#monoflux

[obscurian]

[PT: Straightflux Pride Flag /end PT]

Straightflux Pride Flag

Straightflux: a subset of ultric and monoflux, a straight person fluctuating attraction intensity. Also known as hetflux or duariflux (amplusic duaric).

-Kau

[polyamorousmood]

everytime I see a "polyam" relationship and its literally just a OPEN RELATIONSHIP my heart hurts just a bit more

a monoflux person

I do not blame you, especially if someone is recommending something to me because it contains polyamory, and then it doesn't quite hit the mark 🫤 But I'm still in a place to take what I can get, and I'd rather they think of me!!

But like, as far as real life people/relationships go, those are still my friends and associates and lovers. We're siblings-in-arms⚔️. In my arms; come here, if you're in an open relationship, I'm hugging you. 🫂

[mindlessqueerindulgence]

𓆩　𓇯𓇯𓇯𓇯𓇯﹒ㅤ⊙ㅤ﹒𓇯𓇯𓇯𓇯𓇯ㅤ𓆪

                 𓊔 Historia Reiss  𖦹 She/It/They

                          𖦹  Gender Apathetic Girl 𓊔  Lesbian, Monoflux

                 𓊔 C-PTSD, BPD, ASPD 𖦹 Deerkin

𓆩　𓇯𓇯𓇯𓇯𓇯﹒ㅤ◡ㅤ﹒𓇯𓇯𓇯𓇯𓇯ㅤ𓆪

[losergendered]

So for the anon asking abt the omniamorous thing, I too, looked it up to try and find a definition cuz I've NEVER heard about it before b/c I'm more familiar with polyam, ambiam, monoflux, etc. But I've only had the same definition for ambiamorous which was "enjoying being in either poly or monogamous relationships". I then found a thing for panamorous which was defined as "is non-monogamous with the capability to have relationships with all or many kinds of partners regardless of the other person's orientation or gender(s)". So I'm thinking it COULD be like the panamorous thing but w/ the omni- suffix to it.

idk, just tryna help out /gen

neat omg ty jonathan!!

[arco-pluris]

Gaiflux: gai-identifying person experiencing flux attraction.

Gai = gay, aka very not straight, for girls, boys or nbs but like, in the non-binary way. So any nb person can use it to talk about how fucking gai they are for whoever they’re gai for. A term for NBLW to describe their love of women, or for NBLM to describe their love of men, or for NBLNB to describe their love of non-binaries.

Straytflux (or heteraflux): a straight person changing the attractional intensity, for nbs, girls and boys too. "Straight" version of gai.

[mogai-place]

JSHK Headcanons

Kou from JSHK is a pupgender adhdgender catboylexic paraboy, he's also a bisexual gay who uses he/pup/xe pronouns.

Xe's dating Mitsuba, a transmasc genderqueer catgender catpawgender sillycatgender sleepyboy ghostix, who is also a gay demiromantic graysexual that uses they/he/it/boo/pop/jester/nyan/rawr/ze/🍓/💌/🍮 pronouns. It has anxiety.

They are friends with Nene, a transfem gendercute bungender magigirl, who is also a frayromantic biromantic asexual monoflux that uses she/they/mokke pronouns. She is an age regressor.

Requested by anon

[the-wee-wee-boys]

this is essentually what we experienc! it’s very cool to know that other people also experance similar things! only part of our system is monoflux however, and we’re don’t have a median subsystem (or any subsystems that i’m aware of) so that part doesn’t apply to us

[Lio] Ok before anything I want to stress this is NOT a sys//course post, we are just trying to understand a term we have seen and so have collected some of the descriptions of others.

(Sys//meds DNI this post isn’t for you)

I’ve collected these in hopes of understanding but if anyone involved wants these to be removed please feel free to message/ask me and I’ll edit this post to only include the description

Looking around here’s what I can find on “monoconscious”, and I’m still a bit confused, but perhaps someone can help figure it out.

(Via @plural-culture-is )

(Via @mirroard )

(Via @taucetilapidarym )

So the traits are

-One, shared collective consciousness, which in this context means one awareness I think?

I originally assumed this meant that everyone shared awareness, and that therefore front-consciousness boundaries were stricter, but instead it seems to be that the boundaries shift fluidly?

-No individual consciousness

Which in this case means that only the fronter holds awareness, I think? And therefore headspace is either very difficult to conceptualize or nonexistent?

-Switches fade between each other

I did see some discussion that this is most common in OSDD1b systems.

On one hand I relate to some of this a lot - especially with us being OSDD1b - but on the other there are some aspects I’m a bit confused about.

I think the first/major source of my confusion is how the term “consciousness” is used; maybe I would understand better if it were “awareness”? In our case, yes, we generally only have awareness of front, and can only vaguely sense anything ‘behind’ without someone cofront. Though I guess I associate ‘consciousness’ with ‘ability to independently think and act’, which because we have different thought patterns and actions I don’t think of that as a shared consciousness. And though we (mostly) share memories and (mostly) don’t have hard dissociative barriers, I guess we still personally consider our different selves to be different consciousnesses.

That’s just a matter of semantics so I’m not really worried about it. I’m curious though if our experience with “awareness” is similar among systems which identify as monoconscious: “awareness” is - if you think about the Sims (if you’ve played it) - whoever is “on screen” - for example if I’m fronting, I can move the “awareness camera” onto someone in headspace and then even though they weren’t really fully aware of what was happening until then, now that it’s on them, they become aware. So, if I’m fronting, I can highlight Josh in headspace and then he’ll be aware he’s doing something. Even though I’m the one at the moment controlling “awareness” (to a degree), it doesn’t belong to me, it ‘belongs’ to front, so whoever is fronting can use it. (Or maybe - whoever is capable of using it at the moment is fronting? I think maybe it IS the determinant of who is front, because even when we are all in headspace there’s usually someone who has the awareness camera, and they can pass it around if they want.)

