#my bias list

[kindnessoverperfection]

Please, if you can, take a moment to read and share this because I feel like I'm screaming underwater.

NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) stigma is rampant right now, and seems to be getting progressively worse. Everyone is using it as a buzzword in the worst ways possible, spreading misinformation and hatred against a real disorder.

I could go on a long time about how this happened, why it's factually incorrect (and what the disorder actually IS), why it's harmful, and the changes I'd like to see. But to keep this concise, I'll simply link to a few posts under the cut for further reading.

The point of this post is a plea. Please help stop the spread of stigma. Even in mental health communities, even around others with personality disorders, in neurodivergent "safe" spaces, other communities I thought people would be supportive in (e.g. trans support groups, progressive spaces in general), it keeps coming up. So I'm willing to bet that a lot of people on this site need to see this.

Because it's so hard to exist in this world.

My disorder already makes me feel as if I'm worthless and unlovable, like there's something inherently wrong and damaged about me. And it's so much harder to fight that and heal when my daily life consists of:

Laughing and spending time with my friends, doing my utmost best to connect and stay present and focused on them, trying to let my guards down and be real and believe I'm lovable- when suddenly they throw out the word "narcissist" to describe horrible people or someone they hate, or the conversation turns to how evil "people with narcissistic personality disorder" are. (Seriously, you don't know which of your friends might have NPD and feels like shit when you say those things & now knows that you'd hate them if you knew.)

Trying to look up "mental health positivity for people with npd", "mental health positivity cluster bs", only to find a) none of that, and b) more of the same old vile shit that makes me feel terrible about myself.

Having a hard time (which is constant at this point) and trying to look up resources for myself, only to again, find the same stigma. And no resources.

Not having any clue how to help myself, because even the mental health field is spitting so much vitriol at people with DISORDERS (who they're supposed to be helping!) that there's no solid research or therapy programs for people like me.

Losing close friends when they find out, despite us having had a good relationship before, and them KNOWING me and knowing that I'm not like the trending image of pwNPD. Because now they only see me through the lens of stigma and misinformation.

Hearing the same stigma come up literally wherever I go. Clubs. Meetings. Any online space. At the bus stop. At the mall. At a restaurant. At work. Buzzword of the year that everyone loooves loudly throwing around with their friends or over the phone. Feels awesome for me, makes my day so much better/s

I could go on for a long time, but I'm scared no one will read/rb this if it gets too much longer.

So please. Stop using the word "narcissist" as a synonym for "abusive".

Stop bringing up people you hate who you believe to have NPD because of a stigmatizing article full of misinformation whenever someone with actual NPD opens their mouth. (Imagine if people did that with any other disorder! "Hey, I'm autistic." "Oh... my old roommate screamed at me whenever I made noise around him, and didn't understand my needs, which seems like sensory overload and difficulty with social cues. He was definitely autistic. But as long as you're self-aware and always restraining your innate desire to be an abusive asshole, you're okay I guess, maybe." ...See how offensive and ignorant that is?)

Stop preventing healthcare for people with a disorder just because it's trendy to use us as a scapegoat.

If you got this far, thank you for reading, and please share this if you can. Further reading is under the cut.

NPD Criteria, re-written by someone who actually has NPD

Stigma in the DSM

Common perception of the DSM criteria vs how someone may actually experience them (Keep in mind that this is the way I personally experience these symptoms, and that presentation can vary a lot between individuals)

"Idk, the stigma is right though, because I've known a lot of people with NPD who are jerks, so I'm going to continue to support the blockage of treatment for this condition."

(All of these were written by me, because I didn't want to link to other folks' posts without permission, but if you want to add your own links in reblogs or replies please feel free <3)

[kijeu]

HAN JISUNG ⟡ 221009 sbs inkigayo - case 143

[domoriu]

nsfw link !!

the side profile + the hair kinda looks like sungho… so this only fueled my munch!sungho agenda…

sungho who’s just so obsessed with your pussy, wants you smothering his face all the time, even if you try to push away from his mouth he’s stuck to your cunt like glue, only pulling away when he’s satisfied. the way he’ll look up at you with his lips puffy and swollen with your juices, and you’d be so wet its all the way down his chin, but he likes it messy, because it shows just how good he’s making you feel.

he loves when you grab at his hair and grind your cunt onto his face , opening his mouth and flattening his tongue so he can lap up all your juices while his nose occasionally bumps against your clit. close your legs around his head too, he wants to be completely immersed in your pussy until you cum, even after you cum for him he wishes he could just stay between your legs for the rest of his life.

