#oh youre a feminist

[peluchitos123]

[idolomantises]

i'll be real, i always hated it whenever media tries to "critique" Christianity while portraying all Christians as bigoted, misogynistic and irredeemable. its why it matters a lot to me that my own angels have some nuances to them.

Sera is very puritanical and obsessed with showing her devotion to God, but she's still a caring and well-meaning angel.

[daemonskitty]

Matthew Gray Gubler has the prettiest, most kissable lips I've ever seen in a man in my whole life. And his nose is so beautiful ugh. And his eyes, oh my goodness, his eyes they're like so so damn beautiful wdym. And his hair, Idk what he does, but omg. His tummy, I love his tummy so much, I wanna bite it (in a lovey way!!!) so bad ugh. I love his style, is so unique. I love his soul, I love his heart, I love his mind, all the creatively that's insanely amazing and yk like I love Matthew Gray Gubler, I love him so much.

[swanerotica]

" sylvia plath was a racist ohh the bell jar was white feminism " do you people have any media literacy anymore

[qkmlh]

Still ducking hilarious to me that Zoro & Sanji began their beef because they thought the other was misogynistic and it came to a head of no return when Zoro felt his title of ‘Luffy’s specialest boi’ threatened by Sanji’s comment

[evansbby]

my opinion on the Blake lively situation

[mishkakagehishka]

I miss the era when the mainstream just called us feminazis the fact that capitalism and the patriarchy actually successfully co-opted feminism hurts so much more

[brothermoth]

hey I refuse to reblog this but this is genuinely one of the most disgusting radfem posts I've seen in a while

I think y'all should check out the reblogs on this. The most misogynistic and homophobic flaming dogshit you've ever seen in your life. I don't even think the tweet from the drag queen is "making fun of" Chappell??? It sounds like a positive post??? It's literally someone else dressed like Chappell making a joke????

NOBODY is more misogynistic than fucking radfems. This is so vile I'd expect to see it on 4chan.

You should be ashamed of yourselves. Feminist my ass. Fuck you.

[knifeslidez]

"transandrophobia" people need to read literally any introductory book on intersectional feminism

[anonymocha]

Lucy screenshots cuz I

I HAUVE LOVE-LETTER-FOR-YOU.TXT.vbs. IN MY SYSTEM

+ bobie shot why not

[the-sun-is-also-a-star]

quite literally could not fit this into the comment section of the video logically so im just making a post here because i think its important. not my usual content but idc.

i saw this video today.

and it just. pissed me off beyond belief so i decided to sit and refute every single one of her statements because she's just. wrong. so here we go!

I find this utterly disrespectful and just plain out wrong so I'm going to talk a bit about Islam because by your very directed comments it's clear that it's a religion you see as deeply problematic. Purity culture by definition is a Christian movement. "Religion" does not promote that, facets of Christianity do. Sexual abstinence is not something Islam asks people to strive towards, it simply keeps sexual intimacy within marriage. Virginity has no real hold in Islam beyond not having sex until you are married and this applies to both women and men. There is absolutely no concept of staying completely away from sex in the same way Priests or Nuns do. Women's modesty and sexuality are not patrolled in isolation, in the same way women have what we call an awrah (portion of you body that needs to be covered) men ALSO have an awrah. Just as hijab is mandatory for women, not shaving your beard is mandatory for men. These are indicators of our religion and things we believe bring us closer to God. Do not presume to understand why women wear the hijab. No where in Islam are you condemmed to hell for simply existing. In Islam you are condemmed for ACTIONS in the afterlife, granted you never seek forgiveness for them and even then God may forgive you because He is Most Forgiving. It is unfathomable that you are punished for something out of your control. Not being able to hold the Quran when menstruating has absolutely nothing to do with being "impure" it is simply a state of Wudhu. In Islam we can not pray or hold the Quran unless we are in a state of Wudhu in which we purify ourself with water. There are factors which break wudhu one of which is bleeding. If a man cut himself and was bleeding continuously, he would ALSO not be allowed to touch it. As we are continuously bleeding, we physically can not be in a state of Wudhu. All our Prophets are men because it is historically factual that sometimes no matter HOW hard we fight and HOW logical we sound, some men simply will not listen to a women simply because we are women. There would be people who refused logic just because a women was talking to them, ESPECIALLY during the time in which prophethood occured. In Islam we don't really have religious leaders, we have islamic scholars- called Aalims and Aalimas. There are both men and women scholars. The Prophet (S. A. W)' wife Aaisha (R.A.) famously relayed the MOST hadith (words and behaviours of thr Prophet (S.A.W)) out of all the Sahaba (people who knew the Prophet (S.A.W)). Do not presume you are able to talk for all women when it comes to the fight of feminism. It is in no way true that the only reason we have progressed as women is because we "strayed from religion" when my religion has only made me believe in feminism more. My greatest role model is a woman who fiercely protected my Prophet (S.A.W) in battle. I didn't come in here for a fight, but do not make broad statements about "religion" when you are blatantly wrong. If your problem is with people and the way they perpetuate misogyny and cover it up with the flimsy shroud of "this is what my religion says" and you take that at face value, then thats not my problem or anyone elses. People are flawed. My religion is not.

