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[hellofanappetite]

TOTAL LUNAR ECLIPSE IN TAURUS ♉︎

“Lunar Eclipses are about relationships and polarities. With the Taurus-Scorpio axis involved, this Lunar Eclipse presses us to look more closely at our needs, lacks, and wants concerning the balance between Taurus-ruled and Scorpio-ruled areas of life.” —cafeastro

16° ♉︎: AN OLD TEACHER FAILS TO INTEREST HIS PUPILS IN TRADITIONAL KNOWLEDGE. CREATIVE FRUSTRATION.

Taurus: earthy, practical, peace-loving

☾ ♉︎: finding emotional fulfillment through the simple, tangible things in life

Scorpio: emotional, transformative, crisis-oriented

☉ ♏︎: paying attention to complexities, intangibles, & mysteries

The Taurus eclipse is conjunct Uranus & the north node—this means that freedom of expression is the end goal!

This eclipse is conjunct (working together) with Uranus—so freedom, awakening, and revolution hold weight during this time. Uranus manifests in experiences of sudden change—at once liberating and disturbing, jolting and electrifying.

♈︎ Aries rising (Taurus 2nd house) you’ll experience an awakening pertaining to your values/resources/personal possessions/self-esteem

♉︎ Taurus rising (Taurus 1st house) you’ll experience an awakening pertaining to yourself/appearance/mannerisms/image

♊︎ Gemini rising (Taurus 12th house) you’ll experience an awakening pertaining to your sacrifices/seclusion/mysticism/hidden matters

♋︎ Cancer rising (Taurus 11th house) you’ll experience an awakening pertaining to your friendships/clubs/society/groups/local politics/astrology

♌︎ Leo rising (Taurus 10th house) you’ll experience an awakening pertaining to your career/goals/ambitions/public life

♍︎ Virgo rising (Taurus 9th house) you’ll experience an awakening pertaining to your long-distance travels/foreign interests/higher education/religion

♎︎ Libra rising (Taurus 8th house) you’ll experience an awakening pertaining to your shared finances or resources/intimacy/transformation

♏︎ Scorpio rising (Taurus 7th house) you’ll experience an awakening pertaining to your close relationships/agreements/contracts/open enemies

♐︎ Sagittarius rising (Taurus 6th house) you’ll experience an awakening pertaining to your work/health/fitness/daily routine

♑︎ Capricorn rising (Taurus 5th house) you’ll experience an awakening pertaining to your artistry/music taste/children (could be inner child)/creativity/crushes

♒︎ Aquarius rising (Taurus 4th house) you’ll experience an awakening pertaining to your home life/family/past/history/mother figures

♓︎ Pisces rising (Taurus 3rd house) you’ll experience an awakening pertaining to your neighborhood/close friends/location/insight

Note: The eclipse is also opposing Mercury (communication) & Venus (values)

There’s a challenge with how we communicate along with our values

[myun-saidthoughts]

12th House Synastry: The Darker Themes That May Manifest

I made a post about Neptune and 12th house synastry awhile ago (here is the link to that: Understanding 12th house synastry)

In that post, I explained how this synastry can manifest between partners, but I didn't discuss the darker side of it or discuss why those darker themes are present in the first place.

To start off, some of the more common dark themes associated with this synastry include deception, lies, addiction, and hidden agendas. This synastry also can indicate being the other woman in a relationship or one party may have a commitment to another person that the other party isn't aware of (such as one partner is married, engaged, or involved with someone else). If there is 8th house synastry involved (like Pluto aspecting inner planets or 8th house overlays), power dynamics may emerge, with one person holding an authoritative position. Age gaps or factors such as work hierarchies, status, reputation, social circles, or cultural influences may also prevent the two parties from publicly showcasing their relationship.

The reason these dark themes manifest is influenced by many factors, the primary one being the person's core nature. If they are spiritually awakened, aware, compassionate, or empathetic, the themes mentioned above are less likely to arise within the connection. Ultimately, who a person is at their core will dictate how these connections manifest.

I have read many 12th house/Neptune synastry stories, and one major red flag that stands out is what is often 'hidden' within the relationship. While this synastry can evoke profound, otherworldly feelings, there’s a risk that the person you’re pouring your love into may only be a projection of your perception of them. This is tied to how you view yourself, your understanding of love, and your willingness to be vulnerable.

