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In your Spitfire AU, since Zuko is looking after Lu Ten II, what happened to Ursa?
Zuko is slightly older in the Spitfire AU. He was banished at fifteen, his head a little clearer and denial a little weaker than in canon. After his first look through the Air Temples, Zuko decides that if he can't find a myth, he might as well search for the next best thing.
Finding Ursa isn't easy, but in time he makes it to a secluded house in a near-forgotten part of the world. His mom is there, older and stronger and alive.
But she isn't alone.
And Zuko, as it turns out, didn't keep the best company during his search.
When Ursa is discovered and her secrets are laid bare for assassins (for Ozai) to find, she begs Zuko to take his little brother and run. She'll do anything it takes to protect her children, even if that means leaving them behind to keep a target off their back. Ursa diverts attention from them and allows Lu Ten's ancestry to be kept a secret. She orders Zuko not to follow her again, and disappears.
Zuko is left with a little three-year-old brother to raise and a mother he cannot hold onto.
#dema answers#atla#spitfire#Spitfire AU#prince zuko#atla ursa#Lu Ten II#The Ursa/Hakoda parallels are going to be insane in this one I swear#It's okay tho#It's absolutely intentional#(The other option was killing her. But I happen to find family conflict and abandonment issues way more compelling to write)#Luckily Zuko isn't alone. He's a mess of course—and raising the little brother you never knew you had isn't easy.#But he has Uncle and (once those loyal to his father have been taken care of) he also has his crew.#Look three years into the future and you've got a six-year-old Spitfire running around the ship and giving Zuko early gray hair#Ursa will be reunited with them in the future. I just don't know when would that happen yet.#Probably post-war#She returns to her children only to come face to face with their overprotective found family (aka the Gaang)#Their reunion would be quite messy at first but...it'll all be okay#They all love each other deeply. And sometimes love isn't enough. Sometimes there are things that you can't forgive or forget.#But Ursa did everything she did because she loved them. And Zuko knows that. Zuko understands that.#(He was forced to make the same decision in Ba Sing Se—giving yourself up and leaving the people you love behind so that they're safe)#(He understands)#But Lu Ten II doesn't#He doesn't remember Ursa. Not really. He knows of her what Zuko and Uncle tell him. But he doesn't remember ever having a mother.#(Tara is soft and warm and kind to him. She holds him and takes care of him and makes sure he's well-behaved. And he loves her.)#(Is that what makes a mother? Or is it the blood you share?)#Ursa isn't much like Tara. But she loves him dearly—there's a reason he has the name of someone who was so dear to her.#She is Lu Ten's mother. Zuko's mother. Uncle's sister.#And she isn't like Tara. But she loves him even if he can't remember her.#So maybe he can learn to love her back.
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Ed listing "Orgasms" as one of the pros of living is of course hilarious, but him knee-jerk answering "Warmth" is going to haunt me to my grave.
#Thinking about Ed growing up in a drafty home#In cold and wet winters#His dad kicking Ed out of the one bed in the house when he's very young#Because he shouldn't be cuddling with his mom#That's soft shit#But on nights when his father doesn't manage to get home#His mother pulls him into bed and holds him#And he is warm and safe and loved#ofmd#ofmd s2#ofmd s2 spoilers#edward teach#blackbeard
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i am not able to accept that...
#theultimatechanelitgirl#just girly posts#girlhood#girlblogging#girlblog#girlblogger#this is a girlblog#this is what makes us girls#daddy issues#father issues#the virgin suicides#girl interupted syndrome#femcore#female experience#femcel#female manipulator#female hysteria#nina sayers#gone girl#lana del rey aesthetic#lana is mother#lana is god#sad grl#bed rotting#girl rotting#cinammon girl#coquette#bimbo doll#2014 soft grunge#2014 nostalgia
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With today's entry, I was rather surprised and confused that Johnathan seemed to turn around so quickly from the absolute pit of despair he was in yesterday, having newfound determination and energy when he's seemingly been completely hopeless and inactive for weeks now (and for good reason). Not that I ever thought he'd completely given up, but there's definitely been a slow decline in how descriptive his journal entries have been to reflect his declining mental state (more robotic, less of his actual feelings about things), and today was a sharp contrast; it feels more like the early entries again. I thought, well, his mind is probably just so cracked at this point that he's looped all the way back around to being bold and energetic again, because by now he's desperate enough to throw caution to the wind: he either succeeds doing something extremely reckless to escape, or he fails and meets his end in a far better way than if he just waits for his fate by Dracula's hands.
