#omnisexual also kinda fits

[fae-queen54]

does anyone else have a hard time coming out to their long time friends? like i had an easier time coming out to these two freshmen that my sister is friends with than i did with my actual friend group. and i cannot for the life of me tell if that’s rsd or me telling these queer kids i’m a safe person. bc like those kids are ab to hit high school since they’re incoming freshmen and there’s a lot of homophobes and transphobes where i go to school. but i legit had no anxiety or anything telling these 14 yr olds “i’m gender-fluid and bi, he/she/they/it” when they asked my pronouns after telling me theirs. i haven’t even come out fully to my best friend bc i get scared that she’ll try to invalidate me. my friend hasn’t even done that to anyone in front of me at least so idk why i’m scared.

btw it’s so cute to see queer kids unafraid to tell people who they are. like they just proudly told me and didn’t even look scared bc adults were around. i rlly love that they aren’t afraid to do that like i am. even though i’m barely three yrs older it’s amazing to see queer youth being proud no matter what. bc when i was just entering hs i was so afraid to say i was queer. these kids have been out and proud since they were 12-13. and they’re not afraid to admit labels change. like so many people my age are afraid to label themselves bc they think they’re stuck w it. it’s so shocking to me bc my friends aren’t older than these kids. but when these kids told me who they were so proud i just wanted to cry. bc they weren’t afraid. like my friends and i are hardly closeted when we’re not around our parents but like i don’t admit i’m queer until like months into forming a friendship. and it’s never been how it was with those freshmen. it’s always been a passing comment like in response to another passing comment like “imagine being pan and having no pull” and responding “ab as bad as a queer girl having no pull?” like i think the one time me addressing my sexuality has ever been the entire focus was when i first came out and that’s only bc it was a heat of the moment thing at a hoco dance. i’ve never introduced myself like “hi i’m noah, i’m gender-fluid and queer/bi/whatever, these are my pronouns” like those kids did and i want that! i want to be that proud, that unafraid of others opinions, that out and open ab myself and my identity.

[ddlcpoly]

Sorry if someone asked this before, but what's your diversity headcannons for the dokis? (Neurodivergent in some way. Sexuality, gender. You get the gist) personally, I am incapable of not seeing Natsuki as transfem.

Well I have a bunch of head-cannons that I can’t really fit in a post and I don’t want to, but I’ll happily give you my ND, sexuality and gender headcannons, as well as a misc one for each one! I have already done a gender, sexuality and ND head cannon post, but I’m fine doing it again!

Sayori: She is definitely bisexual, maybe Omnisexual (<- projection), she is one of the most bisexual-coded characters I’ve seen. I also headcannon her as a cis girl (she/her), not much to say there. I also hc that she has ADHD (<- partially projection), because it she just has all the ADHD troubles and characteristics. I also have this like small headcannon that she doesn’t understand hot drinks, like why people want to get something inedibly hot and then waiting for it to cool down, that’s why she generally prefers warm, cool or cold food.

Yuri: I also headcannon Yuri as bisexual, but specifically demisexual and she has a preference for men (even if she is literally called Yuri and has 4 gfs). I also headcannon her as a Trans girl (she/her) mostly because it just makes sense for her to be a t-girl for me, I mean just look at her and the way she acts! I don’t know why people don’t headcannon her a trans. I also hc that she has autism and borderline disorder, it just feels right. I also have the hc that she has two moms, and they’re the only ones of the doki’s parents that know about her relationship status.

Natsuki: I headcannon Natsuki as bisexual as well, but like she recently discovers she was bisexual, she used to think she was a lesbian, like she found men sexually attractive, but she never had a crush on a boy, so she thought that was how it was, but then MC came along. I also hc her as a demigirl ( <- projection) (she/them), dunno she’s a girl, but not like fully in the “girl spectrum” and she likes the title. She also has ADHD like Sayori. She’s a biter, she has biten everyone else at least a couple dozen times, but in a loving way.

Monika: I hc her as a cis girl (she/it), but like in the vaguely eldritch, ghost in the machine kinda way. I hc her as pan, obviously. I also hc her as neurotypical, mostly because there isn’t really any form of neurodivergency that I can see her being, maybe bipolar? but not really and I don’t really know much about it. I also headcannon her as half-Irish.

MC: I headcannon him as a cis straight boy, but like the biggest ally every, he wouldn’t hesitate to knee someone in the gut for making a face at his girlfriends kissing. I also hc him as autistic, but instead of the smart, but socially awkward kind like Yuri, more like he acts like and looks like a kuudere kind of autism, except not that smart. I also don’t think he’s as much of a gamer as you’d think, only really ever having a Wii, a 3ds and a ps4, and he only really plays in the ps4 nowadays and he doesn’t have a lot of games.

[sovaghoul]

This is a little disjointed bc a lot of it is taken from a convo with @feedingonthegoore. Gender and sexuality stuff again.

I'm having a gender think. How I've actually always kinda felt off calling myself a woman. I used to think it was an age/experience thing, like there was some adulthood threshold I would cross and then it would feel right. But I'm 42, been married and divorced, birthed 2 children, and it still feels uncomfortable. Saying I'm afab feels ok. Deogender feels ok. All I know is I don't feel masc. I wouldn't be comfortable being called a man either.

