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THERE IS NO COP INSIDE YOUR HEAD
Stop telling people phrases like this
It's intrusive thoughts and phrases like that can be extremely dangerous to someone with something like ocd
Your thoughts are not bad, no one controls your thoughts and you can't 'police' your own thoughts either
Thoughts and feelings are not wrong, there is no right or wrong just a human experience.
You're safe, you're fine, you're okay.
Imposter syndrome and intrusive thoughts are an ass to handle, I know, but using phrases like "the cop inside your head" is horrible.
Unless you're a system and one of your parts or alters is a police officer, introject or otherwise, don't say shit like this.
You don't have to try and monitor your thoughts like that, you'll just keep tearing yourself up over the smallest intrusive thought through a never ending spiral.
Thoughts are not crimes. There's no law anywhere about *thinking*, let your brain process things, you're not guilty of anything. You. Are. Okay.
And you'll keep being okay. I promise.
#not cripple related#do not derail#not disability related#mental health#intrusive thoughts#cass rants#saw this on one post while scrolling and the thread was a mess#our words matter#how we speak has an impact
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Isn't it amazing that the Lord is listening to us, as we speak to one another about Him? And He counts it as important enough to have it recorded in a book of remembrance.
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Small things we should cherish more in life:
Staring at the moon from your balcony.
Waking up to the sound of the rain.
Small achievements/success in your life.
Sleeping in a cozy or comfortable bed.
Walking barefoot on grass.
The first sip of coffee/tea/juice in the morning.
Different colors of sky.
Finishing a good book.
Counting stars with the person you love.
Sharing fruits with your friends/family.
#these things matters a lot in our lives#little things#dark academia#light academia#excerpts#fragments#poetry#books & libraries#romanticism#dark academism#light academism#words#classic literature#literature quotes#literature#dark academia literature
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more nonbinary characters with absolutely no indication or confirmation of "which direction" they transitioned from nowwwwww
#you can just not clarify it! it doesnt have to matter!#soooooo so tired of AGAB being treated like its some defining factor of our experience that we are inherently and inescapably connected to#like it isnt hard enough to exist outside the gender binary without being asked 'boy or g- WHOOPS i mean transmasc or transfem?'#ink says some words
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ughhhhh so probably the tgcf scene i think the most about is in the final battle when hua cheng is holding xie lian and backwards gripping eming with his other hand i . god. this is referenced off of The Fallen Angel by Alexandre Cabanel (i’m pretty sure everyone has seen it by this point) which is surprisingly pretty topical for tgcf.
#all the stuff about falling from heaven and losing your humanity and whatnot#has anyone done this before#also#idk if anybody is keeping track of the lazycranberrydoodles lore but in high school we read paradise lost#and i blorbofied satan#girl who was rotating the devil from the bible in her head for a month#for the final project i ended up accidentally writing twice the required word count. lmao#what does this say about me? doesnt matter. more importantly what does it say about how satan was written 🤨#what do YOU think milton intended by making satan the most complex compelling and competent character in the book#also also#YIPPEEEEE NEW PFP#pride month is over ....#lesbian hua cheng is still real in our hearts#tgcf#hua cheng#tian guan ci fu#heaven official's blessing#sketch#doodle#hualian#mxtx#art#digital art#my art
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Bestie Deficiency
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#a-qing#xue yang#xiao xingchen#Xue yang is cold because cold blooded creatures can't generate their own body heat#I am skipping over drawing the stories they tell due to the fact this arc is already really dragging#but I think they are very key in understanding the yi-city characters#Even if they are stories that really bring down the slumber party vibes A-Qing was hoping for.#I mentioned some of my thoughts in the tags of no. 76 but to continue on a bit more#I think xxc and xue yangs stories inversely mirror each other on the meaning of sacrifice and what it means to 'deserve' something#to xue yang he has only ever sacrificed - therefore he is in his right to 'deserve' what he wants. And he wants everything.#xxc leaves song lan thinking its the best course of action to atone but my god. No it wasn't. Poor communication crown actually goes to xxc#but it's what xxc he feels he deserves - continued sacrifice to atone. He wants to want nothing.#both are very stuck in the past in ways that are not actually accounting for their actions#It's easy to look at xue yang and go 'dang you need to get over your childhood trauma'#but that very much ignores that fact that we - real human beings - define so much by our childhood pains.#Growth is having to come to terms with it and trying to move past it...and not everyone is ready for that.#I have a lot of thoughts on that matter but I'll let it be for now.#Anyways. Amiguito appears to be one of those words whos meaning change depending on speaker and contextual factors#So as far as I can tell it slides around on the scale on romantic and platonic. Which works for this dynamic. I think.#Native Spanish speakers I am so sorry.
