earlier, asking if everything was okay, but no answer. While deciding if you should try Toby next, a shadow caught your attention out of the corner of your eye. It seemed to flash behind a neighbor’s car, yet upon peeking around the corner, no one was there.

Of course you didn’t think to check underneath the car, where you would have found a pair of anxious murderers doing their best to keep from strangling each other. Instead, you brushed it off as a trick of the light and continued on with your night.

Later, when you finally made your way into the bedroom, you noticed a very thick pile of blankets on your bed. It would have been nice to say that they were neatly folded, waiting for you to unravel them and wrap yourself in their warmth. But that wasn’t the case. Instead, you were blessed with a mess of sheets, all somehow trapped on top of the others. It almost looked like a misshapen ball.

Once you untangled the chaos, you were finally able to see what had been so gracefully gifted to you:

The exact blanket you had shown Toby earlier in the day

Another weighted blanket, in your favorite color, and significantly larger than the first

A similar sized blanket, this time both weighted and heated

As you connected the dots, three hidden figures were scrambling to catch a glimpse of your reaction through a small crack in your blinds. Each of them wanted to know which one you would choose to use first since they had all been able to get them to you at the same time.

In your mind, it was clear what you had to do. You leapt into bed, first throwing the heated blanket over your form. Over this was the (F/C) one, and then the smaller one that was what you had originally wanted.

With your tower of blankets and immense pressure over your body-it was honestly more comfortable than you’d thought it would be-you felt yourself relax for the first time all day. 

Unbeknownst to you, the three people who had presented you with your gifts were all but cooing at your sleeping form outside the window.

[jackkodiac]

Oh boy this is fun. Extremely long post ahead. Beware of ooc drama.

@holydestruction

"If someone has an issue with another mun, please do not send yourself ‘‘anons’‘ or have your friends send ‘‘anons’‘ as an excuse to try and attack/punish other muns."

Neither I myself, nor any of my friends know who sent the ask. I avoided answering it for 3 days because Ollie and I had not finished discussing the final outcome. I went into Ollie’s DM’s SPECIFICALLY BECAUSE of this ask to try to finally clear the air and have some kind of answer. The ask made me uncomfortable, and the 2 previous ones had as well. It had been sitting unanswered for 3 days before everything blew up. 

"Once someone has blocked me I keep it at that and respect their wishes, and i normally don’t give a fuck about the petty vagueposts on here--in fact, check my rules for how i generally approach situation."

Please show me where I apparently vagueposted about anyone??? I didn’t even tell my closest friends about the problem until today (5/2/2020) when I was informed of this callout post, let alone make vague public complaints about you OR Ollie. I blocked you knowing you would likely block me soon anyway. 

"However, if someone is coming up to me saying that people are posting things like this, and bringing private matters public while spreading misinformation then I’m going to respond."

No I’m pretty sure I didn’t air any dirty laundry, unlike you? I spoke the truth; in the end I did not get a choice. I got an ultimatum. And I dropped the subject after that ask. Good to know you have someone stalking my blog for you though.

You posted a screenshot of my ask response; a request to have the subject dropped bc I was hurt by a situation I couldn’t do anything about. How horrible of me.

"Hi yeah since you blocked me and Ollie is rarely on Tumblr any more cause of this exact shit right here, and you’re trying to vilify the mun OVER FUCKING WORD BARBIES, I’m stepping in to tell you top stop playing the fucking victim when I have chat logs of you trying to hold Ollie emotionally hostage."

Like I said, I blocked you knowing you would block me eventually anyway. I blocked him too, because I figured the same thing. He specifically stated to me in his last Discord message, and I quote: “After this conversation, I really do think it’s best that we don’t talk again.” So I blocked you both to deter the possibility of accidentally engaging with either of you again. As. Requested.

Also, it hurt knowing you have full reign to npc his character when I was denied even the possibility of npcing a *background relationship*. So yes. I blocked you. I could not forsee us ever interacting in a positive manner, so I cut my losses.

I am not sure how you think I’m “playing the victim” as if I wasn’t also hurt by his words and actions? There were no winners in this argument and you blaming all of it on ME is the actual vilifying.

Also good to know that wanting to talk about something instead of being told I have to end it on the spot with no explanation is “holding someone emotionally hostage.” I guess I will just have to avoid discussions with people ever again bc talking ooc is evil now!

"Ollie tried multiple times to contact you over this issue because they wanted to stay in contact."

This is actually true! Ollie contacted me to talk about general things as well as the topic of our characters a few times over the last month. I did the same thing just as often. He would contact me to say hi and ask how I was doing, we would small talk. I would contact him to show him pictures of my cat bc he liked them! We would small talk. Occasionally we actually would start to discuss things. Then we would either get busy, go to sleep, or have to go to work, and the discussion would end. Other times we had to stop because one or both of us was too stressed out over various factors and the topic was strenuous.

"Every time, you brushed them off begging Ollie not to have them break up because, as you stated, that was the only thing you had to look forward to that made you happy."

I did not brush him off EVERY time. Sometimes we started to get somewhere. He asked to stop talking just as often, if not more times, than I did. And while I did say the ship was ONE of the only things I was looking forward to, I did not say it was THE only one. The epidemic has been stressful on everyone, and with both of us being “essential workers” the external stress is even harder. I enjoyed having something to talk about when I got off of a hard day at the warehouse. I wasn’t ready to let go of that when HE even offered to have them work it out in the first place. 

"You then ghosted them for days that rolled into weeks, and Ollie would have to contact you AGAIN."

Correction: I left Ollie ALONE for days at a time, after he would request it. He would leave my messages unanswered just as often? But I didn’t complain about it, because that is something he has always done. We don’t always have time to stop and talk. He would get stressed out and I would drop the subject AT HIS REQUEST until he brought it back up. I think that is actually considered respecting someone’s space.