I do get to a point where I almost feel uncomfortable thinking about it more. Might be imposter syndrome and just general insecurity.

I used to be super stereotypically girly when I was little. Got teased for it as I got older and in pursuit of social acceptance at school I moved away from that. I wasn't allowed to wear makeup before I was 16 and never developed a huge interest in that or hair or any of those other "girly" things. I've never thought about that teasing in relation to gender. I still want to wear pretty dresses sometimes. Sometimes I wish I could do pretty make up. I like having pretty nails. So I do like some stereotypical "woman" things. I just don't feel like I should be called one. But I feel like if I start saying I'm enby then I just want to be special and want attention. It's something I need to sit with for a while I think.

I'm thinking about my sexuality label too bc ofc I am. Bi has started to feel uncomfortable. Sapphic bi as well, seeing that my partner is a trans man. I've started to feel that I'm disregarding his identity or invalidating his gender (even if he doesn't). I'm thinking that something like omnisexual is a better fit. It's supposed to express that gender plays a role in attraction (whereas pan usually means that it doesn't, but I have trauma issues with the pan label for myself), but in my case I'd use it to express exactly something I saw in a Reddit thread, ABCD, "Anyone But Cis Dudes." And also, that I completely support and affirm my partner and his identity and transition.

I'm thinking I'll use enby just for ease-of-use in public, and unleash the deogender when people become more trusted. Probably same thing with saying I'm bi vs omni/ABCD.

I almost feel silly questioning all this at 42.

[l0ser-nicolaz]

yooo @thecubeinmayashand i saw that you wanted one headcanons so i was like

“why not make it into a post” SO HERES THE POST

shes lunarian/demigirl/omnisexual

she/they/xe/star pronouns

i feel like she gives off spacey/frutiger aqua/y2k vibes

shes very good with emotional stuff and COULD be a therapist

she has one of space nightlights she doesnt need she just thinks it looks cool

she believes in ghosts and wants to be one

she committed arson so many times that she lost count

if she had tumblr shed be famous but shed also be that person that would post once every 3-5 months

she made a raridash fankid but it might as well be her ponysona

she talks fast and goes on rants when its about an interest

shes in your walls rn /silly

most of these are self indulgent or from character headcanon generator but they still kinda fit

[star-burrow]

So fucking pissed at people who say that hyperspecific labels “make the queer community look bad” or “is just pure attention seeking”, NO MF I JUST LIKE HAVING A NAME FOR THINGS I FEEL.

Like, my situation with gender is so fucking complicated that having a person coin something such as “dazegender” was so good to me, and I still have a complicated relationship with gender !! I’m so glad for whoever coined the term “Omnisexual/romantic” because it would've been a living nightmare to do mental gymnastics to feel like I fitted pan or bi.

“But those are spectrums” do people treat them as such ? Do they really ? Plus it's just difficult to my head to grasp the concept of “spectrum” it either is or is not, that's how my brain works personally. (My brain needs to be able to name things, basically. And also to know exactly what to do, if we're talking about chores, per say).

In today's generation so many people (me included) just find it SO HARD to put their feelings into words that it is genuinely a blessing to have labels that can label what we feel so precisely (to us, at least), “but you're overcomplicating something that should be simple” feelings are so far from being simple, honestly, and what is simple to you may not be to me, and that's okay, just don't call me attention seeking or whatever.

Also, also !! Hyperspecific labels/flags just make me (at least) feel more validated, since it makes it clear to me that I'm not alone in the way I feel and it kinda validates me (in a good way) :] And it's the Queer Community after all, so I think it's past the time we start actually acting like that.

[galaxia-art]

[id: 2 anthropomorphic cats in the same outfit but in a different colour pallette, both colour palettes of the polyamarous pride flags. the first image has both in the same image over the two flag gradients, the other 2 images are each cat on a transparent background. one cat is based on the older blue-red-black flag with a yellow pi symbol, the other has the newer light blue-magenta-dark purple flag with a white triangle and gold heart. the design is of a wizard with a long, stripy robe with poofy sleeves and a matching hat with a heart shaped bobble at the end, with a little infinity symbol over it. they also have a sleeveless jacket with a clasp of the respective flag's symbol. the jacket is shaped in a way to mimic the newer flag's triangle shape, and underneath there is a rope tying the robe's waist that's hanging similar to the older flag's pi symbol. the cat themself is black with yellow eyes or white with gold eyes, and a long fluffy tail and a friendly smile. end id]

pajama wizard swag i guess

someone asked me before if i had a poly one of my pride cats yet and i haven't so i added that to my to do list! they didnt specify if they meant polyamarous or polysexual so polysexual is also on my list

this was particularly fun because i had multiple symbols to play around with, kinda fitting, and decided to make a design that fits with both flags. also found that the heart with a infinity symbol is also a polyamory symbol so i added that to the hat!