This synastry naturally clouds and confuses the relationship dynamic, if you have natal 12th house placements, Pisces placements or Neptune aspecting your own inner planets then the influence of falling into the web of what you think is, instead of what actually is; is more likely.

For example, the reason you may be drawn to, influenced by, or dealing with these dark themes has to do with the level of commitment or love you're ready to process. You may consciously state that you desire a deep love, but if you look at your past patterns, you might notice that you often fall for the people you claim you want to stay away from. You may say, 'I deserve better,' or recognize that the type of love you're offering is not being reciprocated. While you may be consciously aware of this, you still find yourself in connections that reinforce the image of love you say you want to change.

This has to do with the fact that there are still subconscious self beliefs that are operating within you; these beliefs may be so deeply rooted in your subconscious to the point where you are not even aware of it, and the reason why these dark themes are able to manifest within your life is because the people you are choosing are reiterating the self belief you're "comfortable" with. I say comfortable because it's what feels known within you, this person creates a feeling within you and though they may logically be wrong for you in so many objective manners, the fact that you can feel drawn towards them is what is causing you to want them, especially if you struggle with emotional vulnerability, or if you find it hard to actually form feelings towards another. This person is (in essence) allowing you to form feelings because their presence/actions reaffirm the same self beliefs you've been dealing with throughout your life.

This type of synastry even becomes more nuanced when the 8th house is involved, oftentimes if you are not aware of your own self inner wounds this type or interplay can cause such chaos. This is especially true if you are choosing someone who wants to use you, or if they have their own inner battles that they ignore. In essence to stay aware of the connection at hand:

Look at them at face value instead at the value that you give them.

Stay aware and acknowledge the fact that their own actions and choices act as a true unit that showcases their true feelings towards you.

Understand that even though you're able to understand or empathize with their struggles doesn't mean you should justify their actions.

The feeling you feel with them is already sitting within you; if that wasn't the case you wouldn't be drawn to them in the first place. Therefore that scarce mindset where you may feel like you need them to allow romance in is only a facade that keeps you at a distance of receiving reciprocal love.

This again is an extreme case but I wanted to make a note.

Another thing I want to note is that with this synastry, you might feel an intense draw toward the other person, as if you’ve known them in a past life (because how could someone create such deep longing within you if that wasn't the case?) This might create the connection to be very thought-provoking, and the longing you experience can manifest instantly in moments when you're not with them; this might lead you to believe that you share a deep, once-in-a-lifetime connection. However, the person you are drawn to may actually be a projection of your own desires for emotional fulfillment, especially if they are an objectively lost soul struggling with personal battles such as addiction or ongoing affairs.

The reason why individuals often state that 12th house and Neptune synastry can indicate past life connections is that this type of synastry evokes similar feelings of longing, wishes, and desires. In my experience with both, I understand why people associate Neptune/12th house synastry with past life connections. However, this synastry often creates a sense of longing while leaving more questions than answers.

With past life connections, you may instantly feel a deep longing for someone you’ve just met—their eyes seem familiar, and their touch feels sacred. In contrast, when Neptune and the 12th house are involved, there’s a crucial difference. Instead of a sense of certainty, there’s more wondering, thinking, analyzing, and fixating. You might convince yourself that you know them by creating intense, otherworldly feelings within you.

In genuine past life connections, there’s an unexplainable, intuitive sense that you’ve met before, without needing proof or logical understanding. You feel deeply connected without questioning it. This is a key difference that more people should recognize. If there are more questions than an immediate intuitive knowing, the likelihood of it being a past life connection is much less.

In summary, the main difference with Neptune/12th house synastry vs past life connections is there's a "without a doubt" mentality that you've known them before. The main reason why theres an association with 12th house synastry and past life connections is because this synastry genuinely mimics the same deep rooted feeling of longing or what if scenario's. This synastry causes you to create feelings within where it'll feel like you two have been together before but that doesn't mean these feelings are rooted in the deep seated knowing of "I've met you before" like true past life connections are like.