...But having thought about it and reading other posts, I realized (probably stupidly obvious as it is) that his sudden change in mood probably has to do with what happened to the baby. Despite how scared he's been all this time, yesterday he didn't hesitate for a single second to try to save the baby once he realized from the previous incident what was happening, not thinking about his own life at all. And then he despaired when he couldn't save the child, the first time he's mentioned crying in the book at all, and then he had to witness the mother blaming him for her baby's death, and being killed herself for trying to rescue it. Now, the day after that horrific and heartbreaking failure, he's suddenly more determined than he's been in ages to escape. Maybe that was a turning point for Johnathan, and lit a fire under him... maybe he's clinging to the need to escape not just for himself and the people he loves anymore, but for the vain hope that he can put a stop to Dracula's schemes somehow once he gets out, because he doesn't want to let any more children die :' )
#dracula#dracula daily#i'm a new reader so idk how much this is going into headcanon territory or will be backed up later#but i wonder if johnathan feels protective of children because he and mina want kids#i mean he's a good and sweet man so i'm sure he would react the same regardless even if he didn't have a fiance#but if he's planning to one day become a father i'm sure that makes his feelings even stronger :')#he hears those babies crying and thinks about if those had been his and mina's future children. man.#i'm sure that would have made him empathize with the mother even more too; if mina wants to have a child..........#ahhhhhhh i've made myself sad. yesterday's and today's part just made me so sad 😭💔#johnathan you're so good and brave 😭 you're doing your best 😭 it'll be okay in the end 😭#oops i projected paternal instincts onto a soft male blorbo again-#okay but now i need an au where by some miracle he manages to abscond with a baby dracula brings to be killed and it's just#Johnathan And Baby Against The World (vampire)#does that exist. please tell me johnathan and kids content exist cause 🥹🥹🥹#idk how it would work but thinking about it makes me emotional lol :' )
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[with the intention of pissing off mom so I get my throat plowed to shut me up] Hey dad? What's with the dress? Is that perfume?
#misgendering tw#Simply imagining a daughter who knows that her mother never let go of the anger she had when she was father.#Knows her mom won't tolerate being misgendered by her own kid.#Is that so much to ask for? Maybe she wants her soft palate bruised. Maybe she wants to puke on it and still be held down so mom can finish.
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I hope to finish soon the draws I have unfinished, but
Thinking,,,, in writtings
Hunter and Alador quickly being close, paternal love and support
Imagining that sometimes, Alador signs to Hunter some lullaby songs to calm him or just passing time; and Hunter loves the lullabys and calmly rest on Alador
The golden prince being pampered and loved by the Blight
Being part of the Blight family, but also Deamonne by Darius
Yess,,,
#the owl house#toh#alador blight#hunter deamonne#toh alador#toh hunter#father and son bonding time#they're just mother and son#yeah i love alador being a soft parent
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WAIT BIG BRAINED THOUGHT:
Sam does smth stupid hoping Dean won't find out.
Someone rats Sam out to Dean.
Sam gets in trouble and a lecture from Dean (bc Dean is a parent and he is Sam's parent I will not accept criticism on this matter).