ive also done the agender and omnisexual flags, because the former's colours worked for an idea i had and the latter was just a really pretty flag, so will upload those soonish

some other cats:

intersex inclusive progress pride flag | lesbian | mlm

nonbinary | transmasc | transfem

asexual

aromantic

bisexual | pansexual

genderfluid | intersex

misc sketch ideas

EDIT: if you want these I have them as stickers on etsy! (maybe wooden pins in future? i also have them on my redbubble

[kuramaminamino]

what are your gender and sexuality headcanons for the characters? :)

You’ve gave me a few ideas so credits to you!! 🙌

(I’m not very good at explaining…)

Anyways, ig I can start off with Kuwabara…

I kinda view him as bisexual. I ship him and Yukina, but I also ship him with Yusuke and Kurama, get my idea :>? But most of the time, I view him as a straight person who respects the lgbtq+ community.

And then, we have Kurama…

I view him as genderfluid or something similar. Like, have you seen this man? He’s got that straight side but also that fruity side :0!! I used to think he was just gay, but I don’t think that anymore. I would say he might just be bisexual or something.

Then there’s Yusuke…

I don’t have an exact hc for him… I haven’t given it much thought lol. I could say something like asexual or something? Idrk :3

And lastly, Hiei…

I would say omnisexual. He doesn’t care who he falls in love with, but he’s a little picky. I mean, I guess it does kinda fit him. (Credits to the asker who gave me this idea!)

But, sometimes I don’t think about these headcannons all the time. And, these are just headcannons! I didn’t say they were cannon!

[heloflor]

Unpopular shipping headcanons/opinions for Sam and Max:

- I don’t particularly dislike Sybil and Abe being together, though it’s mostly because I’m not very into their relationship. Hell I keep forgetting Abe exists whenever I make a list of all characters (ngl he’s pretty forgettable 😅). Also the “dysfunctional straight couple” trope is a thing I’m very used to, mostly because like 90% of movies/TV shows/etc use it, so while I agree that Sybil deserves better, their relationship doesn’t bother me.

- Likewise, I don’t ship Sybil with Superball because I don’t find them to be very compatible. Idk, I feel like Sybil wants a man who gives her time and attention, like she kinda has that idea of what a perfect relationship is like. While Superball on the other hand is a lot more career-focused and to-the-point when talking. Plus, I’m not sure if Sybil can get used to the way Superball expresses his emotions differently.

- While I wouldn’t say that I ship it, if I had to pair Superball with anybody, it would be with Mama Bosco. Not only because they’re both career-focused but also because we know Mama Bosco wants a man who treats her as a person and doesn’t drool all around her, and I feel like Superball can give her that. Again, idk. I just think they have the potential for good chemistry ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

And if you want shipping arguments coming from the game, there’s not a lot to go by but it’s worth noting that in 204, when asking Superball if he saw Mama Bosco, he comments that he admired her spirit, and in 305 Mama Bosco is the only one going after Superball when he runs away crying. It’s also implied that they have some offscreen interactions in 301.

- I don’t ship Sameth and Maximus due to the fact that, if they were to be a couple while still having their wives and kids, then their children would technically be step-siblings. And if you go down the family line a bit, it technically makes Sam and Max cousins, which is a bit of a yikes for me.

Btw no hate whatsoever to the people who ship them, I 100% understand why you would, and the line “you could do with some female company. I hate to say it but people are beginning to talk” definitely says a lot about those two and their relationship. It’s just that I overthink the implications of their relationship and it makes me uncomfortable.

That being said, I do like the idea of them being both queer. And given that they lived in the late 1800s and early 1900s, I could definitely see a scenario of both of them being into guys and maybe even finding each other attractive, but they never realized those feelings, they just assumed every guy found other guys attractive.

- The Narrator/Superego has feelings for Sam. After all, he’s Max.

- Max doesn’t just have a crush on Hugh Bliss, he was genuinely in love with the guy (I swear Telltale Max is the reason why I see both him and Sam as poly) and would’ve asked Sam for his permission to ask Hugh out had the whole moon situation happened a few months later.

And if you’re asking, Hugh Bliss doesn’t give a shit about Max, though he possibly realized Max liked him and used it to his advantage (that scene when he separates Max’s bliss has him drop Max’s defense by sweet-talking to him).

(Also Max is genuinely in love with Flint Paper as well, just like Sam is, but that’s not an unpopular headcanon)

- Sam is omnisexual because why not. I mean given the world they live in, “being in love with people regardless of gender while still acknowledging said gender” fits Sam pretty well.

- Despite not being straight, Sam is uncomfortable with dating anything other than women. This is due to him growing up in the 70s on top of seeing Max getting heavily bullied for not showing attraction to women. And given how insecure Sam can be, especially Telltale Sam, I could see him prefer to date women, though there are some exceptions like Max obviously but also his admiration for Flint, which he doesn’t hide. And given the dialogue about finding Peppers sexy, I could definitely see him be comfortable talking about his attraction for men with Max specifically.