(which is why it's very difficult to differentiate and I can understand why but within, you will have moments with them and if out of no where you say "this has happened before" or "it's so easy with you" or if 5 hours feel like 10 minutes, then the chances of them being a part of your past life is more likely; and you can feel this way without even having any intense 12th house synastry with them, you don't have to have 12th house synastry with someone to showcase a past life connection).

That said, there can be times when you may be dealing with 12th house or Neptune synastry and you may consider yourself an open or healthy lover, yet still encounter these themes. You might fall for someone who isn't who they appear to be. Stories like 'We have been dating for two years, and he is an addict' or 'I am engaged, but he has another wife' illustrate this. These examples are extreme, but I believe can occur because this synastry can cloud judgment. That's why it's important to evaluate the relationship at its core rather than relying solely on your perceptions.

If you find yourself dealing with these themes or have dealt with them in the past, it's important to recognize that the other partner may not have any real love for you. This is why the 12th house is often associated with 'hidden enemies.' These individuals may not be hiding their true selves, but in your perception, the person they actually are is someone you haven't been able to see. Or in another sense this individual just held and hid parts of them from you, and because of how clouded this synastry can be, falling victim towards these connections is more likely (but like I always say entire natal charts and who the person is at their core dictates the severity of what can occur within these connections).

Another intriguing pattern in this synastry is the tendency to be drawn to darker themes, often finding yourself attracted to someone who seems in need of saving or fixing. The spiritual connection you feel may arise from a deep longing to help them, as their internal struggles compel you to give endlessly. Their internal struggles causes you to give and give which ultimately keeps you at arms distance within the connection. Especially since they can't formally give you the same love you are giving them, and this stems from the fact a part of you doesn't believe you deserve the type of love you fantasize or long for. That being said, the dreams you have about them or with them, and the coincidences that keep occurring could very well be reflections of the emotional fulfillment you desire, and doesn't paint the fact that you two are "meant to be"

This pattern can also be linked to unrequited love. When this occurs, it mirrors what I’ve mentioned before: you find yourself falling for someone you can't truly have. You become infatuated with the person you imagine them to be, rather than who they actually are. You create scenarios in your mind where you’re together, longing for a connection that has never existed. All of these patterns stem from a fear of embracing reciprocal love.

It feels easier to desire someone rather than have them; it's more comfortable to long for the idea of a partner than to actively choose someone who can choose you in return. Such dynamics are more prevalent when you struggle with emotional closeness and vulnerability. Selecting someone whom you subconsciously know won’t or can’t choose you can feel like a safer option.

I explore this concept further in my original 12th house synastry post, so feel free to check that out for more insights.

The main point of this post is to remain aware of your own wounds, self-undoing patterns, and emotional fears regarding romance. The self-giving nature you choose to engage in can create a block to receiving the kind of love you’re capable of giving to others, often stemming from a fear of being in a reciprocal loving relationship. If you stay aware and offer yourself inner healing then the chances of falling in relationships where these dark themes can occur is less likely.

Note: I believe that if you have strong Pisces placements, 12th house natal placements, or Neptune aspecting your inner planets, as well as a broken attachment style or a tumultuous relationship with your mother, you may be more susceptible to experiencing these dark themes in your reality. If you fear love yet simultaneously long for it, these factors can be significant indicators. Conversely, if you do not have these characteristics, the intensity of such themes is less likely.

[hayaku14]

kaito buying every ticket to every soccer game available just to see that excited look on shinichi's face

[bitesize-astrology]

Changing Your Mind

Tuesday - September 3, 2024

I don't know if you know this or not, but it's perfectly fine for you to change your mind. YES! You have the ability - dare I say even duty - to change your mind.

Okay, snark aside, during your life you are going to be presented with information that contradicts what you believe, what you already think you know, and what your life experience would have you believe. This is an opportunity to consider changing your mind in light of new information. Unfortunately, this may be one of those times when not only do you hold onto this flawed information, but double down on it!

Much of this is because many people are taught to dismiss facts, and the rest is because our society often punishes individuals when they change their mind.

Today you are presented with new information, says the quincunx between Mars in Gemini and Pluto in Capricorn at 29°, and an opposition between Venus in Libra and the North Node in Aries at 6°. With the Sun still at 11° Virgo, and post New Moon, new information is being presented to you. And don't be surprised if it challenges what you already know or believe.

