#my blog is and will forever be a safe space
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So what we're not gonna do is indulge the very few, but loud dipshits in this fandom. Theyre too far besides the point to bother anyway. All the better if theyve said theyve got so many friends not on here they can talk about their opinions with 😙
Anyway if you want to see all the TechPhee pics i dont post on here there is a lovely discord server with wonderful people where im more comfortable sharing those. Still so flattered how well what I DO post here is doing though, trust there will be more ❤️
#lo rambles#star wars#what we're not gonna do is parade our opinion around as fact either#especially if it makes the actual POC in this fandom who love and appreciate phee feel uncomfortable#my blog is and will forever be a safe space#this is as much as i will indulge this specific person#glad to see the silence has been irking them a lot though#like yeah#hardly anyone agrees with you#curious isnt it#phee genoa#tech the bad batch#techphee#tech x phee
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the day the earth stood still is the day i felt your presence leave it, and then every day after that.
#tw grief#sigh sigh sigh.#apologies in advance as this is not the happiest yap ! i would just like to write out some of my feelings on this day#the heaviest heart weighs under an insurmountable amount of grief — the ghost of love#days like today are a twisted reminder that has every emotion flooding through your soul#longing . guilt . anger . an indescribable melancholy that could only be consoled through the sands of time#a year ago i lost my best guy friend and it’s never really gotten easier . but ive heard it never does#all i can do is bundle up the love i have for him and search for him in the clouds that take up the sky#the circumstances around his passing will never not haunt me and rather than go into it all i’d like to say is this#if you have a loved one or a relationship or a friendship you cherish .. then never ever stop fighting for it - for them.#as time never really seems to be on our side#each day i’ll live as he intended . to greet the world with kindness and a smile and passion for positivity#in his wisest words (or rather after every phone call we’d have hehe) i’ll try my best to stay awesome & encourage you all to do so as well#if you’ve read this then i’m taking your hand and thanking you#it didn’t feel right not acknowledging him at all on this blog . he’s the one that introduced me to anime + more importantly : one piece#i wish i could talk to him about it all so he could see how far down this rabbit hole i fell just as he had done#will be spending the day enjoying his favorite episodes and being gentle with the world that surrounds us#this is not like my usual yaps & i feel vulnerable posting it but i wanted to carve out a space for him on this blog#forever missing the connie to my sasha . maybe in another universe we’ll get it right#have a wonderful sunday my sweet friendz and if you can — hug your loved ones & blow a kiss up to the sky 🤍💫#thank you for being here & helping me make this a safe place .#₊˚⊹ ᰔ xoxo aims
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disrespectfully, unfollow me if you voted against women’s rights.
block me even.
#my blog will forever be a safe space for women and enbys#back to your regularly scheduled programming
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he is partaking in a delicious homemade stew would you guys like to try his delicious homemade stew
#he will be sick for 3 days.#is this a safe space for freddy headcanons#jk its my blog i can do whatever i want forever#i hc he has 2 comfort foods which are the worlds worst macaroni cheese and the worlds worst pease porridge#he eats slop and loves it.#he was more adventurous with the becks and marthas cooking but he isnt in the place to venture out of his comfort zone much these days#anyways did you know im crazy about him.#freddy riley#identity v#operator art
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yeah idk if this writing shit is for me anymore lmao.
#🪷—faerie whispers#maybe I’m just being cynical bc of recent events#but I’ve just peeped a lot of shit that has rubbed me the wrong way#it’s one thing to be harassed off of my main blog#but then to see hcs and aus I wrote two yrs ago that were deemed ghetto and made fun of#now popping up every two scrolls is maddening#like I ain’t even tryna be that type of bitch#and act like I invented sum but I’m lowkey done#not to mention#I can’t post as often#like I might deactivate lowkey#and then I log in for the first time forever in months to the old one to see somebody harassing me#no safe space irl or on the internet#can I just leave this earth already
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hello friendz !! i am packing my bags and moving to @tetzoro !!! please come join me if ya want ^_^
back to navi.
#i’ve been so annoying about this all week to my buddies but i have made the decision to archive this blog !#i’ve had so many good memories here and have met so many amazing people that i get to call my friends 🥹#i’ll forever be thankful for this blog for giving me a safe space to be myself and fully indulge (aka go delulu) in anime men#a large part of me does not want to make the move but tbh it comes down to organization#when i made this blog i never thought i’d meet mutuals and find a community here#if i knew then what i knew now i would’ve just made a new blog from the start#but managing a main blog and side blog sucks !!! (for me) bc i view this as my main blog#and tbh a fresh start sounds really nice#so !! if u read all this im giving you a pat on the head and a freshly baked cookie#i hope to see u guys at my new blog !!!#i am going to try to follow a lot of u from it but also !!!#no pressure to become moots again if ya don’t wanna <33#love y’all sm#ALSO ! i will be keeping this blog up#forever my shrine to kuroo tetsuro#(my new blog is still v kuroo - centric .. don’t get me wrong. he is still the man™️)#okay im nervous !! laterz !!! <3#⁺. ʚ aims lore ɞ ⋆˙
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with the incredibly important conversations on racism in bandom going on i just want to say and make it abundantly clear that if you find any of the posts people of color in bandom are making about it (the racism) annoying or unnecessary or ridiculous or anything but warranted and incredibly necessary this is not a safe space for you! you are not welcome! you are a part of the problem and have a lot of self reflection to do to unpack that which is Your work to do and not the work of the people of color in bandom!