- While I tend to call Max gay due to being more focused on the Telltale trilogy, I’d argue that any other media outside of Telltale show Max as aromantic homosexual. And because I feel like explaining :

In the comics, Max’s romantic life is never brought up. We just know that he doesn’t like girls and have played in stag movies, which are aimed at a male audience. Btw him being a sex worker has nothing to do with his sexuality, as dating life and sex experience have nothing to do with one’s sexuality. That being said him working for a male audience means that he either wanted men to look at him, or he wanted men to focus less on him (by looking at the women instead).

In “Hit the Road”, Max shows some disgust about Bruno’s relationship with Trixie and there’s yet again the “doesn’t like girls” joke. But at the same time there’s a few romantic jokes between him and Sam, showing that Max gravitates towards men.

In “This Time it’s Virtual”, the only hint of Max’s sexuality is the corndog joke, hinting a sexual liking for men. Max is also yet again shown at the entrance of the tunnel of love to find romance gross.

In the Cartoon, Max is straight-up afraid of romance, but yet again he’s hinted to be in a relationship with Sam who he’s implied to have sex with (bonus mention for Cartoon Max being the most explicitly a masochist), plus shows some interest for Mack Salmond and his sidekick.

So overall, Max barely ever talks about romance and when he does it’s in a negative light. At the same time, he’s shown to have a consistent interest for men, but most of it is through sex jokes (his interest for Mack Salmond could also be seen as more sexual than romantic, at least I think ?). It’s also worth pointing out that aro people can date, hence his relationship with Sam.

Tbh “Sam and Max are in a queerplatonic relationship” is probably the truest canon statement regarding their relationship given how it’s presented as an incredibly strong friendship that “transcends the notions of marriage and dating”.

So yeah, while Telltale Max is very explicitly gay and is even shown to enjoy the concept of romance to some degree (he gets involved in Sybil’s relationship and by the end of S2 cares more about it than Sam does), the other versions of his character seem to be more likely on the aro spectrum, especially the Cartoon version.

[herei2-0]

introduction !! (kinda long)

‼️‼️TUMBLR MESSAGING WORKS NOW‼️‼️

hi !! my name is herei, you can call me rei for short if you'd like !! (basic dni criteria, pr0/c0mshit, z00s, m4ps, p3dos, racists, weirdos, and freaks)

DISCOMFORTS / DNI LIST IN CARRD !!!

about me:

I'm 14 and a freshman in highschool !! I have adhd and questioning autism !! i am a csa victim with ptsd so please, be respectful !! because of this, I am hypersexual, dni if you stereotype it, it's incredibly hurtful. (I don't express my hypersexuality very often, dw)

I go by He/They/It/Cat/Fox !! Im an omnisexual trans demiboy (ftm) in a lovely gay relationship !!

I call myself a cat kin because I copy and mimic the behavior of a cat, they are also my special interest !!

I'm a Mexican artist !! both trad and digital

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I'm no stranger to blocking and I block pretty spontaneously, and i don't soft block (unless necessary) and I stick to hard, cold, blocks, if u fit my dni or discomforts, ur probably getting blocked ,, yeah . I like to keep myself safe and comfortable >_<

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I use tone tags and I'd appreciate if you use them while talking to me !!

I'm no stranger to sensitive/suggestive topics, but I will not post anything explicit and will tag anything with proper tw/cws

my art/posts can contain triggering/Upsetting content such as

• Dr_g use/Substance ab_se

• Eye strain

• Bright colors

• Blood/Gore

• Unsettling content

• Or otherwise content not directed to a younger audience

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I'm multifandom and have many hyperfixes that last only a short while so please, don't follow me for 1 thing !! follow me bc i errm uooohhmm AM COOL !!!! yeah y yeah yeah tehehe

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[carrd and spacehey are kinda bright]

carrd, pronouns page, and spacehey !! [ DISCOMFORTS PAGE IN CARRD !!! PLEASE READ IT !!! ]

‼️THE CARRD MIGHT BE OUDATED/UPDATED LATER SINCE I CANT LOG BACK INTO MY ACCOUNT‼️

[shxtodxroki]

hiiiii!! I saw your request is open so here I am shooting my shot hehe. I'd love to get a matchup with any male characters, so feel free to go wild with the result ♡

I go by "Angel", she/her, omnisexual, 5'2. I'm not really good at describing how I look, so here 2 pics of me (I don't have any picrew of me, so I hope you are fine with me sending you my real pics 😔👉🏻👈🏻) also, a tmi for today : I'm basically blind on my right eye but I refused to wear glasses on daily basis bcs I think I look better without it 😅

moving on to my personality, I'm an ENFP and a proud gryffindor! 🦁❤ I LOVE to talk, I can't handle silence really well bcs it makes me feel awkward. people's first impression of me are usually "she's a b" or "she is annoying" but most of em ended up loving me after they got to know me personally (RUDEEE 😭) ; anyway I actually have a lot of insecurity about myself and easily got depressed over em, but I love to act all confident in front of my friendsㅡ gotta fake it until you make it I guess 😩

for interests, I love doing tarots, playing text-based games, and listening to disney / musical songs. I also enjoy watching thriller/horror movies, sometimes I got scared to the bones tho 💀

another thing about me is I have a chronic insomnia, my earliest bedtime is 8 am (I know its very unhealthy 😭😭😭) sometimes I can go a day or two without sleep, it's crazy how I'm still alive tbh 🥲

OMG I OVERSHARED DIDN'T I? I'm really sorryyyy, this also one of my bad traits. I tend to overshare my life with anyone and anytime. I hope you don't mind :(

well I guess this is it??? thank you for opening up your matchup request. can't wait to read the result aaaa. have a good daaay 🌸

First of all I want to say don’t worry about oversharing at all, the more you tell me about yourself the better I can make your match-up so all the information you included was super helpful for me actually! Thank you for sending in a match-up request, and I hope you enjoy your match-up below :>

I’d Match You With: 

Denki Kaminari!

