#not sure how to tag this even

[minisophia]

Consider: globalization sucks in a lot of ways - at least, how it's used by wealthy capitalists to exploit laborers and extract natural resources without the consent of Indigenous groups, etc etc - but in this day and age, it is so much easier to be a truly "global" citizen and partake in as many cultures as you like. The internet makes it possible to learn about anything, and you can buy items from almost anywhere.

Why wear just Western clothes when you can buy a sari? Or a kimono? Or a hanfu? You can support creatives making a living selling their cultural clothes, and have such a bombass wardrobe, too.

There was an African clothing store in my mall that I passed a bazillion times but finally went in one day, and when I finally went in, I was so glad that I did. I left with a gorgeous shirt, an amazing headwrap, and a whole two-piece outfit. They get many compliments whenever I wear any of them.

My wife and I wore hanfu to our wedding. Why? Because she adores hanfu and finds them to be the height of fashion. She also has always wanted to wear hanfu alongside me. Is she Chinese? Am I Chinese? Nope.

Same goes for music. I love listening to K-pop and I don't speak a lick of Korean. I recently have gotten into Northern African rock, and it fucking slaps.

I do belly dancing (that's a very Western term, but it's really called raqs sharqi) that's mixed with flamenco. I want to learn Argentine tango and Brazilian samba so bad one day. I'm also very interested in learning how to properly twerk.

It goes on and on for all the art and media you can consume... don't let subtitles stop you from watching that foreign media. Yes, taking the time to read subtitles and experiencing the media in the original language makes a difference, imo. Dubbing ain't the same.

Don't let claims of cultural appropriation stop you from partaking in other cultures. We live in such a beautiful, diverse world and it's so much better to celebrate it. It allows for so much more connection.

In a globalized world, cultural appropriation is inevitable. It's part of cultural exchange. Just don't act like you invented stuff you didn't (which is the problem with how American white people tend to engage with Black culture, for example. It's not internet speak, it's AAVE). Take the time to learn about the cultures you engage in, talk to those people, educate others. And you're golden.

I also love how this fits with having an internationalist view of politics. I want to care and be invested in humanity far beyond the made-up borders of my country. I want to be able to connect with people all over. And funny how learning about other cultures broadens your views, reduces bigotry, and generally makes you more accepting and open. Just a thought.

[areyouscaredyet]

im not particularly religious but i think it’s very cute that Trans Day of Visibility and Easter are on the same day this year :)

its no question that something like this could be triggering or upsetting to a number of queer ppl given the current sociopolitical climate, so i want everyone to remember that u are loved! Regardless of what u or others believe, there are ppl who will love and support you always. Give yourself patience and treat yourself with care!!!

happy and peaceful TDOV everyone!! And Easter to those who celebrate :D

[turtleblogatlast]

Leo learns something about himself 🏳️‍⚧️

Based roughly on this old post.

Bonus:

[Leo is taking the fact that he was born biologically female simultaneously very well and also not so well but overall he’s mostly coping with the fact that it was Draxum that just essentially gave him the turtle equivalent of ‘The Talk’.]

[latenightsundayblues]

Or however it is this is supposed to work

[ruporas]

how to guide your mossball (ID in alt)

[smoolio]

Been a while since I drew him! May draw Polites doing.. well y'know what, YOU tell me what he's doing and if it's funny I'll draw it. Lol

[remxedmoon]

y’know what? fuck you. *UNGRAYSCALES YOUR ISATS*

no wait come back there’s greyscale versions under the cut :(

[lucabyte]

"So what's the weirdest possible first (second) impression Loop could make on the party in postcanon?" "Yeah, that, probably."

+ Bonus

theyre just standing there in direct party order while this happens. normal tuesday.

[egophiliac]

this is basically what happened, right?

(these guys are very lucky that everyone at NRC 1) has the combined intelligence of a sack of bricks, and 2) is easily distracted by shiny things.)

[feelo-fick]

it can't be too hard right?

it's easy not to think about things, he tells me i don't think all the time! wait...

—

a scene from a fic that i have no clue if ill finish, let alone post, but look i made fanart of my own thing that doesnt even exist :D

[obsob]

the accolade ( the...the cat-olade...)

[one-chaotic-neautral]

Arcane ships ranked, for fun

The main ships and some rarepairs I've found, I like pretty much everything in the first 4 rows. I probably missed some but idk what they are and I'm too lazy to add more rn.

feel free to add your thoughts or ships but again its just for funsies :)

[graintourette]

classic doctor who: the doctor and the master have some sort of a complicated relationship. they were once friends, now they are rivals. every second writer wants to make them brothers

modern doctor who: soo the nature of their relationship is definitely something more than just ex-friends... they have a certain tension that we love to explore. every writer ships them

doctor who wilderness era: yeah you got it right they fucked. OBVIOUSLY

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

If Jin Ling is bald because WWX cursed Jin Zixuan then why are Jin Guangshan and Jin Guangyao bald🤔🤔

Jin Ling was always going to be bald, Wei Wuxian's curse was just an accidental prophecy that will haunt Jin Zixuan for exactly one month.

[fremedon]

Back in 2014, I did a panel at CON.TXT on dubious consent tropes: sex pollen, fuck or die, omegaverse, and so on. And we talked about how the same tropes can carry different kinds of narrative weight, and how the ways they're used have evolved over time--how tropes that started out as a way to get around the rape culture assumption that Nice Girls Don't were repurposed to interrogate rape culture. By making the coercion external to all parties to the sex act--by removing culpability--they allow for rape and rape culture stories without rapists.

And I proposed that a lot of these tropes were also coming to be used in ways that read as allegories for the impossibility of resisting the conditions of late capitalism. A character is placed under complete social or biological constraint, with no power to escape or fight or do anything but submit, and their only choice is whether to submit gracefully or make a token and futile resistance. And that their decision to make the experience something they want--to claim whatever good they can in it--is an act of power. That to consent, even internally, and make it meaningful, even when they have no way to enforce a refusal, is an act of power.

Because it was a panel on dubcon, and saying Yes is what differentiates dubcon from noncon, in fiction, we talked mostly about stories where the protagonist says Yes; we talked about these consent tropes as allegories for the ways that people do, in fact, find good in conditions they cannot opt out of. People do build good relationships under rape culture. They build communities under late capitalism. These things do happen, outside of fiction, and a story about someone reconciling to life as an omega can have a lot to say about the complicated internal struggles people go through to make them happen.

We didn't talk so much about the flip side of these tropes--that by making that internal Yes meaningful, even in circumstances where No has no power, they also imply that there is meaning in No, even where it has no effect. They validate the worth of an internal resistance, even where it achieves nothing. Maybe we mentioned it? I don't even remember--it was a panel on dubcon, not noncon, and that internal No has the power to change the genre, if nothing else.

I am thinking now, though, about the rise within fandom of a purity culture that strenuously rejects these tropes--while also granting them remarkable power. That claims that, because real life does not have the distinction possible in fiction between dubious consent and nonconsent, that not only is fictional dubcon no different from fictional rape, it's no different from real rape. That returns culpability to these stories and places it firmly with the author. That says that a fictional character cannot consent, to anything--and that the real author, being the only person involved with actual moral agency, owes it to the character to keep them safe.

To exercise moral choice on their behalf.

To say No, in the fictional world where that No is meaningful, and to imbue that No with an irresistible moral weight in the real world.

At any rate I'm not saying the crowd that thinks not voting to withhold their consent from things done in their name is somehow a meaningful form of protest just needs to read some sex pollen about it. But I'm not not saying that.

[trauma-bot]

sin eater