Your mind is malleable, and quite literally dies when you deny it that opportunity.

[chaoticfeeny]

I have a 8H Capricorn Venus opposing Saturn, and oof that is one of the worst placements you can have for your love life

To me it seems as if I have a blockage mentally and physically keeping me from pursuing good relationships even if I’m with a good person

There always has been delays and obstacles with me getting into relationships

My type in men is an embodiment of Capricorn-smart, mature, hardworking older guys. And I think the need to be with someone “older” amplifies due the 8th house and aspect with Saturn.

[yungjuliet]

added the rest of my MH girls to the floating shelves, forgive the quality of the pics, it's late! i actually had to change Frankie's skirt because the skirt she comes dressed in is IMPOSSIBLE for her to sit in... it puffs up awkwardly and makes it impossible to get her sitting relatively flat. I forgot how cute her alt outfit was, and this got me to finally remember to add her accessories to her! i could fit ONE more girl on the top shelf... i should get a Clawdeen

[snobgoblin]

just imagining Danny and Nadia planning their wedding and Nadia's making suggestions of all these like, lavish palaces and intricate temples and just generally very impressive buildings meanwhile Danny's feeling sheepish because his suggestion was gonna be "the woods would be nice and if we're feeling fancy we could go on the docks"

[elminx]

If this week feels like too much, know that you are right on time.

Today, Mars in Libra squares off with retrograde Pluto in Capricorn. Tomorrow, Pluto stations direct and Venus in Virgo opposes retrograde Saturn in Pisces. Mars enters Scorpio on Thursday and then immediately trines Saturn as well. Then, on Saturday, we have our solar eclipse in Libra.

That's a lot and none of it is what we like to call the fun times. It's all endings and hard work. It's holding on to things past their time and KNOWING that you are grasping at straws but still being unable to let go. It has big-time breakup weather written all over it with the lunar nodes and Pluto in play while both Venus and Mars are in aspect to Saturn.

The best you should expect to be able to do this week is to put one foot in front of the other. If you can't even do that, it's okay. The days leading up to ANY new moon are a time for sacred rest, and this is not any old new moon.

Do what you can do and cut yourself some slack for what is outside of your control this week.

[ancientgoddessofegypt]

OK so hello! I saw that your asks were open and I wanted to take this precious opportunity to ask you about four aspects I find most challenging in my chart.

Moon square Neptune (0 orb)

Venus opposite uranus

Venus opposite lilith

Mars opposite Jupiter

Thank you! If you feel that this is too much, you can cover only one or two of them!

Moon square neptune can show with someone having illusions covering their emotions. Not truly knowing how they feel and feeling uncertain in that. The best way to over come up is through allowing yourself to accept that not everything we feel is 'real' or even our own emotions. Because you can actually be taking in other peoples emotions and mirroring back to them. People can also be projecting how you feel based of how youre acting and this can cause issues with other people. Learn to take your emotional energy and guard it from others cause they can use you as a emotional trash bag if you aren't careful.

Venus opposite Uranus

Embracing your inner desires and expressing them can create something bountiful. Your eccentric ideas need a little tweaking when it comes to your personal style. Youre dating life might change often depending on who your dating, bringing in new insight for you to learn from. Expanding your horizons with your style, love life and artistic values will open up new portals for you to try. This actually a really exhilarating placement. You can be ahead of your time on a lot of hair styles, clothes, etc and could end up being a muse. If youre not into that, this could show it self with what you value for yourself. The way you view self love is odd in terms of what the rest of society thinks, overall it works for you and is actually more beneficial. You may have people think youre a bit weird, overtime they'll come to like you a bit when they see that you just flow differently and are a one of a kind in the way you think, and express yourself.

Venus oppose lilith

This shows me a person who can be seen as a 'whore' but genuinely a likable one at that. Jealous people obsess over you because of your sexuality and your magnetism. You might not even be the most sexiest individual however your aura arouses others into submission. Yes submission lol. People are aware of your power over them and want to dominate you, but it doesnt work out in the way they plan. Both men and women want to date you or 'tame' you. You could be a spectacle to others if not careful. I could see someone with this placement attracting both sexes and being 'experiments' for them. Bringing out their sexual nature that they hide in the shadows, and then blaming you for it. People feel ashamed when their around you because their own inner desires come out when they are near you. So they may paint you to be the 'devil'. Transformative sex is a thing with you guys, you tend to bring this energy out with you youre involved with and they leave not the same. Motherly energy is present with this placement too, but you hide it from others so they cant use you.