Reasoning:

I did a lot of thinking with this one, there were a couple of characters I was considering but in the end I felt like Denki fit the best with you. He loves your bold personality and you share a lot of interests, and overall he’s just really infatuated with you and would be the perfect boyfriend to go alongside you :D

Headcanons About Your Relationship:

- Denki is not a big fan of silence either, it makes him feel awkward so between the two of you you’re pretty much always talking about something, there’s never a moment of silence in your relationship :) He even has a list of dumb quotes you’ve both said to each other in his phone because of how much you both talk whenever you're together lol

- If anyone’s ever rude to you or accuses you of being “annoying” or “bitchy” without getting to know, you Denki will 100% stand up for you! He isn’t letting anybody treat you that way and he will immediately get on them about how you’re an amazing, lovely person, and they’re the ones being rude by judging you without even knowing you personally :)

- Denki knows how it feels to put on a confident face and try to “fake it ‘till you make it”, he has a pretty similar mindset himself actually. So he understands how you feel, and he makes sure you know that when you do need to let down those confident walls and show/talk about your insecurities, he’s more than happy to talk with you, to comfort and reassure you (And he hopes you’d do the same for him in return) <3

- Denki is, like, the #1 fan of Disney songs lol, he loves them just as much as you do and the other students around your dorms kinda hate it lol because they always hear you two blasting Disney music and singing along at like 3am

- Denki’s pretty scared of horror movies honestly, but he can have fun watching them if they’re not too scary, so he’ll watch them with you sometimes because he wants to make you happy :) Plus, even though he's pretty scared, he likes being your big strong boyfriend that can protect you if you do end up getting scared, it helps him ignore his own fears lol

- Denki definitely doesn’t stay up as late as you, but he’s no stranger to pulling all-nighters so usually when the two of you have sleepovers together he doesn’t end up falling asleep until at least 5am because he wants to spend as much time with you as he can :)

- Whenever you two pull all-nighters, though, you always follow it up with lots of naps the next day. Even if you have class, Denki can see you starting to get tired and he wants to make sure that you get some sleep now that you’re actually feeling tired, so the second class ends Denki’s dragging you with him to his dorms and piling blankets on top of the two of you as you cuddle and nap together ^^

- Also, you never have to worry about oversharing when it comes to Denki, nothing is oversharing to him when it comes to you. Like I mentioned earlier, he’s happy to listen to you talk about absolutely anything at any time, so never worry about talking too much or telling him too much about something because he wants to know everything he can about you and your life, he just loves you so much <3

Song For Your Relationship:

Shivers by Ed Sheeran :)

[unknawn]

Ninjago LGBTQ+ HC’s part 2! (Part 1 is Here)

Nya, Pixal, Skylor, Lloyd, and Morro

(These hcs only follow up to the events of S1-S6, anything after that could still work but I wouldnt know since i havent gotten that far)

Nya

Nya goes only by She/Her, and shes trans mtf!

She was just growing out her hair by S1 (it was in its mid growth stage by her standard)

By then she was just fully stepping out of her comfort zone and had already come out to Kai as trans, though at the time not really having a proper term to it due to her and Kai’s lifestyle at the time

Kai hadn’t really understood at first but he supported her regardless! Trying as best he could to take steps to make Nya comfortable with how she identified

Anyhoo, for sexuality- Nya’s is a one not many really know of, being Heteroflexible (Straight with the rare exception of liking the same sex)

Her typical style of clothing is fem or gender neutral, shes almost never gone for masc due to her background but she does enjoy tuxedos and some pants that are typically designed for guys.

and on another stylistic topic, shes definetly a makeup person, though she never overdoes it- its mainly just eyeliner and eyeshadow and a small touch of lipstick whenever shes feelin pretty

Pixal

Pixal goes by She/They/It, she mostly decided that after looking into pronouns

they just noticed that everyone else had these unique and out there pronouns for themselves and well, they thought they might give something else a try to see if they like it

turns out it really liked they/them and it/its quite a bit!

though she only ever got a moment to tell Zane about it, which was unfortunately after her physical forms demise

Their Sexuality is Bisexual, they never really had to think about that sort of thing too much, but they’re proud of it!