[conceptofjoy]

looking at thr ocean and. i think i know why hic did that.

[drunkenclown555]

HUGE AND HONESTLY PROBABLY REALLY TRIGGERING RANT/VENT UNDER READ MORE

Person(s) this is about are blocked so if they see it then that's their own fault for bypassing the block to stalk me.

Also tagging @greasy-ugly-nasty because he's my boyfriend and he defended me through the entire ordeal.

TW/CW: Harsh language, addressing "you" but not targeted at anyone who is supposed to be reading this, ableism and sanism, SA, CSA, grooming and conditioning, rape, incest, abuse, mentioned drugging, misusing feminism to silence male abuse victims, mentioned transphobia and general queerphobia, mentioned triggering (CPTSD, OCD) and flashbacks (CPTSD, DID), dismissal of (trans) men (feelings, experiences, trauma, opinions, identity, ect), guilt tripping (and emotional abuse), ableism/sanism against systems, sanism targeting mania, gender essentialism, mistreatment of male abuse victims, victims being talked over, villainization of grooming and conditioning victims, villainization of "bad" victims, villainization of disabled/mentally ill people, villainization of "bad" trauma responses, probably more so read at your own risk and take care of yourself, thank you.

^ Woman who called a male grooming, rape, abuse and incest survivor an enabler* and misogynist** while he was actively having a mental breakdown about people being absolutely disgusting*** to male abuse victims

* Also called my bf (grooming, abuse and rape survivor) an enabler (because shes convinced you should just be able to snap out of it and man up or whatever the fuck)

** She tried to make it out like I was "talking about misandry when I specifically said " people who call themselves misandrists" (two very different things, which is why I specified)

*** See: victim blaming, justifying/celebrating abuse, shaming, vilifying, minimizing, ignoring, silencing, sexualizing and romanticizing, ect ect, so on so forth.

Insane superiority complex on this lady I dont even fucking care anymore, stop acting like your shit doesn't stink, you aren't a feminist you're just repackaging misogyny and using it against people you deem evil or lesser (cough cough, men, especially vulnerable men and queer men, cough cough). Gross as all hell. Rich people piss me off sooo bad, get off your inebriated equine (high horse).

Bringing this beautiful poem back too because it really fucking fits this whole "I know more than you about the very thing you've experienced because I am smarter than you and if you disagree then you're aggressive/stupid/childish/bigoted" mindset she has going on.

Imagine trying to faux-intellectual therapy-speak "I know more than you"-argue with a mentally disabled person with dyslexia and dysphasia. Thinly veiled ableism at its "finest", truly. Also telling someone with moral OCD they're a bigot for finally standing up for themselves? Dude just slap proud sanist in your bio and gtfo you're disgusting.

