#no matter how tempting

[elishasbaldhead]

[tumbloggingattheendofitall]

I like the good old fashioned fingers and warm water to clean between the lips and around the visible parts, and otherwise yeah, genuinely, seriously, wholly - no soap, no air, no power washing - your vagina is a delicate piece of your anatomy in many ways and simultaneously a Bad Bitch that can definitely do way more than most think is possible - I mean geeze the average vagina dilates enough to push a whole human put at least once in its lifetime so like. They're not delicate generally, but they have very specific care instructions - like that one linen dress you own. Sturdy as fuck, but be careful how you wash it (in the former example, fingers, water, External Surfaces Only) (also I can't remember how to wash linen right now but I do know that all of my linen clothes are sturdy as fuck But Only when I wash and dry them correctly)

wait, it’s not healthy to use the shower head to clean your vagina? like shoot the water up there? that’s bad?

jesus christ please don't do that. 1) any form of douching or flushing out your vagina is terrible for your vaginal health, since it devastates your vaginal bacteria (YOU NEED THAT) and leaves you susceptible to infection. 2) blasting a forceful jet of water into your vaginal cavity could seriously hurt you.

your vagina doesn't need you to clean it; it does that all by itself. if you're experiencing something abnormal with your vaginal health - unusual discharge, itching, strong odors, etc - you need to seek advice from a medical professional not try to blast it out with a shower head.

[katherine40598583-blog]

Marina: I need you to kiss me

Colin: I can hardly believe I’m saying this, but we cannot go further

Penelope: I need you to kiss me

Colin: What’s a little kissing between friends, am I right?

[screamingfromuz]

Daily reminder that wishing death or harm on a group of people is WRONG.

I don't care if they oppressed you or are shitty people or even Nazis.

It is wrong.

We should strive for encouraging change and growth, not mass murder.

I know it's tempting, but do the smart thing and work through this emotion in a health way that does not include hoping for someone's death

[bacchuschucklefuck]

space sweepers but they're delivery people and are at no point on screen through the entire movie

[godlyaxolotl]

Oh thanks *grabs a cup of mercury* I was thirsty anyway *proceeds to drink the cup of mercury*

"Fluid as water, brilliant as silver, heavier than lead, mercury spills through a mine worker's fingers."

National Geographic

October 1972

ph. Robert W. Madden

[feelo-fick]

doodles from varying times :] kicking my feet and giggling. put your hand in my cage youre safe :]

[torahtot]

you can always tell when someone doesn't have maga men in their life and god it makes me angry.. "if you're nice and compassionate you can be the one woman that makes them realize women aren't mean!" my mom bent over backwards for my dad for 25 fucking years he has plenty of other women kissing his ass and it never changed anything. do you really think that before being radicalized they never knew a single kind woman? they were never friends with a nice girl? alt-right men's problem with women isn't just that they've experienced too many mean women and they need to be shown that women can be nice, it's that they think women are inferior and don't deserve rights and don't understand anything so you can do what you want with them. and it takes a lot more than being nice to show someone that you aren't inferior. this isn't a case of being nice even when it's hard for the sake of deradicalization, it's about spending every fucking interaction with someone trying to get them to see you as a human being with value and a functioning intellect while they just laugh and show you that's never going to happen.

i cannot stress this enough: random women are not just going out and Being Mean to men. ur average guy interacts with plenty of women throughout his life- close women amongst their friends and family, casual interactions etc. most people don't start out being shunned by women, they start out being treated as NORMAL. & when they show their disrespect in normal society, it isn't tolerated, but when they go to alt-right spaces (which they're pushed towards online) they're told they're allowed to be as horrible as they want with no consequences because they're entitled to everything. it isn't "women aren't welcoming and the alt-right is so friendly so i'll become alt-right," it's "women don't let me disrespect them and the alt-right tells me fuck them, do whatever you want, you're entitled to it all" and why would you choose the group where you have to be a normal accountable person when there's a group that will reward you for being a shithead who gives no fucks?

the alt-right can afford to be more friendly and welcoming because they can allow bigotry. this can't work the same way for progressive spaces because we can be as kind & welcoming as possible but at the end of the day we have lines where we have to say "this behavior/speech isn't allowed in this space," and for certain people, that just can't win against a space where you can be as nasty as you want. these posts always end with a disclaimer saying "of course being kind doesnt mean you need to tolerate their bigotries" but what they don't realize and what drives me crazy is that women not tolerating bigotry IS the "women are mean" that radicalized them in the first place. they perceive you pushing back on any bigotry or bullshit as you being a meanie and treating them like they're ontologically evil. the 'kindness' they need to be deradicalized is you letting them walk all over you.

idk what the answer is to deradicalizing them and im sure relationships are part of it but you can be as kind as you want and all it will do is destroy you ime. i cant stand to see people (who have never even successfully deradicalized any man by being nice btw they always speak in hypotheticals and not from experience) double down on telling women to do things that will see no results and only hurt them, especially when any woman who has tried can tell you exactly how it went

[lockandkeyhyena]

mother and son. still need a last name for them :/

[emerald-cloud23]

If anyone has any kind of content with Cole and Lloyd doing stuff together please let me know. Always happy to encounter things of my favorite and my comfort doing stuff together👍

[daemon-is-perfectly-unhinged]

Daemon: If you see anyone--

Jon: Kill them...

Daemon: HIDE. If you see anyone, hide.

[cakesandsnouts]

"Now, fulfil your destiny and take your father’s place at my side."

STAR WARS EPISODE VI; RETURN OF THE JEDI

[cocoabubbelle-newblog]

Me when X-Men ‘97 implies that they will go the Goblin Queen arc with Cyclop’s first wife: Heck, I’m going to be too stressed to watch this.

Me when X-Men ‘97 implies that Magneto and Rogue had and/or will have ambiguously romantic moments:

[mikunimiku]

i have filter blindness (⁠╥⁠﹏⁠╥⁠)

[vimbry]

not to sound like an edgy teenager posting a journal entry on deviantart, but the demo of tmbg's "where your eyes don't go" is such an unusually comforting song to me for reasons I can't explain. not even like... you know, in terms of relatability, catharsis, that kind of comfort. I just generally find the synth, cadence of how the nightmareish lyrics are sung, and generally lo-fi crackling quality of this version really nice to listen to.

[harpieisthecarpie]

okay I've been wanting to watch playthroughs (from people other than my favorite manlybadasshero) of Mouthwashing, but wading through the hype is proving difficult

Does anyone have recs of gaming channels that treat Mouthwashing's subject matter seriously and have interesting input?

Preferably women and nonmen, or just people who catch the implications of Anya's story early (or at all) bc I've waded through so many letsplayers straight up not realizing it At All