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#it might be too early for a new cat but my mom felt such a strong pull to him!#she said 'he needs us' so we'll be there for him! :')#he's been in the shelter for so long... we just couldn't say no!#he's so small and shy :)#he's 3 yet weighs like a 6 month old! :o#he needs a quiet family to help him come out of his shell! ;)#so far he's sat in my dad's lap and didn't let go#but now he's loving the hello kitty blankie! ;D#just curled up looking around :)#i don't even know what his meow sounds like! :o#he'll show himself in time :)#if tara comes back she'll be a big sister! :D#especially since they share the same face ;)#i can't mention him around her or else i tear up :'(#(edit: now he blinks when i say her name! that means he likes her :') )#he likes beef and chicken like her though! (judging by his blinks)#also this isn't replacing her!#it's easing the hole in our hearts :')#she led us to him in a way! :')#and to sage sort of! (although we'll see if he'll get a kitty sis)#for now it's just fern the bern! ;D#edit: we put him on the couch and he's still curled!#hopefully he'll walk and talk soon! ;)
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it would have been good if Cindrella was more outspoken. And call out her family on not feeling **regretful and apologizing** after insults, ridicule and abuse.
#whose sense of fulfillment extends past her appearance#Disney princess đ¸#They could have added hatemob in a form of their like-minded people like a choir#Straying away eye contact and narrowing eyes as if that person is hard to see(like they have a bad vision) and no one really telling to def#defend yourself even Fairy Godmother (who could be a project of Cindy's imagination who's also like thinks violence and insubordination#isn't an answer nor feminine)#You could add more realism to Cindrella like if you can't really stand up from home abuse what about abuse outside#Add hate mob that are the choir that would be perfectly even more realistic#And perhaps for a reinvention let her dad or fairy tell that you need to tell your abusers off tell them that choring is their job#And for the external abuse huz's mom tell you have to tell them off you have to attack(or smth of that) because by that you not only show#you can also answer-attack but you can do it twice đŞ#Answer the bullies so they know you can do that not only that but doing it TWICE#And like imagine choring during your menstruation like wtf#Fuck them off you need to take care of yourself first#Cindrella a true story Cindrella grows awareness and a backbone#Cindrella and a choir hatemob#them be like âoh you need to look after my stuff and bag; oh sorry my bad that was actually my friend seat right hereâ#And tell her âif you don't behave nobody would love youâ turn over to#âIf they like me they just like meâ âI don't need to turn into a downtrodden people-pleaser to be liked. That's fakeâ and#âgood girlsâgo to hell#female socialization subversion#Strong Ella's#Tmnt#And not make abuse because of jealousy or smth because they've seen the behavior of#bringing violence into home and then not regretting and not apologizing#.Like the original poster have said âwhose sense of fulfillment extends past her appearance or wedding plansâ#That stepmother really tought that adopted daughter was a better option because other bio girls won't subordinate but really what's going o#is adopted one has turned into a standard house worker; specifically#a worker if not serving then beaten or insulted without regret or apology#And cindrella can be also called bruisisella
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Been seeing all the discussion about Tubbo being Emâs parents andâŚ. đŹ
Itâs like we get a girl egg with all moms and itâs now feels like people are saying âshe needs a dad!!â because a male is treating her like familyâŚ
Iâm all for Tubbo being family to Empanada but being her dad?? It feels a lot like there are some misogynistic undertones there. Like family is not just parents it can be literally anything, same way Pepito has Foolish being grandma. Tubbo can have the same and be family in some way to Em.
But itâs like we have an all girl family but because the egg is interacting with others, people are inserting the males into it(the parent dynamic). Which just reads wrong when a majority of the island is male relationships and prominent male families where the girls are mainly just aunts to the children.
Have your headcannons but donât try to insert them into the canon with your posts especially when a majority of the server relationships are male prominent.