And as for fashion, it’s the same as Zane is- it doesn’t really care but it does like feminine attire the most

and lastly- she never has worn makeup before. She doesn’t feel like she needs or wants to, really

Skylor

Skylor only goes by She/Her

Shes tried others but couldn’t find any that quite fit the bill for what she was looking for, sadly

but it doesn’t bother her too much, shes pretty okay with how she is anyhow since she never thought it was too big of a deal for herself

Sexuality wise, shes Omnisexual with a mainly Female preference

her style preference is anything and everything that ISNT brightly colored or shows too much skin, but besides that she likes to make her outfits interesting

as for any makeup- Skylor likes any that tone up her cheeks and some light eyeshadow, but never anything too fancy unless its a special occasion

Lloyd

Lloyd just goes by He/Him, he’s never really had the time for thinking about this kind of personal stuff

and he never really got the time to fully grasp or understand the consept of things like pronouns, sexuality, etc

Sure he’s slowly learning due to his colorful range of these sorts of things from his friends, but yeah it’s still kinda sucky he had to learn that way

For sexuality, he typically considers himself bisexual with a female preference

Though he’s never really felt attraction to a guy yet, he wouldn’t be against the idea of being in a relationship like that

Lloyd has also never really had a chance to figure himself out in terms of whats his stylistic choice in clothing, so he typically puts on things masc or gender neut- hes not really a fan of femenine attire

same thing goes for lloyd and makeup, he doesn’t like it- at most he’d wear eyeliner if he really felt like it fit what he was wearing that day

Morro

Morro is a He/They, he discovered that a few years or so before he died

They never really had any care for those sorts of things though, too focused on thirsting for the power of becoming the green ninja

He's sorta had trouble with attracting to well, anyone so

Sexuality has been a weird thing but they've always been leaning towards a more Aro-Ace thing

He's pretty sure he's a Demi-Romantic Asexual if anything

For something like style, they mostly focus on Gender Neutral clothing types (being alive ofc)

And he's definetly a makeup person, he likes to make his face stand out in a weird way. He's more of a tone-enhancer and eye makeup person

[existingispetty]

Hey I was wondering if you would do a match up for any or all it's up to you for me!!! ONLY IF YOU WANT TO NO PRESSURE

I'm a transmasc FTM that uses he/they, I'm also omnisexual and am open with my Sexuality. I have dark blonde hair but I dye it alot, a few freckles, and I'm around 5"5, I also wear glasses that are kinda rounded.

My personality is kinda werid but it's sweet, I care for my friends and love them like family but I have a hard time opening up and I get kinda grossed out by contact with people because I have a fear of people not liking me. I get angry when people mess with other people even if I don't like the person and will try to fight them and will fight for them. My love language is giving gifts and making them happy no matter what. I am a very determined person and usually am very serious when it comes to school or someone's feelings. It's pretty easy to make people laugh at my jokes and just have a breather with people, just have people relax around me. I have a very chill personality but I love nature and just living life and going on adventures. I love my friends a bunch but I like more alone time or just with one or two people with me.

I like animals and just stuff that will shock me and think different about life, love going on ghost adventures even if ghost don't exist. I love going out into the rain or just listening to music with the rain pouring. Learning is one of the things I like doing best but I like doing it myself and not people forcing me too. I love having calm moments with people were. Calming them down or I'm just running my fingers though there hair.

My perfect first date is going out and just bringing with us, exploring or just going to see a really pretty nature filled spot where we can have a relaxing day or just play in the water or tag, just acting like kids again, not living up to someone standards

SORRY IF YOUR REQUESTS ARE CLOSED FOR THESE

Hello! Thanks for the ask! I apologize for the wait! 

P.S I assumed you wanted me to pick a random fandom so I did, please correct me if this was false. 

p.s, P.s sorry if i did something incorrectly i have a feeling i did something wrong . T-T

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Your matchup is… (insert really really aggressive drumroll*)

Chifuyu Matsuno

Chifuyu is very used to having friends that keep things to themselves and he would never expect anyone to tell him every secret about themself. Chifuyu isn’t bug into physical touch but he’s willing to do it every once and a while. He just doesn’t quite understand what physical touch means to people.  

Chifuyu is very insecure, he feels he’s not special or unique enough for people to desire to be friends with him. He tries so hard to be outgoing and friendly fit to this.  Chifuyu is the type that sometimes struggles to defend himself but he won’t hesitate not defend someone else. Chifuyu has a very strange sense of comedy, vesicle anything can make him let out a little giggle.  

Gifts mean so much to Chifuyu, he’s pretty broke from buying manga.  Chifuyu tries to be as genuine as possible with other people. Chifuyu doesn’t have a group of friends but he has just a few close friends so most of the time he’s free to hang out with one  or two.

Chifuyu loves all animals, especially cats. I’ll be honest with you the thought of ghosts scares Chifuyu is badly he is terrified of them yet, he is still overjoyed to go on a ghost hunt or watch a horror movie. Chifuyu loves the sound of the rain and. Reading in the rain under some kind of cover is so relaxing to him. 