Later, Sam makes a group chat consisting of everyone who could have told on him to Dean and just sends this video:
#supernatural#spn#dean winchester#sam winchester#dean winchester is sam winchester's parent#and i will be accepting NO criticism on this matter!!!!#dean raised sam and in my heart i just know that its smth they dont really talk abt but they both 100% know and acknowledge it#and sam (the annoying little brother/kid) that he is to dean definitely calls dean 'mom' sometimes especially when hes being a little shit#but sam also loves his big brother and appreciates everything deans done and given up for him#so every year dean gets a pie and a little homemade card on mother's day and father's day from sam#when they were younger sam would give dean the card and actually say 'happy mother's/father's day dean' but once theyre older sam starts#sneaking the pie and card into dean's room or leaving them somewhere he knows dean will find them and neither of them say anything but dean#always gives sam a soft smile and usually a hug too before they continue w/ their day like its any other#the year dean spends w/ lisa and ben while sam's in hell/running around soulless ben makes dean a father's day card and dean gets all teary#and thanks him but then later when hes alone he just breaks down sobbing bc it just remimds him that sammy is gone#even when sam was at stanford and not really talking to dean he still sent dean a short message (text email voicemail whatever) on mother's#and father's day but now hes gone and dean wont even get that#btw dean def saves all of the cards sam's made him over the years and once theyre in the bunker he keeps them all in a special box that he#hides under his bed and he'll pull it out and look through them when hes having a bad day alongside the box of pictures <3#i did not mean to go insane in the tags here but oh well#enjoy my silly post and unhinged rambling ig
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Claudia's mother didn't die in the fire. She died in the childbirth and her father sent her to live with her abusive aunt in Storyville.
I do think that making her essentially an orphan in this way factors into her dynamic with Lestat too. Because neither of them had an experience of at all functional relationship between a birthing parent and a child. And there is a parallel of their birth hurting their mother in different ways.
You’re totally right, anon, sorry, it was a memory lapse and the heat speaking (Australia’s summer has come out swinging in the last few days), haha.
And yeah, that’s a really good point too about neither of them having had a functional relationship with a parent to draw on for their own interpersonal relationship. Hmm, you’re going to have me thinking about that one, haha.
#it’s kind of interesting too because Louis’ relationship is definitely complicated with his mother too#although in different ways#I really wish we knew more about Louis’ father#i kind of tend to assume a lot of his softness comes from his father#particularly with the protective and paternalistic dynamic he has with both grace and Claudia#but then he sent Paul away#but given the era that’s not necessarily reflective of how he was with the kids overall#Claudia asks#Lestat asks#iwtv asks
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Thinking about how Laura was desperate and found an abusive man to help her and how Johnny did the very same thing.
#Like mother like son#I want to know more about her#Was she also a firecracker like her son? She did yell but that doesn’t necessarily mean she was. I wonder if she was more soft spoken#and Johnny saw her get walked all over. was like a mini version of her at 12 before meeting Kreese and realized he needed to be tough#Took him to a road that was half his mother’s mistakes and half his father’s#Anyway. looking at my Johnny never let the kick get to his ego and he became a rich wife with spoiled kids au#johnny lawrence
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Okay but the life of the legendary Shovana Narayan altered my brain chemistry, a superb academic record hold, a maestro in kathak and then also a civil services officer with a long distance marriage and motherhood
If she could do this in the 50s and 60s, wtf is stopping me from doing so, when I have never wanted just one thing to define me
#samridhi speaks#also to my ex who told me things likw your relationship will never work out with him because of different life goals#lol this woman married a diplomat and they managed a long distance marriage too#her husband paved doors foe collabs with the West with Indian dance back then#this is the kind of love I want sure physical intimacy is needed and what not but God I am never giving up all of this to marry#and I still remember him saying you give those soft mothet vibes who is a part time mother and dancer#bye I will girlboss all my life and be all right in front of guys like some of my cousins who think we girls his sisters will just marry#and settle down amd to my ex too for thinking I will be easy and live out a simplw life#fuck everything the only understanding men in my life have been my father brother and my boyfriend at this point#weird that he never grew up around sisters but still is so aware and understanding of women and our desire for dreams#lol I am ranting but yes I have an exam in 6 hours my sleep got over by 2.30#and then I was googling gpat niper prep#yeah it's first sem but I keep wanting to updatw on the info#and God knows what struck me to google dancers randomly who were into civil service academia and still being legends in the arts#then shovana narayan came up