#qsmp neg#qsmp discourse#just can we not have something for the girls?? also it feels even more weird when you do say that and people say well Tubboâs gay anyway-#which how does that have anything to do with it??? like all for being strong family as in tio or smth like that#but pushing the hc of a gay dad in an all girl family feels like it has undertones i dont want to unpack rn#im not going to stop yall from having your headcanons but like take a step back and look at what the situation is and then think#also this literally happened when jaiden and roier were treating tilin and flippa like their children some people werenât happy but not -#many werenât watching multiple streams at the time so theyâre wasnât many complaining but its happened before#also happened a bit when bagi became richas mom#the only difference with those relationships where that the eggs choose and agreeds for them to be their parents#also itâs like yes we would love to see her parents log in more but literally they are all busy people and werenât always incredibly active-#on the server apart from bagi which is smth the admins probably should have thought about if the new eggs were going to be taken care of#yes let em have her family and her lore but also let us have our female mums rep bc there is so little of it in qsmp#but calm down about em lore bc yall think its the most important thing out there when a whole losd of the eggs rarely have lore esp old eggs
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ok so apparently my mom got checked into a mental hospital because shes suicidal. because trump is president
#i mean im glad shes somewhere 'safe' as safe as a mental hospital can be#i havent heard any updates since a literal cop called me and told me the situation#but my dad is with my younger siblings which is good and hes handing everything#im not necessarily surprised my bipolar manic depressive mother is in a hospital bc trump got elected#shes super plugged into politics and all shes been hearing is endless fear mongering and how bad things will be#and i mean things arent exactly going to be great going forward but like. maybe get off the internet if youre suicidal mom#anyways i hope everyone is ok. stay strong. we have each other and we need each others support and love#life with seag#suicide mention
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reached a point of depression and defeat where I think I've given up until I know for sure that my way of life isn't doomed, what's the point of anything
#there may be no upcoming year to prepare for#but rather i'll have to prepare for the end#i'm terrified of Friday#and what Friday will bring#i can't go through this hell again i'm not strong enough to do this#it's going to be so much worse if it's true#when it was my mom we had family and help#now it's my dad and it means i'll lose everything and there will be no one here to help#ny says
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if suzy wants to make anew hunger games book she should make one about the affair between peeta's dad and katniss's mom
#ask me about my conspiracy about how they have a thing going on like betty and jugheads mom and dad in riverdale#wherein prim's an affair baby. i'll wait.#aznd you know me i have textual evidence strong enough that to at least consider it a sound theory#that would be a dogshit book btw you couldnt get more than a couple paragraphs out of it but i was JOKING#get off my ASS fake haters i make up in my head!
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because i know you have food opinions and i am thinking about it being in the carolinas this weekend. opinions on barbecuing?
my personal taste preference leans towards a dry rub on the meat and a vinegar based sauce. i like the way the acid pairs with the fattiness of the meat. but i also think the meat itself should taste really good on its own. i don't like when the meat comes pre-sauced when it's served, i prefer to dose sauce out myself, cause i want to be able to taste the meat on its own too. and because i think pre-saucing everything up front might be a way to try and hide what might be a bland or dry or otherwise not preferred piece of meat. i'm not a huge fan of the thick, sweet sauces that are based on molasses or tomato. i tend to find them too sweet and gloopy, and i generally avoid store/chain brand bbq sauces for that reason, but i won't outright turn up a house made sauce without trying it first. i think pork is my favorite meat for barbecue because it's got good flavor and lots of fat to stay juicy, yet it's not so strongly flavored that strong spice or sauce covers it up. though i prefer a cut like shoulder to ribs. beef brisket is good barbecued, i think that's a texas specialty, but i've had some really dry smoked brisket before, and also i'm very partial to brisket prepared other ways like braised or cured into pastrami. and as far as chicken goes, it CAN be quite good, but for me it's gotta be dark meat and it's gotta be cooked competently. i've had too much "barbecue" chicken that is either just plain roasted chicken drowned in mediocre sauce or overcooked so badly it's like chewing on linen fibers. but a nice, simple, salt cured/brined and dry rubbed chicken leg quarter smoked and served with a good sauce on the side? now that's a great dinner. gimme some cornbread and fried okra to go with. yummy