[emptymasks]

so after identifying as pansexual for about 7 years... i think i might actually be omnisexual. i never looked up the slight differences before and honestly i love the colours of the omni flag and it just looks rad next to the genderfluid flag and i feel like since it’s been so long and i’m an adult now that i’m not allowed to change my labels, which i know is wrong and stupid, but something about the pan label has felt off to me for a while, like it doesn’t quite fit or i’m not quite happy with it. 

and it doesn’t change anything, they both mean attraction to all genders, omni just also have preferences and/or feel that attraction towards different genders feels different and like shit.. yeah okay attraction to men does feel different to me than attraction towards women and so on. though id also been told 'pan people cant have a preference' forever which made me always kinda feel like a fake pan person though that apparently isn't true and pan people can have preferences but i think that idea that i couldn’t be pan and have a preference was hammered into my head for so long i personally feel i don’t belong in the pan label and never really have because of my preference for men and it’s sort of tainted the pan label for me forever i think. maybe also i’ve just seen too much panphobia this year that i just feel exhausted and upset with the label itself, which is sad that panphobes have made me not want to call myself pan. but i feel omni also fits me more. but i know people who use all or multiple multi-sexual labels (bi/pan/poly/omni), and people who are attracted to all genders and pick one of those based on the word of the colour or ease of explanation. and honestly if i picked just on colour i could kiss the omni flag it’s so pretty.

anyway that’s an update i guess? idk i felt like i had to say it somewhere and not just maybe edit my bios.

[popshoveitqueen]

A Look at Gender Dysphoria: Queer Fallback

Note: I’m very new to Tumblr and therefore might not know what I’m doing. If that doesn’t dissuade you from reading, then thanks!

     My current identity within the queer community is graysexual lesbian trans demigirl with she/they/xe pronouns, so it’s fair to say I’ve dealt with my fair share of gender dysphoria in the past. Whether it be about the way I dress, the way I talk, the way my body’s shaped, et cetera, it’s always tough to deal with, but to a certain degree those are all part of a pretty surface level kind of dysphoria. By no mean am I saying that every trans person has to feel those simple types of dysphoria, everybody’s experience is unique, what I’m trying to say is that certain types of dysphoria may be a bit more under the radar, at least for people outside of or new to the community. The one I’d like to talk about today is something I personally refer to as “Queer Fallback”, and while I’m sure there’s a more fit term for it that’s being talked about by a far more experienced person, this is just my take and personal reflection. I hope you enjoy!

What is “Queer Fallback”?

     Queer Fallback is essentially the idea of feeling like you need to have some way to still be queer in the case that you are somehow faking part of your queer identity. For an example, for a good while I insisted that I had to be somewhere on the spectrum of multispec attraction, that being sexualities in which one feels attraction to multiple genders, and that one of those genders I was attracted to simply had to be men. This was because in the absurd scenario where I was faking being trans, feeling attraction to men in some way would still give me a spot within the community.

      Now obviously, I know now that I wasn’t faking being trans, and also just how silly the concept of that is. Keep in mind, this was a time where I despised everything about myself from my body hair, to my deep voice, to my clothes, to whatever other traditionally masculine thing I happened to do one day, so the idea that knowing I was a girl was just something that would go away anytime soon was quite an absurd belief to even consider. However, as disappointing as it may be, that’s kinda just how dysphoria is sometimes. It’s irrational thoughts.

How Do You Deal With Queer Fallback?

      It can sometimes be hard to talk about how to deal with dysphoria because even specific types can be different levels of intensity and influence from person to person, so I’ll just keep telling you about my personal experience in overcoming it. As I said before, my first run-in with this type of dysphoria was feeling like I needed to be attracted to men. While I defaulted to going by bisexual for quite a while at the start, that eventually evolved into a long string of attempts to get just the right identity. If I’m remembering the order correctly, over the course of a few months I tried out pansexual, omnisexual, lesbian, finsexual, and abrofeminine. Now you might notice that I did try out lesbian for a bit there, which has now ended up being the sexuality I identify with the most, but at the time my dysphoria was simply too strong to let me accept that truth.

     So really, the best takeaway I have from the experience is just simply the importance of being confident in your gender. I’m not saying this is easy by any means, but surrounding yourself with good, supportive people and prioritizing selfcare and selflove are the best ways I can recommend starting. Join LGBTQ+ Discord servers, search for local queer community spaces or events, really just try to find the right people. I know as a major introvert, even I’ve enjoyed connecting with fellow queer people, as it can just be nice to have a place to say things on my mind to people that have a far better chance of understanding what I’m dealing with. There are plenty of things I would’ve just bottled up forever and ever had I not had my friends online to vent to, and getting those things off my chest ultimately helped me achieve a higher amount of self-worth. 

     To touch on another example, I also experienced queer fallback related to my pronouns for a shorter but still important amount of time during the start of my transition. There was this feeling of necessity to use just she/her pronouns, as in my head if I didn’t fully commit to “being a girl” quote unquote, I’d be faking something. Now I’m sure I don’t have to say it, but that’s an incredibly flawed way to look at gender, as really, pronouns and gender are two different things that don’t have to correlate based on the more traditional views of how gender has been portrayed in the past. However, again I’d like to stress that’s just how dysphoria can be sometimes - irrational. That’s not the fault of the person experiencing the dysphoria by any means, it’s just something that comes with transitioning for a lot of people. Over time, however, I managed to get more comfortable with the fact that I am a woman, and that having more pronouns then she/her wouldn’t change that. I first went with she/they, eventually getting to she/they/xe where I’m pretty sure I’ll be staying for the long run. 

