#obj: baby

[man-made-object]

hey dude I found your blog today (not sure why it was recommended to me but here I am)

I dont personally identity with objectum or finding that sort of pleasure from objects, but as I'm exploring the tags im finding myself really curious and I want to understand more. I'm hoping you can answer some questions for me.

the objects you have an attachment to (in your case I think its a keyboard), do you think you're naturally drawn to these objects, or do you think there is a deeper connection with these particular items? Such as a personal history with said item?

Did you "choose them" or did they "choose you", ig?

Do you think its an aesthetic attraction to said objects, or is there something more they bring to you?

How do you and others determine pronouns for the objects?

When did you learn objectum was what you identified with?

I want to be clear this is coming from a place of curiosity and a wish for an understanding! I find myself drawn to certain objects myself (mainly things with physical buttons and screens, particularly handheld devices) but for me its strictly aesthetic and not romantic. Take care and happy holidays ✌️

casually forgets this was sitting in my inbox 😳

my main object isn't a keyboard, it's an astrolite (made by hasbro in 1969), a "futuristic" toy that came with clear pegs that you could put in the holes on top and create a city (main draw). i feel like it's extremely obscure, there's barely any info online about it. the part of aster that i love is basically just a lamp, plug that sucker in (no on/off switch) and spin the wheel to make the pegs on top turn different colors. when i got aster it was just them, no pegs or information or anything. just a serial number on the back. finding that one ebay listing that told me everything i needed to know kinda solidified our relationship. it's definitely a deeper connection but lamps in general just kinda hit different.

i saw them in that store and it was true love at first sight but i'd like to say it goes both ways (has no idea how to explain this)

something about corners and shapes is what initially drew me in but they've been with me through everything ever since i got them. not trauma dumping on side but i've been through it.

i'm not sure how others do it but the way i do it is test pronouns with each object as i'm getting to know them. if it feels wrong i disengage with it, if they feel okay then i keep trying it out. i'm not 100% sure on what aster's pronouns are tbh; they mainly go by he/him but there are some occasions where he goes by they/them. including now.

it's kinda embarrassing to admit but that lamp in dhmis was what got me acting up about objects in the first place. thought it was just a character specific thing at first so i didn't think much of it. met/acquired aster and that completely flipped. i remember searching for stuff like "i love an object what is this called" and quickly came across the term. immediately applied that to myself.

also another thing, i actually have a few beloved objects (not as much as aster but they're pretty important to me): baby, my 2005 ford focus, and charlie, my gaming computer. ofc you probably know this already because i know i posted a list of them somewhere on this blog. but i've kinda been getting into nintendo consoles/controllers recently (corners and shapes <3)

i enjoyed answering these! if there's anything else you'd like to ask, go ahead ☺️ sorry that this took so long tho 😭

[t-s-n]

got tumblr up on my ps vita

[all-about-that-rec]

Chapters: 38/? Fandom: The Mandalorian (TV), Star Wars - All Media Types Rating: Mature Warnings: Graphic Depictions Of Violence Relationships: Din Djarin/Jaster Mereel, Jango Fett/Obi-Wan Kenobi, Din Djarin & Jango Fett, Din Djarin & Obi-Wan Kenobi, Din Djarin & Grogu | Baby Yoda, Din Djarin & Boba Fett, Din Djarin & Paz Vizsla Characters: Din Djarin, Jaster Mereel, Jango Fett, Obi-Wan Kenobi, Grogu | Baby Yoda, Myles the Mandalorian (Star Wars), Original Mandalorian Characters (Star Wars), Plo Koon, Quinlan Vos, Tholme (Star Wars), Boba Fett, Paz Vizsla, Fennec Shand Additional Tags: Time Travel, Hurt/Comfort, Din Djarin Needs a Hug, Force-Sensitive Din Djarin, Touch-Starved Din Djarin, Soft Din Djarin, Din Djarin Deserves Nice Things, Season 2 Left Me Wrecked Both Physically And Emotionally, adding tags as I go, Jaster Mereel Lives, The Haat Mandalorians Love Din Lol, Palps Can Go Suck An Egg, No Beta We Die Like Fucking Palpatine Should Have, Fix-It, Podfic Welcome, Past Abuse, not qui-gon jinn friendly Series: Part 1 of Oya Manda'lor! Summary:

After giving up his child to Luke Skywalker, Din Djarin has found himself without a purpose. Filling in the gaps by completing bounties for Boba Fett, Din comes across a strange artefact that leaves him stranded in time.

