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There seems to be some misunderstanding about what "manipulation" actually is.
Manipulation does not need to be pre-meditated, nor does if need to involve lying. Sometimes, people can manipulate others without even knowing that they're doing so due to things like poor communication or avoidance.
Manipulation often does involve these things, but at the core, manipulation is when your actions, or lack of actions, have harmful influence over someone else as a means of getting what you want.
This is exactly what Orym did with Laudna. Yes, I do think this decision, in part, was clouded by the fact that Bor'Dor was working for Ludinus and clouded by the fact that he wants retribution for what Ludinus did to his family, but at the end of the day, fully aware of what he was doing, his actions (nodding his head at Laudna when she looked up at Orym to see if she should kill Bor'Dor, something that she very well may not have done had he decided to answer otherwise and remind her of who she is post-Delilah) had harmful influence (Delilah potentially being back due to Laudna giving in to that darkness) over Laudna as a means of Orym getting what he wanted (Bor'Dor dead and Delilah possibly back to aid them in defeating Ludinus).
And yes, Laudna did, at the end of the day, decide to listen to Orym and kill Bor'Dor, something she didn't have to do regardless of what Orym said, but the key aspect of manipulation is INFLUENCE. Orym had influence over Laudna in that moment... if he didn't, she wouldn't have looked to him for guidance, and he decided to make a decision that could potentially harm Laudna as a means of getting what he wanted.
#critical role#orym of the air ashari#laudna#delilah briarwood#ludinus da'leth#this does not in any way#shape#or form#diminish what Orym is going through#he is triggered#and that is influencing his behaviors#but the why doesn't excuse the what
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#˚₊‧꒰ა 𝕻𝖗1𝖓𝖈𝖊𝖘𝖘𝕶1𝖙𝖙𝖞 ໒꒱ ‧₊#cheetah#wild animal#adorable animals#gato#cat#resting#reminding self#I’m grateful for self#I’m doing my best#sometimes the little things#can be hard to do some days#I’m always trying#in some shape#or form
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Guys what if... I'm gay???
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3 Months later
Vy gently pats Lucas’s stomach, smiling at him. Much like Vy had thought, his form had gone back to its normal glimmer after just a few days, but much to everyone’s surprise, the eyes did not. He still had the golden eyes, with the small half moon shape in them, which surprised everyone, Vy now guessing it might not change back until the egg was out.
Vy: Another all clear. Both you and the egg are in perfect shape and health. -he chuckled hearing the sigh from River- Anything you're pondering? Lucas: Well, ehm.. How is it to well..-he chuckled nervously- Vy: Ah, to give birth to an egg? Well, it's honestly a little uncomfortable, but not as bad as you’d think. The shell around it is still a bit soft, it only fully hardens when it’s out. Lucas: Ah.. well good to know. Vy: Now you go get dressed and I’ll write up everything so you have it, and then you can head back home. He watched Lucas head to the small room he had where he could get dressed again, then he turned to River. Who felt a bit like shrinking under the watchful eye of Vy, yet the words he had been holding back slipped out anyways
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#the ward legacy#writblr#simblr#simblrstories#ts4#ts4story#the sims 4 story#sims 4 storytelling#co created with mahvaladara#Yvreon Ward#River Ward#Lucas Sunstar#I would also be worried about birthing an egg#I mean it no where in my head seems to be a thing that would be comfortable#in any single way#or form#River is worried
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Uh... 😱😱😱
empathy gets treated as this universally positive thing but we forget that empathy often equals pain, and pain often activates fight or flight behaviors. a lot of my most asshole moments as a person were motivated by a twinge of empathy that was too painful to engage with in that moment, so i became aggressive and mean, NOT compassionate and helpful
#this#i'm kind of speechless#no words#this is so spot on#not that it helps my situation in any way#shape#or form#doesn't make me feel better either#just tells me yet another thing that's wrong with me#that i can't do anything about#yay#such fun#empathy#it's not like i can go to someone and say#help i have too much empathy and it's killing me?#right#🤷🏼♀️#life#mental health#mental health awareness
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tbh i think the funniest phenomena that's been happening in the last couple years is "youtuber, having gone too deep into the research hole, has been made an investigative journalist against their will"
#like im not gonna name names but i can think of at least 3 channels#where they stopped posting short form content and went#wait the patreon is paying my rent im no longer a slave to the algorithm gods#HELL YEAH TIME TO SPEND 5+ MONTHS PUTTING TOGETHER A 3+ HOUR VIDEO#and i eat that shit up every time
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Dragon harpy chimera birdy FALIN!! I love her
#falin touden#falin dungeon meshi#dungeon meshi#dunmeshi#i need to practice drawing her moreee#her normal dragon form is so hard to fit into my preferred compositions rip
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guys I just found the greatest video on the internet
#tiktok#tiktoks#well actually this is from#instagram reels#Instagram#but we all know what i mean#short form videos#comedy#hahaha#🤓#funny#praying mantis#entomology#entomology jokes#and something else entirely#dogs#little dog#chihuahua#creachur#bad jokes#yeah#i think thats enough tags
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ripley :)
#alien franchise#alien 1979#my art#artists on tumblr#procreate#risky posting from my phone nowadays. what if i accidentally hit#one of my rash hive photos im taking for my dermatology appt 😭#anyways. watch this space for more ripley soon (in the form of pinup calendar)#just need to edit it and export it. but all tha pages are done!
