#or they perish.

[katyspersonal]

Some personal? post (yeah I know I am bi)

Also guys, I am well aware that as a bi woman, I at times might interact with users who have questionable things to say about either women or bi people (or LGBT+ people in general). Or maybe both. There is no need to short-circuit to try and understand my reasoning because it's actually very simple.

First, I do not associate myself with any "community". I do not believe in 'betraying' or 'screwing up' other queer people by effect just because I do not mock or at least avoid those with certain opinions. It is not like LGBT+ is a covenant with certain dogmas and laws that everyone is obligated to follow! In fact, it is queer people believing that this IS the case what causes them to constantly go at each others throats and accuse each other for "harming the cOmMuNiTy uwu". Some infights I've seen were genuinely disgusting and pathetic, as if people see being LGBT+ as a religious/ideological commitment and not as simply 'human beings who are not het or cis or even none of either of these'.

Nor I see myself as a soldier in the army that "fights the same fight" against men. Every other bad thing men say about women I've seen women say about men too, every other bad thing men do to women I've seen women do to men too. Perpetuating the illusion that for men being bad is a rule but for women it is an exception is a terrible practice, and it is for this reason I can 'forgive' most of sexist remarks. Because I consistently let women be like 'men, amiright :/' (unless I am having a petty fandom debate, I do not touch more personal and humane matters) - so men should be allowed to be like 'women, amiright :/' too.

Second, the 'but are not your shooting your own leg?' doesn't work with me because I do not get harmed by people expressing opinions and observations in the internet. The worst that can happen is that I end up yelling at this person and insulting them, if something they say about women or queers just drains me out of patience; and even then, it is mostly my male friends who faced my wrath on the matter at least once, because having heated conflict with a well-familiar person is just more... appropriate?

In any case I do not see the personal gain in avoiding everyone who can say cringe things about my gender or sexuality. It is not something I impose on others because in the internet everyone can curate their own experiences; naturally if I talk with some guys and reblog things from them that I do agree with it doesn't mean all five of my readers should do the same ok? But my great internet space would be being hit with fresh and various opinions every other time.

[largishcat]

I actually don’t mind that “dead dove” has become conversational shorthand for “fics with heavy themes where you REALLY need to pay attention to the warnings”. such is the nature of language. what i do mind is when people tag their actual fics with dead dove and then give no indication of what they’re actually warning about. that is useless. that helps no one. that is completely against the spirit of the meme. i will not be reading that

[dandeland]

Even without words, we can communicate through our eyes.

[hinamie]

make it vicious, take a stab

[ohyou-pretty-things]

artist : @star_ry_eyed

[stardust-kitten]

NEED a pretty boy who eats me out like his life depends on it

[fabledtactician]

recent honkai update did things to my brain. again. with a different tortured furry this time

[junjou-laina]

die

[lynaiss]

The Crow 🗡️

This character is consuming my brain, hey Bioware, respectfully, what the heck is up with all the eye motifs and the wings???

[potato-lord-but-not]

XVIII The Moon

how could you think, darlin’, I’d scare so easily?

[aakiwa]

So… I got into TF’s

[idolomantises]

“Saying people shouldn’t support Neil Gaiman’s works is such purity—“

BUILD A FUCKING BACKBONE

[wombywoo]

shower time teaser for this week's p@treon post 💀🧼

[celestialalpacaron]

And what if I shrunk Crymini to be 16 years old and over time she becomes Husker and Angel’s guard dog/adopted child over time annakalalalsksleleew

[hinamie]

corvidae

[nanaslutt]

someone just said that uraume being born a man originally and being reborn in a woman’s body while sukuna treated them the exact same shows he loves them for their soul and not their body and i am climbing all over the walls right now. my bisexual king.