"Do you know what that is, acyl? That’s putting the responsibility of YOUR HAPPINESS onto OLLIE over a FUCKING ROLEPLAY SHIP, ACYL."

And yet, his choice to make both of us retcon/cut down months of character development between both our muses ISN’T putting the responsibility of HIS happiness on ME? Ok. If you say so.

"Ollie explained to you now stressful and anxiety inducing roleplaying had become, and how miserable they were roleplaying this character for reasons that I’m not getting into and don’t matter right now. The point is, ollie explained how they felt."

And just as many times, I expressed that he did not have to continue writing. He said he was leaving tumblr and going to restrict rp to Discord. I said Ok I can work with that. He said he wanted to drop the character. I said Ok I can work with that; I have had many partners drop muses or leave the rpc before, and this issue has NEVER arose in all 5 years I have been writing this blog. The characters have either been killed off by the original mun or allowed to be npc’d in a background relationship. (Ie, implied that they occasionally hang out or talk. No large modding of anyone else’s characters.) Not once has someone started a huge ordeal over this.

"You then got MAD AT OLLIE, and LASHED OUT because Ollie deleted their blog, and told them that OLLIE SHOULD HAVE CONSULTED YOU FIRST???? AS IF YOURE ENTITLED TO THEIR BLOG??"

I was never once mad at Ollie. I was shocked and hurt by the last message Vwig had dm’d to Crow on tumblr before Ollie deleted the blog. I was concerned for Ollie over what had caused this sudden change. I had just gotten off an 8 hour shift at work and seen the aftermath, and I went into Ollie’s DM’s on Discord asking what was wrong. The previous night, when the characters had been fighting, I asked Ollie multiple times ooc if he was ok. I asked if he was bothered and he told me no multiple times. He said it was all ic and he was perfectly fine. I dropped it and the next I heard from him was THAT. I asked what was wrong, what had happened. I was concerned for my friend who just previously said he was ok. He said he didn’t want to rp vwig anymore and we started to talk about what to do since he was leaving the community. Not once did I say he had to ask my permission to delete his blog. I asked why he didn’t talk to me first about what had upset him, but I did not tell him he had to have my permission.

"YOU DO NOT OWN ANY RIGHTS OR GET TO HAVE ANY SAY IN WHAT OLLIE DOES WITH THEIR PROPERTY, NOR DICTATE WHAT OLLIE DOES WITH A HOBBY MEANT TO MAKE THEM HAPPY AND RELAXED. YOU DO NOT HAVE THAT CONTROL OVER OLLIE."

At no point did I ever express that I did. I expressed concern over his change in demeanor. 

"You DO NOT get to do nothing but guilt trip Ollie to try and make them do what YOU WANT. You DO NOT then get to try and use anger to INTIMIDATE Ollie into doing what YOU WANT. You DO NOT get to ghost Ollie after they try to reach out, and pin the blame on them. You DO NOT get to try and vilify ollie because YOU DIDNT GET YOUR WAY."

Good to know that expressing my own discomfort, and concern is suddenly all of these things. Good to know that trying to find out why we can’t work things out all of a sudden is manipulative.

Good to know that internalizing my pain over this fight and going out of my way to avoid talking about it to literally anyone in order to avoid vilifying him in any way is me trying to make him look bad.

"Ollie stated why they were uncomfortable with you NPCing their relationship, and it is your responsibility to RESPECT it. Even if you disagree, it is THEIR CHOICE."

Just as well, I stated why I was uncomfortable with retconning months of writing and development. But apparently it is not his responsibility to respect that and try to come to a compromise. I am the one supposed to only respect him and not expect him to respect me back.

TLDR; You claim I am out here slandering and defaming someone I have never once mentioned in public about a private issue. Yet you name drop and vilify me in a callout post, yourself. You are being a hypocrite, and I would appreciate it if you did not mention me again. Have a nice day.

[sophiet-x]

Theres only one word left to sing, Goodbye.

So, as I stated in the ooc blog, I’ve been dealing with this ever since the Sophie pregnancy rumors started. I don’t want Sophie to have any children, at least not for now, because my Sophie is not in a mentally stable place to have any kids, so I’m always very sure to mention the fact that she’s on contraception if it ever comes up, because that’s just the way I wanted her to go.

This is gonna get long, so go grab yourself a cup of coffee or a can of diet Coke, some snacks and read along if you can even be assed to. 

I was approached by the main when I made a joke of it to please not talk about it until they decided what they wanted to do about the rule of making people keep or not keep their babies. Let it be known that there’s a person in this roleplay who, a while back, had this same situation where her real life celebrity became pregnant and asked the main if she could keep the baby, and was told no because it would be unfair to all the people who had been waiting for baby plots. When I brought this up, they said it was their mistake at the time, and that they were now enforcing it as a rule and had denied the request plenty of times. So this isn’t something that’s been going on for ages, it’s been only a couple of months back. So I waited, staying off the topic unless it was brought up, until I was told very quickly that I’d be forced to keep the baby because it was disrespectful to the celebrity and the baby and that it was in the rules of the group. I tried exploring options (adoptions, pregnancy complications and others I won’t mention because even though they’re real things that really happen, they may be triggering), but was told that none of them would work, that I’d have to keep the baby, and the baby would have to be Joe’s (not an NPC) because if in the future we ever had a Joe, it would be disrespectful and complicated to work around it. I respected their decision, because I’ve always been nothing but accommodating to whatever the main says because I understand this is their group, and if I’m in it, I have to follow the rules. It’s something I accepted and it’s something I understand as a person. I was offered the chance to switch and swap storylines with someone else, which was nice of them because until November I think I’m out of switches, but I declined because Sophie is my baby, and I wasn’t gonna do anything until the pregnancy was either confirmed or dismissed. 