Mars opposite Jupiter

This is a special placement to be honest. It can be quite challenging but the truth is you're personal power needs a push with more optimistic beliefs to keep the train rolling. When your thoughts are pessimistic it lowers your drive and passion. These two work extremely well together when you move with resilience and tell yourself that what you want can be achieved. Goals should be large never think to low about what it is you want. Can make an abundance of money with this placement you just have to see the plan through.

hope this helps <3

[myun-saidthoughts]

Understanding 12th House Synastry

(*updated* and more accurate post about about 12th house synastry overlays along with Neptune synastry that makes harsh aspects to another's inner planets such as the Sun, Moon, rising, Venus or Mars)

This post focuses exclusively on a 12th house relationship between two kind and evolved individuals. While there are other darker themes associated with 12th house synastry — such as deception, substance abuse, hidden affairs (like being the other woman or mistress), lies about one partner’s true nature, or fear that one partner is withholding information or their true self — I won’t be discussing those here. I might explore those themes in a future post, as they are important to note, but for now, my main focus will not include those themes.

“Though I barely know you, it feels as if I do. Your eyes and body language seem to speak your thoughts, even the ones I can’t fully grasp. There’s no visible thread connecting us, yet this feeling remains.” — Planet Person

There are two sides of 12th house synastry that I commonly see. The spectrum is different compared to the 8th house because with the 8th house, there are highs and lows, obvious extremes, there's oftentimes constant lessons, cycles and loops, but with the 12th house, there's a different undertone.

The 12th house is a very unforeseen house, when it comes with synastry, the spectrum of love that can be received and given is unfathomable. I am going to first discuss what this energy is like when someone deals with this type of synastry while having Neptune (especially harshly) aspecting your inner planets/12th house placements/Pisces placements; then I will go in-depth for how they would feel without those placements.

(that being said my main discussion deals with the foundation of both individuals having attraction or interest on both ends, as well as other intense synastry overlays such as harsh or soft attraction synastry aspects, + eros, lilith, chiron, pluto, or 8th house synastry)

As a 12th house native or with heavy Pisces influence (e.g., a Pisces Venus, Sun, Moon, rising, or with a natal Neptune squaring, opposing or conjunct the Sun, Moon, rising, Venus) this type of synastry is confusing, it's blurry and parts of you can second guess almost everything about them, what you are to them, what they are to you etc. There are no tangible boundaries when it comes to the emotional depth you are willing to feel for them. On some days you can find yourself wondering where you stand with them, you fixate on their energy, and you'll wonder if they're thinking of you. You look into their eyes and just feel their mental health struggles, their fears, their hidden thoughts, what they need to hear to feel seen past the 3D. You're like a walking and breathing affirmation audio tape of everything their subconscious always wished to of heard throughout life. That one broken image or belief they have within their subconscious self is the one thing you can't help but compliment them on, the feelings they ignore, suppress or hide away are the feelings you want to naturally reassure them about. It's like you become this real life 3D fixer upper for this individual, and you just can't help but be drawn with saving, helping, or fixing them. (undoubtedly so if you also fall in their 2nd house, especially your inner planets, if there is no 2nd house influence then the compliments/praising will be less intense or frequent)

The beginning of this synastry embodies confusion. Since there's no real tangible statement or understanding you can hold onto. You'll just know how they operate before ever really knowing them.

You'll just want to make sure that they are okay, and that can come in many different ways, you yourself will just know. You can turn into this savior that they never knew they needed, you'll just want to give and love everything out of them; and in some cases receiving or having that mutual give and take may be something you think you don't need, especially when it comes to them, and especially if you have a natal 12th House Venus or a Pisces Venus/a Natal Venus that squares, conjuncts or opposes Neptune (this can apply to the Moon as well).

