#not a lack of chemistry/compatibility

[littlestarprincess]

Trying to finish the book before going into the tags but Marius is so dumb and the Cobra is so smart and I feel bad for them both but it's so funny.

[kairos-polaris]

the pain of hating a ship and not understanding why 😭

[nianeyemystic]

Sextrology Synastry Aspects 💘🥵🥰🤭

💛Sun–Moon Aspects💛

✨Sun Conjunct Moon: Deep emotional connection and understanding; the couple feels "at home" with one another. This can lead to a natural and satisfying sexual connection.

✨Sun Sextile Moon: Harmonious balance between one's sense of self and the other's emotional needs. There's mutual respect and attraction, with an ease in communication and intimacy.

✨Sun Square Moon: Emotional tension that can lead to powerful sexual chemistry, but may also require work to balance personal needs with the relationship's demands.

💜 Venus –Mars Aspects 💜

✨Venus Conjunct Mars: The classic aspect of attraction and passion. There’s strong sexual magnetism and mutual desire.

✨Venus Sextile Mars: Balanced erotic attraction and a sense of playfulness in love. This aspect promotes sensuality and sexual compatibility.

✨Venus Trine Mars: Similar to the sextile, but with even more ease. Natural chemistry and an intuitive understanding of each other’s desires.

✨Venus Square Mars: A tense but potentially highly sexual aspect. This can lead to passionate, hot-and-cold dynamics, with a push-pull effect in the sexual attraction.

❤️‍🔥Mars–Pluto Aspects❤️‍🔥

✨Mars Conjunct Pluto: Intense, transformative sexual energy. This aspect fosters a deeply passionate, sometimes obsessive, attraction.

✨Mars Sextile Pluto: A sexual connection that is both empowering and magnetic, often with a deep emotional bond.

✨Mars Trine Pluto: A harmonious, yet intense sexual attraction with a focus on shared power dynamics and emotional depth.

💕 Venus–Pluto Aspects 💕

✨Venus Conjunct Pluto: Extreme passion and attraction. This aspect suggests an intense, transformative relationship, often with a deep sexual connection that transcends the surface.

✨Venus Sextile Pluto: Erotic chemistry that may not be as overwhelming, but still very deep. There's a sense of profound intimacy and attraction.

✨Venus Trine Pluto: A stable yet passionate sexual attraction that may grow deeper over time, with an emphasis on emotional and sexual fulfillment.

💚 Sun–Venus Aspects💚

✨Sun Conjunct Venus: A powerful aspect for love and attraction, often associated with a deep romantic and sexual connection.

✨Sun Sextile Venus: A loving, easy connection that brings warmth and affection, with a sexual bond that flows naturally.

✨Sun Trine Venus : A harmonious and mutually satisfying connection that brings joy and pleasure in both physical and emotional realms.

💛Moon–Mars Aspects💛

✨Moon Conjunct Mars: A highly charged emotional and sexual attraction. There can be a raw, physical connection, but it may also lead to emotional volatility.

✨Moon Sextile Mars: Emotional intimacy and passion align, with a good balance of affection and physical desire.

✨Moon Trine Mars: Natural chemistry, with sexual attraction matching emotional needs. There’s a sense of flow in intimacy and mutual satisfaction.

❤️Mercury–Venus Aspects❤️

✨Mercury Conjunct Venus: This aspect fosters affectionate and intellectual connection, where communication flows smoothly, enhancing sexual chemistry.

✨Mercury Sextile Venus: A loving, easy exchange of ideas and affection that leads to a comfortable and sensual sexual connection.

✨Mercury Trine Venus: Similar to the sextile, but with even more ease. There’s natural harmony in how each person expresses affection and desires.

💘Venus–Uranus Aspects💘

✨Venus Conjunct Uranus: Exciting, unconventional sexual chemistry that can be electrifying but unpredictable. There’s a sense of sexual freedom, but it can lack stability.

✨Venus Sextile Uranus: A dynamic, exciting attraction that brings an element of surprise and novelty to the relationship’s sexual aspects.

✨Venus Trine Uranus: A harmonious yet stimulating attraction with a desire for adventure and variety in the bedroom.

🩵Neptune–Venus Aspects 🩵

✨Venus Conjunct Neptune: A dreamy, idealistic sexual connection, often marked by deep sensuality and spiritual attraction. However, this can sometimes lead to illusions or unrealistic expectations.

✨Venus Sextile Neptune: Romantic and artistic love, with a sensual, almost mystical connection. The sexual bond feels transcendent and magical.

✨Venus Trine Neptune: A deeply romantic and sexually fulfilling connection with an emphasis on emotional and spiritual compatibility.

🩷Saturn–Venus Aspects🩷

✨Venus Conjunct Saturn: A serious, committed bond that may be slow to develop but leads to deep, enduring affection and sexual chemistry over time.

✨Venus Sextile Saturn: A stable and grounded attraction, with mutual respect and a sense of security in the relationship’s sensual aspects.

✨Venus Trine Saturn: A supportive and mature bond where physical intimacy builds on emotional and psychological security.

❤️‍🔥Moon–Pluto Aspects❤️‍🔥

✨Moon Conjunct Pluto: Intense emotional and sexual attraction, often leading to a transformative and deep bond. This connection can bring both passion and emotional intensity.

✨Moon Sextile Pluto:An emotionally transformative connection, with strong sexual chemistry that can lead to profound intimacy.

✨Moon Trine Pluto: A deep emotional understanding that supports a powerful sexual bond. The couple often feels "psychically" connected.

- @nianeyemystic

[thetrialsandtribulationsofeb]

“you don’t respect buck and eddie’s sexuality if you insist on buddie getting together (like making buck’s bisexuality all about buddie, or ignoring that eddie is ‘straight’ (i can’t not put it in quotation marks))” takes are so fucking stupid, because the writers are literally on board with buddie

they get it, and they’ve been subtly - and not so subtly - hinting at it since the season 7 premiere

the minute they realized eddie was turning out to be gay, narratively speaking, they knew the only right person for him romantically - again, narratively speaking - is buck

and they’ve been planning bi-buck way before they noticed gay-eddie, but when they introduced buck’s bi-awakening, they made sure to show that his new relationship with a man doesn’t click the way it clicks with eddie. they’re cute together, sure, they have chemistry, yes, but it’s constantly highlighted in the show that the only right person for buck is eddie - because he’s just always fucking there, he gets buck like no one else does, their connection is unmatched and this new love interest can’t compare because they’re not meant to be

because the two characters who are meant to be already met each other

i totally respect buck’s bisexuality and how important it is for representation, but i also respect buck as a whole character - and if you respect him that way too, you also understand that buck’s the one is eddie. because it’s been shown across all seasons that eddie is the one person in buck’s life who matches his level of love and his personality

like, it all always comes down to people never actually seeing a proper queer slow burn before because it never really existed - previous queer relationships on screen were either fast-developing, pre-established, or never got a real resolution

so people keep dismissing buddie’s connection as “just friendship”, even though the signs of it being a love story have always been there - with both buck and eddie’s sexualities, and with how they relate to each other

the writers saw it because they’re not stupid. and the way they went about making these characters slowly understand themselves and realize their feelings for each other tells me they’re actually geniuses. there was an insane amount of subtext in s7, and basically plain text in s8

and if you can’t see it, then you’re stupid - sorry not sorry - ‘cause i genuinely can’t comprehend how bt-endgame fans or eddie-straight-truthers can’t see what’s happening right in front of them

we finally got a queer friends-to-lovers story for once, stop whining

every time someone says, “why do people always need to ship characters that are cLeArLy just friends?” i’m like:

‘CAUSE WE NEVER FUCKING HAD THIS TROPE WITH SAME-SEX CHARACTERS. it’s always disregarded, even when it makes perfect sense for the story - because of heteronormativity, homophobia, or a general lack of understanding of queer sexualities and experiences

so, yes, i root for them. because it’s a smart thing to do. because i can read between the lines. because it’s written in the story, and the story doesn’t make any sense otherwise. because it’s there in the chemistry between the actors, and in the compatibility between the characters

[sk-lumen]

Date by honoring your nervous system.

This took me a long while to realize, but once I did, it changed how I see dating and chemistry. Let me explain.

When you realize that chemistry and flying sparks have zero correlation with compatibility, you've leveled up your dating mindset.

