#people actually disgust me

[yurlace]

RANT

fuck the htf confessions acc and those sick fucks with their sick fantasies

[inkskinned]

they want to talk about mental illness and acceptance and how everyone is a little ocd it's cute and quirky and their "intrusive thoughts" are about cutting their hair off and you say yours are about taking a razorblade to your eye and they say ew can you not and everyone is a little adhd sometimes! except if you're late it's a personality flaw and it's because you are careless and cruel (and someone else with adhd mentions they can be on time, so why can't you?) and it's not an eating disorder if it's girl dinner! it's not mania if it's girl math! what do you mean you blew all of your savings on nonrefundable plane tickets for a plane you didn't even end up taking. what do you mean that you are afraid of eating. get over it. they roll their little lips up into a sneer. can you not, like, trauma dump?

they love it on them they like to wear pieces of your suffering like jewels so that it hangs off their tongue in rapiers. they are allowed to arm-chair diagnose and cherrypick their poisons but you can't ever miss too many showers because that's, like, "fuckken gross?" so anyone mean is a narcissist. so anyone with visual tics is clearly faking it and is so cringe. but they get to scream and hit customer service employees because well, i got overwhelmed.

you keep seeing these posts about how people pleasers are "inherently manipulative" and how it's totally unfair behavior. but you are a people pleaser, you have an ingrained fawn response. in the comments, you have typed and deleted the words just because it is technically true does not make it an empathetic or kind reading of the reaction about one million times. it is technically accurate, after all. you think of catholic guilt, how sometimes you feel bad when doing a good deed because the sense of pride you get from acting kind - that pride is a sin. the word "manipulation" is not without bias or stigma attached to it. many people with the fawn response are direct victims of someone who was malignantly manipulative. calling the victims manipulative too is an unfair and unkind reading of the situation. it would be better and more empathetic to say it is safety-seeking or connection-seeking behavior. yes, it can be toxic. no, in general it is not intended to be toxic. there is no reason to make mentally ill people feel worse for what we undergo.

you type why is everyone so quick to turn on someone showing clear signs of trauma but you already know the fucking answer, so what's the point of bothering. you kind of hate those this is what anxiety looks like! infographics because at this point you're so good at white-knuckling through a severe panic attack that people just think you're stoic. even people who know the situation sometimes comment you just don't seem depressed. and you're not a 9 year old white kid so there's no way you're on the spectrum, you're not obsessed with trains and you were never a good mathematician. okay then.

mental illness is trending. in 2012 tumblr said don't romanticize our symptoms but to be fair tiktok didn't exist yet. there's these series of videos where someone pretends to be "the most boring person on earth" and is just being a normal fucking person, which makes your skin crawl, because that probably means you are boring. your friend reads aloud a profile from tinder - no depressed bitches i fucking hate that mental illness crap. your father says that medication never actually works.

you still haven't told your grandmother that you're in therapy. despite everything (and the fact it's helping): you just don't want her to see you differently.

[traaumaa]

i give up

[watermelinoe]

you cannot convince me that these people don't just hate women

[radiant--as-the--sun]

do people really just wanna be fans of the hunger games and not mention palestine at all? like honestly? do you really wanna just support fictional uprisings and fighting back against fictional oppression but don't actually give a shit about it in real life? did y'all genuinely learn and internalize nothing from this series????

[nashvillethotchicken]

A lot of people in the iwtv Fandom regurgitate antiblack talking points particularly wrt Louis being femme/effeminate/gnc and it's genuinely so disgusting like no, Louis is not making his partners engage in domestic labor when they participate in the businesses and investments they are partial owners of. No, Louis is not being the patriarch of rue royale when lestat leaves the house after beating Louis within an inch of his life. No Louis is not "masculine for his culture" especially when compared to other black men in the same time period. People will actively ignore canon to make Louis into this hypermasculine black brute and Lestatr or armand into these shrinking violets that are oppressed by Louis when he's not that at all. The only times he's ever acted even close to that stereotype is to assimilate into a white supremacist society that expected that of him in order for him to earn a living and to please Armand, which causes him great distress and visibly worsens his mental health to the point of Louis lashing out at Claudia and being so entirely numb that he self harms. Louis is not this hypermasculine black brute and a lot of people try to make him into one bc of unconscious bias surrounding black people (black people have been stereotyped as hypermasculine, angry, overly violent and sexual deviants since the 1700s) or to absolve their non black favs of the actual patriarchal and oppressive violence they enact on Louis and Claudia or a combination of the two. It's disgusting, do better