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Special delivery 💛💚
Ko-Fi
#guess who give him flowers#it's kind of obvious with the clue#a reward for saving luffy in dressrosa#in this arc Usopp had some moments with our dear swordman#I love all usopp ships#it was about time for some zosopp#zosopp my beloved#they work too#kind of black cat golden retriever energy#Zoro is not so good at words so he prefers demonstrate his affection with actions#it can be platonic/romantic it doesn't matter#they appreciated each other#zoro x usopp#usopp x zoro#op fanart#usopp fanart#one piece#op usopp#zosopp
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Izzy's never had any social media- why the fuck would he?- but there is a facebook account out there with his name, made for him by Ed back in the days when it was the hot new thing, and everyone had to have a facebook account. Theres a sum total of three posts on there;
The first two, made when Ed opened the account, marking that he changed his profile picture (Ed's favourite of them, armoured in leather but grinning at each other, full of love, like theres nothing else that matters in the world), and that Ed changed his relationship status now Izzy has an account- "Edward Teach is married to Izzy Hands"
The only other post, made more than a decade later, is Ed changing his relationship status to single.
#this is technically lore for an edizzy getting back together thing that you might ACTUALLY see bc i have it all fleshed out#just not in Good Words.#but i think it stands alone as fun little modern edizzy angst#wouldnt be textually relevant to the au anyway. just background ouch#nyxtalks#ofmd#izzy hands#israel hands#blackbeard#edward teach#our flag means death#edizzy#blackhands#fang took the photo of them back in the 90s#they were even younger than they were when they set up the profile. barely more than kids#and they were so so in love#how things change#(i dont actually remember how fbs relationship status works anymore. suspend ur disbelief if im wrong)#they arent married; not really#but its a matter of paperwork to them (at the time)#theyre the local lovebirds. the old married couple. everyone in their scene knows them and know they come as a pair
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Actively disturbed by the fact Dan and Phil are t'hy'la (Vulcan word used to indicate people with a close bond; essentially translates to a combination friend, brother, and lover. Used most often to reference the characters Kirk and Spock as something like soulmates or spouses)
#dan and phil#dan and phil games#daniel howell#dan howell#phil lester#amazing phil#posts that would send william shatner into a rage (envy?) coma#ranch metaphor#I cant believe we have an actual pair of t'hy'la in the real world in the year of our Lord 2024#or the closest equivalent two humans can be in reality#they're soulmates your honor#the aziracrow/ineffable husbands cosplay has been living in my head rent free since Halloween#going to the live show after ten years of being a phan is an experience unlike any other#it's the opposite of what i felt when i logged into tumblr dot com in November of 2020 and got body slammed by destiel one final time#literally never have two people been more *gestures at them* than these two are#i know it sounds like a shipping thing but its not#whether theyre together or not has no baring on the fact that they're literally t'hy'la#and i know what some of yall are thinking#how would it not matter if lover is a part of the translation#ask kirk and spock#something are just#more than words can describe#phan#i meant bearing but I've added too many tags to go back now#my point is our labels are irrelevant even this one#it's about the two people themselves#star trek#star trek tos#t'hy'la
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this is a Princes in the Tower and Edward of Lancaster stan account btw
#my post#I do not want to hear one word against Edward of Lancaster#not a single one#least of all if you're a yorkist stan who thinks that edmund of rutland's death in battle at 17 by his father's enemies is a tragedy#while simultaneously thinking that edward of lancaster's death in battle at the same age by HIS father's enemies is a cause of celebration#deeply embarrassing and unserious behaviour#and where to even start with how the majority of self-declared 'Yorkists' treat the Princes in the Tower 🤡#I've truly never seen anything like it#first they try to vilify two children (including a literal 9-year-old) for being 'Woodvilles'#which in their minds is synonymous to greed/duplicity/ambition/unworthiness aka how they view the Princes' mother#then they try to deny that their vaunted Richard III murdered them even though they're perfectly willing to believe John murdered Arthur#then they try to argue that Richard III was just 'a man of his times' and downplay his actions even though his usurpation and deposition#of his pre-teen nephews absolutely broke all parameters of politically and personally acceptable behaviour in medieval England#then they try to argue that ACTUALLY the Princes don't matter and we shouldn't spend so much time talking about them#(says the person who spends all their time trying to convince people on the internet that Richard didn't kill them)#then they try to argue that finding out what happened to the Princes shouldn't affect our reading of Richard III and won't change how we#view his reign#even though it absolutely affected how contemporaries viewed him and was what provoked opposition to his rule#like. what is happening here. where is this one-sided beef against a long-dead 12-year-old and 9-year-old coming from?#are you okay?