I chose to keep playing Sophie as she was, ignoring the pregnancy because it hadn’t been officially announced, and just playing her out like I was. But nobody was saying anything from her team, and pictures that came out kept hinting towards the fact that she was undoubtably pregnant, so it came to a point where I’m having stress dreams and panic induced anxiety attacks because I don’t know where my own character may be going. I’ve talked it over with people, I’ve gotten plenty of opinions, so last night I sent the main a message listing all the reasons why I saw that this new disposition of making me keep the baby was not only disrespectful to me and to my whole character development, but it was also godmodding me and other people in my storyline when forced to “get creative” and accommodate the new child into Sophie’s storyline. I sent this in hopes that all my reasons would make them see, but I got a reply today basically saying that it’s an extension to the rules that exist today about not eliminating any real life children, that it was implied from the beginning and that they understood that it was changing my storyline, but they said that there’s many celebrities that don’t show their children and that’s not saying they’re bad parents (so if Sophie were to have the baby and send it off to Joe and never mention it and act as if the baby didn’t happen, she’s clearly not a bad parent, she just ignores her child and doesn’t even reference it, spends all her time away from it and doesn’t recognize it exists), but in the end, they’d be happy to allow me the creativity I need to make sure I can fit this into my storyline but sticking to their terms and conditions. That they hadn’t changed their decision and hoped I respected it. Which I do.

Granted, this now meant that the whole plot I’d been working on with Faith, our Aaron, was now rendered useless, because they’ve been talking for the better part of three months now, Sophie hadn’t had sex with anyone beforehand and even if she had and had fallen pregnant, she wouldn’t have kept it a secret from Aaron, and if Aaron had found out, he wouldn’t have gotten with Sophie. So this either meant that if I wanted to keep my that had been developing organically, I had to force Aaron to be the baby’s father, or I had to make Sophie a liar and destroy both our characters in the making. Easy to say, Faith said no to this, which I not only accept but understand and share, so that would be three months of my character development down the drain. (this has all been cleared by Faith, I’m not putting any words into anyone’s mouth). 

So after all of this and a lot of thinking, I’ve decided I can no longer stay in a group where I don’t have control of my characters. Even though they are based on real people, we’re not playing them. We’re not controlling them, we don’t claim to be them or act on their behalf, they’re just characters with their faces and names. If you don’t like seeing it that way, then I respect you, but that’s just what I see them. Shells of people we admire to fill up with a storyline that makes us happy, keeping it as close as possible when we can but also being respectful of all the time we’ve put into them. 

I’ve learned that groups are like countries, with bodies that make decisions and people who live in them. As much as we’re consulted on some things to vote, big decisions are made in a small round table between a few people who vote and decide on what to do by themselves, which is a respectable way of living in a democratic order and not chaos, and we get no say in them. And as a person living in that country, you can either stick to the rules, ask nicely for them to be changed if you don’t agree or move along. I’ve stuck to all of the rules, I’ve asked nicely for them to be changed when I don’t agree with something, and upon receiving an answer I’m not comfortable with, I’m moving aside. Roleplays are supposed to be a fun, stress free place, and with this new rule, I find myself not being comfortable, so I’m simply moving along to a place where I do feel comfortable and where I feel like rules are more fair. 

As is said on the ooc blog, to the handfuls of people I love dearly here, you all know who you are and I won’t name names, I hope life can make us find each other again, either on roleplays or in real life, I’ve learned so much about you and am so happy to call some of you close and dear friends who I’ve shared more of my life than most of the people I see on a daily basis. I’m always available on Discord, my personal or WhatsApp, where I’ll happily tell you where you can find me most often and hopefully see you very soon.

And to all the people with characters here who are getting near the age bracket of having a baby in real life (because if this rule applies to women, it better apply to men too), here’s to hoping they don’t get pregnant if you don’t want to, because you’ll be having to flex your creative muscles to help life find a way. 

With so much love and affection,

Charlie. 

PS: I’m leaving my small/not message on how I think it’s a lack of respect that the main was making me keep Sophie’s baby down there, because I think it’s something that adds to the tale. If anyone wants any of my messages, let me know and I’ll happily share them. I won’t share any screenshots of the mains responses out of respect for them. 

Hi guys, So, I’ve been thinking a lot about the whole pregnancy situation with Sophie, and since it hasn’t been announced yet (and knowing how private Joe and Sophie are they may not even announce it until they have to, which could be after the quarantine and we don’t even know when that will end), I just wanted to ask you again, to please reconsider the previous decision you’d made about making me keep Sophie’s baby.

Firstly, I understand how you’re trying to respect the celebrity and the child, but I think as much as you’re respecting them in their real life, you’re disrespecting me and all the work and development I’ve put Sophie through. She’s been here since the start, almost two years, where she’s been through so long, made so many connections and had so many points that have turned her into who she is today with all of her decisions, her life choices and what she wants and doesn’t want from life. This is my Sophie, much like each of your own characters is your own, and you’ve shaped them through time in what they like, don’t like, want and don’t want.

Secondly, making me do this would be godmodding my character into doing something I don’t want. I know it’s not a character that would be doing the godmodding, but it’s having a God figure magically implanting something into my character that I don’t want. I thought this roleplay was born to avoid stuff like that, to have a fun place to feel safe and not pressured by anyone.