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alphinaud and alisaie are an example of siblings written by people who know siblings very well and choose to have them call each other brother and sister, proving that telling people not to write this quirk because it gives away that you’re an only child is just shorthand for how it’s a common warning indicator of thoughtless sibling writing and isn’t actually the problem itself
#they’re so siblings I like their writing very much. This post was just an excuse to be like wow so twins#The random and inexplicable opportunities to dunk on the other one which are Immediately taken no explanation why#the fact that as soon as something Bad Happens they both freak out and need to know the other one’s fine and not hurt#even volunteering each other for things without asking and they just do it. Unless they don’t wanna. yeah#it’s like calling your dad father. If they wouldn’t call their dad father or their mom mother don’t have them call their sister sister#It’s a character trait not a siblings trait. these two DEFINITELY call them mother and father. in canon even#alphinaud deffo tattled on his sister earlier he was like alisaie was not being very gentle :/ and I was like I’m sure she wasn’t#complete side note. dadbahn#raudad#barret and raubahn fistbumping dramatically with the flaming words POWERFUL DAD behind them#they can’t shake hands their missing arms are on opposite sides o(<#powerful dads with beautiful brown eyes gentle smile so soft. Machine gun magic. Powerful Dad#kipspeak#but also sis is so uncommon I literally call my sister bro. In the Same way that you’d call your friend bro. just ban sis unless it’s#specifically something your character does on purpose
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The hardest part of writing this kid fic has been deciding whether Andrew should be called dad/daddy or papa by their kid.
I had a mini crisis before when I was rereading the series and realized he and Neil predominantly use the words 'father' and 'mother' in convos. And I refused to accept a reality where they make their daughter address them that way, that's where I draw the line.
Neil says mother/father 99% of the time unless he's lying (like to Bee) or speaking to Mary aloud as mom. So Mary was definitely mom, Nathan ??? Who knows.
Anyway, mini poll ☝
#sorry to anyone who calls their parents mother and father#but i simply cannot allow it#i have a soft spot for daddy andrew but i feel like he'd hate papa the least#aftg#reckless#mine
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Try not to make fights between two women look homoerotic challenge level impossible
#if franky isnt good with swords why does he have a sword on his mecha 💀 just for the shogun bit#inu inu fruit??? he is just like inuyasha... omg.... crossover of my favourite things.... yamato i love you.....#yamato eating the protector deity of wano fruit.... calling himself oden.... his father must be fuming he is the antithesis of his person#obv its very much on purposes but lmao rip bozo (kaido) you didnt think much about that one.... maybe the deity of wano wants its people to#be free and not slaves of a weapons industry idk....#not olvia omg... and saul.... and clover... they changed little robin's name.... and her mom's voice is the same as hers lmao it's too much#robin said this is way too nice.... can't be real#once again thinking about robin holding her mothers hand..... and becoming an archeologist to make her proud.... the hands....#but now it's not about her mom now its about her friends.... also her childish heart omg.... truly#talking tag#watching one piece#episode 1042#robin defending sanji's honor akdjsks#robin that was so slay... take care tho.... ily.... until next time#luffy on the floor passed out having a tantrum about food. incredible#fucking caribou again.... DIEEE!!!!#MOMO FLY AGAIN!!!! GET OVER YOUR FEAR OF HEIGHTS#also yesterday i was showering and thinking about like dying like this cant be right... i am on thay level....#episode 1043#'i am not soft on women' oh yeah i bet...#see how good armor haki would have been here..... i have been saying this#robin's face..... strongest element in all of one piece.....#robin wanting to become strong for someone else.... just like nami.....#OHHHH SHIT!!!!!!! she said i wanna be with my friends 😁 -> 😈#that was so cool. also black maria is DEAD. that was a CLUTCH WWE STYLE. DAMN. robin getting there by thinking about his friends :)))#what love and human connection do to a mf (positively)#OH SHINOBU'S ABILITY.... MOMO..... OMG#episode 1044#robin ily that was so cool. call me any time btw.