Most often those sparks and butterflies you feel, that's your subconscious picking up on familiar toxic patterns in the other person. Patterns which remind you of past experiences or even childhood trauma. Our brains are designed to see familiarity as safe, so when toxic dynamics are all you know, this can turn against you. You have to conscious rewire your brain, and be intentional and aware of how they make you feel.

Toxicity = familiar = safe = we interpret it as attraction. If they make your nervous system go haywire, we see this as chemistry and sparks flying, but it is actually alarm bells going off to signal we are not safe.

Healthy = unfamiliar = can feel unsafe and scary. We may interpret a vanilla, calm, comfortable interaction as a lack of chemistry. But there is a difference between no physical attraction, and being attracted to someone but not feeling any sparks. The latter is normal in the beginning. If your nervous system feels calm, they make you feel comfortable and at ease, that's a good sign!

So if there's any advice I would give to my younger self, it's this: date based on how he makes your nervous system feel. Does he make you feel safe, comfortable, at ease? That's the green flag to go for.

-Lumen

[no-psi-nan]

I'm not a fan of soulmates in romantic fiction because it's basically arranged marriage with extra supernatural noncon/dubcon elements.

However, in the Saiki universe, the soulmate connection seems to lack pretty much all of those problematic elements.

We have to do a little extrapolating from what we see in canon since this aspect of Aiura's powers is not covered in detail, but:

Soulmates do not seem to be guaranteed to ever meet, considering the fact that Aiura specifically looked up her soulmate and that one guy who was linked to someone in a remote African village that would almost certainly never cross paths with him.

Being with your soulmate is completely optional, otherwise Aiura wouldn't bother providing relationship scoring and just tell each person to go find their soulmate. This allows for a lot of narrative opportunities to explore why someone would consciously choose to not be with their soulmate, and also opens up the door for polyamory.

Soulmates do not instantly fall in love, and are not forced to stay in love by any supernatural powers. Aiura didn't think anything of Saiki until he flawlessly saved Yumehara's life like 10x in a row, and Saiki certainly didn't fall for Aiura right away either. They fought over their values strongly enough that it would've been a breakup if they'd ever been together.

Soulmate status just seems to indicate particularly good chemistry, and like the rest of Aiura's powers, is purely informational and not determinative. Presumably soulmates have the highest possible compatibility scores, and it's kinda cool that it seems guaranteed there's at least 1 person out there who will jive with you, but also plenty of other people you can connect with to various degrees.

With Saiki and Aiura specifically, it's shown that Saiki can change the future Aiura sees as soon as he hears about it. It may even be possible for him to change the soulmate determination, and he certainly could've used Time Leap to fool Aiura into thinking someone else was her soulmate if he was really opposed to the concept. She had scryed it recently, so the butterfly effect shouldn't be a challenge.

But they do work so smoothly together with their powers complementing each other, and Saiki is kind of a lonely romantic tsundere at heart, so it makes sense that he would let the soulmate thing play out and yet test the connection by pushing Aiura away as much as possible.

Actually, considering that Saiki can't control people's actions directly (and that he sucks at trying to control people indirectly), the strongest noncon/dubcon force in the Saikiverse shockingly appears to be Teruhashi's beauty.

The only male character that doesn't seem at all affected by Teruhashi's powers is Hairo, most likely because of his heavily implied homosexuality. Women attracted to other women are also impacted by her power, as seen with Aiura.

While Saiki says that married people aren't affected by Teruhashi, Kuniharu does actually show several signs of being affected by Teruhashi, and so does Kumagoro.

All affected people instantly fall in love with her on sight, no exceptions.

Critical thinking ability appears to drop precipitously when it comes to her, with her fans accepting that she had a secret child with Saiki despite being in school with her every day and that she can just choose not to poop for a week. More effective mind control than anything Saiki can do tbh.

The instant Saiki loses some of his powers, he starts being affected by Teruhashi's beauty.

The narrative supports Saiki's theory that Teruhashi is literally favored by God and can affect reality just by hoping for something. The implication that God is (physically??) attracted to Teruhashi and does whatever she wants is.... yikes on several levels. If she asks for someone to love her, do they get a choice in the matter??

Anyways, there are way more elements of noncon/dubcon with Teruhashi ships than there are with actual canon soulmate mechanics in the Saikiverse and that's just such a wild choice by the author lol.

Truly subverting tropes!

[blackcleo7]

Farewell's Journal

1st Entry - Revolutionshipping: a bond beyond time.

Few relationships in Yu-Gi-Oh! carry as much unspoken depth as that between Atem and Anzu.

From the earliest chapters of the manga, Kazuki Takahashi wove a connection between them that was complex, layered, and undeniably magnetic.

Though it never materialized into romance, the chemistry was always there—lingering in stolen glances, quiet moments, and the weight of unspoken words.

Why is Revolutionshipping so special

The dynamic between Atem and Anzu is one of contrasts and complements.

Atem carries the weight of his past and destiny, while Anzu embodies dreams, the future, and the pursuit of something beyond the known. She is drawn to his strength, wisdom, and mystery, while he finds in her a grounding presence—someone who sees him as more than just a ruler or a spirit bound to a puzzle.

Their bond isn’t built on shared childhood memories like Anzu and Yugi’s, but on something more immediate and instinctual—an unspoken understanding that, in another life, in another time, could have been something more.

There’s an undeniable chemistry in their interactions.

Unlike Yugi, Anzu instinctively responds to Atem’s confidence and presence. She challenges him in ways others don’t, and he respects her not just out of gratitude but as an equal. She doesn’t idolize him, nor does she depend on him for protection—she simply sees him for who he is, both as a king and as a person.

In turn, Atem brings out a different side of her. With him, she is both challenged and inspired.

They don’t just complement each other’s strengths; they uplift each other in moments of doubt, creating a bond that is as grounding as it is inspiring.

Their personalities complement each other naturally.

Anzu is ambitious, determined, and unafraid to challenge authority—qualities that align with Atem’s own strength and leadership.

Unlike Yugi, who is more hesitant, Atem meets her at her level, creating a connection built on mutual respect and attraction.

At the same time, they balance each other’s weaknesses.

Atem, despite his confidence, carries the burden of duty and isolation, struggling to express vulnerability.

Anzu encourages him to see beyond obligation and embrace the idea of personal happiness.

Conversely, she sometimes doubts her own path, torn between dreams and reality, and Atem, with his unwavering resolve, reminds her to believe in herself and move forward without fear.

What Anzu and Atem share that Yugi does not

One of the most overlooked yet telling revo moments in the manga is chapter 41.

Anzu and Yugi make a love test with their lovely two, but it doesn’t beep.

When Atem takes over however, the Tamagotchi reacts.

While this may seem like a small detail, it almost feels as if Kazuki Takahashi himself is subtly suggesting their compatibility—after all, why include such a moment if not to highlight a contrast?

Evidence of this can be seen as early as Season 0, where several moments between them were removed, a trend that continued into the 2000s anime adaptation.

This isn’t the only time we see this dynamic.

In the early chapters of the manga, when Takahashi had more creative freedom, there are numerous moments that highlight Anzu and Atem’s unique connection.

As the series progresses, Atem becomes more distant, but this shift seems less like a natural evolution of his character and more like an editorial decision to reinforce his contrast with Yugi.

Why it can’t happen

Atem does not belong in Anzu’s world, just as she does not belong in his.

His very existence is tied to the past, to a destiny that was set in motion thousands of years ago.

No matter how much either of them may wish otherwise, Atem’s journey was always leading him toward one inevitable conclusion—returning to the afterlife.

This is why their relationship remains forever in the realm of “what if.”

Unlike other potential romances, this one is never given a real chance, not because of lack of feelings, but because it was never meant to be realized.

The story itself does not allow it.

Anzu’s development: from attraction to love

Anzu’s feelings for Atem evolve gradually throughout the series. Initially, she sees him as a mysterious, confident version of Yugi—an aspect of him that had always been hidden. In the early manga and anime, she expresses fascination with this other Yugi, believing him to be just another side of Yugi himself. At this stage, her emotions remain tied to Yugi as a whole, rather than recognizing Atem as his own person.

This idea is reinforced in chapter 80 of the manga, where she states that it doesn’t matter which of the two she is with—because to her, they are both Yugi. However, this moment also marks a turning point. As the story progresses, she begins to understand the truth: Atem is not Yugi. He is someone else entirely, with his own thoughts, struggles, and destiny.

Atem is the one who challenges her, who meets her intensity, who resonates with her in a way Yugi never quite does. Even if she never says it out loud, her heart had already chosen.

