#neil is a dick

[dont-call-me-william]

Leave a comment if you’ve ever endured living with someone like this

Everything I learned about Neil Hargrove in one scene:

He doesn't respect the boundaries of others but expects others to respect and uphold his boundaries.

The example: he yells at Billy to open his bedroom door, as opposed to Susan who just prior had knocked. Both want to talk to him, but only one respects that Billy shut his bedroom door for privacy. Example 2: He walks straight into Billy's room uninvited while Susan stays in the hall. Example 3: while speaking with Billy, Neil becomes surprised and quickly angered that Billy raised his voice. One could argue that this is a matter of manners, how one raises children etc about not raising your voice to your parents. However the main point is that thus far Neil has ignored at least three separate boundaries of Billy's and the moment Billy treads on a single boundary that Neil has... He becomes angry.

Another example Neil was late to return home, but when Billy points that out, it is considered crossing a line. Billy is the one that is flawed. But he is not allowed to point out flaws in Neil.

Neil has a sense of entitlement.

Again with the example of not feeling the need to knock at Billy's door and instead yelling and demanding he open it. So what if Neil believes I paid for the house I own it, I own the door, etc etc. Neil operates with a belief system that if he yells at Billy, Billy will open the door. If he tells Billy to "watch his sister" he'll do it. And so on. And when these high and mighty expectations aren't met. Neil takes them like a personal affront. That Billy's hurting him, making him angry, or possibly disobeying him on purpose.

Neil believes that Billy owes him his loyalty, and that as a son he should be dutiful and ask no questions. Neil believes that he is owed a lot from Billy... He demands that Billy apologize even though Susan says it's unnecessary. The apology truly isn't for her it's for Neil and what he believes he's owed.

Neil uses coercive language.

When Neil has Billy pinned to the wall he uses "we" statements. "What did we talked about?" As if to suggest that this topic is something that was mutually agreed upon rather than just told and yet again expected of Billy.

He then uses more pressured coercive language with an unspoken threat attached. That Billy will sacrifice his date night because he's instead going to prove what a good loving brother he is, "isn't that right Billy?"

Neil uses multiple forms of intimidation.

He mainly uses physical intimidation, entering Billy's room immediately. Using closed off or standoffish body language. He already doesn't believe what Billy is going to say no matter what it is. When Billy eventually does something that Neil finds worthy of biting onto and becoming fully aggressive with he then relies on full eye contact. It's like he hardly blinks compared to Billy and that he's trying to burn holes into him.

When Neil pulls away and it seems like the threat is dwindling Neil turns back and again leans into direct eye contact. He also becomes more tense locking his jaw.

Lastly, it seems that Neil's both promissory and ending notes of intimidation are yelling or otherwise raising his voice. He seems like he quite literally wants to be the one to have the last word. He wants to start scenarios with "or else" and end them with it too. The worst gut churning mic drop of all.

[slut4thebroken]

Kinktober ‘24 Masterlist

༺˚ʚ DC | Marvel | Cillian Murphy | Other ɞ˚༻

Characters:

Dick Grayson, Jason Todd/Red Hood

Bucky Barnes, Wanda Maximoff/Scarlet Witch

Emmett, Jackson Rippner, Jonathan Crane/Scarecrow, Lenny Miller, Neil Lewis, Raymond Leon, Robert Capa, Robert Fischer, Tommy Shelby

Spencer Reid

main masterlist

Dark content -❗️ (noncon elements)

── ⋆⋅☆⋅⋆ ── ⋆⋅☆⋅⋆ ── ⋆⋅☆⋅⋆ ──

Okay so I’m just gonna post this now, but I’m definitely going to end up switching some of the days around because only like the first 7 are actually finished and idk what fics will be easier for my little adhd brain to work on and when lol. But everything listed is like… 99% going to actually be posted. I might switch out a fic for a character but the amount of fics for all the characters will stay the same <3