Who knows, maybe Din's complete lack of knowledge of the world outside of the outer rim will lead to the fall of the empire before it even begins...

Warning: A loooot of swearing!

[starheirxero]

i was on BGS and i find this cool computers, i think you will like it

Sorry if the pictures are blurry, my tablet hasn't the best camera

WWHQOAUUAHUAHHAAQ!!!!!!!!!!! OH MY STARS THESE ARE AWESOME.

I GENUINELY THOUGHT THE MORTAL KOMBAT ONE WAS LIKE AN ACTUAL PERSON-SIZED ATTRACTION AND WAS SO CONFUSED UNTIL I SAW THE FANS. THESE ARE GORGEOUS BEYOND BELIEF. THE CREATIVITY AND CRAFTSMANSHIP OF THE FIRST TWO AND STARS THE ARRANGEMENT AND COLORS OF THE LAST TWO……

ISAC U WERE SPOT ON THESE ARE RIGHT UP MY ALLY I OWE U MY LIFE

[simsmedieval-fantasy]

Castaway Kids/Nursery Items Set of 4 by lhawk07

[1991diamondaries]

[earthtoharlow]

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thatgirlstacey: this throwback of me and Willow is giving me baby fever! 🫣

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user: oh

user: we don’t need anymore harlows running around

user: she was so little!!

jackharlow: let’s practice!

user: smh

user: that man has no shame

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theshaderoom: OOP! Looks like Y/N Y/L had something to say about men who cheat! She goes on to say that women are naturally more loyal than men? 👀 Do y’all agree?

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user: she’s right!!!!

user: she should’ve said everybody cheats

user: sounds like something a cheater would say

user: she needs to get over what Jack did

user: dumb ass

user: women cheat more!!

yourinsta: I’m not apologizing, I meant that shit

user: how y’all mad she said this when she’s obviously talking about Jack

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yourinsta: COULDA WOULDA SHOULDA…seen it from the ground up proud of you pookie @druski

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user: love y’all

druski: my mf dawg

user: I heard Jack was there

user: I love how supportive y/n is like no matter what happened with her and Jack she still shows up for her friends

user: y’all would be cute together

user: 💜💜💜

URBANWYATT

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urbanwyatt: this shit was so funny! Druski knew what he was doing with the seating arrangements 🙄

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user: oh

druski: why can’t we all just get along!!

user: I heard y/n was sitting on the other side of urb

user: you know you miss Jack !!!

user: and y/n does too 🫣

user: OG members of the Coulda Been

yourinsta: and before y’all start making shit up I was sitting with my HUSBAND and my daughter

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AN: open relationship? 😬

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[shrimp-and-rice]

the uhhhmmhfjjj Ppppapper pmv i use paper for it wooooahhh

[jacky93sims]

Hi Ilenia

Do you mind to convert this functional object from balkanika into sims 2 obj? Its called baby food steamer

https://balkanikabg.tumblr.com/post/708641195869552640/public

Balkanika Baby Food Steamer Deco for The Sims 2

I can't do a functional one so I did a deco version of it. 2k poly. Found in Kitchen Appliances - Miscellaneous.