This realization shifts her feelings from an innocent crush to something deeper—marked by admiration, longing, and an undeniable chemistry.

Though she deeply cares for Yugi, their bond is built on friendship and familiarity rather than passion and attraction.

Atem’s development: from loneliness to the Duat

Atem’s journey isn’t just about regaining his memories—it’s about finding his place in the world and, ultimately, accepting his fate.

And Anzu plays a pivotal role in this.

She is the one who, perhaps more than anyone else, encourages him to follow his heart, even when it means facing the painful truth: his destiny lies beyond this world.

Despite loving him, despite knowing what it will cost her, she chooses to support him. That selflessness is exactly what gives Atem the strength to walk forward.

Through Anzu, Atem learns not just who he was, but who he is.

But beyond the emotional support, Anzu also plays a crucial role in uncovering his past.

Without her, Atem wouldn’t have remembered his true name—one of the most vital keys to his journey.

It is through her that he bridges the gap between his forgotten past and his present self.

The cartouche she gifts him, the name she helps him reclaim… these aren’t just symbolic gestures. They are tangible, irreplaceable moments that lead him to his ultimate resolution.

And when the moment comes for him to step into the Duat, Atem is already resolute in his choice.

The unwavering belief she has always shown in him, the way she has pushed him forward throughout his journey, is part of what gave him the strength to make that decision in the first place.

Even if she can no longer influence his path, her presence in his life has already shaped the person he has become.

And this is where Anzu plays a unique role.

While Yugi cares for Atem, he never truly pushes him to focus on himself.

Instead, he leaves that task to Anzu.

She is the one who doesn’t just stand by his side in battle, but actively seeks out his well-being, making sure that, for once, someone is looking after him.

In this way, Anzu gives Atem something no one else does—the space to be vulnerable, to be human, and to be loved.

Atem’s resolve: holding back.

Despite whatever feelings he may have, Atem is fully aware of his fate.

He is not meant to stay in the present, and he refuses to take anything away from Yugi—including the possibility of a relationship with Anzu. He values Yugi too much to ever interfere with his happiness.

This is another reason why Atem never openly acknowledges any feelings he may have for Anzu.

He knows that if he allows himself to get too close, it will only make leaving harder—not just for him, but for her as well.

His concern for her safety goes beyond that of a simple friend—he takes responsibility for her well-being in a way that is deeply personal.

Despite his restraint, Atem is undeniably protective of Anzu.

Time and time again, he is the first to step in when she is in danger, whether it’s during Duelist Kingdom, Battle City, or even small moments in between.

Her silence speaks volumes. It shows her loyalty to Yugi, her unwillingness to be selfish at his expense.

There’s also another subtle but important detail—Anzu never directly tells Atem about her feelings for him.

This isn’t because she’s uncertain, but rather because she prioritizes Yugi’s feelings over her own.

She knows that if she were to openly confess to Atem, it could deeply hurt Yugi, who has always been there for her. This hesitation isn’t about doubt; it’s about kindness.

Why Yugi supports them

One of the most fascinating aspects of this dynamic is Yugi’s own role in it.

Despite his own feelings for Anzu, he actively encourages her to spend time with Atem, believing that it will help the Pharaoh feel more connected to their world.

And he’s right—Atem does open up more when he’s with Anzu, becoming not just a king or a protector, but a person.

Yugi’s actions can be interpreted in multiple ways.

On one hand, he may simply believe he doesn’t have a chance with Anzu and steps aside out of selflessness.

On the other, Yugi is deeply empathetic—he understands people better than they understand themselves. Perhaps he sees something in Atem that isn’t explicitly stated: a growing attachment, an unspoken longing. It’s possible that Yugi recognizes Atem’s feelings before even Atem himself does, and rather than stand in the way, he allows things to unfold naturally.

Unlike Yugi, Atem is restrained—both by his nature and by his role. People often forget that he is a Pharaoh, a figure bound by duty, where personal attachments have no place.

What makes this even more compelling is that, while Atem and Yugi are opposites in many ways, they are ultimately two sides of the same person. This likely extends to their emotions as well.

If Yugi harbors feelings for Anzu, it’s not unthinkable that Atem does too, even if he is less outwardly expressive about them.

Atem embodies the full weight of that responsibility, to the point where his entire existence is dedicated to protecting others, often at his own expense.

Why Revolutionshipping makes more sense

In the Yu-Gi-Oh! fandom, many fans explore different pairings and relationships between characters. Some of these relationships are clearly romantic, like Yugi’s feelings for Anzu or Jounouchi’s affection for Mai. Even Kaiba’s attachment to the Blue-Eyes White Dragon has romantic undertones, given his past life connection with Kisara. However, when it comes to Atem, there is no definitive indication in the series that he shares romantic feelings for anyone.

Atem’s connection with Yugi is unique and deeply emotional, but it is more akin to that of brothers or two souls bound by a shared destiny. Their bond transcends friendship, but it is not romantic. The connection between them is based on mutual respect and the understanding that they are two halves of the same soul. Their relationship is rooted in a deep, almost spiritual link, rather than any romantic tension.

When we consider Atem’s historical context, things become clearer. Atem is not only the spirit of a pharaoh, but also the reincarnation of Tutankhamun, who was married to Ankhesenamun.

As a ruler in ancient Egypt, Atem’s life and role would have been defined by the expectations of his time—marriage and the need for heirs. This historical perspective further supports the idea that Atem’s connection is naturally inclined toward a romantic bond with a woman.

Given this, it makes more sense for Atem’s romantic potential to lie with someone like Anzu. While Atem never explicitly expresses his feelings in the series, their growing bond over time suggests a connection that could develop into something deeper.

Anzu, with her unwavering support, helps Atem confront his past and come to terms with his destiny, making their relationship one that holds the potential for love.

A love that could never be

Revolutionshipping is a story of love that was never meant to happen. Not because there was no connection, but because fate simply did not allow it.

Atem’s duty was always to return to the past, and Anzu’s future was already planned in the present.

But perhaps that’s what makes their bond so powerful.

It is a love that exists between two people from different worlds—one that could have been, if only time had allowed it.

And sometimes, the most unforgettable love stories are the ones that never truly had a chance.

[princessjojo-x]

1st House Synastry

those who have any part of their ‘big 3’ (sun, moon, rising) in your first house will make a strong first impression on you. first house is related to our individual identity so there’s an immediate recognition for each other. theres an instant attraction & special chemistry, even if partners aren’t conventionally attractive or not each others usual type. although you’ll find their presence memorable & compelling upon first encounters, the rxship can burn out quickly if there’s no foundation beyond that initial spark.

expect to be mesmerised with their looks & demeaner, combined with an obsessive need to know more about them, to be around them, to soak up as much of them as possible, as if to aggressively learn them. however, one partner never quite shows their true self to the other partner, meaning they only see one side of them & only know them to a certain extent.

partners tend to notice & obsess over the tiny details in each other. they'll keep finding little things abt each other that they find enchanting. this creates an effect of falling for each other again & again & again. these enchanting little details build up gradually & partners become completely infatuated with each other eventually. this person will tick all the boxes you’ve been holding inside.

planet feels like house is similar to them in a way - shared interests, ideas, morals, etc. consequently, planet has a natural respect for house & seeks houses approval a lot. planet feels like house moves at the same speed as them, which leads to a sense of trust & comfort in house.

through this connection, house gains new feelings or discoveries abt themselves, for better or worse.

Venus

there may be awkwardness upon first meeting bc house makes venus feels nervous. these partners always look good together aesthetically . their physical appearance just fit perfectly (barbie & ken vybz). both parties make evident the fascination they feel for each others bodies. there is a general adoration simply for who the other person is. venus especially is obsessed & mesmerised by houses appearance. venus finds house physically perfect & irresistible. this will either cause house to feel very seen & loved or cause house to perceive the rxship as superficial & empty. for example, venus being completely turned off just bc house got a bad haircut. also, depending on how low or high venus’s self esteem is, once venus becomes comfortable around house, they may become envious & critical towards houses looks & image. venus may keep making comments on houses body, reminding house of their flaws. venus may feel like house isn’t truly ever enough. house may feel like venus puts them on an unrealistic pedestal & they always have to be “perfect” around venus. this aspect can make either party be in denial abt the breakup or the rejection. they tend to become stalkers, for example lurking on their social media or even following them home.