If the above scenario resonates with you, then this individual is provoking a wound within yourself that deals with the acceptance of receiving authentic love. This innate need to only give highlights your own fear of receiving real reciprocal, stable, tangible love.

Therefore if you want to save, fix, heal or give, this desire only highlights that fearful nature within you where you allow to stay in shallow waters. You subconsciously know that you have such passionate love to give, but that thought of giving to someone who in turn might be willing to give back evokes fear and uncertainty within you.

This subconscious block holds more comfortability within you since it allows you to never accept a love where your soul will fully be fulfilled. It's self sabotaging and self written, you naturally already know how the story will end between you two, and so you subconsciously will find a character who perfectly embodies the story you yourself say you try to run from.

To reiterate; if you share the above placements you instantly can become drawn towards the house person. You will look at them and see every facet of their being, their hidden pain, their sorrows, why they feel the way they do, why they struggle the way they struggle, their mental health dilemmas, their soul; especially so if you as well have a water Moon that harshly aspects Neptune as well as the above listed placements. But these feelings don't persist automatically or openly, the desires the planet person or the one person who has the placements I listed/spiritual enlightenment + attraction towards the house person (or the other person) stays at bay and stays being unsaid, especially in the beginning. The planet person with these placements etc etc, can hold onto constant dilemmas and wonder if what they are feeling is real, if what they desire is one sided, especially if there is little to no communication between the dynamic.

On the other side of the spectrum, this bond (when wanted on both ends) can create a soul binding connection where the house person would feel like no one else can ever understand them the way the planet person can. No one else would be able to read them like the book they secretly are, no one else can look into their eyes and bring solace into their bones, which in-turn can cause the dynamic between them to consistently become something that is impossible to let go of.

With attraction + desire the house person may feel like a hug from the planet person* (or vice versa) is equivalent to receiving a sense of understanding and safety that they weren't aware they ever needed. The house person may just find themselves fully being able to lay and hold onto the planet person* and there's this unsaid desire just be next to them. The planet person* may instinctively feel this pull or knowing that there is a softer more serene side of the house person that not everyone see's and even though there's no tangible words to hold onto, that feeling within them doesn't dissipate. Just with one hug from the house person and the planet person* will know that there's a soft and quiet side inside them that they hide or suppress away.

* = placements I listed + spiritually understanding/enlighted

The house person will ask themselves: How do I let go of the one soul who speaks to the parts of myself that I don't even know? The intensity of the bond can vary based on each others natal placements, but I do believe the connection can become deep and unworldly even without the placements I've listed since attraction and desire are two KEY factors that would override any natal placement. Instant psychic understanding about one another on both ends (regardless of natal placements) can occur, you both will know what the other person is thinking, feeling, and needing. If there is genuine desire for one another then the depth of care can become very ethereal and unspoken, especially if the Moon or Venus are involved; if attraction is present and you have the placements I mentioned, a part of you will just want to hold onto the house person. You'll just want to comfort and be present in the moment with them. All that matters to you is that they are doing and feeling okay, with them this part of you unlocks where you just want to caress their soul. But like I said natal placements do have an immense influence, one individual could feel this pull and understanding (w/o the placements I mentioned) but the depth and length for caring may not run as deep as someone else who has the natal placements I listed. They will still care in some shape or form in ways they never knew was possible; but the turnover of moving on or of minimizing selfless acts can become more shallow and less frequent throughout time.

When wanted on both ends with genuine care and desire the song Run To You by Lea Michele perfectly depicts this type of deep care.

Now this type of synastry can also begin the influence of delusion or false presumptions. Genuineness and self awareness is key, not everyone will desire such depth of the unknown especially if they themselves have no set understanding of their own subconscious beliefs.

To reiterate, if this is one sided therefore if they don't share attraction or desire for you; then this type of behavior will feel invasive and they may become confused or unsure with what to do with that type of depth that your eyes can bring them, if they are unaware of their own shadow self, along with not wanting to change or be spiritually awoken, this type of connection can be daunting and misleading in some way for them.