DOWNLOAD HERE

[hctcheetos]

y’all choose the worst names ever, like i’m scared for y’all offspring…. characters be sounding like they from a twilight movie. “louis archibald” and you an obj faceclaim…. baby, what negro is named that…

[man-made-object]

baby is HOME and DRIVABLE

[glittter-vamp]

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C3xuGWmxwCZ/?igsh=MzY1NDJmNzMyNQ==

Lmao even OBJ is familiar with Joe’s bitchface 😂

LMFAO Joe was like “get me the hell outta here” 😂

Also KD holding up the baby like that!! Baby must have been so confused on why they were 10 feet up in the air all of a sudden 😂😂

[teethands]

a beautiful baby girl named .OBJ

[jrueships]

you asked, you shall receive (also forgive me this is gonna be hella long but also it's ur fault bc u asked for it)

so what i was thinking of was that before the season even starts, hollywood thinks he's gotten over the whole qb-wr-breakup thing quite well. it's been more than a year since he got traded, he got a whole season down with his new team, so he thinks it's all gucci leading up to opening week.

this confidence comes crashing down on him though when the season actually starts, and he sees lamar & obj chopping it up better than they ever did (this is just a bold prediction laced w a lil hope from me but don't mind it). it doesn't help that lamar has really good chemistry with the rest of his brand new receiver core as well, with rashod and especially that rookie zay flowers (who's already been called a "better hollywood" before). it nags at hollywood's pride to see his ex (lmao) thrive without even thinking of him, to the point where he rants to kyler whenever the ravens do something (aka hating because they're good). he tries to keep his feelings at bay until week 8, but inevitably fails once the game rolls around and lamar has that same great chemistry with his receivers (especially obj, but he's like The Notorious B.O.T.T.O.M. so it doesn't matter)

the game goes how the game goes, but after the fact, they do the ole shake hands pat on the helmet thing and hollywood is zoned out most of the time. when he gets to lamar, he tries desperately to avoid eye contact, avoid seeing the shimmering lights of victory (another bold prediction but shhhh) in lamar's eyes. lamar doesn't carry that air of somberness and melancholy that he did during the preseason game last year, he looks like he's moved on from the trade for real and something about it bothers hollywood. basically, the roles are flipped from last time and hollywood hates it lmao

this is mostly from holly's perspective but if you want i could expand a lil more on lamar's side of things (i do think this all messed holly up more than it did lamar but maybe that's my bias as a ravens fan lol)

KARMA KARMA KARMA KARMA!!!!!!! I LOVE IT.

^^a good remind of my thoughts to hone in the irony

YES THOOOOO I LOVE IT. BECAUSE IT'S HOLLYWOOD'S 'BLAME IT ON THE BUSINESS. IT'S JUST BUSINESS. IT'S NOTHINF PERSONAL KID, HEH.' coming back and EGGING HIM ON THE FACE x10 OVER. Like he already got the shell of it with the whole thing accidentally hurting lamar's feelings and then relationship with the organization for a bit.. but those could be not exactly excused.. but have their damage diminished by the necessity cause of business. Hollywood's not the bad guy... the BUSINESS is! Hollywood's not responsible, doesn't need that weight, can't bear the weight anyways... the BUSINESS IS! the business CAN!

... and now, the business is Actually playing a role, without Hollywood forcing it to. Now, it says 'you know what? You want us to play the bad guy? .... Aight. Check this then.'

Quarterbacks need new wide receivers after their old (trustworthy) (best friends) Ditch them, so. All business did was get Lamar some. All business did was step up where Hollywood couldn't because business holds the power and the responsibility and Hollywood? Does not.

And if one of those wide receivers happen to be THE notorious B.O.T.T.O.M, old dirty bastard O.B.J?

That's just business, baby.

As it's .. 'apparently' always been. So why have the nerve to complain now, marquis? Hm? Seems a bit . Suspicious .

And clearly, Lamar is doing okay. No, more than ok, Better. He's doing WAY Better. And that's what was wanted, right? By business, anyways. And by personally, it should be too. By good people. And business isn't good people... so why does it get the positives? The Bad Guy?

... maybe because it wasn't.

At least in the beginning, anyways.