[rainystressed247]

Happy new year...?

Starting the year with a bang TVNAT style!

[7nsomnia]

favorite hairstyle/color per member 💇‍♀️ for anon

[teex]

my favorite 2024 films

11. Red Rooms 12. The Substance 13. Will & Harper 14. Kneecap 15. Conclave 16. Evil Does Not Exist 17. Dìdi (弟弟) 18. ¡Casa Bonita Mi Amor! 19. The Devil's Bath 20. Babygirl

[hongjoongpresent]

Somin in every performance video - gunshot

[seungkwan-s]

he has the key to my heart 🔑❤️

[magpie-lu-aside]

What are some songs that you guys associate with the chain/specific LU characters? I want to expand mine (cuz it's mostly Four and Time) for when I write fics, but I'm also just genuinely curious.....

[got7doubleb]

the monochrome fit 👌

[smilesflower]

such a heartthrob...

[jaejoongs-nipple-piercing]

And now I actually have even more. Zelo is not a bias anymore though, I stopped liking him.

I've decided to post my bias list. If anyone wants to send me or tag me in photos of them that's fine with me. If I mark them Baby then that's how I see them. If they're marked Big Baby then depending on who they are they're either actually a Big Baby or they can be hot sometimes (these will also be marked). If they aren't marked I either haven't decided exactly what they are or I see them as both cute and hot.

Here is my list:

ACE (VAV)

BamBam (GOT7)

Baram (BIGSTAR- Baby)

Baron (VAV)

Benji (B.I.G- Baby)

Chanyong (100%-Baby)

CNU (B1A4-Baby)

Cory (24k)

Daehyun (B.A.P)

Daeil (24k)

Daesung (Big Bang-Big Baby)

Daun (Great Guys-Baby)

Donglim (Dalmatian)

Eddy (JJCC-Baby)

Eric Nam

Euijin (BIGFLO-Baby)

Eunki (RAINZ/Soloist)

Eunwoo (ASTRO-Baby)

G.O (MBLAQ- Big Baby)

Gunwoo (MYNAME-Baby)

Gun [TEMPT (Thai group)]

Hanbyul (LEDApple)

Haneul (Great Guys-Baby)

Henry (Super Junior, Super Junior M, Younique Unit, Soloist)

Himchan (B.A.P)

Hojung (HOTSHOT)

Hongki (F.T. ISLAND, soloist- Big Baby)

Hosuk (Click B)

Hui (24k- Baby)

Hwalchan (Great Guys-Baby)

Hwiyoung (SF9)

Hyesung (SHINHWA)

Hyunseong/Seongie (BOYFRIEND- BABY)

Hyunsik (BTOB)

Hyunsik (ZE:A)

Injun (DGNA)

Inpyo (IN2IT)

Inseong (SF9)

Jackson (GOT7)

Jacob (VAV)

Jae (DAY6)

Jaehyo (BlockB)

Jaejoong (DBSK, JYJ, Soloist, actor)

Jeonguk (24k- Baby)

Jeongmin (BOYFRIEND- BABY)

Jinwoon (2AM)

Jinyoung (GOT7)

Jonghyun (SHINee, soloist- BABY)

Jonguk (N.Sonic)

Jongup (B.A.P)

Jude (BIGSTAR)

Jaejin (SECHSKIES)

Junghyun (BIGFLO)

Jungmin (SS501)

Jungmo (TRAX)

Kai (EXO, actor)

Kangjun (C-CLOWN--BABY)

Kangnam (M.I.B)

Kangta (H.O.T)

Ki-O (SPEED- Baby)

Kiseop (UKISS- BABY)

Kisu (24k- Baby)

Kyle (ROMEO- BABY)

Kyungil (HISTORY)

Kwanghaeng (SPEED)

Lay (EXO, actor, child actor, Soloist-Baby)

Lice (TEAM SPARK/China Boy band Team Spark)

Mark (GOT7)

Mark [TEMPT (Thai group)]

Maru (C-CLOWN--BABY)

MK (ONF- BABY)

Minhyuk (ClickB)

Minhyuk (BTOB)

Minhyun (NU'EST- BABY!!)