Now lets go deeper: for someone who doesn't have any 12th house Venus, Pisces Venus, Neptune influence (or if you have little to no attraction or interest towards them), or low spiritual awareness/acknowledgement of your own mental health struggles/hidden fears and if someone comes in to your life where they fall in your 12th house, the feelings that acclimate mainly are confusion, resistance or hesitation. You might have some hidden curiosity about the planet person but generally the curiosity can be the furthest you go with this individual. There might be some hidden tension or eye glances towards another but with it there is also a barrier between the two of you. You may feel like you know their body language or what their eye glances mean but you more than likely brush it off and set aside any spiritual coincidences that you have with them. You may also wither back and forth between being more inclined to getting to know them to being unsure with your interest in them or there's a sense of unpreparedness you may struggle with when it comes to this individual. A part of you may feel like their type of love can sooth parts of you that you ignore or mentally struggle with but that type of care can feel unneeded and can bring in fear; since there is a unspoken knowing of what they are able to truly view and feel for you if they were your partner. You may ask yourself, "Can this person fix, and heal me? " "Do I really need to be saved?" "Is this all in my head?" "Can they be the pacifier for the pain I can't even openly express; or will they bring me more sorrow?"

(this dilemma of curiosity is more apparent if you share other direct intense synastry aspects such as 8th/pluto/intense attraction aspects especially with eros or lilith etc)

Another strong note I wanted to state is how often times with 12th house and Neptune synastry; the reason why this is the house of "hidden enemies" or there's horror stories where one partner hid addiction, lies, another woman or their true agenda towards the other partner is because this type of synastry can genuinely cloud judgment and hinder honest communication. There is often hidden uncertainty or a lack of awareness of what is really going on, primarily because this dynamic makes it easy to fall "victim" to a false persona. This happens when you're unaware of your own wounds, patterns of self-undoing, or fears surrounding with receiving reciprocal love. While I'm not going too in-depth with these themes—since, in my opinion, they deserve their own post—I want to reiterate the importance of staying grounded, aware, and avoiding getting lost in illusions or overthinking about someone who you know won't (or can't) change.

That being said, if there is a connection where one person has these natal placements and desires for the other individual but the other partner doesn't share the same attraction/placements; then that is when unrequited love or unspoken love can occur. To summarize, for 12th house and neptune synastry to be mutual even if the other partner doesn't have those natal placements, there has to be attraction or desire; whether it be physical, or emotional. Someone could have these placements that I've listed but if there is no want, attraction or desire towards the other person; the dynamic can also become one sided on their end even with the placements and tendencies of being drawn towards connections that share 12th/neptune/pisces influence.

12th house synastry is the house of selflessness, this is the house of giving and giving to no end; since in one essence this house holds no end or beginning, therefore the boundaries and understanding that this house can carry is unknown. Each dynamic with 12th house synastry can be complexed, there are many factors that play a role in influencing this type of connection such as your natal placements, their natal placements, your natal aspects, their natal aspects, you desire and attraction and their desire and attraction and so on. Someone could sit in this confused and undesired energy for the other person for months and have all the placements I've listed. Therefore if that said individual is not prepared or have any desires to hold a connection that is deep and unspoken, they themselves (the planet person or the person who has 12th house/neptune/pisces influence) may even still feel fear or invasiveness towards the other individual that their share 12th house synastry with or vice versa; there are so many avenues and routes these connections can take, at least that's from my own astrological understanding and take on these type of connections.

Side Note: To balance the intensity these synastry aspects/overlays bring, taking on the opposite houses themes would bring more ease and create less intensity.

For example, dealing with 12H (Even Neptune) synastry, the opposite house is the 6H, the house of routine, daily life, mundane affairs, healthcare, helping others/giving etc etc. So to ease this type of fixation this synastry can cause, focus and enhance your own skills when it comes to your physical/mental health. Add more day to day to activities that solely focuses on changing your routine; however big or small. That will ease the fixation that 12H and Neptune synastry brings. This synastry can cause you to daydream or obsess over them, and since you may have this innate need to be their savior that wants to try and fix their wounds, the chance of putting yourself in situations where your priority is solely them is very likely. You could also fantasize and have an escapist attitude with them, (or the idea of them) therefore, they can serve as an escape for you; by focusing on their pain and struggles might cause you to forget about your own mental health challenges. You also might repeat scenarios in your head or fantasize about situations happening; especially since you might feel confused/hazy with where you stand with them, therefore keeping yourself busy is key with this synastry, and that will create more control within you.