But Hollywood doesn't wanna think about that. And he doesn't want to think about how funny he feels about seeing Lamar so happy now... WITH OTHER PEOPLE, i mean. That's the problem. The ONLY problem. It's with other people. He's happy when Lamar's happy because he loves lamar and hes the kind of good person that loves that his lover is happy. He can do that. He doesn't have to FORCE himself to be good. He's not a bad person, no- fuck. He's not . Selfish. IT WAS THE BUSINESS. OKAY? IT WAS AN EXECUTIVE BUSINESS DECISION ON HIS PART. for his CAREER.

So he's not sore at all about leaving. He's not sore about some 'better Hollywood' on the- HIS old team now. He doesn't care about some new young wr core. And obj will probably pull some diva shit soon enough or whatever. He. Presumes anyways. Or... hopes, moreso- NO FUCK. HE DOESN'T HOPE. THAT WOULD BE- it's just- well. I mean. If something WERE to happen then well- so be it...........

Anyways. It doesn't matter. He doesn't. He doesn't care. Because clearly. Lamar doesn't either, anymore.. and hollywood Definitely doesn't care about that....... because if, and this is an IF, he METAPHORICALLY DID . . he would miss it. He would miss it like a horrible person would AND HE DOESN'T ! BECAUSE

HOLLYWOOD

ISN'T

A

HORRIBLE

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[objectlovingobject]

hi can I ask? do non objectum people get like “EEEE that’s my baby/boy/girl theyre mine!!! They’re talking about them !! I love them!!” whenever u see people with or talking about your object (fictional or irl) bc idk if it’s a hyperfix but u know when wirh crushes people get giddy *kicks legs* “flustered” almost… that’s me with this (fictional) object! but idk if that’s something people who aren’t objectum can get or notttt? like does that mean it’s ok to use the obj label? idk what to call this kind of attachment to an object like what kind of attraction this is so confusing! where’s the line between liking/admiring an object vs attraction in an objectum way? I’m talking about a fictional weapon btw. how do u also know when u find a person interacting w an object attractive vs the object itself :/ ah do u have any input?

I will be real this was a bit hard for me to read but i will try to answer as best i can!

Personally, as someone who is objectum and ficto, i get a little giddy when i see ppls talking abt my objects(like. I used to watch reviews of the pc model that vance(my significant object) is) ^^ i feel like its possible to be obj for a fictional object! Just like how non osor ppl can be attracted to fictional humans ^^ im not sure if i was much help though aha~

:3 feel free to send a follow up if you need to!

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theshaderoom: #TRSReactionz Oop! It looks like a video has surfaced that seemingly shows Drake and Latto’s 21-year-old sister #BrooklynNikole leaving dinner. Drake’s wife Y/N Y/L haven’t been seen together since last month. Is there trouble in paradise for the newlyweds? Last Week Y/N posted a photo of her dancing to Sexyy Red’s hit song Bow Bow Bow! #Roomies, what y’all think? (SWIPE)

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user: someone said 21 can you do something for me 😂😂😂

user: drake falls in love every 4 business days

jackharlow: 🙃

user: poor y/n

user: she looks way older than 21

user: damn drake beefing with everyone including his baby moms

user: y/n just needs to be single

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thatgirlstacey: see what happens when you don’t mind your own business

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DRUSKI

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druski: 🌹

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user: what

user: please get your hands off my wife

user: no fucking way

thatgirlstacey: LMAO

user: Drake is already going through so much, now this

user: she nasty af

user: idk they kinda cute

urbanwyatt: dawg…

YOURINSTA

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yourinsta: what kind of water they serving in clay co?

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user: oh

user: I know Jack feel stupid

user: so you not beefing with your husband?

user: Stacey too

champagnepapi: 😮‍💨😮‍💨

user: you aren’t even from Atlanta….

user: bitches wanna be from the hood so bad

Latto777: 🌹🌹🌹🌹

yourinsta: I was born in Kentucky but I was raised in Atlanta…and no I’m not beefing with my husband nor dating druski 🙄

yourinsta: and I posted that video dancing to bow bow bow because I like that song and the timing was perfect 🫣

champagnepapi: 🙄

champagnepapi just added to their story!

An: it’s been so long I’m sawrii this has been in my drafts for monthsssss enjoy 🫶

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