1. dry humping ᡣ𐭩 Scarecrow ❗️

2. free use + breeding kink ᡣ𐭩 Tommy Shelby

3. mind control + master/slave ᡣ𐭩 Wanda Maximoff

4. boot licking + discipline/punishment ᡣ𐭩 Raymond Leon

5. strap-ons ᡣ𐭩 Robert Fischer

6. manhandling + size kink ᡣ𐭩 Jason Todd

7. non-con ᡣ𐭩 Robert Capa ❗️

8. sharing ᡣ𐭩 Jackson Rippner & Tommy Shelby

9. prison ᡣ𐭩 Spencer Reid

10. hunter/prey + fear play ᡣ𐭩 Jonathan Crane

11. prostate milking + chastityᡣ𐭩 Robert Fischer

12. on the desk ᡣ𐭩 Jason Todd

13. accidental stimulation ᡣ𐭩 Emmett

14. corruption + age difference ᡣ𐭩 Tommy Shelby

15. biting/marking ᡣ𐭩 Dick Grayson

16. sexual slavery ᡣ𐭩 Jackson Rippner❗️

17. degradation ᡣ𐭩 Neil Lewis

18. role reversal ᡣ𐭩 Tommy Shelby

Read this lol

coming soon ᡣ𐭩 Raymond Leon

stalking + voyeurism ᡣ𐭩 Bucky Barnes

fucking machine ᡣ𐭩 Lenny miller

emetophilia (maybe…) ᡣ𐭩 Jackson Rippner

masks ᡣ𐭩 Jason Todd ❗️

bukakke? + cum eating ᡣ𐭩 Bucky Barnes

spit-roasting + double penetration ᡣ𐭩 Scarecrow & Red Hood

coming soon ᡣ𐭩 Emmett

coming soon ᡣ𐭩 Neil Lewis

coming soon ᡣ𐭩 Jackson Rippner

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I’m going to be reblogging this post soon with a poll asking which characters you guys want for the last four days !! So stay tuned for that lol

[nobigneil]

Neil learning how to sign "don't be a dick"

[got-the-cheese-touch]

the amount of fictional men that i would let ruin my life is concerning.

[kafkamus]

i don’t know how to explain to normal people that i’m madly in love and feel an actual emotional bond with a fictional character without sounding like i should be locked in a psych ward.

[dont-call-me-william]

When you own a closet full of masks

The way Billy's face goes blank in season 2 after his dad hits him reminded me so much of myself that I almost immediately knew this wasn't the first time. Growing up, when my dad was already in a bad mood, I had to train myself to change my face and emotions into whatever he expected, or nothing at all, to make as easy as possible for myself. Even a twitch could sometimes set him off, so I taught myself to stay neutral. Ironically enough, he now complains I never show any emotion, and I do, just not around him or people I don't know or perceive as possibly hostile. And the way Billy broke down immediately after his dad left broke my heart because of how much I saw myself in that scene.

Abuse survivors can train themselves to be pretty good actors. We learn to roll with the punches because it's all we can do, and Billy adapts his mask into whatever best currently fits his situation. High school, home, his dad, at the Byers house, and the pool, he acts differently depending on the situation and who he needs or is expected to be at that moment. They want a king, be a king, max needs a rules enforcer, that's what he'll be, Karen wants a little confidence boost, he'll play along if it means finding his sister, Steve wants to be all tough and put up a fight when his stepsister is a possibly dangerous situation, well two can play that game, the coven of white suburban moms want eye candy, he can't say no and he can't do anything so might as well as long as they don't touch. No one even really knew him to the point all max could tell him was his address and name, that's how good his mask was and how high his walls.

Yeah. Seconds before, he was talking back to his father giving him a tone. He obviously knew that once Neil had him against the wall, he had to “fix his face” or else he was going to keep getting hit. Abuse survivors have to learn how to mask and adapt, and that’s all Billy has ever done.

[gothamite-rambler]

Tim for the love of God, kick them in the balls and run!