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This is all from my own interpretation of 12th house synastry, I would confidently say I am a very very introspective person at heart, I read between the lines constantly and overly fixate on behavior etc and this synastry still clouded my own judgment and understanding for years; it brought in tendencies for me to doubt my true feelings and curiosity, only until I more so let go of the relationship that I am referencing (the boy where I have 8th house synastry with) was the only time I was able to fully look outside my situation with him when it came to my actions and feelings. The constant back and fourth dilemma I struggled with when it came to knowing him and who he was was constant yet truly instant. My soul knew him before my brain did and because of that knowing I was unsure and unconfident with the type of feelings that persisted in the dynamic I shared with him. I have made so many posts about 12th house synastry but I can confidently say that this current post is now the most accurate representation of what can occur between these relationships.

Hope this brings some clarity and understanding for others who have dealt with 12th house and Neptune synastry; if not disregard and again this type of synastry is truly nuanced and multifaceted.

If this resonates with you I have an eBook that perfectly depicts and explains if you are in a karmic relationship. It's about 8th/12th/Pluto/Neptune/Saturn/Vertex/Nodal synastry. I give insights, exact transits, exact synastry overlays, natal chart interpretations and more advice on what to do in these situations. More information is pinned on my page.

[lalalenii]

Since the next RRP audition is open im using the script to practice for my audition for Zauberspiegel and fuck why is this so hard

[bitesize-astrology]

Speak Your Value

Monday - September 16, 2024

Do you remember the 1970 Dr. Seuss classic "Horton Hears A Who?" (It was also made into an animated movie in 2008.) A speck of "dust" lands on Horton's trunk (he's an elephant don't you know), and he is able to hear the hustle and bustle of the Whos that live inside that speck. He works to protect it, even as those around him can't hear what he hears. Just as the crowd is about to destroy the speck, the Whos use every bit of energy they have to lift their voices, proclaiming "WE ARE HERE." Their voices were so loud that others can finally hear, and Horton is vindicated.

Today I invite you to lift your voice. Proclaim YOU ARE HERE.

It's hard to proclaim your value in such a way when the world around you refuses to hear you. But the opposition between Venus in Libra and Chiron in Aries at 22 degrees, a degree that breaks things down in order to get to the nitty gritty, says speak from your empowerment not your wound.

Horton was able to hear the Whos. Can you hear you?

[stressedmonster101]

ok we know the space theme, we love it, but there is SO much potential now that there’s 4.

fire, earth, water, and air.

wands, pentacles, swords, and cups.

also, keeping with the space theme, our solar system is split into two groups of planets.

two groups of 4.

[thatsmysign]

Venus oppose Pluto ?

Control freaks. Want to know everything their partner is doing. Really possessive and jealous, and could also atract these type of partner. If you have this aspect it's important to learn how to trust those you love. With your love you can transform anything.

[pocji]

ghost in the shell by etat libre d’orange is SUCH an interesting scent I finally got around to testing it. I get the milk accord so strongly on the initial spray like stronger than I got from commodity, lush super milk or any of the other popular milky scents. the jasmine is there too, the yuzu is soapy and the skin accord is snuggly. I feel like I can sense really nice vanilla (pod not essence) but that’s probably my brain looking for something to go with the milk.

It smells like the aftermath of a really good shower where you’ve scrubbed yourself half raw and you’re dissociating in a towel except maybe you made an ovaltine?

It’s cold and warm at the same time. Freshie girls please sample this!! This is the most clean girl who’s hiding a guilty secret smell I’ve ever smelled. (Idk how they bottled it but it’s literally skin after it was SCRUBBED)

[homenecromancer]

there’s a band in town tonight who did have a presence in my life when i was a teenager -- well ok i had one of their songs on my iPod, but you know -- and i am not working their show. this is for the simple reason that when i saw The Cure were touring and going to be in my area, i immediately scheduled myself for that instead

will i be getting rained on all afternoon because it’s outdoors? yes. (the other concert is indoors.) will i be standing up the whole time and probably in a little bit of pain because of that? yes. (for the other concert i would probably be sitting.) but like come on... it’s The Cure