Mars

due to the aries influence, this is likely a feisty & electric couple, privately & publicly. both parties want to seize the dominant role & one assumes the other likes to provoke them. you may feel the confident & masculine energy emitted by your partner & you’ll either find it arousing or excessive. house may often annoy mars unintentionally & mars may often lack sensitivity towards house. this clash can lead to hurt feelings & even violence. outsiders struggle to understand this complicated dynamic. you may become more verbally combative & physically tense around this person. therefore, this aspect is best for those attracted to assertive & martian energy, otherwise you may view your partner as arrogant or bossy. within this synastry, there isn’t necessarily romantic compatibility but there is definitely physical connection. for example, saying "i hate you" & kissing each other right after. sex is very passionate & powerful, with rough & competitive air. initially, mars is instantly turned on by house & its often a superficial attraction. consequently, mars readily pursues house with a straightforward approach. mars’s passion captures houses attention & house feels either intrigued or irritated. however, if mars has a inferiority complex, due to feeling threatened by house, mars will resist making a move, even though both partners usually struggle hiding their feelings or intentions from one another. house brings out the protective, jealous & possessive side of mars. this partnership may alter houses identify bc mars can motivate & urge house to be the best version of themselves. house develops more passion, assertiveness, confidence, bravery & ambition due to mars’s influence. however, if mars has low self esteem, they’ll become envious & critical towards houses image. mars may keep making comments on houses appearance & reminding house of their flaws. (cancer mars or taurus asc)

Moon

there’s plenty of emotional openness in this caring & gentle rxship. there’s no ‘get to know each other’ phase, partners instantly *know* one another from the first meeting & feel very comfortable around each other. partners easily let the guards down & struggle to keep secrets from one another. partners will be each other's lending ear & lending shoulder. they know eachothers sensitive spots & what topics to avoid. this aspect brings out partners protective side but it’s more of a calm, delicate & emotional protection. for example, worrying abt each others health & well-being. this connection make you more likely to find the other person’s quirks as endearing rather than off-putting. initially, partners are very curious abt one another. they want to see what more there is than what meets the eye. partners may share similarities causing them to understand & accept one another easily. they may have familiar forms of behaviour & mirror each others temperamental tendencies. house holds the ability to easily read moon & house understands moon better than anyone else. since house makes moon feel so seen & heard, moon easily let’s their guard down around house. moon’s openness arouses the nurturing & sensitive side of house. there is something abt the way moon looks or acts that makes house feel immediately safe & calm. (cancer moon or aries asc)

[botanicalsword]

Synastry vs Composite ✧ Summary

Synastry chart analyzes the relationship dynamics between the two. It reflects the overall feel and interaction state of the relationship - evaluates the initial attraction/conflicts

✧ From the early stages of relationships ✧

Highlights:

the issues that two people bring into the relationship

their interaction and chemistry with each other

reveal areas of harmony and conflict.

the most informative chart

may occur automatically without extra effort

the impact of one on the other's career, financial situation, and emotions

A harmonious synastry chart indicates:

Strong mutual attractions and chemistry, are shown by harmonious aspects (e.g. conjunctions, trines, sextiles) between personal planets like the Sun, Moon, Venus, and Mars. This suggests the two personas will have an easy, flowing rapport.

Stable and energetic connections, where planets form stable, long-lasting aspects (not just volatile conjunctions). This helps the relationship maintain intimacy even after the initial infatuation phase.

Conversely, a "challenging" synastry chart suggests:

Lack of compatibility or chemistry, with discordant aspects (squares, oppositions) between personal planets. This foreshadows potential friction and struggles in the partnership.

Absence of planetary aspects or challenging aspects between planets - This can cause the connections to become cold and emotionally detached after the honeymoon stage.

The synastry chart provides important clues about the long-term potential and effort required to sustain the relationship.

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Composite chart provides deeper insights into the long-term potential of a relationship between two people. It reveals whether the couple can confront challenges together.

✧ For public relationships, long-term relationships, or marriage ✧

Highlights:

how the long-term energy between two is perceived by others

the compatibility of your relationship in the eyes of others

how they compromise

how the energy combination is presented

specific nature of the relationship

possible obstacles and contradictions that may arise

the expectations, goals, and purpose of the relationship

Examine how this relationship is perceived by outsiders: 

It serves as a mirror reflecting how others see you both. 

The interactions between important placements in the composite chart, especially challenging aspects, can indicate if the partners can truly support each other and overcome difficulties together.

If the composite chart has severely challenging aspects, the relationship may struggle to be stable and lasting, even if the couple gets married. This suggests it is a karmic lesson rather than a connection built from a foundation of mutual affection and trust.

In summary, the compatibility chart reveals the initial feelings, while the composite chart determines if the two people can face adversity together and have a lasting relationship. These astrological tools offer valuable perspectives for various relationships, not just romantic ones.

✧ Evaluating astrological compatibility is helpful for both partners to understand each other better and prepare accordingly. Let me know if you have any other questions about relationship astrology or need guidance on love, career, finances, or life challenges.

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How they view you in this relationship • Synastry ✧ Part I (extended)

How they view you in this relationship • Synastry ✧ Part II (extended)

Aspects in Synastry Chart • Short notes

Who feels more / Synastry explanation

House synastry observations

Long term relationship

Slow-burn love (Synastry / Composite)

Choosing partner based on House Synastry

3rd House synastry

5th House shows your crushes & love adventures

8th House Masterlist

Mars-Sun synastry • Mars-Venus synastry • Mars-Pluto synastry • Mars in Houses Synastry

Vertex in Synastry

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Venus in 11H • 11th house stellium (Composite)

Indicators for Unbreakable bonding

Davison Chart • will there be reconciliation?

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8th House Synastry ✧ Who is more influenced 

Aspects in Synastry Chart

Synastry Chart • from their perspective 

A Note • to Venus / Pluto Aspect

Theme of relationship •  vibes check on aspects • Part 1

Theme of relationship •  vibes check on aspects • Part 2

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Observations on Composite Chart and Davison Chart

 Challenges in the connection • Davison Chart

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How To Write Romantic Relationships [MASTERPOST]

How do you balance between having emotional and meaningful without also having sappy and cliche?

How do you organically incorperate romance to the plot without having too force it in?

Don't fret my romantically inexperienced little writer! I'm here to help!

A) Make It Meaningful

Look, you can put in all the effort and still have readers not give a f$ck about the romance.

Why is there romance? Is it to create conflict? Illustrate a character's flaws? Is it a fun dynamic?

Make characters individually interesting. Your readers should understand why a character has fallen in love or you will have a riot on your hand! Remember when your favorite character fell in love with the equivalent of cardboard? Not fun. Remember: FLAWS!

The characters should be physically attracted to each other. It's pretty awkward having a romance where one character is just supressing disgust for the other.

The characters should feel emotionally connected.

Unless this is the main focus of the relationship, the characters should share core, fundamental beliefs. They can express these beliefs in different ways but it's awkward trying to ship pacifist x murderer.

Characters either need to share the same level of critical thinking ability or be willing to fall in love with an idiot. By the way, you don't love idiot x smart, you love emotional x stoic, reckless x reserved, or emotionally intelligent x logical.

B) The Meet-Cute Or Meet-Hideous

Now you might be saying, "but my dynamic is "friends/enemies to lovers"! Not strangers to lovers"!

Cool. You still have to understand how they met initially whether that was 5 minutes ago, 5 months ago, or 5 years ago. How two or more characters meet can influence first impressions, expectations for the relationship, and what these characters know about each other.

If two people met with A thinking B is an angel and B thinking A is the most boring person alive, that's a meeting that's definitely going to influence each other's expectations for their relationships and for each other.

Then, if you are writing a couple who met before the beginnings of this story, you also need to investigate their "re-meeting". This re-meeting demonstrates how the relationship is between characters.

Is there tension? Are they breaking apart? Are they meeting after a period seperated?

For strangers to lovers, where characters meet in canon and not pre-canon, a writer needs to focus on the meeting.

What are their first impressions? What is the environment around them? How is everyone feeling? What's the initial dynamic?

Common Pitfalls:

Love at First Sight. Unless you have a story where you are switching between the love interest's perspective, then the only way the audience is going to fall in love with this character is through the protag. And while the protag can fall in love at the blink of an eye, the reader can't. If your audience isn't invested in the characters, that's a problem.

Boring Meeting. Unless the entire point of the meeting is that it's mundane, try to give the meeting significiance.