#leporellian#sasha answers#ty#i'm by no means whatsoever a connoisseur of barbecue but i do know what i like#a lot of times what's just called 'barbecue' disappoints me but a lot of the time mediocre barbecue in like. cheap food service/catering#contexts is just like. unremarkable overcooked shredded pork or chicken (that probably wasn't actually smoked)#and drowned in gloopy store bought sauce#i mean it's EDIBLE. but i'll only go for it if it's the only real option. y'know#note: i am not from the south and i do not live in a region with a strong barbecue cuisine culture. my response is based on this experience#i'm sure walking into your average bbq joint in carolina is probably gonna be better than what i can find here unless i'm actively searchin#also again i'm no expert but i think my bbq preferences line up really closely with eastern north carolina style#(dry rubbed pork w a thin vinegary sauce)#i don't think i've had the south carolina style which i think is more mustardy. but it sounds good i would probably like it. i like mustard#also i don't know if this can be really considered barbecue or if it's just plain hot smoking. but smoke grilled sausage is good too#and turkey. smoked turkey is great (when it's not overcooked and dry as hell)#years ago my dad and i went to a family friend's place for thanksgiving when my sister and mom were out of town#and they smoked a turkey for dinner. SOO good omg
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Answering dis ask chopped up too
thank u, but my situation isnt that dire! Thats where half the problem comes from, i struggle because its really not that bad here, i just would like to leave for the regular reasons anyone would wanna leave home (+ being trans), that joke about what you dont pay in rent by living with your parents, you pay with your mental health etc etc
#talkys#anonymous#skunk mail#i wldnt call it abusive by any means...just annoying#like today's Last Straw is ive gone years without frequent human contact bc i dont make online friends#and all my irl friends are busy or have moved. ive hung out with a new online buddy like 3 times this month#told my dad im busy today watching movie with them so i cant go to target with him and now him and my mom are#getting into my business about who this is and why theyre more important and how I cant be doing this or w.e#its just Annoying. i just want to be able to do whatever i want without worrying i want privacy etc#not sure thats worth a job i hate and struggling to make rent but it is annoying and Toll Taking#oh also we're watching the saw movies and i mentioned this bc he interrogated me on what im doing with this friend#and then he made comments about how i shldnt be doing that bc those movies are awful#this is the same man who introduced me to the beatles as a child then banned me from listening to them as a teen#bc theyd have demonic brainwashing influences or some shit#im just tired im simply tired#i found out recently even the favorite child (my brother) has issues with them and thats whats made me want to leave more like#im not strong enough to withstand it if even the favorite cant. im jst tired i want to leave
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god it's all so very shitty and there's nothing i can do about it.
#my dad still in the hospital and i think he's a bit better a bit less manic but who knows#he feels like a stranger again and i don't knoe how to talk to him (again)#and it would feel better if i knew that at least while he's in the hospital he's getting the proper care but no#i've been to visit him two times in my whole life and the conditions are absolutely horrible#a moldy run dowm building with prison like bars bars on the windows and staff that isn't payed and supported enough to care#they just drug people#but then it's not really safe for him to be with my sister and mom while he's manic cause he gets violent and can't hear no#and will steal from my moms wallet for cigarettes CAUSE HE'S MANIC AND THAT'S WHAT PEOPLE IN MANIA DO#so why doesn't he deserve to be in a safe warm and kind place where other patients don't steal his clothes#all these people deserve better#and when he eventually gets ''better'' then what he can't work he can't support himself but i feel my mother is done#i can't blame her either for not wanting to be married to him anymore cause it's frankly none of my business#and because it's something she probably wanted to do for a really long time but she doesn't want him to be left alone#sure he can go live with his brother and his family but i can only imagine the hate and anger they would show to my mom if she makes#that sort of decision#but i also want my dad to be his own person to be confident and strong#is that never going to happen?#i really fucking hate all of this
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Cousin: You should come to Vegas with us.
Me: No, I have no desire to go there for anything.
Cousin: They have really good food. You like Italian food a lot. Let me tell you-
Me: You are Italian. We live in a city that has a gigantic Italian population that still mainly speaks Italian and orders their ingredients for the food from there.
Cousin: Yeah but-
Me: Also our great aunt made homemade ravioli using our great-great grandmaâs recipe. You know the one from Sicily? How are you going to say I havenât had more authentic Italian?
His daughter and wife: Youâre Italian? Well I guess we donât know his dad.
