#pastthoughts

[livinhealthee]

The healing process is long and hard. It's easy to get stuck in the same old thought patterns that keep you from moving forward, but it doesn't have to be this way! As a psychotherapist specializing in heartbreak recovery, I work with people who are ready for change and want to move beyond their past so they can live an amazing life. You deserve happiness and joy! Join me at my upcoming event where we'll explore how your thoughts impact your feelings and actions so you can take control of your life again. #negativethoughts #thinking #limitingbeliefs #pasttrauma #pastthoughts #badthinking #stories #falsestories #coachmelonie https://www.instagram.com/p/CWrJchbuobK/?utm_medium=tumblr

[counosplatform]

Stop Thinking About Your Future Start Thinking About Your Present! When you aren’t being present you become a victim of time. Your mind is pulled into the past or the future, or both. Your thoughts are of the past: what has been, what could have been, what you thought happened vs. what did happen. Or, your thoughts are of the future: what will be, what could be, what it might be

[semicolonnnnn]

If you're happy in a dream , does that count ?

The happiness, does it count ?

[almarielifecoach]

The happiness scale

Why can’t my husband/wife/parent/friend/sibling just say what I want to hear, then I won’t have to give them the silent treatment! Right!? 🙄

Do you find that the wrong choice of words or the wrong tone of voice can send you into the doldrums of pulling away from your housemates/partner, walking around with a long, sad face and turn the whole atmosphere around you into a cloud of negativity and everyone feels like they are walking on egg shells. The people around you are not happy and worst of all, you don’t feel great about yourself. Where did this need that you feel to protect yourself and build a fort around you with a bubble of negative vibes, started? It has a lot to do with what your first experiences were of how happy and safe this world is. If you grew up where you felt that you don’t have a voice and you decided that the happiness scale around you is less than 5, you will unconsciously bring back the scale to where you feel safe – even if it causes you misery. The interesting thing about it is that that is exactly where you feel safe and comfortable at. We look back only long enough only to gain wisdom. Remember that the past is exactly the way it should’ve been and we can not go back and change it, but it does offer us precious wisdom. I will talk more about the past in a next blog post.

If you stayed with me this long and were able to look back and opened the door to look at the past without judgement but with curiosity, I commend you!!

Just observe what happens that make you choose the to get into the escape car and where does that car take you? Victim country or angry forest or to Lake Sad? Can you feel the layers of sad away and get to the suppressed anger? And why aren’t you allowed to be angry?

[pan-devi]

We sat and read poetry until the sun came up

[ej-potter]

Taking a break from work to check out the blog and we're taking a small departure from the #septemberedition and stepping into personally written fiction territory. This was a piece I wrote (if I recall correctly) about five years ago. It's a curious thing to see how my writing has changed, my vocabulary expanded and my perspective shifted. What do y'all think? ✨📖✨📖 #blogpost #abookamonth #hope #personalwriting #fiction #writer #oldwork #pastthoughts #howivechanged #differentperson #shiftingperspective #creativemind #macbookair #macbook13 #jerryismymacbook (at Whittlesea, Victoria)

[intellocgent]

#pastTHOUGHTS #presentREVELATIONS

[stand-by-me]

"You were that wind which failed all my attempts to cover up the cracks in our relationship and secretly found a way to escape out of nowhere."

#pastthoughts

[pmaez17]

Why do you keep on coming back in my soul where there's no space anymore for you?!

Touch of a miracle mind 19.07.2017 19:06

[beccacrazee]

You were my favourite person. Now you're just a thought

via (pastthoughts)

[isanitykeepsmeawake]

Backtracking on what could’ve been...

when you see him walking with a girl on his arm, you look back and think ‘That could’ve been me’.

[royallypetty-blog]

Lessons of love and self, the sick reality.

I've been single for about 2 years now. I've dated in between then and now with no real commitment to any one person. I've gotten a chance to test the waters, date in and out of my race, and date outside of my type and standards. After all that I've reached the same conclusion that I've really known all along. You can't change someone, you can't make them love you. You can't force them to respect you. You can give until you've given all you can. You can cry yourself to sleep. You can beg and plead. You can stay or go. At the end of the day all of that effort and energy is pointless if it isn't matched. My Dad more than my Mom made me a strong willed woman and instilled in me that yes I may one day want a man but there should never come a day when I NEED one to complete me. I, like all/"most" women crave a mans attention, touch, and presence yes. However, that will never be placed above the need to maintain my self worth or the things I deserve, as far as being treated. In some sick way or another for awhile I allowed myself to justify how I was treated and why I put up with the things I did put up with. Those days are long over. There's absolutely no justification for a man or woman to disrespect, degrade or down talk you in any way, shape or form. I'm simply saying this to say not only for myself but to all men and women that it is okay to let go, love from a distance and put yourself first. It is okay to date and fail. It is okay to forgive and move on. And it is most importantly most definitely okay to love yourself more than you love another person, relationship, or situation. I know love is beautiful when found and I'll find it one day. I won't rush or settle for mediocracy. Sincerely, The prized possession unpossessed.

[missbrianna]

World of grey

To you the world was full of promises full of unlimited options you saw it in all its beauty and color so you couldn't understand why i wanted to leave this earth to you it was incomprehensible why Although to me the world did not hold the answers it was only a dull shade of grey no vibrant colors nor promises i sat in a blank world while you sang of its beauty neither of us saw the opposite sides of this world so i sat there in solitude while you screamed at me to see the color right in front of me i searched for what you saw yet i never found it -B.D.

[travellingmusicandme]

Ingo.

Ever wondered what it’d be like to drown? Having the water enter your lungs, the way air does, except I heard it’d hurt.

I also heard that it’s a freeing experience. That it helps you think. That it cleanses and cleans. “At that moment, everything seems to be washed away. At that moment, you’re a clean slate.” Written just by walking on the coastline. Letting the waves tickle my feet. If one already feels so free touching the water, what more allowing it to engulf the very essence of who you are. Allowing it to clear doubt and worry. There won’t be a single problem in there. Weightless. In the water, there is no name, no history, and no story, just the pain of water becoming your new air.

 -To my audience, relax. No need for a suicide assessment.