#this is me speaking to fellow white bandom: we are here to listen and support the voices of poc. we are complicit in the racism#and if you aren't willing to do the work then you seriously need to look inwards as to Why. and also fuck off forever maybe#just really adamantly want to make it clear me and my blog are actively unsafe places for racist freaks.#and even more importantly than this being an unsafe space for racists it Is a safe space for poc. i am here for you and care about you ❤️#txt
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wait no sorry one last quick immature bitch moment
the more I find out about how this person has behaved in both this relationship and a bunch of other relationships, the funnier it is how much they like to set themselves up as a like. authority on ethical nonmonogamy and consent and conflict management.
when like. they constantly sexually assault people to prove a point, pressure their partners into shit, got into enm by cheating on 3 people concurrently, and literally every time a problem in their orbit is brought up it gets explained away without anything actually changing, or they cry about how hard it is until everyone says OH NO IT'S FINE DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT
you know. very "call yourself a Community Organizer even though you're not on speaking terms with your roommates" energies.
#red said#I'm mad tbh i know in being bitchy but this blog is my safe space to be bitch on#and this shit has been building up for years. not even just in my relationship with their partner. since the first time i meet them#in like 2018#and having this chat with my pal last night now I'm no longer second guessing myself bc of my relationship has uhhh Crystalised Some Things#especially getting some new context on where a lot of the tensions and sensitivities I've been aware of for ages are from#also tbh when we broke up my ex led off with 'i know you think this is about [partner] but it's not' and i was like. it is though.#it's not the only thing but it's been a common thread through every piece of tension in that relationship#not saying if the partner wasn't there we'd have been together forever. i don't think that's true and I'm glad things went the way they did.#cause w were good for each other and breaking up was also good for us#but their partner has really caused me so so so so so much turmoil for years and i haven't felt able to acknowledge that cause it makes me#feel like an asshole. but like. OK SO I'M AN ASSHOLE. I'M FUCKING MAD AT THEM.#they are manipulative and controlling and they treat their partner like shit and they have perpetually made my life worse#i like a lot of things about them and i do feel for them. we share a lot of similar issues and i do understand how they feel a lot.#but fuck me they treat everyone around them so badly and a good chunk of the reason i ended things with their partner#is that i was so fucking sick of being told i was wrong and just didn't understand how hard they had it whenever i brought up#one of the many many many shitty things they did to me or to our partner or to our friends.#multiple times i left a situation in a fully fucked up mess and my partner came to apologise for how their partner has behaved#and within minutes it would turn into them explaining to me how it wasn't really their fault and i shouldn't be so hard on them#and like fuck that. had enough of that in my life with my previous ex.#anyway. yeah. i am probably being more didactic and aggro here than i genuinely feel. but there's some room for that anger i think#and i did get some room for it to breathe last night and that's good and helpful.
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A ship that I have been hesitant to talk about because there might be some truth to it is Taylor and Annie Clark from St. Vincent. Especially around the time "Cruel Summer" came out as a single for the Era's Tour movie. They both co-wrote the song and Annie when to the show that was filmed for the movie (which was also Karlie went).
I think around the time of 1989 Karlie and Taylor were together but they broke up and since a little before Reputation Annie and Taylor have been together. If so a lot of Annie's music would make sense if she's keeping secret a long time relationship. One of St. Vincent's songs is "My baby wants a baby" and it seems to fit with themes of Taylor wanting a child but still not knowing if the time is right. Also Annie is on the non- bianary spectrum so maybe the "he" pronouns are not a bait and switch but true to Taylor's partner being gender fluid.
it makes me sad that people on the internet make others feel hesitant to contemplate things like this!