Lack Of Characterization. Writers often copy the standard rom-com meeting but it does a disservice to your characters. Distrusting characters won't fall in love immediately. Reserved characters won't leave their routine for anyone. Let the meeting be guided by the characters.

C) Romantic Chemistry

In order to make a couple romantically compatible, their traits need to complement each others.

Readers tend to implicitly see the potential two characters could have if they just got together. Having two characters with opposing but balancing characteristics could satisfy this thirst.

Readers understand that a character battling depression is more likely to thrive with someone who provides benefits in relation to the depression whether it's compassion, open-mindedness, or perceptiveness.

D) Conflict

All relationships need conflict! This type of conflict tends to be man vs self, man vs man, or man vs society

Characters are either struggling with their own characters flaws, the external threat of another character, or the interference of society.

Common Pitfalls:

Lack Of Themes. Let the themes you are working with inspire what type of conflict impact the relationship. Don't throw in a plot twist or an inorganic cliche.

Lack Of Grounding. Authors can be so focused on the spectacle of a grand fight that they can loose their characters and the grounded experience of an unstable relationship.

Lack Of Characterization. Whenever authors grab a random conflict, they risk a character acting outside of their parameters which make the move feel shoehorned in.

Lack Of Justification. Don't have the conflict show up out of nowhere! Write little moments where something seems off. Then when these little things pile up, it won't feel shocking but justified.

Lack Of Punishment. Characters shouldn't come out of these moments without questioning their entire existence. Have them re-evaluate their beliefs, expectations, and actions.

Lack Of Power. Give your love interest and your protagonist the chance to air out their grievances. Don't let your characters suffer in silence. Call these characters out on their bs.

E) Actions In Love

Everyone has their own ways of expressing love, so don’t assume that there’s only one right way to write about it. Some characters show their love through physical acts of intimacy such as holding hands and kissing. Some characters compliment. Others show it through grand romantic gestures. Others are more subtle.

Try to weave these little acts of sincerity throughout all of the scenes where your two lovebirds are in love.

[halfhoursonearth-writes]

Can you recommend fanfiction that you personally really like?

Yes! Love this ask. I’ve never made a Zutara fic rec list partially because I’ve read so many wonderful stories over time that I find the prospect daunting! 

But there are absolutely certain stories that I have a personal soft spot for, that I return to again and again. And that’s my criteria for what’s included below. This is a sampling of fics that I find myself coming back to, in no particular order. I may come back and add more, because this list is so far from exhaustive. A mix of ratings (marked), so keep that in mind.

Wish I Was the Moon by Like a Dove (T), post-canon: There’s so much that I love about the way this one-shot explores Katara’s character and what she faces post-canon, how she frees herself, strikes out in the world and finds her way home. Her feelings for Zuko, and her inner-conflict around them, are rendered tangibly, both through scene and subtext. A really good example of how an author can show a character’s lack of/journey to self-knowledge without breaking voice.

Refraction by caroes3725 (E), post-canon: When I started reading Zutara fanfic (for me this was in 2020), this was the fic I was looking for—a deep, realistic-to-canon, in-character exploration of how Zutara could unfold after the events of ATLA in a way that gives Katara in particular the arc she deserves. Really well-done development of the Fire Nation court world, well-developed characters, shining dialogue. An amazingly well-worth-it slow burn.

Wildfire by rainstormdragon (E), post-canon: To me this story is kind of a steamy Zutara thesis. The characters are so spot on and alive, their flaws are on full display in a way that feels realistic, and their chemistry is powered by their compatibility—matched in passion and stubbornness, and also in what they want from life. And I think it really gets Aang, too, which is something that can be hard to find in ZK fic. Also really hot, but that's only part of what makes it really shine.

Partners in Learning by evergreenonthehorizon (T), Modern AU: One of the things I love in modern AUs is watching an author weave that invisible string between these characters. Sometimes, it’s by writing narrative arcs that parallel the series, and sometimes it’s by drawing out the personality traits that make the characters both lovable to readers and such a compelling match and watching that spark bloom into flame. This beautifully written story does that so, so well in a really compelling Modern AU setting. Zuko and Katara here are so wonderfully lovable, and it’s a joy to watch them fall for one another, too.

Journeys by Smediterranea (E), Modern AU: In real life, I want to see my friends in relationships with people who can recognize why they’re so particularly amazing. That potential, I think, part of the appeal of ZK as a ship, and that’s part of the special magic of this fic. Watching these two characters get to know one another—really see one another—and fall in love deliciously sweeps the reader up. Plus, really fun, in character cameos from the rest of the Gaang along the way.

Spark, set fire by marijayne (T), Modern AU: literary fanfic, and I mean that in the best way. This story is beautiful and bittersweet, the latter is not often something I seek out in fanfic (where I hide from life), but here it’s gorgeous and worth it. The world building here is really cool—allows the author to explore some of a set of cultural issues/interactions that both echo the ATLA world and ours. The characters are so tenderly drawn (dadko especially)—and the connection between them builds beautifully and tangibly—and the longing is…chef’s kiss. 

Wrong when it's right by nire (T), Book 1 Canon Divergence: Before I read this, I couldn't imagine wanting to read a Book 1 Zutara. After, I wanted more. Bickering, bed-roll sharing, shared heat, tenderness and common ground. A delight from start to finish.

Anyway, thanks for asking and happy reading! <3 And if you want more recs, let me know.

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hiii i hope you are having a good day/night! ♡ fellow theo raeken apologist here and i love ur fics so much. if you dont mind me asking how do you think thiams chemistry/relationship develops after 6b?

Eep thank you so much!! I really appreciate it :))💕

Okay okay, so I would like to preface this by saying I think there is something inherently imperfect (not in a negative way!) about Thiam as a ship which is partially why I like them? I think and write about them a lot differently now than I used to, partially because with time I’ve started to interpret their compatibility (or lack thereof) in a less idealistic way.

I think I can imagine their relationship being various degrees of both antagonistic and intimate in a way that goes beyond, like…simple romance?

This may sound very cynical but Theo and Liam in s6 feel lopsided and inherently temporary to me. Kinda doomed. Like they’re only capable of being close to each other under dangerous circumstances and like they can bring out the worst in each other (in that they know exactly how to push each others’ buttons and will do it when provoked). They’d never be each other’s first choice in life but might be each other’s first choice in a fight.

This is all to say: I like that. They’re messy and have a brief, tumultuous history together that can build into a shaky, semi-tumultuous future. They see each other. They don’t pull their punches.

I think Theo probably has more intuitive pairings (coughcough, Scott) and—you know that Richard Siken poem where it’s like he was pointing at the moon but I was looking at his hand? Sometimes I feel like I’m writing Thiam like that. With the sense that Liam is looking at Theo and Theo is looking at Scott lmao. (Or actually maybe more like: Theo is hugging Liam but looking over Liam’s shoulder at Scott) bc I think the relationship they have together is influenced by the relationships—platonic or otherwise—they separately have with Scott, and the history of shit they’ve both done to Scott (the “why do you keep trying to save me” convo in the locker room comes to mind. Scott is this specter hanging over both of their heads.)

I think Liam and Theo grow close like thorn bushes. To me they’re like…“I will not be a safe place for you to land but I will pick you up off the ground once you’ve fallen on your ass and tell you to keep fucking running.”

Pretty sure I’ve talked about this before but I also think there’s also a sense of teenage normalcy that Theo gets with Liam which is a breath of fresh air for a guy who grew up in a lab lmao. And I think Theo lessens the (semi self-imposed) burden of authority/responsibility/culpability on Liam’s shoulders.

I hope this answers your question but I feel like it probably doesn’t 😭 If this is the most doomerist thiam take from a thiam writer I’m so sorry shdhjshk I really am obsessed with them and will continue to dissect them under a microscope (lovingly)💗

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The “Gandra Dee Hate” explained

@gyrofenton @rommaru @shychick-52

This is going to be a quick analysis. I’m not trying to antagonize Gandra and Fendra Stans in any way in this post. I don’t hate Gandra as a character, I’m disappointed with how she was handled by the writers in the 2017 reboot. One last time, here we go. Now here’s the analysis:

Spoilers for Ducktales 2017 Seasons 2-3, most of this analysis relates to my previous Ducktales critical post

In the Ducktales 2017 Season 2 episode, “The Dangerous Chemistry of Gandra Dee!” Fenton Crackshell-Cabrera(Gizmoduck) meets a self proclaimed “independent scientist” who works for no one, Gandra Dee.