Minpyo (B.I.G)

Moon (Royal Pirates)

N (VIXX)

Perth [TEMPT (Thai group)]

Raehwan (BIGSTAR- BABY)

Ray (C-CLOWN--BABY)

Roi (The Legend & Awaken F- BABY)

Roh Jihoon (soloist)

Rowoon (SF9- DRIVING BABY!!)

Ryeowook (Super Junior, Super Junior M, Super Junior K.R.Y, Soloist)

Samuel (was supposed to be in Seventeen, now a Soloist and actor; I hate his tiktok account because he does stuff that isn't baby and he's BABY!!)

Sangho (SNUPER- BABY)

Shin (Cross Gene, soloist- BABY!!)

Sunghak (BIGSTAR)

Sungjae (BTOB)

Sungje (Supernova/ChoShinSei)

Sungjoo (UNIQ)

Sungmin (SPEED)

Sungmin (Super Junior, Super Junior M, Soloist)

Sungmo (Supernova/ChoShinSei)

Sungoh (24k)

T.K (C-CLOWN--BABY)

Taebin (1TYM)

Taebin (BLK)

Taecyeon (2PM-BIG BABY)

Taeha (SPEED)

Taehyung (ClickB)

Taeyang (SF9)

Tasty Twins (Daeryong and Soryong)

Teo (LunaFly)

Title [TEMPT (Thai group)]

U-Kwon (Block B)

Uiyeon (Great Guys-Baby)

Wonho (Monsta X- Big Baby but is also hot)

Woohyuk (H.O.T)

Woohyun (KPOP)

Woohyun (INFINITE- Big Baby)

Wooshin (UP10TION- BIG BABY)

Woosung (SNUPER- Baby)

Xiumin (EXO)

Yesung (Super Junior, Super Junior K.R.Y, Super Junior Happy, Soloist- BIG BABY!!)

Yibo (UNIQ)

Yixuan (UNIQ)

Yongguk (B.A.P, Soloist)

Yoseob (BEAST/HIGHLIGHT- BIG BABY!!)

Youngjae (B.A.P)

Yun (LunaFly)

Zelo (B.A.P)

Zhao Pinlin (SWIN & SWIN-S- BABY PINLIN!!)

Zhoumi (Super Junior, Super Junior M, Soloist)

Zhu Zhenting (NEX7/NEXT)

Zuho (SF9)

...As you can see I have absolutely no control

[karamazovposting]

You can also specify where you would make them drop it if you want

[1singulargrape]

Some SukuIta fic recs on AO3

Here are some of my favorites skit fanfics! I've put tags I found relevant but not all of them. Most of the summaries are from the stories themselves although I improvised some. I hope you can find something you'll enjoy <3

Is this Stockholm-Syndrome? by BaeBeyza

Completed

Status : 14k, 6 Chapters, Complete (M)

Tags : Alternate Universe - Yakuza; Accidental Kidnapping; Implied/Referenced Child Abuse; Non-Consensual Drug Use; Rape/Non-con Elements;

Summary : In which Yakuza Boss Sukuna gets accidentally kidnapped by some hapless idiot

Comment : It’s the “kidnapped by the yakuza boss” trope but reversed! Fun but not really lighthearted /!\

Your path into bloodlust by BaeBeyza

Status : 26k, 10 Chapters,Complete, (M)

Tags : Alternate Universe - Fantasy; God Sukuna; Weretiger Yuuji; Blood and Violence; Hurt/Comfort; Angst with a Happy Ending

Summary : Sukuna, the God of the Hunt, laid his eyes on the golden-eyed hunter

Comment : They both change the other, in a way. Yuuji really Goes Through It in this one but so does Sukuna >:)

Seven Days to Fall in Love by macabrecabra

Status : 35k, 7 chapters, Complete, (E)

Tags : Sci-Fi AU; Survival horror kind of

Summary : It was supposed to be a routine mission, but instead, Yuuji finds himself crash landed on an alien world with seven days to get to the rendezvous point in order to escape the planet. A task only made more difficult by the cursed entity he is expected to keep under control as his vessel.