Me: Yeah, or you know you could ask his mom whoâs Italian if heâs Italian.
Cousin-in-law in shock: Youâre Italian?
Aunt: Last time I checked
#genetics#my momâs side is so easy to keep track of and despite it being mainly German#a matriarchal family from three strong Italian women who do the cooking youâre going to identify as it#although we do love our German food too on that side#but I have no idea how he thought getting me to go to a non Italian place for Italian food would work#or how his wife had no idea our family was Italian like itâs in most of the femaleâs names#meanwhilee my dadâs side weâre mutts like everything is super diluted that even though we had two mixed great grandparents#itâs barely anything with everything else that got mixed in#but that side is weird in a bad way
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Went out to lunch with my family and it was really nice! I'm crying over him again but I know that I'll heal. I just. Have so much love and affection in my heart. It's so overwhelming keeping in, I just need someone to give it to. And I can't find anyone who wants it. T-T
#cj rambles#i wish someone could just. get me stoned and make me forget all about him.#mlm#gay#ftm#trans mlm#t4t#ill tag this nsft just in case#nsft#but its more than just getting railed. i need someone to accept my love thats all i fucking need#i need someone to love on someone to praise. ill worship the ground they walk on.#so anyway gonna cry a little more probably listen to Mitski bc those lyrics cut SO deep into my soul.#and then once ive reached catharsis idk. watch Markiplier and feel better#actually fuck that ive been feeling soooo sad for like 8 hours. pause on the lunch break.#im gonna watch comfort youtube now#get stoned. rewatch his forest series with bob and wade.#and over time I'll be able to talk to that guy again as just a friend. but for now i need time.#i dont need him though#im young. not even 19 for a day. there are other people. mom and dad were 31 and 25 respectively when they met.#and theyre still going strong. coming up on 26 years.#i judt need a relationship like theres#but i guess ive gotta grow up more#call it baby's first heartbreak#GAHHH I WANNA CRAWL IN A HOLE AND DIE THIS HURTSSSSSSS#no pain no gain#cant have the good without the bad#one day i will find my soulmate an this will be a distant memory. a scar that maybe tingles a little. but it doesnt hurt anymore#rn though im dying my heart feels like its going to burst out of my chest into a bloody mess#bc i cut it iut and gave it to him. so now ive gotta reattach it to me and let it heal.#eventually it will. just gotra stitch myself up and follow the doctors orders (i have therapy soon thank fucking god 4 that)
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uh cw fatphobia ig lol
me: i got a stationary bike
my partner's parents each time we've met since incl at the family gathering. also the entirety of my social feeds outside this app: OH YOU HATE YOUR BODY? I HATED MY BODY TOO OMG!! YOU WANNA LOSE WEIGHT? YOU WANNA B U R N F A T???? RECIPES TO SLIM DOWN! THIS ROUTINE GOT ME SHREDDED IN A MONTH! BECOME UNRECOGNISABLE! SHRINK GET SMALL FUCKING DISAPPEAR <3
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#tbf their mom has been much more businesslike abt it. probably bc it's her actual job#their dad has the most braindead take on it and immediately made it abt himself though lmfao#like...... no dude the fact that i wanna be more active and feel better and get stronger isn't an invitation#to go on a 30min long tirade on how you got fat directly & precisely bc you were depressed and directionless#& then made a bet w your ex that you'd look exactly like Will Smith In I Am Legend (???) in 6mo like#and have lived in a cycle of restriction vs excess and weight cycling and etc since#and have also used this experience as an excuse to assume shit abt people based on how they look#..........and I'm not even Fat-fat. i didn't grow up w the stigma and there's a strong likelihood#that the minute my lifestyle stops being absolutely completely sedentary im gonna drop a few kg and be done with it#i can't imagine dealing with this nonsense while trying to have a childhood#people can be so fucking gross abt others' bodies literally just shut up#ALSO!!! i'd much rather be in this situation than the shit i was living thru as a thin kid#whomst literally didn't get fed enough!!!!!#literally only grandmas would raise their eyebrows and try and get some food in there ( which isn't perfectly unproblematique but it comes-#from the impulse to NOURISH and they're so real for that goddamnit)#every other adult complimented me on my ability to overeat garbage at events and stay thin#like.......#have you considered i was actually literally being neglected and overate when there was available unrestricted food bc of that trauma? lol#lmao
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My mother is so funny because every time she sees us watching a playthrough she's like "why are you wasting your time watching someone else play video games. Play your own video games" as if watching someone else play video games is not the pastime of half the people in this household.