Then Fenton invites Gandra to his own “Lab” to show some of his inventions and she accepts. While Fenton tries to impress Gandra with his new projects on their “date” (not cool Huey and Webby, not cool) Gandra isn’t invested and criticizes them for conforming to McDuck’s corporate interests. Gandra also tested her eyebuds and Nantes on Fenton, without his permission to demonstrate the pros of her freelance tech. *Cough* Red Flag move *Cough*.

Then when it’s revealed that Gandra was working for Mark Beaks so the latter could get his revenge on Gizmoduck, Fenton is upset and angry with her. Defending herself from Fenton’s frustration answering that she’s still a rebel scientist, despite having worked for Beaks for funding.

This demonstrates that Gandra is actually a Hypocrite to her own “Independent” belief and it is brought up again in the Season 2 finale and throughout Season 3 when she worked for F.O.W.L. This point will make you more disappointed in Gandra as a character.

Later on in “Beaks and the Shell” Gandra decides to quit working for F.O.W.L., and ends up in a romantic relationship with Fenton working on inventions together. And many people who ship Fenro, myself included, did not like that at all.

The reason being is that Gandra has been dishonest to Fenton and the main cast especially Huey throughout her debut episode and in Season 3 with taking advantage of Fenton’s Gizmoduck suit and being a member of F.O.WL and shocking Gyro to keep her cover intact. Gandra has also been careless with her inventions seen in a flashback of Beaks in the Shell, and they can cause harm to others seen in “The Dangerous Chemistry of Gandra Dee”. Lastly she was a hypocrite claiming to be an “independent scientist” where in reality she actually was working with Mark Beaks and F.O.W.L. for funding. Also her redemption arc was shoehorned into one single episode and felt poorly earned. Since her relationship with Fenton had a lack of compatibility and development we were expecting them to end up together it does feel underwhelming in hindsight. Also Fenton isn’t blameless and morally good he has also done questionable actions when working for McDuck enterprises as seen in @gyrofenton’s post and seemingly faced no repercussions for them whatsoever. Come to think of it, Fenton, Gandra and a lot of the characters, especially the protagonists and main antagonists (especially in Seasons 1 & 3) didn’t really suffer any consequences from their own actions.

In conclusion, what I would have done to improve Gandra as a character was have the events of “The Dangerous Chemistry of Gandra Dee!” when her actions endangered Fenton, Huey and Webby to Beaks. She would have felt remorseful for them and have an arc improving her projects to not hurt anyone in its vicinity, throughout Seasons 2-3. At the start of Season 3, she’ll realize the true plan for F.O.W.L. And tirelessly work to sabotage their endgame project. In the mid season episode she’ll apologize to Fenton for what she did on their “date” and reveal F.O.W.L.’s true goal, after reconciling with Fenton the rest of the season would help build their romantic relationship, instead of just in one episode.

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| Valentine's Day Special: Card Meanings In Love |

Happy Valentine's Day everyone! ♡

My blog has grown so much since I started doing online readings, and I am so incredibly grateful for all of your support! I'm super close to getting 500 followers, which is a HUGE achievement for me, so my next goal is to try to reach that number this month! If you'd like to help me reach that number, I would be so grateful for any reposts, added tags, or even a follow if you're new here and you like my content! Thank you all!

Those of you who have a valentine, I hope you have such a lovely weekend together! And those of you who don't, here's a gentle reminder to use this day to show those important to you that you love them!

Please enjoy this valentine's cheat sheet I've made for those who have started practicing tarot, or even those who have been doing it for a long time and would like a cheat sheet to refer back to ♡

Sincerely,

Cassy the friendly ghost ♡

P.S I'd like to know, in the comments, how you all celebrated valentine's day!

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0. Fool Upright: A new relationship, honeymoon phase, seeing through rose-tinted glasses, romantic holiday Reversed: Starting on the wrong foot, holding back, uncertainty, lack of chemistry

1. Magician Upright: Manifested love, bringing out the best in one another, dream come true, strong communication and commitment Reversed: Disingenuous love, lack of communication, mismatch, one-sidedness, manipulation

2. High Priestess Upright: Soulmate, twin flame, karmic, intuitive love, meant to be Reversed: Lack of balance, secrets, infidelity, living a double life, withdrawal

3. Empress Upright: Fertility, mother figure, princess treatment, parenthood, family, nurturing plants/animals together Reversed: Co-dependent, resentment, unresolved trauma left by parents, lack of self-love, unhealthy relationship

4. Emperor Upright: Father figure, stable and secure relationship, acts of service, physical displays of love, loyalty Reversed: Controlling, abusive relationship, guilt-tripping, jealousy, unresolved trauma left by parents

5. Hierophant Upright: Traditional relationship, spiritual, marriage, conventional relationship Reversed: Unconventional relationship, cohabitation, reversed gender roles, atheism, celibacy, LGBTQ+ relationship

6. Lovers Upright: Kindred spirits, intense love, harmonious love, mutual values and goals, soulmate, twin flame, compatible partners Reversed: Misalignment, disharmony, infidelity, lack of balance, one-sidedness

7. Chariot Upright: Successful relationship, silver lining, at the end of a difficult journey, gaining approval from others Reversed: Lack of direction, getting nowhere, unsuccessful relationship

8. Strength Upright: Strong connection, compassion, trauma bond, loyalty, taming someone who couldn't settle Reversed: Feeling unworthy of love, co-dependency, unresolved trauma, projection, toxic relationship, narcissism

9. Hermit Upright: Celibacy, chastity, self-improvement, lack of connection, not ready for a relationship Reversed: Fear of intimacy, unresolved trauma, self-indulgent, unhealthy relationship, feeling lonely in the relationship, lack of self-improvement

10. Wheel Upright: Luck in love, karmic connection, adventurous, unpredictable, optimism Reversed: Bad luck in love, inability to break cycles, rough patch, lack of chemistry, lack of change

11. Justice Upright: Pros and cons list, marriage, doing the right thing, balance, healthy relationship, treating one another fairly Reversed: Dishonesty, lack of accountability, caught cheating, unfairness, broken promises

12. Hanged Man Upright: Contentment, going with the flow, cohabiting, stagnation Reversed: Holding on, fear of being alone, indecisiveness, reality check, stalling

13. Death Upright: Break up, change, endings, walking away, divorce, acceptance, ego death, setting boundaries Reversed: Resistant to change, negative intense emotions, obsession, clinging onto a relationship

14. Temperance Upright: True balance, bring peace to one another, healthy love, growing old together, harmony Reversed: Internal imbalance, antagonistic, anger issues, abusive relationship, unresolved issues

15. Devil Upright: Unhealthy foundation, obsession, lust, unhealthy attachments, sex addiction, love bombing, manipulation, toxic/violent abuse Reversed: Therapy, healing from unhealthy patterns, breaking free, going your separate ways to heal. shadow work

16. Tower Upright: Fundamental sudden changes, breakup, new person coming in, traumatic event, chaos Reversed: Averting disaster, ripping off the band-aid, built-up resentment, addressing the issue

17. Star Upright: Inspiring one another, friends to lovers, laid-back/unconventional relationship, one of a kind, hope and joy Reversed: Having doubts, cynical mindset, manifesting negativity, losing your spark, uninspired relationship

18. Moon Upright: Uncertainty, paranoia, lack of communication, repressed emotions, misunderstandings, lack of clarity Reversed: Clarity, seeing the light, in touch with emotions, releasing paranoia, communication

19. Sun Upright: Joy and happiness, strong resolution, passion, fun, light of your life, building a future together, plans to have a family, warmth Reversed: Pessimism, stagnation, canceled engagement wedding, difficulties seeing a long-term connection

20. Judgement Upright: Motivation, changing for the better, rebirth, learning from one another, commitment Reversed: Lacking awareness, criticizing one another, lack of compromise, shifting blame

21. World Upright: Full package, perfect couple, serious relationship, the one, mature relationship Reversed: Unfinished business, feeling that something is missing, settling when you're dissatisfied

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Ace Upright: Head over heart, honesty, fairness, strong intellectual connection, strong resolve, accepting one another's quirks Reversed: Lack of honesty, broken promises, no longer recognizing one another, judging one another's quirks, conflict, misjudgement of character

Two Upright: Pros and cons list, an impasse, misaligned goals/values, difficult decisions, lack of vulnerability, getting cold feet, being torn between potential partners Reversed: Indecision, overwhelming emotions, confusion, procrastination, avoidance, running away, information overload