I’m not sure how much we actually do individually without the ‘awareness camera’ - I think we probably do something sometimes, but we aren’t aware, so we don’t know. And we have our own mental processes running - even if at low energy when not “aware” - because random things the fronter encounters will “ping” someone who is partially conscious at the time and draw them forward. Is this something experienced by monoconscious systems as well? (I just haven’t seen if so.)

I think I would be less confused if I weren’t a median subsystem; if I were just “me”, then the monoconscious label would be pretty straightforward I think. But as a median subsystem I experience the following:

-Only one of us is ‘active’ at any given time, and the others are not at all active, not aware or conscious, don’t have background thought.*

-The only reason I know that we are separate to a degree is that when I become one of my facets, they no longer feel they are any of the other facets, they have different memories, and sometimes different gender identities.

-We all collectively are the “same” person, in that we all identify as the one individual (and when I, the ‘base’ fragment, am the one active, I do identify as all of the others to a degree, just none of them identify as any of the others, but even when they don’t identify as the others they all know they are the others. Also this subsystem has no headspace because only one of us more or less exists at one time, we can’t manifest separately.*)

Basically: that experience seems to fit “monoconscious” better than the overall system’s experience because there’s a complete lockout until a switch happens (which absolutely feels like “becoming”, to the point I tend to use otherkin terms like ‘facet shifting’ to describe it instead of ‘facet switching’). But maybe the confusion comes because other monoconscious systems, despite having this experience, are (sometimes) still separate enough to communicate or be completely different people? Or even just a matter of identifying as separate? I’m not sure.

Basically: the label almost fits us, but also doesn’t. It probably does completely fit my subsystem, but maybe being a median subsystem makes that understanding a bit funky?

Of course it should be reiterated: we have no problem with monoconscious systems, we are glad you have a term to help describe your experiences! We are just trying to make sense of it through our own ‘almost, but not quite’ experiences and perhaps a difference in terminology we use.

*Elidibus is an outlier and should not be counted, we don’t really know wtf is going on with him yet

[mphillipsnet]

Acoustic winery gig. #rocknroll #monoflux #orisitduoflux #coolsetupsoundsgood

[arco-pluris]

Monofluid Pride Flags

Monofluid: attracted to one gender, the gender they are attracted changes.

Monofluid people can be multi-spec, but some may consider themselves just as mono, fluctuating between cetero, ma-, woma-, neu-, androgyne-, lesbian, gay, homo, hetero, straight, etc. Different from Single-Target, you can only feel attraction to one gender, but you still can feel attraction to more than one person.

Essentially, they are only mono- (attraction to one gender) and -fluid (change of attraction/orientation or preference), a fluid (non-strict) monoaffectivity (monosex, monophilia, whatever suffix).

Flags based on biflux and mono flags.

[mogai-place]

Kou from JSHK is a pupgender adhdgender catboylexic paraboy, he's also a bisexual gay who uses he/pup/xe pronouns.

Xe's dating Mitsuba, a transmasc genderqueer catgender catpawgender sillycatgender sleepyboy ghostix, who is also a gay demiromantic graysexual that uses they/he/it/boo/pop/jester/nyan/rawr/ze/🍓/💌/🍮 pronouns. It has anxiety.

They are friends with Nene, a transfem gendercute bungender magigirl, who is also a frayromantic biromantic asexual monoflux that uses she/they/mokke pronouns. She is an age regressor.

posted!

[arco-pluris]

I just wanted to correct some things: monogender isn't essentially a comgender. A monoflux person (whose single gender fluctuates intensity, such as between demigender and supragender) can be comgender for never fluxing into genderlessness. The only comgender issues I'd list are gender skepticism, gender abolitionism, identity erasure and gender criticism. Feeling and experiencing gender isn't always the norm. Exorsexism (binarism) created a compulsory binary maleness. Did you hear a cisscum saying gender concept is nonsensical?! Well that falls under on quoigender definition. Will binary males call themselves quoiboys?! Compulsory binaryness doesn't let they recognize their gender feelings.

Why would I specify monogender if that's the norm?! Well male is the norm, but why would there be a trans male pride?!

This flag was based from neumale flag (neutrois male). That was a gap I'd say. When straight ally flag was created they left a gap for hetero- flag.

Why would there be country flags? I apologize against patriotism and nationalism, but there are the flags.

Some disigender people found the man pride flag useful. I guess many disigender people would appreciate monocomgender flags. Because it isn't inherently normogender.

@anthropomimus coined suptiligender and I'm pretty sure this identity faces their issues and erasure within our community. Even thought I reused it to replace strictism (suptilism) to includes prejudice and oppresion experienced by amplusians (genderfluid, genderflux and fluidflux people). I know bimisia is very broader on our society, but that doesn't nullify bisexism (zedsexism with orientation binarism, panmisia, omnimisia and plymisia) or at least binormativity (since there are norms for everything).

Monocomboy Pride Flag

Monocomboy (or commonoboy) is someone who identifies fully as man only, mixing monoboy + comboy (monogender + comgender).

It’s not necessarily binary suptiligender (static) because mono(com)boys can be amplusian (boyfluid, boyflux or boyfluix) or nonbinary too. It also encompasses both transboys (ulter/utrinque/disigender) and cisboys.