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i truly have no tolerance for this fandom shittin on random fans personal trans headcanons. someone saw themselves and their experience in this character, isnt that beautiful? why dont you mind your business and focus on your own fan stuff? wouldnt that make you happier? someones headcanon doesnt negate yours. what the fuck is wrong with yall. its playing make believe x2. its just a headcanon. real life trans folks are in active danger right now and some of yall are wasting all your energy abusing others over which pronoun set figments of someone elses imagination 'should' be using
#our t#this is *any* trans hc it doesnt matter the flavour of the trans headcanon. i dont have time for that shit i have real problems#if i see one more fight over jegbert or dave on this site i s2g#if june happens on screen like if we SEE june happen on screen then that will be canon. even for a single panel she will be canon#but genderbend aus have existed since the dawn of fuckin time and an au isnt gonna suddenly blast june's canon transness outta existence#like what are yall TALKING about.#and im saying 'if' w/ a heavy fuckin sigh bc while the hsbc team has stated that they have plans no one knows#when or where or how thats gonna happen. i want it to happen & i have my own hopes for how it will but we'll just have to see#but this aint abt rep yall just want justification to punch e/o in the face & call it 'fighting against ur intercommunity oppressors'#or whatever cause none of yall are brave enough to get organized#and actually try to make changes in ur communities.....headcanons will never be actual representation#as for dave. yall know that transmascs and cis boys also struggle with masculinity right? esp hegemonic pressures and ideals?#thats kinda what LE is about? thats why so many trans guys see themselves in the striders. thats why i think theyre supposed to be cis#but thats ALSO why so many transfemme folks see themselves in dave. and that should be rlly beautiful!!! we're not so different!!!#its almost like that power structure harms everyone in different ways bc of how we treat e/o inside of the structure!!!!!#i cant TELL you how many of my cis guy friends have cptsd from just not being allowed to express sadness or joy in an acceptable way#and davepeta being nonbinary only adds to this!!! davepetas existence in contrast to dave DIRECTLY MIRRORS roxy in meat/candy#but yall are never gonna be fuckin ready for that so what the fuck ever i guess#i just feel constantly forced outside of this fandom or scorned as a Bad Tranny bc im very literally in the middle of this shit#and i dont believe one style of presentation is inherently better or morally righteous than the other. like what are yall expecting#are yall expecting to be let into tranny heaven bc u wear a skirt and say 'haha yeah all instances of mascness is grossss' be for real#just rlly highlights the fact that no one in this fandom wants to care abt intersex trans ppl or hear them talk or try to#contribute to gender analysis. its not girlboss enough i guess. sorry for not drinking the radfem rhetoric thats embedded itself#into this site i suppose. hope the fandom gets better but idk i dont think thats gonna happen anytime soon#stop treating femininity as smth inherently Morally Good its all 'divine feminine moon phase' bullshit slightly repackaged#to include transfemme folks. which none of yall should want. its a direct pushback to actual feminism but ok all mascs evil bc LE i guess#im not missing the fact that this fandom cracks down hard on queer mascness & tries to 1:1 equate that hegemonic cismasculinity either#yall aint slick at all. sorry im just. fucking tired. feeling like i dont exist & my words dont matter
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@tinygigas and I at it again with the Wizard of Oz x Bloodborne collab/crossover.
Wondrous beautiful whimsical delightful new additions here including This Particular Joke as well as Micolash as the Wicked Witch of the West, and more of the whole gang here and Gehrman and Laurence absolutely miserable about it here.