I'm so happy I dont have to tiptoe when talking about literally anything and walk on fucking eggshells anymore, I'm so happy I'm not waiting for you to yell at me for being dumb or selfish or whatever, I'm so fucking relieved this stupid "friend"ship is over. You didn't give a fuck abt me at any point, I was just an obedient doormat and attack dog. Using me like your fucking token transsexual, the fucking audacity to pretend I didn't respect you when you could literally blame me for shit that wasn't my fault and I'd apologize because of how much I respected your judgement.

"This friendship isn't built on respect", yeah no shit, it sure as hell isn't me disrespeting you tho. Writing off me having a mental breakdown as me being sensitive/unreasonable/aggressive and acting like the only thing you did wrong was "Mix two different friend groups". I didn't (and honestly probably still don't) have a problem with your friends (except Rhaa for the thinly veiled transphobia). Acting like I was being aggressive when I asked them not to react to me venting with question marks when I specifically went out of my way to not be mean Oh you fucking hate my guts lmao.

Continuing to push me to "talk" (argue with you) after I told you like four times that I was actively manic and having a mental health episode that made me unable to express what I was thinking and that I didn't want to talk (argue with you) because I was manic and then saying I should have "thought about that before I said inflammatory shit/vented at all"??? Like idk if you know this miss "I'm better than everyone" but when you are actively having a manic episode and a mental breakdown you dont really fucking think too much!!! Considering the fact YOU'RE MANIC AND HAVING A MENTAL BREAKDOWN. Not even mentioning the fact I WAS trying to be calm and collected and articulate myself despite how hard it fucking was. Like way to out yourself as not knowing shit (or giving a shit!) about severe mental illnesses. You dont fucking know shit so stop pretending you do, its embarrassing and quite honestly ableist and sanist. Fucking get a grip.

Also dont even get me started on the "well he should have thought about it before talking" when my BF told you I was especially sensitive about the topic you were arguing at me about at the moment due to the fact I very recently formed an alter who literally only exists to make me relive being sexually and physically abused and most likely fucking drugged. How fucking dare you honestly! You don't know what DID is like! You don't know what C-PTSD flashbacks so vivid you cry and scream and puke are like! I fucking hate singlets so much!!! How dare you, as a singlet, try to claim that a system needs to "calm down" after YOU triggered them! I'd be impressed by how confident in yourself you are if you weren't being such a fucking dick! The nerve, honestly!

Your comfort when talking about things you haven't experienced and TALKING OVER people who HAVE experienced it is fucking concerning. The fact you, as a cis woman, felt so incredibly comfortable talking to a male rape, grooming and incest survivor like you knew more than him on the topic is actually fucking nauseating. You aren't a man, you aren't a male rape survivor, you aren't a male incest survivor, you aren't a male grooming survivor.

I know damn well this whole fucking mindset you have is because you dont think men can be victims, you wouldn't have said shit if I was a woman or if the topic was about women. Pretending you're a feminist when you're actually contributing to the exact rape culture your swear up and down that you hate is fucking disgusting. This mindset is the exact reason boys and men who are raped dont speak out, because people like you think they're "lesser" victims. You are contributing to the culture that made ME refuse to open up about being groomed and raped. That is the culture YOU have chosen. The one you are so proud of that you're willing to berate a grooming, rape and incest survivor because he DARED to disagree with you. You are a horrible person and I want you to realize that before you go full fucking gender essentialist "men and boys deserve it."

TLDR: The person claiming I'm an enabler because I got groomed is an actual enabler.

[steelycunt]

kill the idea that everyone, even people who do not like her, secretly and inevitably harbours some kind of grudging respect toward some aspect of taylor swift. we do not

[cognitiveinequality]

finding out that j kenji-alt videos are exactly my jam after hearing people rave about him for several years kind of feels like the first time i watched Casablanca and realized it's exactly as good as everyone had been telling me my entire life.

[beneathsilverstars]

thinkign about oc gender headcanons