this is super interesting to think about! i've seen other people discuss the possibility of them being a thing, so you're not the only one, anon! thank you for sharing your thoughts! i'm glad you feel that this is a safe space to do that 💗
#i do want to say that i am a kaylor to the end and this is forever a kaylor blog#i'm nervous about getting more extreme anon asks again like i did a few months back...#but i do want this to be a safe space for people to talk about things they feel like they can't on their own blogs#or maybe rather than this blog being a space for that#know that i'm a person who will read and listen to such thoughts!#so maybe if i don't post your asks about non kaylor ships plz don't be offended#just know that i've probably started getting anons from certain ships that are getting out of hand again or making me uncomfortable#but i'll do my best to respond/acknowledge you even if i don't post your asks
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said it before but im so sorry canon purists. nobody gets out of the house of solaire until i say so, and i don't say so
#this is almost entirely about vincent but also sam a bit#forever and always this blog is a safe space for the solaire truthers#i will have my fucked up aristocratic vampire family however and whenever i want. hmph#i mean actual canon purists would probably be more annoyed that i make them all chinese#when william is meant to be french and vincent is almost certainly just Some White Boy from new mexico#to say nothing of alexis 'this is probably a scottish surname' getty#but to use the proper scientific terminology: couldn't give a fuck sorry x
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Seriously need to make more friends or go outside more (both things are easier said than done) bc I am a little bit tired of relying on content creation for attention and connection :(
#idk I think I just miss how accessible attention from friends was in high school and even last year in college#but now I’m an online student and I live in the middle of nowhere so it’s a lot harder to hang out with people irl#and idk I just finished all of my schoolwork for the day and thought ‘I’m really bored and want to talk to somebody etc’#and my first thought was ‘I should work on a new fic so people will comment on it’ 😭#which! I do love comments! but also I need to talk to people outside of AO3 comments yk? lmao 😭#I sort of miss the year-ish long era of COVID lockdown bc I was constantly on calls with like ten different friend groups#maybe it’s my self isolation or maybe adulthood is just like this? idk#I’m moving in with friends next semester so I think that will be good for me#I just wanna make online friends man :( but idk how to DO that except by making fandom content#and hoping somebody likes it enough to slowly incorporate me into their life LMAO#I wish calls/voice memos were the norm in online spaces I’m so much better at those#anyway this is very pathetic to post but whatever. I’m trying to get used to being vulnerable on this blog#not that I owe it to people online to be vulnerable. if anything I should NOT be vulnerable on the internet#it’s just that. I am not very vulnerable period. so it’s better for me to air it out into the online void than to bottle it up forever#ellyposting#vent#ish? just to be safe
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happy trans day of visibility !!
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at this point i wish people who weren’t my mutuals just couldn’t interact w my posts at all
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mags!! ur blog is such a safe space for me (and for me to indulge in aki bc he is our savior) <3
I'm so glad you think so!!!!!! 🤲🤍 I hope we both can continue to indulge in aki hehe
#I will indulge in aki forever....#aki is truly everything#and I'm glad you think that about my blog!!!!#it makes me happy to think you like what I post and see my blog as a safe space#I will continue to talk and post about aki for you 🤝#much love#ask mags
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ok- the rest of today we mope- BUT TOMORROW? We get up, brush off our shoulders and keep fighting the good fight. Everything WILL be ok if we don't give up. Lots of love ya'll 😚💙✨️
#election 2024#the smallest man who ever lived#we'll be okay#love you guys#💙💙💙#and to all my international moots that reached out#love you love you love you#keep fighting#also#this blog will forever be a safe space#i can do it with a broken heart#we all can#god bless
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good lord got a post put on my dash that was some Fandom Opinion blog talking ab how things irl shouldn't be mentioned in spaces where it's not meant for. curiously, i searched racism, and well, what you expected to happen happened,
#aria talkz#'what you expect to happen' was Associating the same things with racism or literally any talk of antiblackness.#Never trust a nonblk fandom-obsessed person god bless#because it is all about making White People Safe always and Forever. clearly. [sarcasm]#{ if you cant tell. im black . mixed black But jesus Christ. }#( esp bc i think its usually telling bc in the spaces its happened in for me they usually Hate talking ab racism but every other talk of-#bigotry is fine and Unpunished. so theres clearly bias. its just when YOURE criticized its the issue . )#anyways i never ever ever trust white fandom obsessed ppl the racism roots run deep. as they do always but. especially there christ alive#'fandom opinion blog' was already a red flag. but Jesus fucking christ.#also the general argument of media being always for escapism and fandom being always for escapism is weird.#theres always political messages and general messages in like.. a lot of media. and bigotry that is in media . This is an excuse.#its insane looking at people just be kind of racist and awful about palestinians and irl issues in the replies of that . what the fuck man#These are real world problems this isnt about your stupid discord fandom server shit get a grip holy fuck nonblk fandom obsessed ppl r craz#vent channels do suck in any server that isnt a close knit friend server i agree But given the rest of the context and wording of these...#whatever im gunna stop rambling bc it pisses me off as someone w firsthand experience multiple times it is just selfishness and racism. jf#being black bpd autistic in the ''nonpalatable'' way And aroace makes fandom as a space full of fucking landmines for me . always has been#( blog was my fandom reali tea w/o th spaces if you wanted to block. dont harass but jfc. )#its like peering in a dark hole i havent been back in since i was 14 . dont you have better things to do than run a fandom discourse blog.
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