Three Upright: Heartbreak, emotional breakup, grief, divorce, separation, infidelity, betrayal Reversed: Releasing pain, forgiveness, healing the relationship, doing right by one another, reconciliation, getting back together

Four Upright: Peaceful and diplomatic relationship, no drama, mutual friends/support system, healing from past relationships Reversed: Exhaustion, stress, breaking point, taking a time out, stagnation, contemplation

Five Upright: Conflict, you vs. them, hostility, disagreements, self-sabotaging behavior, hot and cold, contradictions, abusive relationship Reversed: Silent treatment, reconciliation, attempt to compromise, resentment, sabotaging progress

Six Upright: End of a difficult time, healing, progression, long distance, planning to visit one another, entering a new chapter in your relationship Reversed: Overthinking, lack of progress/foresight, unfinished business with an ex/third party, social media/gaming addiction, difficulties in online communication

Seven Upright: Cheating, betrayal, getting away with it, strategic deception, external influences, taking the relationship for granted, manipulation Reversed: Dihonesty, white lies, lack of authenticity, avoiding confrontation, imposter syndrome, self-deceit, settling with an incompatible connection

Eight Upright: Self-entrapment in the relationship, limiting beliefs, reluctance, second-guessing yourself, feeling stuck, negative thinking, backed into a corner Reversed: New perspectives, seeing things for what they are, sense of freedom, overcoming negative thinking, addressing the problem

Nine Upright: Mental illness, trauma symptoms, difficulties maintaining the relationship, depression, anxiety, nightmares, abandonment issues Reversed: Road to recovery, supportive partner, addressing trauma, releasing fear, healing together, therapy/couples therapy

Ten Upright: Painful endings, divorce, breakup, separation, stabbed in the back, betrayal, victim mentality, drama, attention-seeking, rumors, clarity Reversed: Resisting an inevitable breakup, relief, recovery, blessing in disguise, escaping an unhealthy relationship, starting over

Page Upright: Banter, petty arguments, youthful relationship, flirting, clear intentions, hook up, unserious relationship, strong communication, adventure Reversed: All talk no action, mind games, situationship, lack of boundaries, lack of foresight, vague promises

Knight Upright: Moving fast, blunt and direct communication, speaking and acting impulsively, ambitious, optimistic Reversed: Burnout, controlling, verbal abuse, jumping through hoops, love bombing, overbearing, lack of romance, rushed relationship

Queen Upright: Healthy boundaries, directness, independence, no PDA, distant on the outside loving on the inside, mature, not beating around the bush, pragmatic relationship Reversed: Cold-hearted, over critical, selfish, lack of emotional intelligence, cruel, hurtful, bitterness, spitefulness, toxic relationship, absent mother

King Upright: Maintaining high standards, fatherhood, family, quiet love, acts of service, practicality, honest communication, good listening Reversed: Manipulation, aggression, violence, infertility, absent father, abusive relationship, gaslighting, misuse of power

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Ace Upright: New love opportunities, fertility, pregnancy, fiery potential, positive sex life, passion, bringing out the best in one another, flirtatious Reversed: Lack of passion or spark, negative sex life, hot and cold, short-lived fling, too much or too little, hypersexuality

Two Upright: Future planning, visiting favorite spots, traveling together, discovering things together, energizing one another, longing for one another, chasing for love Reversed: Lack of direction, commitment issues, business trip, one leaving the other behind to travel, fear of the unknown, stagnant relationship, feeling held back

Three Upright: Moving abroad together, long-distance relationship, optimistic about the future, growing together, meant to be, divine timing, strong potential Reversed: Feeling held back, failed long-distance relationship, inability to imagine future with partner, unprepared for commitment, lack of identity, canceled travel plans

Four Upright: Celebration, anniversary, baptism, wedding, engagement, baby shower, new chapter in relationship, coming home from trip, family, feeling at home with partner Reversed: Unhappy family life, neglecting relationship/family, canceled/postponed celebrations, family unaccepting of relationship, lack of stability, false twin flame, karmic connection

Five Upright: Conflict, pent-up aggression, resentment, arguments, ego getting in the way, feeling unheard, makeup sex, competitiveness Reversed: Suppressing temper, unspoken tensions, unresolved resentments, abusive relationship, fear of confrontation, alternatively; playing the devil's advocate/bickering as a form of foreplay

Six Upright: Showing one another off, sharing success, supporting one another, proud relationship, power couple, turning heads Reversed: Inflated egos, narcissism, depleted sense of self, making one another jealous by adding competition, unsupportive of goals

Seven Upright: Challenged in the relationship, challenged by a third party, defending the relationship, judgment from outsiders, being on guard Reversed: Giving up on the relationship, others successfully coming between partners, exhaustion, feeling defeated, overwhelmed, loss of trust

Eight Upright: Moving fast, long-distance relationship, travel, swept off your feet, passionate connection, love at first sight, immediate click, compatible love language, sexual compatibility Reversed: Slow progress, losing momentum in relationship, lack of romance, traveling alone, falling out of love, incompatible love language, sexual incompatibility

Nine Upright: Pursuing a relationship with courage, persistence, being on guard, negative past relationships, fundamental differences between partners, differing core beliefs, overcoming differences/challenges Reversed: Losing the will to fight for relationship, exhaustion, beaten down, no more energy to argue, feeling judged by one another, paranoia, defensiveness

Ten Upright: Carrying extra responsibilities, one-sided relationship, taking a partner for granted, karmic connection, burdening relationship Reversed: Letting go of burdens, compromises, carrying burdens as a team, offloading stresses, inviting fun back into the relationship

Page Upright: Playful relationship, adventurous, outdoor activities, active couple, surprise pregnancy, initial spark, going to gym together, limitless potential Reversed: Losing the spark, lack of enthusiasm, lack of chemistry, fickleness, indecisiveness, immaturity

Knight Upright: Rebellious romance, free-spirited, intense passion, adventure, enjoying the chase, moving fast, showing off a partner, charming, sexual compatibility Reversed: Fear of missing out, impatience, inflated egos, infidelity, false commitment, rushing into commitment

Queen Upright: Colorful relationship, never boring, spiritual bond, sense of one another's feelings, telepathic bond, social butterflies, confidence in one another Reversed: Unbalanced emotions, entitlement, lack of spiritual bond, detached from one another, unauthentic, lack of sense of self, introversion, lack of confidence

King Upright: Peacocking, dress/walk/talk to impress, relentless flirting, mature relationship, directness, adventurous, wine and dine Reversed: Inflated egos, manipulative, overly forceful, infidelity, jealousy, possessiveness, double standards, drama queen/king, overly high expectations

꒦꒷ 𝒄𝒖𝒑𝒔 ꒷꒦

Ace Upright: New relationship, compassionate, creative expressions of love, unconditional love, caring, pure intentions, true love Reversed: Losing faith in love, difficulties maintaining relationships, repressing emotions, unrequited love

Two Upright: Mutual attraction, unified love, partnership, marriage, mutual support, soulmate, pure love, long-term relationship, contracts, yin & yang, star-crossed lovers Reversed: Breakups, disharmony, incompatibility, resentment, losing sense of self, obsessive behaviors

Three Upright: Celebration, engagement, wedding, baby shower, anniversary, friends and lovers, soul tribe, one another's good luck charms Reversed: Short-term relationship, fizzling out attraction, canceled celebrations, discord with one another's support systems, lack of friendship

Four Upright: Contemplation, regretting past mistakes in love, missing out in love, self-absorbed, woe-is-me mentality, caught up in a fantasy, taking the relationship for granted Reversed: Grateful for relationship, conclusions, living in the moment, checked in for alignment, appreciating the good things, looking at the positives

Five Upright: Regrets in love, failed relationships, pessimism about love, loss of a loved one, heartbreak, grief, isolation, separation, harboring feelings for an ex Reversed: Moving on from past relationships, letting go of regrets, new possibilities, clean slate, healing

Six Upright: Friends to lovers, playful romance, shared childhood memories, high school sweethearts, past life lovers, healing inner child Reversed: Lacking playfulness in relationship, stuck in the past, harboring feelings for an ex, immaturity, recreating romantic experiences, inability to appreciate a new partner

Seven Upright: Multiple potential partners, fantasizing about love, rose-tinted glasses, seeking external romantic validation, discontentment Reversed: Reality check on love, confronting issues within relationship, being realistic, overwhelmed by choices in love