Thirdly, it would be inconsistent with the timeline Sophie has, especially with the whole Coronavirus situation that the group is following. Sophie hasn’t been with anyone for a long time, and for the past couple of months, she’s been with Aaron, not officially but with feelings, so she hasn’t exactly been sleeping around. And seeing as COVID will probably keep everything on lockdown at least until August or September, it won’t be realistic because Aaron would be the only option for a father. Faith and I have already talked about it, and that’s not a direction she wants to take Aaron in, so I won’t force her to have the baby be Aaron’s. But it still doesn’t make sense for her to magically fall pregnant of a one night stand she had with Joe or anyone else, because that would alter her personality and the storyline I have now, and again, that’s godmodding and that’s unfair to me and disrespectful to me and my character. Plus, since we don’t know when this will be announced, we may be writing all of their character and relationship development for nothing, because we would just have to erase it to make the whole new storyline of the baby fit, which I don’t want to do.

This has been filling me with anxiety, I’ve literally been having anxiety attacks and haven’t been able to sleep just thinking about the future because as much as I wanna keep writing Sophie like the fun spirit she is and everyone seems to like writing with, and being in this group, because I love it and I love being here, I can’t keep developing a character that from one day to another, will change drastically if the pregnancy gets announced and I’m forced to keep the baby.

I really hope this helps you rethink the choice you’ve made a few months back, because Sophie is my favorite character here, I love her and the connections she’s made, and I’d hate to have to erase everything and change her whole demeanor just for one new rule.

Thanks for reading,

Charlie.

[ruthlessnessisyourdesire-archive]

rp guidelines.

Mun is Ash. She/Her. 21+. Ruthless Drama King keeps me prisoner. 

This blog is 21+ Nsfw/smut will not be written with those under 21 years old. I will not write with minors. 

I know there are a lot of rules here now but incidents, past stuff in rp scene kind of made it mandatory for myself to put down. Common sense lacks in some too so sorry it’s so long but ya know. Gotta do what we rpers gotta do. <3

tw: potential for triggering content & subject matter due to crime scene investigations/forensic profiling. strong language expected. he is simply a problematic aggressive character in most verses.

no godmodding. unspoken rule but please do not control my character under any circumstances. if you continue to break this rule however I may have to cancel our thread. only in extreme cases.

Don’t have personal triggers but I will not write my muse forcing themselves on any other muse.

any personal triggers you are uncomfortable with I will not write and vice versa.

multiverse/oc friendly. au friendly: discussion on AU’s are love. same char different mun friendly. duplicates are always welcome. personally I love OC’s and this boy cannot get enough interaction from them ever. just so you know. 

Do not screenshot my posts: ooc, threads etc. It is MY content. I should not have to add this but yes this has happened without my knowledge - at first. 

Unfollowing: If there is something you disagree with, do not favor about my writing, portrayal, muse(s) or views the button is always there. Please soft block to unfollow. I will do the same and quietly if it calls for it. 

PSA: Don’t call 60 Connor. He is not Connor. He is his own person. This sort of trumps the significance I have built for him as an individual entity in my characterization/ headcanons/ personal iteration in a fandom where he is overlooked. Also if you do refer to him as such verbally to his face you consent to the wrath and animosity he will bestow upon you be it verbal or potentially physical. Trust me 60 is not fond of being mistaken for his predecessor. (It’s a pet peeve and I’m sorry lol but they’re two separate people. I mean I write Connor too so bear with me.)

plots are love. let's discuss story, char relationships, just anything really. down for plotted, random prompts and memes. my dm’s are always open. if I don’t respond straight away I’m either not on at the moment or I’m just swamped in drafts. I still want you to drop in tho.

replies may take a bit. this is a hobby. if I take a while it doesn’t mean I don’t want to rp. sometimes I forget, tumblr eats my notifs or I haven’t thought up a decent reply as of yet. please be patient. I always offer the same to my rp partners. also I do get swamped in drafts and asks so this does contribute to my reply speed. TLDR: I am slow af but I want to write with you.

want to drop a thread? we all lose muse, get too busy, overwhelmed at times. it is perfectly OK. when I do thread purges I will always post an update and @ those I am keeping threads with. the number of follows I have it is just easier for me to do it this way.

shipping: will ship with chars but there are some I may turn down depending on personal preference. typically ships with another RK800/RK900 are a no. sibling, platonic, enemies is where I go. some exceptions may apply depending on verse type but his exclusive and only RK800 ship is with @rob0badge . 60 also would like platonic, friend and enemy ships to counter his romantic ships. any and all are appreciated. 

open to smut threads. 21+ very explicit at times depending on verse. 60 is ruthless. fair warning. also smut is not a requirement for romantic ships. if you’re not down for that then 60 is all about the respect of his partner’s wishes.

multiship friendly: winning rk800-60's affection is not easy in the long run. remember he is not easy to get along with. 

Shipping Additions: I WILL NOT ship cross unless it is plotted mutually between all parties. even then I will be selective about it. please respect this. multiverse is a thing and that is what my blog is. it will just be ignored. 

Content Trigger: 60 is very much ruthless despite his fall into deviancy. if you are uncomfortable with intense personalities this may not be the rp blog for you. certain themes will be highly thematic, problematic and even controversial at times. all of these will be tagged accordingly and put under read more for my followers/mutuals. he will be aggressive and hateful depending on circumstances. he is not very nice. however, the mun does not reflect this characterization and is extremely nice to followers. 60 may not share that affinity but the mun has no malicious intent. Only this ruthless boy does.

threads containing 18/21+ material always go under read more. please adhere to all warnings. some subject matter may be unsettling. remember any dark or triggering themes are NOT condoned by me irl. it just needs to be said.

Interactions: non-rp blogs, personals or those not part of current threads: DO NOT REBLOG. this is becoming a problem lately and I really don’t want to be that person but please follow this rule.If you continue to do so you will be BLOCKED. You can like my posts just fine however. In fact it’s welcome! I like to see others enjoying what I write for the ruthless king.

DBH VERSE REQUIRED: It just works better to be able to write adequately and since my muse is from this universe it’s a given. I rarely do crossovers as I feel some just do not work or fit my muse. If I do they are with main mutuals depending on fandom or personal preference.