#chit chat#family stuff#my mom and i are video game players#my dad and my sister don't like to play they just like to watch#they will call me out of my room and be like 'hey do u wanna play video game? i think you should play video game'#i don't even care for Witcher that much tbh but my sister is obsessed with it so play witcher i shall#video games#there's only 2 playthroughs I've watched and that's because they were on systems i don't have#I've been debating watching a playthrough of jedi survivor because i have neither a system nor an internet strong enough to download it#but I've been holding off just in case by some miracle of impulsivity i decide to get a new game system and the game#because if it's a game i actually intend to play i prefer to go in blind#ughhhh
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its almost embarrassing how much i am like a perfect synthesis of my parents. a skateboarding punk boy who wore a dog collar and a mohawk using glue instead of hair gel met a goth stoner who worked at planned parenthood then became a childrens librarian (she wont tell me if she was actually a stoner just like i cant figure out if shes a little bisexual) and they raised a sweet little baby (meee) on a leopard print couch. and it explains everything about me.
#i dont think he had the dog collar or mohawk when he met my mom. for the record. gauges though#i inherited all their physical and mental ailments and worst traits too âď¸âď¸đ#im even some weird mix of my dads callous attitude towards gore/death etc and my moms strong sensitivity to sad things#i dont even know how that one works but its real#i could go on all day guys. on my bookshelf rn theres a riot grrl archives book next to a hello kitty fashion book next to frankenstein#lets not even bring my hello kitty skateboard into this
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HDJXJD FINISHED SAILOR MOON
It feels so weird that itâs over like,,,
I started it this summer, just some months ago and now itâs,,over?
Not entirely though since I still have a few movies to watch, then ill read the manga THEN Iâll watch Crystal & Eternal & Cosmos <3
SAILOR MOON AINR OVER JUST YET! IVE SUBK MY TEETH IN & IM NOT LETTING GO
Okay first off;
I love you Outer Guardians
I love you gay couples (Kunzite & Zoisite, Haruka & Michiru, Siren & Crow (see tags))
I love you gnc icons (Haruka, Sailor Starlights)
I love you Seiya
I love you Nezu (Iron Mouse)
I love you, Enemies (Dark Kingdom, Black Moon Clan, & Amazon Trio)
I love you, silly minions the Main villains would create
GHFUCNSM
Ofc it ends happily with everyone alive & well (after they all died but shhh Sailor Moon fixed it by seeing & reaching out to the Good left in Galaxia <3)
Iâve also become addicted to the intro (Japanese & English translation AND the American ver. theme song that played back when this show actually aired)
#sailor moon#sailor moon anime#90s sailor moon#normally when I finish a show I get this hollow feeling#BUT NOT TODAY#Iâm still swimming in content#love the outer Guardians so much their lil family means the world to me <3#sailor moon says a family can be 2 moms a dad & a kid (the dad is Haruka/Uranus if ur wondering)#you canât tell me Sailor Lead Crow didnât have feelings for Sailor Siren like..#after home girl died Crow tried to find the pure Star Seed for Sirenâs sake. to make their dream become reality#she joined Siren on Earth WILLINGLY. Siren was SENT there but not Crow. she chose to go after her#under the guise of âur my rival i gotta make sure youâre..yâknowâ#she kept the lil photo of them on her desk after Siren died..she tried to keep what was Sirenâs workplace in the same state she left it in#now ofc itâs never stated theyâre dating or anything. not like Haruka & Michiru were hinted @ at least#but you canât tell me they donât have a strong relationship#I feel a lot for them#ALSO SEIYA I LOAF VERY MUCH#they mean a lot to me <3#Kunzite & Zoisite donât date in the manga as far as Iâm aware but they do in the anime so Iâm leaving them under the âgay couple categoryâ#coconut octo (mod talking)
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