Hey, So... Why Did You Make This?

      I’m sure some of you are wondering why I bothered to write this down, let alone post it, so I’d love to tell you why. It’s incredibly important to get queer experiences straight from the mouths of people in the community out there, because that’s one of the best ways to get educated on or educate others about LGBTQ+ matters. I know my parents looked at plenty of media about trans people in an effort to understand what I was going through and how they could help me when I came out, so without information like that available, even for small, obscure things like this, it might be just that much harder for people to get through certain challenges. That’s why I want to do this, because I know looking at blogs by trans women in the early days of my transition really helped me figure certain things out, so maybe, just, maybe, I could end up helping fellow queer people who might need a bit of help on their own journey.

       But no matter who you are, if you made it to the end of this silly little thing, I’d like to genuinely thank you for reading. I hope you got something out of it!

[enki-library]

do ya have sexuality hcs

yes i do!

irene — panromantic, pansexual (she/her)

irene is a very accepting and boundless person, like she’s very free spirited. she grew up in an environment where love knew no bounds. scaleswind itself wasn’t the most inclusive but the people she surrounded herself with were. she always knew her sexuality, she just didn’t know the specific label she wanted to use to describe it.

shad — queeromantic, demisexual (all)

shad didn’t grow up in the best of places and often had to move around a lot because of how people treated her. always scared that his friends didn’t care that much, he’s longed and always wanted a long friendship, relationship, anything that lasted for more than a month. they don’t really like labels for their romantic attraction but because of things in the past, she likes saying that he wants a strong friendship before love.

enki — panromantic, omnisexual (he/they)

enki loved to read from a young age and so he learned about a lot of different people and the way they looked at love. they were really smart and almost immediately after learning about labels he identified himself as queer but later liked defining his romantic interest. after getting older and more experienced, his sexual interest changed into a label that fit him better.

esmund — biromantic, bisexual (he/him)

esmund has had lots of friends and they all had their own labels. when he was introduced to these, they kinda just clicked (he just said “THATS ME!” really loudly and his mom was just really happy to see her son smiling). it worked for him and he liked how comforting the labels felt. he’s never felt like he had to explain why because these just feel right.

menphia — heteromantic, lesbian (she/her)

menphia loves to ramble about science related things and the amount of times she’s fell for her exploring or research partner is embarrassing (she’s always embarrassed but everyone else thinks it’s cute). her love language is touch and her hugs make you feel all warm inside. she thinks girls are too pretty for this world and tries her best to impress them with her magicks and potions knowledge.

kul'zak — aromantic, gay (they/them)

kul'zak loves to explore, both the world and their identity. they’re very happy with how their life is and lives everyday to the fullest. their close friend was the first person to introduce to them these labels and it’s stuck with them ever since (both their friend and the labels). they don’t like serious relationships but that doesn’t mean they don’t have one-night stands. they’re very content with their life but look forward to all types of change. they also love the color green (and they look damn good in it).

[zorilleerrant]

Hi, so with your allowance I'm sending another ask :)

The first one I'd like to know is for number 3, is the "of" written with a flag in black and white!?

The next one is picture 4, what are the flags for both e's in queer? The "it varies" is written in the queer flag with the black stripes on top and bottom?

Fifth picture, what is the first e in queer?? Pretty sure I have never seen it before!

Picture 6, the Q flag looks similar to the novisexual one but not exactly like it?

And which flag is the second e?

For all the other ones I'm pretty sure to know them!

Hope that I wrote everything kinda well to understand and not confusing. If you can't remember any of these that's okay. Thank you in advance :)

The black and white stripe flag is a straight/heterosexual flag, commonly used by allies historically, and sometimes used by queer heterosexuals. It's also something a lot of hetero trans people use in combination with the trans flag today. Plain black and white stripes is less common than the grayscale rainbow, but it's easier to draw.

The it varies e's are the aceflux and aroflux flags. They aren't super recognizable (I had to look them up, myself) but they're the only ones that turn up so I think that makes them 'correct' in a sense. The colors are modified slightly to match better.

The one you've never seen before is the Feather Pride flag. It was created for a specific event, but then was used by drag queens in a lot of places after that. I came across it basically at random looking through other flags; I thought it was a really cool design, although I had to modify the proportions to fit it on a letter.

Okay, so on picture 6...I actually can't remember what flag that is. I'm pretty sure it's a gender? Because I remember I wanted to include a gender in there? And then I looked up something specific and now I can't for the life of me remember what it was.

The second e is just the omnisexual flag tho.

Anyway I think forgetting one flag out of all of these is pretty good for a project I started in early 2018 (or like. possibly even a year earlier) and it might come to me at some point!

(for everyone's reference it's this post: https://zorilleerrant.tumblr.com/post/653394486216605697 )

Edit: I remembered! It’s a multigender flag. I remember I picked that version specifically because it was the first multigender flag I saw.