[swampthingking]

andrew’s definitely gotten in trouble with his pr manager for tweeting things along the lines of:

“no mania inducing medication will compare to the euphoria i will feel the day donald trump drops dead”

[momentomori24]

This may just be me, but I think if you ship a canonically very abusive, manipulative and toxic relationship, you don't get to judge or call anyone degenerates for their own fucked up ships, actually.

[sebscore]

I’m actually so done with f1, like that is not a safe space for women!!! the way some of these drivers talk about horner’s case ??? “drama” “noise and distractions?” EXCUSE ME THIS IS A REAL PERSON WHOSE BOUNDARIES WERE VIOLATED

[mrs-saturday]

Okay so I’m not usually the ranting type but some of you lot don’t know how to fucking behave.

“Anti Piastri” this

“Anti Lando” that

How about you all shut the fuck up???? I’m sorry but what does making hate posts about drivers do for anyone?

And I’m seeing more of this from Lando fans than I am from Piastri fans, and all i have to say to that is, you guys know how passionate Lando is about mental health, about treating others with kindness. He would be bloody well ashamed at every single one of you for sending DEATH THREATS and horrible messages and names and such to a man who was simply doing his job, racing.

New gen fans make me want to bang my head against the wall. Just stop hating and get a life??

blocking anyone using anti anyone hashtags bc that’s NOT what this sport is about.

[uncanny-tranny]

I'm begging abled people to stop saying, "I'd rather die than have [disability]!" or, "how could you not choose to die?" about disabled people being disabled. This especially for those who have an acquired disability.

Maybe this sounds harsh, but if you value the function of your body to the point where you would sacrifice your life over it, that's your business and solely your business. However, that disabled person exists right now. They exist in the same world as you, with a disability you personally would rather die than have. They are alive right now. How the fuck are you going to choose to treat them? Because telling them or implying you'd want to die than be like them is certainly not a good sign.

[hatchetings]

i’m screaming at some people right now. i am so fucking pissed. it annoys the FUCK out of me when people ignore gr**m*ng and *b*s* in a character just because the character is a man. had to BLOCK someone because i got so pissed about this.

“oh i just like the interpretation that they’re—“ no! no! i’m going to scream in your face. it’s an unrecovered *b*s* victim!

no, this doesn’t excuse anything they’ve done. they could be a terrible terrible person. it doesn’t do anything, but trying to make a character seem more vile and disgusting than they actually are is so FUCKING WEIRD. especially when you don’t give that same treatment to other characters.

[everythingseasoning]

WHY ARE SOME OF YOU PEOPLE ROMANTICIZING HOMICIDAL FREAKS THAT ARE GENUINELY DISGUSTING EXCUSES OF A HUMAN BEING????????????????????,???????.???????

Morally gray characters who had to do evil or were burned time after time, are one thing. But straight up psychos are another.

[nightmarish-fallen-angel]

If you are the type of person to consistently make jokes/statements like "I hate all men/men are disgusting/all men are evil" and one of your friends looks at you and tells you "it makes me really uncomfortable when you joke like that, can you please stop?" would you stop making that type of joke around that person?

[eddiediazismyhusband]

SAY IT WITH ME: TRYING TO OUT ACTORS IS NEVER OKAY ESPECIALLY DURING PRIDE MONTH‼️‼️ DO NOT CLAIM TO BE AN ALLY OR ACTUALLY CARE ABOUT QUEER PEOPLE IF YOU ARE ACTIVELY ENGAGING IN BEHAVIOR THAT IS INTENDING TO EITHER OUT SOMEONE, OR CAUSE THAT PERSON TO REITERATE THEIR HETEROSEXUALITY SO THAT YOU CAN WEAPONIZE QUEERNESS TO CALL THEM HOMOPHOBIC SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY ARENT ACTUALLY QUEER ‼️‼️‼️

[thefloatingstone]

The older I get and the more terrible takes I see the more in favour I become of gatekeeping