Mutual Exclusive/RP Blogs Only: This blog is now private. If you follow me and I do the same back it means I want to interact. Otherwise assume I won’t be following back if I haven’t in a week. I have had some odd things come 60′s way and it is why this blog is locked down now.

Follows: If I follow back it means I want to interact with you. If you're a mutual and you still have not interacted with me after several weeks I WILL unfollow. This is nothing against anyone or meant to be unfair/mean spirited. The blog is an rp blog so of course I want to interact with you all. Also I do not just give free follows since this is not a personal blog. 

I would love to follow back depending but if I see no rules or somewhere that states 21 and above for the mun on your blog I won’t. I interact solely with those 21+. I myself am 28 years old. Respect this and don’t lie about your age to me. I have had people lie to me in the past and they’ve been dropped faster then you can shout “Deviant Spotted!”

I reserve the right to unfollow anyone for whatever reason including but not limited to rp politics. Ya gurl not here for rp snobbery or assumptions made. If I become uncomfortable I will soft block to unfollow quietly. I also practice block back. Meaning if I’m hardblocked (which is in anyone’s right who is uncomfortable with my content) I will hardblock back. It’s only fair and honestly it’s a lovely page taken out of one of my waifu’s books.

OOC: If you post a crap ton of ooc posts (I mean plz it’s your blog and your content is yours so go for it) I may unfollow if I cannot blacklist them properly. I mean things that aren’t rp related. This is only in extreme cases. My blog has overwhelmed me so the dash being flooded is something I want to clean up.

Replies: As I have stated in updates on this blog I am super busy and backed up. My reply speed is slower due to lots of drafts and asks. You can remind me but please don’t come at me or try to push me. Muse can be fickle. Some days I have it for a specific verse, others I have it for shorter convos or text threads. I aim to reply to everyone but keep in mind running this blog is not easy and I want it be fun for me. It’s a hobby.  When I have to worry and hide from people this is no longer that. If it continues I will drop the thread completely. Only in extreme cases. 

Pressuring: Do not come into my inbox on anon passive aggressively asking when I will reply to threads. If you honestly want to remind me like a normal person my dms are open to mutuals only. Do not guilt me into rping. If you pressure and attempt manipulating me you will be blocked. This has happened and I will not put up with it. 

Please reblog any memes/prompts from the source and not this blog. I am not an rp source or creator of these. If you continue to do this and just harvest my blog for memes without even interacting I will unfollow/block. If you reblog send me one then. If not well do not do it. non-mutuals do not reblog anything at all from this blog. Also I  have to mention some people have used me as a source WITHOUT reblogging from me. Meaning they see the meme and reblog it for themselves as a means of bypassing sending in anything. If we’re mutuals why are you doing this? It will just make me think you do not want to interact.

Asks: Do not reblog asks. Please if you wish to continue make a new post and link back to ask. It just makes my dash a little cleaner and I want to avoid extra asks in the inbox continuing it when we can turn them into convo threads. So please don’t keep sending asks to continue a plot line. Thread it.

IMPORTANT NOTE ABOUT HATE & ASSUMPTIONS: If I discover you sending hate on anon to anybody you’re gone. If you send hate to people about what they ship, especially to female muns/muses, you’re gone. I will not tolerate hate of any kind and if I see you talking negatively about any female muse I will soft block you quietly. I just do not want to interact with you. People who assume generalized posts are about them when I follow you will be softblocked as well. Honestly it’s a given that if I’m following it’s not directed at you. I will not put up with assumptions or continue to view it on my dash. Unfollow me, softblock me, etc. It’s not difficult. My comfort levels are important to me as well as yours should be.

I will not  interact with egoists. If I see anything that wigs me out I will just softblock quietly. Elitists go home. I don’t want you here. 

I will never rush or be pushy at my partners. I’m so chill about threads. please take your time. let’s never take the fun out of it. never think you’re taking too long or bothering me. DM’s are open to my mutuals only.

I do not do passwords or send messages of any kind. If I am following you rest assured that I have read your rules. I do this automatically when someone follows me and vice versa since I expect the same. If I’m liking update posts you can consider that me seeing it as well. 

unfollowing/refollowing: Don’t do it on my blog. If you follow and then unfollow but for some reason come back to follow you get blocked from my side. I don’t need the bs or the attention seeking.

Duplicates are amazing but I will be selective who I follow back and interact with. Nothing personal but I have been the victim of theft in the past. It’s an unfortunate thing but my characterization and headcanons for 60 are my own. I have been writing this boy forever even long before I made this blog. I’m highly protective of my ruthless king. He is my baby after all.

softblocks: I remove people by doing this. It could be for any reason to be honest. We never interact, you keep dropping our stuff, show no interest, I don’t see us interacting after all or any number of reasons to make my dash more comfortable. Do not ask me why I did it. That’s my comfort. No hard feelings. Just move on. I don’t have to cater to you. If you don’t like my methods use the unfollow button and leave my blog. Simple enough.

hardbocking/blacklisting: Yes I have done it. Am I going to blatantly broadcast it for all to see? Nope. I am not obligated to explain why I blocked you. Most times you have broken my rules despite me reminding to read them. Other times there are people I just do not want to see and that is my right not to see them. Same goes for you. Block me if you do not like what you see. I will not censor myself, my writing or who I interact with.

ostracizing people in the rpc: If you don’t like who I am interacting with use your blacklist function. NEVER tell me not to interact with them. If I find out you practice this exclusion tactic on others in the rpc I will purge you off my blog no questions or explanation needed. I totally get it. There are people I don’t like. No one is going to like everyone but do you see me telling others NOT to write with them? Hell no because I know for a fact they have done it to me and others love to listen without all sides to a story.