Eight Upright: Abandonment issues, abandoning a relationship/partner, walking away from arguments/confrontations, drifting apart, avoidant behavior, emotionally distant, escapism Reversed: Trying one more time, not knowing when to walk away, fear of abandonment, indecision, complacent to unhealthy habits

Nine Upright: Wish come true, fulfilling relationship, contentment, sensual & romantic relationship, compatible partners, manifested love, healthy relationship Reversed: Unfulfilling, dissatisfaction, lack of gratitude for relationship, high expectations on love, falling out of love, materialism

Ten Upright: Divine love, blissful relationship, harmony, alignment, sexual compatibility, emotional fulfillment, long-term relationship, family, ultimate happiness, completing one another's lives Reversed: Struggling relationships, misalignment, lack of commitment, dissatisfaction, discontent, emotional disconnection

Page Upright: Romantic proposals, pregnancy, engagements, secret admirer, puppy love, cupid, head over heels, wearing heart on sleeve, creative expressions of love, youthful romance Reversed: Doubts, immaturity, canceled engagements, obsessive attraction, codependency, limerence, lack of boundaries

Knight Upright: Creative expressisons of love, charmed, swept off your feet, proposals, affectionate, knight in shining armor, prince charming, romeo Reversed: Unrealistic, jealousy, paranoia, canceled engagements, negative patterns, mind games, manipulation, player, infidelity, misogyny

Queen Upright: Emotional stability, compassion, spiritual connection, nurturing relationship, natural mother figure, family, drama-free Reversed: Lack of balance, emotional issues, emotional unavailability, couple's therapy, cold, distant, lack of boundaries, clingy, unhealthy relationship

King Upright: Emotional balance, natural father figure, mature relationship, diplomatic, balance, compassion Reversed: Emotional manipulation, cunning, emotional tug of war, controlling, possessive, smothering, clingy, sexual violence, abusive relationship

˗ˏˋ 𝒑𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒍𝒆𝒔 ˎˊ˗

Ace Upright: New relationship, manifested love, luck in love, meeting by chance, long term, security and stability Reversed: Missing out on romance and love, starting on the wrong foot, sexual incompatibility, being together for material wealth, lack of planning

Two Upright: Adaptable relationship, financial decisions, mortgage, loans, investing together, prioritising the relationship, opposites attract, passionate and practical Reversed: Lack of passion and fun in the relationship, juggling too many tasks, financial stress, imbalance, disorganization, unhealthy dynamic

Three Upright: Working as a team, stability, friends and lovers, co-creating a family/business, having the same goals, learning from one another, creativity, sharing interests Reversed: Disharmony, lack of cooperation, inflexible, stubbornness, having opposite goals, working alone, lack of friendship, no shared interests, lack of creativity

Four Upright: Control, jealousy, possessiveness, codependancy, unhealthy dynamic, overly dominant and overly submissive, micromanaging social media platform, hoarding money Reversed: Developing a healthy dynamic, flexible finances, friends to lovers, healing togther, creating balance, dealing with negative feelings and habits

Five Upright: Hopelessness, abandonment, cold, distant, financial struggles, health struggles, unhealthy communication, blaming one another, worlds apart Reversed: Overcoming struggles, developing healthy communication, couples therapy, addressing the problem

Six Upright: Gift giving, generous to one another, balanced give and take, humanitarian belifs, treating one another as equals Reversed: One-sided charity, lack of balance, taking advantage, unbalanced household responsibilities, lack of effort on one side, resentment

Seven Upright: Long-term relationship, investing in the future, buying a home, pregnancy, marriage, traditional relationship Reversed: Rough patch, stagnancy, lack of growth in the relationship, impatience on one side, rushing the relationship

Eight Upright: Dedication, commitment, financial security, acts of service, healthy lifestyles, working at the same job together Reversed: Workaholic tendencies, neglecting the relationship, complacency, laziness, boredom

Nine Upright: Stability, freedom to be independent, secure relationship, pursuing personal goals, supportive partner, abundance, luxurious living, financial security, artistic couple Reversed: Financial instability, marrying for money, materialistic relationship, dishonest about finances, lack of sense of self, immaturity

Ten Upright: Wealthy family, long-term success, traditional family values, realistic relationship, pets, close family, generational wealth Reversed: Arguing over money, domestic disputes, financial burdens, unconventional relationship, irresponsible behavior

Page Upright: Loyalty, strong foundations, good potential in relationship, marriage/parent material, new potential opportunities in love Reversed: Difficulties finding love, lack of maturity in relationship, lack of fun and passion, laziness, lack of experience in love

Knight Upright: Faithful, loyal, committed, becoming exlcusive, realistic relationship, going slow Reversed: Dull relationship, lacking passion, too serious, moving too slowly, too rigid, controlling

Queen Upright: Practical relationship, the feminine role is the provider, working mother, indulging in luxury, feeling like home to one another, physical touch love language Reversed: Work-home conflict, social climber, jealous, moody, chaotic approach to relationships and finances, neglectful wife/mother, manipulation

King Upright: The masculine role is the provider, working father, pragmatic, committed, abundant finances, security, expresses love through actions Reversed: Obsession with wealth and status, stubborn, controlling behavior, lacking a foundation, using resources to manipulate, impatient father/husband

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[sagittariusmarz]

Clarity and advice for your situationship (PAC)

Pile 1

I see that the connection could feel great when it comes to physical connection and chemistry but the emotional aspect is lacking, I see that you guys aren’t compatible in the way you guys need to be in order for the connection to work. The connection might have been better in the beginning but things don’t feel the same, if you want more balance in the connection then you need to reciprocate the same energy that the other person is giving you. I see that detaching yourself from this connection will help bring more balance and peace into your life, if things end naturally then you should let it go and don’t try to renew the connection. Signs- Virgo/aquarius, Scorpio in 9th house, cancer in 7th house. Initials- M, A, D, C, V, N

Pile 2

I see that the connection may feel stagnant or stale, you guys may have some unresolved issues that you didn’t really talk about. I see that the physical connection is lacking but you both enjoy being around each other, I see that you need to listen to your intuition more and stop second guessing yourself. You guys need to talk about what bothering you and maybe apologize to each other. Signs- Gemini, Capricorn, Leo. Pisces in 4th house/scorpio in 12th house, initial- D, O, L, U, R

Pile 3

I see that you guys may struggle with communication, I see someone here feels like they can’t really express themselves without beating around the bush. I see that someone here feels like they’re being controlled or they don’t have enough power in the connection which makes it unbalanced, I see that you guys should be more open emotionally and work on the unbalanced power dynamic in the connection, I see that one of you needs to work on taking the initiative and taking more action. You should also work on communicating better or patience. Signs- Scorpio/aquarius, Pisces in 8th house/ Scorpio in 9th house. Initials- U, A, Y

Personal readings always available

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[scarlet--wiccan]

I have a lot of complicated feelings about "Pietro Maximoff Syndrome," but I do think it makes sense for him and Tommy, both, to struggle with communication because they're just... not on the same wavelength as most people. It takes effort for their friends and loved ones to keep pace with them.

You can run into some challenging optics when you have characters whose powers create, for lack of a better term, a neurological difference which may interfere with behavior, cognition, or communication. Similarly, the politics of using powers to treat or accommodate for such differences can be loaded. There are healthy and helpful examples, but then there are abusive situations, like Sabretooth and Birdy, and ostensibly well-meaning characters like Professor X who may, at times, go too far with their psychic interventions.

This scene, in Scarlet Witch, rubbed a lot of people the wrong way because what Wanda is doing here is non-consensual. There's an alternative approach to this moment where Wanda could simply remind Pietro that her magical abilities do allow her to read people's energy, and she's had a whole lifetime to get used to keeping up with his energy in particular-- basically reminding him that she can see through his bullshit without making it into a situation where she's intentionally violated his privacy. You then can expand this idea into a scenario where Pietro, and by extension, Tommy, feel vulnerable, but well-supported by each of their twins and Luna, who has similar abilities. They understand him, when so much of the world struggles to keep up.

Anyway, I think it's a benefit to Pietro and Monet's relationship that she has enhanced speed and telepathy-- obviously she's not as fast as him, but she's able to bridge that interpersonal gap that Pietro struggles with, and I imagine she feels more comfortable with a partner she doesn't have to worry about constantly outpacing. Powers shouldn't be the only thing that dicate compatibility, but it's nice when they do provide extra chemistry.