Comment : I’m not that much into sci-fi but it was still a lot of fun. This story features Yuuji and Sukuna being nearly the same and complete opposites at the same time, and being forced to cooperate in spite of it which is amazing. Also, Sukuna acting like a feral animal/teenager was great!

between our teeth by goodnightfern

Status : 10k, 3 Chapters, Complete, (NR)

Tags : A/B/O; Forced Bonding; Forced Pregnancy; Gross Pregnancy shit; Cannibalism; Incest (kinda?)

Summary : Some rational part of Yuuji’s mind lies dormant beneath this drugged heat. He knows this scene: the monster of an omega, snarling even in forced stasis, struggling to resist the enormous burden of cursed energy sitting heavy as the ocean in this room. As a child he’d run his tiny fingers over the corded strength of his four arms, snuck a peek at the drooling wound in his stomach. He knows the heavy breath barely animating this mountain like his own heartbeat.

Comment : I adore the worldbuilding here. This one features Yuuji changing Sukuna as much as Sukuna changes him and it’s so delicious. Originally a one-shot then expanded upon and it’s one of my favorite take on a/b/o so far.

Love for my child series by BaeBeyza

Status: 3 parts, >100 000k, Complete, (M)

Tags : A/B/O; Rape/Non-Con; Kidnapping; Forced Pregnancy; Lima Syndrome; Eventual Escape; Hurt/Comfort; Self-harm;

Summary : 

Part 1 : Yuuji, a young omega, is kidnapped, raped, and forced to have a child for the “evil man”. Even in this mockery of a domestic life he doesn’t give up on escaping.

Part 2 : Five years after escaping the evil man's grasp, Yuuji finds himself navigating life with his dear son. Fate has other ideas, however...

Comment : The characterizations in this story drives me insane, and part 2 is just banger lines after banger lines (I’m very biased towards this story I rotated it in my mind for months <3). The main storyline is complete while part 3 includes extra-stories and is still ongoing!

Ongoing

I was sent to spy on the demon lord but it turns out he's hot and I'm now his captive?! by rhapshie

Status : 42k, 8 Chapters (1 left), Ongoing, (M)

Tags : Demon Lord Sukuna; Adventurer Yuuji; High Fantasy

Summary : Itadori Yuuji. Gold-rank adventurer.

He picked up a quest to survey the area around the demon lord's castle, but he was caught and held captive. The only way he can escape is by killing the infuriatingly hot Lord Ryomen. And thus, he hatches scheme after scheme to do just that.

Little does he know that in demon culture, assassination attempts mean courting... So, Yuuji unknowingly begins to court the demon lord.

...Oops?

Comment : OH THIS ONE IS SO MUCH FUN! I’m almost tempted to put the crack treated seriously tag because of how silly it is. I really like how the relationship between the main pair develops, and the interactions between Yuuji and the rest of the cast are fun as well!

Aconitum by AttackRabbit

Status : 30k, 10 Chapters, Ongoing, (E)

Tags : A/B/O; Set In Ancient Japan; Implied/Referenced Abortion; Implied/Referenced Sexual Assault; Former Soldier Yuuji; Mentions of War

Summary : Apothecary ex-solder Yuuji while out foraging for vegetables finds a severely wounded alpha. After deciding to save him, Yuuji's life of chosen solitude is threatened.

Comment : This story has managed to surprise me in several ways and every chapter is a treat! I love the care put into showing Yuuji’s competences as an apothecary but there’s so much more to talk about in this story. The author went out of their way to create a fictional language for it as well and it makes it so much more immersive, I hope you can at least check it out!

The Greatest Curse of All by CB_Magique

Status : 106k, 32 chapters, Ongoing, (E)

Tags : A/B/O; Graphic Depictions Of Violence; Rape/Non-Con; Enemies to Lovers; Slow Burn; Lots Of Hurts; Physical Abuse; Miscarriage; More pairings not mentioned in the tags

Summary : [...] Unfortunately, during a Special Grade curse attack, he ends up tricking the King of Curses into a binding vow, completely by accident. Forced into servitude, the safety of all humanity now depends on Yuji being able to sate Sukuna’s desires.