I also drop people who vague in public servers because it’s straight up childish behavior. I also will not follow or interact with anyone who guilt trips, suicide baits or lies with a pity party song and dance. When you’re found out to be lying or telling other people not to interact with somebody in this RPC I want nothing to do with you. Move on. That’s it. 

Drop a like if you made it this far. Whew! No passwords needed. Even if you don’t drop a like it won’t prevent me interacting it’s just nice to see. 

[ive-been-reminding-you]

Mun OoC: Just Be Cool With Each Other

I messaged the person who I know, without a doubt, sent me this anon message, to let them know that I needed to drop our RP. Even though this person made me anxious, I still didn’t want to ghost them. It felt crappy to me to be publicly replying to everyone else and leave them with no answers. So I wrote out a message to inform them and explain why I needed to drop our RP (which I’ll include, along with their reply, under the Keep Reading for the sake of transparency so you can see that I wasn’t rude or insulting, and so you’re not just taking my word for it without seeing my words, if you are so inclined to look at it).

Their response, which only confirmed for me that they were the anon, despite their denial of it, made me so angry that I was in the process of writing a giant call-out-style post about it. 

But I won’t do that. I am not my muse.

I am still angry. I am still frustrated that, instead of owning up and apologizing, this person was rude and snarky and flippant about my situation. But, nah. 

All I’ll say is this: If someone with a personal, non-RP blog comes to you and asks you to RP, but will only RP in their messages, proceed with caution. 

I won’t even say, “ Absolutely do not RP with this person.” Who knows? You might hit it off. I won’t post their name and I won’t write the call-out. I hope they grow from this and learn how to treat people. I genuinely meant what I said at the end of my message that I hope they find partners and have fun on here.

I hate drama. I just want to write and make friends, as I’ve said a trillion and one times on here. But I also want people to be aware of this so they can make a more informed decision and not potentially have the same thing happen to them.

Now, I’m gonna do a couple of replies tonight. At the very least, I’ll do one or two. I’d like to do even more if I can. I’ll be starting with the ones that have been waiting the longest and work my way up. After tonight, I’ll do more on Thursday and/or Friday.

Thanks for being so lovely and patient with me throughout this horrible time. It means the world to me.

⚔️ Spike ⚔️

I’ll be posting the screenshots, so you can see that it is exactly what I said, and then I’ll post the text because I know that reading screenshots is hard sometimes. I was explaining how they made me feel, why I knew that they were the anon, why I couldn’t write with them anymore, and I even stated no ill will whatsoever.

Also, apologies for the long-form of the posts. I would have liked to post them as a grid, but if there’s a way to do that in a text post, I don’t know how. I’m also sorry for all the text. I tried to give context where needed and stuff.

The text:

((Hello. It’s taken me a while to write this because I was trying to think of what to say. I said I wouldn’t leave you hanging, so I am letting you know that I need to drop our RP. I wish I didn’t have to, and I thought long and hard about it, but it’s the best thing for me.

I know that you were the anonymous person who sent that message. I know because it was written exactly the way you talk to me when we’re not doing the RP. I know because you are the only person that I write with who has pressured me for replies, no matter how many public posts I make talking about how poorly I’m doing. Everyone else tells me not to worry and to take care of myself. You are the only one who asks when I’m getting to your reply. Even when I made the post about my partners letting me know if they wanted to continue our threads, your response was to remind me that I still owed you one. Not to say that you were still interested, but to /remind/ me that you “still need a reply”.

It’s gotten to the point where continuing with our thread will cause me more anxiety. I say “more” anxiety because it has gotten to where I get anxious when I see a notification from you. The first time you ever asked me how I was doing, it turned into you lamenting that all of your partners were on hiatus at the same time. Which is why I didn’t reply to the second time you asked. 

I don’t say any of this to attack you. I say this because you need to know that this isn’t how you treat RP partners. Especially when you’re already asking to RP in messages, which is difficult for some people to do, and you have people willing to do that. It was hard for me as a neurodivergent person to keep track of everything, and have to edit in the messages, but I felt bad because I feel everyone who wants to RP should have a chance to do that. I don’t know why you don’t want to start a blog for RP, but I think you should. At least consider it. You’ll also probably get more partners that way. A lot of people are wary of RP in private to begin with, even without the difficulties it presents for some people.

All that’s left for me to say is that I wish you the best. Please don’t pressure anyone else for replies. Please consider starting a public blog. Other than that, I still hope you find people to write with and that you have fun on here.

Regards, Spike)) <Then I added the link to the anon message>

To clarify about the lamenting about their partners part: The first time they asked me how I was doing, I responded thinking that they actually wanted to have a friendly chat. However, within 3 replies, it turned into, “When are you going to get back to the RPs?” They never cared about me as a person. They only cared about whether they were getting their replies. And once I knew that for sure, I didn’t respond to the only other time they asked how things were going.

Maybe I shouldn’t have explained? Idk, it’s always been hard for me to figure out when to explain and when to keep it simple. Maybe I should have just left it at, “Hey, I need to cut back on some RPs and I have to cut yours, sorry”? If that’s the case, then, yes, I didn’t see that at the time. To be quite honest, though, I doubt that would have been any better. But I know that I would want to know why if someone dropped me and seemingly kept everyone else’s threads, and also seemed to be taking on new ones. And I also know that if someone sent me a message like this, I’d be upset that I made someone feel that way and be apologetic as hell. I definitely wouldn’t send this as a reply (the part that upset me most is highlighted):

This is also the part that confirms for me that they were the anon. “Haven’t bothered” with my blog. When I certainly was updating, however scarcely, about my situation and how hard things have been for me. One such update was the anon message, itself. They continue to behave as though this blog should have been my priority. Regardless, even on the small chance that I was wrong and they weren’t the anon, all the rest of how they behaved still stands.