#the joke is that the old hunters gang fits seamlessly into the wizard of oz#please take our word for it#toto is beast laurence#you bet this is going in the fandom tags#if we have to live with this in our heads then ya'll need it in your eyeballs#bloodborne#laurence the first vicar#am I genderbending laurence here?#is he just a very pretty man in a dress?#have I made him so androgynous that it doesn't matter?#you decide
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I'm still not over this
Ed was like: see Izzy? I'm the worst human being, no, a monster! A devil! No wonder no one loves me!
Izzy, without 3 toes at this point: I love you.
I'm not surprised Ed didn't take it in well
#Like#Would you?#Izzy's love proved he could be loved#and that means he just wasn’t loved by Stede#Izzy's love meant Izzy loved him fully with parts that Ed hated in himself and wanted to get rid of#Izzy's love just wanted Ed no matter in what form#Izzy just wanted Ed to be happy no matter what happens to him#and Ed saw that and hated himself even more#The more Izzy loved him the more Ed hated himself for what he's done and who he is#He wanted to be good but the one person that made him feel like it rejected him#He wants to be someone else but Izzy says he loves him as he is now and always#Izzy’s love letting Ed become worse and worse because he won't stop him#I just say I get it how it feels being deep into self hatred and trying to accept kind words#I'd also say “oh come on”#Edizzy#Izzy hands#Ofmd s2#Our flag means death#Edward teach
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celebrating tamara's casting with a little thalia design <3 can't wait until I have time to draw her with luke and annabeth
#not that it matters but does anyone else think it's cool that our thalia's name is tamara smart#I just think it's neat#rick loves his english word surnames as we know#sooo hard to draw and write fanfic updates and read the new book at the same time!!!#got real silly with how i colored this and i think that made it all the better#percy jackson#percy jackson and the olympians#sea of monsters#the titans curse#thalia grace#tamara smart#pjo tv show#pjo tv series#rrverse#thalia grace fanart#percy jackson fanart#luke castellan#annabeth chase#pjo hoo toa#pjo#pjo tv adaptation#tamara smart fanart#bayearts
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THE (CATHOLIC) SCHOOL I (UNWILLINGLY) GO TO HAD AN ASSEMBLY ABOUT MENTAL HEALTH TODAY AND??? THEY SHOWED A VIDEO OF MARKIPLIER???
THE SPEAKER DOING THE PRESENTATION CLICKED TO THE SLIDE WITH THE VIDEO ON IT AND MY BRAIN JUST BUFFERED
SHE WAS LIKE "Have any of you ever heard of Markiplier before?" AND I WAS LIKE ???????????
#yes#i know hes like#famous#or whatever#but i didnt think famous = being brought up in an assembly at my catholic school#it was a video of him talking about mental health and about having conversations about it#so it fit the subject matter#but it was still so weird#i mean she was a guest speaker#and also a pretty good one too???#like i will admit i went into it with low expectations#because my school doesn't have a great history with how they treat mental health#but the information she was giving was actually good and she didn't sugarcoat or gloss over things#and she didnt treat depression like its just “being sad” or like depression is the only thing that can affect a person's mental health#she also had support resources and one of them was the trevor project??#which was very very pleasantly surprising to see#i dont know if our school admin knew she was going to include that#either way it made me happy to see#but overall i'm still baffled at hearing the words “have any of you ever heard of markiplier before” at my school#markiplier#i don't really know what else to tag this as tbh
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cx-2 is tech because of his movements and behavior: ❌️
cx-2 is tech bc he said "domicile": ✅️
#as much as i LOVE tech i thought that theory was a bit of a reach and mostly hopeful thinking#but after this episode?#i'm sold#ONLY because he said domicile#ONLY BECAUSE OF THAT WORD#and the ONLY REASON i remembered tech said that word bc it was the most nerdy shit ever#he can't just say “house” or “building” like a normal person??#no he has to push up his goggles and lift his index finger up and say “domicile!!”#i'm very new to star wars -- i've only watched the mandalorian and the book of boba fett and the sequel movies#although i don't remember much of the latter#but i feel like they wouldn't have used that word. if not to raise our attention#and so far it seems like dave filoni is VERY GOOD about his checkhov's guns -- the small details definitely matter#makes me think of another post i saw saying that they wouldn't have taken tech's goggles out of the marauder w/out a reason#tbb#tbb spoilers#the bad batch#the bad batch spoilers#tech#cx-2#pigeon talks
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