#not about anyone here

[ali3nboyfriend]

worst relationship status to have w someone is “objectively they’re a fine person who is nice but i don’t enjoy their company as much as they enjoy mine”

[3v4ng3l1ne]

Someone people genuinely lack empathy and it’s terrifying

[tofu-bento-box]

// serious post

here’s the thing i don’t get: people tell you to communicate your feelings, and then react negatively when you feel something they don’t think you should.

i’m ill in six different directions: my feelings are mostly negative and generally illogical. i get upset for reasons that i know don’t matter in the bigger scheme of things. but i can’t express that anger or hurt, because then people think that i am selfish, and entitled, and a bad friend. on the other hand, though, i’m also bad at hiding my feelings, and saying you’re okay when you clearly aren’t is also rude. so it’s just a constant struggle between “how much can i say to make this person feel that i’m answering truthfully, without them deciding i’m a selfish asshole.”

people tell me that you can’t rationalize away your emotions, and then react with disgust when i can’t do that for “the things that matter.” i’m upset. i know i shouldn’t be, i’m upset that i’m upset, but you sitting there judging me isn’t exactly going to help the situation. i know that whatever’s going on with my friends is more important than how it affects me. but then what does selflessness look like? is it not being upset in the first place, or is it just hiding your expression of your hurt? am i incapable of being a good friend because i can’t keep myself from feeling things i shouldn’t?

i just don’t get people sometimes. it’s like everyone has a rulebook for what’s allowed, and they just forgot to give me a copy. i get told communicate, communicate, communicate, over and over, and everyone forgets to mention what i’m meant to be conveying. because sometimes it really seems that what they want isn’t the truth.

[strawberryblondebutch]

i have GOT to get better at unfollowing and blocking instead of continuing to read things that piss me off

[tannuki-in-training]

hey guys :))))) when a disabled person asks for accommodations :)) can we stop saying "oh i just want to push you outside of your comfort zone a little!" please? :))))) thanks :))

[planetgayanimals]

Did you think that you were sneaky when you went behind my back? Why couldn't you just leave me? I could've gotten over that

[boreal-forest-goth]

the agony of having the Perfect turn all set to go on a daily game in boardgamearea.com and waiting for my opponents to take their turns so I can execute on my plan

[orbees]

I should be paid 1 million dollars everytime I see a really bad post and suppress the urge to write a 938484 page rant about it. even though it is so so bad.

[killerwithknife]

you’re a fake fan and a fraud I hope a big plank falls on your head

[hotvampireadjacent]

I still love you

[goldenspirits]

Do you ever look at someone and think "It's gonna hurt so much when we (inevitably) stop being friends"?

[angelicpawz]

I am so unbelievably upset with an interaction we just had like, to accuse us of something?? And then only care about your own boundaries? this is just unkind and unprofessional in my opinion. We work hard on our emojis/symbols/art because we care about our community.. and genuinely have no time for other emoji creators. If you don't like me/my art/feel uncomfortable then don't interact with me. I owe you nothing and I do not have to be nice to you or give you time of day. I'm all for uplifting other creators, but I will not cherry pick them or make them feel small ever.

[duelpawn]

Trying to educate yourself and being insulted for it really shows how important it is for us minorities not to receive well meaning people with such hostility, because god is it discouraging 💥💥

[scaredgirlsilly]

this is kinda selfish but like. idk. at least other people talk about being interested in my music but they. dont. which like. is whatever ig,, but idk. they mean alot to me but i dont think they have ever like. showed any interest in anything ive made,, not even like surface level like "oh whats that :?" idk whatever bluhhhh

[lilyblossoming]

ok this person isnt replying so im assuming our plans are off (we were going to go to look at sanrio stuff)