Either way, I’m just glad I’m done with that and I hope things remain quiet. They unfollowed me and I blocked them. I just want to be able to have my hobby in peace.

[v--iper]

OOC

So I’m home now and I just checked my xkit outbox and I have messages saved from the 20th to today of all the messages I’ve sent I’m tempted to screenshot them and post them but there’s................a lot. It’s also kinda’ embarassing how many anons I send myself just because I wanna write sksksks But if you’re from Ali’s (lionhardtd) post and you want proof it wasn’t me I’d be more than happy to send it to you.

I know it’s possible to delete messages in your outbox but you’re just going to have to take my word for it I guess? I don’t know. I mean, I can tell you whatever anyone wants about the situation. Part of it was because I said a girl I didn’t know looked like a horse girl so :/ And the original fight happened a month ago so how it keeps being brought up is beyond me. Prob because their SO messaged my friend screenshots after they unfollowed them trying to drag me but I literally had already talked to them about what was even in the screenshots weeks ago so oof All of this basically started over a few things I said in a tea spilling server where everyone knows some people might not agree with what eachother says but we try not to fight about it because we are adults and respect one another. Everyone has different opinions and views and reasonings for those views.  I know one of the things that might come up is me being accused of being aphobic and some identities I just don’t understand and that’s the truth. Unless someone has been hoarding screenshots of everything I’ve said it might come up I said aces don’t belong at pride but the thing is we were all making jokes about everyone not belonging at pride. It mostly came from the fact the lesbians in our group couldn’t even find any merch at pride so it kinda’ became a running joke sksks it wasn’t meant seriously here's the thing Everyone in the server is guilty of saying something that could be taken out of context. All of us in there try to have an open forum and we are open to talk about subjects that might make us uncomfortable. But if someone is genuinely hurt no one is going to make them feel like shit about it because we’re all friends and just want to learn. Having an open space like that feels really free and I love it but people have been hoarding screenshots in case they needed it to make some kind of crazy call out post with absolutely no context is honestly kinda wack. With all that being said if anyone wants to talk to me about it or wants proof of things my inbox it open, my anons are on, I’m here and ready.

[rogueparis]

Town of Arcadia PSA

These are screenshots of a discord server, Town of Arcadia. This rp was previously Town of Nimh, an rp I originally created on my own and ran by myself for nearly two years. Unfortunately, I had to shut Nimh down after some OOC stuff happened to me. I reopened the rp a year later and a lot of the original members rejoined and were excited to have it back. After some time, real life took over again and the members suggested we move it to discord to make things easier.

I let the original members admin with me and I took care of the questions and drama if any arose. After awhile I couldn't even discord anymore and they took over. I am grateful they did, since they could keep my dream for this rp going.

Unfortunately, there was some problems between me and another admin who I had been friends with irl. Instead of talking to me about it, they told the other admins they were probably going to be leaving the rp due to "problems with a fellow admin." Of course, they knew who they were talking about and took their side instead of listening to my side. I asked them to delete Nimh out of respect for me since I had created it on my own. They basically (from my perspective) laughed at me and told me no way because they put so much work into it. Of course, I'm grateful they did, but I wanted to at least keep my rp as my rp. I got angry and deleted the rp myself instead of trying to talk it out with them, which I regret, but I can't change what happened.

Well, not long after I found Arcadia floating around disboard (the discord server list) And thought it looked awfully familiar. Turns out, they took the entire rp and just tweaked a few things after I deleted Nimh. I joined on my second account and used my middle name as an alias. They knew, but they let me stay and rp for a little bit. Eventually I let go of my anger (I never caused any problems for them in Arcadia. I just wrote like I would for any rp.) and just stopped writing and closed discord for good.

I will most likely post more about this, but I am still hurt that they took my rp and are acting like it doesn't matter. I'm not writing this to start beef or have people send them hateful messages. I just want people to know that this rp is a ripoff of mine and if you plan on discord rping, remember this post if you plan on joining this group.

[bxnnyhero]

200+ Bias list

You know when I created this blog I expected it to be a bit niche. I just wanted to have a little fun with the hero nobody really knows quite yet. There's something fantastic for me to play such unexplored enigmas. And I thought to myself, welp. Let's see how far can I push it! And now I am sitting on this blog, and not even a week has passed since I created it. I took a screenshot two days ago that said 90-ish followers and wanted to scream about how fast people gather. I am somewhat glad I did not post that screenshot before since it got faster LOL. I know that making those Bias lists every 100 is rather funny considering how quickly I gain people here, but I just want to do it anyway. So here goes! Ima mention the individuals now! And sprinkle in some other people at the bottom of the list! Well, here goes! Under read more! It’s going to be super long tbh LOL

@ksri - And yet again I shall mention you in the first place. You are the start of whatever I call The sigh of relief knowing that ppl noticed the blog and I have an actual chance of doing stuff! But besides the point of you being the start, you are also a pretty good writer. I always enjoy seeing you on my dash, and I do hope we get to do stuff. Admittedly Miruko needs more kids to teach and be a Bunny-mom for. Thank you for being here and stuffs! 

@smcsh - You are one of the first people in this fandom I decided to talk to. You are a lovely person, and I loved those moments we had discussing stuff in Dms. It was also super fun to read your posts. The crack we had and your involvement in it is supreme! Please, continue to be your awesome self, I beg. And have a chocolate bar. You deserve it XD

@goldgoggles - We haven't talked at all but I wanna shout out you cuz ur Aizawa is a legend. Legendary Dad-zawa id back in the building. I always find a bit of peace knowing that whatever happens in the fandom, your Aizawa will still be grumpy about it. Blessed consistency. And bless you for that matter. YE. 