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Oh…. Well, it’s over for Crunchyroll I guess
#Crunchyroll#piracy#funimation#money hungry ass streaming service#rambling#I’ve never paid for a streaming service in my life thank god#I appreciated using others accounts but I personally cannot see myself paying this much for a service if I had the funds 😭!#get back to pirating kings!!!#anime has always been one of the easiest forms of media to pirate anyway so y’all got this#CR is definitely not worth paying for though#CR is certainly not worth paying this much for even if it’s a yearly one time fee#capitalism#the fact that CR has always had pretty bad quality as a streaming service anyway#it buffers every time you pause or rewind anything
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hey, don't cry. one cup heavy whipping cream, two tablespoons granulated sugar, three tablespoons cocoa powder and whisk until stiff peaks form for three ingredient chocolate mousse, okay?
#it's literally easier to make than whipped cream#because the extra bulk of the dry ingredients makes it form stiff peaks faster
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i do think there is a degree to which certain kinds of Instagram activists have convinced themselves that traumatising themselves in solidarity is a useful form of activism. "I'm having nightmares and crying so much I want to be sick because of all these videos of dying children but I can't look away while people are getting hurt" I mean don't you think you'd be able to help more if you weren't having nightmares and crying all the time?? don't you think this is a one-way trip to burnout? don't you think maybe increasing the amount of trauma going around is counterproductive? I dunno bro there's something to be said for bearing witness but there comes a point where you gotta look hard at yourself and go "am I helping, or am I just making myself suffer so I don't feel guilty for not suffering while somebody else is experiencing bad shit"
#and they try to drag other people down with them#BUDDY I AM NOT USEFUL IF I'M HAVING A PANIC ATTACK#vicarious trauma is not like. a useful form of solidarity. in my opinion#personal
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Analysis so bad you don't even know what it's talking about anymore.
#chrambles#not a lily orchard video (i have never watched one in my life im sorry for whoever did)#being a homestuck fan alone is hell. people make shit up and call it canon unironically its painful#can be of any form of analysis btw your responses are so insightful (and also funny)#if you mention dirkjohn in the tags then youre the one who needs to reread the canon material again lol
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aria I didn't need this right now omg 😩😩
jake and his messy hair after he eats you out and fucks you 💗
#◢ 𝐊𝐀𝐘'𝐒 𝐁𝐀𝐁𝐁𝐋𝐄𝐒 ◣#🌻 ── 𝐀𝐑𝐈𝐀#❜ ─ 𝐉𝐀𝐊𝐄𝐘 ─ ❛#『•• 𝐌𝐘 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄𝐒 ••』#“=⌕ (𝓳𝓪𝔂𝓵𝓪𝔁𝓲𝓮𝓼) /#i so totally needed it#im lying#just like i need him#in any way#shape#or form#like biblically#like im on my knees immediately#ughh 😩😩
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"I live in a red state my vote doesn't ma-"
If your vote didn't matter they wouldn't try so hard to make it harder to vote in red states. Voting in red states can turn them into swing states like Georgia, Ohio, and Arizona. And voting in blue states can keep them from becoming swing states.
California used to be Red. Texas was Blue long ago. Florida was once a swing state. Obama took Indiana but it's gone redder since. Ten years ago Arizona and Georgia going blue was unthinkable.
Things change and we can make them change.
And that's before getting into more local elections. Turning cities blue, the state legislature.
Red states have flipped blue in recent years at those levels too.
Because people vote, and if we vote in high enough numbers we can turn a tight election into a walk in the park. If we vote in high enough numbers, we can turn a loss into a win. So many good things have happened in states where someone won by like 100 votes. (arizona is one)
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