Kidnapper (going by K)(on the phone): I have one of your kids.

Bruce: Nope.

Bruce ended the call with a quickness.

K looked at the phone startled and offended. He placed a hand on his chest upset.

Kidnapper 2 (going by K2): What happened did the call drop?

K: HE HUNG UP ON ME!

K2: Shoot, call him back. He might've doubted you.

K: Oh I freaking am.

K dialed Bruce's number again, tapping his foot and waited for Bruce to pick up again.

K:I HAVE KIDNAPPED YOUR CHILD THIS ISN'T A JOKE!

Bruce (doubtful): My son is next to me.

K (loud): I kidnapped one of them! You have more than one!

Bruce: Which one? Because if Jason is next to me, it's not him. Damian is upstairs, Tim is... somewhere and Dick is in the kitchen... who did you take?

K:The loud, annoying, rowdy one who never shuts up!

Bruce: Damian! Oh my God!

Tim (distantly): For fuck sake it's TIM!

K2: He said his name is Tim.

K:Tim.

Bruce:Tim, I thought he went to the store. Oh God, again? Can you tell him he can fight back a little when a kidnapping happens?

K and K2 glanced at Tim, who had just realized the call was coming through the speaker. Bound to a chair, Tim trembled with fury.

Tim: I- Just send someone!

K: He said send someone, bring 5000 dollars.

Bruce (sardoically): I will definitely have the money sent over from a special friend of mine, don't you worry. Tell Tim to... do what he usually does when he gets kidnapped.

K: Kay, kay, let me give you the spot to drop the money off at and we'll be waiting in an unmarked van with Tim.

Bruce: Hold on let me grab a pen.

Meanwhile in the living room, Bruce punched Jason on the arm and motioned for him to write down the directions down. Jason groaned and pulled out his phone. After getting the instructions, Bruce ended the call after confirming the details and handed Jason his car keys.

Bruce: Can you go pick him up. I'm too tired.

Jason: On it.

Jason laughed while leaving. Bruce returned to watching Dateline, but wondering if this is the same three kidnappers that Tim kidnapped in the past and if one of them was sick today.

[corwly]

hey hey so hey u should read smth uhhh this

it's so fucking lit

JFKSKENEBDIEJ @fellshish THIS GOT ME CACKLING EDGE OF MY SEAT TYPE SHIT OMG

[hmmm-shesucks]

One of the Foxes makes the mistake of asking Kevin how often he thinks about the Roman Empire to which he responds, “I’m glad you asked.” And then makes the whole team sit through a two hour PowerPoint presentation. He makes them take notes and gives a pop quiz after. Everyone fails. Kevin is disappointed.

[chryseiswriting-blog]

Neil: No, but I would ask him why you’re not medicated.

Everyone else: *shook*

Andrew: *internally* Mm. That’s hot.

[realgansey]

Being part of old fandoms in 2024 is so fucking embarrassing. Yeah I like klance still 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ and yeah I just reblogged Regulus Black art 😒😒😒😒😒 and so what I think about Andrew Minyard every day 😑😑😑😑😑😑😑 don’t even get me started on trc

[sunriseabram]

TAG SPOILERS FOR THE SPECIAL EDITIONS. People outside of the US will have longer shipping times. Be respectful. Be kind. Tag your spoilers. Don't be a dick.

[weralika]

imagine being so horny that you have to go to court every night

[acepumpkinpatrick]

y'all

(1x04)

(2x06)

I don't even know what to say anymore. We're past the onion stage with this show, it might as well be a croissant for the amount of layers it has!

Shout out to that op that said that aziraphale looked at Muriel and saw hope in reforming Heaven. They're absolutely right.

Bonus

[polls4you]

Found Family Battle (First Round)

[brionysea]

Damian: Tt. Cease your foolishness, Todd. Richard will be fine. He is a Flying Grayson.

Jason: You know that's just what they're called, it doesn't mean he actually knows what he's doing.