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not an f&b aegon ii fan, not a hotd aegon ii fan, but a secret third thing (a fan of the aegon ii that only exists in my mind)
#extreme mommy issues his father figure is his grandfather & a dude who literally cannot stop committing hate crimes deeply upset that he#could have been his older sister’s male wife but his mom said no and now he has to be king#wants to be a good husband to helaena but resents how gentle she is and dependent on his protection wears his hair short bc he resents his#father’s obsession with valyria when westeros is here now and needs him to do more than just acclaim rhaenyra decades ago and aegon#his true love is his dragon and he was never going to live long after sunfyre. the son that actually DID come with fire and blood to save#his mother but it wasn’t enough never enough because he’s the oldest son but he’s also only second born and what is a second born son than#girlson who is functionally useless as anything more than a pawn to his family.#dying miserable and alone without even his mother’s love bc he came for her too late but he CAME FOR HER!!! HE SAVED HER. too bad.#she doesn’t care anymore bc everyone she really loved is dead. dying a pawn and yet the powerful man in westeros.#letting the narrative consume him alive after sunfyre is injured and finds him on dragonstone. he knows he’s doomed when he goes up against#baela. he does it because what else do you do. you’ve gone too far. killed too many. you killed your sister’s children and she killed yours#in return and now you can’t go back. no choice but mutually assured destruction with the only woman who ever saw how dangerous he was and#how desperate for loce he was. once upon a time. he was a baby bouncing in his sister’s lap on the throne. and she was beautiful and tall#and soft and smart and she told him he was beautiful and loved and pointed out every name and held him the way a mother does.#it has to end there. if the narrative eats me and sunfyre alive it has to eat her too. he won’t go down without her.#getting on my soap box#aegon the usurper
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Reasons why Doffy alway uses sunglasses (yes, all of them):
He always needed them because he has severe light sensibility (photophobia).
He did get hurt by that arrow, he miraculously didn't lose his eye, but he has a small scar and is almost fully blind on that eye (he can barely see some shadows and distinguish some objects) plus he has corneal opacity.
Though he has the eye shape of his mother's eyes, he has ice blue eyes, very similar shade as his father's, and he hates it when he sees himself in the mirror.
#headcanon#hc#one piece#donquixote doflamingo#also#not sure rosi has a canon eye colour#and i know people usually paint them red#and though I actually like the idea of both brothers having natural red eyes#(doffy looking extra 'exotic' having cold bluish corneal opacity in one of his eyes)#i actually prefer honey-brown eyed rosi#they're beautiful#and not that common#most people have mid to dark brown eyes#the ones with lighter brown shades when under the sunlight have green pigment#this is#brown eyes that look lighter under direct light exposure are most often hazel (mixed) eyes#so having natural honey coloured eyes I think is kinda pretty#i find them very soft and sweet#and I think they suit Rosi character perfectly#so yeah#i think doffy should have light-mid borwn eyes#that look a soft caramel or honey-like when under direct light exposure#sounds warm but soft and reminds me of candy so it makes them sweet#and rosi is a character that somehow embodies all of that#also I like that Rosi has a closer eye colour to his mother's while Doffy has a closer eye colour to his father's
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can’t say no to wifey and her puppy eyes
#logan lerman#loganlermanedit#emily rudd#emilyruddedit#llermanedit#eruddedit#mother and father#clara x jonah#hunters 2x04#that smug smileeeee#you go girl#boss wife#he's so soft for her#me too jonah#once again the color is horrid once translated from ps to here.#my baby
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