Sukuna does not like being tricked and will not take that disrespect lying down. He is determined to break Yuji. However, Yuji may end up breaking him down first.

Comment : so fucking peak… The tags aren’t lying that burn is SLOW. We’re barely crawling here damn but at least we’re past the lowest point of their relationship! yippee! I love the attention put into describing Yuuji’s day to day life in Sukuna’s mansion (he’s basically forced to live like people from Suku’s time). The interactions between the 2 are often very intense and I love them. Also! There are a lot of creative uses of cursed energy/techniques!

One shots

AITA for being mad at my family for the cruel methods they used to get me to live with them? by BaeBeyza

Status : 1.8k, One-Shot, (M)

Tags : Crack Treated Seriously; Written like a reddit post

Summary : Hello!I was told this is the place to come for advice and I really need it for my current conflicted situation! The title isn’t as bad as it sounds, I just recently found out a bit about my husband and step-kids which led to a lot of anger on my end and I just want an unbiased opinion.

Comment : This one is short and fun, and people are roleplaying in the comments! Poor Yuuji :’)

What color is my blood...Red, black or white? by izugirl

Status : 10k, One-Shot, (E)

Tags : Top Yuuji; Bottom Sukuna; I guess it’s kind of Pw/oP but there’s a lot going on still

Summary : “If I make you feel pleasure,” Yuuji says with the most serious face possible. "You'll leave him alive and it'll just be you and me. Does this sound fun enough for you?"

Or in the midst of battle in the cursed land of Shinjuku, Yuuji asks the King of Curses an unusual question and finds out that the myths about him left out much more than his cursed technique.

Comment : I’m quite literally blowing kisses towards the open tab for this fic. It’s so fucking good. Hello. It goes so hard. One of my favorites of all times for sure. Features : Yuuji and Sukuna being obsessed with each other in an unhealthy way (and being in denial about it), these 2 being the other’s downfall and just… I can’t put it into words but the vibe is, when I try to give a mental image to this story the first this that comes to me is juicy raw meat. Red, bloody and appetizing.

like a lollipop by satorusyuji

Status : 1.3k, One-Shot, (T)

Tags : Crack; Unreliable Narrator; Out of Character

Summary : Yuuji’s terror slowly morphs into confusion while he’s pinned under Sukuna.

Comment : This one is an easy way to put me in a good mood. It’s silly. Doesn’t take much more than that to make me like something XD

Telluric by SmolAfro

Status : 7k, One-Shot, (E)

Tags : Alternate Universe - Trojan War Setting; Alternate Universe - Mythology; Odysseus!Yuuji; Poseidon!Sukuna; Porn With Plot

Summary : Yuuji keeps forgetting to include Sukuna in his prayers. Sukuna in turn makes his life miserable, until Yuuji makes amends.

Comment : OOOOOH. OH THIS ONE. I don’t know what the fuck the author put into that one but just thinking about it puts me back in the state I was after reading in for the first time (read: unwell). I don’t even have the words it’s just- it’s peak. It's just- it's so good I love it so much please read it

the one who will teach you about love is... by The_Rose_That_Blooms

Status : 5.8k, One-Shot, (M)

Tags : Alternate Universe - Heian Period; Courting Rituals; Crack; Minor Violence; Mainly yorozu's POV

Summary : Countless yappings from her attendant, lessons she forced her teachers to teach and herself to be taught, having to get used to the sensation of fabric (sometimes the itchiness was unbearable) wrapping around her skin because it was considered ‘decent’, and most of all, making sure she’d get picked to present herself, among 20 other ladies and men, to Ryoumen Sukuna-sama and become his bride.

Comment : Yorozu’s POV is really funny (and very unhinged). I greatly enjoyed her torment :3

[hongjoongpresent]

skz talker episode 59 god, I am not your strongest soldier

+Bonus:

[marcilled]

Not necessarily "the best" or even "the worst". who's your favorite failgirl? who embodies the image of "failgirl" best in your mind? cast your vote & reblog! did I miss someone? add your vote in the tags!