@alienquccn - I haven't thought that when I create a Mirko blog, I will adopt myself a Mina but I guess we are making it happen LOL. It was just something we thought about, but I think it's canon for me now, sorry, I don't make the rules. On the topic of Mina herself though, she is adorable. And you are great at portraying that little rascal who breakdances to make friends. Keep doing whatcha doing! I AM WATCHING U. 

@superrncva - If what we decided with u is right, apparently, Mirko is like Bakugou's long-lost aunt. An aunt that is somehow a bunny but has the same attitude as Baku-boy himself. And I love that. I love the fact that Baku actually "inherited" the qualities of Miruko and I am making that my headcanon and Horikoshi can FIGHT ME. 

@united-smash - The only interaction we had is you sending me a lewd ask and an ask about fisting. That's it. Literally the only ways we have been interacting so far. And I am screaming into the void and laughing because I LOVE THAT. All might is such a dork though. And from what I saw, you are doing a great GREAT job giving him justice. Continue with ur stuff, and I will be watching!

@quirkthief - Hey, hello! I am gay! With that out of the way, you are amazin, and I love u. The first ship of this blog errybody! The main enemy of the entire cast of the show and I am sort of, kind of hero number five! All hail the villain!AU! Yer an enjoyable person to talk to  And I love doing so now and then. Also, I think I am going to make a Gang orca blog. Why? I dunno I WANT To. 

@pantodinamos - Another All Might on my MIGHTY list (see what I did there?) I decided that you are a good. Very a good and I love your blog. You are the first person I followed still, and you are also the first person that got an Ic post from me on this blog! I was just a simple greeter, and I love where this goes. Mirko and All Might are really alike in many ways. They both rely on their physical prowess instead of the direct use of the quirk. They both smile almost always when they assault their enemies and save others. They can be great friends if they want to be. I hope that happens. And I love your All Might! 

@inspirxnt - Emily is lovely. Really. You and Emily are both loves of my life no joke LOL. I sort of did not plan this to happen, but I kinda started to ship out muses together after a bit of conversation, and I seemed to convert you into this as well XD. I can't say I am not proud of it because that would be a lie. I love that shit. And I love how you write your muse. It's a blast to read your ic posts and talk to you OOC. Just a good human being right there! 

@cattusnoir - Hey Kitty-kat! I love Miraculous Ladybug. It's something of a guilty pleasure of mine. Why guilty? I admit that I always enjoyed darker stories with more stakes, but somehow this naive and very ridiculous show did not manage to make me hate it. It has this...cham you can't really deny. And your Noir really portrays the same vibe. I love how you write him. And il love whatever it is that we are building together. Our little chats are very fun as well! You are a nice person! I liek u. 

Alright! That’s all for the personal mentions! let’s top it all off with a small list of just....shout outs. I just wanna do them. I know it’s really big by now, but I WANNA. 

@chillquirk | @stxicherxics | @portation | @devilslcg | @bearxclaws | @needlxd | @gravityquirked | @ofiignition | @chargebolted | @steelhardpecs | @chimeriac | @bgku \ @msclr | @ashsewn | @lemillon | @quamxmulti | @karitxriki | @blxxdcurdle | @gamenu | @juuheart | @tailspired | @engxne | @wingbled | @umbled |  @quirkgifter | @everybodysayhey | @erasershouta | @prideraised | @hcrokcro | @hearthardhit | @snxpkick | @bunnyhoppss | @horncd | @nxveous | @breakreason | @frogprinceus | @urarania | @exoptabilis | @xfulmen | @wallcravvler | @infernoed | @decayingquirk | Just as before I just want to MENTION EVERYONE, but that's cheating. 

OKAY. DONE

[cruciatusxxcervus]

Important: Warning about Toxicity in the Community

Ooc: Hey everyone. So I need to apologize to everyone, especially to @goodxgonexbad and to those who were also involved​. When I went onto Aaliyah’s blog to help with a glitch a music player caused, the messenger was open and I caught sight of what was said. After looking over them, I decided to take it upon myself to do this. In order to help her, others who are involved, and the community as a whole, I need to make this call-out post to warn others. 

I will be tagging this as drama and negative, and evidence will be put under the read-more. 

@5kye is a toxic roleplayer who goes out of her way to manipulate and bully others. She has talked behind roleplaying partners’ backs if they don’t bend over and do what she wants from them (such as shipping with her muse, not responding to her as much as she wants): 

  She has also gone to friends to try to manipulate them into cutting ties with Aaliyah-mun. 

Below she goes on to try to claim specific mental illnesses and use them to try to discredit Aaliyah-mun by saying they’re causing her to send anon hate to herself. 

This isn’t an isolated issue. Another person has become a target of her abuse.

While the anons do not have her name directly linked to them, the fact that these anons try to push others to abandon those targeted in favor for 5kye is a major red flag. 

She also admits it (somewhat) in older screenshots, saying she was nasty to Aaliyah-mun out of jealousy. While they do have her name censored, these can be confirmed to have come from her. 

And to add to this are some of her attempts at damage control today. Below is my post calling out those sending the anon hate to those mentioned above. She is quick to try to downplay them. 

And this evening she made a post to further try to cover things up. 

Let me be clear, 5kye, all we want to do is have fun and interact with others. We care about our followers and friends too. It’s why this post is being made. None of us are trying to compete, get back at each other, or anything childish like that. We just want to write and have fun. 

We want to have ships, adventure, and fun. You’re not special, you’re never going to be the only female OC here. Even if we’re gone, there’s always going to be tons of female OCs.  That’s just the fact of it. 

People have been nothing but kind to you, and you’ve only given toxic bullshit back. You need to act your age and straighten up fast because trust me, you’re going to end up all alone if you keep burning your bridges. Plenty of people see and know you’ve been pulling this shit, and can back all this up. You have no excuse now. You have two choices: Either stop this parasitic behavior or leave.